I realize this is old to some of you, but I’m just now seeing it. VIBE magazine put a ruggedly handsome R&B crooner Usher on their cover this month. He looks like he just stepped out of a scene of Top Gun, the movie.
Usher told VIBE that he began contemplating divorcing the older Tameka Foster after she started nagging him about not defending her enough in public.
Tameka, a classic narcissist, was painfully aware of her poor image in the eyes of the public. She tried to exert control over everyone, including Usher and the bloggers who dared to type a negative word about her.
She constantly berated Usher publicly and privately for not standing up to the bloggers. She personally called bloggers at home and made subtle threats such as “I don’t know what Usher is going to do when he sees you out“.
Here is what Usher had to say when he finally opened his eyes and saw that he was being manipulated by a psycho:
“During our disagreements, that’s when I really began to contemplate marriage and if this is someone whom I’m compatible with. Anytime we had a disagreement or an argument, I began to contemplate: Wow, is this really gonna work out? I’m going through hell right now, given the fact that people have an opinion about our relationship. I can’t be unhappy at home and fighting the wars or the opinions outside… ‘You should’ve handled things this way,’ ‘I wish you would’ve said this,’ ‘You’re handling me wrong,’ ‘I don’t like the way I’m feeling about this’—it could be anything, man.”
Source: Fresh
