Poor NeNe probably had an easier time swinging from that pole in the strip clubs than she's having trying to be the antagonist of RHOA. I'm sure Bravo convinced this small minded woman that she was the star of the show and urged her to ratchet up the drama to boost the ratings this season.

But unfortunately for her, the end result is that she's losing her once adoring fans who loved her sassiness and fierce independence. Now she's just a bully.

I still can't watch the show, but I'm happy to know that I'm not the only one who thinks RHOA is totally staged. Trust me, there aren't a bunch of Derek J's and Lawrence's walking around Atlanta with handbags and high heel pumps on.

AJC's Radio & TV blog has a recap of last night's episode 9. Nene's former fans bare their claws at her in the comments section. Here are my favorites:

SteveOh
September 25th, 2009
10:00 am

NeNe – she is out of control. A book!?! Give me a break. I saw it in Costco and was stunned. Again, a Bravo thing to pump the show. Her house is empty. All the camera angles are set so you can’t see the barren walls and empty rooms. Her “co-author” is just now (in show-time) learning what will be in the book. I just can’t wait to spend my money to learn about her youth in Athens, GA. Should be exciting. Perhaps the book is a “tell all”. I’ll wait for the Cliff’s notes on it. So clearly she is being propped up by Bravo. And that has gone straight to her ego. I used to think she was really “real” – but now I don’t. I feel sorry for her and her husband. They obviously don’t have money (there’s no crime in that) and they are living a fake life. I would take any bet that her ring is a Cubic Zerconia (not that there’s anything wrong with that). Not having money is more the norm now-a-days, but acting like you do is another story.

CWILLI
September 25th, 2009
10:04 am

I was a huge fan of NeNe’s but not anymore she want’s to be the center of attention and she is doing it the wrong way. NeNe you already tall and big and loud spoken you don’t have to bring attention to yourself you are the first seen when you are with the other ladies you stand over them like the Leaning Tower of Pisa. You should be more lady like, I truly hope you try and find some etiquette some where cause honey you need it. You need to concentrate on the lazy son you have living at home with you; your husband says he should be get a job in which I somewhat agree but how about stressing education since you don’t have any. NeNe I am so disappointed you said Gregg your husband was into property investment then I heard you on the radio say he was a motivational speaker c’mon give us a break. You just a big ole country girl who got lucky and you need to act like that is truly what happened, this what you have want last for long, trust me. “Smooches."

Reggie Reg
September 25th, 2009
10:16 am

NeNe should be called NoNo. Nobody likes her. She is fake as hell. She is ugly as hell. She has zero class. Zero talent. Let’s bow our heads and pray for her…she definitley needs it.

D Dorsey
September 25th, 2009
9:11 am

NeNe Lost me – Im done with her. She is the ugliest person not only on the outside by the inside as well. Kim has stuff about her, but I wish she would just grab NeNe by that ugly hair and knock the daylites out of her.

Lesia
September 25th, 2009
9:20 am

Ne Ne’s 15 minutes of fame are about to run out! She’s becoming irritating and starting to give the show a bad name. Some of us will be looking for something else to watch if she doesn’t tone it down.

  • Krysi J

    Yea NeNe is definitely on my shyt list...

    Kandi hasn't gon hollywood yet, so for the moment she is the only down to earth person on the show who hasn't shown fakeness/thrown SHADE on her co stars.

  • LovelyLady

    That picture is just dreadful.

    Where Daisy you know she bout to defend NeNe. lol Hey Daisy

  • iscream

    Daisy will say:

    Team NeNe :coffee:
    **********************
    :rofl:

    Its all in fun.

  • LovelyLady

    NeNe use to be my fav, but this season it is def Kandi. As my mom would say "Kandi is time enough for dat azz". NeNe DOES seem like a bully and not just because of her hieght or base in her voice, she just seems as though its her way or no way and if you dont like she will try to minimmize you. To me she feels threatened by Kandi. Not to mention Kandi is and been getting that paper THEy wouldnt have if it wasnt for they hubbies/pimps

  • LovelyLady

    Sandra this should have been filed under not safe for work, i see a girl butta balled nekkid in the background lol.

    Oh Goodness, that weave, that outfit, BOTH PICS, just dreadful.

  • intensemocha

    I'M A FAN OF NE NE'S ALSO BUT I DIDN'T LIKE HOW SHE BEHAVED LAST NIGHT

    I HAD TO DO A DOUBLE-TAKE WHEN SHE TOLD KIM SHE COULDN'T SELL THE RECORD WITHOUT HER AND SHE NEEDED HER YADA, YADA

    NE NE IF YOU ARE READING THIS-I'M STILL A HUGE FAN BUT THE EGO HAS TO GO

    WHAT WE LIKED ABOUT YOU TO BEGIN WITH WAS YOUR NO NONSENSE ATTITUDE BUT I'M NOT FEELING THE NEW ATTITUDE "IT'S ALL ABOUT ME" YOUR PERSONALITY IS BIG ALL BY ITSELF YOU DON'T NEED TO INFLATE IT MA

    STILL A FAN THOUGH AND HOPING YOU JUST WERE HAVING A MOMENT

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    NeNe turned my off completely last night!!!! I couldn't believe it when she told Kim the song would not sell without her on it. I was a NeNe fan last season. NeNe with the help of BRavo has turned into the DEVIL in a sunday hat. She needs to sit down.

    on the other side if I had waited a few moments I would not have needed to send you an email Sandra.

    I am scrolling through the archives trying to see if this is something you have already covered. Am I late to the scene?

    I was watching the Wendy Williams show last night on BET. I heard Kandi of Atlanta HW and formerly of Escape confirm that she and baby maker AJ are no longer together. YET, she has temp custody of his 12 year old twin girls. Let’s also mention that the twins and her daughter do not like each other and don't get along.

    Wendy asked the million dollar question "WHY?" Kandi responded by saying the girl’s mom is going through some things and that the girls were at an age where they needed a positive role model in their lives.

    Wow! Kandi is obviously a gracious hearted person and her blessings will continue to be in abundance as a result of that. Now my dark side would like to know, does this prove the rumor that she indeed was taking care of this man?

  • Dhoward1913

    She is kinda smelling herself. Last night was a mess. This shows lets other folks see the ugly side of black women. These women are far from friends and they are horrible to each other. But hey, if there was a show about real black women who arer really friends and are really happy about each other accomplishments and success, it wouldn't be something worth watching.

  • intensemocha

    NE NE HAS BECOME THE MOTHER FIGURE OF THE GROUP

    AND KANDI DOESN'T TAKE WELL TO ADVICE-SHE CONSTANTLY FEELS THE NEED TO PROVE TO THE OTHER WOMAN WHAT SHE'S ACCOMPLISHED AND WHAT SHE HAS

    SO I THINK THAT'S WHY SHE AND NE NE BUMP HEADS-IT'S BECAUSE SHE WON'T ALLOW NE NE TO ACT LIKE A MOTHER FIGURE

    SHE SHOULD HAVE CONFRONTED HER ABOUT WHAT SHE HEARD AT A DIFFERENT TIME OR IN PRIVATE

    NE NE'S FEELINGS ARE EASILY HURT AND I REALLY THINKS SHE MEANS WELL-BUT SOME PEOPLE DON'T CARE AND AREN'T GOING TO COW TOW TO HER AND THAT SEEMS TO BE THE CASE WITH KANDI

    I THINK THESE TWO WOULD GET ALONG IF THEY SAT DOWN AND TALKED PRIVATELY

  • mizzdallas

    Hey! GGouch

    "does this prove the rumor that she indeed was taking care of this man?

    yes, kandi crazy azz was taking care of him, who is he..? A former local drug hustler that is a nobody trying to ride off of kandi...

  • miamore73

    I love Ne Ne!! What she did last night was what she was supposed to do. Not for one minute do I think this show is totally unscripted. There are people behind the scenes that are really running the emotions and the stuff that we see played on TV.

    NeNe has never came off as an angel to me and has always said what she thinks out loud. I like her.

    Why wouldn't 12 year old girls get along with a 6 year old??? Is it just a regular sibling rivalry type thing?

  • shannon04

    I still can't figure out why grown women are sitting around acting like high school girls. They spend more time going back and forth about who said this and that, and just acting like children. I agree, that the fakeness is too much. You can tell that this show is made up and Nene and her husband do not have $ like they portray. Sheree is a hot mess and should have doing her thing a long time ago. How were you married to a ball player and didnt have money set aside for yourself? Kim is a mess too. ..married man or not she should do better and she can do that by not associating with any of these women. Lisa...I'm still trying to figure out how you sell real estate and the home where you lived got forclosed on???? Things do happens but it looks like Lisa and Ed missed the memo about downsizing things when the economy started to go bad. Kandi appears to be the only genuine one and the only one that has $ seriously. She should take herself out of theis equation very soon cause this show is a mess and the women on it are even worse. I know DeShawn Snow is glad she is no longer a part of this baffonery.

  • scorpio

    I love the way Kandi shut her down, last night. Kandi is the one with her *ish together. Bring it down, before I get blown up on your A. Nene hates Kandi's young professionalism. They need to keep that walking corpse Dwight off camera. YUCK!!!

  • alexander

    Yeah I didn't like how NeNe handled the situation last night. The white chick was wrong for switching up, but Nene was wrong for acting like she did. I'm liking Sheree more these days...even though she needs to ditch both of her BFFs. Kandi has zero personality to me and I swear she's older than she says she is.

  • pinky2083

    Nene was foul for that mess she pulled at the party.

    She used to be one of my faves but not anymore.

    Obviously she doesn't know what she's talking about because that wack azz song was in the top 10 on itunes for a couple weeks.

    Don't be tardy for the party..oooh oh. hahaaa!! :)

    Not sure what Sheree's lil party was supposed to prove..

    Was that a drag queen on that stripper pole with the dollars taped on??

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Yes, I agree that Ne-Ne used to be the "REAL" one when it comes to telling it like it T>I>IS, but I'll bet the producers over at Bravo are the ones who are putting the battery in Ne-Ne's back and promoting this unbecoming behavior she's been exhibiting. I think it was very big of Kandi to walk away from that train wreck of an "adult conversation" with Ne-Ne. But guess what...we all complain about Ne-Ne's behavior, but we will all be tuned in next week for another dose of the drama (I know I will).

    (In the words of Dave Chappelle) -
    "I was appalled, but I could not look away".

  • aqtpie

    I definitely think she has changed, I like her too she just needs to tone down a little. I'm with Kandi, I wouldn't have minded talking to her about how she felt about the song situation but shyt bring that shyt down a notch in a public setting. I also thought it was a really mean thing to say to Kim about selling her albums, even if it were true.

  • Divinebrown

    I think Nene is all bark...

    I felt my blood pressure rising when she was in Kandi's face like that. She is forever calling someone classless and ghetto and needs to be on the next season of charm school her damn self. I'm SO GLAD KIM PLAYED HER...SHE HAS BEEN BAD MOUTHING KIM SINCE LAST SEASON WHEN SHE TRIED TO SLIDE IN SOME JOKES IN THE LIMO.

    They embarrass me.

  • Divinebrown

    Bisches get some new porclain veneers, cut their quick weave and all hail breaks loose. Nene's demeanor is so phony to me...

  • mirsmommy

    I was hoping Kandi would jus turn around and knock NeNe's dentures right outta her mouth. I'm sorry people, but her teeth look like dentures for real.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    intensemocha Says:

    NE NE HAS BECOME THE MOTHER FIGURE OF THE GROUP

    AND KANDI DOESN’T TAKE WELL TO ADVICE-SHE CONSTANTLY FEELS THE NEED TO PROVE TO THE OTHER WOMAN WHAT SHE’S ACCOMPLISHED AND WHAT SHE HAS
    _______________________________________________________

    Hey Mocha,
    I so disagree with the above statement. NeNe a mother figure? How is that? She is the least accomplished of the group. If she is the mother figure...someone needs to call DFACS because she is abusive.

    And Kandi has nothing to prove to these women. Kandi is atl home-grown and has already put in the work and earned major respect long before the Real Housewives series.

  • missy

    I feel like Nene was mad because Kim was doing the song without her she even said that she felt betrayed because I think both Nene and Kim are feeling themselves too much and it's reality TV so they of course have to put on for more drama.I feel like Kandi and Nene just don't like each other because maybe they are both similar they both think the other one is ghetto and what not but it really doesn't matter to me because it's entertainment and if it's anything like high school they probably will be talking and backstabbing each other until the show is over.(why was Kim at sheree's party)

  • bklynchick

    Ne Ne was my fav las season,but this season she has gone "HOLLYWOOD" on me..she acting really uppity and it really was uncalled for..how can she call somebody country when she is way more "bama" than Kandi here is how I am listing my fav to least fav...
    Kandi- cause she has class and has more talent than all of them put together
    Sheree- still tacky, and snobish but when she said "who gonna check me boo??" It was classic
    Lisa - is an instigator she is the one always popping up and tells little stuff here and there she is really sneaky
    Ne Ne- too loud and think she is the shyt with that stocking cap quick weave
    Kim- "Home wrecker"

  • intensemocha

    MY DEAR WHAT I SAID WAS SHE RECENTLY HAS BEEN BEING THE MOTHERLY FIGURE TO THE WOMEN IN THE GROUP-ALL OF THEM HAVE BEEN FLOCKING TO HER LATELY TO UPDATE HER WITH WHAT'S GOING ON IN THEIR LIVES OR FOR A LISTENING EAR

    NOT LITERALLY A "MOTHER" FIGURE-BUT SHE DOES SEEM TO TRY AND TELL EVERYONE WHAT TO DO HENCE THE ALTER EGO PHOTO SHOOT

    AND KANDI IS ACCOMPLISHED AS I STATED AND HER NE NE SEEMS TO BUMP HEADS IN MY OPINION BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT NE NE ALL UP IN HER BUSINESS AND TELLING HER WHAT TO DO

    AND SIDEBAR-YALL SINGING THE PRAISES TO KANDI HER PROFESSIONAL GAME IS TIGHT, BUT HER COMMON SENSE HAS LEFT THE BUILDING WHEN IT COMES TO HER PERSONAL LIFE AND HER CHOICE OF A MAN

    SHE WAS TRYING TO FORCE A FAMILY/MARRIAGE BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO BREAK THE CYCLE OF SINGLE MOM'S-SHE STATED THIS HERSELF HENCE SHE HAS SOME ISSUES TO ADDRESS

    SHE TURNED OUT QUITE SUCCESSFUL AND SHE WAS RAISED BY A SINGLE MOM

  • missy

    intensemocha Says:

    AND SIDEBAR-YALL SINGING THE PRAISES TO KANDI HER PROFESSIONAL GAME IS TIGHT, BUT HER COMMON SENSE HAS LEFT THE BUILDING WHEN IT COMES TO HER PERSONAL LIFE AND HER CHOICE OF A MAN

    Lmao that is so true

  • miamore73

    Oh my goodness!!!

    I'm so about to make Tardy for the Party my new ringtone!!

    :rofl:

  • bklynchick

    Do u think Dwight is really feeling Kandi or is he "Team NE NE" forever?

  • luvly1957

    The whole show is just fake. did anybody read sis2sis mag article in it bout Kandi and AJ he says he owns popular strip club here in ATL (Strokers) and he has other biz, says his family has money and his kids did not want to lv wen him and Kandi split. show is entertaining and funny.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    pinky2083 Says: Was that a drag queen on that stripper pole with the dollars taped on??
    ______________________________________
    O to the M to the G!!! Yes girl!! with hormorne infused tities!!! I wanted to throw up inside my DVR!!! What the hell did that have to do with independence.
    ******************************************************
    bklynchick Says:Kim- “Home wrecker”
    _________________________________________
    Yes she IS!!!! and had the nerve to say she has no problems dating married men and in the next breath said she wanted to be married!!!!! I think chicks that are okay with being the mistress should have their liberties to become a wife revoked!!!

  • miamore73

    I found this info on the net from an article with NeNe. She's telling a bold face lie about Tardy for the Party.

    Are you singing on Kim’s song “Tardy For The Party?”
    Well it’s Kim [with] Kandi’s help. Kandi changed it from country to dance and so Kandi has a lot of beats going on in the back so you can’t really hear her … It’s not about the vocal — it’s more about the beat. When you are singing country, it is more about the voice. I can’t wait for you guys to see that episode. I think you guys are going to feel for me. “Tardy For The Party” was my song. Now she’s doing “Tardy For The Party,” and I’m not on it. I don’t care if I’m not on it.

    Who’s fashion show was better, Lisa’s or Sheree’s?
    I never talk about these girls. I’m just going to say Gucci can’t talk about Louis, honey.

    Would you buy anything from their clothing lines?

  • luvly1957

    Hey DeShawn Snow was in da mag also and I know she happy she out of da show her foundation has taken off and she is partnering with da Boys and Girls club in ATL(da one over on Lakewood) and got it goin on. GO DESHAWN CLASSY LADY!!!

  • missy

    @ggouch i so agree with you and she is only dating them because they have money .Like i said before either her daughters are going to be the mistress or their spouse will have a mistress because she isn't teaching her daughters how to be independent and isn't the best role model for them.

  • iscream

    :rofl: at Divine comment 19. I so agree. Too bad she couldn't afford a full set of teeth. You see all that space in the back...

    But I agree. I think its Bravo egging NeNe on and the fame has gone to her head.

  • shunda

    They all are getting on my damn nerves this season. I used to love Nene but you guys are right she is turning into a mess. Sheree is so phony. Lisa is sneaky. Kim is a whore. Kandi does not have a lick of common sense.

  • miamore73

    Kim can't even get her daughters to do what she says. PUHLEASE!! That little chunky monkey came for a cupcake she said no and that baby still walked out of there with a cupcake at what 12 o'clock at night. Give me a break!!

  • iscream

    Oh & I forgot to add that they need to do a better job at cut and edit. Why in the begining of the show did Kim have No cast, no crutches but clearly this was after the fall because she spoke of the accident and the scares. Fast fwd to the end of the show and she has crutches and a cast :shrug: do they think we are that stupid.

  • Anna

    @ ggouch
    ~~~~~~~
    I say don't revoke her right to get married. I want her to know what it feels like when she gets cheated on.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Would you buy anything from their clothing lines?
    ------------------------------------------------------------
    I wouldn't donate a piece of clothing from Sheree's line to a homeless shelter. Sheree is WAAAY too full of herself. She just had to outdo the alter ego photo shoot and have that big, humungous portrait of herself done like she's some sort of presidential status or influential figure. I don't even think her name is pronounced Sha-ray...it's probably She-Ree (just like its spelled).

    Lisa's line is...ehhh...okay, but at least she's not parading around like she's the hottest thing since Herve Ledger hit the runway. These Housewhores...I mean Househeffas...oops I meant Housewives of Atlanta are really making a mockery out of the African American social scene in Atlanta. Just seems like a whole slew of wannabe's running around fakin it with the hopes of makin it.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    miamore73 Says: That little chunky monkey came for a cupcake

    *******
    Cracking up!!! Chunky Monkey!!!!! with her lil plumb self!!! (Shout out to Ben & Jerry's since Chunky Monkey is my favorite B&J ice cream)

    Okay so I am not the only one that believes, at times, Lisa is somewhat of a passive instigator at times who comes disguised as the diplomatic peace maker!! I think she intends well though. I like Lisa and enjoy watching her in her family and business settings.
    She will be fine without RHOA.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    I say don’t revoke her right to get married. I want her to know what it feels like when she gets cheated on
    ------------------------------------------------------------- YES, YES!!! It's gonna be a sad day when that bytch named Karma start showing up on Kim's doorstep.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice

    NeNe should know by now that she doesnt have to talk down to people and yell at them just to get her point across. have some class. damn. i really dislike her after last night's show

  • Daisy

    HERE I IZ :dance:

    TEAM NENE!! Take her off and myself and plenty others NO longer watch the show anymore.

    Now last wk Shauny was objective so I will be this week.

    I did NOT have a problem with anything NeNe said last night BUT I did take issue with HOW she said what she said.

    Kim is shady but NeNe already knew that so she should not have been surprised that Kim no longer wanted her on the song. When NeNe was 1st talking to Kim she was cool and said her .02 then she kept going and it should have ended once she said her peace.

    As far as Kandi when she made her random "I heard you said stuff about me" comment I felt what NeNe was saying esp. if she really had not said anything about her.

    Kim was not on crutches at the pool and that was AFTER her fall but she was on crutches at the party???

    I avoid confrontation like the plague but NeNe and em make for GREAT TV!

  • Daisy

    @attymom I just met Ms Sophia at the mall during lunch and I told shim that was wrong to call NeNe a man esp. since he is a drag queen and he makes an UGLY woman lol

  • bklynchick

    @ggouch
    I have always felt Lisa was an instigator she's the type that says something and hides..like when Kandi did the pocketbook monolouge Lisa knew Kandi was gonna out shine her so she had to let her husband bring her flowers to the stage so she could get some attention he could og gave it to her after the show

  • miamore73

    Okay hold on it's not Lisa's fault that Kandi's triflin baby maker didn't know any better than to bring flowers. Even if Lisa's husband would have given them to her after the show AJ just showed up empty handed. I didn't think the flowers were about Lisa getting attention vs. her husband just doing the right thing.

    Now I thought Kim said that she went to the Dr. a few days before that Independance mess and found out she had a hair line fracture and that's why she was using the canes at the party vs. at the pool.

    I love NeNe but her and Kim were both wrong about the song. NeNe kept saying over and over how she didn't really wanna be bothered with the song and at that time Kim was trying to get her to do it. But once Kim did it she changed her mind and since NeNe kept dissing it what was the biggie. Kim should have talked to NeNe about not wanting her on her song instead of side stepping.

  • Imalover

    @ Mrshawthorne77

    I don’t even think her name is pronounced Sha-ray…it’sprobably She-Ree (just like its spelled).
    ----------------------------------------------------------
    Girl, now you know the first thing fake wannabe's, usually with hood and/or country names, do is change the pronouciation of their names to something more proper...lololol. I ran into a classmate of mine whose name is Tameka, she quickly corrected me when I addressed her as such by telling me that she now goes by Tami. That's why parents need to be careful what they name their children and consider their future prospective employers impression when their name comes across their desk. Condileeza, along with a few others, is an exception.

    Oh and as for Nee-Nee, I'm embarrassed for her and she's uncomfortable to watch. Kandi is my girl though... humility, confidence, and a pleasant personality.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    @ bklynchick.
    Not to mention when the Pocketbook Monologues idea was presented to her, she did not want a controversial part. But after Kandi's performance (which moved me to tears) she says..."Why didn't I get a part like that"....

    Ed is such a supportive husband isn't he? You can tell he is a Lisa groupie. He is damn near giddy when he looks at her. He really loves his wife. (I adore watching them together)

    the other thing about Lisa, being that I was raised in Inglewood California in the same neighborhood as Lisa and attended Inglewood HS, where she attended our rival school Morningside HS, I did not appreciate her making it seem like Inglewood is the hood. Nor did I appreciate Nene’s comments either.

    Inglewood is and has always been a predominately black working class neighborhood. Not WATTS, Not the GARDENS, not the JUNGLE. I would really like if she would clear that up.

  • Daisy

    @Mia I don't remember NeNe going on and on about not wanting to do the song. That one ep she sat in the car with Kandi and listened to the song and before that she talked about the song. If anything she said it cause Kim CANT sing and probably didnt take her seriously. Dwight even asked Kim last wk about NeNe being on the song. I always felt it was a case of Kim WANTED NeNe but when Kandi made the song "hot/catchy" Kim was like oh I got this I dont need or want her anymore :shrug:

  • ontaya brooks

    I think nene got the big head because Ryan Seacrest is backing her now. Why the hell would we want to read a book on her country bama as*. Kim need to stand the fuc* up and just slap the hell out of nene, give me fifty feet bit*h. Kandi does not need this show for publicity, she owns her own home since she was 19 and she is till collecting checks, she did show her acting prowess in the Pocketbook Monologue though, she really did good. Ne-Ne go sit your as* down next to Omarosa your done.

  • miamore73

    ggouch HOLD UP HOLD UP Inglewood in the House!!!

    What year Sentinel!!

  • miamore73

    No Daisy NeNe was talking major ish about that song before Kandi fixed it. See when the song was fixed now errythang changed.

    Oh I found the ringtone and downloaded I can't wait to see my daughters face when my phone rings.

  • iscream

    I HATE YOU MIA :rofl: I swear I was just sitting here singing...

    Don't be tardy for the party... whoa whoa
    Don't be tardy for the party... whoa whoa
    Don't be tardy for the party.. Na na na na something something. :rofl:

    please update me on your daughters reaction.

    Sorry yall but the men in drag everyweek is getting on my darn nerves.

    Offtopic: why on the Frankie & Neffie show does that "guygal" walk around with Neffie claiming to be her hair dresser when her hair STAYS looking tore up from the floor up. I mean naps in the back and er'thang

  • Daisy

    @Mia I know she was talking junk about the song (still didnt say she didnt want to be on it) BUT Kim still ASKED her to be on it after it was fixed Kim changed her mind. The song was WACK and a hot mess before Kandi worked on it that is a true statement lol BUT either way Kim always said she wanted NeNe on it until Kandi hooked it up you recall at the studio Kandi even asked what part Kim wanted NeNe to sing at that point Kim could have said Nene said she didnt want to be on it but she never said that.

    @Ontaya Kandi is using the show to PLUG her INDEPENDENT cd that is coming out soon please beleive it. Its FREE adv. since she is NOT signed to a label. They play 2 songs on the radio here in the A one is nicer than the other.

  • Daisy

    @Mia you are correct when the song was fixed KIM kicked NeNe off :coffee:

    Kandi said herself on the radio that NeNe was supposed to be on the song but allegedly her and Kim had fallen out again and Kim no longer wanted her on the song.

  • pointhimout

    TEAM KANDI.

    Nene's a clown, but I dont have to go on and on cuz apparently, others share my sentiment.

  • alove

    I was shocked by NeNe last night but I still like her. Kandi is taking care of her man and his kids. Do you Kandi.

  • Charles

    Im here for the quick weave divine, and sandra its clearly scripted reality we all know that so why is it a surorise when its brought to life, its tv not real life enjoy it for what it is and move on imo

  • Shauny

    Damnit I missed the debate

    O.K Daisy I'm going to need you to be objective this week because NeNe is a mess. After everything INCLUDING yesterdays episode, if you still think NeNe is the same person from S1 I don't know, maybe she can do no wrong in your book.

    This girl think she's a bonafide superstar, but she's only one as Wendy says, in her head. I swear she is worse than Speidi from The Hills. As a previous poster has said her "realness" that we fell in love with in S1 is now staged, fake and forced and makes her less likable. I think the NeNe of S1 would have NEVER did those pictures we saw of her and Gretchen and if you see ANY of those pictures with Greg he looks SO uncomfortable so he isn't as "Hollywooded" out as his wife. She is truly a hater this season too.

    I think she sees in Kandi a young professional woman who doesn't seem like she's a follow the leader type girl and who can stand up for herself and hold her own down with or without a man and for some reason that bothers her. Kandi has outshined and outclassed her in spades this season and she has a problem with that. Go on other blogs and you will see 1. NeNe is too big headed, 2. Kandi may be stepping up as the most popular HW, 3. Sheree is trying hard to be hood this season for more airtime, 4. Lisa is boring, 5. Kim is a trainwreck that we can't stop watching.

    I am TEAM KANDI all the way this season. She looked really cute on Wendy last night too. Very intelligent as well.

  • Anna

    NeNe acted a fool last night. I love Kandi. Kandi did so well on the "Pocketbook M". I can see her as a serious drama actress. I saw the audidence hanging on her every word, I know she had me wanting more. She did great. As for her taking care of the 12 yr. old twins. I am not surprised. Just because you/she is on a break with their dad does not mean you throw the kids to the curb. I have been remarried for over a decade and my ex's family still visit and hubby knows a family is still a family. I know it's not the same as "physically" living in your home but every child needs nurtured and that is what Kandi is doing.

  • Daisy

    Anna Kandi is their legal guardian now and although its a noble thing they have a mama and a daddy (she said she has spoken with her on the phone. What happens when she starts dating somebody new (I doubt her and AJ end up getting married) she will have 3 kids vs 1 if she likes it I love but I dont see me doing that to a man I was only engaged to. I feel she could have let the gma keep them but become more active and hands on in their lives rather that is what I would have done.

    Shauny Babe you are late I already gave my OBJECTIVE .02 on NeNe (feel free to scroll back up) and I still love her and she is also Prof. she was very classy on the red carpet on E. When she is on the radio promoting her book or foundation she is prof. and classy. I always said Nene was NOT always Ghetto and everybody or most of us and blk folks in genral have a lil ghetto in them anyway. I never felt or feel that NeNe wants Kandi to follow her. Yes Nene is the same G Fab Diva from last yr. Nothing has changed IMO she still speaks her mind and keeps it real that is what she did last yr and I still love her for that.

    Also who said just because I like NeNe that means I dont like Kandi? Kandi is cool yet boring and she did look cute on Wendy.

  • Daisy

    Shauny NeNe is the most POP. housewife of them ALL why do you think Ryan Seacrest came a calling no other housewife can say that. Hate it or Love it she is on top.

  • Anna

    Daisy Says:

    Anna Kandi is their legal guardian now and although its a noble thing they have a mama and a daddy (she said she has spoken with her on the phone. What happens when she starts dating somebody new (I doubt her and AJ end up getting married) she will have 3 kids vs 1 if she likes it I love but I dont see me doing that to a man I was only engaged to. I feel she could have let the gma keep them but become more active and hands on in their lives rather that is what I would have done.
    ~~~~~~~~
    I understand all of what you are saying. I know she has temp, rights to the twins. Maybe AJ chose the best person at the time to take care of the twins. It's not unusual to me that a woman has rights to a child that does not bioliogically belong to her and it never stops a new "real man" from thinking any less of her. Not all women want a man in their life/future. but will protect a kid till the end.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I brought her book and want a refund. I could not get passed the first chapter. She disses her aunt (who allowed her azz to stay in her house when NeNe was younger) by referring to her aunt's house as small. She said that she knew that she would be successful. She told her dolls that she was better than Janet Jackson and that she was diva. I think she opened with picking a fight with cast members from another Housewives show. That was all I could stomach.

    NeNe WAS my favorite. However, notoriety has gone to her head. She thinks she is a STAR just because she is famous for embodying ever stereotype launched against Black women - loud, baby mama, alcoholic, overbearing, hard, uneducated, ghetto etc. White folks (especially racist white folks) are loving her azz right about now because her antics have set the Civil Rights Movement back two hundred years. I fought them for creating this monster.

    You know you are ridiculous when a drag queen (V-103’s Mr. Sophia) calls you a “dude” and wants you to get your azz beat.

    Memo to NeNe: You are ridiculous. And please do not call another person ghetto. Remember for every one finger you are pointing at someone else while calling them “ghetto” there are three pointing back at you.

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    People always say how women need to grow up and stop acting like they are in high school. Although it sounds good when your either saying it or typing it, its been going on since the beginning of time! People will not stop doing immature things to each other, no matter what age.

    Its just the way it is, although we are seeing their silly lil things on tv, we all do it too just not for "everyone" to see. I feud with my girlfriends back home when they get stories twisted or give out mis-information. People I think just normally just love gossip,we act like we don't like it but we all do it!

    You may not think your doing it, but even if its just with your family, we all talk about each other. That housewives are no different, they have just tangled terrible webs and cant get out of it now!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Talkinwithtami, As you well know, there is power in television - "tell a vision". And I don't like the vision that Bravo or NeNe are telling right now. We, as members of the darker hue, can do without the continued buffoonery. The buffoon vision has no probative value.

    Sidebar: My girlfriends and I don't act like that in private. But the Bible does tell us that "what is done in the dark (private) shall come to the light (public)." Quoting Madea quoting Maya Angelo, "When someome show you who they are, believe them."

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sidebar: I am on my way to the Georgia Dome. I have on my AKA hat and my Attorneymom t-shirt. If anyone wants to step to me, please feel free. You just better step correctly. I will be on the lower level on the FAMU side.

  • ELove

    Don't watch the show and my daughter tried to make me watch it with her last weekend (I saw around 15 minutes worth...) But this thing with Kandi and The Trifling-MALE Baby-Maker isn't a good look at all for a woman of her stature ... Something is DEFINITELY OFF about Ole Gurl (For Real Thou)
    :shrug:

  • Daisy

    AM and others yall keep forgetting NeNe claims her Ghetto lol she said it on the radio and I agree kandi is hood as well

    @Talking with Tami very well said

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Daisy, What is so hoodish about Kandi??? BLANK STARE. She and Lisa are the only ones that act like they have some sense. The only thing hood about Kandi was that she was engaged to a man that had 4 baby mamas. However, according to Essence website, she has since come to her senses and is no longer engage to ole boy.

    Sidebar: Daisy, you are just trying to harrass me with your profile picture. Aren't you?? Next week it will be a picture of NeNe. You should add a picture of a Gremlin and represent Lil Wayne real hard.