GUESS WHO?

Sandra Rose March 18, 2008

I am an employee of an adult store on Piedmont.. There has been a recent ATL up and coming music mogul who comes in quite often to buy dildo’s for himself. Usually he comes in high, buys gay porn and watches it in one of our back rooms… A customer once revealed that he was offering customers [gay activity removed]. I am writing because this is a new and scary underground world… with no protection used… Stop the rising STDs in black women…

Peace,
Anonymous… please do not post email address for safety reasons

http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

This doesnt even shock me anymore theres so many DL men today its just pathetic
MZN

P.Diddy? Russell Simmons? maybe they wouldn’t mind traveling to ATL…
MZN

Oh… Up and Coming so maybe it wouldn’t be them…
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

can we have more clues
Bsoul

I’m not saying it’s not true, but anyone can make these kinds of allegations.
MZN

‘Sigh’ maybe it’s Rocko “Self Made”!

More clues please?
http://stylerazzi.blogspot.com stylerazzi

Up and coming music mogul? Ne-yo maybe? Is he mogul status yet, with the writing, singing, producing, owning his own label. Who knows, down here. LOL!!!
Coo Coo Bananas

Whoever it is need to step up their porn game. They’ve got digital now you know.
Coo Coo Bananas

Oh okay. I mean. Who.Ever
gemini83

I think all these m*therf*ckers gay!! Pardon my language. :^)
AreUForReal

Oh my. But, uhmmm what’s the point of this little PDA if we don’t know who it is?

Does anybody else think it could be Polo Da Don?
JustSaying

Get a picture. I can’t beleive a famous male walks an a porn shop, looks a gay porn, buys a dido and leaves. BULLSHIT. They could send a flunky for that. They could even order porn on TV without being seen. Come on now, this don’t even sound reasonable. Drunk or not drunk.
Che

lol @ coo coo.
But ur right who in his righ mind when he is on the d/l would rent openly gay porn if he is an upcoming mogul and knowing that this gonna hurt his business.
hellava10

Er, Mr. Richie is quite well known for visiting the ‘hot’ shops–he’s not up and coming
kpakpando

This could literally be anyone, and I’m not longer shocked by these allegations coming out of atlanta
blkdiamonn

@ gemini83 Says:

I think all these m*therf*ckers gay!! Pardon my language

lol…I agree….that’s one of the main reason I had to leave Atlanta because it’s outta control down there!! I lived there for 10 years, and it seemed that every year it got progressively worse and worse. While at CAU, I had so many DL friends at Morehouse it really opened my eyes…but, not until I started going to some of the gay clubs with them like Bulldogs, Backstreet, and some of their private parties did I realize that it was an epidemic. My gay friends used to always tell me to pay attention, and now it seems that these homothugs, etc are everywhere I look…even here in Detroit!! It’s scary..and these women need to stop being in denial because believe or not the warning signs are there.

What the hell is happening to Black men…do we (black women) make it that bad???
AreUForReal

blkdiamonn Says:

What the hell is happening to Black men…do we (black women) make it that bad???

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I don’t think we make it that bad at all. By doing what requiring that our men act like men and be providers and loyal mates? NOT!! I think society has glorified this type of behaviour through books ( E. Lynn Harris) and television shows, and now some of these fools think it’s acceptable.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

blkdiamonn Says:

What the hell is happening to Black men…do we (black women) make it that bad???

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*cough cough hack* Sorry, something got caught in my throat.
wiggy2272003

the problem is not women at all. The issue is how much harder it is for a young black male to come out in black society. the averages for being gay are not color specific. There are no more black gay men than white (per capita) I think its just easier for whites to come out.
http://www.findentertainmentnow.com miesha@FindEntertainmentNow.com

i don’t believe this one. a mogul would not be so bold. as someone else said…they would send a flunky to go do it or order it on the web homie. sandra they duped you and knew you would post so they sent it your way.
http://www.beautyinbaltimore.blogspot.com BEAUTYINBALTIMORE

Don’t kill me for this

but I wonder if the reason we are seeing so many bisexual(NOT GAY) young black males is because they are seeking the love of their absentee fathers.

I think it’s work thinking about.
MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

OMG!!! Who is it? And STYLERAZZI, I was thinking Rocko myself. Then I thought about MASE, but he’s not upcoming. Who is it? Sandra, the thought is killing me.
hellava10

Sandra, you are too funny!
http://www.beautyinbaltimore.blogspot.com BEAUTYINBALTIMORE

@ Wiggy, I actually think African-American males have an easier time. Its not often that I hear of young black males being beaten to dealth like Mathew Shepard or having their parents kick them out because they are gay.

Quick question

How come a women can be bisexual and still get a husband but a man is bisexual he has a hard time finding a woman to be his wife.
http://www.smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

Quick question

How come a women can be bisexual and still get a husband but a man is bisexual he has a hard time finding a woman to be his wife.
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Because usually (though no lesbian will admit it) everyone wants a man. Men are the “givers” — we are the “receivers”. So, thinking along those lines, it just seems likely that once a man “goes gay” part of his manhood evaporates. He becomes a receiver in his psyche… At heart, we, women, don’t want a receiver.

Then, a lot of women just experiment or do it for their man, or they go through gay phases. But for a man to go down that route, he must really want some D. He must want a man from his very soul. No woman wants a man who hasn’t always wanted a woman. We don’t want a B-TCH, but men don’t mind having a B-TCH… b/c they are men.
Bubbles

I give up… you win!

Who is it ?
Mia

@ stylerazzi ~ LOL. Ne-Yo is so fruity. The only person who doesn’t know he’s gay is himself.

Is being gay or straight really that important? Is it something to be ashamed of or something that should hurt your business? I don’t think so, but that just my opinion.
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

BEAUTYINBALTIMORE Says:

How come a women can be bisexual and still get a husband but a man is bisexual he has a hard time finding a woman to be his wife.

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Thats mostly because the bisexual men are not honest
about their sexuality AKA DL men
AreUForReal

@ BEAUTYINBALTIMORE

I hear what your sayingbut I feel that in our communities it is much harder for a young man to be openly gay, but I think a big part of that is they way some of them choose to act when they come out. Just because your gay doesn’t mean you have to be flamin.

As to your question………

I think that it is was easier for a man to accept that his girl had a girlfriend (because of their naturally curious nature), but a woman facing the fact that her man use to do to other men what he does to her is just a hard pill to swollow. Trust.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

@ Miesha:
My guess is you’ve never seen what a man is capable of doing when he’s drunk or high?
extraordinary

Is sexualilty really that important…If you are into that freaky stuff, you just are.
AreUForReal

30Sandra Rose Says:

@ Miesha:
My guess is you’ve never seen what a man is capable of doing when he’s drunk or high?

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Say it again Sandra!!! That liquid courage is something else!!
omina-homina

wow. the way sexuality is evolving it seems that pretty soon it will be common where two friends are different sexes will have been with the same person and no big deal will be made of it. People will still get married, heterosexually or homosexually, having kids and whoopti-do. No one will care about how a person got that point. Perhaps it’s already come to that point.
free

lmao at people guessing rocko. y’all are gonna make sandra close the comments on him again.

sandra, i think you got duped on this one.
captpmo

WHO GIVES A MAD F&**K…LETS GET THIS RIGHT. SOME CLOWN SENDS A LETTER AN YOU POST IT. SHE WROTE I am writing because this is a new and scary underground world..THIS WORLD IS AS OLD AS DIRT. GOD VS DEVIL..WHY IS ANYBODY SHOCKED ABOUT THIS. AN AGAIN I SAY SANDRA ROSE IS ALWAYS POSTING THINGS ABOUT GAY FOLKS IN THE CLOSET. AGAIN I ASK YOU HAVE COME OUT OF THE CLOSET MS ROSE. THERE HAVE BEEN GAY PEOPLE SINCE THE BEGINING OF TIME. DOWN LOW GAY PEOPLE IS NOTHIN NEW IN THIS CLOSED MIND ASS WORLD WE LIVE IN. SOME OF YOU HERE ARE GAY AN DOWN LOW MALES AN FEMALES. NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN (IF THIS REAL) THAT THE PERSON HE WAS HAVING SEX WITH WAS YOUR CO-WORKER, THE ONE YOU LAUGH WITH GO TO LUNCH WITH, THE ONE YOU KNOW IS GAY, BUT IT AINT NO TRIP. AM I GAY, NO. BUT I AM ONE TO BELIVE EVERY PERSON HAS TO LIVE THIER LIFE THE WAY THEY SEE FIT. DOES IT AFFECT ME. YES. BECAUSE WHEN I MEET A WOMEN, ITS A CHANCE HER LAST MAN WAS DL AN SHE DIDNT KNOW. SO YES ITS A PROBLEM. BUT ITS ALSO A ADDVANTAGE, BC IT FORCES ME TO SLOW DOWN AN GET TO KNOW THE PERSOM I’M DEALING WITH. LUTHER VANDROSS, EVERYBODY IN THE GAME KNEW HE WAS GAY, AN HE DIDNT LIVE A OPEN GAY LIFE. BUT YA’LL STILL BROUGHT HIS MUSIC. FREDDIE JACKSON ETC. ITS BEEN SAID FOR YEAR JOHNNIE GILL, AN HE SAYS IT AINT TRUE. BUT PEOPLE STILL SAY IT, SOME OF YOU WOMEN HERE, DIE WHEN HE SINGS ON STAGE. MY POINT GET A LIFE. I ONCE HEARD A OLD MAN SAY “SWEEP AROUND YOUR OWN DOOR BEFORE YOU SWEEP AROUD THOSE OF OTHERS”
wiggy2272003

@ beautyinbaltimore
did you not see Sandras post last week about they boy killed in florida? Do you think gay bashing doesnt happen in black communities? Is it maybe the media just shows us more of the whites? I must definately disagree with you on this.
katgirl33

The first thing I was about to say was: AAAARRRGGGGHHHH!

The second is to captpmo: You must really be mad, all them capital letters you used….LOL
tbrown

I’m with everyone else. This could quite literally be ANYONE. But seriously…I’d like to know!
aprilshowers

MZN Says:

‘Sigh’ maybe it’s Rocko “Self Made”!
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LOL!!!!!
katgirl33

One more to captpmo:

If you know some of these people on this site, that’s one thing, but to say: SOME OF YOU HERE ARE GAY AN DOWN LOW MALES AN FEMALES.

Is absolutely ridiculous! If the girl working in the freaky deaky store saw a rapper/music exec buying sex toys, porn and offering head services, then that’s what she saw….

Who are you to make such a broad, not to mention FALSE statement like that???

Stop dissing folks!
NC_NYer

Parts of our society, especially the black community are SO homophobic to the point where it’s ridiculous. Now, before you even say something, you have to qualify it by saying “No Homo.” Two dudes WILL NOT sit next to each other in any type of social gathering. If about 10% of the population is gay, then hell yeah there are some gay rappers, gay execs, gay whatever. But people won’t be who they are because of the fear of being ostracized and made fun of. “Ewww – N***a you gay!” (c) Riley Freeman. Point is – hiding what you are still a problem b/c if a dude swings that way on the DL, then unknowingly passes something to his girl, then she gets with the next dude, whether he’s straight or not, now he’s got it, then he goes back to the crib, gives it to his girl and so on. Half of all black teenage girls already have an STD – people really need to slow down.
aqtpie

@#35 I’ve been coming here for a few years before the comment section was even opened. Are you new here? When was Sandra ever in the closet?
omina-homina

10% of the population is homosexual or bi-sexual? I think the percentage has to be higher than that.

The contradictory thing about the fear heterosexual people have in regards to DL men passing ‘something’ on to their unsuspecting partner is that the same thing can happen is heterosexual relationships, especially many heterosexual partners are involved.

The insinuation is that the diseases are caused by homosexual sex only, and that’s incorrect.
AreUForReal

aqtpie Says:

@#35 I’ve been coming here for a few years before the comment section was even opened. Are you new here? When was Sandra ever in the closet?

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School the newbies honey!! They don’t know anything about sandrarosenews.blogspot.com with the flag and logo on the bottom that said “Gay? Fine with me” LOL I don’t think Sandra has ever hid that part of herself from us.

Hey Sandra!!!

I bet you didn’t know I remembered that, huh? LOL
Anti-believer

The music mogul in ATL is Jermaine Dupri. no surprise there!

Like him and janet are real. Nigga PLZ!

Also the homosexual population is more than 10%.
hellava10

@ captpmo AND others

I would take the time to read your post if you weren’t shouting at us. Regular text works just as well, believe me…I know.
…drink some tea
captpmo

If you know some of these people on this site, that’s one thing, but to say: SOME OF YOU HERE ARE GAY AN DOWN LOW MALES AN FEMALES.

Is absolutely ridiculous! If the girl working in the freaky deaky store saw a rapper/music exec buying sex toys, porn and offering head services, then that’s what she saw….

Who are you to make such a broad, not to mention FALSE statement like that???

Stop dissing folks!

ITS UNREAL TO THINK THAT EVERYBODY HERE IS STR-8. I AM NOT GAY BASHING. I NO PROBLEMS WITH GAY PEOPLE. GAY IS REAL IN THIS WORLD. I AM FROM CAILF. YOU GOT GAY GANGBANGERS, GAY COPS,GAY ICE CREAM MEN AN WOMEN, GAY PEOPLE ON SANDRA ROSE DOT COM.)SO PUT YOUR GUARD DOWN, IF THE SHOE DONT FIT, DONT TRY TO PUT IT ON, MOVE ON
AN TO. NOPE I”M NOT MADE JUST SPEAK LOUD LOL
brwnsugga4you

#35 your post is over the top. first off this is a blog. it’s for entertainment purposes. sandra put’s those crazy headlines/titles on her posts to do just what she did to you. get under your skin. this is a place to express your opinion about her topics. but, to say that she is gay is ridiculous…and to post that other people on this site are as well is absurb. know that the post you left will be your last…sandra will have you unsubscribed in a heartbeat!
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

No one in this thread has guessed who it is yet.
wiggy2272003

@Sandra
several readers have guessed, do you mean no one has guessed the correct answer yet? Because it is not like you are going to give it up anyway. Maybe everyone is tired of guessing with no results.
AreUForReal

@ 48brwnsugga4you

Uhhmmmm, you do know that Sandra IS gay right? LOL ranting and raving about the truth. LMAO!!!
omina-homina

#45, it can’t be Jermaine Dupri because he’s not on the rise, he’s already been long established in the industry.
http://www.myspace.com/reddymond_45 The Black Katie Couric

OKAY PEOPLE LET’S FOCUS!!!

An up and coming mogul in ATL…..hmmm…I give!!!

I need for the ATL readers to start guessing and/or head over to Piedmont one evening and scope out the Porn spot!!

Much obliged!!!!!
Staley

Dead @ buying porn at a store!!!!! But I don’t really care!!!
http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

Sandra!

Just tell us who YOU think it is…

U make me SICK holding out all the d@mn time!
bloggergirlz

damn, these comments are all over the place…i need someone to define how a “mogul” is defined…i have a few guesses myself…

@ captpmo, you’re making my eyes hurt w/ everything in cap lol! you’re beyond angry…why does sandra get under your skin so much lmao! sandra being gay is no secret, i mentioned that to you in another post…what do you always have to bring up her sexuality?! you act she’s bashing someone in this post, when she’s simply passing along a message…

sandra, you really keep’em worked up on here
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

I would say Usher but i’m just being spiteful..besides he’s in Cali..I have no clue
hellava10

You’re right, we got off subject… I’m still waiting for the names of the fools from the stripperman video.
hmmm I don’t have a clue. The mogul thing is throwing me off, I don’t see any TRUE moguls on the comeup….I give up.
Hit us with a 2 for 1 special
wiggy2272003

@43 good point
@the adult store employee what does a music industry homosexual have to do with the std rates?
Is he also sleeping with women? Does he goe bareback? Dont try to clean up your gossip under the pretense of the good of womens sexual health.
It is what it is.
brwnsugga4you

AreUForReal Says: Uhhmmmm, you do know that Sandra IS gay right? LOL ranting and raving about the truth. LMAO!!!

no i didn’t while i was ranting and raving….lol. now i know…thanks for he update.
NC_NYer

@ omina-homina:

When I re-read my statement, I did see how my words would make people believe that I think disease comes only from homosexual contact, when that is simply not true AT ALL. I do not believe that – and thanks for re-playing my words back to me, so I could see how they sound. I did not mean to insinsuate that.

There are many articles that study how & why the “10%” number began being thrown around – but it may not actually be true. There are some studies that suggest that the number could be anywhere between 2% and 10%, so that was not meant to be a hard fact.

The larger point I may have been trying to make was that the United States, and in my opinion black people, are still so homophobic that people are getting emotionally (and in some cases physically) hurt by dishonesty, deception, breaches of trust, or by ridicule from their peers.

From my observation in my time here on this earth, there seem to be heterosexual and homosexual people in ALL walks of life, from politics, to sports and entertainment, including the music business. To shun or ridicule anyone because of their sexual orientation is small-minded and wrong – but hopefully in the future, we can move beyond that.
selly

stylerazzi…..looks like we gonna have to make a pit stop to Piedmont after we head to Midtown to chk on what men r using those Tranny services…lmao!

On another note….. I think I’m going to become a nun. Who’s in? lol
Bsoul

Sandra Rose Says:

No one in this thread has guessed who it is yet.
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No. But you have given #35 an aneurysm. LOL!
luxe.li.

like i say again, watch the Story of Gangstalicious Part 1 and Part 2, its a drug called Ecstasy…..among other things.!!!!! And yeah its not just Atlanta with the population its everywhere, and all Im going to say is I think the DL men in ATLANTa are more fabolous living than most females and nots not a compliment, Im not going to voice my opinion because its not for me to judge, but that doesnt surprise me at all…..when i was in highschool it was a gay boy and he would give head to all the other dudes at my school, but they wouldnt consider themselves gay…..SMH
http://usherworld sweetface

I AM NOT SURPRISED BUY IT WEAR I LIVE FLA THERE ARE A LOT UP COMMING RAPPERS WHO GOES TO GAY PRON PLACES AND MOST OF THEM ARE GAY AND BORTH WAYS SO WHAT EVERYBODY EVEAN R%B ARE INTO THAT STUFF TO NOT ONLY RAPPERS. I AM NOT GOIUNG TO SAY WHO BUT NE-YO IS ONE OF THEM AND JAY-Z BUT THEY ARE COVERING THERE AZZZZZZZZZZZZ. WITH HOT CHICKS ON THERE ARMS.
NYCUTIE

A man can’t be bi-sexual! He is a gay man who likes to have sex with woman. My friend just found out that her fiance likes to watch “she- male” porn on the internet. A woman can’t marry a man that likes to watch “she- male” porn. Homeboy told her he has been watching it for many years and he is only 22 yrs old. So imagine how long these gay “DL” men have been pondering sex with men or trannies.. I live in the ATL and it is DEFINITELY ridiculous but I must say that this epidemic is going on in most cities in the US. It is sad and there is no one to blame. Curisity has “so called” been the culprit for the longest. The scariest thing about this is that these men aren’t using protection when they have these trysts.
Bsoul

Sweetface, I get just as much enjoyment reading your posts as I do reading what Sandra puts up. Pardon me, but you’re out there.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Tmekio Says:

Sandra!

Just tell us who YOU think it is…

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I know who it is. But I can’t put him out there like that. He’s a nice guy.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

wiggy2272003 Says:

@43 good point
@the adult store employee what does a music industry homosexual have to do with the std rates?
Is he also sleeping with women? Does he goe bareback? Dont try to clean up your gossip under the pretense of the good of womens sexual health.
It is what it is.

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The mogul has kids… and he is sometimes accompanied by a female when he drops in to buy his toys…
free

akon
wiggy2272003

@Sandra
kids or a kid?
MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

Sandra Rose Says….
“No one in this thread has guessed who it is yet.”

NO! But I’ma need 4 u to give us an answer, cuz this is really starting 2 hurt my head. I am so tired of all these hints. It’s Killing Me Sandra….
MAJAHINEVERYWAY

“An ATL up and coming music mogul” Hmmmmmm….could it be Jazzy Phae? The others I am thinking of are already established. Hmmmm……..Maybe Sandra will let us know, maybe she won’t.
http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

Sandra Rose Says:

Tmekio Says:

Sandra!

Just tell us who YOU think it is…

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I know who it is. But I can’t put him out there like that. He’s a nice guy.
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Sandra-

I just wanna CHOKE ur azz!!

I’m over her DYING from NOSINESS…

(and Yes! That’s a disease)

LOL!
Elizabeth

Sandra… this is just mean. Why did u post this knowing u won’t tell us..LOL. Sad,..
ChokLitFactory

LOL at Tmeiko.
Akon was close, but I really don’t think Mr.’I have nine wives’ is gay or bi.
But I DO have a more realistic guess.
ITS DEVYNE STEPHENS.
He’s a former (?) choreographer who has done work with TLC, Ciara and Mary J. Blige. He currently heads Upfront records in Atlanta. He is affiliated with Akon as well. I did a little google work for proof:
Clue 1) this music video(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hiXtu9Qu6E) which features him in full thug-wear along with a chorus of thug-looking broadway dancers. LOL NO WOMEN IN THE VIDEO!!
Clue 2) He is a choreographer/dancer that works in the dance world
Clue 3) His company Upfront Entertainment makes him an up-and-coming mogul.
Clue 4) He resides in Atlanta.
Clue 5) He dresses VERY well nowadays with suits and colorful ties with matching hankerchiefs.
IF THIS AINT HIM SANDRA, PROVE ME WRONG!!
No disrepect to Devyne tho, he’s a talented guy!
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

ChokLitFactory Says:

LOL at Tmeiko.
Akon was close, but I really don’t think Mr.’I have nine wives’ is gay or bi.
But I DO have a more realistic guess.
ITS DEVYNE STEPHENS.

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Sorry, your guess is incorrect. There used to be a lot of gay/bi rumors about Devyne back in the 90s, but they have proven to be false.
ChokLitFactory

Alright then, that was my best guess. Thanks for answering Sandra:)
But…I still need an answer for that music video…that wasn’t right!
selly

Timbaland?
selly

Wait…up and coming…..not him, then! Uggggh! I give up! lol
free

ok, sandra has not yet said it’s not akon or jazzy phe; she just said it’s not devyne. she also did not come back and say nobody has guessed it yet. there ain’t that many REAL up and coming moguls here.
Mrsdawsondn

t.i. i’m guessing. He’s young, has kids, up and coming maybe in the Mogul arena?
free

mrsdawsondn, i think you’re onto something. i can see TI in there w/his ride or die boo Tiny.
Kymystry

My guess … Dallas Austin
selly

TI??? He’s been on house arrest since last October and the only time he’s gonna be allowed to leave his house is this Sunday for Easter Service….naahhh…don’t think it’s him.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Nobody in this thread has guessed it yet. If anyone does guess the name correctly, I just won’t respond.
BaBiEDoLL

Well He Must Be A Lame!!! He’s Not That Important If Cant Anybody Guess Who It Is!!!

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