A word of caution to all married (and unmarried but attached) men who can’t resist the urge to step outside of your relationships: Don’t sleep.

Back in the day, when the black community still had values and high morals, men would still creep. But it was understood that a man never went to sleep with a jumpoff in his hotel room.

The true playa’s motto was: hit it then quit it. They never let their emotions get involved because they valued what they had at home.

About 6 years ago, I received a letter from a reader. Inside the letter was a photo of an industry baller sound asleep in what looked like a hotel room. In his open hand lay a sex toy.

The letter author was, of course, a pissed jumpoff. In her lengthy letter she asked me to put him on blast by posting the letter and photo on my website. I declined her request due to the fact that I knew him and he was a genuinely nice guy.

But being a genuinely nice guy didn’t save NFL baller Steve McNair from the wrath of his 20-year-old jumpoff, Sahel Kazemi.

McNair, 36, met the then 19-year-old Kazemi six months ago at a Nashville Dave & Busters where the McNair family often ate. The two exchanged numbers and Kazemi became just another notch in the notorious playboy’s belt.

Kazemi, who police say was spiraling out of control in the last week of her life, confided in a co-worker that she wanted to end it all.

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Fox News host Bill O’Reilly questions the racial component to the Michael Jackson story, and ponders why so many blacks are compelled to watch 24-hour coverage of his sudden death when Michael didn’t even want to be black.

O’Reilly points out that MJ bleached his skin white and chose white men to sire his children.

College professor, the very annoying Marc Lamont Hill, engages O’Reilly in a healthy debate on this subject. Although Hill admits that Michael “disfigured his face to resemble white people,” he argues that Jackson is undeniably black. “You can’t take black from him just because he has white kids,” says Hill.

Two punks tried to start chit in a convenience store and got their heads handed to them by every man in the store. Bravo! We need more REAL MEN like these to take action when they see thugs acting up in their presence.

A medical examiner’s findings ends the rampant speculating on whether or not NFL legend Steve McNair’s jumpoff shot him multiple times before turning the gun on herself:

From TMZ.com:

We just spoke with Tennessee assistant medical examiner Dr. Feng Li, who tells us preliminary test results in the Steve McNair death show Sahel Kazemi fired the gun that killed both of them.

Feng — who conducted autopsies on the two bodies — told us he was able to make the determination from the crime scene investigation, police interviews, autopsy findings and preliminary lab results — which include gun shot residue test.

Friends say McNair’s wife, Mechelle McNair, had no prior knowledge of her husband’s 6-month affair with the 20-year-old waitress whom he met last year.

Robert Gaddy, a close friend of McNair’s who phoned 911 from the death scene, denied McNair and his wife Mechelle were divorcing:

“People need to quit talking about what they don’t know. Mac never said anything to me about he was going to get a divorce, and ever since this has all happened everybody is trying to paint a certain picture and they need to talk about what they know.”

Singer Solange Knowles attended OP’s “OPen Campus” Fall Ad Campaign launch at Mel’s Drive-In in Hollywood, CA yesterday.
Photo: Splash News Online

Rapper Khia and a friend were in the house at Tongue & Groove nightclub last week.
Photo by Prince Williams/ATLPics.net

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Rapper Lil Kim, left, and socialite LisaRaye were spotted arriving at the Beverly Wilshire Hotel following Michael Jackson’s memorial in L.A. yesterday. Word is they’re BFF’s now. We didn’t know Kim and LisaRaye knew each other like that.

Hunky Tyrese Gibson was also seen at the Beverly Wilshire after leaving the Staples Center where he attended Michael Jackson’s stirring public memorial yesterday.

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A British tabloid is questioning the authenticity of little Paris Michael Katherine Jackson’s mournful dry eyed tribute to her guardian, Michael Jackson during his public memorial at the Staples Center yesterday.

Britain’s The SUN newspaper accused the Jackson family of pushing little Paris in front of the microphone after she was forced to live her entire life behind a veil.

Taking children to a funeral is one of the most difficult decisions a parent will ever have to make.

But the King of Pop’s young daughter speaking as the climax of the memorial just wasn’t right.

Paris didn’t look comfortable and more importantly, capable, of doing it.

As the family gathered on stage I was surprised to see the children being paraded in front of a gold coffin holding the remains of their beloved father.

Then, as JANET Jackson struggled to lower the mic stand for her niece’s tiny frame, I just couldn’t believe my eyes.

Apparently, The SUN wasn’t impressed with the sobbing Paris crying a river of air. The rag even went so far as to label the entire event a “macabre circus.”

Though we here at sandrarose.com are inclined to agree that tearless crying is a mite suspicious — even we are willing to give the kid a break.

Oscar winning actress Halle Berry and her sperm donor Gabriel Aubrey have been spending a lot of quality time together lately. Maybe Halle grew tired of the blogs asking where he was. She’s probably paying him to play the doting daddy role for the paps. He’ll be gone soon.

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