Tameka Foster's friends have been assigned damage control duties by Tameka. This weekend she dispatched her loyalistas to hit up all the blogs and the mainstream media this weekend in order to diminish the damage already done to her sterling reputation (HA HA HA, that was a joke!)

Anyway, I had my own "insider" story all set to publish, but People.com beat me to it. So I guess I'll hold off on mine until the time is right. That's what I get for not taking a speed typing class in high school.

Tameka's friend told People that Usher couldn't part with his bachelor ways, and he had problems remembering he was a dog on a chain and kept forgetting to call home when he was going to be late.

"No one I've spoken to is surprised," a source close to the couple tells PEOPLE. "As bad as this is gonna sound, it was never a matter of 'I wonder if they'll divorce,' but more like 'I wonder WHEN they'll divorce.'"

"They peaked before they even got married," a friend of Tameka tells PEOPLE. "Right after it was over, they started to drift apart. [Usher] just wasn't ready to settle down, at least not with her." READ MORE...

Tameka's attorney, told Peach Buzz: “All I can tell you is that my client loves her husband and she loves her children. She’s trying to keep this as private as possible.”

There are unsubstantiated rumors floating around that Tameka had the goods on Usher, and she promised to spill the tea if he didn't marry her and set her up for at least the next 18 years. So, the rumor goes that Usher agreed to her terms of 2 years and 2 kids.

This rumor is as ridiculous as it sounds. But I've heard it more than once.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ Sandra, 09THEPHOENIX09 aka Kyra Raymond IV is going off on twitter. Is she a friend of Tameka?? Why am I starting to feel sorry for my hero, Tameka Raymond??

    @ Tameka, keep your head up and thank God for the child support checks.

  • Daisy

    Let the sunshine in!

    I think Tameka is better than ok esp. if these reports are true about how long they have been living apart and this is not her first divorce so she knows how this all works.

    OFF TOPIC Maxwell looks GOOD on the cover of JET!

    OFF TOPIC AGAIN Anybody see where Kelis says she is broke and out of $$$ and if Nas doesn't pay her bills she can't afford to? SMH Now that makes NO sense at all to me. Bless her heart she should have had STACKS on deck off to the side something

  • Daisy

    Question as well Is it ok to accept an apology via text? I say no but maybe I am just to old skool although I am somewhat young still

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    attorneymom Says:
    @ Sandra, 09THEPHOENIX09 aka Kyra Raymond IV


    I don't spend time on Twitter during the week since I can't make any money on Twitter. I only go there on weekends.

  • Dhoward1913

    What did Tameka expect, when she married a damn boy? Sorry, maybe I don't see if like y'all, but she thought the grass was greener and left her husband and kids for that youngun and look at what happened. Ex-hubby, got to be somewhere laughing chalking this one up to KARMA!!!!

  • iscream

    @ Topic SMH Sandra, stop letting everybody steal your thunder. You know you broke the Meeka Usher divorce case open first.

    I wonder if the juice she had on him was the gay romp rumors we've all heard about for years. I don't blame her for doing damage control. I would be letting it all hang out. He is the celeb and people will side with him automatically.

    @ attrnymom. Please let us know what the tweets say. Not all of us has an account.

    @ Daisy. I didn't hear that but I'm not shocked. Nas said he doesn't want to pay support to her. So of course she is going to cry broke. I would hate to think she was really broke. If so she needs a dunce cap ASAP. She filed for the divorce. She should've been putting money to the side as soon as the D word came to mind.

  • http://twitter.com/joycejustice LadyJustice

    for him to agree to those terms, she must have really had some DIRT on him. damn

  • http://twitter.com/joycejustice LadyJustice

    i can see kelis being broke, she hasnt had a hit since that milkshake song.

    @attorneymom share those tweets, i can only see people i follow on my blackerry

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    22 minutes ago from web

    Your own queens ,so much that they don't even love you or themselves,how can I say because she would have never let you treat her that way
    30 minutes ago from web

    Everything you come across and disrespecting the same and more,you will always be the servant and never the king because you destroy
    31 minutes ago from web

    Hey Black men if you are wondering why your money is always so short,it is because your spirit is short,try to stop sleeping with
    32 minutes ago from web

    I have but one question are YOU GAY,you will call a women,yourn sister a whore then sleep with her,that making you what
    33 minutes ago from web

    Black men feel the status between their ass. Is more important than the heart of the one he lies in bed next to
    34 minutes ago from web

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Read from the bottom up.

  • pinky2083

    Never liked her. I'm glad they're getting divorced. He can get back to himself now. I don't ever wanna hear an album like the last one he did. WHACK!

  • mizzdallas


    Remember when Tameka was at Wendy Williams studio in New York she was going to dish the dirt on Usher and that was the only reason Wendy let her on the show but when Wendy started to question Tameka she froze up and got all scared and at this point Wendy got agitated and told her to leave, and shortly after that interview is when her & Usher got engaged...

    I knew then something about that relationship was shady!!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ Mizzdallas, I remember that show. LOL. She was suppose to expose Usher's "how u doin" status. Wendy kicked her off the show for playing her. From that day forward, Tameka has not been a friend in Wendy's head.



  • mizzdallas

    "I don’t spend time on Twitter during the week since I can’t make any money on Twitter. I only go there on weekends."

    Sandra you finally admitted to having a twitter account!!

  • http://twitter.com/joycejustice LadyJustice


    wow. who is she? tameka's friend?

  • mizzdallas


    Some people have been claiming that Usher is "How U Doin", I don't believe it until I see it, if he is by any chance "How U Doin" then Tameka must have been okay with this arrangement, but most of the time woman who have this sort of arrangement are Bi-sexuals themselves.. I'm just saying

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    TamekaRaymond writes, "Afternoon :-) Today is beautiful, theres a black dog barking outside, I JUST realized that I'd rather have 5 sons over 1 dog. Sorry ;o/"

    @ Sandra, from the above tweet, Tameka only references 5 sons, where did the other one come from?

  • Daisy

    Hey Mizz

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ Shania, 09THEPHOENIX09 aka Kyra Raymond IV posted those comments on twitter. I was wondering if she was sending messages about Usher's sexuality in around about way. I wanted to know if she is a friend of Tameka.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    Kelis is married so as long as Nas not broke, Kelis not broke..... Kelis better get it together

    not caring about usher thing, meek meek will be ok she got ailmony and child support coming

  • mizzdallas

    **e-waving @ Daisy and hollering way across town "Heeeeeyyyy girl!"

  • lovejoy1

    Well ms Tamika you win some you loose some- like Attorney mom said- thank god for them child support checks....

  • iscream

    Those tweets are confusing. But did she call or ask Usher if he was gay, lmao.

    @ mizz I also remember a certain doctor calling into the show and exposing Usher.

    Tameeka in the words of Wendy.. If you signed a gag order have one of your family members or friends write the book.

    I honestly don't like the way Usher handled this whole situation (very child like).. From begining to end. Karma can also knock on his door.

  • Daisy

    Mizz I agree the PROOF is n the pudding regardin all these gay rumors

  • teecee

    lord people are still going on about this ? what did they expect ? 2 hoes never last, once the freakie deekie sex wears off and they are there to finally look at the real person, they werent a match. its not brain science, if u dont have the same goals or morals it will never work.

  • mizzdallas


    hi^5 on that! some people are so caught up in the nasty sweaty sex!

  • iscream

    @ attrnymom she has 5 kids. & I love her comment. That's right girl. Don't let no monkey steal your joy. Well in Usher's case.. A koala bear.

    & sex is not nasty esp if its sweaty. That means someone is putting in work.

  • Daisy

    Teecee I wld rather go on about this than Pres Obama lol

  • Daisy

    Damn I spoke to soon
    Ice sandra said Meka has 6 kids an older son lives n Oakland not sure if its true or not

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ teecee #26, You done wrote a mouthful right there.

  • Krysi J

    Say it aint SO...come on Usher....and you expect me to buy your CDs after this?? You making shyt worst! Are you on the DL or just unhappy..........????????

    If this is a publicity stunt I suggest you pull out now, before it blows up in your face.

  • Nina

    I'm curious about this "setup/prenup" - as Sandra said before she will probably get that house, but I wonder what those monthly payments will be looking like.

  • iscream

    Thanks for the update Daisy. I was trying to be on her side a lil. But she is triffling and I guess his love is blind eyes have been opened. I wish them the best

  • Daisy

    @Ice anytime after being in my house for almost 6 yrs I am finally getting my last 4 blinds up better late than never

  • Songbird27

    No! I believe it was the other way around! Tameka is trying to play the victim but I really believe that she just planned on milking him dry...almost 2 years later, a house and 2 kids, I'd say she got just what she wanted;love ain't got nothin' to do with it...smh Now she should just go somewhere and sit her behind down!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    She's not talking about Usher in her tweets..' 09THEPHOENIX09 Controling abusive men,(I'm not talking about Raymond he's got a brain and isn't a fag) about 3 hours ago from web"

    I'm just waiting for the book

  • Daisy

    @2bme thanks for the update. Although I wont be buying the book I will def. be READING the book..lol

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ 2bme, thanks for the update. I have not logged into twitter since I returned home.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Oh hell nawl, 09THEPHOENIX09 tried to come after me on twitter. She writes,

    "@PunkAssParents Women are the daughters of The Almghty God, are you stupid,umm and your trying to pull of your a woman."

    Okay, it is on. LOL

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Okay she just told me to die because I said the number reason for sex is procreation, not recreation. 09THEPHOENIX09 writes,

    "@PunkAzzParents after all I said a about women being mistreated by men your reply is they are mere birth machines,you should die."

    I am not going to waste my time with a looney tune. WTH??

  • Anna

    I googled Tameka and a headline read, Tameka knows how to clean house, she always gets the house in the divorce. LOL.

  • http://myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    Attorneymom, i wondered who she was talking too..she speaks in alot of circles the chick is nuts!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ 2bme, the woman is two sandwiches short of picnic. I told her that reading is fundamental. I did not say that procreation is the ONLY purpose of sex. I just said the #1 reason.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    SR family, I will be away from SR for the next few days to handle some exciting business opportunities. In the interim, please meditate on the following scripture "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." ( Jeremiah 29:11)


  • Anti-believer

    Oh Lawd, the bible bumpers have taken over. Talking about nothing. Just repeating words that don't realize is written by man. Do you realize your man written scripts tell you not to trust man? Hypocrites, keep bumping.

  • http://myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    ^^anyway..Attorneymom..continue to believe sis..don't forget us peons when u become that success we all know you will be..as for what u stated..sex IS for procreation..everything else is an added benefit! :)

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  • pointhimout

    tameka's not getting the house. she can't afford the pmts. just ask sheree whitfield what that's like. you want the house, but can[t afford the pmts? ok.

    it would have been worth more to spill the dirt, and not by way of wendy williams. if she had photos and videos, etc, she could've gotten top dollar for them. her heart wasn't in the right place if she even went to WWS to spill the beans. ur a trusted employee, but now the gravy train has dried up, u want money. nah chick, dont work like that. she realized she was just a lay after a long night of drinking and he simply was not that into her after seeing who and what she really was. who marries the jump off and actually stays with them?

    tameka knew it was just a matter of time. after she spat out that first baby, she ddn't give phuck about what usher did cuz she knew her pay day had finally arrived. to thank usher, she even named her pay day after its daddy. adding to her payday, was a bonus, though we like to refer to him as child number two.

    im not believing the HUD rumors either, not at least until i get a turn with him. mmm mmm mmmm. where and how did the rumors even start? being a celeb, how can u trust anyone to keep ur sexcapades private? even the person u bed wanna run out and write a book. this is why i firmly believe in hooking up with people who have just as much to lose as you do. did that chick ever spill the peachtree corners beans? i need concrete proof; proof that i have a chance with ursher.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ pointhimout, "this is why i firmly believe in hooking up with people who have just as much to lose as you do."

    Amen. Can we just pass the offering plate right now??? You deserve a love offering for that entire comment.

    Sidebar: I have insomnia. Can't sleep.

  • iscream

    @ point how u doing, lol (all in fun)

    The gay rumors started when Puffy took Usher under his wing.

    @ attrnymom sleeping pills can be ur best friend.

  • ELove

    NOW that was a mouthful (Very Interesting points...)

    Ill-Gotten GAINS never last as long As Expected
    Because the MOTIVES behind them rarely inspires Longevity

  • coaretained

    After all that huffing and puffing he did about how much he LOVES his wife...Jesus take the wheel..

  • Anna

    coaretained Says:

    After all that huffing and puffing he did about how much he LOVES his wife…Jesus take the wheel..
    I have always said that if you take so much time to defend your marriage something is wrong with it.
    He finally got tired of huffing and puffing.

  • iscream

    Hey Coa *waiving*

    Whenever I think about Usher & Tameeka I think about the TRL episode when they were going to commerical and he went on that rant about how much he loved her.

    They kept trying to say that people didn't like her because of her skin color. So now why is it he's divorcing her within such a short time span again?....

    Yeah, exactly.

  • coaretained

    *waving @ iscream*

    what's going on girl? I cosign with Anna... all that doggone "I love my wife" was a defense mechanism for him KNOWING "sum won't right". And then popping them kids out right away.. I smell something and it don't smell right..


    You know I'm still concerned bout that "threat"...

  • Krysi J

    They kept trying to say that people didn’t like her because of her skin color.

    Please! It didn't have anything to do with her skin color, people need to quit (and Im not talking about you cuz I know you are speaking on what people were saying)....but Im just saying.....Usher went from Chilli....to Tameaka....that was pretty much the problem. Chilli is a beautiful brown, but she's PRETTY....Tameaka is TAMEAKA and thats pretty much all Usher gets outta that situation, that and some snapper....cuZ she at least better have that for him to have shytted on HIMSELF like he did by being with her.

  • ELove

    Tameaka is TAMEAKA ... LMAO LMAO LMAO
    Uh So tell us HOW U REALLY FEEL !!!!!

  • flyqtnva

    Damn Krysi J......lol...i cant even say nothing