Ashley R, right, of College Hill, and her boyfriend Mike Gordon of One Chance, salute Sandrarose.com. Photo by Freddyo Exclusively for Sandrarose.com

Just when a close friend of Bow Wow pronounced Bow Wow free of any homosexual tendencies, Ashley R of BET’s College Hill Atlanta, forever shattered every young girl’s dream by confirming the pint size rapper’s sexual orientation.

Ashley, who on any given night is probably the sweetest thing, was in rare form last night at the Hot 107.9 Anniversary party – which, incidentally, I wasn’t invited to.

A source spotted Ash in the crowd and brought up Bow Wow’s reaction to a post I made about her and Bow Weezy. After dropping a few unpleasantries about your favorite blogger that I won’t repeat, Ash set about clearing the air on the whole Bow Wow affair.

“That was two years ago!,” she shouted. “Bow Wow is GAY! That’s why he was in there with all those hard legs in the room calling me a b*tch and a h*e! I am NOT a h*e!”

“This my man right here (pointing to Michael Gordon of the group Once Chance). This is the man I love! But thank [Sandra] for plugging me and giving me a boost although she didn’t check her sources! That’s irresponsible journalism!,” she said dryly.

“If [Sandra] wanted to talk to me she had days ago to do it!,” she continued. “We’re in the club right now, I’m not worried about Sandra right now! She’s a grown woman. She knew she was dirty from the jump! I’m on BET, baby. B-E-T!,” said Ashley.

Let me stop here and say that I asked a very worldly man what “hard legs” meant. He indicated to me that “hard legs” is a term the youngsters use to describe a certain part of the male anatomy.

Ashley had a lot more to say – most of which was unkind. Why do people get so worked up over nothing? Her behavior was not befitting a young lady of her social status and class. All of which leads us to believe that Ash may have had a few too many last night.

I always choose to take the high road in these matters. So Ashley, hon, when you’re sober, get at me so we can talk. I would love to get your side of the story for my readers who are big fans of your show. Thanks.