FanMAIL: Pot Calling the Kettle Black
If you are considering becoming a blogger, please prepare yourself to get emails like this one from readers who don’t agree with your point of view.
Loyal reader Treecee writes:
I am very confused by your outright attacks on black women when you recently displayed yourself to be very petty and childlike when addressing your issues with miss Necole B_____ [pictured above during her stripper days]. What makes me even more upset is you have the incredulous nerve to generalize that all black women are as petty and cruel as you are yet claim to be above.
It even seems as though you are being sarcastic in speaking about the YBF blogger. The sad thing about the whole situation is you will never see where I am coming from because you seem to be full of so much hate and set in your hateful ways however, its that same sarcastic and hateful demeanor that gives you an edge over your competitors and have readers coming back for more of your point of views including myself.
But I was dreadfully turned off at the way you handle the situation with another successful black woman and then to my utter surprise you claim to find women who do the same pathetic. I am sure u can see the irony no matter how much pride u seem to have.
And I know what you are going to say, if I don’t like it I can read a next blog right? Well at the end of the day you are funny and I just thought I will share my thoughts but it is not that I dislike you.
Peace
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THAT’S NB for real ??? How LONG AGO ???
Not a bad pic AT ALL… I’m actually SHOCKED U chose that one
Kinda agree with here but I understand that we are not perfect. We are all human and a work in process (Sandra). I love this blog anyway.
i pick and choose which posts to comment on..everyone has that choice..what’s so funny is that she may have felt she got something off of her chest by emailing you this..but seriously..nothing will change..it’s a wasted effort..nice try though
No that’s not necole bitchie I don’t see stretch marks on this chicks ass and a 25c weave like necoles
But anyways some times I wonder what is the point of these emails what are you expecting in return that sandra is going to write back apologiing and deleting her blog??
That picture made me bury my face in my hands and scream NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Why? I don’t get it. Can’t you start hitting reply?
THAT IS HER AND THE STRETCH MARKS ARE THERE JUST NOT AS VISIBLE. A GOOD PIC THOUGH. SANDRA WHERE DO U GET THESE PICS? LOL!
yea yea….
im so tempted to quote Tupac on Poetic Justice
“Save that black woman shyt”…
even though it would only be for laughs, I know people feeling all extra sensitive and shyt, so I won’t GET’em!
LOL!
That is a nice picture of necole compared to most of the other ones I’ve seen.
I agree with the email, but what can you do. I respect the fact this is Sandra’s blog, and I have a mind of my own. If it gets too much, I read one of the other blogs and call it a day.
LOL @ #7. GIRL I HEAR TUPAC’S VOICE SAYING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN. STILL CRACKING UP! LMAO!!!!! I REMEMBER HE SAID JANET GAVE HIM HER NUMBER DURING FILMING AND WHEN IT WAS OVER HE TRIED TO CALL HER BUT SHE’D CHANGED HER #
did sandra HAVE to post that picture? leave that woman alone .
i don’t even care about the email because it was a waste of time. the same ish will happen tomorrow.
i was wondering who that was I thought this was another “video girl” post.
She is making a point but does she have a user name because if she does she should use it and put her rant under the post like others did.At the end of the day we all don’t agree with everything that Sandra says but life goes on and it does make some great debates.
why is this a post.
Necole bitchie sucking and ****ing for hits
Sandra I have a ? Didn’t necole say she was a lesbian what happend to that
The gurl has a point…but thats what makes sandra sandra..lol
But on the real…was necole really a stripper….I don’t know if its just jokes anymore…lol or if it was ever jokes lol
Anyhoo…..like i said in the other post…i go to sandra and y b factural lol regularly….the two blogs are nuthing like…. and also i don’t see sandra and natasha trying to bee celebrities like some bloggers….or tryin to be there friends
Wow…Sandra got NB looking real gutterbutttrollop like, right now.
I’m sure there are people that feel the same as that person. It’s Entertainment until someone’s feelings getr hurt. The NB witch hunt, on the other hand, is not.
IS THAT REALLY NECOLE? THAT DOESNT EVEN LOOK LIKE HER
LJ I was thinking the same thing she looks different n every pic I see of her
What did Elove say about 2 things a black woman will always regret… Maybe not just unflattering pictures.
LOL @ #7. GIRL I HEAR TUPAC’S VOICE SAYING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN. STILL CRACKING UP! LMAO!!!!! I REMEMBER HE SAID JANET GAVE HIM HER NUMBER DURING FILMING AND WHEN IT WAS OVER HE TRIED TO CALL HER BUT SHE’D CHANGED HER #
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lol……thats a shame but definitely a fun rumor fact.
Necole bitchie is a ho end of I have told yall for months she is a dirty atl slut who idolizes p hilton and n richie and wishes she was a rich white girl. She lives in a run down atl apartment and can’t pay her cable bill
She sucks and ****s for blog hits and has been sucking dick for $$ since she was 18
Am I lying necole??
anybody remember wen necole use to post in our comment section? or was that someone else…..
@daisy
She’s been rode hard and put away so many times that’s what happens when your a ho
Charles….can you please tell us how you know all of that?
I’m very confused by that email…is it FanMail or hateMail?!? I can’t figure it out.
Charles Says:
Necole ****ie sucking and ****ing for hits
Sandra I have a ? Didn’t necole say she was a lesbian what happend to that
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All I know is when that retarded photographer Freddy O used to shoot for me he caught her up in a lesbian club with some chick. They say she used to date one of the Glenn Twins and she’s with Teyana Taylor now.
paging Daisy…..
@starr
i remember that name apperaing but i don’t know if it was her or someone else.
appearing*
Steve Harvey was on TBN, and he was just crying while talking to Donnie McClurkin. Before he broke down, he was saying something to the effect that bloggers are out of control because they are allowed to just attack people (him) and hate people, make up lies and roll with them without knowing anything about him.
He was really affected by the blogs. I wonder just how many stars are deeply impacted by bloggers opinions regarding their life in the same way Steve is.
Sandra, (or AttorneyMom) can subjects come after bloggers with harrassment lawsuits after long periiods of being topics? Just asking.
Lmao @ Sandra.
@ Charles please answer Divine question bc I was thinking the same thing. How do you know all of this or are you just being messy. I know she speaks on not having cable but how do you know where she lives. We all know you don’t go anywhere near a hood…
iscream Says:
That picture made me bury my face in my hands and scream NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
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comment #24 made me do the same thing.
Sandra, you know I ride hard for you. Still, can we get a new post.
BTW, did you go to Toya’s b-day party?
typo – *periods*
@22
My sources are confidential =) but trust I have known about necole “straightforpay” slut for a long time
@sandra
Sounds like she’s straight or gay for pay and I also heard the heyana rumors…. its no surprise necole is ****ing a dlist flop
@KayC
Don’t feel sorry for Steve BECAUSE He’s a Real LOZER (Real)
And KARMA is paying his 2-faced & DECADES of Back-Stabbing AZZ back… He SHOULD just be happy he’s STILL Alive and Breathing !!!
dang Elove….lol
Sending fanmail or hatemail isnt going to change sandra, I like sr for her nobody is messier then sandr rose if you dont like it then you dont have to visit or post just my 0.02 cents!
Why am I
at the Ad. for the OMG girlz that I see (is it just me)but hey i’m not the demographic there trying to reach so no shade from me today 
Unless you’re new around this parts….you ALREADY KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS WITH SANDRAROSE…hate it or love it, read it or keep it moving cause it ain’t ish you can say to change her.
But SR did you hear Necole’s interview w/ the chics on Lip Services…they asked her specifically about SANDRAROSE…..
OFF TOPIC….I happened to be going thru CD’s to see which ones I can get rid of…I came across THE BLACK ALBUM…I decided to read Jay’s thank you’s to see what he had to say….He thanked GOD, ALLAH & JEHOVAH & indicated he didn’t know if God was male/female, or simply energy but he was greatful for a higher being which has given him his talent (paraphrasing)…..he’s a believer, THAT IS ALL.
teyana taylor? really?
smh yall are messy. today is just monday, i can only imagine how the rest of the week is gonna go on SR. lol
*these parts*
***crickets at the picture*** zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!
@ Elove
I agree i heard about how messy Steve can be.But how are blogs any different from people in your life I mean family members judge a situation that they know nothing about.
And isn’t he a comedian doesn’t he make jokes at the expense of others.
@ ELove – *waving* by no means do I feel sorry for Steve Harvey hunny bunny…uhn-uhn. Not the way he cut up when he came here;he let Katt Williams run him clean off the stage, then talked about him. I say no. LOL! His arrogance surpasses most. Even on the radio.
I was just wondering if it was really that serious, you know? Everybody has an opinion. Shoot…they talked about Jesus, so what makes us think we’re only going to hear sweet music all the time?
@ Mizz
The real question is if Sandra got a big break like Wendy, would she change then?
@isc
you know how I feel about my @wendyshow but chick has tottal changed, damn she dont even go in on celebs no more, that ish is depressing her dragging celebs is what made her sooooo successful! Im starting 2 feel that her show wont last, when is she supposed 2 drop her movie?
iscream Says:
@ Mizz
The real question is if Sandra got a big break like Wendy, would she change then?
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I loves me some WW….being that I’m in Cali I NEVER got to hear her on the radio…heard a couple of clips on the internet….but from what I hear she was harder than Sandra….didn’t her & Mary have beef back in the day? She still a fool wit it on TV…but yeah she toned that ish DOWN…..her guest are really not the ish….I’m more interested in who will be on Monique’s show most of the time….minus the no name musical guest. I love WW hot topics.
Sandra what happened with you and FreddyO, he used to be your official photographer and then poof he was gone…so tell us what happened
@ mizz
I can’t even watch it anymore. I haven’t taken it off of my dvr list so I hope my recording counts for something towards her ratings but I can’t do it. The hot topics are old by the time I watch and smh she is to goody goody for me. I miss the old Wendy. The Wendy who she was that got her that show in the first place. The audience goes in harder than she does. 
@missy… YEAH He’s a walking contradiction of HIMSELF
(How LONG was he walking around with the perfect Hair-piece)
@KayC … Totally Agree
@trynabeme … Actions speaks louder than Words
During the recording of “Lucifer” with Kanye West, He (Jay-Z) said he NEVER EVER read the Bible before in his life !!! And going by his countless examples THROUGHOUT his career IT DEFINITELY SHOWS — Just My Opinion
mizzdallas Says:
@isc
you know how I feel about my @wendyshow but chick has tottal changed, damn she dont even go in on celebs no more, that ish is depressing her dragging celebs is what made her sooooo successful! Im starting 2 feel that her show wont last, when is she supposed 2 drop her movie?
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Don’t you think she “had” to sell-out to be on the “major” station……they wouldn’t have phucked w/ her no other way…..cause then the “celebs” she would have been blastin’ would never support the station…..you know the record/film companys have ties to the station, maybe not directly but indirectly. She had the potential to start messin’ with other ppls money if she would have aired out the WRONG ish on TV….the most I’ve seen her do is say “How yhuuuu du-wannnnn?” to Tyler Perry, Diddy & Latifah….anybody else she throw a lil shade @ at nobody anyway (Jon Gosslin)
I couldn’t read or watch Sandra if she changed. lol
I don’t think Sandra wants a show like WW. Sandra makes me think of Sharon Osborne who quit her show when the network tried to make her change.
ELove Says:
@trynabeme Just My Opinion
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We agree to disagree, pimpin’
@wiggy hear I go!! Lol
I don’t have the energy today though so I will go back to lurking
@tryna
being that I’m in Cali I NEVER got to hear her on the radio…heard a couple of clips on the internet….but from what I hear she was harder than Sandra….
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as wendy say “Miss a day you Missed alot” her radio show was “Unpredictable” you never knew what the show would be about and it wasnt about who’s the guest would be..? It was all about the interview! I guess you do have to sell out for something, but her true fans that stood with her through all of her surgeries and her being fired etc., are NOT going 2 stand for her 2 long like @isc said , sometimes I cant even watch knowing that deep down inside that true wendy is hidden and she wants to break-out but she cant
and oh btw her saying “how u doooin” to puffy,tyler perry & queen latifah thats been old thats nothing new! lol!
KaraZ Says:
Sandra what happened with you and FreddyO, he used to be your official photographer and then poof he was gone…so tell us what happened
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He decided to branch out and get his own blog. So now he’s b|tching and crying and blaming me because he can’t pay his bills and no one will hire his wack azz.
@ tryna
While I agree with you as far as having to tone it down. They knew who Wendy was when they asked her to do that show. I’m a fanaitic of Wendy and I know they approached her for the show. She didn’t seek them out. From what she said they told her to be herself (messy).
& even though she toned it down the big name celeb’s still don’t support her show. I don’t see it lasting long. (& as I said I’m a Wendy fanitic been one for about 15 years).
@ Sunnypa
I couldn’t support Sandra either if she changed. Same reason I can’t watch Wendy. I know the real deal & its hard to watch a water down version… Wendy true fans know that “how u doing” was code word for a person being GAY (use to be pinky’s up) Now she has lil kids sending videos saying it. Really?
@trynabeme … CHURCH
And I AGREE wit Wendy going Tastee-Freeze Soft-Serve Ice-cream
I NEED for Ms. Wendy to find her INNER-SELF (AGAIN…)
Sandra Rose Says:
He decided to branch out and get his own blog. So now he’s b|tching and crying and blaming me because he can’t pay his bills and no one will hire his wack azz.
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Can’t he still photograph for others even if he has his own blog??? How is it your fault if he’s not making money off his blog?
@Sandra
He decided to branch out and get his own blog. So now he’s b|tching and crying and blaming me because he can’t pay his bills and no one will hire his wack azz.
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The one thing I can say about you, Sandra is that you are DEFINITELY consistent…I’m starting to believe you have more ammo up your sleeve on a lot of people.
Sandra, I met Freddy O at Blogging While Brown. I told him to call your azz and tell you I said hello.
I am talking about BWB when it was in Atlanta. I also met Necole B**** and ATLien there too. They all seem to be very nice people.
Sandra
@54 (BINGO Isc)
What was Freddy O doing in a lesbian bar? lol She said on her site that she has not had sex for years. lol Do you have some stripper pics of her?
@59
And if she doesn’t I do!
I told sandra about necole a long time ago she didn’t listen!
And sandra told me about hemeka but I didn’t listen =(
But ill get hemeka back real good I remember one time on twitter I retweeted something sandra said and hemeka tweeted back and said do that again and ill block you! That’s when I knew this bitch was crazy
some people dont count oral sex when they say they havent had sex in years. maybe shes just including the peen
dang charles. meka got gangsta with u didnt she?
Lmao @ Daisy you’re so silly.
@ Mizz we basically said the same dang on thang re: Wendy.
@66
Now you know that’s a lie, that’s like when hemeka said she didn’t know who sandra was, bitch u know damn well….
Missy, I caught the OMG girlz banner too, I think most of us have the demographic living in our homes and would be paying for and driving said demographic to the event. Smart move if you ask me.
Daisy I know how you feel, I have weeks even months where I feel like that about commenting. I do that with the phone too. Last week I just turned it off when all my kids were home and only answered my sister. But I thougt TeeTee was your girl
rjk8 Says:
What was Freddy O doing in a lesbian bar? lol She said on her site that she has not had sex for years.
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That’s lesbun lingo for “I haven’t been with a man in years.” Trust me, she’s getting her back twisted out in other ways that you may not be intimately familiar with.
@ sandra girl u know u trip!!!! whats da beef with u and necole??
@Sandra, is Necole your ex-girlfriend?? Blank stare.
WTH is going on today man with comments like this
Sandra Says:
That’s lesbun lingo for “I haven’t been with a man in years.” Trust me, she’s getting her back twisted out in other ways that you may not be intimately familiar with.
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I don’t know if i could take it today was just filled with too much funny ish ………….
Whatever happened to Zuley, she would pop up just for NB posts.
Okay damn…I’m missing out on thia posting
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The picture is not half bad even though it doesn’t look like Necole.
Why is the beef still going on…I thought this **** was over with
?!!!
I guess bull**** never dies when people eats it.
I’m not commenting on this topis any longer. There is enough room for everyone to make money!!
Team Teyana
(shoutout to Wiggy)
NB said she is no longer celibate and I been celibate way longer than her and I sure aint lesbun but I can take a joke nonetheless
I have never heard back blown out and lesbun in the same sentence. Ever!
That is all….
@Nina I thought Zuley only popped up for Alex post or any rich man for that matter *waving to ZuleY*
Daisy…yep I forgot Z would comment on those too!
*Hey Zuley*
Man please that must be the new thing for women to say they haven’t had sex in years. You might as well tell me that Santa Clause really exist. This other model chick Rosa Acosta keep talking about how she dont have sex til next year but then keeps talking about it all day and she puts out those stretchy videos. I had to unfollow her because she started getting on my nerves with all that B.S. and trying to play that good woman ish. Keep it real, if you get your back twisted out by different dudes, I respect that more than you trying to be a slut bucket on the low.
@db I wish had some peen n my life I’m sure my friends are tired of me being a bish lol there r plenty of celibate women everybody aint lying
@Daisy Oh, ok she’s talking about celibacy on her Agela Simmons post/interview with Angela Yee radio interview.
Sandra she was talking about you and Teyana Taylor. lmao
now that right there is a hot pic of the b!tch. I dont get the beef tween the two, but keep posting pics of her and I just might parlay in FISH again soon.
DEAD @54. When mentors and mentees go to war, on this special edition of Maury. Sandra, what we gone do with you? comedy comedy comedy. His pics are nice though. Sorry, were nice.
Divinebrown Says:
I have never heard back blown out and lesbun in the same sentence. Ever!
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If u were a lesbun you would.