Yesterday, Latin singer Ricky Martin came stumbling out of the closet much to no one’s surprise. He said that announcing his gay status gave him courage and strength.
Jarrett Barrios, president of GLAAD (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation) applauded Martin’s move, saying “His decision to model this kind of openness and honesty can lead to greater acceptance for countless gay people in U.S., in Latin America and worldwide.”
That may be so, but Martin waited until he was 38 to finally come out. For two decades, Martin repeatedly denied being gay when pressed about his sexual orientation. In a December 2000 interview with The Mirror, Martin said:
“I guess these rumours were started by people who don’t have a life, or perhaps it’s because they want me to be like them and I’m not. I try not to pay attention to any of these allegations. I could have been married with kids for years or have 27 girlfriends, and if people still want to go around saying that I’m gay, they will.”
Martin was 28 when he made that statement. So is it okay to live your entire life as a lie and then expect to be rewarded when you finally come out and tell the truth?
Being gay and proud has been socially acceptable for at least the past two decades. Gays run the music industry, and 95% of celebrity bloggers are gay. So in 2010, why is anyone sitting up in the closet anymore? The only explanation is cowardice. Plain and simple. If I can come out at the age of 5, then these grown folks who I’m about to name can come out as well.
Here’s a list of urban celebs who are believed to be either gay or bi who should come out of the closet to help make this a better world for younger gays who feel alienated in their communities.
**Celebs in photos together does not imply that they are dating each other**
Jada Pinkett and Will Smith
Oprah Winfrey, Tyler Perry
Russell and Kimora (Kimmie once threatened to sue me to keep the contents of her closet a secret)
Rihanna and Melissa
Teyana Taylor, Mario
More after the break
Trina, Missy Elliott
Da Brat
Nicki Minaj, Amber Rose
Queen Latifah and her longtime partner, Jeanette Jenkins
Kanye West
Lee Daniels (Oscar winning director)
Shemar Moore (just come on out of the closet, baby)
MC Lyte
Raz B (formerly of B2K)
Derek Blanks (celebrity photographer)
kayne west only non gay up there…..
not that theres anything wrong with that.
Dayum it Sandra! I just fluckin CAN’T TODAY…the end.
I SHAN’T…the sequel…
further…da brat is already ‘out’.
All righty then…..a whole post on this? back to work for me
Will…it…ever…end???????????????????????????????
***Sandra I agree with you on some of them, but not all
If I can come out at the age of 5
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I guess that means at some point in your life you were bi
I can imagine the calls going on starting in 5,4,3…
They all will start with “that SANDRA EFFING ROSE…”
…I mean, Sandra, you really, really, really outdid yourself on this one…
And I am DONE with whoever that is in the Lou Gossett from “Enemy Mine”…creature from Swamp Thing….costume with Derek Blanks. Just dayum it DONE.
…oh yeah, Sandra, you forgot about T-Boz.
Or do you know not to go there with the RUMORS???
I guess Sandra won’t be doing a Derek Blanks alter-ego shoot anytime soon.
Coming out probably isn’t easy for alot of people. Just because SR came out doesn’t mean everybody else should.
Where in the HELL was Kayne going…….
Also, Lee Daniels is not in the closet. He came out years ago and has a White partner.
lol sandra u a trip
Sandra,
If you are going this route about who is gay and need to come out in the industry then you might as well as all of Hollyweird, all rappers, all R&B singers/ songstress, all backup dancers to come out. No need in singling folks out when this list is long as hell. That includes your folks Tiny, TI, Monica and any other entertainment black folks in the A you hold up to Jesus.
I just don’t understand why people are so OBSESSED with other peoples sexual preference. It’s nobody business who you choose to have sex with whether it be man or woman. Just because you’re an Entertainer does that mean your not entitled to some privacy.
This is very disappointing! I don’t find the humor in it at all.
Just because you came out at 5 that means everyone else should. You did it on your terms….give everyone else the same respect.
And just because they haven’t announced it to you so you can post doesn’t mean they are DL/Closet. Yes it makes for good gossip/entertainment but this low down trifling and classless.
Please don’t amp her up with this thing. I guess I will lurk unless someone changes the convo. I could careless if these ppl are gay, bi or trisexual. Because what they eat don’t make me shiat. Good luck with this Sandra. ****Note****most of these ppl have twitter accounts which I’m sure someone will fall into the trap and ask about her causing ppl to google her and come to her site. Hence, more hits. Whatever strategy you have to use to pay bills. Do you Sandy, do you.
Sandra,
Lee is out and about.
You are right on point w/ some of these peoples, but others I don’t agree with at all….
SANDRA FOUND THE GAYEST looking photos i have ever seen of these people she may be on to something family know family LOL!!!!!!!!
Sandra, how come Tiny is not on this list? I mean she indulges in chicks all the time, she’s even nice enough to share with her situation
@Sandra
OMG I am so tickled by this post and you are so good at what you do this one really had me acting as if I just heard the juiciest gossip in the world
cosign @ Sindy!
Americans are so nosy about bedroom issues…To each his own…folks will let the world know on their own time line.
Teyana outed herself yesterday via Ustream. She tried to cover her tracks but I am not fooled.
:lame:
And when did the term “urban” become synonymous with “black”.
Urban means pertaining to city;living in a city.
Sindy Says:
I just don’t understand why people are so OBSESSED with other peoples sexual preference. It’s nobody business who you choose to have sex with whether it be man or woman. Just because you’re an Entertainer does that mean your not entitled to some privacy.
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Thank you! I knew a hundred years ago that Luther and Freddie Jackson was glittery as hell, but did that stop me from listening and buying their music? Absolutely not. Sandra is too old to be this messy.
Most feel it’s none of your business what they do in their bedrooms.
I personally could careless who you phucking in what whole.
At the end of the day what does it do for your personal knowledge………
The chick with Derek Blanks is Jessica Rabbit aka Melissa Ford the video vixen that didnt sleep her way to the top..also known as the chick Denyce Lawton went IN on her on twitter!!!…
Why does it matter? WTF!!! This is 2010 for Christ sake, I personally don’t care who is gay as long as it ain’t MY man, do you! That’s why there is so much hatred in the world b/c of stupid stuff like this. Whoever these ppl are humping is their bizness! Sandra, you are the RIHANNA ‘expert” so I would think you could “persuade” her to come on out! Melissa might not like that though….SMH
wow!!! sandra, you are really pushing for hits aren’t you?
Furthermore, I don’t care if Tyler Perry was outside of my office window twirling a baton in orange& pink booty shorts, I am still going to see “Why Did I Get Married Too” on Friday.
*in my Ashley Banks voice on Fresh Prince of Bel Air when Will was teaching her to fight* “Mind ya bizness, that’s all……mind ya bizness!!!!”
Who cares who they flucking? As long as they safe and happy…so be it.
#noshade, but where is your pic SR?
*sidebar* Trina’s boobie is out………………
Some of these people aren’t even in the closet. They’ve been running up and down the halls a long time!
Kanye West looks like a fool that is all
to the rest of the nonsense. For the most part everyone is gay in your eyes Sandra. If Sandra met Jesus, she would think he’s gay :coffee:.
Therapist1911 Says:
This is very disappointing! I don’t find the humor in it at all.
Just because you came out at 5 that means everyone else should. You did it on your terms….give everyone else the same respect.
And just because they haven’t announced it to you so you can post doesn’t mean they are DL/Closet. Yes it makes for good gossip/entertainment but this low down trifling and classless.
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Sandra knows what she is doing. these celebs are caught in a catch-22 with situations like this. if they acknowledge this bullshyt in any way, then it only fuels the fire and brings more speculation. i don’t wish bad on anybody but someone or somebodies need to teach Sandra Rose a well-deserved lesson.
@ MSG me too
This is why I lurk…Sandra you are dead wrong for this…
You must need some hits…it’s the first of the month is your car note due?
So I guess we won’t get anything on Michael Steele with his dumb ass and the rest of the RNC idiots…
Sandra, how come Tiny is not on this list? I mean she indulges in chicks all the time, she’s even nice enough to share with her situation
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Wow Sandra
I guess you saw these celebs in action.
Will and Jada are a striking couple.
Would these celebs be as famous or D list if they came out of the closet. Lets take Will and Jada they are selling the american dream. Selling the dream does not work if everyone knows they are gay. All smoke and mirror for the public. Trey Songs trying to sell sex to females would he be that sexy to striaght women if they knew he wanted men. Are they saying ahhh or is he.
I don’t know if Sandra was write for trying to expose these celebs. It is their business and they should come out when and if they are ready. But at the same time they are “running game” trying to sell a ticket and albums. I can’t call it. I am not going to bash sandra for poking holes in their stories because she too is trying to sell a blog to make herself popular. Its her job too.
YES YES YES! They all need to come out (although some are out!)
Hello All. Hmmm, some interesting pictures. Gayness is not a fad, it’s not a trend, it’s been here since the beginning of time. And I believe that most people that are gay are born gay but there are some out there that are just freaks, pure and simple, and will try anything once. (Angelina Jolie, Black Eyed Peas Fergie, etc.) God will be the final judge and jury, not me. Besides, I love me some gay men! Many are more of a lady than many of us. I’m just saying. Peace family and have a great week!
:rofl:@ Kanye’s pic… i’m can’t believe she didn’t put Ne-yo up….anyway
Did anyone get Usher cd and if so how is it?
Dang Sandra! U acting hella messy today huh?
Somebody mentioned Tiny! LOL I forgot all about her she DOES like chicks……….Sandy you need retract this post for edits!
therapist1911 Says:
And when did the term “urban” become synonymous with “black”.
Urban means pertaining to city;living in a city.
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I DO NOT like that term – urban clothing, urban books, urban movies, etc ugh.
And the problem I have with this is the control. If celebs are not gay they wont make it to the next level or they will be a one hit wonder. Thats not right that gays control success of striaght people. You must be gay to make it big.
35The Original MsG Says:
Furthermore, I don’t care if Tyler Perry was outside of my office window twirling a baton in orange& pink booty shorts, I am still going to see “Why Did I Get Married Too” on Friday.
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Even if you did have the courage, the choice to come out is still theirs.
DEAD @ this entire post!!! LMAOOOO Sandra your killing me and Trey isnt gay so fall back off my boo lol I know Will & Jada are bisexuals and ctfu @ Shamar Moore lmaoooo….thanks for the laugh
SANDRA, LEE DANIELS IS ALREADY OUT. HE TALKED ABOUT HIS LONG TIME PARTNER WITH WENDY WILLIAMS A WEEK AGO ON HER SHOW. SHE ASKED HIM ABOUT BEING “HOW YOU DOING?” AND HE RESPONDED THAT HE LOVES IT! LOOK IT UP, SO YOU CAN TAKE HIM OFF YOUR LIST, HE’S ALREADY OUT….
@ TheTruth-I have a friend who has Badu and Usher and he said Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good
Right. The most obvious omission here is Neyo.
so what if they are. does that make any of them less of a person? this has to be one of sandra rose slow news day fcukery.
@Kee2joy
@ TheTruth-I have a friend who has Badu and Usher and he said Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good
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Thanks, I will get Badu not sure about Usher..that might get burned…lol
I really don’t care who these people choose to love. Everyone doesn’t have to be an advocate for gay.
And just because gay has been accepted in the world as a whole, it’s still not such in the “urban” (<—when did that become a synonym for black?) community.
sandra ain’t saying nothing that hasn’t already been said about each and every one of them folks. yall act like this is breaking news.
and sandra, how in the hell do you know you’re gay when you’re five years old? and how do you come out at that age? and did anyone take you seriously?
Thetruth32 Says:
@Kee2joy
I had to read that twice. “Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good” is all my mind processed. 
@ TheTruth-I have a friend who has Badu and Usher and he said Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good
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Why was my mind in somebody’s bedroom?
@ Anna LOL. That’s ok. This post is about celebs that need to come out the closet. Honest mistake, but still VERY funny
YO..this ish is sooooo funny, I am at my desk dying (literally) why yall mad at sandra for EXPOSING these people???? I look at it like this…they want us to spend our money on their music, movies and tv shows..then they should be honest with the viewers!! Some of the people she exposed are honestly NO BRAINERS..like the brat (duhhhh) will smith and jada (duhhhhhh) tyler perry ( duhhhh) come on son!!!! Trick daddy been put trina on blast for having threesomes and her being with woman!! queen latifah is another NO BRAINER!!! SO REALLY WHO IS SHE PUTTING ON BLAST!! missy elliot PAHLEAZE!! and I agree with sandra in my eyes Ricky Martin gets ZERO POINTS for coming out NOW, he should have took that stand when he was at the top of his career, dont do it now when you are trying to get book sales for your new book!!! SO LAME!! but of course we will have all the cool aide drinkers drinking that big fat ole glass of grape cool aide in denial!!! Lmao
LOVE YOU SANDRA!! YOU ARE GANGSTA!!!
Yea what 5 year old has any sexual desire?
You some kinda freak (said as if I grew up in backwoods Louisiana)
this post is ri-dam-diculous!!
kee2joy Says:
@ Anna LOL. That’s ok. This post is about celebs that need to come out the closet. Honest mistake, but still VERY funny
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That’s the sad part, I read every comment before posting.
EVERYBODY’S GAY!!! Heterosexuals just need to go INTO the closet. :/ smh.
Still team Kanye purple suit and all
@Civil a 5yr old may/may not have sexual desires BUT I have 2 male cuz that always were on fiyah even as toodlers and they are openly gay today and they had fathers in the house
I don’t think Teyana is a lesubn
Trey
Love Will n Jada!
and everyone knows raz b is a doo doo chaser!! why didn’t she add that boy from pretty rickey who was dancing in red draws last year???
i thought derek blanks was married? (to a women).
Rod Boogie Says:
EVERYBODY’S GAY!!! Heterosexuals just need to go INTO the closet
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Makes sense to me.
Celebrities don’t come out because it hurts their bottom line financially. They are afraid of losing acceptance from their fans. Celebrity is all about popularity. That’s where their self-esteem comes from….popularity. Black people know who the gay black celebrities. White people are not as aware and white acceptance is very important because white dollars are longer than black dollars. Years ago when Luther Vandross was on Oprah he said “my favorite painting is called ‘two men in a shower’ and it hangs above my bed.” If that isn’t announcing your homosexuality then I don’t know what is. In this day and age, people should feel free to be who they are. I guess you have to ask yourself what is more important…the fame, or being true to yourself.
@Daisy…true I grew up with a kid from 4th grade on and I’m pretty sure everyone else knew he was gay before he did.
But Sandra said @5 like she really knew what she was talking about at that age. Most children (I would hope) only know the surface difference between boys and girls
I swear this post reminds me of that scene in the movie Boomerang, when Strange’ outted all the gay men in the restaurant.
Uh Oh – I see Trina’s nip
@Sandra your just as bad as Wendy Williams but I luv it HOW U DOIN
BEING GAY, BI-SEXUAL IS A PREFERENCE…I AM SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE SAYIN THAT THEY WERE BORN THAT WAY AND I AM WITH CIVIL WHAT SEXUAL DESIRES ARE YOU HAVING AT 5?
Daisy Says:
Still team Kanye purple suit and all
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All I could say while LMBO was:
GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY
LOL!
I LOVE Melissa’s DRESS…. WHERE CAN I GET IT
Sandra is such a loyal friend. She would never out Tiny or Rocko (Monica’s baby daddy) I’m surprise she hasn’t made any speculation over Gale and Oprah’s relationship. I’ve heard rumors about Wendy Williams and I also heard rumors about Jay Z “But” she forgot Maxwell, Jaheim, Jamie Foxx, NEYO, Lloyd, lil Wayne and his daddy, Bow Wow, Omarian, Usher, DIDDY, Busta Rhymes, Darrin Dewitt Henson,LL Cool J, Dr.Dre, Eddie and Johnny,Will.I.Am, Alicia Keys, Janet Jackson, Garcelle Beauvais…
Ummmmm @Flo…”his dad is gay”….details please!??! If you don’t mind
@ Civil –
Yea, about 3 years ago I found an email between him and another man. And although I always “thought” he “might” be in the back of head, I just knew he wasnt, he was too much of a “thug” to be gay. Well I shouldv’e followed my womanly instincts, cause sure enough, he’s gay
He has a boyfriend now 
But I dont judge, h3ll we’re like best friends now
ROFLMAO at this post.
I didn’t know about Trina but if she is just having threesomes then that doesn’t really make her lesbun because it’s ok for women to experiment with each other.
I think all of these are fairly obvious but I ain’t got nothin against anyone so do your thing.
**Kanye is my nucca**
@Flo…WOW!!!
How did he explain this?
The Original MsG Says:
Furthermore, I don’t care if Tyler Perry was outside of my office window twirling a baton in orange& pink booty shorts, I am still going to see “Why Did I Get Married Too” on Friday
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Lee Daniels did admit he was gay on Wend William’s show. so he is not in the closet.
@FLORIDA CHICK
“Yea, about 3 years ago I found an email between him and another man. And although I always “thought” he “might” be in the back of head, I just knew he wasnt, he was too much of a “thug” to be gay. Well I shouldv’e followed my womanly instincts, cause sure enough, he’s gay He has a boyfriend now
But I dont judge, h3ll we’re like best friends now ”
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¿¿¿ HUH ???
So, have you decided how you goin explain that to your son when the time comes?
@ civil – when I asked him about the email he said he has “thoughts” about men. That was enough for me. I didnt need to hear anymore.
sandra why did you put will and jada on here? am i missin something? and i’m trying to understand what that is on missys head. kanye knows better. i cant stand to see a man with nappy chest hair. that’s just nasty.
I have just hit the floor and bumped my head on how Sandra just went “Hard”(pun intended) especially, with that last post…..I can’t….LMFAO….LMAO
@ Man –
What someone does in their bedroom does not affect how I feel about how they perform their particular craft. That being said, what about Jaime Foxx?
@Flo…I bet!! He never stopped to consider how that would affect you or your son? I guess that’s why he tried to hide it
@FLORIDA CHICK
” I have no idea what to do or how to explain anything at this point. I thought about taking my son outta his life, but I dont think thats the right thing to do. He’s a great dad, he gets our son 3 days outta the week. I dont think him being gay effects the love for his son. And gay people are fighting for rights to get married and have kids, so who am I to take his child from him?? ((sorry, got on a soap box there for a min)) But IDK IDK how to handle the situation, or what to say to my son. I just pray about it!!”
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Yeah, I feel you on that. Seems like a tough spot to be in. I think you will know what to say when the time comes.
I guess your ex doesn’t try to disguise it or anything.
@Ms. Thickness in MY opinion you cant help who you luv!! (question)so what you’re saying is…its a preference of yours that you love and want a man? or were you born loving men (if thats who u luv) or does that rule only apply to gay and bi-sexual people? (preference) im just askin?
Does anyone on the planet believe that MC Lyte is straight?
Oh, and how in the world are Nicki Minaj and Amber still “in the closet?”
Furthermore, why was Amber even mentiioned?
MOST OF THEM ARE TALENTED SO WHO CARES IF THEY ARE GAY OR NOT…..
@ Civil – Thats what I said. We were together 8 years and I was telling him. You could’ve saved my feelings and our child from having to go through all that. But, it is what it is, everything happens for a reason.
@ Man – Its a very tough spot to be in. And he’s discreet to a certain point. He dont look gay at all. But more and more people (people we went to school with and such) are starting to find out. Which is embarrassing for me. But I just have to remind myself.. “its not your fault” – “its not your fault”..
@Florida- were yall together when u found that email??
Da Brat been out with that chic she in the picture with. They were together at the Kat Williams show “Pimp Chronicles” when Anthony (forgot his name) shouted out Da Brat for being in the audience- that chic got super crunk and was layin all up on her.
How you come out the closet at 5? Can you even be in the closet at such a young age?
I thought Lee Daniels was out…
Kanye aint gay.
Jada and Will are just freaks if what they say about them is true.
Everybody else mentioned is.
Hey, let’s all play a game and see how many people we can conjure up and label them gay (give a reason as to why the person is on your gaydar):
President and Michelle Obama…why? Just ’cause…hmmm, let’s throw in Sasha and Malia while we are at it…and Chelsea Clinton…and the Bush twins…how about former Presiden Jimmy Carter… #thatisall#
Have at it…
@FLORIDA CHICK
“Its a very tough spot to be in. And he’s discreet to a certain point. He dont look gay at all. But more and more people (people we went to school with and such) are starting to find out. Which is embarrassing for me. But I just have to remind myself.. “its not your fault” – “its not your fault”.. ”
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And you are right… it is NOT your fault.
LOL wowsers!
*shrugs* I knew I had a crush on a boy at 4 years old in preschool. Of course I wasn’t aware of sexuality, but I knew wherever he was sitting, I had to be close. And my mama says I used to talk about him all the time at home. He’s still fine today too!
@JEWELRY
I seriously think Michelle Obama is gay. She looks disgusted by Obama half the time. Also, no in the world can convince me that the second child is for Barack.
Nikki Babie Says:
YO..this ish is sooooo funny, I am at my desk dying (literally) why yall mad at sandra for EXPOSING these people???? I look at it like this…they want us to spend our money on their music, movies and tv shows..then they should be honest with the viewers!! Some of the people she exposed are honestly NO BRAINERS..like the brat (duhhhh) will smith and jada (duhhhhhh) tyler perry ( duhhhh) come on son!!!! Trick daddy been put trina on blast for having threesomes and her being with woman!! queen latifah is another NO BRAINER!!! SO REALLY WHO IS SHE PUTTING ON BLAST!! missy elliot PAHLEAZE!! and I agree with sandra in my eyes Ricky Martin gets ZERO POINTS for coming out NOW, he should have took that stand when he was at the top of his career, dont do it now when you are trying to get book sales for your new book!!! SO LAME!! but of course we will have all the cool aide drinkers drinking that big fat ole glass of grape cool aide in denial!!! Lmao
OK so who does it benefit them coming out, are u going to stop going to see their movies or not listen to their music, NO so wat does it benefit them coming out. In this day and age being gay is nothing and nobody business wat they do in the privacy of their homes or wherever. Just cuz Sandra came out @ 5 but was still phuckin men in her later yrs cuz she waz CONFUSED yipeee for her not everybody wants to annouce their sexual preference to the world, Frankly I don’t give a flyin phuck who u phuckin long as it is not MY MAN do u. Sandra really a slow news day. PUT SOME SHISH UP BOUT YO SORRY AZZ REPUBLICAN PREZ AND IS KINKY WANT TO GET HIS AZZ BEAT FOR SEX!!!! Now dats news…
@Flo…
I know it might be hard. But you and your son will be fine. The father seems as though he is still trying to be a FATHER. Don’t deny him or your son that experience.
Love inspite of….
We all know people love us when the sun is shining and the flowers are blooming. However to truly prove your love for someone is that you are there when those rainy clouds come, during the down pour and the flowers have welted away…..
That’s when “we” really need the love
FloridaChick813 Says: Yea, about 3 years ago I found an email between him and another man. And although I always “thought” he “might” be in the back of head, I just knew he wasnt, he was too much of a “thug” to be gay. Well I shouldv’e followed my womanly instincts, cause sure enough, he’s gay He has a boyfriend now
But I dont judge, h3ll we’re like best friends now
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I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.
How does a straight person make a statement such as this:
“People are not born gay, they choose to be gay”
HOw would you know?
My cousin who has been openly gay all my life made a statement to my Uncle that was very lasting for me
“Why would I choose to be gay and live a life of crude, rude, and disrespectful comments? Why would I want to be something that church despise, women despise, and family turn their backs on? Why would I choose to be made a mockery of when murders/criminals are forgiven on a daily?”
@FREE
“I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.”
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Is it Reggie Bush?
According to sociologists…being gay is a combination of genetics, biology and environment. Supposedly, genetics plays the bigger part in this and that studies have shown that lesbians or gay men are likely to have a family member that was also homosexual.
I have no comment on how I feel about that.
Sandra can you please get out of the personal lives of others. NONE of those people you have pictured above support me, have sex with me, or pay any of my family members’ bill. So I don’t give a flying free f$ck if they are gay or not. Coming out is not easy and a lot of people have images and family members they want to protect. I can’t blame people for staying in the closet as long as they are not hurting others and especially if they are in the spotlight, coming out could possibly do serious irreparable harm to their career.
free Says:
sandra ain’t saying nothing that hasn’t already been said about each and every one of them folks. yall act like this is breaking news. .
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I feel you on that one, but its alot of people out there that has never even entertained the thought of some of these folks being gay…..like my mother. She thought I was crazy when I told her I thought Queen Latifah and Oprah are gay….the thought just had never crossed her mind
Sandra Rose, no you did not!!! Ok, usually I can laugh at some of ur antics. Ok, a lot of times I laugh at ur antics. Ur wrong for this. So wrong for doing this. Sure, it’s just ur opinion, and for some on this list people probably suspect it anyways. These people all have families, whether it’s wife and kids, or just family in general. People will speak and talk about their sexuality when they feel ready.
I dont think we should “out” anyone. This is going a bit far. At the end of the day, do we really care who’s sleeping with who.
Trey Songz, daddy, if you’re reading this, I played no part in this so do not be mad at me. And also, do not come out of the closet, that’s if there is one for you to come out of. The chase is less exciting if you admit to or confirm any of Sandra’s ongoing stuff. allegedly. The fantasy in my head of you, me, and our, sorry, my posturepedic bump beds is more exciting with me not knowing that you despise tired old FISH.
***and yes, I meant “bump” beds, not bunk. my beds bump, not bunk.***
@FREE
“I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.”
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Terrell Owens????
Who cares????
Trina nipples are showing and Kanye pkg is poking out..
I think Nikki and Amber would make a hot couple
@luvly1957 First of all, people who holler they dont care who fukin who or who does what wouldnt be on these blogs reading about who fukin who and who doin what GIVIN SANDRA ALL THE HITS SHE GETTIN (U FUNNY)…so PAHLEAZE spare me with all the I dont carES!!! lMAO
also the point I was trying to make is when you PUT YOURSELF
In the public spotlight then this is what you get, when you make songs about sexin woman and you KNOW UR GAY!! this is what you get…SIMPLE!!! when the public spends theyre money and time on you as a celebrity they feel like they are owed something!! thats why tiger woods did a press conference apologizing to his fans because he felt like he owed that to US who support him to the fullest!!! If people didnt care so much they WOULD STAY OFF THE BLOGS READING AND COMMENTING!!! dont say you dont care when CLEARLY YOU DO!!!
LMFBAO –> that picture of Kanye is PERFECT!!!!
Ok…wait people keep saying that it is known that these people are gay and I will say that I always looked at most of them suspect but
….OK Will and Jada? Russell and Kimora?
Please explain
for those of you saying why are we ‘mad’ at Sandra for outing people, my response is i’m not ‘mad’ at Sandra for anything. unless Sandra has personally fukked and sukked each and er’ one of them, and/or been involved in a homosexual with the women listed and/or has a brother who was in a homosexual relationship with all the men listed and she witnessed them having sex on a regular basis, then i stand by my opinion that she’s being reckless and fickle. there’s nothing to be ‘mad’ about cuz i don’t think there’s anything wrong about not telling the whole world what your sexual preference is. she’s just being provocative and messy as usual.
and further,
people go to blogs for a variety of reasons, not to find out whose fukking who. that may be some people’s reason, but not er’body’s. i go to entertainment blogs for shyts and giggles, as well as for cuttin’ up with the regular commenters. opinions are like @$$holes, er’body has one and no one’s is more right, more on point, or more wrong than anyone else’s.
Jalisa Says:
@FREE
“I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.”
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Terrell Owens????
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no girl not him. i can’t even say because the dude is from the A (suburbs).
sad day in blog history, sandra. sad, sad day.
#85, you think people choose to go thru the hassles of being ridiculed and outted by the likes of sandra, all for sport? being 5 and coming is a stretch, i mean sh!t, what was that conversation like at 5 with her parents?
picture the 5 year old sitting on the floor playing with her GI Joe action figures, as mom prepares salmon and tilapia. Sweetie, which fish do you want? kid responds, mom, there’s something i’ve been meaning to tell you…I like all fish. Me and Shantavianette are girlfriends, and we just want our parents to know. I just can’t. I really, really, really can’t. Comical Sandra.
pointhimout Says:
mom, there’s something i’ve been meaning to tell you…I like all fish. Me and Shantavianette are girlfriends, and we just want our parents to know.
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Shantavianette!! really?!?
**floats away to Heaven**
Al-Ameera Says:
Ok…wait people keep saying that it is known that these people are gay and I will say that I always looked at most of them suspect but
….OK Will and Jada? Russell and Kimora?
Please explain
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will and jada are suspect because people have supposedly heard them say they are “open” or something to that effect and interpreted that to mean they swing.
kimora had the NY daily news (or one of those rags) busting her wide open as well as a chick featured on a documentary who was her old lady for a while (although she did not mention kimora’s name everyone associated her with the news article). it’s supposedly no secret in NYC that kimora goes both ways.
Nikki Babie Says:
YO..this ish is sooooo funny, I am at my desk dying (literally) why yall mad at sandra for EXPOSING these people???? I look at it like this…they want us to spend our money on their music, movies and tv shows..then they should be honest with the viewers!! Some of the people she exposed are honestly NO BRAINERS..like the brat (duhhhh) will smith and jada (duhhhhhh) tyler perry ( duhhhh) come on son!!!! Trick daddy been put trina on blast for having threesomes and her being with woman!! queen latifah is another NO BRAINER!!! SO REALLY WHO IS SHE PUTTING ON BLAST!! missy elliot PAHLEAZE!! and I agree with sandra in my eyes Ricky Martin gets ZERO POINTS for coming out NOW, he should have took that stand when he was at the top of his career, dont do it now when you are trying to get book sales for your new book!!! SO LAME!! but of course we will have all the cool aide drinkers drinking that big fat ole glass of grape cool aide in denial!!! Lmao
LOVE YOU SANDRA!! YOU ARE GANGSTA!!!
Thank you! People care because they are here reading the thread. Sheesh! I needed this laugh today. The thread was hilarious!
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#132 wow. maybe he really isn’t.
Sandra, Derek Blanks seems like the nicest person, always smiling, seems really friendly to everybody. I can’t understand how having those traits sum him up as gay. That man has a wife and kids. I dont know. I guess I think about the “good” people like him who dont seem to bother anybody, yet people come after him. A lot of those people on the list are typically humble, seemingly fun loving people, and this is what they get.
Now that opinionated loudmouth Toure? Have at it. Even I give him the side eye. I still dont try to out him, but I feel no remorse when people go in on that mr knowitall.
MsGaMama_706 Says:
@Florida- were yall together when u found that email??
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No. But we were “working” it out. Thank GOD I found out!
Man, I just don’t care™ Says:
@FREE
“I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.”
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Is it Reggie Bush?
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@POINTHIMOUT
“The fantasy in my head of you, me, and our, sorry, my posturepedic bump beds is more exciting with me not knowing that you despise tired old FISH.”
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Fish good for your health dawg. People with a steady diet of fish live a long life.
pointhimout Says:
#85, you think people choose to go thru the hassles of being ridiculed and outted by the likes of sandra, all for sport? being 5 and coming is a stretch, i mean sh!t, what was that conversation like at 5 with her parents?
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i believe a lot of people are choosing to indulge in homosexuality just like a lot of people chose to indulge in coke and weed back in the day. SOME of them are just experimenting because it’s easier and less taboo to do so in today’s culture.
ms.truth Says:
According to sociologists…being gay is a combination of genetics, biology and environment. Supposedly, genetics plays the bigger part in this and that studies have shown that lesbians or gay men are likely to have a family member that was also homosexual.
I have no comment on how I feel about that.
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Im leaning towards it being true. I have NO gay family members. Not one!!!!! ((that we know of))
My sons dad’s family has all kind of gay folk. His sister, his brother is questionable, his auntie, his 2 lil cousins..
@FREE
““I’m glad he’s active with his son and was HONEST with you. i have a crush on an athlete that i have an intuition about but i just won’t believe it. he’s too fine.”
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Is it Reggie Bush?
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PLEASE DONT SAY REGGIE!!!! I lub him ”
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You don’t think he lil suspect? Just a lil?
^^^^^^^introduce me to your homeboy, the loudest, rudest one.
Man, I just don’t care™ Says:
Fish good for your health dawg. People with a steady diet of fish live a long life.
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**pushes Man outta comments** **slams door**
you are a fool! :lolol:
comment 144 is to ‘man i just dont care..tm’
I will add that sexual abuse plays a part in a confused sexual identity. I don’t feel any type of way about gays, live and let live.
This is hilarious! Mayne say it aint so about Shamar though..nooooo
Man, I just don’t care™ Says:
PLEASE DONT SAY REGGIE!!!! I lub him ”
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You don’t think he lil suspect? Just a lil?
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No, can I ask what makes him suspect??
Sandra, this is not very nice of you at all
@Flo…that’s probably cause somewhere down the line, cousin fatgul had a baby by uncle booboo and messed the entire gene pool up…now the whole family turning out gay cause they chromosomes allll messed up!
I read this on somewhere
Yesterday, it was revealed on ***** that Katt Stacks was allegedly paid by a slew of famous men to spread rumors on their lovemaking skills, etc., via blogs.
Don’t be surprised, this is emerging as a new Hollywood industry. This first came to light a few years ago when a stripper was accused of spreading lies about Bow Wow’s lovemaking skills. Interestingly, Katt also raves about Bow Wow’s prowess. Why is Bow Wow always caught up in the mix?
Whenever a star is pegged as being suspect, these type of women are hired to spread rumors. Example: They spent a romantic weekend with the accused and he was insatiable and all man in the sack. This is meant to deflect gay rumors.
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I think alot of the problems with gay celebs is they have attention of children and young adults. If it weren’t considered wrong they would not try to hide the fact that they are gay. Many people consider it risky sex and many women get AIDS from risky sex from men (husbands, boyfriends). Becuase they don’t know about the sexual habits. Celebs don’t want to be held accountable but they are a public figure. So they hide their sexual excapades behide closed doors. If anyone knew for sure Trey songs was gay they would be alot turned off from him. Knowing that he places himself at risk and possibly them if they had an encounter (if he wanted them) and what about their sons. I may not always make sense to many but trust me I do.
@FLORIDA CHICK
“You don’t think he lil suspect? Just a lil?
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No, can I ask what makes him suspect??”
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Ion’t know. One of my friends said she thought he was suspect and I ain’t looked at the fool the same way since.
:rollseyes: Not this mess again.
@AI: Have you read Erica Kennedy’s “Bling”? Well one of the characters is a high fashion model that goes both ways. I assumed she was talking about Kimora.
About the post: I could give a rats ass if these celebs are gay, bi, tri, hell or asexual. What they do in THEIR bedroom is none of my business.
Also some of these people, we already knew they were “how you doin?” Such as Da Brat, Missy, Shamar, etc. Like other posters have said, I think Will and Jada (mainly Jada) are just freaks.
Oh yeah, I hope Mario is NOT gay cuz that boy can soo get the BUSINESS…that is all. LOL
Man, I just don’t care™ Says:
@FLORIDA CHICK
“You don’t think he lil suspect? Just a lil?
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No, can I ask what makes him suspect??”
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Ion’t know. One of my friends said she thought he was suspect and I ain’t looked at the fool the same way since.
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:lolol: Aint no tellin these days
Precious ain’t gay!!
I’ll never understand the preoccupation with other people’s sexual preference. If someone hasn’t come out the closet, it’s either because they don’t WANT to, or because they aren’t READY – which takes me back to my original point, why is it someone ELSE’s responsibility to tell people what YOU don’t want them to know?
Gay people come out of the closet for two reasons, because they were forced out (and most of them didn’t have a chance in hell of begin accused of being straight in the first place) or because THEY were ready. Which brings me to my 2nd point: If you can wait until YOU”RE 25 to come out, who are YOU to decide that now you’re going to bring everybody WITH you? You took YOUR time, you had a conversation with self about your readiness, why can’t you give people who HAVEN’T made that decision the same option? Can they come out when THEY’RE ready?
Chris Brown beat Rihanna and you make it a point to make SURE that people don’t forgive him. He lost a LOT of fans because of it. If I were in the industry and I were gay, I’d keep it a secret TOO if I’m singing about making love to a woman, but I love men. Most women wouldn’t buy into that.
Black folk shole have it effed up. We’re the MAIN people who are homophobic, the main ones who won’t buy your music anymore, but the SAME ones who want you to “come out”.
Since when did saying someone is gay or DL become comic relief? Other than Kanye’s crazy get up I didn’t read/see shait funny.
These people being gay affects you how exactly? Why does it kill you that they wont come out if they’re gay? I know I’m know going to stop watching, listening to their work because of who they prefer to bone. I wonder why so many of you are obsessed with who’s gay? Baffling
Sandra you’re always talking about being proud to be gay yet you KEEP a hand or purse up when your picture is taken. I guess that doesn’t have anything to do with you being gay though huh
And who in the hell left the gates open? We get more rabbit azz people by the day now.
What kills me is when people say things like, “that’s their business” or “stay out their personal lives”, when it comes to these celebs. So why are you on a gossip blog if you don’t want to hear about anybody’s business? Isn’t that why you come to sandrarose.com?
Damn Sandra. I hope none of these people come after you legally or otherwise. Even though I’m far from a gay advocate I believe that its a personal choice and definitely not one that should be taken lightly. You can’t force someone out before they’re ready. You just can’t nor should you label someone as gay unless you have undisputable proof. People get hurt for things like this
Offtopic and completely random but I just came off another blog that shall not be named for fear of banning and let me just say its such a breath of fresh air and a relief to be back amongst grown folks with common sense. I used to question why you kept registration closed so much and wouldn’t let anyone register who didn’t have a work email Sandra but now I completely get it. I feel sorry for the youth..
Is it me or does it look like someone took a hammer and just started wailing on Oprahs feet!
Yeah, Sandra, you got the natives angry today. SMH.
Offtopic and completely random but I just came off another blog that shall not be named for fear of banning and let me just say its such a breath of fresh air and a relief to be back amongst grown folks with common sense. I used to question why you kept registration closed so much and wouldn’t let anyone register who didn’t have a work email Sandra but now I completely get it. I feel sorry for the youth..
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I know exately what you are talking about. I don’t want to read 2000 comments and most of them are repeats. In here I dip. I saw someone replying to someones reply they were told “I was not talking to you”. Isn’t a blog for anyone to freely leave a comment? Some ppl act like they own the comments section on some blogs.
I come to a blog because I like celebrity gossip as much as the next, but if there is something going on in there PERSONAL lives that they don’t want me to know, or there is something that they WANT to keep private that someone feels the need to continually put out there, that’s where I draw the line.
If I’m a reported coke head and I have children who may be affected by these rumors and Sandrarose or Pearlswindow or any other blog is constantly calling me a coke whore, then I would have a problem.
Now, what I have a problem with is people who defend someone’s right to try to “out” someone ELSE’s personal business, but the MINUTE some b*tch n the streets gets in THEIR business, they’re ready to fight.
Hypocritical much?
Carrington Says:
I come to a blog because I like celebrity gossip as much as the next, but if there is something going on in there PERSONAL lives that they don’t want me to know, or there is something that they WANT to keep private that someone feels the need to continually put out there, that’s where I draw the line.
If I’m a reported coke head and I have children who may be affected by these rumors and Sandrarose or Pearlswindow or any other blog is constantly calling me a coke whore, then I would have a problem.
Now, what I have a problem with is people who defend someone’s right to try to “out” someone ELSE’s personal business, but the MINUTE some b*tch n the streets gets in THEIR business, they’re ready to fight.
Hypocritical much?
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In the real world, “keeping things private” would be great, but in celebrity-dome, it ain’t happening. As long as the public wants to hear it, the media will go to any length to tell it. That’s the way of the world. Now we can get all hot under the colar over this one thread (which I find funny because there are so many other pressing issues that get very little if any responses or are met with a “shugging of the shoulders”), but this one thread has caused a firestorm. I guess we all pick and choose our battles.
Sorry” collar
Why was Sanaa Lathan not added to this list?
For real Ms Sandra?? IMO its none of anybody’s business if these folks are gay or not because who they sleep with does not personally affect us. Now if my man or your man was on the DL, then I can see how this would be need to know information. Otherwise, who cares and why?
And while we are on this subject, there is a difference in the way people react to chicks like Amber Rose vs Wanda Sykes being gay. Everyone realizes Amber is a freak and there is not shock that she is gay, and even though there is no shock that Wanda Sykes is gay, the butch chicks have more “side eye” to deal with, dont u think? Which is strange to me cuz they are both munching carpet. America prefers gay women to still be fem I guess???
Oh well, this is bullsh*t anyway…
Maxwell was left off this list. I saw him in concert and gaydar signals went off everywhere. But as he said in the introduction, “Single females are his biggest fan base”. So if he came out, he knows his sales would go down.
Damn @ Saucy1!! Why u have to go and do dat??? I want me a piece of that Maxwell
I’m logging off so I can go rethink all his sexy moves and sexy songs and see if my gaydar picks anything up. I soooo hope not. 
I always thought he was just a sensitive soul, LOL!!!
Wait I’m confused, which one is gay Will or Jada?
saucy1 Says:
Maxwell was left off this list. I saw him in concert and gaydar signals went off everywhere. But as he said in the introduction, “Single females are his biggest fan base”. So if he came out, he knows his sales would go down.
moves. He was all into it also, swinging his hips like he was Elvis. 
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I saw Maxwell and he did not register my gaydar, but Allen Thicke did. Allen Thicke can sing but he doesn’t need to dance, I couldn’t enjoy his music because I was too busy laughing at his
Ive been lurking on this board for a while but what I find hilarious is people come on here everyday and it’s always a complaint abut what Sandrarose chooses to blog about. Most of this is speculation anyway whether it’s about the celebs sexual motives, groupies, or career decisions, so why are people tripping about this post that none of the celebs probably give a damn about anyway? It’s not like Sandra truly knows this and if she did and blogged about it, it’s what she does… People shouldn’t be so sensitive.
@floridachick, Not to get in your business but you are a big woman, I don’t know if I would let that guy Your son’s dad) around my son and we def wouldn’t be friends. He put your life at risk. Gay male sex is the highest risk for AIDS especially when they go back to females. That is no true friend. Also I wouldn’t trust a person that would endanger my life around any of my kids if I were to find out, just my opinion.
I am so mad that I am just now getting here!!!
This blog makes me mad NO HOMO, but the pic of Kanye is just PRICELESS. I just have to laugh.
Still nothing on Student Loan Reform….
Wow…
Anna Says:
Thetruth32 Says:
@Kee2joy
@ TheTruth-I have a friend who has Badu and Usher and he said Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good
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Why was my mind in somebody’s bedroom? I had to read that twice. “Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good” is all my mind processed
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I was SO thinking the same thing!
getyourhandouttamypocket Says:
Anna Says:
Thetruth32 Says:
@Kee2joy
@ TheTruth-I have a friend who has Badu and Usher and he said Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good
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Why was my mind in somebody’s bedroom? I had to read that twice. “Badu is excellent and Usher is pretty good” is all my mind processed
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I was SO thinking the same thing!
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Thanks, I felt alittle stupid.
I’m just coming back but LOL @ Anna for somebody saying they weren’t talking to you when you commented. My issue is that these kids read a post and went completely off into left field defending something undefendable and stupid and could not comprehend when people were trying to explain the simple facts. Its like the 18 – 24 year olds are walking around with their heads stuck so far up Jay z’s ass that they could care less about anything going on around them. And I know its not them all but to read the comments on a lot of these blogs you’d really think so.
@ topic: I’m not getting in this mess, wrong is wrong and outing somebody be they a celebrity or random dude on the street is just wrong and some of these people have children old enough to read blogs. Just because I like to read gossip doesn’t mean I want to know every aspect of these peoples lives. I just hope you know what you’re doing Sandra
Liberty Says: What kills me is when people say things like, “that’s their business” or “stay out their personal lives”, when it comes to these celebs. So why are you on a gossip blog if you don’t want to hear about anybody’s business? Isn’t that why you come to sandrarose.com?
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THANK YOU! people drag celebrities on here all day about their personal and PRIVATE BUSINESS but then got the nerve to get sensitive about certain things.
tiny is ugly but gabby can’t be fat. WTF?
free Says:
and sandra, how in the hell do you know you’re gay when you’re five years old? and how do you come out at that age? and did anyone take you seriously?
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No one took me seriously. All the grown ups told me to hush my mouth because I didn’t know what I was talking about. I guess I showed them.
INTERESTING!
Well dayum pinkazzness at its finest! I’m dying over here lmao!
You need to add Prince, he is for sure bisexual or closeted gay…
Speak on it.
BTW, Lee Daniels is Oscar-nominated but not an Oscar winner. Nommed twice for PRECIOUS (Director and as a producer for Best Picture), he lost both in 2010 to Kathryn Bigelow and THE HURT LOCKER, respectively.
http://www.imdb.com/event/ev0000003/2010?ref_=nmawd_awd_1