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[EDITED Nov. 13, 2008 11:17 AM]
A couple of loyal readers hit me up about this show yesterday. “Brothers to Brutha” premiered on BET Tuesday night. The show follows the career of five biological brothers who formed a singing group mentored by Jermaine Dupri.
Shakir Stewart, who signed the brothers to Def Jam, filmed his scenes in the show while he was still lucid. It’s interesting to note that Brutha attended Stewart’s private Memorial in Atlanta last week while his longtime boss and mentor, L.A. Reid, did not attend.
Apparently, top tier celebrities had to pitch in to help pay Stewart’s funeral expenses because Reid refused to even take calls from the family. There’s a special place in hell reserved for people like Reid who put money and self over a lifetime of dedication and loyalty.
I promised I was going to reveal more details about Shakir Stewart’s untimely death and the turn of events that led up to it. But in order to do that I would have to reveal a certain aspect of his life that is of a sensitive nature and can’t be written without casting Stewart in a negative light.
Out of respect for the family, I will leave that alone.
I’ve heard crazy allegations that Stewart was running from a certain rapper and armed gang bangers. But it’s a rare man who takes his own life because another man is gunning for him.
Men usually take their lives over money, lost pride or lost love — not because they fear another man. According to Stewart’s close friends, he was a man’s man with a strong sense of pride. And he remained that way until the day he died.
Shout out to Zedi over at Dimewars.com for the video link!
Like I said before, I am assuming he was dealing w/personal issues about living on the DL, being attracted to men and etc. BTW, good looking out on keeping him in a positive light so that his family doesn’t have to undergo anymore scrutiny.
I watched it last night .. and was Blown away at the Brutha’s talent.. and the senseless death of Shakir.
missmiami Says:
Like I said before, I am assuming he was dealing w/personal issues about living on the DL, being attracted to men and etc. BTW, good looking out on keeping him in a positive light so that his family doesn’t have to undergo anymore scrutiny.
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Yeah but we can read between Sandra’s lines.
Damn Im nosey, cause I wanna know! But I respect the decision.
Yeah I saw this, it was soo surreal to seeing this.I was shocked.
But, again, why should LA help?I know it’s the right thing to do and everything, but he can’t lend out money to any and everybody.There’s even a fund set up for his children, I would beg to differ that is enough to do.
Really?! Perhaps I am wayyy naive…but is being on the DL really enough to off yourself?? Wow…that’s truly sad…There’ a lot worse shyt out here then being on the DL! Goodness I feel sorry for his people!
Did this dude have a wilk or anything set up for his fiance/girlfriend? I mean even if he had life insurance more than likely it was void because he committed suicide. Talk about a downward spiral/taking the easy way out.
BTW, @ #3 it was somewhat of a joke. I read between Sandra’s lines and that’s how I came to my conclusion.
And don’t take what I say offensively.I said that because just because someone has money they have to do every and anything.I know he wants to, but sometimes you can’t.As my grandfather would say and he had said before he died “Don’t ever put too much money on the ground.” And money shouldn’t even matter at this point.
Still pray for him regardless and his family.
my bad, I meant a will
i hate to be insensitive..but, i too believe that he was living his life on the dl and somebody was getting ready to out him….very sad. that he would not just come out rather than to take his own life.
I agree with you guys that sometnig isn’t write but I will respect Sandra’s decision. I did not watch the show the intro song bugged the hell out of me.
Male homosexuality is really looked down upon in the black/minority community. So, I am knocked shocked that someone would choose death over being out in public. Not to mention when they are living a double life and pretty well off financially (supposed to be). It’s sad but true and unfortunately it has always been that way. Homosexuality has always been associated with whites and within the past decade most black males have started actually coming out of the closet in public but we still have a long way to go until it’s somewhat acceptable.
His family says he’s a man, yet he took his own life? And then put his family through the misery of having to beg others to pay to bury him? And you say LA Reid has a special place in hell reserved?
Unnnh.
my grammar is horrible “i am not shocked”.
sandra, you’re being awfully nice…why do you care? did you know him personally? his lifestyle and death has affected many people around him…if the info casts him in a negative light, he shouldn’t have been doing it…i don’t mean to sound insensitive, but he’s gone…the info you have may appear as hearsay/gossip, but it may help others as well…
And I would had no clue that he was a homosexual.It’s sad he chose death rather to deal.There is no bigger problem God can fix.
there was a case in smithfield nc last year where two supposed “man’s men” sat on a railroad track and offed themselves together. i heard all of the rumors including they had been busted having sex in the back of a car a few weeks prior. and police arrests are public records…
all i am gonna say about this before the comments disappear.
Ya’ll sure are quick to jump to conclusions.
That man could’ve had an unrealistic standard of perfection that he felt he had to live by. That can be overwhelming for some people…
If something was sketchy about all this, It will come out!
Sandra,
You need to tell it before some other website beat you to the story. The shame is in the suicide, not in how he lived his life. Spill your guts girl.
YAYYYYYY! I CAN POST AGAIN! THANKS SANDRA!
it’s no way that i would take my own life….i don’t care how hard times get, or what someone was about to expose about myself. i couldn’t do it. i couldn’t sit there and take 100 pills to die…and it’s no way that i could pull a trigger on my own body….i just couldn’t do it. it has to be something mentally wrong with folks that can bring themselves to take their own life.
HEY MY PEOPLE. . .I’M BACK!!!!!
AWWW MISSED YOU ALL!!!!
this really better be hermosa. and not somebody playing with her screen name. hit me on the other side to prove it.
Looking at the stories cropping up on this guy I am drawn to conclude that L.A. was distancing his-self just incase the story leaked about any DL lifestyle. If speculations are true L.A. wont need to hit Jenny Craig for weight loss sponserships (IJS).
L.A. People already know….
Hermosa!!!!!!!!
(((((((((((((((HERMOSA))))))))))))))))
YAY !!! Glad You Back CHICA !!!
Guess what I saw .. they have a Pollo Loco resturant opening in the Atl Area .. Imma be there .. LOVES me some rice and peas .. lol
WHAT THE BLOOD CLOT?
IS THAT LIL HOMIE?
KWALL – I THINK ITS HER!!
WHAT PART OF THIS STORY WAS EDITED? IM MOVING REAL SLOWWW TODAY!
hermosa! i gotta pick a post to show out on to welcome you back homes.
this ain’t the one.
i think “trick trick” might be a good one. LOL….
ME TOO @ BARBIE .. I re-read it and was like .. duh .. what was edited .. lol
and jayz is a socker sticker too!
I’m curious to know who was coming after him, damn Suge Knight? Who?
L.A. Reid could have helped.
He spent 1.3 million on his son’s stupid sweet 16 birthday party.
OKAY SANDRA, I FIGURED OUT A WAY FOR YOU TO TELL US, WITHOUT “TELLING” US…JUST LOG IN FROM A DIFFERENT COMPUTER WITH A DIFFERENT SCREEN NAME, AND PRETEND TO BE A FELLOW BLOGGER, AND SPILL IT. I MEAN ISN’T THIS WHAT BLOGS ARE FOR, GOSSIP…DAMN SANDRA, I DON’T WANT TO BE SITTING HER GUESSING ABOUT MY GOSSIP.
But in order to do that I would have to reveal a certain aspect of his life that is of a sensitive nature and can’t be written without casting Stewart in a negative light.
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We learn from each other’s mistake and pain. We all have issues believe it or not. Its when people don’t talk about them that they just keep repeating in our lives and others.
It really is me. . .the one and only.
Thanks to everyone that had my back.
I feel like I’m giving an exceptance speech, lol.
I really missed yo guys, I was going crazy not being able not to comment. I read all the shout outs you guys gave me.
WB Hermosa…
Kymy- Pollo loco is the BOMB, lol!
DB- I’m back to defending my girl Beyonce/Sasha Fierce.
did you see when dbrown said “lighters for hermosa”?? that was my favorite shout out gurrl.
i feel another banning coming on for my ownself. i just been real salty in my posts lately. idk why…yall better hold me down and goat send out an amber alert (since you sent out an albert alert for yourself) for me if it happens okay?
take a chill KWeezy … think about the c ocktail u have at the Cri-zibbb
kwall we got you!!
Kwallace, I did see that. I felt to special.
Don’t trip, we got you!
Hermosa Says:
It really is me. . .the one and only.
Thanks to everyone that had my back.
I feel like I’m giving an exceptance speech, lol.
I really missed yo guys, I was going crazy not being able not to comment. I read all the shout outs you guys gave me.
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LAWL!
yay!! Sandra is being awfully nice this week, respecting folks privacy, letting our dear sumthin like a cousin Hermosa back. God is good!! ( duh)
maybe i was salty cause herm got banned. maybe i’ll be better now.
don’t start you mess chuck. don’t make me say something bad on this man suicide post. i already said this is not the time or post for me to show out….
White box.
Herm welcome back.
Sandra said:
it’s a rare man who takes his own life because another man is gunning for him.
Men usually take their lives over money, lost pride or lost love — not because they fear another man.
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You really think so? Are you serious?
Who the hell left you in charge? How do you know why a man will take their own life? Have you ever asked them before or AFTER they did it? I mean who are you to sit there and give reasons when sometimes in most cases there is or isn’t a note. There was a story once, where a young man got pulled over by the police (at gunpoint) and guess what? He blew his brains out. Now tell me why did this young man take his on life………..
No rush, I’ll wait…………….*humming Jeapordy music*
WB @ Hermosa & KAT!
On the group I think they are extrememly talented and sound so well together.
NO disrespect intended but the demeanor of Shakir and the Uncle really threw me off — the entire show if you asked me. I just feltlike something wasn’t right about how the interaction.
ON Shakir may his family be strengthened. I think its awfully nice of you to not post the additional details Sandra – kudos to you.
On Reid is all your info heresay or fact?
I watched Bruthas (the show) and honestly 90% of the men (they all were black) were GAY or BiSexual. I thought to myself LAWD, which one of Brutha’s (in the group) will be TURNED OUT FIRST??? Who told their parents to let the come to the ATL? So young, so naive!!!! I do not know what else to say.
Charles
Stop hating. . .
HEY HERMOSA!!! (waving) Glad to have you back!
@ Kym, I think that I san a Pollo Loco in Marietta a few weeks ago…
kwallace577 Says:
maybe i was salty cause herm got banned. maybe i’ll be better now.
don’t start you mess chuck. don’t make me say something bad on this man suicide post. i already said this is not the time or post for me to show out….
LOL! everyone knows he killed himself not because he was DL he wasnt but because of long term depression and the fact that he was not performing well at his job and was about to get the boot, thats what i heard……………..
Hermosa Says:
Charles
Stop hating. . .
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I didnt think you were banned i thought you had just stopped posting, why were you banned?
@ Diva .. i will look that up .. When I went to Miami awhile back .. I ate there and was Very happy .. lol
and I’m a PICKY eater .. don’t like cheese .. or ANY condiment …
gat dang it .. they just sent a memo .. frontera tex/mex is sellin in the cafe … looks like Shrimp Fried Rice from the chinese resturant for me today .. lol
Also why would anyone want to be signed with jermaine dupri, LAWL thats asking to be dropped and have no $$$$$$$$$$$
oh dayum.. she let him back in too? WTF… he’s just going to get banned again. How many of his personalities were welcomed back in to the community?
for once I agree with you chucky. ( #52)
coaretained Says:
oh dayum.. she let him back in too? WTF… he’s just going to get banned again. How many of his personalities were welcomed back in to the community?
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i dont have any personalities, its not a secret you can change your user name its not that hard lol………
@ charles
I won’t be discussing the details of my banning to you. . .Let’s keep that in the past, lol.
HERMOSA….THE OTHER DAY SOMEBODY WAS TALKING MAD SHIT ABOUT BEY…I just let it go. I think it was Mimi08. I’m glad you’re back!
OOHHHHHHHHH I FEEL LIKE ACTIN UP! But, I know I’m on thin ice…lol
I like Charles he is very entertaining. At times he is a bit harsh and could curb his tounge but he is not the only person like this in the world. At least I know he has the capability of saying some foul Sh*t. He is what he is and nothing more nothing less. F*uked up friends of mine try to stab me in the spine.
HI Charles welcome back.
@DB
Mimi08 always be talking mad ish abouT B. Like she knows her and sh!t, lol. Nobody is on thin ice, if she let charles back, I think we are safe. . .hopefully!
Sandra–I was waiting on you to post this. When I saw the premiere Tuesday night, when we were first introduced to Shakir, he spoke on Janet, saying, “She’s back…Janet’s back”, “Oh, we just finished filming her video”, and wondering if the ending result of her relationship with Def Jam and his overseeing her project there, if that had anything to do with his death. He seemed like he was really behind her.
Hmmm as much as I want details, it would be wrong of me to ask you for them…so I will just say R.I.P….I have to catch the show my friend was talking about it this morning.
GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO SAW THAT BEYONCE MESS!!!
I’m just wondering why everyone jumped to the conclusion that Shakir was living on the DL. There are many things he could have been doing that might not reflect well on him.
And, I agree with Sandra…L.A. Reid was wrong for not taking calls from the family and not paying his respects. I am under the impression that Shakir worked tirelessly for this man and had much respect for him, as his boss and mentor. For him not to show his respects and/or contribute (if that’s what was needed) at a time like this is jacked up! Maybe he’s got something to do with the tragic events and how they played out. I’m still praying for Shakir and his family. This is a tragedy no matter what he was in to…
Welcome back Hermosa, KAT, & Charles!
Sandra! – I wonder if the family’s gotten any “closure” yet and if that’s ypur reason for not posting. I must admit I usually don’t give to much attention to suicides because it’s the most cowardly act anyone could do. – IMO (not to mention it’s a tad bit too late to get help once you die)
@Candi Apple…lol I like Charles too…at first i was a bit annoyed at some of his first few comments but at times he is HILARIOUS. welcome back…welcome back to Hermosa too! You know people say that someone is banned but I never know if it is true. I just always assume they are busy.
thanks iyonah. i’ve been gone for a minute!
thanks for the welcome back from you too kalvonel! it’s good to be back!
kymestry – there’s a Pollo Loco on Buford Hwy and Clairmont; also one on Holcomb Bridget Road in Roswell.
El Pollo Loco
3979 Buford Highway
Atlanta, GA 30345
El Pollo Loco
5361 Fairington Road
Lithonia, GA 30038
El Pollo Loco
891 Holcomb Bridge Road
Roswell, GA 30076
El Pollo Loco
2521 SE Cobb Parkway
Smyrna, GA 30080
El Pollo Loco
2390 Dallas Highway SW
Marietta, GA 30064
shoot .. YALL made me Google them .. the First one is 3.2 miles from my zip ..
DID THE FIANCEE NOT HAVE ACCESS TO HIM BANK ACCOUNT? I MEAN THEY HAD 2 KIDS TOGETHER I KNOW HE WASN’T WORKIN FOR FREE ….
I MEANT HIS BANK ACCOUNT
According to othersites he may have possibly been tied in with BMF.. and I can believe that it makes sense when you think about it.
OK … What is BMF ?
black me pphuckin ? ? what ?
@Kym:
Black Mafia Family, some ish Im soooo tired of hearing about!
Thanks keely .. thought it was Black Men Phuckin ..
I neva heard of BMF … *shrugs*
Kym:
U local???!!! Im late, but high-five!
That mess that supposedly had bl*ck Ent., and Keyshia Cole’s ex tied into it. Wont say actual names because I have no idea what the hail they were talking about.
Black Mafia Family the one where the two brothers started cocaine trafficking in the 80’s and was recently caught and arrested and one of the bro’s is doing 20 years while the other well known “Big Meech” (TI, Jeezy and alot more rappers rap about him and how big he did it here in ATL) caught 30 years. They are handing down a lot of indictments to those affiliated with BMF and one person that was involved even mentioned Jeezy name in trial and how he use to take keys and keys of dope to Jeezy…
*sidebar* Also recently the feds just recovered a stretch hummer that they auctioned off back in 2005 that belong to BMF well they recovered it June this year because when they auctioned it off and it was sold three times and rented a dozen times over to prom goers, wedding parties and etc… they weren’t aware that it had 875,000.00 hidden in it under the seats until another one of the BMF affiliates told it while being debriefed for an upcoming trial.
Man don’t I wish I could have just rented it for one occasion just ONE
^5 Keely .. i’m in Gwinnettxico .. lol
LOL! I work off of Steve Reynolds, and u are right to call it that!
Black Mafia Family…hmmm?
I’m selecting the mute button on that one.
HERMOSA……….WHY IS DLISTED MY NEW SHIT! I LOVE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I work in Peachtree Corners … Cool …
DivineBrown are you taking about the blog Dlisted by Micheal K? If so it is one of the funniest blogs I have ever read. I cannot go a day without looking at it 10 times…
Who is that Michael K dude?
He has me screamin’ every damn day! Did you see what that fool said about Aretha? and that picture?
I HOLLERED!!!!
BMF ..YEA ..ONE THE HEAD MEN IN CHARGE (J-BO) SISTER STAYED DOWN THE STREET FROM ME ….ALL SHE USE TO TALK ABOUT IS MY BROTHER IS A PRODUCER …YEA OF THAT POWDER SUBSTANCE …THEY USE TO COME IN THE CLUB AT LEAST 75 DEEP IF NOT MORE …AND IM IN THA LOU
Yes he is hilarious. You will be hard pressed to find any information about him personally… But I have had Hours of entertainment thanks to him. The things he comes up with are just insane! Once I was watching operation Repo on Court TV and thought the lady one there would be perfect for his “Hot Slut of the day”… Nedless to say I emailed him and within minutes he responded letting me know that she had not only been hot slut of the day but also the week…LOL His fast response just amazed me because he gets like a million hits a day…
#85 said:
IM IN THA LOU
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I’m thinking about moving to “THA LOU”, real soon!
I’ve been on Dlisted before and thought to myself, “I ain’t gone lose my job over this, I’ll stick with SR dot com”, because he had me hollerin’.
Have yall ever heard of the site:
you dead azz wrong dot com
It’s worse than Hot Ghetto Mess dot com.
Check it out. You won’t be sorry. LOL
the man … the MAN .. he’s got those sites BLOCKED … patting the screen .. thank GOD for SR … whooo saaaaahhh
LMAO!!! @ Kym – “Gwinnettixco” that was classic!
just wanted to tell ya I’m def using that one
I’m thinking about moving to “THA LOU”, real soon!
WHERE U AT?
Where is Kwall??? Must be somewhere listening to Wham.
lol @ kalvonel .. no prob .. I most def’nly have used some stuff from the SR in my daily life .. lol
# i think it was Kym or Kwallace humming Jeapordy music*
classic lol
Shakir was a high level executive. Why would his family need help burying him? Doesn’t he have some money in the bank? Doesn’t Def Jam owe him a paycheck? I’m sure just one of his checks is enough to pay for a really nice funeral.
I watched the show and I agre with the poster who said something was crazy about the uncle and Shakir. I wondered if he was on the DL and I read about the hummer and I even saw a pic with all that cash in it.
I SAW THAT LIMO & THE CASH – 3 LETTERS – O.M.G.
You are dead azz wrong is my other favorite… those 2 and this one are my daily must haves…I just dont know what 99.9999999% of the people in/taking those pictuers are thinking…LOL
SHAKIR WAS A CUTEY, THOUGH
damn i can’t get dlisted here(i guess i have to catch up at home….
DB, Michael K is the sh!t. He has me rollin every motha f*ckin day. I love him. He has the BEST blog.
WAHT IS THE ADDRESS FOR DLISTED?
dlisted.com
Im so jealous, ya’ll gonna steal my michael k. from me, lol.
dang ..THA MAN…got it blocked here
aww, that’s wack. . .
i can’t wait to get home ..i check all my blocked sites when i walk thru the door ….i don’t talk to baby girl , i don’t cook i don’t do anything till iget my fix!
Its blocked here at my job too… But we can get on thru our financial software…Nothing is blocked there and they dont track it. Whenever I am feeling down Micheal K can make me laugh…
‘Doesn’t Def Jam owe him a paycheck? I’m sure just one of his checks is enough to pay for a really nice funeral.”
Great ?’s that’s why I refuse to believe they were having issues burying him.
Now on the BMF … I amupnorth and heard nothing of them until the bust.
But geeessshhh … imagine riding in that vehicle and coming up on that kind of $ …would have been nice.
wow. still a sad story. i’d like to know what was on his mind so heavy that he felt he couldn’t deal with it. THEY say he committed suicide. how do we know someone didn’t off him??? THEY say he was in his house.
i can’ say LA’s obligated to come to the funeral. we all grieve differently. it could be too much for him. sad sad sad, even still to this day.
sandra, he was either strung out on drugs or fighting with his sexuality. not much left to wonder about.
***thinking*** – suicide is sad, but I think it is the most selfish act to be perpetrated by man… His girl, his kids, his fam, his friends, his clientele…all suffering over an image he has created and his fear of being exposed.
Even if someone was after me I would fight like hell to be with my kids. They would know that I went down swinging for them. Not that I took the cowards way out and did it myself.
Man… Why are so many random people contacting me today… I might win the Mega Million tomorrow or something so stay tuned. Man I could speculate about what happen but I’m not. My home girl use to fuc* with *** hardcore. Anyway, moving on. That’s neither here or there. I’m so bored right now..I’m seating in this damn Trailer rdy to go home. Suppose to been going to 10 pin tonight at Atlantic Station…Need a haircut though and some other stuff too. Anyway shouts out to the B-day girl. S.C. you still owe me some drinks pimping. Ummm I went of on a tangent didn’t I? Oh well…
I need to stop taking this damn hydroxycut…I think it makes me high!
VIPATLSTYLE
There things in the entertainment business that one do not want to dance with. Maybe the man had no choice either him or family.
I am sure if he was on the d/l Sandra would tell us on the spot. So it got to be something else.
this girl at my job turned me on to dlisted a while ago….hilarious website! that is one of my daily’s..including this site, cl, and a few boxing websites. i’m a boxing and gossip fanatic!
Here’s somewhat of an update:
-More Details of Shakir Stewart’s Suicide Revealed
A friend describes the executive’s troubled behavior, day of tragedy.
R&B star Ne-Yo sings at memorial.
Herb Smith told police that soon as he stepped out the door he called 911. Seconds later, he heard a gunshot.
A day after Def Jam’s Shakir Stewart committed suicide, the family of the executive released a statement:
“Over the past several weeks, Shakir’s behavior was inconsistent with the man we all know and love. As much as we all tried to help him, Shakir was in deep pain and largely suffering in silence.”
Now newer details are emerging regarding the “inconsistent behavior.” According to the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, Stewart’s friend Herb Smith, who was present at Stewart’s home the day of the tragedy, told police that Stewart was “wigging out” before his death.
On October 31, Stewart’s finance Michelle Rivers, first noticed things were strange with Stewart when they went out for Halloween. At a loss, Rivers called Smith to talk to him.
Smith says that he went over to Stewart’s Marietta home, to find his friend visibly shaken. Stewart never confided in Smith, nor Rivers, what was wrong and he eventually told Smith to leave the house and go “back home to his wife and children.”
Smith told police that soon as he stepped out the door he called 911. Seconds later, he heard a gunshot.
Rivers, who was in the couple’s kitchen at the time, found Stewart on the master bedroom floor with a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head— not the bathroom, as previously reported.
A private funeral for the executive was held Thursday.
On Friday, a public memorial at Stewart’s alma mater Morehouse, was held at the King’s Chapel in Atlanta, where Def Jam artist Ne-Yo sung “It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye To Yesterday.”
Guests included many of Stewart’s Def Jam family: LL Cool J, Chrisette Michele, Steve Bartels and Karen Kwak. Other mourners included DJ Don Cannon, Big Oomp, Atlanta City Councilman Ceasar Mitchell, and DJ Toomp.
A biographical video tribute (to the tunes of Michael Jackson, Prince, Maxwell, Ginuwine, Rick Ross and Young Jeezy) was played.
Autopsy reports will be available in 12 weeks.