Britain has voted to leave the European Union, a voting bloc of 28 European countries called “member states” that make political, economic and defense decisions.
Until Friday, no member state had ever voted to leave the EU.
The vote to leave the EU — dubbed “Brexit” — stunned the world, sending the British pound and global financial markets into a tailspin.
As the pound fell, gold increased 5% and oil prices nosedived amid growing concerns that other member states, including France and Italy, will call for their own referendums to leave the EU next.
British Prime Minister David Cameron announced his resignation after his campaign for the UK to remain in the EU failed spectacularly.
Cameron’s voice cracked as he announced his impending departure. The country needs better leadership, he said.
His last day on the job is in October.
Britain voted to leave the EU after the influx of thousands of Syrian refugees threatened their local economies.
The UK vote to leave the EU spells trouble for the economy as the steady infusion of cash and labor from other European countries dry up.
In the hours following the EU referendum, the British economy lost $350 billion.
U.S. President Barack Obama had pressured the UK to remain in the EU.
But America’s next president, Donald Trump, praised the UK for leaving.
“Basically, they took back their country. I think it’s a great thing,” he said.
Sandra aren’t you from GB? What do you think about them leaving the EU? I don’t think it was a good idea…
The older white folks came out and outvoted young Britain. This, like Trump, is about a generation of people who are terrified about the way the world is going – about the power they are being forced to give up to the “others” and in their minds, lessers. Other being – non-white, non-Christian, women, immigrant, LGBTT.
You can build all the fences and walls you want, you can’t stop progress.
Britain voted to leave the EU after the influx of thousands of Syrian refugees threatened their local economies.
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leaving actually crippled their economy in less than 24 hours.
they are going to learn and I hope “Make America Great Again” Americans are watching. The result of angry, disillusioned upper class YTs who support a party that would rather cripple the country than progress. Sound Familiar ?
This is terrible! The older people made the decision to leave and won’t have to live with the consequences for long.
I hope “Make America Great Again” Americans are watching.
You mean “Make America White Again”
I voted to leave, didn’t actually think it was going to happen though.
Ruh roh
* scooby doo voice
The weather was horrible yesterday in Britain–lots of rain and flooding.
I believe that since the polls had Remains leading a lot of those voters stayed home while the Leave voters were determined to make it to the polls rain, sleet or snow.
I hope that doesn’t happen in November and we end up with Trump but the way the economy seems to be stalling it’s not impossible.
*sigh*
It wasn’t because of the Syrian migrants, we’ve been asking to leave for years, it was only this year that they started listening and gave us the referendum
OH I know but your fellow country woman Ms. Sandra Rose said it … lolol.
Your comment made me laugh, even though it isn’t the least bit funny. Good luck though.
This is all awful! Brexit, Trump, all of it
Apparently the EU is bringing all of Europe down. Look at what happened to Greece. The Brits see it and it won’t be long before other countries follow their move. The Brits need to take care of Britain, no one else will. They all need to return to the a common market place in Europe.
So Sandra you waiting on the “Great White Hope” to
drive the bus off the cliff againSave America? Chile..Smart. Real smart.
Can’t even get on my favorite UK clothing sites.
Apparently alot more countries want a referendum now
Asos? I can’t either. Damn you BREXIT!!!
It was my choice and I stand by it, the EU were trying to completely take over the country, we needed a change, even it it goes to shit I did what I did because i believed it was the best decision
I applaud GB, It seems as though the powers that be expected as much when the introduced the EU. Why can’t they make the middle east great? Why are the oil rich Arab countries not assisting their fellow Arabs with this Exodus.Why us it always left to the eastern Europe and Western civilization to save some body when we can hardly save ourselves. I really don’t think that bringing refugees in to do cheap labor is saving them. GB will bounce back because God knows the Queen is not having this bull and neither are the Rothschild.
Britain voted to leave the EU after the influx of thousands of Syrian refugees threatened their local economies.
*** HOW IS LEAVING THE BLOCK GOING TO STOP THIS??
But America’s next president, Donald Trump, praised the UK for leaving
“Basically, they took back their country. I think it’s a great thing,” he said
*** THIS DUMMY HAS NO CLUE ABOUT FOREIGN POLICY! STFU!!
I am not sure what this is going to do for the British economy but I hope it does not trickle down to the working poor making things even tougher for them!!
OFF TOPIC…ADVISE PULLLLEEEAAASSEEE!!
Today I have been tasked with going to my man’s hometown and picking up the kids to come spend a couple weeks with he and I..by myself..His auntie will have them and thats where I will have to go and spend a night and return tomorrow. The thing is we have only video chatted a few times (the kids, and his aunt) I am nervous about this. He has already sent the money for the cost and enough to fill the fridge til he returns on Sunday. Advice?
It will.. job loss always happens in a struggling economy.. and its always the lower middle to low income families who struggle the most..
Being that I’m British, I’m very disappointed in this result. People were just thinking of the impact of immigration and not the real issues. To say that there has been an influx of Syrian refugees is an exaggeration. This misinformation is the campaign that was used by the likes of Nigel Farage to rile the British voters up and get people to vote out. The value of the pound crashing is just the start. Although I’m not a conservative, I do think that David Cameron was the best of a bad bunch. Who will take his place now? Boris Johnson? God help us.
Sorry about that lol
I’ll never forgive Hell-ary (murderous shrew)for what she did to Gadaffi. That was a straight setup. This was the only African Country with no debt to the World bank now look at it. America always trying to help( well NO, they aint helping they helping to destroy other countries. People wake up if GB is leaving , this should give you sheeps a subtle clue as to what’s next. but stay asleep if if suits you.
How long ya’ll been dating?
That’s tricky. How long is the drive? Is their mom in the pic? Will you have to deal with that. How old are they? Do they have devices to lessen the dead silence. I say don’t borrow trouble, everything will be fine.
Whoa. It just got real.
Hmmmm, you’ve already committed yourself to it, so at this point all you can do is make the best of it. Just be yourself and take them for ice cream. Ice cream always makes things better.
Donald Trump’s stamp of approval is a clear sign they have effed up royally.
Y’all see the pic Tyga posted and then deleted. Pic of Kylie said they always come back.
Chyna didn’t.??
Why did you agree to this if you’d never met the kids or his aunt in person? You’ve committed now so 60% of me says you should but that other 40% says this is just plain awkward.
The weather is always horrible in Britain. LOL. It’s dreary and raining most of the time.
How are you keeping them busy until day returns? Will he have to leave again?
But they had flooding in London yesterday and people had to be rescued in other parts of the country.
“Today I have been tasked with going to my man’s hometown and picking up the kids”
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Were you volunTOLD by him to do it or did you volunteer yourself? How do you feel about the kids in general, like when y’all video chat? Is it pleasant? If you’re comfortable with the children (at least when you video chatted) then don’t be too nervous. Just act the way you act when you chat and keep it simple. Movies, games, kid-friendly snacks, etc.
True, I work in a call center and I had this old guy get mad at me because I have to verify accounts by pin or the last 4 of snn and the old white man got ad because he didn’t know his wife’s snn. Talking about , I am an American and you young people have ruined this country. Chile, these old white folks (republicans and democrats) are trip. Just spoiled rotten.
He has plans for them to move here permanently. We were all talking and the little one(12years) asked if he could come down to visit us. He told him he and I would discuss it. He said he really missed them but coordinating it so he can both fly then drive them back would be too much to do and asked if I would. I said I would…now Im nervous cuz for a few days it will be just us..
Awww, that was sweet of you!
Those older white folks are experts at taking over countries, they know what their talking about…remember “America” is a nothing but a former colony of Britain.
Yes He will have to leave off and on alot. So in the times away I need something to fill the space. Mind you I work also 8-5. we have a pool in the community they can swim and have enough games to keep them busy.I haven’t had a 12 year old in my house for 5 years! Now Ill suddenly have a 12 year old boy, and two 17 year olds. (my daughter and his son) and a 15 year old girl.YIKES!!!
Umm wait how long y’all been together?? I mean I know fathers have rights but as a mother I would be concerned about this first trip being alone.
I wouldnt be going to get nobody kids unless we been together a long entire grip. Like years. And share a domicile together for the same amount of time.
They are yours. They are welcome to come. We can all kick it. But no. Thats just me personally.
Wayment. Y’all moved in together?
Hell-ary is the Female Hitler and her role model is planned parenthood Margaret Sanger.( who tried to sterilize and give STDS to a lot of black folk.) Sleep on trump if you want but the KKK endorsed and one of them mentored Hell-ary.
Yeah, because they will die soon enough.
The drive is only 4 hours. Jacksonville FL. So Ill get to know them during that time. I am nervous that he trust me with this responsibility too. Mind you I haven’t had anyone as young as 12 for at least 5 years my youngest is 17!
+1
she came back in the remix with Big Sexy ROB.
Since February. He is quite serious. He introduced me to his brothers as his wife. I think this is his test to see if I can handle being around his kids..
I remember that. It was always rainy and foggy. And the winters were long, cold, and miserable.
Why is this man trusting you with his kids that you’ve never really met? I watch too much Investigation Discovery so I’ll say before you go to meet these strangers, leave a detailed note of where you’re going, who you’re meeting, etc. Good luck.
I saw Obama’s meddling as a clear sign that Britain should do the opposite of what he suggested.
Me and Library Man been together off an on for FIFTEEN YEARS. 2001. Lived together more than once. Was engaged. I am not going to get his son dolo. And me his baby mom, the one Im talking about are TIGHT. As in we are homegirls even during the times me an him fall out and dont speak for months, years etc. So no. Im not riding out to Maryland to secure that baby. Not ever.
And he is not ever asking me that.
I’m with you and truth be told you ain’t coming to get my baby after only dating their dad 4 months. I don’t know you.
I have a couple months left on my lease. I hadn’t agreed to do that yet. He has been looking for a big enough house for all of us including my 17 year old. He has a 3 bedroom and so do I. It makes sense that they come to my house and when he comes home he is there with us. I wasn’t about to commute 45 minutes back and forth to his house when mine is only 7 minutes from my job.
This too. What kind of woman is she that he produced life with? A’SHID. HELL NO.
I agree with you.
But that’s the thing, you at least have some experience with kids. I remember my ex and I getting his kids for a couple of wks in summer & Christmas break & I didn’t have any kids. Just experience with my nephews/nieces.
This was a very, very bad idea for them. Maybe people who voted to leave are already coming to say they regret it.
Thats right!
And if they mother isn’t the custodial whomever the custodial is should be like nawl we will wait until he gets back.
A lot of people re saying this. People got caught up in it and now are blazing what a mistake it was.
But if y’all were in a circumstance where you needed to get him, I could understand that. You’ve had a longstanding relationship with both parents. As a mom, I’m not comfortable with Lil Butter being in the hands of anyone I haven’t met before.
Lissen, My oldest has his number his job number and his license plate (from when we first went on a date lol) Auntie is like 70. She is a lil sweetie. The kids we chat. His oldest just graduated highschool with honors, His son 17 is a good kid bashful and seem nice.. its the 12 year old Im worried about. The baby of the family is always spoiled. (I know cuz Im the baby of my family)
As your blawg sista, I’m not trying to tell you how to live your life or throw salt on your relationship. I just want you to know it’s okay for you to take your time. You don’t have to move at a snail’s pace, but give things time to simmer and get a nice flavor soaked through and through.
My father left me alone with my stepmother, once, and I fukked up and called my mama. He was running late for work, and couldnt drop me back off. So he was like I will come back and get you on my lunch break or take you in the morning. My mama went the entire fukk AWF you hear me? And this was the woman my daddy had MARRIED. And I had stayed with them and my little brother numerous times. But never alone. my mama was LIVID den a muthafawka that my dad left me there ALONE with that lady. And again, I was 15 minutes away.
Preach!!!!!
I am truly nervous dubb. But I think i need to do this trial to see if I am up to a relationship with someone who has kids to raise still. I have always said I DO NOT WANT A MAN WITH YOUNG KIDS. But here I am. So I need to see if I can do this before we get deep and I can’t get out. ROFL!
I KNOW folks, women, who do devious shat to kids of the man they are dating. Not saying our fellow Rose would. WE know she would NOT. The mama though. She dont know. SHe dont know shyt actually.
So, there will a 17 yr old boy & 17 yr old girl who just met left alone in the house while you’re at work?
This post is jut one example of why you’re my Sweet Butt.
I totally understand and if the shyt was reversed Id say HAYAL naw my baby ain’t going no where. But I am trustworthy…and if we don’t mesh..four hours will be tracked back to aunty..
Wait. So nobody is bothering to tell the BM? Hell no. Oh HELL NO I SAY.
You cool with two 17 year old kids in the house alone all day?
I’m not trying to be rude or mean and I know I’m barely on here. But transporting kids on a long distance trip isn’t a trial. You don’t have enough invested yet for this commitment. I was scared to drive my kids across the city because I would never want anything to happen in my care. That’s big and I’m sorry at best y’all should go together.
You’ve only been dating for 4 months? Have you forgotten everything I taught you about men and Dopamine relationships? This is not a test. Men don’t think that way. This is a the children’s aunt telling him, “Tell that new chick to come get yo’ kids!”
My advice to you is DON’T DO IT! Make up an excuse why you can’t go and get them. His kids are not your responsibility. You’ve only known him 4 months! Wait at least a year and a half — until the Dopamine fades, before you make any life-altering decisions.
She has no custody of them. She was deemed unfit Don’t want to go into details but drugs are a hellava drug..so aunt has them. He has his business that require him to move all over.(not drugs he is ITtech)
Sandra done popped up with this absolute realness.
More realness.
HEYAL NAW!!! LOLOL!!! my daughter stays with her dad during the summer. She will be down on the weekend though..where she will be sleeping with ME!
The aunt wrong too then. As an older sista, I expect her to be the keeper of the wisdom. And be like its too soon for your new gal to be coming for these kids.
I don’t think my choice was a mistake, I completely stand by my decision to vote out, I just thought more people were going to be voting to remain like they did with the Scottish referendum
I agree with you on slowing it down.
I know the adults pay the bills and all but I think the kids should also have a say in what’s going on. How would they feel having strangers move in, including an adult male?
I just don’t see an old school aunt letting a stranger come get her babies. I’m not putting myself in a position that these kids I don’t know can lie on me. If they are that old they can pop on a plane and take that hour ride to ATL. One way tickets are cheap.
Yep it sure does!
Didn’t she though? Came through like ‘Don’t Do It Ms. Celie’.
I just said this above too. The aunt wrong as well. Lord we all on the same page here this morning.
Something about this situation is way too weird.
Did you hear about Hillary getting a $145 MILLION kickback from the Russians for transferring Uranium to Russia WHILE she was Secretary of State?? $145 million in kickbacks? How is that legal or ethical?
http://www.breitbart.com/big-journalism/2016/06/23/cnns-clinton-cash-fact-check-ends-embarrassment-cristina-alesci-laurie-frankel/
Its ok today lol we have some good days
Flights from Jacksonville to Atl $132
Baby mother is.. out there. She didn’t even bother to show up for her baby’s graduation. He sent her the invite via messenger,(cuz her phone is off) He wrote on her page Please call me about the graduation.. She didnt show didn’t call.(I saw both messages) Same with the 15 year old ceremony graduating to highschool.. nothing. She pops up when she wants and then poof..
Its way too inappropriate. That is why its too weird. My kids personally, are my greatest accomplishment. I do not entrust them to hardly ANYBODY. Ask KIC and Yoni and NakeyaJ. I had straight up ANXIETY about letting Dub11 go to Alabama with her daddy and his folks for the summer. Only reason I relented is bc MY fam from the same town and my aunts, my uncles, my cousins on BOTH sides were like WE got her if shat pops off. My cousin drove an hour last week to go see Dub11. Just to lay eyes on her to see if she was okay. I do not play games with MINE.
Aunt 70, she probably want a break.
So he left the responsibility to raise his kids with his aunt so he could work? Now he’s trying to leave the responsibility with you? Run Wut, Run.
Auntie of father. his mother sister. his mother passed away. She originally was helping him with his kids.
Breitbart.com makes most of its stuff up..lol
No sista as in BLACK WOMAN. Not blood.
At the end of the day, I know you gone do you, I just want you to protect yourself and your heart.
The kids aren’t THAT young. At 17 and 12, they are old enough to fly together.
Yes, She has been doing it for a couple years since his mother passed. He has been paying her household bills in exchange for her keeping them. She loves those kids. Old school too. So if she didn’t trust me I don’t think theyd be coming.
I just want you to protect yourself and your heart.
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Amen
Basically!!! It ain’t but about an hour flight. They will be fine.
Only reason I WONT fly Dub11 back home. She has nobody to fly with. and those new instances just the past WEEK of young tween and teen girls being groped on planes. But if she had an older teen companion (cousin, etc) then GUESS what?
Yup. Agree. Shucks, if cost an issue pit them on Soul Plane aka Spirit
I think that’s the cause for most of us when it comes to our kids. But hey, who am I to deny my child being around her father (if he’s responsible)? I remember when Feline14 was supposed to spend a month w/ her father, she was only 2, I picked her up after 2 wks.
Confused if he has money like that and the kids are of age, why aren’t they with him and he pay a housekeeper/nanny? You’re missing vital clues boo.
Listen. ONLY person aside from hubby who ride my kids is my mama. She know I don’t play when it comes to car safety. I don’t. My older ones are older, but tiny. The one going to middle still uses a high back booster. Folks don’t believe in that. I’m obsessed with mine. I got to know where they at all times. I text the babysitter we use on the regular, heck she sends me pics. I don’t play.
Scroll down we are intune. I just said the same thing.
Uh..I aint having that. Like I said this is a trial run. I still have my own place. He has his. He had no choice with the job he has and what it pays it allows him to pay the bills for her and keep food there. He is trying to find a job that will pay and not have him travel so they can move with him thus the larger house he is searching for. I haven’t said yes to nothing but this.
I finally relented. This the first summer he hasnt lived here. He went back home to Bama bc his parents sick. I had to pray hard on it.
Lil Butter is going to the beach with BroButter39 next weekend. I’m a little anxious about the car safety part. I’m pretty sure that my brother and I are on the same page, but I’m still going to FaceTime him to reiterate things that are non-negotiable. If you can’t do that for me then leave him with Mama Butter.
His auntie is old school and she is raising them. housekeeper nanny will just let them grow up under their care. There are certain things that Aunties can do (whip an azz) that nannies can’t..
Yep. And its two of them? Chile.
Well, Christmas 2014, she spent w/ him. In Atlanta. First Christmas without my baby. THAT was one I had to pray on. And my family convinced me to let her go.
I read that! Crazy!
Knowing you, I know that was hard.
Anytime I see an article on my browser that says something to the affect, ‘Hillary stole, Hillary took, Hillary knew, Emails, Server, Obama knew, Obama lied, blah, blah, blah, I look at whose article it is, i.e., Breitbart, Fox News, NewsMax, I automatically bypass it because I KNOW its exaggerated lies.
My family the exact opposite. I bout done had to karate chop my mom, my sister, AND my brother in law about letting her go. They did not want her to go.
Let me go order my baby her stuff from Amazon (sniffles). Told her I was gonna send her some books. A whole MONTH left.
Whew. How you doing? That’s a long time. You see Monyetta was letting the kids stay half the summer? She went to visit them though.
FELINE. Girl. My ex husband was like we can fly her back. I agree. Here is my cc #. We will work out your half later. Gone head and charge it. NEXT day first allegation came out. I was like WHET?
I started flying by myself way back when I was 12. With the weird stuff that’s going on during flights, I wouldn’t advise a 12 year old to do that now, but with 2 of them, they’re set.
Shoot, I was driving 3 hours to Montgomery to visit my homegirl who was in her freshman year at ASU when I was 17.
Can you elaborate on how the EU would have completely taken over? I’m not belittling your choice, I’m just trying to understand the issue better. As an American I didn’t think it would happen either, but clearly there was a disconnect between the people & those who govern them.
It was split. Mr said let her go bc she wanted to spend that time with her siblings. But she was Facetiming the whole time! Mom & dad kept asking when I was going to get her (met in SC). She has spent almost every Thanksgiving with him but Christmas is different.
Umm she’s 70 I doubt seriously she’s whupping teenagers asses. Also caretakers can do whatever the parent says they can. Dude has too much baggage already.
His responsibility is his kids. It sounds like he dumped his kids on his aunt, and now he wants to dump them on you because auntie wants her life back. You’ve only known him 4 months. A wise woman would tell him you don’t think it’s a good idea. Trust me, this is not a test. The Dopamine is preventing you from seeing the reality of the situation.
Im good. First few days were rough. Dropped her off in ATL on 6/11. She comes back 7/30
Awwwww. Enjoy yourself. You’re doing her a favor by allowing her to get loved on by family who doesn’t get to see her often. She’ll cherish those memories of small town living forever.
I hear you. I know that drive is no joke but no bueno.
Because he has another woman, and the kids would only complicate his situation. A wise woman would tell him to wait until he can g pick up his own kids so she can visit him at his own place.
Your memory is correct. I’m going back soon and I’m dreading it. I always pack a jacket and an umbrella.
wow…
919 to ATL is AWFUL. Going BACK Imma take the route down by your way. I95 and cut across I20. Bc the way I normally go through Charlotte? Chile. That damn motor speedway be on CRUNK. The outlets. The part where you pass 77 bc folks going to Carowinds. Nah son.
Oop. Let me go find me some work to damn do.
Trust has nothing to do with this. She wants a break.
I got snot at the exchange below. Sandra got me CRINE. Bye.
All of this!!!!!!! I wouldn’t put myself in this situation at all. My husband made me wait 7 months to meet our boys and it was a quick meet and greet. You have to protect your babies.
Chile she is on it today.
This will not be good but oh well. This is all a game so I will wait to see the outcome.
She is on it.
I never went that way. My sister & her family & Mr were stationed in Huntsville. They would go through Tennessee & the mountains but I always went through Atlanta & I20
So you’re bringing a 17-year-old boy, whose hormones are raging, around your teenage girls?
Wanna add, but I ain’t got no tact. Page Harlem.
This is exactly why I write about the effects of Dopamine.
What’s your hurry?
America painted Gadaffi as a murderer of his people to brainwash us into thinking it was ok to kill him but it was a BIG lie. They didn’t pay for electricity, the food was subsidized and he gave money to his citizens. What does America do for its citizens? Pretty soon we will be paying for the air we breathe. America is and was buit on deception and lies.
They control our laws (my biggest issue) and borders, they’ve been trying to get us to take up the euro and drop the pound.
Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Did you notice the other media outlets in the article also have the same information on her?
This is only the beginning!
I think they did the right thing by leaving, precisely because Obama wanted them to stay.
The economy will recover.
Always good things to carry around with you here lol
Chile cheese!!!!’ My sons father girlfriend wants to be around my son soooo bad and I’m not having it. He has a mother so we don’t need ya help toodles. Not trying to be mean but I got this. He is dating someone I went to high school with and I don’t want folks in my business soooo I keep folks away from me.
Let’s see what happens from this. It will be a sign of what will be in store for us.
His responsibility is his kids. It sounds like he dumped his kids on his aunt, and now he wants to dump them on you because auntie wants her life back. You’ve only known him 4 months. A wise woman would tell him you don’t think it’s a good idea. Trust me, this is not a test. The Dopamine is preventing you from seeing the reality of the situation.
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Ummmmmm… I am still on brother of the lottery winner being your man. I done missed another WUT relationship? And now you traveling to get kids after 4 months? (Nene voice) has your cl*t left the building? You better slow down #bobbyvalentino All jokes aside..I just wanted to use that Nene quote on somebody lololol. I’m confused on why you would need to go get his kids. Maybe later on I will go back adn do the education but something is off about this. And him calling you his wife? Seems more like you are his mark. I wouldn’t move my kids into a home with no man I just met, period. You say you ai’;t desperate for Dack..you can get it in the mail like Kenya. WHALE then what’s the rush? Get another year lease and see how this goes. Cause we know you go through men. You a cougar. A maneater. LOL. Hope you receive this in love. You and your kid(s) deserve consistency and happiness.
Not trying to offend you or be negative; but if I’ve only been dating someone 4 months, I’m not even trying to meet your kids and I’m definitely not driving to pick them up.
And then you’re going to be bothered with them while he travels for work…HELL NO!
He’s asking for 2 MUCH 2 SOON.
And lastly, if the 17 year old is as responsible as you think; he can take care of he and his sister; at his DAD’s place. Why does your daughter have to make accommodations for HIS kids?
Maybe I’m just selfish…but I woouldn’t go get them.
…..But you hate Obama! Can you be objective at this point? You hate every move he makes and im not sure why! Been following this blog for years now and still don’t know why for sure!
THANKS FOR THE INSIGHT…MAKES A WORLD OF SENSE TOO
Language, culture and borders.
You are the blog MVP. I was thinking 6’4 was lottery winner and then I thought she had a thing going on with Mr. Jones at work that was married but spending money.
I’m 28 with no kids so take my opinion as you may…
But if someone I just started dating 4 months ago proposed this to me, I would have to seriously reconsider our relationship. Regardless of how close he may feel to you, the fact still remains that 4 months ago, you were a stranger. How do you entrust the safety and well being of your kids to someone you just met?
It calls into question his character.
Also, please do not refer to me as your wife to ANYONE and a. we just started dating and b. ain’t no ring on this finger. It’s presumptious. You’re a grown woman with her own mind. How dare he assume that you even want to marry his stankin’ ass. Phuck that…tell him if he needs a babysitter and obviously could give ah chit about who that responsibility is relegated to, checkout Angieslist or Yelp.
No, but it doesn’t surprise me. This woman is the worse thing that could happen to America and is pure evil. I can;t wait to read the wiki leaks emails but you tell the average black person about her and the think your crazy. This woman will bring America to heal with nothing but death and destruction. I pray for Americans today and always. if she becomes president this will be a wake up call to all of them.
I truly meant no harm *insert shamed face* Ok gotta run some errands. Maybe BBL. Love to all of you!!!
What do you think about his new wife? I will say, whatever drama that took place between the three of them (Neyo, Monyetta, and Cristal) all parties involved seem to be trying to put their collective best foot forward in the interest of the kids. It seems like Crystal really loves them and has developed a genuine bond with them. Which, in this scenario is the absolute best you can pray for.
The kids or his kids? Major difference. On another note: I would not drive and pick up his kids because the relationship is too short to want to meet the kids. Yes, your feelings may be all in because things are going well. However, give it more time before meeting any of his family members. How old are you? Good luck!
Seems more like you are his mark
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Get out my LIFE Taken.
Until you are his wife, don’t allow a man to refer to you as such
He can say my future wife.
Since February he introduced you as his wife and February is peak tax filing season. Make sure that you haven’t been used as a deductible and your name isn’t on any of his bills. Never allow a man to call you his wife until you have been in front of a minister via courthouse, church or whatever.A couple of weeks get’s extended into a couple of years and he only sent money for food. What about lights, electricity and Tide to wash the clothes. Chores has to be done. Make sure auntie ain’t the wife or baby mama. I have seen enough Fatal Attraction to ask questions. What kind of test are you doing to him to see is he worthy of you. I don’t do test either you are or you ain’t. What you see is what you get. You ain’t the first and will not be the last.
Charge her $9.99 for that advice.
I had no idea you and dude were only dating for only 4 months Wut..I don’ t know why I was under the impression y’all been dating for years.
Wow, Wut. This seems to be moving really fast. This isn’t lottery man is it? I’m torn. We all want love and to find the one, but I truly believe in allowing sufficient time to develop a strong foundation first. But if you truly feel this is the best for you, I wish you much happiness.
On the first time meeting his kids, the proper thing is for him to be there. His kids aren’t exactly “little” but at 12, a minor still.
ID channel episode.
This part especially. They’re not brother and sister…things happen when two hormonal teenagers are thrown together like that.
Advice
Don’t even consider doing this.
Now only you know your relationship. Would this set up be cool with you?
I hope she didn’t tell him that she was praying for a husband and God sent him to her.
People that voted won’t live long enough to suffer the consequences . They just said F$&k it!
Right. Fugg them kids! (At first) Because I need to know IF you even worth this. Ain’t no man just gone do this off the jump….
My eyebrows lifted 2 inches. As parents we seem to forget how we behaved as teens… Ain’t no way I am leaving any teens together. Yes, they are going to do whatever they want and find ways, but it won’t be handed to do so simply under my watch lol.
She had her coffee bright and early. Can’t say she don’t care about her roses.
Do what? Go crazy raising some more teens?
What Dubb said. The aunt has a damn fiduciary role as the custodial. Nothing personal, I’m sure you’re a nice lady and you and my nephew really care for one another, but it’s way too soon for you to have one on one time with my babies.
I think we need Medical Minute
ID junkie as well. I was looking at Blood Relative this morning. This sounds like an episode of Stranger In My Home or Deceived waiting to happen
Wut, I know I don’t post often and don’t think I’ve ever posted directly to you but I’ve lurked forever and a day so I hope you take this with the kindness of my intentions. You don’t have to prove yourself or pass any tests to earn someone’s love. Anything that makes you nervous enough to ask advice on this board should be your red flag to stay away from it. I’ve seen you post enough questions you already had the answer to to know in your heart you’re not comfortable with this situation but you want to make him happy and make sure he sees his kids.
This is a huge responsibility though! Three kids ranging 12-17 in your home for several weeks?! And their dad will be a visitor when he’s not working? That’s too much to ask of someone you just started dating. I get the rush you feel when you’re first in love and everything is going well..I’m there myself now. But you don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings…and until you truly KNOW this man you can’t be sure the feelings will stay. I wish you well, but I hope you reconsider putting yourself in this situation. Don’t let fear of losing a “good” thing push you to do something not in your best interest.
I’m voting for black Jesus .
You keep say trial run as if he is keeping a score board and you are afraid you are not gonna pass and he’s gonna do another trial run with someone else and if they pass they get him as the prize. Sounds like a game show not a relationship. What channel are you on. Take those kids out for some ice cream at Bruesters not the unflavored kind at McDonald’s. Get the good stuff and they will tell you that dad had a trial run with another woman 2 weeks ago.
HUUGS!! Thanks sooo much! I appreciate this.
Your nervousness is probably a sign you should slow down. You’ve said this before about going against what you wanted in a relationship and those didn’t work out so well. Don’t try to force something you’re unsure of.
I am nervous. But i wanted to see for myself if I am willing to do the “Mother” thing again after all this time.
Very vital signs. Listen, Sandra Mae can be disputed on a lot of things, but the whole dopamine rush and moving too fast in a relationship ain’t one of them. Calling you his wife, moving in with you and your child, giving you stepmom responsibilites when you’re only just a 4 month girlfriend ?! I smell a narcissist if nothing else.
You’re welcome! *HUGS*
Just be cool and have fun with them. Get down on their level. I’m sure you are a cool chic just show them that and be firm but fair if they get out of line.
This is the common answer it seems. I am praying about this. I have already said yes. I am going to honor my committment for the two weeks and thats it. I need to know if I am willing to do this on a permanent. This is only a test for me. If I can handle this ok if not..then he and I have to talk. This is my first time dating a single father with little kids. When you love him you suppose to love them..I need to see if i can be what he needs and see if we are a all around fit. I don’t want to wait round and we get real deep and me and the kids don’t mesh.. That would be terrible and since we don’t stay in the same state, We thought it would be a good idea. Thanks so much for your thoughs
The European Central Bank is over the EU, similar to America’s Federal Reserve. UK also has its on Central Bank. The World Bank helps developing countries. GB isn’t leaving the World Bank.
I asked the same…was it lottery winner’s brother. I knew that relationship saw it’s issues after the cancer scare and the money was loaned, wasn’t aware you ended it.
LOLOLOL..Girl 6’6 was over WAAAAYYY back in October LOL..It only lasted 8 months.
That booga boo been gone! We broke up.
Got it. Good riddance then.
LOL I never had a thing with workingmoneybags. People just hipped me to his game. He was giving me money I didn’t ask for and shyt people was like girl he want to smash. I was like he is married and I don’t see him more than a lunch buddy..everybody gave me the side eye LOL. But I stopped having lunch with him all together cuz yall was right it was too friendly and he was doing too much for just lunch friends.
No one said they were leaving, The currency is supposed to be backed by Gold (Miss Elizabeth and the Rothschilds) has more than enough. I need them to tell me if there is enough gold to avoid an economic crash. The world bank is like some sort of international Pimp. They are not helping, no, they are hurting. The only way they can control economies are to pimp them.
LAWD I am late. ?? You be living ?? But I still say slow down because of the kids. Be careful. Folks will call you the most beautiful titles and introduce you to everybody and still be monsters. You don’t know the real him and he don’t know the real you
All we can do is give our opinions and advice Wut, but at the end of the day, it’s YOUR choice, YOUR call. Just be careful no matter what you decide and make sure all of your ducks are in a row before AND after, and protect YOU and YOUR DAUGHTER…good luck.
You’re welcome.
No hurry, I don’t want to waste 9 month and see these boogas and thing..WHAT THE FUK I JUST DO TO MYSELF! LOL..I want to know if i can get along with his kids. It is hard to connect with them for just a day or an afternoon like normal people do when they are 4 hours away.
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OKKK SANDY!!! I see what you all are saying! Thanks yall
Thanks for the write-up Auntie!
The value of the pound fell 10 percent in one day. That’s insane. I can’t believe Brexit actually happened. I never thought the “Leavers” would win.
In a nutshell
When I see your pic I think you’re my cousin.
I don’t know Wats, I can foresee this man trying to use you as the “go to babysitter” all the time. Remember Lela’s boyfriend in Waiting to Exhale??
You wouldn’t trust your 17 year old to be picked up by someone you’ve known only 4 months nor would have introduced to any of your family. That isn’t long enough to know a person.
I have the feeling this guy goes from relationship to relationship saying every woman he’s with is “The One.” I agree with the others don’t do this.
Sorry Django I’m one of those nervous ones who doesn’t post a pic of herself. That’s actually my sister in dance, Misty Copeland in the pic. Lol
Eventually
Britain voted to leave the EU after the influx of thousands of Syrian refugees threatened their local economies
The result of angry, disillusioned upper class YTs who support a party that would rather cripple the country than progress. Sound Familiar ?
In what decade?
My cousin. I believe she is a Yoga instructor now.
Well you don’t have to drop the pound now. It’s has no value.
Well that’s sort of like protesting in your neighborhood and burning your neighborhood buildings down…….now what are you gonna do?
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Ha,ha,ha!!!
Not if other countries leave the EU.
The dis-integration will cause a global depression.
So now the UK will disintegrate after Scotland and Northern Ireland vote for independence since they both voted to stay in the EU.
And she is very beautiful and strong.
And severing the relationship with those who can help you rebuild those burned buildings.
You said a mouth full. The only ones that aren’t worried are the ones that it won’t affect. A lot of people have been royally f^cked over and you have all these people that think it’s cute.
They truly need to realize that sh^t rolls down not up.
No, it is not. The people burning down those businesses are normally NOT owned by the people in the neighborhood or owned by someone who LOOKS like them.
apples & oranges
Being a mom is not a 2 week trial run. It is for life. Situation changes that will cause your routine to change that will blow you plans outta the window.
You are so very right.
Why should they care? They just proved a f^cked up point right?
Blaming the immigrant black folks for their problems. They are not the one’s in power making policies. I waiting to see what the Queen will have to say since her family lineage made their fortune off slavery.
So are you happy? How do you personally deal with the fact that it has caused so much turmoil and hurt so many people that quickly. I would be eating myself up on the inside.
From what I heard Scotland are going to do another referendum so that they stay in the EU, haven’t heard anything about northern Ireland apart from reuniting the north and south
So no matter how much hurt you directly caused, you’re good? That is awkward as f^ck.
Best wishes
Yep like Trump is the best thing since sliced bread and he don’t even know how the process works for him to be President. That is affirmative action at it’s highest level just be white. I know Barak will be glad to leave office and let theme have their country back so that they can see how bad it was from the beginning. I see the same people who criticize Obama never said anything about the Bush’s.
It don’t mean sh^t-people won’t even be able to pay their bills, but since so many are enjoying the “freedom” of America, I guess they can afford to say f^ck it. They just have to look at it or not on the news instead of being made to go back to their own country and may or may not be mistaken as one of the refugees they hate so much.
There is really nothing funny or cute about it, but you keep going. You said you were going back right? Are you staying?
The working poor are already being hit hard today.
Exactly. They complain that immigrants come here and “take all of their jobs” or start claiming benefits (welfare). But a lot of the Eastern European immigrants are doing the jobs these white people think they’re above doing. They’re also very enterprising and hard working. If you go to any car wash in London, 9 times out of 10, it will be run by these “immigrants” they’re so afraid of.
Damn!!
Isn’t that is what those thug cowboys tried to do take this country back when they invaded that federal building but wasn’t even prepared. We all betta sleep with one eye open because the Indians might decide to sneak up on us one day and take THEIR country back. Those who wasn’t born here whether you are naturalized or not gonna go and only the Indians would remain.
Old boy already got the sign out. Put it up last week. you know they are pissed about Abigal losing that affirmative action lawsuit this week even though her GPA was 2.5 and 42 white people who grades were worst that hers got in. They still blaming the black folks.
I think its kind of amusing that thousands of people jumped on Google searching about what is the European Union and similar questions. Its like you just voted and made a decision blindly w/o even knowing what you were voting on. ?
Please folks in London call black folks the “N” word over there just like America calls us the “N” word over here and some of them come over here they do not go back and couldn’t pay them to go back. I was surprised to learn the large role that London played in the slave trade and they have the world’s largest maritime slave museum. But when you go to those places in Europe they have purposely erased all of their black history as if they have not contributed anything to the country positive and Black History Month is in October the scariest month of the year. Yet they come over here and complain about our President and says nothing about the queen with all of the damage her family/she has done to black folks. If we went over there and complained about their government they would send us back ASAP, especially as an American citizen.
Elizabeth and Rothchild’s old moneyed slaveholders.
Ivanka Trump is saying if they can’t come in who is going to clean your toilets and she is a foreigner as well.
Chile…..Run…Tell…Dat!!
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Right so they know what’s up.
I am seriously against illegal immigrants. I’m from the Bahamas and I’m sick and tired of the illegal Haitians we keep getting. I feel we should only grant citizenship to foreign people who are teachers, doctors, rich or just simply not bums. As in have degrees and ambition. No dead weights to mooch off of our free healthcare and free education. Overcrowding our public schools and the labour ward in the hospital. They’re part of the problem why the government is starting to tax us crazy.
No, it’s what’s been done to Australia, Canada, South Africa, Bermuda, Britsh Virgin Islands, AMERICA, etc, etc…& they still have the ‘Client Kingdoms’…but the Arabs know the game too, just ask Spain.
How do you think countries are colonized?
I’m going back to England to visit this year, so I’m interested to see what the changes will be.
I come from one .
It’s being reported that ASOS shut its website because they knew the pound would fall. They didn’t want to take any losses on foreign exchange.
I’m like that with my babies too even of they are at my sis house 15 mind away
I think some people vote without knowing how their economy works. You all are getting ready to suffer. Your money has less value, people will lose work. You want have immigration though…and you can’t come here *sips tea*
Lol very awkward .They screwed themselves because of fear. The Prime minster resigned because he has those experts on his side that know economics and the people failed him smh
Wait what? I knew I should’ve ordered that bathing suit!!
Nooooooo!!!! ….when it is back up..would the cloth!es be cheaper? I Pray this bathing suit goes from 44 to 10 dollars!!
I agree. You playing step mom? Does he play husband and make sure all of your bills are paid? Gas in your car? Hair done?nails? …probably not. Where his bm at?
And find his bm!! Have her drop the kids off and you tell him to let you know when they leave. I feel awkward around men kids if I don’t even know him.
Keep playing you going to be his next bm in 3 months and 2 years from now some strange woman going to be picking up yall baby without him around too.
They are truly f^cked on this one. Who does this type of ish, just to say they did it. Just wow!!!!!!!!!
Oh…both of yall got baggage. Did you meet him online? Sounds like Soul Swipe.
When that mother was deemed unfit. Those kids should’ve been with him not on Skype. Also, my friend let some dude she was talking to daughter come stay and let her have the bed. 22 ringworm my friend had. You do not know people kids and how they are really living.
When that mother was deemed unfit. Those kids should’ve been with him not on Skype. Also, my friend let some dude she was talking to daughter come stay and let her have the bed. 22 ringworm my friend had. You do not know people kids and how they are really living.
You’re American? You’ll win this battle. Maybe not 10 but 34? They’re going to make money on FX to recover. I’m Canadian, my dollar stays shit.
But I ordered Monday and it shipped Wednesday. I suspect they will end free shipping if the pound stays low. ?
You’re American? You’ll win this battle. Maybe not 10 but 34? They’re going to make money on FX to recover. I’m Canadian, my dollar stays shit.
But I ordered Monday and it shipped Wednesday. I suspect they will end free shipping if the pound stays low. ?
Trump will use this country as a piggy bank just like Bush and Cheney did. Trump is not a billionaire. Trump was well funded with drug money.
All of his casinos went belly up and you Sandra want to believe that after he fleeced many people and workers that he will be a good president? Sheesh!
And the “freedom” bs is Jair that. BS!
Yep you are right and I was just reading that the poor common folks are pissed because the one’s who have the money did it and didn’t warn/tell them what they were doing.
Betta say it. I tell them all the time you think the white folks over here love you more than me because you come from another country and you are not an American Negro, you supposed to be exotic and special. They get their “N” word wake u call pretty quick and I be ROTFLMAO
Read the paper the poor common people didn’t know what was going on.
He already has 4 bankruptcies, a fraud university, free Secret Service Protection and still kicking, He is trying to be President so he and his family could get lifetime, GUARANTEED welfare benefits. Best pimp game in town.
….it is always like that. You have the poor an uninformed over here going for Donald Trump, black and white. They don’t even realize. It’s a rich mans war and a poor mans fight.
They killing themselves with that. I’m like Boo, you exotic because they thank your asz straight out the jungle fighting monkeys and lions……or you were trained well in England. They have no love for you. They just want to exploit your dumb asz.
Trust me, I’ve been to more than a few social gatherings where they forget I’m black………and just be saying sh^t…..about the poor uneducated back people. Then you have the black people that WILL NOT talk to me. the American ones AND the Exotic ones. Many times Mr or Ms. Mayonnaise be cheesing and grinning and like you said “my folks” treat me icy as hail…..and have tried some under handed ish. Guess what Mr or Ms. Mayonnaise still got a foot a foot up they asz and laughing at them.
The world bank helps developing countries? You’re kidding right?
Correction–is already using. Trump is using his campaign funds to pay back his own companies lol
“Other expenses include $577,000 for payroll and rent at Trump Tower, which doubles as campaign headquarters, and $4.7 million to Ace Specialties, which supplies Trump’s online store and whose owner is Christl Mahfouz, who sits on the board of directors of Eric Trump’s foundation.
And $400 to Trump Ice LLC, which makes bottled waters.”
Source: http://www.cnn.com/2016/06/21/politics/donald-trump-business-spending-fec/
File this under: Greatest hustle of all time
Yeah she thought she could slip that in and no one would notice ::giggles::
And Brits are blaming all of their woes on him. I can’t believe one man caused all those issues. Why not get rid of him instead of cutting ties as a country? The grass always looks greener. Millennials picketed over there while the baby boomers are the majority who voted to get out. Many said they had regrets. Well, it’s TOO late now!!!
Reports say England will be in bad shape financially over the next 5 yrs!!! And that it will trickle here with our pensions, housing, investments, etc…
“I can’t believe one man caused all those issues. Why not get rid of him instead of cutting ties as a country?…Many said they had regrets. Well, it’s TOO late now!!!”
This sounds like a premonition if America elects Trump.
If Donald Trump agrees, this basically means one thing, poor-folks-be-ware. . .
Probably none (immediately). More likely a trickle down effect that’ll take maybe a year to rear it’s ugly head
If they start talking about consolidating the dollar with pesos and Canadian money, I think I’d vote the same way.
In regards to Brexit, I hate to say it but I think the UK just made themselves a big target for terrorists organizations regarding their stance on immigration. With this move, they essentially pissed off the EU so I doubt they will be quick to render aid should anything go down. For their sakes, I hope they thought this through and it was not the result of a knee jerk reaction because the fall out is going to be big economically and politically.