Cardi B, who made history as the first female rapper to win a Grammy for best rap album, is said to be depressed after the backlash to her Grammy win on social media.
An insider who is close to the rapper’s camp tells Sandrarose.com that friends and family are concerned about Cardi’s mental health and her general well-being after she was heavily criticized for winning a Grammy.
The insider says Cardi “had a meltdown” after reading social media comments from music critics who say she didn’t deserve to win a Grammy over rappers Travis Scott and Pu$ha T.
Her management reportedly begged her not to respond to the backlash on social media on Monday, but she did it anyway. She recorded an expletive-filled rant – then deleted the video and her Instagram account.
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“I cry because I know the hell I went through making this album,” she said.
But according to my source, what really sent Cardi over the edge was her response to flowers she received along with a lyric from a song by rocker Tom Petty.
The card read: “You’ve got a heart so big it could crush this town. Tom Petty.”
Cardi apparently mistook the lyric for a personal message from Petty.
“Thank you Tom Petty for the flowers,” she said on her Instagram stories. “The flowers are very big. I want to say thank you so much and for a beautiful note. Motherf—er loves me, bro!”
But her Instagram followers were quick to point out that Petty died 2 years ago from a drug overdose.
The source said Cardi was “devastated” by the glaring error. She now believes the flowers and the card were sent intentionally to embarrass her. And she blamed her management for not knowing the rocker was dead before she humiliated herself in front of the world on the biggest night of her career.
“She’s taking time off to reenergize” said the source who is close to her management team. The insider said someone remains with Cardi “24/7” to watch over her.
He said the mom-of-one was not prepared for this level of success. “It’s too much, too soon,” he said. “Everything is happening too fast. She’s feeling the pressure.”
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This poor baby is insecure and is going to go into cardiac arrest. She’s always explaining and clarifying something. If she can’t handle the pressure, she may need to consider doing something else.
Know this is not a Bey post, but she’s always getting dragged. yet, she never responds. I’m sure Bey may care or not. If she does care, we don’t know about it. At the end of the day, you won. So why are you on social media??? That’s crazy…Grow a backbone Cardi.
Smart move, however We live in a social media generation. I think she should have a media company or professional publicist control her social media for her.
It’s snowing all day in NY, wondering why I even came into the office………………. but Cardi Cardi Cardi, enjoy your win, only God can judge and take away from you. No one’s opinion really matters.
Taking a break sounds like a great idea…just ask Tiffany Haddish?
She Looking for sympathy. Cardi, this is what come with stardom and fame. I don’t think if I was famous I would run my own social media accounts. You got to have some insulation between you and the madness of the world.
The only reason she could be this enraged over social media comment is because she deep down knows she didn’t deserve it.
The overwhelming majority of the comments were positive. This has nothing to do with comments, but a lot more to do with her insecurity.
The marketing of Self Victimization to the sheeple is a lucrative business
I agree, isn’t that what your PR team is for?
She knows that she’s an industry puppet. This is the only reason why she won. People are letting her know, and it sucks for her.
When you know better you do better. She has a guilty conscience and it’s telling.
And she blamed her management for not knowing the rocker was dead
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Bless.
I suppose it was presented as a gift from a person and not a gift complete with an apt quote that just so happens to come from a former musician, two years dead. Perhaps had the quote been “in quotes”, someone would’ve caught it? Or…
As for her deleting her Instagram, I’m sure it will be undeleted soon. She should take a cue from the greats whose work, persona, celebrity is constantly eviscerated (and even celebrated…extremes) in the media, and just IGNORE ALL and keep it moving.
Bless.
Can u get ssi for being devastated and enraged?
Maybe she’s still suffering postpartum depression and that’s why she seems so unhappy and feels the need to respond to trolls. Therapy and a sm break maybe good for her mentally.
neither one of them write their own stuff so they need to get over themselves.
Fam isn’t for her… at all
It’s a cruel world, I don’t blame her, people are toxic. Folks rather see people starving and losing in life than be successful.
If you are confident in your choices then you should need not to explain your actions. But if you know there is something in the koolaid you are selling then yeah explain away. she has a guilty conscience.
A guilty conscience can wreck havoc on your state off mind.
IDGAF about what people think of me and I am nowhere close to being a millionaire. Just imagine if I had millions. Smh I can’t rock with her for two reasons (although I jam some of her music): 1.) she cares too much about what people think. 2.) her frequent use of the n word.
I wish she could stay off social.media but she’s addicted plus that’s why she’s famous…her accessibilty
Yep. That’s exactly what the PR team is for.
I wish Ms. Cardi would just enjoy her success and keep it moving. Hater gonna hate, that is the world we live in now. Keep it moving and don’t worry what folks say!!!
Beyonce IS a great example of this. I could name others, too. Just ignore the hate, the baiting and stick to your art and keep it moving, I agree.
This is what I said yesterday. I feel bad for her. Her success was handed to her. She wants to feel like she’s earned it and its killing her that she knows her talent alone isn’t what got her to this level. The industry has literally given her all the tools necessary to succeed. What new artist would be able to get all of those features from MAINSTREAM, billboard charting artists on their FIRST album?
She should have a psych on deck … she seems to be having a serious meltdown… like I wish she would not even bother with social media dang ..
She had 40 million followers on Instagram and she just left them all hanging like that? Wow
Sounds to me like she’s way too thin-skinned.
I think she’s doing an awesome job. But, she needs to believe in herself. You’re right, her conscience is definitely bothering her. But it shouldn’t tho. While she can and while she’s hot, she needs to ride this wave and just do her.
yes, ma’am! Absolutely agree!
That’s the thing, she made it to the top but did by the hands of many others from DJ Self , the whole power 105, her producers etc, that along with social media. she basically bypassed the traditional route that aritists experience through the ranks.
Because of this she’s always uncouth , has never been groomed to handle the media. I don’t have a problem with her , but she needs to learn to choose her battles, everything doesn’t warrant attention and one wrong move / tweet could catapult her career to the bottom at the same speed that she rose to the top.
“ Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% of how you respond”.
Sometimes the truth is misconstrued; as hate but the truth really does hurt.
Exactly ! I said the same thing on the previous post. Baddie Bey ain’t responding to Shit ! The f*ck? Why respond to people who ain’t on your level ? Ugh
Pressure is an amazing thing, it can bust pipes or make diamonds.
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It wasn’t that long ago that she was just a stripper who got on a reality show… fame, at this level doesn’t really come as quickly as it has for her. Most people take years to get to the very top of the game. I don’t think she’s ready, mentally. Most people probably wouldn’t be. I can’t imagine having one of the best nights of my life and then, have so many people hate you in that same moment. If you ain’t ready for that… smh Hell, I cussed out a long time friend after we argued about Gucci and he called me a liar in an “ambiguous” post on FB and I’m still feeling some kinda way. So, like Cardi had said, F*ck em! LOL
Sis needs a long azz vacation. Someone needs to take her phone, iPad and MacBook stat!! ??
Celebs delete their IG/Twitter all the time. Or its deleted on the other side bc its reported. Sounds like something the Barbs would do. Next case.
Simple-minded side show freaks.
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Did DJ Self really help her ? I know she was banging him, but she made it seem like he didn’t do anything. Her first step is to get rid of her raggedy ass publicist and hire a LEGIT one. There’s plenty of black publicists out here who can whip her crazy ass into shape.
I know Nicki gotta be cracking up laughing at this. Not because of Cardi’s mental breakdown but simply because she got what she asked for. You wanted to be THAT bitch in the rap game. The #1. You wanted to dethrone and here you are. And you can’t handle it. People have done Nicki sooooo wrong and stations like Power 105.1 we’re thirsty AF to make Cardi the new IT girl in rap. Nicki was groomed and prepared for the limelight. Clearly Cardi wasn’t. Nicki will turn them comments off QUICK and continue to flex and live her life. Not giving AF ! That’s why I mess with Nicki tough. Plus I’m Sagittarius rising so I connect with her. Lol
She handles adversity in hood fashion. She was miss tough guy in the Bronx & thinks that carries over into the industry. She doesn’t fit in well & knows it. People don’t have to like or speak highly of you. Immature birds use threats of violence as a weapon. She deserves that goofy husband too.
So are we going to pretend as if she didn’t just get a Grammy for winning a popularity contest? If she got one, then 50 Cent should have BEEN had one!! But they don’t LIKE HIM. So the Grammy’s have exposed themselves for being a fraud. And the oddity of those in the category with her.
And to turn off your social media to get sympathy? Just so we can make it a big deal when she posts again.
Simple-minded side-show freaks!!!
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Can she be deleted?!
I think more people should delete their social media accounts and go about life the NORMAL way with REAL friends and not online “friends”???
Auntie who caaaaarres!! ??
Your right! I deleted mine last year
Lmao!
Lol
And to turn off your social media to get sympathy? Just so we can make it a big deal when she posts again.
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The album was dope. Just relax and enjoy your flowers while you here. You won’t always be on top. Just try to live in the moment
If being used to send a message to the youth to strive to be a public toilet is what you mean then you need counseling.This is what wrong with society , you are willing to sell out for a dolla and a dream. no sense of how you may be negatively effecting the youth of the future. Just collateral damage to you as long as you get that bag.
“The lady doth PROTEST too much, methinks”
All I wanna know is bytch how you take care of a young baby with them fycking nails
Wasn’t she just saying how she spends $300,000 a month and her publicist was included in that. Obviously she doesn’t have the right team around her. Now they’re trying to rebrand her an put her on mainstream magazine cover. But she showed she just a ignorant hood rat . Just rich and famous.
50 CENNNNNNNNNNNNNT?? (in my Soulja Boy voice)
And actually Curtis does have a Grammy
All of you hating on Miss Washpoppin, this is all I have to say…
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Social media is antisocial. I don’t have any accounts except disqus
Cardi, Ariana, Bow Wow and a slew of others need to get off the gram/social media. They are uneducated, not trying to get educated (i dont mean school, necessarily) and are constantly saying or doing dumb things.
If you are serious about music, you study all genres or learn as much as you can so you won’t look dumb. If needed, hire Seasoned PR people & let them do their job. Most friends & family members have no business handling PR, esp if they are not in entertainment.
Today’s stars are having complete nervous breakdowns in front of strangers at an alarming rate. With today’s overnight celebrity, i guess there really is no time for Artist Development.
She won a grammy, the biggest award in music, yet she runs to the internet to see what people are saying, smh. But, she will be back on social media; like roaches, they always come back.
D R U G S
Email me a plate ?.
That flowers thing seems like a reach.. I was happy she won, her album was the only one I enjoy listening to without skips ?.. why everyone trying to bash her?! She will b just fine.. especially soon as she realizes she doesn’t need social media trolls to validate her success. Hug yo baby tight af Cardi and cry it out. Get it all out and regroup ?
She need time to unload because she doesn’t know what she is in for. She need to take a much needed vacation and cut off the world so she can get her mind right. Enjoy your daughter, husband, family and real friends. She going to need it because now that she got a Grammy, they about to work her extra hard for her next album. They going to want to her to make it bigger than her first. Find your strength again Cardi….stop letting this world get to you. You should know that they either going to love you or hate you….comes with the job/lifestyle….#ijs
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No Christian mingle?
Das it for me too Sis. Never had a FB account, definitely don’t do IG, the Twitter or Snap.
Tuh…those “friends” be the main ones! Cut off a friend of 16yrs. Said fugg it, walked away, never to return…
She definitely needs to take a sabbatical from twitter. It seems to ruin everybody’s lives. I know she (and others) want to know what their “fans” think, but to hell with the twitter trolls. Cardi, do your thing and don’t worry about twitter opinions.
He said the mom-of-one was not prepared for this level of success. “It’s too much, too soon,” he said. “Everything is happening too fast. She’s feeling the pressure.”
Yep, she and Tiffany Haddish need to retreat somewhere and get off the IG and twitter.
I agree. She probably needs somebody to keep her grounded right now. But it doesnt look like her family or her husband Offbeat is doing it, so she’s run into some adversity and doesnt quite know how to handle the pressure.
I liked the dress. Did you see the video. It’s a classic vintage dress by Mugler.
have so many people hate you in that same moment
^^^^^^^^^^^^
Folks have a lot of hate for this chick. A LOT. I aint never seen nothing like this.
She glorifies gangs! She glorifies sex! She glorfies drug use!
Well hell IN the category with her is a cat named PUSHA and Nipsey is gang friendly and Mac died of an overdose. So basically I guess they wanted Travis to win? He the only other viable candidate. But then we would have well he loves CAVE DEMONS. He is not worthy EITHER.
Like what the hell do folks WANT????
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Easy Button would be faster.
Chile …… I will see what I can do!!!!!
Well then, she certainly can use the “N” word. She been unstable. This ain’t for you boo. Everybody they hand a script can’t deliver. Just ask Ms. Haddish. Po thang
I quit you at, “offbeat”… bye.
This!!!!
And take the Kardashians, Donald Trump, Ann Coulter, FOX News and ANYONE else BLOCKING world peace, ANNOYING our sensibilities, and JUST being a general pain in the AS.
Beyonce is a master at ignoring the hate. I used to go hard on Bey and her delusional stans. I often wondered if the hateful comments on my blog bothered her. Then I had dinner with her road manager, Kim, who told me Bey read my blog and laughed at the comments. That’s when I knew Bey was a real one who truly doesn’t care what people think. ?
Lol, i will give her that. Beyonce is good when it comes ignoring us haters and she never says a mumbling word.
First off, anyone who knows me knows that I don’t do that ambiguous post $hit… you want to address me, call me out, call my phone – don’t create no FB posts because we have differing opinions about a damn fashion designer. Don’t create no FB posts directed AT me, but not TO me, at all. B*tch, we’ve been friends for 26 years. You talking AT me on FB like I’m some random MF you were arguing with on a Fox News MAGA post. You want me to boycott Gucci, but you ain’t boycotting the NFL, R Kelly JUST played at your wedding two weeks ago, Papa John’s, Chic Fil A and, you’re offended by perceived black face because of what it means to black people, but N8GGA is your favorite word. GTFOH!
You sure did used to go in hard on lounge singer Beyonce.
She’ll be back
Don’t nobody hate that ignorant bitch. She need to chill out and put that shit in a hook for a song or some shit.
That’s what you do to people who don’t really know you, and don’t know WTF they be talking about.
Thank you
And the ‘hell” she describes in making the album was more than just sleeping on a studio couch & catching a cold while pregnant I’m sure.
Public Relations 101 – Never Let Them See You Sweat. Cardi B would be a lot better off mentally if she could do that. But, on the other hand she has built her entire brand on being bombastic. Desperately needs PR help.
Lololololo…teeheehee
“Her management reportedly begged her not to respond to the backlash on social media on Monday, but she did it anyway.” Is anybody really surprised? Heck, when her Doctor told her to get off sm when she was pregnant she didn’t listen then either. At this point, I think I’d rather hear some more from the Jussie tales.
Can’t nobody control or tame this crazy bitch???
That Becky sh*t bothered her smh cut it out she made a whole album about it lol
Lol nah I’m freaky but not that freaky
I actually have them all and still to this day have not posted once, evea
I’m glad she deleted her social media
I hope she keeps it deleted
She needs to stop caring so much what people think of her
I wish she would just learn to enjoy what she is experiencing
She doesn’t realize that she can hurt them by ignoring them
Facts and There is a male equivalent to her , chance the rapper . This Nigga had a kit kat commerical before his album dropped . Was the first to win a Grammy from a mixtape and most of this was from his dads close association with Obama.
This is why you always see him spazzing or lashing out on social media aswell . Both him and cardi had a lot of shit handed to them . Chance ain’t that good of a rapper and definitely didn’t deserve a Grammy.
Cut it out smh lol
Sandra can we get a black history post? Something I actually give a damn about.
Discernment ?
Stay yo ass off instagram!
Cardi should have known she would get backlash, she’s received it for as long as she’s had a mainstream career.
We know sis works hard, unfortunately her content doesn’t reflect.
Sis take your grammy, love on your baby and be glad you won.
None!
He snapped and told the truth
Cardi is black and she made history…
Don’t @ me without yo wits I’m with the shyts
And when she does respond, it’s all strategic enough to make money off of it.. that’s genius!
Bey be like, “I’ll sell yah my tea for a fee!”
I used to actually own one of them lol!
So because she deleted her IG and posted a rant, she can’t handle it? Lol you people kill me. Focus on your life sweetie, hopefully you have it all together 100% because you certainly are acting like you do.
she’s trash and her win is proof that payola and a gay white man can get you anything in life
Nannies….
Best font I’ve read all day.
But either way, she won by the popular vote ? So…
Starting with 50! He is so petty it’s annoying.
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I forgot about the baby. I was thinking how can she wipe her azz.
Lol exactly! The poor child is already scarred! Hell changing diapers is a challenge with short nails! Hell how do you even wipe your but after using the restroom! ! Smdh I can go on !!
She doesn’t even smoke weed sir
Chile…do better
Chile….
JA Rule should’ve won???
Right! I find myself blocking 1 a day, like vitamins around this bish….
Wow…nothing but Truth spoken.
yeah, but she made an album (translated) made $$$ from it.
I mean you gotta laugh at your own ridiculousness don’t you? Sometimes I know you hit publish amidst giggles
Yup.
Industry Guru comments on here from time to time posted this link a couple months ago and I have been spreading it around!
When your not built or talented enough for the industry this is what happens ????? Beyoncé would never ???
Sandra new post please. Cardi is dead already
Cardi needs to take lessons from her husbands various baby mamas. U dont care what happens or what people say as long as the check clears once a month. U notice how everybody got something 2 say except her husbands various baby mamas. They smart. They just call the bank check their bank balance n keep it moving.
Ppl like Cardi don’t know what grounded is… Her and her fam grew up poor and finally made it. Everyone is yessing her right now, for fear their checks will stop coming if they challenge her.
Except that mistress he had who was very vocal
Not lounge singer ??????
She must be a Libra….SMH, u can’t have a big heart and be overly sensitive to criticism…in this world u have to be a savage, take your slice and damn everything else…
She’s trash. Her music is vile and has no substance and she is not educated. Sooo a post on a black woman who has class and some education and who actually identifies as a black woman would be nice
Until they won’t a little extra then all that sh*t go out the window smh
Cardi…sweetie…you need to have THICK skin to be in the bizz
Yeah sounds like a story line for an album or a few albums to me ?
Maybe the flowers were a prank from Nicki or Chris?
People are such passive aggressive simps now a days. Can’t confront them face to face either cuz they’ll just cower and lie.
Don’t @ me…get AT me.
Communication rules the nation.
Wow. To blow up a friendship after 26 years, especially over some petty stuff, is kinda sad. But it looks like you’re better off as it is anyway. Not every friendship has to last for a lifetime. Some friendships run their course after a while.
I see you edited that comment for clarification lol
Exactly!
Deleted IG……Good Cardi ??????…..now pick your azz up and go shine your Grammy. If that don’t make you feel any better, call your bank’s automated system and listen to them millions talk back.
He’s disgusting
Yes I like clarity ?
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Yep that gurl who had that side baby by luda. Azz got greedy n had child check n everythang taken away from here. Get thé check n shut the hell up.
Nicki a nice rapper but she ain’t that clever lol
No her past behavior of constantly defending herself and attacking people shows that. People with class and talent do not address critics. Michelle Obama, Denzel, Beyoncé …. would never!
Bosses move in silence…I hope she stays off the gram, that place is toxic…
? ? ? flowers from the grave…Sis was really feelin the love! It was a mistake, a funny one at that. No need to be upset with Management for not identifying who sent the flowers
It’s all most like she can dish but cant take it…..
?one mans trash is another’s treasure she has her good qualities and bad just like everyone….
Don’t breathe no life into her you say?? ?
Social media have folks justifying their blessings to mere humans. Yes Cardi, elevate your vibrations delete the portal of negativity called IG. I watched that performance and i personally feel i watched her stardom rise, future legend.
She doesn’t have a professional team behind her as evidenced by that line backer publicist who was threatening people in an airport
Don’t @ me without yo wits I’m with the shyts
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How long have they been in the game? Cut her some slack. She’ll learn. We all go through learning phases which is why we should never judge anyone. Regardless. It’s one thing to have an opinion and another to blatantly judge. Have a good day.
She over shares
Soooo the dinner meeting with the road manager?? That part?
Guys, it’s ok to like Cardi B and Nicki Minaj collectively. We aren’t winning gold stars for picking a side lol, like……………….
Girrrll i need a disclaimer in this bish ?
Ok you can Stan for her but their are plenty of successful black woman who can be the topic of discussion that are making positive moves
Dontchu know Im wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit the shit
I dont have Instagram so I’m curious… If she reactivates her Instagram account, will she have automatically still have those same 40 million followers she had before, or will she be re-starting from zero?
Anybody know?
She is like a JT and Tip song. Dead and gone. They done dragged her ass like a piece of tissue stuck to a shoe all damn day.
She’s a Virgo… Knows her worth so she pays the strangers dust but I’m sure she cares what those in her inner circle think… Plus she likes to control the narrative and approve of damn near everything before it’s printed about her…. Smart Woman
I just want to see her keep winning. She said it herself she reads the comments.
She feeds so much into social media you would think she would limiy her comments or turn it off smh!
I hope she stays off and gets her mental right
I thought I was the only one that caught that lol don’t let me find out auntie smashing one of the Carter knowles staff lol
I read they were from Chris
There’s plenty that JUST got in the game who don’t have mental breakdowns or rants because of people’s opinions. She puts ALL her business out there which leaves the floor open for people to judge her. She doesn’t leave anything for the imagination like real legends do. Have a good day as well
According to a poster below he deserves another Grammy
Most celebs have actual social media managers run their accounts and delete spam and respond to comments. I have done it for a few. Again she needs a new team
I’ve said it a 100 times on here.
She is going to cause her own down fall.
I get where you’re coming from, we both have a valid argument so I feel ya! And thank you!
Listen I’m educated and classy and I like her…she’s not beneath me. There’s room for her in my heart. I don’t know why she gets so much grief she seems really sweet TO ME. How she takes care of her mom speaks volumes more than the vulgar talk that the masses eat up….
Yes, Sandra stayed calling her a lounge singer…among other things.
Well now that she know, no one thinks she can rap. She should drop her pride, maybe go practice and learn how to pronounce words and flow over a beat… then come back and try again for real next time..
Ppl like u will be surprised how being rich and famous still doesn’t fulfill you.
When your FAMOUS ya career is mainly built off of what ppl think…?
She had to live and learn though…?
Off/On Topic…believe me when say, I’m not trying to be funny, purely observational. Does anyone else get The Little Mermaid vibes with that dress?
She will still have them….she deleted it last year after the Nicki shoe incident
People like me? smh. You don’t know me hun. I’m very aware that money doesn’t solve all problems, but it damn sure can make you feel better knowing that it’s yours and you worked for it.
Her mom. Her sister. Her manager. Went and gave out hundreds of coats in the middle of Brooklyn. Like folks cant see not shit but the fact that she says nigga and has admitted to gang ties. Its comical to me at this point.
That’s unfortunate…. She should be celebrating . That’s a big win. idc what nobody says… she worked her butt off. (if she wrote her raps or not) She still had to put in that work. Her album did numbers and all her songs were charting and breaking records… as a result she won. lol She going to have to grow some tough skin…
no correction she won by popular opinion of the colonizers that voted for her. If that is what you consider a win than we losing.
Naw Sis he’s hilarious… That who wore it better Floyd or Mary J took me out yesterday
BET tried to get some mo shat going between Cardi and Nicki. Someone at BET online posted something on IG indicating Nicki’s wig being snatched when Cardi won the grammy the other night.
Yes, she will. It’s the same as when someone deactivated Facebook. Nothing goes away, one would have to permanently delete their account. Which is what she needs to do since she’s so sensative.
Exactly. She takes good care of a lot of people. And as I’ve spoken of my estrangement with my own daughter I truly admire her for that…
GIRL. I thought of you the other day. I am about to have an estrangement with mine. She is 23 and is on my last nerve Coy. Will NOT listen.
She stop responding to every critical comments, and let her success silence the haters. She needs a new team for sure. Beyoncé, and Michelle Obama, receives more hate than anyone, but they let their success do the talking.
Noooow who on earth and why ??? within her “camp” thought to make up some bs from a deceased person to post on her ig?!? How embarassing ???lmao..reminds me of that scene in bridget jones where she was pretending to talk to someone of relevance at her job just to be called out on the fact that the famous person was dead ???..woow!! Who did that bs to her?!?!?!, anywho i still dont agree with her winning but mainstream music sucks hard (egg) and the industry has been trying to push blacks to the back while mockin and jockin our style to other races approvable to white ppl for decades and they seem to be finnally winning at it. Fame is a drug …thats similar to the devils candy! Becareful what ya wish for! Might not be able to handle it all…and we all know that many famous ppl no matter how rich and loved still felt depressed lonely and suicidal…so never let glitter and gold mislead u! Only the strong survive rather famous or not!
She’s a weak b*tch period. She has all that mouth but let’s this bring her down.?????
No one should be bullied but in this world of social media when you put your life on display for the world to see & judge You have to develop thick skin. She needs to take a break from social media. Hell we all do sometimes.
Oh no…I’m sorry to hear that. I will be praying for you these kids have NO idea what they put us thru ?
Beyonce told them “Best Revenge is Yo Paper”
She gets so much because she puts so much out there. She constantly is letting people in her personal life and stating her opinions and responding to critics. I didn’t say she was beneath anyone. Everyone is equal. Our souls are all the same. But you get what you put out and she puts out more negativity than positivity. She needs to move in silence like trained celebs with real management do.
That “to much too soon” dynamic is real. This is why we can’t despise humble beginnings because really appreciating the struggle to get where we are will keep us grounded. If we rush things or are so hungry for success that we forget to cultivate our character, we’ll crash and burn once where get “there”, which would negate the joy we should have when we see the fruit of our labor.
I doubt they do…?…quiet as it MAYbe kept….many ppl with lives aren’t thinkin that hard about them…?
You think Nas should take notes on how to win colonizers votes for a Grammy? I guess she worked harder on her lyrics than he did?
Some people are not cut out for that level of success. Talent will get a person material rewards but not necessarily peace of mind. That’s why a lot of celebrities are on drugs and offing themselves. They have outer success but no inner success.
She’ll be able to get most of them back… It was silly to cancel versus just stepping back
I agree and an even better revenge is not caring at all!
Tell that to all the wealthy celebrities (and people in general) who committed suicide and/or died from drug ODs. It’s a thin line!
That’s what happens when people are too eager to let everyone know how they think and feel. She needs to start doing her homework, lol.
Yes, she did. That’s what exactly she should do, but she can’t keep that mouth shut.
That’s exactly what I’m saying. She CANNOT handle it. So shut your thirsty ass up. I’m 100% focused on my life and therefore can comment on whatever I want. I’m not acting like anything. She’s mentally weak. And that’s FAAAACCCCTTTTTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS *in my Cardi voice*
She has the wrong people around her. She needs a better support system. She needs to find some better outlets to help her deal with the pressure.
She can sure dish that n-word and call women bitches all day/every day.
ok you have a blessed day dear
MF’s already crazy dear…..Be4 the riches…money added to it.
I agree. Sometimes people don’t recognize what they need until they get into a situation where they find they are deficient. Based on her background prior to her success, the way she reacts to things is her normal. Someone needs to tell her that in the world she’s currently in she needs a new normal.
Lolo…too funny. Then Nicki pulled out of the BET concert. She can’t laugh at herself?
NONE. AT ALL. No idea.
Yes, because you’re grounded. You would make the money versus the money making you. Now if everyone thought like that!
Nope, I don’t but if he isn’t BOTHERED by her win, then why keep using him as an example?
Beyoncé said herself in a interview that she used to read the comments and cry. She learned not to read them. Michelle Obama cried when she left the Whitehouse because she was happy all the ugly sh*t she had to deal with was finally over. No one is exempt from the hurt & pain from society, some just learn to deal with it different. Stop acting like these women are invincible & weren’t affected by the hate that was thrown at them.
By “people” I meant HATERS …..
( since I needed to explain that to the slow folks in the back )
Beyonce NEVER address’ them
except for once and made it part of her show …..
She knows her fans love her because she is still relevant
but address’ HATERS and doesn’t need to
Bingo! She’s needs to be more guarded.
Yeah she needs to go to charm school, seek a therapist & learn to not care so much. It’s eaaier said than done but once she does this crap will seem so little to her. I also wonder how much support her family is really giving her. Seems like she’s the cash cow for them.
Yes because if she doesn’t nip this in the bud now she will never enjoy the fruit of her labor the way she should. It is exhausting running around trying to convince people to like you. It’s going to take her some time, she’s young and not yet cultured. Hopefully she’ll get there sooner than later.
Cardi: A little advice from the mighty Beyoncé: “Slay trick or you get Eliminated”
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That’s a whole lotta dragging!
Its crazy the hardest part about being a parent is after they turn 18!
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Lolol I need this!
Right… We don’t know either one of those bihs… I shake it to both of their songs
I hope you and your daughter work things out. I was estranged from my mother for years. We have reconnected and it only works if I’m patient and don’t bring up the past (she has a substance abuse problem). Reconciliation is hard work so I understand. Praying that things work out well for you.
Especially since she’s extra tender
She was like
Seeeee even rock stars know and love me!! ?
Right now I live in Harlem near where she’s from. It is the norm for people to pop off quick because NYC can be stressful. I have to make a conscious effort to maintain my softer side after not having lived in NY for so long. Can’t wait to leave again!
Yea, that always killed me, lol!
She is not educated because she doesnt have a college degree? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3e41a330238a1243107e30677431e0398500b51d45f6420a5a8cc59b086e269b.gif
I forget she’s young. Yeah she’s gonna be fine, she just has to learn to weather the storms. Once I learned to not give a phawk about what people had to say ( especially family) life got easier.
That push to outdo herself will be a setup for a huge let down if things don’t work out that way. So many people crash and think they are failures if their sophomore effort doesn’t garner the same success.
Naw a college degree doesn’t mean you have common sense or are “educated”. But she clearly can’t spell her way out a paper bag nor have the sense to have a team that is professional enough to deal with her growing career
lol right! People are so caught up in the wrong things but it’s laughable
Thank you for encouraging and sharing that means a lot to me ?
Humility…stop hopping in social media for everything. She could have did it the old fashioned way and said send him a “thank you note”. Now that would have saved the embarassment and she would’ve found through research that he passed.
Believe me, I know what you mean re: family. Freedom from people is an amazing feeling.
It’s lonely at the top??????
You’re welcome. I got you covered!
Poor thing…
Boom ??
Yeeeees! Some comments I don’t even want to breeze by. I mean not let my eyes graze one single letter. BLOCK!
We can hope because Sandy been doing that for AT LEAST 15 years.. She has it down to a science ?
Cute ? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/fc1d7153e1174598d11518fc3aed9345794824dc696e616580051f34f5742d3b.gif
Forget the award!! What the hell she got on??
he is not an example it is a fact that he as rejected by them.
You should see the things that I decided not to publish. ?
Cardi and Offset are today’s Bobby and Whitney.
Damn that’s a little harsh lol… I’ve found that folks that usually got “all that mouth” are some of the most sensitive. She just needs to adjust to this level of hate and disrespect. smh
lol I was just saying this. I was like that starting to give me bobby and Whitney vibes…
You’re right. That’s is why she need a minute to get herself to get together mentally. These record labels are about to put a lot of stress on her just to top her success she has now….it might make her want to fold and go hide somewhere. Thats why she need time to breathe and remember the strength she has in her. I really do think she can pull another successful album BUT she got to stop worrying about people who don’t like her. She really need to take a page out of Beyoncé’s book….instead going after the people through social media….put it in your songs;. Respond back in your records; ” Of Course Sh*t Goes Down When There Is A Billion Dollars On A Elevator” (Flawless Remix)….people will listen, just to hear what you got to say….thats will equal steaming sales. Vent through your numbers….All I’m trying to say is Cardi need to walk away from venting on social media just like everybody else who do. People really not there for your feelings. Like they say, My Pain for your Entertainment. Something easy than done, you can’t let these people see or know you get upset with what they say. Then they know they got you and can push your button easily. Social Media is a blessing and a curse at the same time. Wishing her more success and a peace of mind.
Until you can walk in her shoes you should stay in ya lane
Real doozys no doubt ?
The hard part about this generation of singers is they are coming up in a time when everyone is living in a fishbowl due to social media. Straight off the rip they are thrown to the wolves of popular opinion, so they definitely need a team that is aware of that dynamic and can coach them on how to navigate it. Cardi needs to remember that probably to most people in her work circle she’s just a commodity. She needs to draw strength from the people who know and love her, and who can truly assess her properly. A lot of these people out here judging her aren’t right their dayum selves so how can their opinion be trusted? She definitely needs a mental health break to recalibrate and focus on what’s important.
THIS!
Nothing more need to be said because you said it all. You are so right. That’s where A LOT of these celebs fall off at. Surround yourself with a GREAT TEAM that look/love you as a person/family (that fully believes in you and your art) and not just a paycheck.
Right….but soon as someone comes for her neck..she comes unglued.
That is not what I am saying. I said they don’t respond to every hateful thing that was said about them…
Agreed, like that publistist who was trying to fight people at the Australian airport. Tell Cardi that Tom Petty is dead should have been her job. Instead she’s acting like Cardi’s bodyguard.
Cardi’s publicist was too busy playing bodyguard to brief her before making a fool out of herself.
She needs a professional management team who will update her social media for her. They would’ve known he was dead.
The thing I like about Cardi Bs music industry arrival image is that she never looks like she was a stripper she always has clothes on but the artist that never were strippers always bringing the stripper vibe.
Now her dress looks like that and she’s fancy but her dude just looks like he drunk too much lean. They didnt match at all. lol
Well she was better than Travis Scott thats about a tie. His Super Bowl performance sucked his lyrics are garbage too only thing he has is good beats but Cardi Beats were kind of better than his.
Girl?
That’s exactly what happened to me. Instead addressing me, someone who I THOUGHT was a friend, posted subliminal memes instead. Girl, Bye!
Some friendships run their course after a while. Exactly!
I can’t stand a silly woman. I don’t care if she’s making money or not. Anyone can make money if their willing to be on stage clowning and being the court jester.
Nah, not anyone.
Screw them Cardi!! keep on your grind
Smh I think I figured it out since she got her start on social media she relies heavily on what the ppl on there have to say by this time she should not be reading any comments or responding to anything negative! She is too invested in this. If she so busy and working so hard how she finding the time to read comments and be on social media anyway! She had a tantrum because EVERYBODY wasn’t bout licking and kissing her arse so she got mad and deleted her account. The thing about cardi and some of these other celebs is they respond to all the negative stuff all day so ppl come st them so they can get a response or some sort of recognition if she put that energy into responding to nothing but her fans and the positive comments there would be a shift in energy but noooooo she wanna continue to do hoodrat things with her friends.
Cardi’s publicist is too incompetent to handle her.
That filthy mouth though.
Did you write the album though? Produce the music? Anything? She’s not saying that part…
Right
Keeping that trifling man is gonna expedite it. A trifling jealous man will cheat and cheat and cheat just to destroy your self esteem.
They would be surprised that she’s not as rich as they think either…
I mean how hard is it to repeat what someone wrote for you and im so tired of hearing about she was prego you know how many women work while pregnant?
this the same tough girl that was going to dog walk somebody? Sympathy, payola ‘and milli vanilli gumbo soup
Okay the Petty thing was a bit much whomever idea this was Nikki maybe…..but only problem with this chick is the filthy language that overrides the non-talent…….Just confusing.
Cuz there’s alot of poor jesters out there.
I’m assuming Plmp monster kris has directed her to delete. Bad publicity isn’t a thing with Jenner and doesn’t pay well. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/02025ea2705ca50d24495b475aa627db62b4eb46d9083c498612686ab97df4cd.png
My friend worked up until birth. The baby was early, they had to call the ambulance to her work!
Can someone explain to me why it’s the end of the world if someone doesn’t write their own music?
Bitch shutup. If you can’t handle fame and criticism get another career. ? She stay popping off on social media like she about that life. Ain’t nobody scared of her loud mouth and clearly no fuqs are given about her rants cause they keep talking. Also, you sold your soul to come up. Stop flexing like it was your hard work. I’d slap her ass and then call the cops and say it was self defense. I’m that petty. Try me, Cardi. ?
Thank you. I was doing 12 hr shifts up until the week before I was induced.
Some haters don’t need explanations because they proudly hate but others make things up so they can act like they have a real reason … lol … Cardi’s fans don’t care about her not writing just like some of these other artists fans don’t care that they don’t really write either … The only reason Nicki keeps harping on it is because she thinks it makes her better than Cardi but no one else cares …..THAT is why she is so ticked off
Yes you did used to rip her azz on a regular, lol. People would be so mad.
I’m too busy trying to find her edges… Really! I’m too old for this new age millennial music. Is she missing her edges? Really y’all….
I thought I was the only one who saw this. She gotta slow down on these wigs….
I’m a Chance stan lol and yes I may be bias because he is from Chicago but he deserved that grammy for a few reasons. He and Cardi may have similarities but comparing them is apples to oranges for a few reasons, such as:
1. He does not have the influence of a record label behind him. He’s totally anti-label and is a independent artist. All of the artists he has collaborated with is a direct result of his hustle and shows the quality of his music really. You know you’re successful when you have big named artists WANTING to work with you, and not because of record labels power.
2. He writes his own raps. Nuff said. He put in the creative work on each mixtape he had. He didn’t have people writing his raps for him. Cardi had people writing her raps for her, producing her music, etc. So what was so hard for her to do?
3. His content is positive and has a message overall. He talks about God, political corruption, monogamy and love, and social injustices in his music. Cardi talks about shaking ass, money, materialism…. just ugh.
They both may have big connections in the industry and are still relatively new artists but Chance earned that Grammy in my eyes.
that was embarrassing tho
Because real hip hop is based on writing your own lyrics. Otherwise your just talking with an attitude… that’s how you know who is truly talented. Singing is different because your voice is the actual talent .
Hell Serena won the Australian Open while pregnant, what does Cardi wants. Girl just enjoy your Grammy, and stop worrying about what people are saying.
So diddy and lil Kim wouldnt be considered real hip hop artists?
Remember she comes from that culture that once they start popping out chirrens they go into semi retirement. In other words they only work enough to get the EITC tax credit. For Cardi working this hard after having a baby is unheard of.
She’s an embarrassment. The blacks are the only claiming this broad. The Dominicans and Trinis don’t claim her.
I’m embarrASSed for her
As for Diddy, NO LOL. Lil Kim is up for debate because according to her she writes her own stuff. Havoc from Mobb Deep also said Kim wrote her own verse on the Quiet Storm remix.
I thought I was the only one who noticed that most of her outfits are more tame than her peers’, which is interesting and unexpected given her stripper background.
It can be hard because u still have to make it look believable and have the attitude behind it which she has . Just my opinion tho !
I don’t get how she can continue to keep saying the N word over and over and don’t think it’s wrong. I get sick of the ignorance. And her team sits around and allows it
Because people keep letting her. Especially Black people. Y’all don’t check her. I let no one call me the N word or any version of the word. Not even a BLack person.
Fugg Cardi!!!!!!! Anyone that doesn’t have a problem with her using a word rooted in so much hatred has a serious problem. She isn’t getting a pass from me.
Let me tell you what REALLY HURT CARDI B!
Look at the picture above and reflect on the one from the red carpet. Offset is upset ?%. His feelings were hurt as he realized that Cardi is more popular than him and the object of much media and public attention. He never looked lovingly or with pride towards his wife. In the pic above look at their faces.
Cardi knows Offstep is jealous. She can’t fully enjoy her victories and success without feeling guilty because she knows her husband’s frame of mind, she just doesn’t know it’s called narcissism. Keep in mind that the very next day he posted a video of Cardi not at her best (even though birthing a baby is like a super human power). He tried to embarrass her with the pics of the birth of their daughter. He hates her fame.
We’ve seen this before, Beyonce & Jay Z; Reggie & Kim; Wendy & Kevin; Whitney & Bobby; Kanye & Kim etc.
Dumb ass .
She’ll be back because she’s ignorant and addicted
Same here. People want to make an exception because she bangs Black Guys. Hell No. that word will always be vile to me.
Love and light Cardi
Although I do believe she will be back soon enough not for attention but for her fans
I don’t think that would make her delete her instagram account…. if anything cancel appearances or performances, delay her next album, stop taking endorsements etc…but Instagram nah, that doesn’t determine your level of Success. In fact that really shows you how much people have you
Cardi black?No
LOUD MOUTH AND SERIOUSLY GHETTO . LOUD MOUTH LATINOS HAVE SURPASSED THE SISTERS ON THAT LEVEL
Diddy hell nah, when lil Kim was popping biggie was written all that. But after he died she had no choice but to finally write herself.But you funny ? you’re comment came in like damm… let’s not 4get she didn’t write that album
You ain’t never lied. He looks miserable.
Correct! Glad I’m not the only one that sees it.
This Caucasian lady was on another website asking if she should take her little daughter to a Cardi concert. I responded “only if you don’t mind your daughter repeating the n word.” That’s when all you could hear after that was crickets. ?
You can only do better, when you know better.
It is being said he’s only popular because of Kylie. I have no one clue as to one song he sings.
Hell her album was harder than the dudes in the catergory. ?????
Cardi,
Worrying about the opinions of others or how they may feel could be your downfall and demise, if you are not careful.
Enjoy your success, follow your dreams, just keep swimming.
So true! I saw them when they first arrived on the red carpet and they exchanged a look that wasn’t very loving. Watch her speech. It took so long for her to thank him because she didn’t want to.
This ??!!!
Illiterate people don’t like smart people around them because it makes them feel stupid or less than. They didn’t even research it. Cardi probably doesn’t want to be managed by real professionals unless they’re good like Patience and ready to kick some ass. Can someone post the video Offset posted of her giving birth.
My cousin said her dress looked like something you’d find on your grandmothers dresser ???
She is her own worst enemy. She can’t move beyond her roots. She’s the epitome of the saying you can move someone out the ghetto but you can’t take the ghetto out of them.
Exactly social media is the devil and will break her spirit and soul.
And they sure ain’t sharing their money
Share Sandra!!!! I want to see!!!
It’s easier to pretend not to want what you really desire
Yea she needs to stay off social media
Post the pic!
The real reason why she’s mad is because she knew she didn’t deserve it.
Lawrence Fishburne’s daughter Montana, who made the porn thinking it was going to make her Kim K, comes to mind.
Folks need to leave this girl alone….she works hard and she deserved the Grammy….hell I can think of MANY folks who have received Grammy’s that did not deserve them….but to hate on her for it…its petty. Apparently the Grammy folks thought she deserved it…so let it be…..its over with…period…hell…lets move on already….
Well that’s I was asking because the industry considers them “real” artist. I personally don’t care if a person writes their own music.
Well that’s I was asking because the industry considers them “real” artist. I personally don’t care if a person writes their own music.
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She’ll be back. *shrugs*
I like Cardi but she be waaaaaaaaay too concerned about what people think about her and that will ultimately be her downfall and why he career will stall.
Lol
I know you laugh at half the stuff you post cause I be over here cackling ?
And that was hard
IG has pics. Pics are an element of the marital problem. Pics show off her success and affiliations. It was taking pics that set off Offset. It was a pic of. her giving birth that he posts. A pic is worth a 1000 words. For him the say his wife is a bigger star than him.