By Sandra Rose  | 

Love is an action or behavior that conveys deep affection for another human being. Love is not words or a feeling or emotion. Some people who believe they're in love may miss the signs that their partner has already checked out of their relationship.

Click here to read why people like Jermaine Jackson (pictured above with girlfriend Havana) can't see the red flags until it's too late.

Tell your children you love them and show them what love is by example. Children are too young to interpret body language.

Remember: Love is not what you say, it's what you do. A single act of kindness speaks louder than words.

Beauty fades but love lasts a lifetime.

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Photos (2): Getty Images

  • Queen B

    Smh a damn shame men are willing to overlook the body language that highly says "Im just not that in to you" just to brag that they gotta BAD BITCH ?

  • reddfoxxy16

    Truth Sista... & vice versa...

  • Cali

    Sandra, you are loving those pics of Jermaine and his daughter, huh? lol

  • Prof. Taco Juice

    Jeraisin will never know what love is because he never truly loved or respected himself. He would probably be this way even if he never had a record deal or were just a studio musician. Selfish, shallow, and simple.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Jer.... raisin!!!! ????

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Jeraisin though ? LOL

  • morenYAHdelsur

    LOL! We done got about 3 posts from these two. It's just painful to see, she looks incredibly uncomfortable.

  • tintin

    Sandra. Come on Sandra really??? Is this really needed??

  • klwbaby

    What is with this fascination with Jermaine Jackson???!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    He probably dripped WD40 all over her dress.

  • imright

    Sandra is trolling with this Jermaine Jackson pic ????

  • imright

    Jeraisin ?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Exactly. People should date within their own age and financial bracket.

  • hotntot95

    Aw? I like the love stories at the end..

  • V Dubb

    You better tell em what love is Sandra!!! They don't know girl!!!

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  • SmithyPooh

    Can we get a pic of Number 45 and FLOTUS? ?

  • Mbailey

    THAT'S ho-tus to you.....

  • dontgetblocked

    Jermaine has been marrying folks since the early 70s and still can't get it right. He even married his own brother's baby mama. He's disgusting and so is any woman who gets with him.

  • Coy little wink

    Looks like he loves her but she is bored. When you rob the cradle that's what usually happens, no?

  • SmithyPooh

    ????? You right I'm totally out line right now.

  • Coy little wink

    Jeraisin...I am WEAK

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  • Jay

    I so love the pic with the elder couple. Black love is beautiful.

  • belizeanborn

    I believe she went into that relationship for the publicity it would give her. Seriously, who would want to wake up to that old, greasy, hair painted creep every morning. Yikes!

  • KIm

    Jermaine is so gross; and from the looks of it, the gold digging, attention seeking, young lady next to him feels the same way too..

  • Torae

    She looks disgusted..but these women do anything for a little fame. I hope she's having fun every time he sweats that black stuff out of his hair when he's on top of her???????????

  • MsPam

    She is just with Jermaine for that allowance he gets from Mother Jackson every month.

  • stav

    God is love!

  • Maya

    I wonder if his spray-on hair is water proof. ?

  • hottlanta

    If Vanzant can do an intervention and find out that mother and daughter had a sexual/emotional relationship with the same woman she can do an intervention with Jermaine and ask him why does he insist on leaving the house with his head looking like that.

  • i troll it like i see it

    I couldn't even imagine that man sweating that black hair paint off on top of me...

  • A D N

    "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails".
    I guess I haven't experienced love or truly felt love for anyone... I have been not patient and unkind to people I said I loved...

  • A D N

    After reading "Jeraisin", I literally forgot the man's name was Jermaine lol.

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  • dontgetblocked

    He's probably like most black women. We run when we see sense rain coming. No need to take unnecessary chances with the hair.

  • dontgetblocked

    If I ever fell that low in life that I had to sleep with a so-called man who puts shoe polish on his balding hairline and seals it with lard, has a leatherface with cheap foundation smothered in the crevices of his dry skin, a hasn't had a hit in three decades loser who procreated with his brother's baby mama, and still gets an allowance from his mother...if I had to sleep with him, I'd jump in front of Tiger's driveway while he was pulling out. I'd prefer death by a Caublasian than to have that mess on that man's head touch me.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    You are not black! Stop trying to fit in you racist trash!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Grandma junior is soooooooooooooooo adorable. Awww she loves her grandma. ?

  • hottlanta

    YASSSSSS but I loved the man who divorced his wife because that beautiful baby to her wasn't born quote/unquote normal. That is a "FATHER" and that child is lucky to have a parent that will love them to no end.

  • ?Time2Shine?

    Rude but funny as hèll..lmao? ???

  • AcutallyReally

    Jermaine knows that young woman doesn't love him. He knows it. He doesn't care. This man is an old lech. He has the Jackson name and whatever of Michael's estate money he's conned Katherine out of and so he can pay young women (just read women) to be with him. I don't believe he loves her either. He's in lust. But I do appreciate the pics, especially baby grandma (too adorable) of people demonstrating real love.

  • the guest

    I know she's an adult of 23 but they still look like a pedophile and minor. And for all intents and purposes that is still what they are.

    For 17 years of her young life that's what she would have been a minor to him. She's only been legal for him for six years and I find that to be vile.

    He's robbing her innocence to satisfy lust and she's selling her innocence to satisfy greed.

    I get why Sandra posted these two.

    They are symbolic of what's wrong with today's society.

  • 4RGSpot

    They both pathetic. Her for being with him because he's Janet and Michael's brother and him for being 62 lusting after a 23 year old thinking she wants his creepy and wax figure looking behind.

  • Queen B

    Lol me too ? I just don't get it and im a regular ol around the way chick. I would think these hollywood hoez wud have higher standards

  • Queen B

    Lol me too ? I just don't get it and im a regular ol around the way chick. I would think these hollywood hoez wud have higher standards


    LOL Ohhh thats a typical trait for black males in Hollywood and Los Angeles buying affection because in their day they are trying to portray a "IMAGE"... Even though the most of the time the people seem like they have nothing at all in common and the men get with women that make them seem older and has the opposite effect of the "IMAGE" they are trying to portray..... Yet if the $$ is there and the fame and money hungry women are all around like vultures they can buy a chick to play rent a date or wife...
    LMAOOOO The photo is hilarious because she looks so uninterested and like yuck and he really thinks he is doing something and portraying a masculine image .,.. instead he just comes across as creepy insecure and gross. LOL From their photos you they seem to have zero chemistry...

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Sweet article.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    I read this thinking, "who is she talking about?" Then I remembered Poor Lil Jermaine.

  • sunni_daze

    This was a sweet article. Now, business at hand. Why is Jermaine dresses like a Disney Prince, Beast to be more exact.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Just gross! I wonder how his children feel. Her parents. Anybody with some sense?

    THE most horrendous part is that he looks insane! It's not like he's a distinguished older fellow, he's clearly stuck in time or a fantasy.

  • Renee26

    I didn't click the link...Jermaine doesn't care that that girl isn't into him; he's benefiting from getting that young beautiful poonani

  • Renee26

    Beautiful pictures...starting the day off with a positive note

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  • Renee26

    Wax figure LMAO

  • Str8tUpMenace

    Jerraisin????? *tears* I love it!!!!!!! LMAO

  • Str8tUpMenace

    Booooooo to Jermaine. Love the other pics!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dani B.

    LOVE all of the pics showing different versions of LOVE ...except the J.Jackson pic,...took me back to my Sesame Street days, started singing, "one of these things just doesn't belong HERE, one of these things just isn't the SAME"...

  • Bossy704

    To Havana's credit I am sure Jermaine is aggravating and gets on her last nerve. She is doing the best she can, because he obviously repulses her. Soon she will find another suitor with more money that hopefully isn't as lame and offensive as Jermaine. Poor thing. Keep your head up sis!

  • Brook York

    More positive and uplifting posts like these, the world can really use it.

  • Dr. P

    Gold digging 101. Get a well known, financially stable man who can get you into the spaces and places you desire to be. Stiffen your entire body when his reptilian like skin touches yours, but do it with a smile bytch, rent is due and work ain't honest but it pays the bills.

  • ShWa

    He's in a midlife crisis, looking horrible, and she's a gold digger......

  • Ny MaGee

    If this was Trump and his daughter or his mail-order wife, you would say she simply turned her face to acknowledge the cameras....

  • Hugga Bunch

    Absolutely lewd and repulsive heathen!

  • Quitedeliteful

    These pics are beautiful.... Jermaine doesn't care if this girl like him or not. As long as she's laying low and spreading it wide he'll take what he can get. She's a pro though -- one look at that cesspool on his head and she didn't run in the opposite direction!!!

  • Luv Pitties

    He probably puts on a plastic shower cap (think hero curl from back in the day) before he gets intimate

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  • Luv Pitties

    Their dad is just as disgusting

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  • Quitedeliteful

    The top lock on my door sticks. I wonder if I can use some of Jermaine's Black Hair Goop to loosen it up a bit...

  • Guess Who

    What is love? Baby don't hurt mee...don't hurt more!

    The pics are nice but Jermaine and his paid escort are not in love...well, she is not in love with that silly putty faced, ugly bastard. Ugh,

  • Guess Who

    LMMFAO...I ain't NEVER read any of your comments that were this harsh. You're always so ...sickening sweet. Not a bad thing, just rare around these parts But this post...The post right above me is real, harsh, hilarious and mean.

    I LOVE IT.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!! You know, Ima always try to find SOMETHING nice to say but I gotta wonder just how much of that Black Hair Goop is left on the pillow after they get busy -- and if it gets on her skin does it give her a rash??

  • Guess Who

    LOL! he probably still sleeping with a curl/shower cap on his head like he did when he rocked that carefree curl for so many years. Oh and you know she has a rash..and bits of play-doh stuck to her tender spots.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yup... I hope the money is worth it....

  • ebonics

    Aww I wasnt expecting those bottom pics.. those were all beautiful! I love the lil girl wanting to look like her gma.. thats precious!
    Now im sorry, but in "Havana's" case, love is money honey!

  • Dowoop

    LMFAO..That goop will make it worse. His hair does not budge. You might mess around and wind up stuck inside of your house.

  • SuggaB

    Nothing worse than a man you can't stand to put his nasty paws on ya. Disgusting. Don't terch me!

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Love the bottom pictures. Ok if you say so up talks and so would she if he ain't gave any....

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  • ClaireHuxtable

    He couldn't sleep on MY sheets with all that goop in his hair!

  • LuLu

    That's the one that made me REALLY tear up! LOL It's probably all he can do for her at this sweet! #goals

  • Dem Moore

    Jermaine looks gross

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  • Olga Summer

    This post made me ? Sandy!

  • the guest

    If her parents cant be bought then they are definitely not happy about this. But more than likely he's buying their approval. She looks void of a soul, unhappy, and disgusted.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Yes she does!

    Plenty parents will sell their children for the right price or notoriety.

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  • ?Patty Kakes?

    That last one really mad my day. I had a man like that and cancer took him away. I will never have to love again because when her was her I was loved. Thank god for sending him to me. A lot of people to know and will never know what real love is or how it feels