Friend of the blog Tami Reed, of Talkingwithtami.com, is a single mom with 2 grown children.
The men Tami meets tend to be independently wealthy and around her own age.
In her post, “Ten Reasons Why Younger Men Like Older Women,” Tami writes:
“I personally like men my own age and I’m open to dating a man a few years younger or a few years older but not a drastic age difference, it’s just not my jam.”
She added:
“My ex husband was three years younger than me and another guy I really liked, was four years younger than me but that is as far as I will go. I usually attract men that’s in their 30’s which I’m always confused by lol. I used to get very offended when they would approach me but they said it’s because of my youthful personality and how I look as to why they always triy to ask me out. I normally turn down their advances because I am just not attracted to younger men. That made me dig a little deeper and try to answer the question of why younger men might be attracted to older women.”
Below Tami lists the top 10 reasons why younger men are attracted to older women.
1. Maturity and Confidence
Older women tend to be more self-assured and comfortable with themselves, which can be attractive to younger men who appreciate confidence and stability.
2. Life Experience
Older women often have more life experience, which can make conversations more meaningful and engaging for younger men.
3. Independence
Older women are typically more independent and established in their careers and lives, which can be appealing to younger men who value autonomy and ambition.
4. Emotional Stability
Older women may have a better handle on their emotions and be less prone to drama or insecurity, which can be refreshing for younger men seeking stability in a relationship.
5. Clear Communication
Older women often communicate more directly and effectively, which can lead to better understanding and fewer misunderstandings in relationships.
6. Sexual Confidence
Many older women are more confident and comfortable with their bodies and sexuality, which can translate into a more satisfying and fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.
7. Intellectual Stimulation
Older women tend to have a wealth of knowledge and intellectual curiosity, which can stimulate younger men intellectually and lead to stimulating conversations and shared interests.
8. No Pressure for Commitment
Younger men may feel less pressure for immediate commitment in relationships with older women, allowing both partners to enjoy the present moment without worrying too much about the future.
9. Less Drama
Older women often have a better understanding of what they want and need in a relationship, leading to less relationship drama and more clarity in communication and expectations.
10. Different Perspective
Younger men may appreciate the different perspective and insights that older women bring to the relationship, enriching their lives and broadening their horizons.
