What are the odds that HIV/AIDS spokesman Magic Johnson would run into both Chris Brown and Rihanna in the same weekend? Brown, 23, and his ex-girlfriend, Rihanna, 24, are in St. Tropez, France, where they bumped into Johnson, 52.
Rapper Ludacris and music producer Swizz Beatz are also hanging out in France. Luda and Brown went up in a helicopter to do a little sight-seeing.
The red bandana tied around Brown’s knee added to the speculation that CB is affiliated with the bloods gang on the west coast. One of the conditions of Brown’s 2010 probation (for assaulting Rihanna) is that he avoid gang affiliations. But he’s so hard headed. He never listens.
Photos: Twitter.com
See? Swizz Beaks looks like Magic Johnson SHOULD look……
#GoingToHellAndIONCare
Their doing BIG Things In France!! i wish i was too
SO CHRIS, LIL WAYNE AND BABY ALL AFFILIATED?
@Ky
:lolol:
Kamikaze was pictured with him as well. Heck if she like it, I love it!
@Ky
I cant
Rih looks so beautiful and fresh-faced…
I know Majic “Mike” Johnson is perturbed that his HIV/AIDS status is well known…he has tha Flo Evans “DAMN! DAMN! DAMN!” look on his face!
@FeFe and @Marquez Y’all KNOW I’m tellin the truth….
Magic Johnson the only person I know of with the monster AND got moobies…
Ky-
right now!
@lovezoe
Naw…ways out…I’m not….
@Ky I think he got a special medicine poor people dont know about but hey that’s just my opinion
@marquez I agree wholeheartedly….being rich is almost a bullet proof vest…
That celeb circle is very small I can see them both running into each other.
I was reading the Feds are going after Swizz. He may wanna stay in France.
So…um…are Ri & Chris not allowed to be in pics together?
@Ky its alright tho everything done in the dark will eventually come to light and these scientists are gonna hav sum splanin to do!
Oh and shout out to magic. One the very few who puts his money back into the community.
Hey everybody.
OMG these posts Sandy!!
im gna go download some mursik since i spoke 2 a bunch of blind mufuggas in the other post…hmph
Is that misplaced taco meat on Swizzy’s chest or tattoos?
iscream says:
Oh and shout out to magic. One the very few who puts his money back into the community.
:thumsup: yes he does ALL Over the Place.
@HISSSSSSSSSSSSS
Hon, they didn’t speak back to me either…it is what it is…Let’s dance! 
top pic looks……….weird.
why is he soooooo shiny ?
pills bring in more revenue than a cure, but I digress…why are people still doing middle finger picks in their 30’s
:hugs: @His
iscream says:
Oh and shout out to magic. One the very few who puts his money back into the community.
I am going to be 100 still hearing Chrianna stories
I want to go to St Tropez #teamtravel
or he could just be paying homage to Punky Brewster
The red bandana tied around Brown’s knee added to the speculation that CB is affiliated with the bloods gang on the west coast.
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If he IS affiliated with a gang it would HAVE to be a left coast affiliation.
Only gang they got in Tappahanock, VA is Future Farmers of Amerikkka.
IF I was being blind, I blame Fi!
Ho’boygurrrrrrr :2dance:
Chris Brown looks HORRIBLE!!! he messed himself up with all those Tats…
So I’ve heard Breezy and Karate Kid broke up…Is that not true?
After that girl got part of her face chopped off by a helicopeter they need to put their hand down ’round close to them pro-pellars.
Downnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Fe!
@Smurfette
What’d I do????
Dang, I just showed up….been crazy busy at the gig all morning and y’all chicks don’t even wanna play this afternoon…
Ho’boygahhhhh :2dance:
KDubbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb
KDub says:
Only gang they got in Tappahanock, VA is Future Farmers of Amerikkka.
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Is that Tappahanock or Rappahanock?
I have nothing!!!
KyCakes says:
KDub says:
Only gang they got in Tappahanock, VA is Future Farmers of Amerikkka.
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Is that Tappahanock or Rappahanock?
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KDub says:
@Ky
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I was watching Fahrenheit 9/11 this weekend
HIS
*Throws a pebble to start off nekkid hopscotch*
@FeFe Let’s get this party started….
It’s Tappahanock. Not here for the VAshade.
@Ky
Hellz yeah!!!!!
I’m at a payphone trying to call home
All of my change I spent on you
Where have the times gone, baby it’s all wrong
Where are the plans we made for two?
Yeah, I, I know it’s hard to remember,
The people we used to be…
It’s even harder to picture,
That you’re not here next to me.
You say it’s too late to make it,
But is it too late to try?
And in our time that you wasted
All of our bridges burned down
I’ve wasted my nights,
You turned out the lights
Now I’m paralyzed,
Still stuck in that time,
When we called it love,
But even the sun sets in paradise
I’m at a payphone trying to call home
All of my change I spent on you
Where have the times gone, baby it’s all wrong
Where are the plans we made for two?
If “Happy Ever After” did exist,
ITS A MAROON 5 KINDA DAY! 
I would still be holding you like this
All those fairy tales are full of sh!t
One more fuking love song, I’ll be sick.
Pon De Forehead Bleh!
Swizz always looks dirty and bi-sexual
Breezy is a crip now – well I’ll be damned – I best not wear red on my nails I might be mistaken for a gang member or worse a HARLOT
@Choco
:stop:
@lovezoe settle down, sessi. I was referencing Fahreheit 9/11; when they were getting Tappahanock and Rappahanock confused…just jokes, Ma
CHOCO NAW SANDRA SAYING HE A BLOOD CRIP IS BLUE
HOW WAS THE WEEKND LADY?
No cooment on Swizz Beaks
I know, Ky. Isa knows. We all peeps round these parts.
Laughing at FeFe here we go with Ghey
RIRI LOOKS SO CUTE IN THIS PIC BIG ESSMILE
OAN: Can’t none of them get it!
#aintmyfault
*sigh* I’ve never met a single gang member who wears a rag around his knee… ever so
And maybe I should
after reading that first sentence. Obviously something is going on in France that all of them are there at the same time so the odds aren’t actually that small but you know what 
My eye doctor is a cutie. Need to make an appointment soon.
Ky u officially ain’t shat
It’s Tappahanock. Not here for the VAshade
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I’m right below ya! They got Future Farmers of Amerikkka here in NC too
Magic Johnson
down to 1 AID
Hellooooooooooo Ky!!
DB
I HATES UR GRAVI YO!! 
datsmdubya2u says:
Magic Johnson
down to 1 AID
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
GO !
NOW !
datsmdubya2u says:
Magic Johnson
down to 1 AID
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What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
HIS :2dance: ** SLOW DANCING TO WONT GO HOME WITHOUT YOU MAROON 5** SUP PURRTY
Dub- Shucks VA is AmerIKKKa.
goat76 says:
What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
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What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
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The kind that was in the “Beat It” video…
So noone saw Sandra tell Rihanna
Look, bitch, @Rihanna, stop promoting drug use to your young, impressionable followers. Fuck your own life up!
KDub says:
What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
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The kind that was in the “Beat It” video
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Chamone
Magic Johnson
down to 1 AID
I disappeared for lunch but to @Fay thanks boo!
And @ Lakes yes tis I? My momma did had told me to smile more when I was little so I tried it & folks liked it
goat76 says:
What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
@Bibs, I did…I posted it downstairs
@Bibi
Why so much seething hate @Sandra????
:random:
Me: im going to the Movies tonight
Lady: oh yeah.. you going to see Magic Mike?
I am Jack’s utter confusion
I hope Im not beating a dead horse but I just went into the Tiny post and Im scratching my head as to why there was a post about the cost of her hair but this response from Sandra has me even more confused:
I told Dianne that Tiny’s critics are just miserable, disrespectful and uncultured. These women have no husbands at home which gives them plenty of time to worry about what Tiny is doing, rather than being inspired by Tiny’s individuality or her roles as a good mother and wife.
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So becuz I don’t want to look like rainbow brite Im miserable and disrespectful – Its obvious Tiny will do anything for her man – even threesomes that seems disrespectful of her marriage and self IMO…I don’t know why her mother sent the email to Sandra and not the blogger who said something about Tiny… Tiny is small matter in the bigger picture
KDub says:
What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
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The kind that was in the “Beat It” video…
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That was a GOAT fight scene….Will youtube and practice when I get home.
Bibi says:
So noone saw Sandra tell Rihanna
Look, bitch, @Rihanna, stop promoting drug use to your young, impressionable followers. **** your own life up!
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@goat
goat76 says:
What kind of gang are you supposed to be if you let in a dancin a$$ R&B singer???
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take the N and the G off of GANG and add a Y that’s what kind of gang…
@Bibi naw you not the only one who saw it. I would have done a RT but I don’t mess with Sandra like that on twitter. I follow just to see what she’s up to and new posts and leave it at that
although I did have a nice chuckle when I read that ish
Sandra Bloods don’t wear their bandannas around their knees tho
#SouthernCali
#Gangish
#folkswannabedownbutdontrealizehowrealitgets
:random:
Me: im going to the Movies tonight
Lady: oh yeah.. you going to see Magic Mike?
I am Jack’s utter confusion
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so I’ve decided to eat NO MEAT for the next 2 days and all I can think about are chicken wings *le sigh*
@I Go
Bad Influence says:
Hellooooooooooo Ky!!
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I have an iBrowse question…I love your brows and don’t know how you get them that way….where they look almost stenciled on but they’re not…kinda hard to explain, but reference your office hawtie instagram to see what I mean…Is that a wax job or sumthin? The brows look all ruly and chit…
Choco- but according to Sandra, women should happy with the hair God gave us. Except for the “queens” of ATL.
@DB
A pickup truck carrying 23 people veered off a Texas highway and crashed late Sunday, killing 14 and injuring 9 others.
The Ford F-250 Super Duty pickup was was traveling north on U.S. Highway 59 when it crashed into two large trees near Goliad, Texas, about 100 miles southeast of San Antonio, Texas Highway Patrol trooper Gerald Bryant told KTRK-TV.
Some of the victims were airlifted to hospitals in San Antonio and Corpus Christi. The cause of the crash remains under investigation, police said.
“In my 38 years as an officer, this is one of the worst fatalities I have been to,” Bryant said. “I have never seen where we had that many in a vehicle.”
The victims were crammed in the cab and bed of the pickup truck.
“Based on the mode of travel, the way that the people were in the vehicle, it’s a high probability there were illegal immigrants traveling northbound on 59,” Texas Dept. of Safety Lt. Glen Garrett told KIII-TV.
According to CNN, U.S. border patrol and “immigration and customs enforcement agents were called to the scene.” Goliad County is about 150 miles northeast of the Mexican border.
The names of the victims have yet to be released. According to MySanAntonio.com, the vehicle was registered to an owner in Houston. The driver of the vehicle was one of the survivors.
“It is not uncommon for human traffickers to try to maximize profits by over-loading vehicles with illegal immigrants,” the Associated Press said. “In April, nine Mexican immigrants died near the border when the teenage driver of their van crashed after fleeing Border Patrol. There were 18 people in that minivan.”
^^ LOSE UR LIFE TO TRY AND BETTER IT
BUT 23 THO 
SARDINES.. BUT WITH THE COYOTE BEING GREEDY I ACTUALLY AINT SURPRISE THEY WILL LEAVE UR CULO IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DESERT TO DIE IF U FALL BEHIND.. 
@Naija
:hugs: you can do it hon…I went three weeks straight with no meat before
@Bibs,
You’re fine hon, Boogie was the only one that responded. Sandy hasn’t said anything else ratchet has she? 
I don’t feel like catching up. Can someone tell me what we talkin bout?
(Does the switchblade scene out of “Beat It”…the gang dance with @Goat…I am Michael Peters AKA the dude in the white jacket…)
:2dance:
DB HOLD UP I THOUGHT THAT WAS THE GAME
NOOOOOOOO!
CHOCO NAW SANDRA SAYING HE A BLOOD CRIP IS BLUE HOW WAS THE WEEKND LADY?
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My weekend was good but short! Y tu?
FeFe says:
@I Go
was she fukking serious?????
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IDK….
Its my fault for saying I use to strip…
Choco aka Hippie says:
I don’t know why her mother sent the email to Sandra and not the blogger who said something about Tiny…
and run with that bs. All that shyt was blah 
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cause she knew Auntie would be her
CHOCO IT WAS GOOD FRIDAY CHUCK SATURDAY CHILLED AT HOME AND SUNDAY AMIGA TIME AT THE POOL
IT WAS RELAZZING
KDub says:
(Does the switchblade scene out of “Beat It”…the gang dance with @Goat…I am Michael Peters AKA the dude in the white jacket…)
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I love that shit.
Look, bitch, @Rihanna
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I done snorted loud as FUGG at my desk.
NaijaGal says:
so I’ve decided to eat NO MEAT for the next 2 days and all I can think about are chicken wings *le sigh*
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alright
That pain you feel in your stomach isnt stomach pains
its your body eating itself
@Lakes That’s tragic
@Walking
WalkingKontradiction says:
Sandra Bloods don’t wear their bandannas around their knees tho
#SouthernCali
#Gangish
#folkswannabedownbutdontrealizehowrealitgets
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It’s still real out there…
disclaimer: I like Tiny, I think she’s a cool chick, I’m not being disrespectful Sandra so please don’t ban me over my opinion but….. @Choc Tiny is a classic example of a woman with low self esteem who thinks she has to do anything, be anything and accept anything to keep her man. As long as he is taking care of home and giving her material possessions she will always feel he is a good man. Not that there’s anything wrong with that when it’s for the right man. But key word here is RIGHT MAN. TI is an immature little guy with little man syndrome and too much money to spend. It’s why he stays in and out of jail, it’s why he talks big chit, it’s why he feels he has to be with other women, it’s why he feels he has to point out that he’s the man and is in charge, it’s why he has to flaunt his purchases for his wife and family so that other people can see it and make him feel like a bigger and better man. Tiny accepts that and it works for her so I won’t put her down but I won’t feel bad either for saying that you couldn’t pay me to suffer what she has just to keep my man. Love ain’t got shit to do with my self respect, dignity and character. But she’s a sweet woman and I continue to hold out the hope that one day she will realize what all she is worth and drop his midget ass for a real man who will encourage her to dress like a real woman, respect her and love her and only her
@DB
Not as of yet
give her some time 
EAZZYYY
@Eazy
KY I KNOW.. ITS SAD.. THEY PAY ALL THIS MONEY TO COME HERE.. AND GET KILLED FOR THE AMERICAN DREAM
SH!T IS WRONG
and u wonder why she stay getting dragged up and down twitter
What up, IGO *head nod*
Jacked from another post:
KyCakes says:
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The Albertson’s have been closing, though. I think we may have two left in CO. When I moved to California for awhile, I asked around about the warehouse stores, and my co-worker told me they were called ‘Smart and Final’… I was like they’re called what?
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Ky don’t sleep on Smart & Final! A lot of times they will beat out costco and sam’s prices anyday and you don’t need a membership to shop there.
They tend to be in hood areas though
Who is Tichina Arnold getting married to? Does her fiance know she eats Kit Kats?
FEFE, DOWN-B –
thanks boos cause LAWD, I’d gnaw off my own pinky with hot sauce right now
IGO –
@Ky
BACK TO WORKS I GO.. YALL HAVE A GOOD ONE
@FeFe Someone had it on their FB…Look at dudes nipples…
*cries* @KY gravi
Candi Sandra bring alot of that mess on herself
although I will say that I once took a look through her mentions and some of the ish people say is just completely unnecessary especially when one celeb or personality will have their follower go in on her 
but she knows what she’s doing when she says shit like that tweet up there (although she’s right)
Love ain’t got **** to do with my self respect, dignity and character.
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KYCAKES – why that gravi though???
never thought I’d see the day there would be nipples one could deep throat
@Ky whats going with them nipps girl!!!!
@Ky
I saw that shyt….da hayul????????
nipples one could deep throat
*****
I’m glad I’ve gotten everyone’s attention with the taffy nipples…I’m trying to determine if they’re real
I firmly believe that we are being led to think that Rih and Chris have something going on, but that it is a publicitiy stunt. Coochie was seen landing in France with Chris. Most, no, ALL of the times Chris and Rih are said to be together when they are out of town Coochie travels with him. Makes no sense at all.
Ky girl your gravi!
Heyyyyy Fefe And Down!!!!
to my boo Steebie J too
Say that Ms Errrry Thing
@ Auntie…send that Momma Tiny on behalf of the blog
Thx in advance
KY
Hello maam
Naija
Im just saying all that non meat eating gon kill ya.
Just for that Im gonna have a steak tonight… Cause youre trippin
Bird nobody believes Chris and Rhihead are actually back together. His girl goes everywhere he goes and all of these “sightings” and coincidences come from them being in the same industry and going to the same events but people like to stretch that and make a story of it
If people had left them alone a long time ago, they would’ve been broke up with no question by now anyway
IGO – it’s actually a good thing to give your body rest from meat intake sir…let my colon be great
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
KyCakes says:
@Ty But she got her <——- toes fixed didn't she?
Looking at that post from last week her toes are still fighting each other 
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Those nipples look like they been stretched by a titty pump
@Down
Nawww I said boo as in “clap for the kids…HEY BEWWWW ” 
@Choco, The girl was wrong for blowing up the place
NaijaGal says:
IGO – it’s actually a good thing to give your body rest from meat intake sir…let my colon be great
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Dont go to the gutter
Dont go to the gutter
Ummm.. yeah I get where you coming from
Ms. Everything says:
Bird nobody believes Chris and Rhihead are actually back together. His girl goes everywhere he goes and all of these “sightings” and coincidences come from them being in the same industry and going to the same events
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I’ve been saying that. But no one listens to me.
Choc I think they’re both wrong. Him for lying and her for screwing a 40 year old man who still lives in his girl’s parents basement
Next time maybe they’ll pick their hump partners better
@MSE
I like Tiny also – I just think a post about what she spends on her hair and how its breaking her is unneccesary – like really the money is breaking you but you still spend it – and why does the mom care to respond – Sandra saying others have to much time on their hands it seems they do also
@Ty
<——— Ci-Errors Toes
Choc I think they’re both wrong. Him for lying and her for screwing a 40 year old man who still lives in his girl’s parents basement Next time maybe they’ll pick their hump partners better
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Choco aka Hippie says:
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Tanisha Gets Married.
@Choco, The girl was wrong for blowing up the place
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Oh but why do you say only the girl is wrong
@Boogie
Answer the question 
y magic look like he been a wadin in the whip baptismal pool tho?
Choco aka Hippie says:
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
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1. Question: Was that a big deal where Guy Stayed when chic was getting with guy?
2. ITs both their fault dude should have let ole girl know AND Ole girl shouldnt have NEVER told anybody else that story…
CHOCO – was he making her believe it was more than FWB???
@Choc truthfully I think Sandra posts stuff like that email to get us to say the stuff to Tiny that she won’t say herself. I think she likes her and I think she may finally realize that TI is a ain’t chit manchild but she doesn’t want to damage her relationship with them by saying it point blank so she posts stuff like that so we can do the job for her
But if you spending so much money on tracks that it’s breaking you financially then you should probably reevaluate your priorities. JS
KyCakes says:
Bad Influence says:
Hellooooooooooo Ky!!
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I have an iBrowse question…I love your brows and don’t know how you get them that way….where they look almost stenciled on but they’re not…kinda hard to explain, but reference your office hawtie instagram to see what I mean…Is that a wax job or sumthin? The brows look all ruly and chit…
@Ky, i arch them bad boys myself then i just touch them up with this snazzy lil eyebrow perfection brush i found at target and black eyeshadow…im a simple gal
can ppl actually stencil brows? nvrmind i saw meagan goods brows…lol
@Choc that whole story is wrong
Choco aka Hippie says:
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
so what they guy lie about??
IGO – what do you mean by praying I ‘don’t go to the gutter’ *lost so help a sista out*
I Go There says:
Choco aka Hippie says:
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
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a):applause: to girl, aint nothing like a woman scorned
b) guy is just being guy
c) why chicks always wanna complain after the fact, the basement was cool when you was sneaking it in
@Choc, I didn’t mention the guy bc IDK if he actually manipulated her or if she just saw/heard what she wanted <…this is subjective
However, the blowing up the place or damaging things are things that "did" happen <…this is objective as far as we know
This story sounds familiar…was it in the news or online? I feel like I've read/heard it
Choco aka Hippie says:
Here is a story:
Guy and Girl become friends with benefits GUY manipulates and lies to girl – Girl gets back by blowing his spot up – Guy is mad at girl and refuses to accept his responsibility for the blow up – Girl finds Guy funny in that he lives with his girls parents in the basement – Guy is near 40 years old
Does anyone think the Guy or Girl is wrong?
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Choco aka Hippie says:
@Boogie
Answer the question
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looks like they BOTH got their feelings caught up when it was supposed to be simply “buddies w/ bennies.” consequently, they BOTH wrong for taking it where it did not need to go. all parties involved need to stay in their lanes.
i dont kno. they both get on my nerves
@EGO
Answer to question 1 No I don’t think it was
@Naija
No he didn’t make her believe they were more than FWB
@Fayla
He would lie to the girl about coming over and chit and then never show but he did that trying to stop her from doing her
i dont kno. they both get on my nerves
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IDK she said GUY thinks she was trying to wreck his home but then she said Guy told his girl at home about her – so I think all parties involved were dumb
NaijaGal says:
IGO – what do you mean by praying I ‘don’t go to the gutter’ *lost so help a sista out*
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Just your choice of words
Naija… dont mind me.
But can ppl really be FWB? Or NSA(no strings attached) <…This seem to be the "in" thing to do but too often SOMEONE catches feelings!
@Choc, I didn’t mention the guy bc IDK if he actually manipulated her or if she just saw/heard what she wanted <…this is subjective
However, the blowing up the place or damaging things are things that "did" happen <…this is objective as far as we know
This story sounds familiar…was it in the news or online? I feel like I've read/heard it
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No it wasn't in the news this chit is local to my community – Guy manipulated the situation by standing her up all the time just so she wouldn't make any other plans. When I said blowed up his spot I mean she told his girl that they were seeing one another
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EGO
Answer to question 1 No I don’t think it was
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welp she really cant from him out on nothing… if it was cool for her to go there and get her back blown out she cant say shait about where he stays NOW… Thats some after the fact shait.
But what did dude do that was sooooo wrong
@Down it can be done if both parties are on the same page and have the same feelings toward it
Problem is usually one person already has feelings and goes along with it in hopes that the other person will either catch same feelings or has same feelings and just won’t say it. That’s when problems happen 
To be honest, it works best when both parties are attached elsewhere and just need somebody to scratch the itch their partner can’t or won’t but then it becomes trifling so 
fonts need closed captioning too now cuz folks all the way confused up in heah
@EGO
She never went to his house – and he would stand her up all the time and she knew he wouldn’t stop calling her so she told his girl about them
No it wasn’t in the news this chit is local to my community – Guy manipulated the situation by standing her up all the time just so she wouldn’t make any other plans. When I said blowed up his spot I mean she told his girl that they were seeing one another
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OOOOOHHHHHH
So ole girl KNEW he had another chic but fked with him anyway.
THATS ALLL HER FAULT
I think folks can be friends with benefits
CHOCO – then she’s wrong cause she knew the deal…but then again maybe it’s his karma for being trifling to his ‘girl’
But Choc that shows how she’s even more wrong. How do you knowingly get with a guy who has someone else and then just because you’re mad decide to tell the main chick all of your business. She had no right, just because she inserted herself into the mix doesn’t give her the right to destroy what they had over some hurt feelings over a petty situation. I’ll admit he shouldn’t have done all the standing up and deceitful mess but at the same time he probably wanted to keep her from screwing other people and giving him something that would go home with him
Men are funny like that 
DOWN B – I think FWB is equivalent to straight males and females being friends…at some point someone is gonna catch feelings and it’s up to that individual to swallow it…and then especially when you’re sharing your body, yeah people may try to convince themselves they can handle it but I have yet to see it
They both were wrong, but how is it, you have no place to live, but having a personal cumbucket is more important than getting yourself stable?
Dummies and their priorities….
Any man living in anyone’s basement at 40 needs to go have a ______/ in traffic that has no red lights…#raiseyostandards guuuurrl
@EGO and MsE
Okay so the guy is in the clear…. he think so too
@Choco, Ohhh, Okay so it wasn’t “physical” damage just her telling his girl. Uh, that was silly on her part….just LEAVE him be…so him canceling on her to be “with the main chic” is what caused her to react like that?
so she told his girl about them
OH
! the “buddies w/ bennies” contract has a srict non-disclosure agreement clause. 
fcuk her! i’m siding w/ DUDE in the basement.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EGO
She never went to his house – and he would stand her up all the time and she knew he wouldn’t stop calling her so she told his girl about them
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Still her fault
@Ky
I think they both were wrong also …. and he’s lazy like that I guess it doesn’t seem to bother him that he lives with his girls parents it doesn’t bother the girl either and they have kids
@Naija We ill Kindred
@Choco, @MSeverything, Yea I am sure some can, I just haven’t seen it go well, 
Oh well, not my cup of tea either way!
Choco aka Hippie says:
I think folks can be friends with benefits
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I use to believe this…BUT NAW they cant
it ain’t time to go yet?! *throws a computer out the window*
wassup Igo
Choco aka Hippie says:
I think folks can be friends with benefits
here I come LOL
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BOTH parties have to have a very clear mature understanding at all times in order for it to work…like why you calling tombout you sick and you need me to come ova.. uhhhh thats what you have a girlfriend for my brotha buuutt you wanna
@Choco I think they are both wrong. The guy for just being reckless & sneaking someone in somewhere. The girl for catching feelings and tryna put someone on blast. I agree with Ms.E that she had no right to get mad and then tell to try to break them up BUT imo he shoulda chose better.
Times done changed, chicks ain’t happy being the sideline ho no mo so men better choose wisely
@Choco See…That’s that Bullchit. If you don’t want nothing, you don’t care of you are nothing….
I won’t even fukk with a cat who doesn’t have a car…what part of the game is this?
so him canceling on her to be “with the main chic” is what caused her to react like that?
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No I don’t think thats what peeved her – the main chick didn’t really register with her – what irritated her was his manipulating the situation to benefit him! Like why stand her up when she could be doing something else
I think its a consensus that the Girl was in the wrong…in more ways than one, no?
Did ya’ll know???
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well, they found googobs of $$$ for mariah. she’s officially the new AI judge !
BoogieNites says:
so she told his girl about them
OH ! the “buddies w/ bennies” contract has a srict non-disclosure agreement clause. fcuk her! i’m siding w/ DUDE in the basement.
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Exactly… if you agree to the shait then Blowing up spots should be the LAST thing you do. DONT matter… and the only thing you can get mad at is…. NOTHING
Down and Igo I used to be pro FWB until I got caught up in one that turned kinda stalkerish and realized that at my age it’s just no longer a feasible option
@Naija so you don’t think straight males and females can be friends? Really?
Explain pls
Say what,
Yay, this will be gr8t for Mimi!!! Owww 
@Walking
He told his main girl about this chick awhile back so in her mind the main chick wasn’t going to leave him – he told her first and she didn’t leave!
@Ky
I agree that part about him just being okay with his living situation made me look at her funny as well
Candi
whats up
No I don’t think thats what peeved her – the main chick didn’t really register with her – what irritated her was his manipulating the situation to benefit him! Like why stand her up when she could be doing something else
i dunno Choc. if that were the case, she wld learn to make a plan B when dealing w/ him. that she ran and told the main chick is VERY TELLING !
@Walking, Wait, who can’t be friends? I have a couple of fine male friends and we’ve ONLY been just friends
@DOWN
I don’t see it like that there were two parties in that situation IMO he shouldn’t have been greedy if you at home with main chick don’t worry about what the other chick is doing in her spare time -#GREED
and Mariah deserves every red cent they pay her. Jlo never had any business judging a singing competition in the first place. She would have been better suited for SYTYCD or whatever the acronym for that show is or even Dancing with the Stars but American Idol??
bish can’t sing for shit
@Boogie
She told main chick becuz he wouldn’t leave her alone she tried to end said affair but he would find his way back in manipulation
@Ky, i answered u up there suga…
Ms. Everything says:
Down and Igo I used to be pro FWB until I got caught up in one that turned kinda stalkerish and realized that at my age it’s just no longer a feasible option
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It just doesnt work… It can be a cool thing but for the most part
someone is going to want more and once that happens it begins to get a lil sticky… and thats not in a good way
@Walking
I have a male friend and we have never screwed but I know he halfway wants to
@Choc, But from what you’ve told us, the only thing that seemed to peeve the girl was when ole boy would cancel plans? And if he had already told the main chick about her, what was the point of the girl blowing their situation up?
@Down I thought that’s what Naija was saying but I may have gotten confused.
@Choco damn this story don’t make no kinds of sense! So main chick KNEW of side chick, and was cool? But she’s also cool w/ him living in her parent’s basement? And they have kids???
Classic case of “men will do only what you allow them” Ain’t none of em shat, imo of course
@Igo and the older you get the more likely someone is gonna get caught up in feelings
Oh he is still living with his chick and her parents she didn’t do it to break them up – she did it becuz she knew he would leave her alone she didn’t want to be in the affair any longer
Ohhh, @Walking, I think Naija was saying she didn’t believe a straight female and male could just be FWB
@Walking
He told her in the beginning of their affair and Im sure he told her they weren’t seeing one another anymore – yes they have kids.
I definitely have a few male friends. Can’t lie there have been some that I’ve fallen out with b/c they wanted more and I wasn’t going but they are very few and far in between.
SO, if she’s out the affair now, she’s good, he’s good, what’s the problem?
@DOWN
He had a way of getting back in her life – she never wanted to be apart of a love triangle when they met he said home life wasn’t good its no excuse but she got caught up – when she wanted out she did it with a bang – if she didn’t she’d be in the same place with him I guess she felt he was having his cake and eating it too at her expense –
@Walking,
That’s why ya gotta keep your O small, *ain’t no passengers on my plane* 
Well if that’s the case ol girl should have just ended it. No need to be messy. And no offense if these are yo ppl’s but their relationship seems dysfunctional.
@DB
There is no problem she was telling me that he blames her and I was like for real he really doesn’t see his own contribution to the problem that’s all so thats when I was like whose wrong – I told her they both are wrong
@Walking
The guy and main chick relationship is dysfunctional YEAH IT IS!
@Down this is true!
@Choc yep those are the two I was talking about! They need to better if not for themselves, for their kids
Ms. Everything says:
@Igo and the older you get the more likely someone is gonna get caught up in feelings
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YEP….
Exactly
@Walking
I know my friend was like I can be associated with this trifling situation – its more but I ain’t putting folks chit out there like that
cant be
I dont know about catching feelings for a friend with benefits I have a few and as long as they respect me I respect them so IDK Im different there
@Lakes
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
KY I KNOW.. ITS SAD.. THEY PAY ALL THIS MONEY TO COME HERE.. AND GET KILLED FOR THE AMERICAN DREAM
SH!T IS WRONG
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Somebody needs to let them know…ain’t sh*t poppin no more north of the border…
WALKING – if you’re still in here, I really truly believe that when you have that type of friendship one or the other will catch feelings…cause this is a person you share pretty much everything with, you get close and generally you’re attracted to the other sex in the first place and if this friend has all these qualities how can you not get caught up…so the only way it’ll maintain a friendship is if the one with feelings keeps quiet *hope this made sense*
@Choc, I got ya! I just agree with @Walking, I think ALL parties sound a bit dysfunctional and kind of playing musical chairs with the blame when ALL are at fault…JMO though
@Naija I came back for this….hmmm, I can see how this becomes an issue but for me it happened with friends who were not my type….if that makes sense. They were the ones to catch feelings. But the ones who I may have found attractive or vice versa have never led on that they feel any kind of way towards me except friendship. But bishazzness def showed up with the other ones tho
@DB
Yeah I agree all at fault but I don’t agree that she is only at fault… that’s bishazzness for him to want to only blame her when he was lying to his main chick and her #FUG HIM
@Choc
I’m so glad Diddy out it on the map. it say so much in 3 syllables 
If yall are still in here, I don’t have a problem with men and women being just friends. I have more than a few male friends who are and always will be just friends. I’m saying when you add sex in the mix it doesn’t really work like that and problems arise.