The NY Daily News has a write up today about the ongoing Swizz Beatz and Mashonda divorce drama.
Mashonda – an aspiring singer – is planning to name Alicia Keys as “the other woman” in her divorce proceedings from the hawkish looking producer.
This is nothing more than a publicity stunt by Mashonda to garner more press for herself. Nobody cares about her or Swizz Beatz.
I mean, we already know the industry is rife with sluts, jumpoffs and trifling baby daddies. Why must we continue to dwell on these three?
A friend of Swizz said, “His relationship with Alicia began after their separation. He hasn’t kept it a secret. He still has great love for Mashonda and has promised to take care of her and their son and support her career.”
Alicia Keys is no different from any other jumpoff who wants what another woman has because she is unhappy with her own life. I tried to tell y’all Alicia Keys was not perfect, but you never listen to your auntie when I school you on these tricks.
Women like Alicia are a dime a dozen in this industry. In Hollywood, there is only six degrees of separation between who someone is sleeping with currently and who Alicia has bedded.
Last night, an industry executive talked me out of writing an expose’ about a certain female celebrity who prefers to date attached male celebrities. But I was reminded that even though this female celebrity makes a habit of hooking up with other women’s men – in the end, the men all dump their women and claim this female celeb as their girlfriend. So she’s doing something right.
Is Swizz Beatz claiming Alicia Keys as his woman? Is 50 Cent claiming Ciara as his girlfriend? As long as there are women who lack self pride, there will be fools like Swizz Beatz and 50 cent to take advantage of them.
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SANDRA YOU BETTER SPEAK On who this female celeb is EXPOSE HERRRRRR Oh you got me excited
alicia is a homewrecker and that confirms it.
I feel bad for Mashonda, I really do, but clearly her marraige is over and at some point she is going to have to accept that. Since Swizz finally came out and made a statement defending Alicia in this situation it’s pretty clear who’s team he’s on. I think he would be more than happy to claim her and from what I understand he has not been hiding the relationship. It is what it is. Good luck and peace to everyone involved.
BTW who is swiss beatz and why does anyone care, this story has been played out so many times with so many different “women” it is ridiculous it is a singer MASHONDA(who) Desperately trying to get publicity and failing miserably because no one cares about these two.
“Is Swizz Beatz claiming Alicia Keys as his woman? Is 50 Cent claiming Ciara as his girlfriend? As long as there are women who lack self pride, there will be fools like Swizz Beatz and 50 cent to take advantage of them”
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Coudlnt agree more
Sandra asks, Why are we still talking about these two?
I wondered the same thing when I look at the T.I. and his baby mama’s posts(sssss).
I think it’s Superhead or Kelly Rowlands.
I disagree with you Sandra, this certain female celebrity that breaks up relationships isn’t doing something right, she’s a sad indivdual who doesn’t want to see any other woman happy.
You should write an expose about her.
On another note, I thought Alicia Keys openingly announced that she was gay….
Well…even if Swizz and Mashonda were already separated (which I don’t believe) Alicia and Kerry were NOT separated….they were set to wed in July at that, around the same time these rumors started coming out. They have been together since before she came out as an artist…I think that’s pretty shady; however, I know I don’t know all of the details…but still…
I knew AK wasnt innocent only her hard-core stans think she is the virgin mary, she is a homewrecker and regardless if Mashonda & Swizz marriage was over,it doesnt make it right it aint over until the divorce papers are sign on the dotted line. But then again, there are plenty of Alicia Keys in the world.
@Amulet, I never heard her confirm the gay rumors, but I do remember when she first came on the scene she was hanging around the da brat!!!
uuuuggghhhhh…he is bony and looks anemic as hell in this picture!
HER TASTE IN MEN IS EFFED THE EFFF UP!!
Her last dude was busted but ain’t Swiss Beats Busted!
LEAVE HER ALONE….SHE AIN’T NO HOMEWRECKER! Only those 2 know what the real deal is.
Why is she trying to get publicity by getting a divorce? and if he’s not being secretive with it now, it’s because everything is in the open and for them to be a couple now they have clearly been sneaking around.she will get what’s coming to her raspy straining butt behind.
What the Orange Popsicle Hell color suit does Swizzy have on … ??
Don’t he look like one of them Crows From the Wiz ? ?
Ease on down Ease on down the Roooooad
Don’t be mad at Ms.Keys…….Swizz is the one that was cheating and left his wife………Check da playa not the game….
I HATE HOME WRECKERS!!!
@mizzdallas
so many out here and i see it now by blogging, some women are really screwed and love to save a nigga, she ain’t doing something right(like you are)
the marriage been over (so what you step in and make it worse)
these woman are low self esteem woman and if the marriage was so over then it wouldn’t be making news, and mashonda would not be hurt by it, and thinking they were on the way to working things out, but some women are like vultures waiting and watching and will be their like it ain’t no tomorrow. I do not believe for one minute that they just started noticing each other after the break up. and what about this
mashonda and alicia knew of each other and were so called friends, now even if swiss did hit on her, does that mean anything, cuz if i was around a man and his wife and stuff he would be off limits to me especially while they going thru and i know me he could never have me cuz i am one of the fewest real woman left who respects the next and believe in karma and i have felt that pain before and i will not cause anybody pain like that.
@ toosexy .. aint that the truth .. what goes around surely comes back around … again .. and again
That suit is hella ugly.
a publicity stunt?! that girl has a broken heart and unfornuately held on to something that wasn’t there…so what she’s guilty of trying to keep her family together?! swizz is bogus and they tried to keep it a secret because of AKs fake a$$…he’as only speaking now because so many people know the story and he’s trying to save face…i believe swizz misled her and downplayed what was actually going on…
Kymystry Says:
What the Orange Popsicle Hell color suit does Swizzy have on … ??
Don’t he look like one of them Crows From the Wiz ? ?
Ease on down Ease on down the Roooooad
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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU KNOW WHAT???????????? I CANNOT TALK TO YOU TODAY! YOU ARE GONNA GET ME FIRED FOR LAUGHING AT THIS DESK! YOU NEED HELP!!!!!
@kym
that was tooooo funny!
LMAO – @ Kym……*tears in my eyes*
LOL @ Divine … for real tho …
Where’s HunE .. I need her to do a side by side of Swizzy and one of the Ease on Down the Road Crows
What happened to her dude?
LMAO@EASE ON DOWN THE ROAD CROWS!!!!!!!!!!
THE ONES WITH THE BIG FEET!
TALKIN ‘BOUT SOME….~YOU CAN’T WIIIIIIN…YA CAIN’T GET EVEN AND YA CAIN’T GET OUT OF THE GAAAAAAAAAMMMMEEE~
OMG…I HAVE BEEN BUSTIN UP ALL DAY MESSIN AROUND WITH YOU! NO SENSE AT ALL!
You are the co-worker that should be avoided at all times….tomfoolery would most def be taking place!!!!
OHHHHHHHHHHHH ~YOU CAN’T WIN~ IS MY JAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMM!!
I’M ABOUT TO GO HOME AND YOU TUBE THE WIZ TUH-NIGHTTT!!!
YOU KNOW YOU NEED JESUS!
HAHAHAHAH@ Divine .. i’m accused of that ALL day long…
@kitty4shagidy
they split, it was announced that the engagement was off.
a divorce takes forever to be finalized, and a marriage can be over way before that, mashonda is salty cause the ‘other women’ happens to be a superstar so she can get the press (more money)
to all calling alicia names, let those who has not sinned cast the first stone, we do not know the whole story, alicia job is to sit at that piano and play and sing her heart out, if she loves swizz thats none of our business
side note: LOL at ‘hawkish looking producer’
@spongebobfan
i would be salty too, especially if this girl sat around and acted like they were just friends , he just producing my album. please, how do we know it was over waaaaay before that and she just had a baby last year and that effects women. and yea you can’t work on your marriage cuz it’s so many willingly woman who make it so easy for these men to be the men they are. and that’s such a classic remark,, it been over but i guarantee you he wasn’t telling mashonda bout it,
that brings me back to toni braxton
just be a man about it.
Is the female celeb, Angelina Jolie?….who is it?
LISTEN…….WE HAVE TACKLED THIS ISSUE BEFORE!
ALICIA CAN DO NO WRONG IN MY BOOK…If she wants that ole bony ninja…so be it!
*AHHH, WON’T TELLLLLLL….YOUR SECRETS! YOURRRR ARE SAAAAAFE WITH MEEEEEEE-EEEE-EEEEEEEEE!
@divine brown
man that girl been singing to how freaky she really is we just wasn’t listening,
now she has a teenage love affair on swiss, and nobody can tell her different. and he probably went back to mashonda for a minute i guess that’s where lesson learned came from.
Last night, an industry executive talked me out of writing an expose’ about a certain female celebrity who prefers to date attached male celebrities.
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THAT AIN’T NOBODY BUT SUPERHEAD!!!!!!!!!
Spongbobfan I agree..
If the relationship is over ITS OVER! And if it wasn’t it is now. F’ing home probably was wrecked b4 Ak came in the picture and the same for her relationship with Kerry. Damn ppl need to learn how to move on with their lives. Yeah eaiser said than done but when I nicca is making you look like a fool in public no less pull up your boot straps and (in my best Martain voice) GET THE STEPPING!
She is probably delusional like Deb *Gotti*
Kymstry His jacket does make you want to go get a creampop don’t it? and WHO!!! considers Superhead…A.K.A Karran Stephens a CELEB….We barely want to give her the title of author.
toosexy Says:
man that girl been singing to how freaky she really is we just wasn’t listening,
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hEY….WHAT’S DONE IN THE DARK SHALL ALWAYS COME TO LIFE!
To each their own…I’m not doing anymore grandstanding or pull pittin’…WE make our own choices and you reap what you shall sow! It is written…
NO WOMEN NEED TO MOVE ON WHEN A MAN IS MARRIED
DAMN IT…I MEANT “WHAT DONE IN THE DARK SHALL ALWAYS COME TO LIGHT”
Soundin’ IGNANT as hell…
I would have maybe thought karrine until sandra said she ends up being the girlfriend, now who has ever claimed karrine as their girlfriend, on that alone i say it’s not her.
What you said about jumpoffs and such, I have to agree with you cause that’s usually the out come for a lot of them closet xoes….
You dont get the limelight, the main monies, and dont mention respect cause you probably never had it from the jump. I will say this one surprised me, I always thought Alicia was something like King Latifa but only in the closet…
If a man does not want a woman she cannot change his mind and should move on. If a relationship is finished then it’s finished no one can change the reality of the situation. All she can do is go through the pain to heal her broken heart. She cannot change her mind. No one knows if AK was acting as Moshanda’s best friend. AK should have waited until the divorce was settled before she started offically dating Scare Crow
How can a woman steal a man? That makes no sense to me because he was never truely yours.
The woman who loves getting down with married men is Gabriel Union she is notorious for this behavior.
@candi I thought gabriel union too, but who ever claimed her as their girl, I did like her, but her ways are a real turn off for me. see to me a woman has no place in another relationship whether what condition it’s in and clearly the marriage WASN’T NOT OVER SINCE MASHONDA IS JUST FILING FOR THE DIVORCE IF SWISS WANTED TO BE SO OVER AND BE WITH ALICIA WHY DIDN’T HE GO AHEAD AND FILE, CUZ MEN CAN FILE TOO. THAT LEADS ME TO BELIEVE THAT THEY WERE CHEATING SINCE THEY ARE NOT DIVORCED RIGGHT NOW AS WE SPEAK. so cleary they were messing around, before and behind mashonda’s back.
correction *She cannot change his mind*.
Women who date married men like the excitement of the game. when the game comes to an end she is bored and moves on
@ toosexy married or not if the man is saying he don’t want you. He done moved on why should a marriage stop a women from doing the same. That’s why there is a thing called divorce.
& Jay didn’t claim Bey in the begining of their relationship. Shoot he has yet to claim her as his wife. So keeping your relationship private does not mean he doesn’t love her. (Even though I don’t believe 50 & ciara r 2gether.)
@candi
also men have no real respect for the other woman either, if you were willing to sleep with me and know i go home to my wife and sneak around with you, I don’t think no real man in the back of his mind will truly respect you and knows what ho tendencies you have, now i would love to hear the real men views on this. and most of the time their not intending on leaving the wife, wifey finds out and it puts problems or strains the relationship or the trick begins playing on the phones and wants to be the real woman when they knew what role they were taking on , they have motives, and that’s why their called HOMEWRECKERS.
#iscream
baby that would be true, if the man really tells the wife that, that’s what he tells the stupid trick on the side. I man can lead a woman to believe that the home is the worst place and it’s over, while going home and making love to his wife, marriages go thru hard times,does that give a woman the right to step in and make it worse. and evidently he hasn’t moved on if they were still staying together and he meeting her (alicia) at musuems. come on now. that’s what they wanna say to save face, mashonda just had a baby.
FRANKLY, I THANK THEY SHOULD TAKE ALL YOU MARRIED MO’FO’S TO MARS OR A CONCENTRATION CAMP OR SOMETHING…SO WE WOULDN’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS TYPE OF MESS!
MARRIED MEN BE ON THE PROWL SUMTHIN FIERCE! THAT ISSSSHHH MAKES ME SICK!!!!!!!!! And will lie up until the moment they are caught! DAMN IT I CANT STAND AN OLE LYIN BASTARD!
jay and bey are totally no comparison to this story.
@divine girl foreal but they on the prowl cuz they know it’s woman who don’t care and still will give up the booty and in her mind she has a man and in a relationship.
@toosexy… When he started cheating the relationship was finished. He should have been kicked to the curb. a good divorce attorney should have been hired from the start. Lets work what out? There is nothing to work out. The rest is irrelevent of he said she said, if they were still married and in-love, if they were working it out and still married. Yeah AKeys was wrong for messing with him. But, who is to say he was not lying to Keys? We all know men have hell of game at times. It goes without saying that Swiss and AK were at fault. But SBeat shared vows with this woman not AK. His loyality was to Moshanda not AKeys. women always misdirect the anger toward the other woman and not the actual target of deception the CHEATING HUSBAND who stood before god.
@candi
THAT’S MY POINT KEYS SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN INVOLVED PERIOD.
toosexy Says:
THOSE TYPES OF CHICKS NEED TO BE CANED! WITH THE SHARPEST BAMBOO ON EARTH! IF THERE WAS SOMETHING I HATED WORSE THAN AN OLE MARRIED LYING BASTARD…IT’S THE TRIFLIN “HUMAN MATTRESSES” THAT KNOWINGLY GET DOWN WITH THEM! Foul…just messing up the world!
@CANDI
nobody is dismissing swiss, but as a woman, to the next woman why would i want to be involved with a married man period i wouldn’t be apart of that period. because believe it or not
THE WOMAN\MALE WILL ALSO BE JUDGED FOR LAYING WITH THAT MARRIED MAN. STOP MAKING EXCUSES.
HE clearly stated that him and Alicia Hooked up after the split she was not the reason for the split…….
True KEys should not be dating a married man… It does not say she was the cause of the split it says that he has been dating other woman while married so Keys should not want his cheating but either……
Lawd!
A sista leave for a few hours to sign an offer on a house and toosexy is back at it again!
She done even stirred SNOOTY up out from the corner!
Hey, girl!
@HUN
HEY, IT’S NOT JUST ME, AND CONGRATS ON THE HOUSE.
GOTTA GO SR, BUT I WILL SEE YOU GUYS IN THE MORNING.
toosexy Says:
AND CONGRATS ON THE HOUSE.
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…Thanks! But this is my 4th offer now! They snatching up these houses in Sacramento faster than T.I.’s baby momma trying snatch his money!
No one is taking the blame away from Keys but, it seems she is the only one being judge so harshly.
Swizz is the one who cheated on Moshanda not Alicia Keys. She did not stand and recite gods vows Swizz did. Is this the type of man Moshanda wants to spend the rest of her life with. Lets say they get back together and this A. Keys thing blows over. Who is to say he won’t go with another woman and repeat the same cycle. Thats what I mean about it being on Swizz to respect his wife. His loyality is to her not the other woman.
All sounds like a bunch of shullbit, anywayz!
Besides, can’t no other woman take your man! Either he was on his way out the door anyway or you gave his ass away. Either way, good riddance!
And next time, learn how to give the man the ‘Good Good’, so he’ll keep his ass at home!
@HunE916…
My Friend’s boyfriend was a broker in that area (Vacaville) until they moved to L.A. His pockets were so fat! Mortages selling like chicken and waffles out in that joint!
Excuses come in the form of denial… Denying that Swizz is the problem is an Excuse.
A. Keys should have know better and never went there with a married man. But, who is to say that Swizz didn’t show her separation papers because I remember they were filed by Swizz a long time ago then they were halted and dissappeared from the media.
@HUN
All sounds like a bunch of shullbit, anywayz!
Besides, can’t no other woman take your man! Either he was on his way out the door anyway or you gave his ass away. Either way, good riddance!
And next time, learn how to give the man the ‘Good Good’, so he’ll keep his ass at home!
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truer words were never spoken and I agree with you 100%
@ DivineBrown
Yeah, no offense, but he’s propbably one of these folks that got sh!t all flucked up around here! Folks came through trying to be greedy, selling houses to folks who they knew couldn’t afford them. That’s why they’re all forclosed.
It would be a good thing for me, but now they are raising the bar on the qualifications for legitimate folks like be to get a house. And now all these rich folks are trying to swoop up on them with cash so they can just turn them into rentals. It’s all screwed!
And next time, learn how to give the man the ‘Good Good’, so he’ll keep his ass at home!
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HunE…Come on now! A man will cheat if he has the desire to! Bottom line…
Cheat with an ole bust down at that…just because the opportunity presented itself. A man/woman has to want to be faithful…otherwise, it’s a recipe for disaster
@HunE….
I WOULD NEVER MOVE TO CALI…BASED ON RENT ALONE! PERIOD…I’MA STAY RIGHT OVER HERE IN FLORIDA! Hurricane IKE, TINA, GINA, EARL, CRAIG, and Ray-Ray can roll through here…CALI IS NOT AN OPTION!
Swizz is a nice looking brother but he looks like a crayola crayon in that red suit.
DivineBrown Says:
HunE…Come on now! A man will cheat if he has the desire to! Bottom line…
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I know this. That’s why it couldn’t be the “other woman”‘s fault. If he’s cheating, your man got issues and not getting what he wants at home. Not saying that it’s the woman’s fault either, but I’ll say, MY man don’t have no reason to cheat outside other than him just being a pig. Because I know him and his needs and he’s too worn out to give it elsewhere!
good lord move on,
how desparate is a woman who wants to fight over swizz beats. surely she can do better because if he worked at the local plant he have nobody. get yo money invest well and move on ugly is a dime a dozen.
when did alicia and her producer boyfriend break up? i thought they were engaged.
In most states you have to be seperated for a period of time before you can file for divorce. I’m not going to take up for Alicia because I didn’t take up for Rocsi and the situation is similar. But at this point both men are riding hard for their new women. What can you do? Mashonda better step off before Swizzy puts the smackdown on that a$$ like Premier Misik did to LisaRaye. When they diss you publicly for the new chick it’s a wrap. Point, blank, period. All is fair in love and war.
As for Krucial, him and Alicia have NEVER confirmed that relationship. It’s been all rumor. If she dumped him for Swizzy it doesn’t seem to have hurt their business relatioship.
toosexy Says:
@kitty4shagidy
they split, it was announced that the engagement was off
damn I see why now. Man I don’t understand why women like to mess with men whrn they know they have a wife or a woman
some females need to have more male friends they can honestly speak with about this issue. you will get different insights and outlooks and you will see that you can’t automatically jump to conclusions about someone’s marital situation.
DivineBrown Says:
And next time, learn how to give the man the ‘Good Good’, so he’ll keep his ass at home!
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HunE…Come on now! A man will cheat if he has the desire to! Bottom line…
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THANK YOU!!!! I’m not bragging, exaggerating or nothing like that, but Ashanti made Good Good specifically about me.
And while my ex would rather step in front of a bus than let this “good good” get away, that boy was cheating several times a week. A ho is a ho no matter how good good the kitty cat at home is. I’m sure this is about more than sex.
You gotta know too if your man is a REAL MAN or not.
Don’t get me wrong, we all make mistakes and fall for the okey doke…in our 20s! But it be time for chicks to get a reality check! Find a man who is ready to settle, knows that a juice box, is just a juice box and it ain’t always as sweet as the one at home!
Yall is really tripping, a baby and a ring does not keep a marriage, even if Akeys wasnt in the picture im sure they still would be heading for divorce court, i cant believe yall throwing stones at AK’s we dont know her side of the story, if they fell for each other, was she supposed to wait the mandotory 2 years of seperation before they can pop off? i wouldnt wait, whats done is done, im sure he will pay his child support and ailmony, mashonda will be just fine
umm I don’t care what other publicity stunts Clive Davis engineers up, AKeys is not into men, that’s that bullshiat.
I know he look a damn mess in that red/orange suit
Alicia really took a pay cut messing with Swizz Beats…he’s lame.
I’m posting one time on this subject and then I’m moving on….I got cyber jumped yesterday on another blog regarding this
but Women there is powen in “letting go” and the only person you can control is “you”
and it’s always so ironic how we hold other people (typically women) accountable for a man’s actions-what are we saying that ALL men are like infants and have no self-discipline or control to keep their d$ck in their pants? And if that is the case then would it be fair to make the assumption that every opportunity any man gets to cheat on his significant other that he does or does not depending solely upon the “other woman”
It’s very rare that you hear a man blame another man for ruining his relationship with his girlfriend/spouse, if she cheats he BLAMES HER AND LEAVES
AND I’LL BORROW A QUOTE FROM ANOTHER POSTER ON THE OTHER BLOG
“THERE IS NO HONOR AMONG THIEVES” I HIGHLY DOUBT A MAN WILL TURN DOWN SOME SEX FROM ANOTHER MAN’S WOMAN SIMPLY OUT OF RESPECT-SO WHY ARE WE HOLDING WOMEN TO STANDARDS WE DON’T EXPECT FROM MEN
NO I DON’T CONDONE CHEATING OR JUMP OFF’S ETC-BUT I BELIEVE EVERY PERSON SHOULD BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS-AND WHEN A MAN CHEATS HE AND HE ALONE MADE A DECISION TO DO SO-DOES IT REALLY MATTER WHO HE DOES IT WITH?ALL THAT MATTERS IS THAT HE’S A CHEAT THE WHO, WHEN, WHY IS IRRELEVANT….
ALICIA KNEW WHAT HIS SITUATION WAS-SO THIS POINT DOESN’T REFER TO HER-BUT BEFORE A WOMAN TAKES ISSUE WITH THE OTHER WOMAN-IF THAT WOMAN IS NOT FAMILY/FRIEND, DIDN’T ATTEND YOUR WEDDING, ISN’T YOUR NEIGHBOR, YOUR MAN DOESN’T ALWAYS WEAR HIS RING, OR SHE HAS NEVER SEEN YOU “TWO” TOGETHER SHE DOESN’T OWE YOU SH#T
IF YOUR MAN’S A CHEAT, MOST LIKELY HE’S A LIAR AS WELL-MAKE SURE THE WOMAN KNEW BEFORE YOU TAKE ISSUE WITH HER-OR BETTER YET IS SHE REALLY THE ISSUE AT ALL?
OH YEAH ONE MORE THING ( I LIED @ ONE POST)
IF MASHONDA IS GOING TO NAME SOMEONE WHY DON’T SHE NAME ALL OF THE WOMEN HE CHEATED WITH AND NOT JUST AK-
YOU KNOW WHY BECAUSE A WOMAN/WIFE WILL TOLERATE ONE-NIGHT STANDS BUT ONCE IT BECOMES OBVIOUS THAT THE MAN HAS CAUGHT FEELINGS-THEN THEY TAKE ISSUE
AND COULD IT BE A BIT OF ENVY-AK HAS A SUCCESSFUL CAREER AND SHE DOESN’T
THIS JUST REITERATES WHAT I’VE BEEN SAYING ALL ALONG-I’M ALL FOR LOVE AND MARRIAGE BUT I AINT TOLERATING NO DAMN CHEATING JUST TO SAY I HAVE A MAN AND I WON’T SACRIFICE MY DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS OR PUT MY LIFE ON HOLD FOR A MAN-
WHY-BECAUSE YOU WILL END UP BITTER LIKE MASHONDA AND REGRETTING MAKING THOSE SACRIFICES
DAMN THE MONEY-I KNOW SHE WILL BE OK FINANCIALLY BUT SHE IS GOING TO HAVE TO HEAL SPIRITUALLY AND FIND HERSELF AGAIN BEFORE SHE CAN REALLY MOVE ON………I FEEL HER PAIN BUT TO ME GIVING UP YOURSELF IS TOO SCARY & I’VE NOTICED MEN DON’T PUT THEIR DREAMS ON HOLD AND WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING FOR THEM THEY STEP W/O HESITATION
LADIES TAKE HEED
@spongebobfan: a divorce don’t take that damn long it all lies men kick to get what they want,
I’ll speak my peace I think this world is a shame women are always in competition with each other, have no respect for one another. MEN cheat because they can, men are not stupid lets be real men know its all these women in the world that will lay with them married are not why because it’s true. So we say lets not blame the women I blame both because where the one’s with the chooice and if all women respected each other and came together as one instead of plotting it would be no cheating unless he is gay. If all women say no to a man advances that they know are taken than men couldn’t get away with it. We have the power between our legs. So he’s wrong for trying and she’s wrong with letting him have his fun. If we stop letting me have fun and start respecting one another than this cheating shit will stop. But men will always be cheaters because it’s always gonna be some thirsty chick that will let him lay with her. That’s the problem but you reap what you sew that’s in the bible.
Women be thinking they taking somebody’s man wind up regretting it. I know a few women like that. my cousin to be exact she called her self taking somebody’s husband and the lady did fight at first because it’s only natural to not want your family to break up to be with a man and he promises you the world. And how you two can work things out. But anyways long story short she got him and he’s over there putting his foot in her ass. And she wishes everyday she would have left his ass with his wife. So you never know what your gonna get cause a good man wouldn’t cheat anyways.
and men play a lot of games nothing ever comes good from messing with a married person.
I GUESS MEN ARE THE ONLY ONE’S THAT CHEAT-AND IF AND WHEN A WOMAN DOES IT-DO WE TAKE ISSUE AND PREACH LONG SERMONS TO THE MAN SHE CHEATED WITH…
MEN SHOULD BAND TOGETHER AS BROTHERS AND STOP LAYING WITH ONE ANOTHER’S WOMEN-
OH YEAH THAT’S RIGHT WOMAN SHOULD HOLD THEMSELVES TO HIGHER STANDARDS THAN MEN AND WHY????????BECAUSE WE ACCEPT AND EXPECT THAT THEY CAN’T DO ANY BETTER……..
MORALS AND VALUES SHOULD BE UPHELD AND TAUGHT TO EVERYONE IRREGARDLESS OF SEX, AND AS LONG AS WE CONTINUE TO PREACH TO WOMEN AND EXCUSE MEN’S BEHAVIOR OR CONTRIBUTE TO BEING A MALE THEN YOU WILL HAVE DOUBLE-STANDARDS AND THE CURRENT ISSUES THAT PLAGUE OUR SOCIETY NOW
SINGLE-MAMA’S BECAUSE A WOMEN IS RESPONSIBLE FOR BIRTH CONTROL AND NOT A MAN
SHE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN A BETTER FATHER FOR HER CHILD, I GUESS THE EXPECTATION IS BEING A FATHER IS OPTIONAL AND NOT EXPECTED
WOMEN SHOULD STAND BY THEIR MAN & STAY COMMITTED EVEN WHEN HE CHEATS FOR THE FAMILY SAKE-ALTHOUGH AT A MOMENT’S NOTICE HE CAN WALK AWAY FROM YOU, THE MARRIAGE, AND THE CHILDREN FOR A NEW PIECE OF BOOTY ANYHOW
DOUBLE-STANDARDS IS TO BLAME FOR WHY THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS IN THE SITUATION WE ARE IN NOW BECAUSE WE DON’T MAKE MEN ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS AND THE RESPONSIBILITY OR BLAME FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR SHORTCOMINGS ALWAYS REST ON THE SHOULDERS OF THE WOMAN-THE MAMA OR THE OTHER WOMAN
WOMEN SHOULD RESPECT OTHER WOMEN MARRIAGES TRUE INDEED, BUT MEN SHOULD RESPECT THEIR WIVE’S AND FAMILLY AS WELL-AND HE AND ONLY “HE” IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR THOSE ACTIONS BECAUSE HE TOOK THOSE VOWS AND NOT THE “OTHER WOMAN”
This is pretty low for Alicia…..say it ain so Gurl??!!
did yall see a sex tape? all i heard so far was friend like activites