The gay media has a new poster child to generate sympathy for their cause and to further their agenda of promoting gay acceptance.
His name Kirk Murphy, and he was a successful accountant until he hanged himself in 2003 at age 38.
Normally when a person commits suicide, it is usually due to depression and despair that has been undiagnosed or untreated for years.
But nowadays when a gay person commits suicide, the media latches on to the story and repackages it to push their gay social acceptance agenda, as if depression had nothing to do with it. Just this week, a former Duke University and Chicago Bulls basketball star leaped from the roof of the NY athletic club and plunged to his death.
His name was Tom Emma, 49, and he was not gay that we know of. So the media handled his death differently. A few paragraphs into an article reporting his death comes the words: “Sources told the Daily News that Emma had been depressed.”
Nowhere in the reports on Kirk Murphy’s suicide do you see the words “depressed” or “depression.” Why? Because it doesn’t fit the gay media agenda.
Even though he died in 2003, Mr. Murphy’s family knew that all they had to do was mention the words “anti-gay” and “suicide” in the same sentence and his story would make headlines all over the country.
Kirk Murphy was an effeminate boy who preferred playing with girls toys and dressing in girls clothing. So, when he was 5, his mother took him to a government-funded program at UCLA to try to cure his effeminate behavior. Dr George Rekers, who founded the program, was an anti-gay activist who was outed by a Miami newspaper last year when he was spotted at the Miami airport with a gay male escort whom he had hired to travel with him.
Mr. Murphy’s siblings blames Dr. Rekers and the UCLA program for their brother’s suicide, even though he took his life 33 years after the therapy.
According to London tabloid the Daily Mail, “Kirk’s family believe the therapy directly contributed to his death, and say he was never the same again after the sessions to get rid of his ‘sissy’ characteristics, which included instructing his father to beat him for feminine traits.”
CNN’s Anderson Cooper, who is himself gay, interviewed Murphy’s sister Maris and brother Mark for his 360 show on CNN last night. Maris, who was nine months old at the time and couldn’t possibly remember anything, told Cooper that the therapy her brother received left him “just totally stricken with the belief that he was broken, that he was different from everybody else.”
Well, he was different from everybody else. He was different in the sense that other boys don’t normally play with girls toys or wear dresses. But don’t let Anderson Cooper tell it.
And therein lies the essence of the gay media agenda: to gain sympathy to change laws that grants gays inalienable rights, such as teaching school children that homosexuality is normal.
The national media has a responsibility to promote the fact that homosexuality is not an illness or a handicap. Homosexuality will not be normal until 2 men can make each other pregnant. We are different and we should embrace our differences.
Good morning !
Sandra I couldn’t agree more. Not to be ‘insensitive’ to a man’s death, but I hate it when people jump on the sex (or race) card to find excuses.
@Sandra
I agree with your post 100%, but I am confused…you are a lesbian correct? It’s rare to find people who have your logical and reasonable perspective but who happen to also be gay.
GM Fe Fe!
Sandra’s line of thinking is just like my BFF who is also gay. She doesn’t feel like her sexuality should be forced on anyone. She just wants to live & let live which is really all we can ask right?
Fayla from all them pics you couldnt have picked a better one!
“The gay media has a new poster child to generate sympathy for their cause and to further their agenda of promoting gay acceptance.”
WELL SAID!
@ Fayla thats why I f*ucks wit you very well said
and kudos to you too Sandra for not being bias 
@Fayla
She doesn’t feel like her sexuality should be forced on anyone. She just wants to live & let live which is really all we can ask right?
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And this I ALWAYS respect…like Sandra said, accept that you are different and stop trying to make it ‘normal’….
Morning Luscious! Nice Pic
& this is the last thing I will say on this matter…I have no problem whatsoever with what anyone does in the privacy of their bedroom. That’s ALL our right. What i do have a problem with is them trying to put it in school. Especially in the formative years. I think kids should have time to decide based on their feelings if they r gay not bc they were introduced to it at school. JMO!!!
What i do have a problem with is them trying to put it in school. Especially in the formative years.
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Thanks FeFe
@ @ Fayla and all: the gay agenda is being pushed mainly by gay males in the media cough*Anderson Cooper*cough, who want you to have their cake and eat it too. :wave:
Feline Feminine says:
@Sandra
I agree with your post 100%, but I am confused…you are a lesbian correct?
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Yes, I am a lesbian, but I am not blinded by my own selfish needs like those in the media who have their particular agendas. I don’t want children taught that homosexuality is normal. Society is already screwed up enough as it is.
@Sandra
Yes, I am a lesbian, but I am not blinded by my own selfish needs like those in the media who have their particular agendas. I don’t want children taught that homosexuality is normal. Society is already screwed up enough as it is.
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*n my Shenene voice* Oh MY GOOOODNESS! Sandra spoke to me?
(wonders if Sandra knows she’s my friend in my head) 
….I smell a major lawsuit….
Feline Feminine says:
What i do have a problem with is them trying to put it in school. Especially in the formative years.
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So do you have a problem with stereotyping children as gay when they are in the formative years and possibly screwing them up and not allowing them to go through a phase?
Sandra Rose says:
Yes, I am a lesbian, but I am not blinded by my own selfish needs like those in the media who have their particular agendas. I don’t want children taught that homosexuality is normal. Society is already screwed up enough as it is.
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So you don’t consider yourself normal?
Wow. Now I see why you seem so bitter toward celebrities in your posts.
I agree with 99% of what you said Sandra!
You know I wasn’t going to admit to that extra 1%
@FeFe u no like my new hairdo??
@Luscious girl I might be changing the gravi all day, I mean it was a plethora of HOTMESSNESS!!
He died in 03 he had Sissy Therapy when he was 5? So nothing else could have possibly happened between that time that would make him committ suicide? He was 38 I mean it some things I went through when I was a kid that I remeber but Im not holding it like that to where I cant live with it. This is crazy to me I mean come on this was 8 years ago. They need to stop trying to force Homosexuality on people!
Damn Aunt Sandy, tell them what it is. You are spittin truth all up and through this post.
renegadesince1985 says:
I agree with 99% of what you said Sandra!
You know I wasn’t going to admit to that extra 1%

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2003?
Why is this being brought up now?!?!?
Mornin Al
My BFF is gay and he doesn’t force his sexuality on anybody either. He wants to be allowed to do him and stay true to himself. For all the years we’ve been tight he’s always been this way! He stays true to HIMSELF! That’s why I love him like I do and will shank somebody over him! LOL
@Bogart, you ain’t the only one.
@ Sandra
Very well put! I’ll admit that I was shocked to read your stance on the issue but I couldn’t agree with you more. If you’re gay…be it but in all honesty I think everyone knows it isn’t “right”. I hate to say it like that but it is what it is.
You summed it up best by saying that a gay/lesbian couple can’t make kids. God created us for many reasons I believe. One of those being to procreate. If you use common sense you have to know that living a gay/lesbian lifestyle isn’t ideal to what God would want for that simple reason…you can’t procreate. No more kids, no more us…the human race dies off. It’s just that simple.
@Roderick
First, I did not make that original statement, I was only agreeing with the person who did, but to answer your question, no…children should not be stereotyped, they are delicate and in their developmental stages. But, they should also not be enabled to go with something that is not normal or gender appropriate…some people think it’s no big deal to let a boy wear a dress and they call it a phase, I do not agree with allowing that type of behavior, and I have a right to not agree…last time I checked children needed GUIDANCE, because, well, they are children …
wow i remember this …Hey Sandra you remember the story where this mother gave birth to twin boys and they did an experiment with raising one as a girl..( i believe?) that one was crazy tooo. The boy ended up committing suicide its a documentary i forget the name.. but white family looks similar to this one
Mornin Lucious!
Thanks GAGirl
I don’t think this family is trying to force a “gay” agenda down anyone’s throat. All they are trying to say is they feel this therapist’s treatment of their brother left him with lasting psychological scars. I read a more in-depth article about this case on another website and he was treated very harshly for being who he was. The reasons it’s coming out now is because the brother just told the younger sister who was too young to remember when the therapy occurred. And it not even about their brother but it’s moreso about this quack of a doctor who built his career off of “successfully” turning their brother into a straight man.
How would they know that he committed suicide because of the therapy?? are they therapists themselves?? Were they with him 24/7?? It seems like a good percentage of sexually confused or questioning people are depressed because they cannot/refuse to accept themselves, leading to the cycle of depression etc.
I can’t take people like this seriously because having grown up with gay cousins, uncles, friends etc. to me being gay only depresses you if you let it. Change your circumstances and your surroundings and it will change your whole mindset. Looking at them only makes me wanna smdh and smack these idiots.
Sandra you blowing me with the post this morning…Anything in Celeb news??? lol
ALBoy says:
He died in 03 he had Sissy Therapy when he was 5? So nothing else could have possibly happened between that time that would make him committ suicide?
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Stop that! You’re making way too much sense.
Watch the same mess happen to that couple in Canada who refuse to give the gender of their child, talking bout how gender is determined by society and they want to free their kids and chit. So sad.
Feline Feminine says:
@Roderick
First, I did not make that original statement, I was only agreeing with the person who did, but to answer your question, no…children should not be stereotyped, they are delicate and in their developmental stages.
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Huh?
The stereotyping is what led to this mother to believe her son was going to be gay and therefore the quack therapy which may or may not have caused this man to struggle with who he was until he committed suicide.
But, they should also not be enabled to go with something that is not normal or gender appropriate…some people think it’s no big deal to let a boy wear a dress and they call it a phase, I do not agree with allowing that type of behavior, and I have a right to not agree…last time I checked children needed GUIDANCE, because, well, they are children …
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Guidance as to what? Like I said sometimes society can be cruel and it forces people into the gay lifestyle because they stereotype certain behavior.
Even Sandra admitted she liked boys when she was growing up but because she wasn’t feminine(tomboy) people treated her as if she were a lesbian and after all of the rejection from boys she ended up a lesbian.
All I am saying is if you treat a person a certain way they will grow up believing that is what they are.
Sandra Rose says:
Yes, I am a lesbian, but I am not blinded by my own selfish needs like those in the media who have their particular agendas. I don’t want children taught that homosexuality is normal. Society is already screwed up enough as it is.
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How can you teach sexuality? People like what they like, point blank period. Thats why we have politicians sending pics of their paynuses to people. You should know that being a late in life lesbian like yourself.
@ Mother Jefferson…You actually can teach sexuality. Just like you can teach racism.
RoderickXYZ says:
Even Sandra admitted she liked boys when she was growing up but because she wasn’t feminine(tomboy) people treated her as if she were a lesbian and after all of the rejection from boys she ended up a lesbian.
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Oh, please. I never said I turned gay because I was rejected by boys. Good try though!
Mother Jefferson says:
How can you teach sexuality? People like what they like, point blank period. Thats why we have politicians sending pics of their paynuses to people. You should know that being a late in life lesbian like yourself.
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First of all, I was a lesbian as far back as 5 years old, I just didn’t know what it was back then. Secondly, sexuality is already being taught in schools. I am not saying schools are teaching children HOW TO BE GAY, because that can’t be taught. I’m saying I don’t think they should teach “Homosexuality 101” in school as if it’s normal. Good try though.
Oh, please. I never said I turned gay because I was rejected by boys. Good try though!
Huh? Well I made a mistake but you did say that people called you a tomboy and other names which is stereotyping.
I grew up with this girl and after I had been away from home a long time my mom mentioned something to the affect that she must like boys because she drives around with loud music playing and acted mannish.
Black folks and their stereotypes.
@Roderick
This is a topic that we will have to agree to disagree on…
Sandra Rose says:
First of all, I was a lesbian as far back as 5 years old, I just didn’t know what it was back then. Secondly, sexuality is already being taught in schools. I am not saying schools are teaching children HOW TO BE GAY, because that can’t be taught. I’m saying I don’t think they should teach “Homosexuality 101? in school as if it’s normal. Good try though.
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How can it NOT be normal for that individual child if you said you were a lesbian at five? You obviously didn’t chose to be a lesbian since you admit you didn’t know what being a lesbian was at that age.
I just don’t get the homophobia coming from a lesbian.
RoderickXYZ says:
Huh? Well I made a mistake but you did say that people called you a tomboy and other names which is stereotyping.
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You know how many millions of girls grow up being called tomboys and they turned out to be heterosexual? If anyone is stereotyping here, it’s you. First you say that I turned lesbian because boys rejected me, which is ridiculous! Now you say, oh, I must have turned gay because I was called names? Give me a break
@Roderick
I honestly think Sandra is stating that it is still considered a deviant behavior, whether it rose its head at the age of 5 or later in life…it is still a lifestyle that does not produce life or any further addition to the world…it is what it is and those who want to partake in it should feel free to do so in their own homes, but it should not be pushed down general society’s throats as normal…it is DIFFERENT …
When you say there’s a gay agenda to make homosexuality “normal” I have to disagree. I think the gay agenda is for equal and fair treatment. As far as what is normal…sexuality is normal. Most all people are sexual in some way. However, sexual proclivities, turn ons, and orientations can be very different. A gay person is a normal person, only his or her sexual orientation is different than a heterosexuals. And the term normal is very general…what’s normal?..wer’re all different is some way. I’m assuming the general normal adult is one who goes to work every day, pays theirs bill, might have some sort of romantic relationship, and is good, law abiding citizen. So Sandra, I don’t know you personally, but unless your sexual orientation totally defines who you are, I hate to break it to you, you’re probably a normal person who happens to be a lesbian.
@ RoderickXYZ: just because I was a lesbian at age 5 does not mean that homosexuality is normal. Homosexuality will not be normal until men can impregnate men. I apologize if I don’t have an agenda to push my sexuality on people like you do.
i dnt think shes being homophobic. i think shes right. Homosexuality needs not to be something that is taught in school. Its along the same lines as religion in that aspect. Shes not saying there anything wrong with being homosexual but would any of you want your child forced to practice another religion in school simply because it is whats considered “normal”? and who gets to decide whats normal? whats normal for one may not be normal for another and it becomes a slippery slope situation.
Feline Feminine says:
Roderick
I honestly think Sandra is stating that it is still considered a deviant behavior, whether it rose its head at the age of 5 or later in life
Wow. No one is pushing anything down anyone’s throat. This thread is about how some quack may have screwed up a kid because assumptions were made about his sexuality when he was really young.
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…it is still a lifestyle that does not produce life or any further addition to the world…it is what it is and those who want to partake in it should feel free to do so in their own homes, but it should not be pushed down general society’s throats as normal…it is DIFFERENT …
LOL. So the only reason people were placed on this earth was to reproduce? LOL
Look where that simple attitude has gotten a large percentage of the population of black folks especially in the inner city where you have women with four or five kids with three or four different daddies and no means of support except your tax dollars and mine.
@ Sandra….I definitely agree w/you 100%. I am a lesbian and I’ve never been that “marching, protesting, activist” type and this confuses the hell out of my STRAIGHT friends nonetheless. I am successful, in a relationship for 10 years to a wonderful person and that’s enough for me! I do understand where others who have that agenda comes from because EVERYONE has some sort of agenda @ some point, it’s just not mine. What I do in my own bedroom is my business, unless someone wants to join in (just kidding).
Sandra Rose says:
@ RoderickXYZ: just because I was a lesbian at age 5 does not mean that homosexuality is normal. Homosexuality will not be normal until men can impregnate men. I apologize if I don’t have an agenda to push my sexuality on people like you do.
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Normalcy for one person is never going to be same as or similar to the next person. People usually learn that through life circumstances. Its interesting that you associate sexuality with that so much.
vjackson says:
So Sandra, I don’t know you personally, but unless your sexual orientation totally defines who you are, I hate to break it to you, you’re probably a normal person who happens to be a lesbian.
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Really? I didn’t know that. Thanks for enlightening me.
Now back to reality, however you dress it up: homosexuality is abnormal just like any other sexual behavior that deviates from the norm. And, by “normal,” I am referring to sexuality between a male and female that produces life. The day that homosexuality can produce life, then it can be considered normal. I hope that helps?
RoderickXYZ says:
Look where that simple attitude has gotten a large percentage of the population of black folks especially in the inner city where you have women with four or five kids with three or four different daddies and no means of support except your tax dollars and mine.
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That’s another unfair stereotype and generalization there as well. Other races do that just as much if not more than blacks its just that they are taught to sweep it under the rug and not glorify it. Also, when a white woman is on public assistance, she is is a “tough situation and needed it to make ends meet” but when a black woman does the same shes “a welfare queen just living off the system”.
(sighs)
I don’t think I can do this today so I’ll just move it along right now…
RoderickXYZ says:
So the only reason people were placed on this earth was to reproduce? LOL
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Believe it or not: yes. That’s the only reason animals are here as well: to further the species. But humans with our narcissistic mindset believe we were put here on earth for some greater purpose, which will never be greater than furthering the species.
Homosexuality ISN’T normal. No matter how you try to slice it it just isn’t.
That’s like saying a baby born with 7 fingers on one hand is normal because that just how they are. No it’s not. It’s normal for you to have 5 fingers and anything other than that IS NOT NORMAL.
Same goes for sexuality. If only men were with men and women were with women the earth would not be populated because men can’t reproduce with men and women can’t reproduce with women. It WILL NEVER HAPPEN. Therefor how can it be normal when it doesn’t produce life naturally?
@ Mamacita…..we’ll just all be on the “down-low” w/women sleeping w/men & vise versa!
@Tatted LMAO!!!!
PrytiBrownIs says:
i dnt think shes being homophobic. i think shes right. Homosexuality needs not to be something that is taught in school. Its along the same lines as religion in that aspect. Shes not saying there anything wrong with being homosexual but would any of you want your child forced to practice another religion in school simply because it is whats considered “normal”? and who gets to decide whats normal? whats normal for one may not be normal for another and it becomes a slippery slope situation.
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How in the heck did we get on the subject of teaching the existance of homosexuality in the classroom when the post is about this man being screwed up as a kid because his mom sent him to ‘sissy’ therapy as a kid?
Furthermore black people sexualize their children too early anyway. Asking a five year old if he/she has a girlfriend or boyfriend and allowing them to dress anyway is not a good thing.
Wow!!! Sandra, I have a new found respect for you. What you’ve said here today should bottled up and SOLD!! Well said, my dear. Well said.
PrytiBrownIs says:
RoderickXYZ says:
Look where that simple attitude has gotten a large percentage of the population of black folks especially in the inner city where you have women with four or five kids with three or four different daddies and no means of support except your tax dollars and mine.
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That’s another unfair stereotype and generalization there as well. Other races do that just as much if not more than blacks its just that they are taught to sweep it under the rug and not glorify it. Also, when a white woman is on public assistance, she is is a “tough situation and needed it to make ends meet” but when a black woman does the same shes “a welfare queen just living off the system”.
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You purposely missed my point which was which is more detrimental to blacks–gays who don’t have any children or black heteros who turbo breed and fill our community with dysfunctional citizens who sell drugs, commit violence and populate the prison system?
@Roderick
LMAO! Cause gay folks are not capable of being derelicts and criminals as well!
I’ve got too much to say on this topic that is not nice at all, so I’ll keep it short & sweet:
1) I
Sandra all day
2) Blacks folks aren’t the only ones “turbo-breeding.”
3) At least most Black folks understand the use of “turbo-breeding” as that’s why we really have sexual organs anyway, to BREED.
4) It IS NOT NORMAL to have homosexual proclivities, hence why kids can never be bought forth from such a coupling.
5) I am not religious in any way, but honestly, we really are only here to populate the earth. Sex was not intended to be pleasurable at all, but rather as a duty to fulfill.
6) That bullsh*t should not be taught in school any kind of way.
Any questions?
Oh- and…
9) The people involved in the topic of this post are simple as hell. Sissy training 30+ years ago did not make their brother off himself. The inability to cope with his “reality” did that. And who knows if it was simply his “gay” reality that caused it, or other facets of his life that did it.
Anderson Cooper and the sissy trainee’s siblings need to have a whole stadium of seats!
@RoderickXYZ
Sandra Rose says:
First of all, I was a lesbian as far back as 5 years old, I just didn’t know what it was back then. Secondly, sexuality is already being taught in schools. I am not saying schools are teaching children HOW TO BE GAY, because that can’t be taught. I’m saying I don’t think they should teach “Homosexuality 101? in school as if it’s normal. Good try though.
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thats where we got on the subject of teaching homosexuality in schools as if its normal. You’re accusing Sandra of being a homophobe when in actuality all shes saying is that its not normal and i think thats a big statement coming from a lesbian.
Sandra Rose says:
Believe it or not: yes. That’s the only reason animals are here as well: to further the species. But humans with our narcissistic mindset believe we were put here on earth for some greater purpose, which will never be greater than furthering the species.
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So if you really believe that and you’re a 100%$ lesbian then you may as well kill yourself because you have no reason to exist.
Mamacita says:
Homosexuality ISN’T normal. No matter how you try to slice it it just isn’t.
That’s like saying a baby born with 7 fingers on one hand is normal because that just how they are. No it’s not. It’s normal for you to have 5 fingers and anything other than that IS NOT NORMAL.
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If Sandra has only had sex with women, and she had sex with a man today, that would not be “normal” for her. What is “normal” varies from person to person.
And trust, there is plenty of narcissistic behavior that can go along with having children. We would have so many bad assed kids today if that wasnt the case. Some of these parents think they child can do no wrong, and they end up OVER sexualized as a result.
RoderickXYZ says:
You purposely missed my point which was which is more detrimental to blacks–gays who don’t have any children or black heteros who turbo breed and fill our community with dysfunctional citizens who sell drugs, commit violence and populate the prison system?
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actually i didn’t miss ur point…i pointed out an unfair stereotype. The people involved aren’t even black yet you have based you’re entire argument on the black race. if we’re talking about white people then lets discuss white trash that “turbo breeds”, sell drugs and commit violence.
StillASassyOne says:
Oh- and…
9) The people involved in the topic of this post are simple as hell. Sissy training 30+ years ago did not make their brother off himself. The inability to cope with his “reality” did that. And who knows if it was simply his “gay” reality that caused it, or other facets of his life that did it.
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So you’re discounting what those closest to him are saying?
I am guessing that the man who committed suicide had confided in his brother and that is why we’re having the conversation.
@Mother Jefferson
Ok, so let’s take a serial killer for example. Killing is “normal” for them right?
That doesn’t make killing a normal act that people should participate in does it?
StillASassyOne says:
@Roderick
LMAO! Cause gay folks are not capable of being derelicts and criminals as well!
I’ve got too much to say on this topic that is not nice at all, so I’ll keep it short & sweet:
1) I
Sandra all day
2) Blacks folks aren’t the only ones “turbo-breeding.”
3) At least most Black folks understand the use of “turbo-breeding” as that’s why we really have sexual organs anyway, to BREED.
4) It IS NOT NORMAL to have homosexual proclivities, hence why kids can never be bought forth from such a coupling.
5) I am not religious in any way, but honestly, we really are only here to populate the earth. Sex was not intended to be pleasurable at all, but rather as a duty to fulfill.
6) That bullsh*t should not be taught in school any kind of way.
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and there you have it
@Roderick
So you’re discounting what those closest to him are saying?
I am guessing that the man who committed suicide had confided in his brother and that is why we’re having the conversation.
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Indubitably.
I don’t waste my time guessing at sh*t. His brother never said that in the interview, so I won’t infer it. And if (ineffective) sissy-free training from 33 years prior caused him to off himself much later in life, he obviously had a whole myriad of unresolved issues and being gay was probably the smallest one. Like I said, that immediately translates into him being unable to “cope” with reality, some 33 years later.
gays who don’t have any children or black heteros who turbo breed and fill our community with dysfunctional citizens who sell drugs, commit violence and populate the prison system?
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But you admit both are fcked up…just one is a lesser fcked upidness?
Mamacita says:
@Mother Jefferson
Ok, so let’s take a serial killer for example. Killing is “normal” for them right?
That doesn’t make killing a normal act that people should participate in does it?
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Wow so I guess murder is the equivalent of Sandra having sex with a woman now?
And I guess rape is ok too since a child can be brought forth that too.
Keep living you all.
Feline Feminine says:
But you admit both are fcked up…just one is a lesser fcked upidness?
LOL. Uh no because one affects me ( children bred without guidance) and the other one doesn’t.
LOL. Uh no because one affects me ( children bred without guidance) and the other one doesn’t.
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Well that’s not everyone’s story, like you said, let’s stick to the topic… or again, let’s not and just understand that we both have VERY differing views all around…
RoderickXYZ says:
So if you really believe that and you’re a 100%$ lesbian then you may as well kill yourself because you have no reason to exist.
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Then who would update this blog?
StillASassyOne says:
Indubitably.
I don’t waste my time guessing at sh*t. His brother never said that in the interview, so I won’t infer it. And if (ineffective) sissy-free training from 33 years prior caused him to off himself much later in life, he obviously had a whole myriad of unresolved issues and being gay was probably the smallest one. Like I said, that immediately translates into him being unable to “cope” with reality, some 33 years later.
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You guessed when you assumed that the sissy therapy didn’t have anything to do with this man’s suicide.
Furthermore ask anyone who’s been bullied regardless of age and they can tell you that it still bothers them today.
My mom is 70 and she can recount the names she was called when she was maybe 5.
What about those alter boys who had their lives phucked up because those priests molested them? Ask them if they will ever forget.
Take that and apply it to this kid who was shamed into therapy when he was a kid and had to live with it for the rest of his life believing that he had done something wrong.
@mother Jefferson
CLEARLY i’m NOT EQUATING murder to homosexuality. Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh! (comprehension is key sweetie)
ex. To some people it’s normal to steal, to some people it’s normal to sell drugs, etc.
I was pointing out the fact that JUST because something is “normal” to someone doesn’t make it ok.
RoderickXYZ says:
So you’re discounting what those closest to him are saying?
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Those closest to him are biased because they have their own agenda (which might include $$$ signs). They have closed their minds to the fact that their brother simply checked out because he was depressed and he could no longer cope with life and with his despair.
RoderickXYZ says:
I am guessing that the man who committed suicide had confided in his brother and that is why we’re having the conversation.
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You guessed wrong. If you read the article that I linked to, it clearly says that his sister (who was nine months at the time he had sissy therapy) “spent months agonizing over” why he killed himself. Then she found out about the therapy from her older brother. She never had that discussion with Kirk.
Mamacita says:
@Mother Jefferson
Ok, so let’s take a serial killer for example. Killing is “normal” for them right?
That doesn’t make killing a normal act that people should participate in does it?
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Mother Jefferson says:
Wow so I guess murder is the equivalent of Sandra having sex with a woman now?
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She’s using killing as an analogy for the purpose of clarification of her statement. She’s not making the argument that serial killers and lesbians are one and the same.
Feline Feminine says:
Well that’s not everyone’s story, like you said, let’s stick to the topic… or again, let’s not and just understand that we both have VERY differing views all around…
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So how does what two consenting adults do behind closed doors adversely impact your life unless you’re one of those women who sits on the stoop all day with your girlfriends pointing out who’s gay and who isn’t.
Mamacita says:
CLEARLY i’m NOT EQUATING murder to homosexuality. Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh! (comprehension is key sweetie)
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No you just associated homosexuality to something that is viewed universally negative (stealing).
Trying to be sly but…..
RoderickXYZ says:
My mom is 70 and she can recount the names she was called when she was maybe 5.
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And yet she didn’t commit suicide. Which proves my point that gay people don’t commit suicide, depressed people do.
CLEARLY i’m NOT EQUATING murder to homosexuality. Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh! (comprehension is key sweetie)
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Whatever you say, sweetie.
First off I think the article in itself is a bit of a stretch, and an example of the media trying to sensationalize a current issue even farther. With that said, this should not make us forget the importance of how we impact others, and how the things we say and do can have an adverse effect on someone’s life.
In regard to homosexuality, I do not believe that it should be a subject that is thrown down people’s throats. I do believe though that respect is something that should be given to all people, and that their rights should be respected too. I believe for most gay people (which would exclude the “extreme” politically far-left gays) they simply want to be like everyone else. As Sandra said, she had these feelings of her being gay since she was 5, and she should not be disregarded as less of a person because of her sexuality.
When it comes to if homosexuality is normal, I do not believe there is an answer that we can clearly render as fact in this regard. Yes, you could say that our only mission in life is to pro-create, but that would mean anyone on this earth, gay or straight, who does not have to the will to pro-create through heterosexual circumstances is practicing an abnormal lifestyle. Thus, if you have sex without the goal of having a child, then you are participating in an abnormality…just like a homosexual is. This statement for me would further suggest that contraception would also be an abnormality that we are letting within our lives, since it keeps our “normal” human activities from prospering and extending to its true self. I simply believe that there are a great deal of things in this world up for debate, and the subject of what is normal is one of them. I think to simply regard heterosexuality as the only “normal” sexuality to be a bit dismissive…because I believe there are aspects of each sexuality that can have abnormal components.
In conclusion, I believe it is important to remember that we are the most intelligent species on this earth (which is sometimes hard to believe haha). With this understanding, we should recognize that we are complicated individuals without any true understanding of how our brain even operates yet. So until we have a better scientific understanding of our own body/brain/functions, we should be careful to label anything as abnormal that may have an explanation for its normalcy in the near future.
@Sandra
RoderickXYZ says:
So if you really believe that and you’re a 100%$ lesbian then you may as well kill yourself because you have no reason to exist.
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Then who would update this blog?
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Sandra Rose says:
RoderickXYZ says:
So if you really believe that and you’re a 100%$ lesbian then you may as well kill yourself because you have no reason to exist.
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Then who would update this blog?

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Sandra Rose says:
And yet she didn’t commit suicide. Which proves my point that gay people don’t commit suicide, depressed people do.
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Just because my mom hasn’t committed suicide doesn’t mean that those memories don’t make her depressed.
But what was this guy depressed about? He was beaten by his dad if he got more red chips than blue chips–meaning that he was more effininant.
The family should speak out against this type of therapy but his parents need to take responsibility for making his life a living hell and possibly causing his death.
I guess no one noticed that the man who created this anti-gay therapy was caught with his boy toy last year.
All of these homophobes like Eddie Long have some projection issues.
Mother Jefferson says:
CLEARLY i’m NOT EQUATING murder to homosexuality. Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh! (comprehension is key sweetie)
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Whatever you say, sweetie.
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I know it’s whatever I say because I WROTE THE COMMENT
so I think I would know what I meant when I wrote it.
You have a great day.
For once @Sandra I can 100% agree with you. People over think things way to much just so they can link it to one cause or another. Who cares if he was gay or straight at the end of the day he had a internal struggle he was fighting which he couldn’t find outside help for. Could it have been bc of the “sissy therapy”???? Maybe but if that was the case the real blame goes the the parents, friends & family for not noticing his depression & offering help.
BTW I am on the fence about telling homosexuality in schools. On one hand I would not want the thought put into my son’s head if it something he didn’t think about before. But on the other hand it could a elective course for the kids not sure about their feelings or struggling to understand a friend or family member life style as a homosexual.