Men tossing their sons into the air is a time-honored bonding tradition. You hardly ever see a wife or girlfriend standing thisclose to a man as he bonds with his son.
Joe posted this image on his Instagram page with the caption: “When there’s a clear difference in parenting styles,” with a laughing emoji.
Sadly, that’s not what social media users see.
What they see is a mother who is fearful that her man is going to drop her baby.
That’s a shame, because they seem like a beautiful couple. But there is zero trust between them.
Most women trust that their child is in good hands with their baby’s father. Mommy usually stands back and laughs or take photos of the cute scene.
But look at the fear in Cyn’s eyes. She knows something we don’t know. Like maybe Joe has dropped the baby before?
Even if you are a doting dad, you only have to drop a child once, and the mom will never trust you again.
Joe and Cyn welcomed their son Lexington Budden last year. Lexington is the first child for Cyn, 26, and the second son for Joe, 38.
Both Joe and Cyn are alumni of reality TV show Love & Hip Hop: New York. Joe is currently co-host of “State of the Culture,” a late night talk show on Revolt TV.
Is it hot or cold?
BOL LOLOLOLOLOL right
I am happy for him.
No woman trusts their man (child’s father) to toss their pickney up in the air! TRUST NO ONE, especially with your kids! Cyn probably knows the capacity of Joe’s crazy!
I’ll trust you with my car , I’ll trust you with my bank card but my babies uhh uhhh no way josé, I just think she’s a good mother as opposed to him being a bad father!!!!
Cyn Santana is one thick female….Joe is lucky….
Who called the paps? Or did a loyal reader submit this dumb story?
The way Cyn is looking and damn near reaching out cuz she nervous Joe will drop the baby is such a mom trait. My husband does this ish all the time and I’m always nervous when it happens. Talm bout I got it babe, but do you really nicca do you chit!! But I digress. Cyn is so pretty to me. They look so cute together and make a great looking family.
Cyn is just being a Mommy and Watching Her child. I’m the type of Mom who didnt like folks much less their father throwing my kids in the air, I was always afraid they’d drop my children
She knows what we all know…. He’s an addict. I’d be leary of a crackheads catching skills too
bump her the baby looking at the kid! Most babies have a huuge grin on their faces when they have this done.. not him he is looking like he’s thinking these two can’t save me!!! Spider Man Batman Super Man somebody help a playah OUT!!
His legs in those jeans though… Ion like it lol
Filming for a show more than likely… Look at how people are circled around them
You betta not trust Joe with your bank card ?
I was thinking the same thang
Those tight jeans chile ….. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/280af94b4e6f9837031514beb46cc09bda7bed2baab942ea4293410403dc0c19.gif with those calves
just said this in so many words … smh !!!
He jumped up and down to get them on
Hahaha yeah maybe on second thoughts scratch the bank card too lol
Is joe wearing women’s boots?
Are those her jeans?
Skintight! ?
Its time to hit that gym Cyn. You’re one burger from being kind of borderline fat.
This looks like the similar place that he proposed to Tahiri. She knew better…she was older.
You are VERY trusting! I can’t trust no one around my damn bottled waters!!??? Teach me your ways chile!!???
What happened to him and tahiry?
That baby has been dropped before. Poor thing. He looks so scared.
Who dressed joe? ? girly ass outfit
Say what?
Drugs
“I can’t trust no one around my damn bottled waters!!”?
I guess cyn aint cold nor is the baby
Hmm, I have to scroll back up now.
I wouldn’t trust anyone who handled my child like a football. I had to check a guest in my home after he tossed his daughter in the direction of one of my ceiling fans; which was going full speed. The fan is industrial and looks like an airplane propeller!
Joe Budden is aggravating as heck. He thinks he knows it all. But I like them as a couple. His head shape is odd too. ??
looks comes before health lol
Chile… Like what exactly is the temperature?
Hehehe me too Sandra tryna say he’s not packing or what?
Joe got them new edition jeggings on…throw on some leg warmers and he’s jane Fonda ready
She should fear them tight a** jeans and UGGS combination he is wearing LOL LOL. Ok that wasn’t nice. Happy Thanksgiving Roses
Maybe hes in the latest nova
Cant stand him….after what he pulled with Tahiry…all those wasted years! smh. But…maybe this baby changed him? #DoubtIt
Lolololool
Facts! She loves to alter all her pics. I love this one ..come on cankles
He can’t be with his feet so close together. ?
I just noticed he wearing tight pants too. A mess, smh.
mess chile ….
She and the baby has the same frightened gesture… But why is he dressed like its cold and she like…..?
These pics from awhile ago…notice the chick in the shorts
Can’t stand Joe Budden. Period. He thinks he some kind of be all to end all to hip hop. Ironically Cyn bothers me none. He an ays tho.
I was looking at the shoes and was like …. my my my those are some nice shoes. Cute little boots. I wonder if they have them in a size 8 womens
I watched one episode of LHH when Tahiry was on it and saw exactly what type of female she was. She allowed him to do what he did and she continuously went back. She wasted her own time. Joe was just being Joe.
That whorish looking women is only with that gayish looking man for one thing$$$
She posted a pic of her in this dress in what appears to be the same area in early October. The fact still remains, Joe is wearing a coat w/ fur and her and the baby have on no outerwear.
No Way in the hell would I be seen in public with a woman with that on
He does doesn’t he!
My po husband still walks around the house with him in a sling strapped to his chest lmfaoo. I’m looking at the pic on my desk now. I’m hollering ???????
I’m trying to figure out if the dress is contouring around her wire bra or if the dress is intentionally made like that around the breast area. Looks a hot weird mess either way.
Joe said DO YOU SEE THIS COAT?
* Kanye voice
I gotta admit that joint is nice!
Exactly. The way the original comment is written I thought maybe he kidnapped her and wouldn’t let her out of the relationship.
? Joe always have flaws and all. All I got
You stoopid. ???
Cyn looking thick oh my
Who hurt you boo?
Yeah, she held on long enough to see where it was gone go….
Yes you have. I love you anyways lol???
and hat
Ahhhhh!! Great point
Nah they’d be baggie on him if they were hers
always ?
Her legs are thicker than his.
? Cyn’s face is pure terror looking at Joe throw her baby in the air like that.
Joe me and one of the Roses below said good luck on your Fashion Nova line bruh!
i dont like their story line. ? got my man Joe out here lookin like a limp noodle !!! i cant wait to watch tho….the Pod gonna give Joe hella nasty awards !!! ??
Hey… as long as the baby still fits why not lol
BYE COY!!! That d@mn song is in my head now. ????? almost made me want to do a two-step with a dip! ??
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Exactly
As nice as Pimp LaFlare?
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Joe’s is nicer. I like the color and the details in the back. This is too loud but it fits Gucci!
Sandra I love your body language diagnosis
Why the baby trying to catch his OWN SELF though (go back and look at the picture. LOL). Fugg Cyn! Lexington is like….
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????? go head sis.
Them Erica Mena threesomes must be legendary.
Aye ma’am. Not Radric. Nope! That’s my male bff and…that woman He insisted on marrying thus I accept her.?
Joe let me holla at you Big Dog. Those jeans and boots aint how we grown masculine men get down. Get ya sh@t together Big Homey!
What. Does he have on?
Thanks, hun. ? ?
That coat is popping tho ? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1acfde91d8d62414dd6f3272943de515a646b13064a75c0d0099b0a9f8c8feee.gif
Sis! He just needs to hand over the ENTIRE, New York and Co. outfit over to one of us!
Are her shoes too big? ? The baby is a cutie! ??
Yeah, that coat is fly, my style. I have one very similar its longer Im alot taller. I rock brims as well
Lol…that’s a mans coat the buttons are on the right
Oh you fly. ? Are you single?
Submit pics for the Morning Wood then… Cause ion belee you ?
Yup
Nope. Don’t toss my baby in the air especially where he could land on a hard sidewalk.
Yall cant handle all that, lol lol
Try us
Hmmm….where do you reside? How tall are you? You chocolate ain’t cha?
Like she should be wearing that out fit
6 ft 6 , America, …..wink wink.
Ion like the red… But hers is fly…as usual
You are gonna get me in trouble Renee’
North or south? My spidey sense says you got pretty teeth…
Bish stay fly
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LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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Skinny or thick?? Your build not your package…unless you want to tell us
Coat is DOPE
Girrl he got that WORK
Yes hunny
She looks just as old as Joe. Anyway his coat is nice.
What i see is a story line for love & hip hop
Lookin like a lady lol
Yes coat is ?
I’m consistent ??
LOLOLOL!!!
I said the same…soon as she started dating him she moved on in his house
Yup then blamed him…& they both were toxic & he was using drugs
Love the coat and cute baby but his paynts look tighter than mine.
Is it just me or does Joe Buttons look like a girl from behind???
I’m glad Joe’s coat is kinda long to hide his jeggings.
I don’t blame her for being scared. Absolutely nobody will dare throw my baby up in the air like that.
With those thick thighs!
Ohhhh my, clutches my pearls
Y’all had me scrolling back up to see what y’all were talking about….y’all ain’t ish! ?
Is his podcast good?
Lmao he does ?????
I love his podcast. It keeps me informed about what’s going on in the music world and it’s pretty funny.
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I honestly would have thought that he was a woman from behind..
I guess I should have scrolled down…I was thinking he looks like a woman from behind, and it’s not just because the jeans are so tight.
I guess we have trust issues then” Don’t throw my baby in the air and I hated it when there dad did that.
Facts! That baby looked like it was thrown way too high I would’ve been scare too
I mad a comment and that means I am hurt?
My uncle used to throw us in the air, or hold us up with one hand when we were young. It used to scare the piss out of me.
men are different with kids. so damned care-free.
didnt he used to have substance abuse problems? maybe he still does. i remember when my drunk uncle held my newborn son. i told him to sit his behind down in a chair or give him back to my mama who was holding him. drunk self trying to walk around rocking my baby. no sir.
He does looks like a Miss ma’am from the back
Yes…he does.
Lawd hammercy Cyn fine.
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Def not worth a story but it is thanksgiving and celebs get messy towards Christmas. Just an FYI auntie
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IJS
I’m screaming at Miss Ma’am
Yes, her build-a-body is on point
Joe is a known coke head. She knows he’s not working with a full deck.
Because some men don’t understand that it’s supposed to be a gentle playful toss that shouldn’t outstretch arms reach. A baby doesn’t require much to be amused. Some men go way overboard and it comes across violent and dangerous, not loving and playful. She should be worried.
And why is he dressed like a gay pimp lol?
Is 6ix9ine 50cents son?
the extra tight pants and boots are a NO
U R nawt!!
L0l@ My spidey sense says you got pretty teeth!
You laughing, meanwhile I’m picturing all that glorious titty meat?
You can see some issues in black american culture as they’re not used to males playing with kids like that. Used to single mother culture.
And those child bearing hips lol
I don’t blame her at all. If I was a woman and carried that baby for 9 months, I wouldn’t want some nigro to be throwing him up in the air like that. If he drops the baby, what’s he gonna say, “Sorry”? Nah.. sorry ain’t good enough.
No its a joke and they both crave attention
That’s toxic masculinity…. men ALL over the world wear their pants this way
So Funny, generated a serious belly laugh, when I went back to look at the photo, thanks!
Yup, Im pretty tall, my suits fit good though. Learned alot from my mom struggling to find cloths to fit me over the years. @ thattalioredlook lol.
Clair Huxtable was my TV crush, thank God for Cosby reruns !
Im a gentleman baby girl, a gentle giant. Strong silent type.
Why the baby doesn’t have a jacket on? It’s cold in NY this time. Smh all to look good on social media. Not worth it.
aight no thick thighed azz bih throwing my son ( and I’m not with the children) but nope. If you ain’t throwing my cat….fug no.
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I see I am not the only one who paused at his attire,
Somebody somewhere is lying.. nobody’s clothing of choice matches. Joe, cyn or audience. I was outside in just a hoodie last night. I wasn’t cold. My babies were outside in full winter gear ??
They were doing a promo shoot for Love and Hip Hop NY. Any mother would be scared for their child when someone throws them up in the air and what father don’t play ruff with their sons?
This couple is just too messy for me, I can’t take anything they say or do seriously because of their “roles” on L&HHNY. Meh whatever.
What was the weather outside during this pic??? I think it may has been warm because Joe is on this new “fashionista” tease with those Pilgrim hats and discos boots he be wearing on SOTC…
He’s a reformed coke head…
Exactly!
You tryna put him in front of the firing squad!!!! LOL
LOL!!!! I have too many uncles like this!! LMAO!
I think her boobs are too big for that dress…then…Cyn has lost some weight since this pic was taken…I tried something similar on a few weeks ago and the dress fit nice had the hourglass shape but the boob area of the dress looked like the underwire was gonna pop out smh…
Cyn looks good…she just had that baby give her some time damn…
With his history of drug use I would stand close too..???
Wait what? It’s her first child, I’d be the same way…protective over my FIRST child.
reformed dust head*
Where is that baby’s coat?!!!!
IKR! LOL
That’s what I was thinking…lol
I can’t stand to see parents bundled up and the child isn’t wearing a coat
Cyn gave birth almost a year ago. Knock it off!
chile dem dirt kicking arse?issa no
At this time of year I could be wearing a tshirt but those babies will be in winter gear. I know their little asses be stripping down when they get to school though.
Jo looks waaaaay older than 38
Every piece of clothing in that outfit screams feminine..
Yeah but some more than others lose weight fast…last time I checked there is no rules to how fast you have to lose baby weight…she looks good in that dress and while most are shaped like fire hydrants at least she has curves and filled it out perfectly…dont shame someone when you dont have to confidence to put you own pic in your avi…
I agree I was thinking 48?????
A good mom is a treasure. An irreplaceable gem. I know your mom must be proud of you too!
Me too!
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“But look at the fear in Cyn’s eyes. She knows something we don’t know. Like maybe Joe has dropped the baby before?”
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No, this is typical of ANY woman whose concern is the fact that he MIGHT drop the baby/child. We all do this. I trust my man and he’s never dropped our son but I still look at him sideways when he plays in this manner.
I don’t get this write-up? It’s reaching WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY out there in left field.
You said a mouthful, I totally agree.Proverbs 6:20-22
Ahhh! A Wise man.
I see you keep the Word close to your heart. It will cover you, guide you and take you places you never thought you could go in Him.
Enjoy your holiday, Guru!
Cyn is fat. I bet you are too. Happy Holidays!!!!
Awww gee, thanks Baby Girl, you too!
Save me sum Sweet Potatoe Pie!
The play activity itself is scary for any mom. I didn’t allow anyone to horse play with my child because it’s dangerous.
Well I know when my son was a baby I was over protective over him with EVERYBODY!… His daddy, his grandparents, uncles, aunts… I mean EVERYONE… because I was a new mother and because that was MY BABY… My heart and soul!… And I’m still over protective of him because he’s my ONLY BABY!
I’m just trying to figure out where SR gets her information. She actually sounds more crazier than informative. ANY MOTHER (I guess she wouldn’t know) would be afraid to let ANYONE INCLUDING DAD toss their baby up in the air, in the middle of TIMES SQUARE. I hate that I come to this site but I’ve been trying to give this uneducated, biased, and often LOUD AND WRONG blogger a chance. I can’t….
Loyal reader Malcolm Flex said: “You can see some issues in black american culture as they’re not used to males playing with kids like that. Used to single mother culture.”
^^^This must apply to you.
That’s a dumb rebuttal. ? I’ve seen white MARRIED mothers, Asian MARRIED mothers, Hispanic MARRIED mothers have the same look of fear when their husband plays with their kids in THIS manner. It’s one thing to play a game with kids (hide n seek, tag, etc) but with a little kid tossing them in the air, ANY woman would get a little paranoid.
So, her comment in parentheses rings true. Those with no children will never know this feeling.
To boot, please don’t quote another blogger that spews random, one sided, “facts”. It’s like using Wikipedia as a reputable source. ?
What??? ?
Nawww that ni99a hands still shaky from the use of crack he need to chill, just hold the baby Joe.
My parents are Jamaican. Jamaican men play roughhouse with their sons to make real men out of them. Playing hide-and-go-seek and tag is for girls.
Lol….my son’s father roughhouses too. But throwing a damn near newborn high in the air ain’t what I call “making a man out of him”.
Why are his pants so tight?
Yelppppp I totally get it!
Yeah the “fear” of a father actually going to drop their son as if the mother is the only one capable of unconditional love because she “carried” it. Shameful
Her dress is 5 sizes too small and not flattering for her extra large figure.
His pants are too tight to slide down his boots.
The baby and the mama have the exact same expression and hand gestures.
Is papa impulsive? That’s a very dangerous choice over cement. Perhaps dad is looking for a get out of jail by going to jail card. Doesn’t Joe have a reputation for violence? Wrong guy>
They both look super scared. Mom and baby
This mother is just being cautious. I would be scared as well but that would never be an issue for me because my husband would never throw one of our children in the air, nor would either of us ever allow anyone to do such a dangerous thing. I know lots of parents do this for fun but I personally think they are putting the child at risk because anyone can accidentally drop a baby or the baby could slip through their arms. I’ve heard of this type of so called fun leading to tragic accidents, it’s not worth the risk. There are safe sensible ways of bonding with your child. A baby is NOT a ball.
That is a very insulting and unfounded presumption to make about someone. My husband and I have two sons, both conceived and born in wedlock. We are African-American and from the south and we would never do this to one of our children. There are safe sensible ways of bonding with your child. Throwing a baby up in the air like a ball is child endangerment in my opinion. I’ve seen it done before by other people but I’ve always viewed as dangerous. I don’t blame this mother for being afraid, humans can make mistakes, if that baby were too slip through his hands, that would be a tragedy that could have easily been avoided.
Joe Budden is a whole ass 60 years old. I would be scared he’d drop the baby too
Lol I mean’t I’m a cat person and he sure as hail ain’t tossing my cat in the air let alone my child(and I don’t have or care for kids). LOL sorry, I musta had one too many drinks when I wrote that… Happy Thanksgiving!!
Y’all dumb asf……REACHING
Thank you so much for saying this.
I wonder if those are even men’s jeans. They’re tight on the hips and all the way down the entire leg. They look like women’s jeans.
Him reaching up like that told ALL his business with those jeans ?.
As a mother,I dont blame Cyn for being concerned! She carried that child for nine months and plus the baby’s face looked fearful too. I would had been worried too had my kids’s dad had tossed up any of our kids up in the air especially if they were an infant just like Lexington is.
IMO Joe is a fool.that baby is still very young to be tossed up in the air like that. I wouldn’t had trusted him either
Yes! They sure did
Exactly!
I would give him to pass for to be 54.Joe is a hard looking 38 year old man
Maybe he was high or drunk and she was like: ” n!gga, what are you doing??!!!!” Also, the child does not look thrilled and mom was likely more keyed into the child’s anxiety than dad.
Yes, well, you can’t expect someone who is NOT a mother to understand.
S/O 2 Joe’s boots tho lmaooo
Who cares what a loyal reader says? I have been with my husband all of 21 years and our son is 19. I notice with you Sandra…you know what. No need. You’re bitter. I’m out. Signing off,
Lost Reader
damn, she is obese and she better start eating way less and working out if she wants to be around for that cute baby and handsome husband.
No Im far from it but the way you talk there must be some blubber under that chin…everyday is a holiday over here honey…you sound like a middle aged incel type yt man…keep your personal issues to yourself unless you wanna post on your profile???
Most women trust that their child is in good hands with their baby’s
father. Mommy usually stands back and laughs or take photos of the cute
scene.
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ALL LIES. LIES LIES LIES….IF YOU’RE NOT A MOTHER…YOU WOULDN’T UNDERSTAND AND YOU ARE A LIAR.
They both need to be watched. Winter in NY, Joe’s wearing a wool coat and turtleneck, the baby has no coat on, why not? Joe is wearing women’s jeans.
my question is why does he have on a winter coat and a hat and such and she is out in a skimpy dress? Annnndd the baby has no coat either?
Again..you’re probably fat just like Cyn…like i said. I run a business. I dont have time to upload profile pics for a Disqus profile…that I just comment on for kicks. I am sorry that you have all of that time on your hands tho to do so. With all of that time you got…why don’t you and Cyn go jogging or something. Merry Christmas!!!