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The ex-fiance of RHOA Kandi Burruss was fatally beaten during a brawl outside an Atlanta strip club earlier tonight.

Friends say Ashley "A.J." Jewell, a former drug dealer, was beaten and stomped by a group of men in the parking lot of famed strip club The Body Tap early Saturday morning. He was transported by ambulance to Piedmont hospital where he died from blunt force injuries to the brain.

Police questioned patrons inside the club after the incident but no arrests were made. Contrary to rumors, no guns or knives were involved.

The news of AJ's death spread rapidly through the industry via Twitter and word of mouth. Jewell was very popular within Atlanta's music industry, but he gained exposure on a national level via the reality TV show RHOA as Burruss' fiance who was scorned by her mother for having multiple baby mamas. The couple separated after the premiere of Season 2, but they remained friends.

AJ leaves behind 6 beautiful children.

Update: Sources say AJ was in negotiations to buy The Body Tap when he was killed.

Updated:

Police have arrested a "person of interest" in the fatal beating of club promoter Ashley "A.J." Jewell last night. Frederick Richardson will be taken into custody when he's released from a local hospital where he was treated for injuries sustained in the "one on one" fight at The Body Tap, a local strip club.

Jewell was a co-owner of the club and promoted celebrity events there.

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Photo by Prince Williams/ATLPics.net

  • Mspeng

    Wow...this shows how fragile life is. RIP.

  • dmgeorge

    This is extremely sad. She is my favorite person on RHOA. Kandi, her family and his family are in my prayers. Whether or not you and your ex break up on good terms, there is always a chance to mend fences but when that person passes away, you do not have that opportunity. I hope Kandi and AJ had that opportunity before his passing.

  • alove

    RIP AJ! May God substain his family and Kandi.

  • Anna

    Sad news, thanks for the post Sandra. I have prayed for the faimily, but another prayer will not hurt. RIP to AJ and my deepest sorrow and compassion to all who love him.

  • ~LovLi~

    OH NO! :( My condolences to the family.

  • Shauny

    Oh wow it's true. I was reading the news on my blackberry and saw this. Really sad. My condolences to Khandi and A.J's children and family. I know they must be devestated.

    Sandra, if he's a "former drug dealer" why even bring it up. Anything to throw shade sister. Very sad.

  • pointhimout

    Horrible story beyond belief. It's my understanding Kandi's laying an uncle to rest over the weekend, then this happens on top of that?

    What is wrong with people? Surely, nothing any of us speaking here will change anything or a person's frame of mind. Mercy.

  • Shauny

    I just saw that too point (have insomnia, can't sleep so I'm all over the net looking for stories). Looks like she was posting on her Twitter.

  • pointhimout

    Same here Shauny. This was the first place I came to when 'kandi' wasn't a trending topic, then all of sudden she was the number 1 trending topic. I clicked her name and saw condolences for AJ.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Things are getting so bad that our black men are killing each other with their bare hands and feet. Wow. This madness has to stop. Enough is enough. SMDH

  • Daisy

    This is beyond sad and clearly God knew AJ would not be around long and made provisions for his 12 year old twins to live with Kandi legally. My heart goes out to her and his kids and his mother.

    I guess whoever stomped AJ out watched that violent chi town video one to many times SMH

    Lawd give me a sign

    PS Why am I up this early to go to a flea market lol

  • starr

    SMH

    Six kids lost their father....for what? For what?

    RIP....and prayers for those kids, and his family....sad

  • Kat

    Wow! That is sad to hear. What is wrong with my black people??? This black on black crime needs to cease ASAP.

  • kcicero

    Once again my condolences to his family, and loved ones. In God's eyes we are all sinners, the purpose of this life is to tip the scales on the side of good deeds.

    Let's not throw shade at dead people Sandra, do you really want that type of energy?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Go to Character Corner and check out my message to the Black community on the heels of AJ's, Derrion's and Jasmine's deaths.

    IT IS TIME TO ARISE, BLACK COMMUNITY AND DEMONSTRATE YOUR POWER!!!

  • Kymystry

    So sad ... Poor babies

    Happy Birthday to Me :-)

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    I'm so shaken by this news. I heard about this all the way in Fla. News like this does spread fast. I had the pleasure of meeting A.J. and thought he was the nicest guy and loved watching him on the show. He always had a smile on his face when I saw him at events. My heart goes out to his family,this is so sad.

  • whatdoesitmatter

    You are lying!!! I cannot believe this. This is to crazy to be waking up to this on a beautiful saturday morning. I don't know why this makes me feel so sick and I don't even know him. There is too much killing going on, it's just too much!!

  • Daisy

    Happy B day Kym :cheer:

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Why is there a need to beat somebody to death? I mean I can understand a fist fight, but where does it get to the point that you have to keep on hitting someone to the point of killing them? My heart bleeds for the young men and women growing up today. Violence only begets violence and until we get to a point where we can get our youths to understand that there are other ways to handle disagreements, this type of news on a Saturday morning will continue to play out in our community.

  • licia

    my prayers go out to his family (especially his kids).

    i agree with what everyone else said about the drug dealing part.

  • masonmom

    woooow! im totally shocked. i dont even know him but u get so attached to charachters on these reality shows. wow, man, just wow!

  • flyqtnva

    My condolences to his family as well...im not even schoked at what people do anymore....i hope the find his killers and bring them to justice. And i agree with whom ever said he got his affairs in order with his two girls that are now with kandi....it def happens like that

  • kwall

    this is tragic.

    yes like someone said 6 babies lost their dad. and someone else who is prolly feeling just really realy bad now aside from all of the key players in his life....kandi's momma. she is prolly feeling just terrible for having kept them apart. she just wanted what is best for her daughter tho so cannot fault her for that.

    chicago doesn't look so very violent now does it? again violence can happen anywhere. it needs to stop everywhere tho.

    happy birthday kym.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    I can't believe Kandi was on twitter last night tweeting that she was going to sleep. Unbelievable. If my photographer was beaten to death last night there would be no sleeping for me. But I guess we're different. I guess AJ served his purpose. She's typical of these ATL chicks who are just looking for a baller. :(

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Sandra no!!!! I don't think she meant it like that. Why would she need a baller she has her own money? Did I miss something???

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Happy Birthday Kym! :dance:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sidebar: Happy Birthday, Kymystry!!! Enjoy!!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Sandra, Jesus is going to get you for your comment. SMDH

  • http://youtube.com/user/Ateyaaa Ateya

    Im in Texas and woke up with this....Life is too short. My condolences....

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    MrsHawthorne77 Says:
    Sandra no!!!! I don’t think she meant it like that. Why would she need a baller she has her own money? Did I miss something???

    *************************************************************

    It's that thug mentality that ropes these insecure women in. It's not even about the money. Most of the time the chicks are supporting the thugs. She should have made her statement and left out the part about going to sleep IMO. I know people who told me they couldn't sleep last night after hearing the news. I'm glad Kandi could get some shut eye after hearing such horrific news. That's all I'm saying.

  • http://myspace.com/erikamagaly Hermosa

    This is sad.

    Sandra, why are you such a cold hearted snake sometimes?

    Im just saying!

    Kandi and Lisa are my favorite housewives and especially Kandi since she didn't scoot to Nene's level 2 episodes ago!

    My heart goes out to Kandi and his children. The pain must be consuming them.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Hermosa Says:

    My heart goes out to Kandi and his children. The pain must be consuming them.

    ************************************************************

    Apparently not since Kandi was on twitter last night tweeting about going to sleep. Some things are better left unsaid. She came across as very insensitive. And I am speaking for a few people in Atlanta.

  • http://myspace.com/erikamagaly Hermosa

    "It’s that thug mentality that ropes these insecure women in"

    Tiny is the perfect example.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Okay Sandra. I agree with you on the thug mentality because IMO she should have been trying to date someone who is just accomplished than her (just my opinion). But to say that she shouldn't tweet about going to sleep??? I'm not sure I can co-sign that. How do we know that she hasn't been up for the last how many hours grieving? Didn't she just lose her uncle last week? Let's not go looking for something negative in this situation. The situation itself is filled with negativity already. I mean, thug or no thug he was still a human being first.

  • kwall

    when my mother lost her mom she slept for 3 days straight after she got the news. i was only 8 but i remember my dad (by that time my parents were divorced) and my aunt had to come over to intervene.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    MrsHawthorne77 Says:

    The situation itself is filled with negativity already. I mean, thug or no thug he was still a human being first.

    **************************************************************

    I didn't cast aspersions on AJ's thug lifestyle. That's the lifestyle he chose to live. I'm simply pointing out that there are certain insecure chicks who are only attracted to that type.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    kwall Says:
    when my mother lost her mom she slept for 3 days straight after she got the news. i was only 8

    **************************************************************

    Sounds like they gave her a sedative or tranquilizer to help her sleep. That's different from going on a social network where you know thousands of people are reading and writing "I'm bout to get some shut eye now."

  • http://myspace.com/erikamagaly Hermosa

    @kwal

    HI!!! (WAVING HARD)

    I agree with you! When my grandmother passed away 3yrs ago we cried, we laughed, we cried some more, we slept, we ate, we laughed.

    That experience was the most painful time in my life but I remember feeling so many emotions.

    People don't grieve the same way.

  • KaraZ

    Wow, what happens to his 6 kids now? My heart goes out to all his family

  • KaraZ

    Happy birthday Kym

  • licia

    Sandra Rose Says:

    Hermosa Says:

    My heart goes out to Kandi and his children. The pain must be consuming them.

    ************************************************************

    Apparently not since Kandi was on twitter last night tweeting about going to sleep. Some things are better left unsaid. She came across as very insensitive. And I am speaking for a few people in Atlanta.

    ^^^ sandra what was she supposed to do ? stay up all night crying ? noone knows how she feels or what she's feeling.she's in a bad predicament already because she has to somehow explain to kids that their dad is gone. her saying she's going to sleep is hardly insensitive.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    licia Says:

    ^^^ sandra what was she supposed to do ? stay up all night crying ?

    **************************************************************

    Well for one thing, she could have stayed off of twitter. Doesn't she have a publicist? I could have sworn her publicist said Kandi wanted privacy to grieve? Then Kandi jumps on twitter where there are thousands of eyes? How private is that?

  • Kymystry

    Thanks everyone for the bday wishes :cheer:

    When Mom passed in Jan .. all i wanted to do was cry myself to sleep ... wake up .. cry myself back to sleep ... everyone greives differently

  • masonmom

    yea sandy i think u takin it waaay out of context. first of all, who are we to be looking for her response on a dmn twitter pg. people take these stalkin social sites to the extreme in waiting for the celebs to update their life every 5 mins. she is grieving in her own way im sure. i didnt take it as her being insensitive but why are all eyes on her at this time. do we expect her to do a press conference and spill her emotions to the public. i dont! let the woman be!

  • shay1

    Hey yall......Happy Birthday Kym :cheer:

    Sandra this is what she said:

    im just in one of those moods where i dont wanna talk, i dont wanna b held & told its gonna b ok. i just wanna cry myself 2 sleep, alone.
    about 7 hours ago from web
    I could never n a million years imagine this happening. please pray for AJ's children. that's who im the most concerned 4.
    about 7 hours ago from web
    im bout 2 giv my swollen eyes sum rest now. i just wanted to say thanks 2 every1 for their prayers. i gotta get up & go 2 my uncle's funeral

  • MrsHawthorne77

    @licia

    I agree with you totally. I don't think she meant for that comment to come off in an insensitive way. We all know she cared deeply for AJ (hell she adopted 2 of kids - if that ain't love I don't know what is...I barely want to be bothered with my own sometimes). Maybe that was just a way for her to say that she's been crying and doesn't know what else to do at this point but get some sleep. There's nothing she can do to bring him back. Sitting up all day and night thinking about it is going to drive her bananas. I think she needs to get some sleep.

  • licia

    her publicist was doing what he or she is paid to do .kandi did what the media and blogs wanted her to do which is speak on what's going on. ya'll are mad if people don't speak on certain things and now ya'll mad because she DID speak on it .

  • kwall

    man this is BIG news. it is even on CNN.

    may he and his family find some peace.

    hey hermosa (waving back)!

  • http://XSCAPESIGHTINGS.COM crystal

    Maybe Kandi didn't get the news until later, she had a hell of a week she just lost her uncle whose funeral is today. Maybe she twitted that she is going to. Sleep since she proberly wasn't getting any sleep trying to hold it together for her mother.

  • coaretained

    I agree with mason mom.. why ARE people looking for her response? Maybe that was her way of expression to her fans and those who want to reach out to her but can't? Sandra I feel like somewhere in your life someone did you really wrong and you take it out on the wrong situations.

    Happy birthday kymmy and thanks shay for posting the actual tweet. Folks know they can take shyt and run with it :eyeroll:

  • MrsHawthorne77

    I wonder if Kandi's mom will attend the services and how she feels about Kandi raising the twins now that AJ is gone. Kandi said she wanted to break the cycle of single moms in her family and it doesn't look like that's going to happen for her anytime soon. My heart goes out to her.

  • aqtpie

    May GOD be with his children, Kandi, family and friends. RIP AJ!!!

    Everyone grieves different people who can't function for months after the loss of a loved one doesn't necessarily mean they were more hurt then someone who lost a loved one and goes back to work the next week. Would her grief for him be any less painful had she waited to go on Twitter next month? I highly doubt it!!

  • http://XSCAPESIGHTINGS.COM crystal

    @Mrshawthorn Kandi mom is grieving herself I'm sure that is not on her mind right now

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    masonmom Says:

    first of all, who are we to be looking for her response on a dmn twitter pg.

    ***************************************************************

    First of all, I didn't go on twitter looking for her response. I still have not been on her twitter page. My phone blew up last night when this happened and this morning a few people asked me "why was she on twitter last night?" I totally agree. There is a time for everything. I read on a legit news site that her publicist said she wanted to be left alone. So then why go on twitter if she wanted her privacy? To me she's sending mixed messages: "Oh, I want to be left alone, but at the same time I want all this attention."

  • pointhimout

    oooh wee Sandra, #25. I can't believe you would say that. When i heard about this, I went right to her twitter page. Before she posted about letting her swollen eyes get some sleep, more than 6 hours had passed since her last tweet. So, unlike the jennifer hudson case where julia lived on myspace, Kandi didn't do that. Sandra, that was a very low, un-necessary blow.

    Yall know I'm always team Kandi. I love her personality. She has never come off as an opportunist. Caring and taking another person's kids into your home and heart??? You can't pretend with that Sandra. I can't believe you.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Sandra, tell your friend Ed to stop talking ish on my blog before I whip his azz.

    Sidebar: Sandra, I am about to add you back on my "Sit Your Azz Down" list. Didn't you learn anything from our discourse regarding Julia Hudson?? Now is not the time for cautionary tales about Black Women's choice in men. Can we wait until after the funeral?

    Besides, who are you to tell someone how they should grieve? Twitter serves as therapy for some celebs. Leave them be. As long as you don't have a pending court case in which your tweets can be used against you, you can tweet to your heart is content.

  • pointhimout

    I've read all responses now, SR. I didn't see anything wrong with her coming to twitter. After six hours of no posting, obviously to deal with this situation, she put in writing that she had been crying and her eyes were swollen and she was going to cry herself to sleep. She thanked people and asked for prayers fa aj's lil ones. SR, ur reaching. The people who called you were just looking for some crap to talk about, though there was nothing valid.

    her friends were making themselves available if she needed them. now had she logged in and talked about what she ate for dinner and a new joke riley heard, i'd be on your side, SR. you're wrong in this case. I get the impression, could be wrong, that Kandi gives 100% and loves hard of the people in her life. I would not want to be in her shoes right now. An uncle this week, fiance/friend next week. No way.

    Contrary to what people are saying SR, NOBODY consumes themself with death the whole night or week. If she were the widow who had to plan his farewell, perhaps. I dont get the impression those details will be up to her. I'm sure she grieved with his fam, then cried her eyes and heart out the rest of the night. Cold SR, very cold.

  • editorialgirl

    Actually, what she wrote, which can easily be found on twitter and written accurately IS:

    "im just in one of those moods where i dont wanna talk, i dont wanna b held & told its gonna b ok. i just wanna cry myself 2 sleep, alone."

    Sorry, if it doesn't suit you, Sandra, but it makes perfect sense.

  • missy

    I just found out about this and i was shocked(i know i'm late)but man this world is getting out of control may he rest in peace and his family cop with this situation and i'll be praying for them.

    And like someone said the Lord must have allowed Kandi in those two little girls life because he knew what was going to happen.

    R.I.P :(

  • Anti-believer

    I do get where Sandra coming from with the twitter incident... It's just like when Rev Al Sharpton tweeted from MJ's 2nd private funeral. As if we need to know exactly wants going on this very minute.

    Twitter is for jackasses!!! If you tweet, you are one.

  • kcicero

    You know, don't take this the wrong way but if you keep this up, people are going to really be coming for you. Not everyone is just going to look the other way at some of your antics. I like your site but when it comes to death in someone's family you really shouldn't take it there Sandra. Just Saying...Peace.

    And :bday: to you Kym!

  • kcicero

    Here we go with the name calling again :eyeroll:

  • licia

    tweeting from a funeral is way different from what happened. you can't even compare the two .

  • licia

  • alove

    @sandra-Aren't you a nurse? When people are depressed they sleep alot sometimes with the help of medication you can and other times it's insomnia. I lost my sister and for a year i surfed the internet and slept. I had breast cancer and went thru chemo and radiation.I stayed on computer and slept. I was diagnosed depressed etc. I would escape my situation via internet or sleep. I am cancer free but still carrying a load as others and have a heart condition and severe neuropathy in my legs and I am handling the situation differently than my mother-in-law who had breast cancer at the same time and has some side effects from chemo.

    Don't judge the next man because we are all different and handle things differently. I had to really deal with my family judging how I deal with things. Keep the shade and judgement to yourself. I am healed and I pray for Kandi and AJ's family. You sweeping around someone's door again Sandra.

    It's Breast Cancer Awareness Month! Check your breast often. Thank God for Life.

  • Anti-believer

    ^^ Yes I can compare the two. They are both two sensivitive incidents. Last thing on my mind would be telling the world via internet how i feel. Plus, I pay PR rep to do that shit for me. I'm not going pay out 3K a month for PR and not use them. GEEZ where is your head at?

  • Divinebrown

    This is deeply saddening given everything that has happened this week alone. Violence is comsuming the country not just african american communities. I feel for Kandi because we have all been there. Sleeping can be an escape from a tormenting reality, SANDRA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I refuse to believe that you have no soul or compassion. Even if it is an act, it comes off as very calloused, cold and mean spirited. Don't kick people while they are down.

  • Divinebrown

    All social networking can be considered free PR and a way to reach a large group of people with one statement. Especially if you aren't answering your phone or your door. That could've been her way of letting people know to lay off the phone calls. She's alright for the moment.

    I've seen that same statement on every blog I've read today. If that ain't PR, I dont know what is.

  • licia

    Anti-believer Says:

    ^^ Yes I can compare the two. They are both two sensivitive incidents. Last thing on my mind would be telling the world via internet how i feel. Plus, I pay PR rep to do that **** for me. I’m not going pay out 3K a month for PR and not use them. GEEZ where is your head at?

    ^^^ no you can't compare the two . these are two totally different situations.

  • licia

    claps for dvb

  • netta0281

    @attorneymom YOU ARE SO TRUE WHO IS SANDRA TO SAY HOW PEOPLE CAN GRIEVE, SO SHE TWEETED GET OVER IT AND WHO TO SAY IT WAS ACTUALLY HER WHO TWEETED DID YOU SEE HER ACTUALLY TYPE IT DUH GET OVER YALL SELF....LET AJ RIP STOP THROWING STONES

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  • masonmom

    kc she is too cute (ur pic)! ill have my girl in 2 yrs, lil madison to go wit mason!

  • candycane

    This is so tragic,I am stunned. My prayers definitely go out to his family as well as Kandi. I'm confused by the story though, was he stomped by a group of people, or was it a one on one fight?

    Still however,completey tragic

  • http://myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    she posted the same on her facebook page..some people heal when they are surrounded by sympathy..some people simply need others to feel their pain..others just don't want to be alone even if they say they do..we can't judge that

  • Daisy

    KC Sadly I think the name calling is here to stay SMH

    SHOUTOUT to ALL my folks on TWITTER!!!! :dance:

    :bday: I likes

  • kwall

    Twitter is for jackasses!!! If you tweet, you are one.
    --------------------------------------------------------
    hey daisy! i'mma start twittering. or tweeting. or whatever the hail you call it. i have had an account forever but never used it. i am up with hermosa on twitter so i will find you.

    i too wanna be a jackass!

  • netta0281

    WHO EVER SAID TWITTER IS FOR JACKASSES WELL I GUESS SANDRA IS A JACKASS LOL

  • Daisy

    SR you never surprise me and as usual you only told the part of the story that fit what you were saying and this is why I rarely believe what you say I always need a 2nd person to confirm what you are saying :coffee:

  • Daisy

    @Kwall I am daisy5730 on twitter come and join Ladyjustice, mizzdallas, spongebob, hermosa sugashay1 and I think doc but I dont have his twitter info. I dont even follow SR on twitter.

  • netta0281

    LOL@DAISY I DONT FOLLOW SANDRA EITHER

  • kcicero

    @ masonmom, thanks :) aw madison and mason, i stuck to the S theme for all of my kiddies as well.

    Shout-out to all the social networking sites and the jackasses who frequent them, including myself :)

  • licia

    daisy i am gonna send you a request on twitter as soon as i figure out what the crap my user info is lmao

    Anti-believer Says:

    ^^ Ah, yes I can and I DID! If you don’t like it, move yo black azz on! Ain’t nothing you can do about it.

    ^^^ lmfao u seem a little angry . GTFOH with that nonsense .

  • MrsHawthorne77

    kcicero say:

    Shout-out to all the social networking sites and the jackasses who frequent them, including myself :)
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    :ROFL: I'm guilty as charged.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    wait...I'm gonna get this thing right sooner or later

    testing-

    :ROTF:
    :ROFL:
    :RO

    oh forget it!!!!

  • Charles

    TYPICAL
    BLACK
    MALE!

    im not saddend, im not surprised this happens to so many black men a DAY beaten and killed over complete bullshit and the silly women and kids who get sucked into this foolishnes because they have no sense

    I COSIGN everything SANDRA said!

  • Charles

    Ive known kandi was another bird from the hood despite her sweet attitude , look at her FRIENDs and you know her SCENE!! This is why you all should find some good WHITE friends from the suburbs!!!

  • iscream

    Wow my mother just called and woke me up telling me this. I'm so sorry to hear this. All I can think of is how she reacted to their family getting into a car accident so I know Kandi must be torn up over this. I wonder what caused all of this. I feel bad because after last weeks episode I was thinking how happy I was she did't marry him. He seemed so non supportive at her show. But no one deserves to lose their life.

    Sandra, Sandra, Sandra. You just went on a whole spill about that lil boy from the CHi getting beaten to death. Now that it's AJ it's because he's a thug? Maybe it was some jealous nicca's who did this. Until we know the full story I'm not passing any judgement. Especially on someone who just lost a family member. You did the same thing when Katherine was spotted shopping after MJ died.

    BLOG- Bytches Love Online Gossip-
    & you know she reads your blog, smh.

  • Daisy

    @Mrshawthorne if you hoover your mouse over the icon you can see the code to enter.

    :rofl:

  • iscream

    :bday: happy birthday my Kymmy :cheer:

    Mrs. Hawthorn try it with no caps.

  • Charles

    :bday: to KYM!

  • iscream

    Charles typical black male? It said he was part owner of the club. Do you know something we don't? Was he selling drugs? Was he trying to rob the place? It is typical for someone to be at a place they have stock in so I guess I agree. :rolleyes:

  • Daisy

    Per the ATL newspaper it was a one on one fight and the suspect is still in the hospital so I see a manslaughter charge vs murder in this case but time will tell....

  • lovejoy1

    SMH AT SANDRA.. u r a heartless person and you do not have any respect for the dead and their grieving family..

    shame on u charles...

  • licia

    charles u must not have any white friends because they can be from the suburbs and be just as hood . lmfao

  • licia

    hey daisy did u get my message on twitter? i don't use mine allow so i'm not sure if i sent the message right lol

  • Daisy

    @licia I will check I am guessing you have the same name on twitter if not what is your user name?

  • licia

    it's lusciousbeing30

  • Daisy

    Licia I do not see a message from you or that you are follwing me. What is your twitter username?

  • Daisy

    Oh ok thanks I didnt think that was you cause I thought you were younger than 30 lol my bad

  • licia

    @ daisy i tell people that i am 21 but yes i'm 30. lol

  • flyqtnva

    i just read somewhere that AJ is tinys baby daddy as well ....is this true....they are saying tiny first child is his...if so then my condolences to tiny and her daughter as well...

  • Shauny

    :bday: Kimmy

    SMDH @ Charles and Sandra. I expected those kinds of remarks and judgement for the both of you which is actually a sad thing.

  • Daisy

    Licia check your twitter :lol:

  • licia

    i got it, thanks daisy . i got a follower. i'm so proud of myself lol

  • masonmom

    i dont want to bring up the chi town incident but from the video that i watched from the fight it looked like that "innocent" lil boy was involved in the fight as well. from the story that i heard i was thinkin he was walkin and minding his business when some thugs jumped him for no reason. clearly it was dmn near a riot in the streets and he didnt run away from the scene. some people can be in the wrong place at the wrong time as well but uh...the tape dont lie!

    one on one fight? maybe he landed on his head wrong or something. he wasnt fightin no kimbo slice! either situation its sad esp since they say death comes in 3's ::(:

  • masonmom

    :rolleyes:

  • starr

    @masonmom

    My guess no one sees anything the same. I saw the vid of the chi violence....and to me, it looked like he was inteferring or trying to help somebody. Idk....u can't tell much from that video...it looked like more chaos

  • starr

    Does the white house have to speak on this too?

    Anyhoo...i don't know why people get so worked up about sandra. This is sandrarose we talking about...she is who she is. she hasn't changed since i've been coming to her blog. She's just one of those people u have a love-hate relationship with.

  • iscream

    They are saying it was an employee who killed him. Who knows what led to this happening.

  • Shauny

    starr...I see the video as you do. The story was that they were walking from school to the bus stop to go home, walked up on the fight, saw someone he knew being jumped on, tried to pull him away from the fight and ending up...well you know the rest. Some people see him swinging as if he was involved in the fight and some people swinging to get people off of him. It's all in how you look at it and who's story you believe. We've only heard the story I mentioned above, not him actively participating so we may never know.

    Isc - I wonder if they have video outside the club. I wonder how it went from him being jumped on to a "one on one" fight.

  • iscream

    Shauny,

    I didn't even hear he was jumped. That's a good question about if they had camera's outside the club. In this day and age somebody may have likely gotten the fight on their cell phone. I wonder if RHWOA crew was recording Kandi when she found out about the whole thing.

  • aqtpie

    @starr I agree about SR, she has always been the same since day one *good and/or bad*. My feelings personally, If someone never had respectful things to say about me in life, please don't feel the need to start after I'm dead and if it's out of respect for my family, then hell just don't say nothing!!!

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    WTF?!?!? That's crazy. I feel so bad for all those children and the moms who will sho nuff have to raise them alone now. R.I.P. bruh

  • Daisy

    Ice u know rumors always come out when something 1st happens at 1st they said he was stabbed then that was cleared up

    Shauny this was a strip club not sure if they usually have cameras but great question

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    Sandra, there is nothing inappropriate in Kandi's tweets. Maybe you should have checked out her page before you started slamming her at a time like this.

    Here they are:

    im just in one of those moods where i dont wanna talk, i dont wanna b held & told its gonna b ok. i just wanna cry myself 2 sleep, alone.

    about 13 hours ago from web
    I could never n a million years imagine this happening. please pray for AJ's children. that's who im the most concerned 4.

    about 13 hours ago from web
    im bout 2 giv my swollen eyes sum rest now. i just wanted to say thanks 2 every1 for their prayers. i gotta get up & go 2 my uncle's funeral

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    They say AJ's killer is the club owner's ex-husband, who was also part owner of the strip club. Supposedly, AJ and Veronica were kickin' it. The fight took place inside the club, not outside. And it occurred in the late evening before the club opened, which is why there was no security around to stop the fight. This is all speculation, of course.

  • iscream

    I read that as well Sandra. But I read it in the comment section of a blog so who knows how true it is. They tried to make it seem like it was some cover up because they took him to the hospital as opposed to waiting to the emt. If someone is dying why not drive them to the hospital? I'm sure the truth will come out sooner than later since someone was already arrested.

  • pointhimout

    Sad story. Wow. See Sandra, Kandi's 6+ hours away from twitter sorta confirms your alleged findings. She was away for a long time, not sending any tweets and it was still EARLY in the night. We need Veronica to come up and tell what went wrong. Dont start that no snitchin' bs.

    Masonmom=about the chicago incident; I said the same thing. He wasn't just standing there minding his business and got clucked across the head for nothing. I got the impression that he was mixed in with the nonsense, got caught off guard and the dude clubbed him across the head. He wasn't completely innocent in all of this. So no, u weren't just seeing things. I peeped the same thing. The media's tryna focus on honor roll student, as if gang bangers or trouble makers can't be smart. I went to school with plenty of "nerdy" gang bangers who really weren't thugged out and the hard core members, but were still affiliated.

    I'm not sure what the disagreement was--please tell me it wasn't over no damn chick. We'll wait for details to save speculation and the what ifs crap. I just want people to get back to the time where if we fight, I will still live to see tomorrow. We both realize we over-reacted, we squash it and move on. there's no coming back from death. No Freddy, you dont get any cred for killing A.J. You look like a big ass kid who couldn't control his emotions and allowed the situation to get the better of you. But again, I'm speculating and of course wasn't there.

    Charles=u r crazy. too funny, but ur going to hell on amtrak..know this. Kandi's not a bird. I do hate the ghetto songs and her being a part of that "urban scene." I hate that, but I support her no matter what.

    Tiny's first kid's dad is named Zebo or something. It's not A.J. Remember the 'who can I run to' video intro? That was real. That's why Tiny turned around looking like "wtf?" I'm not sure if that was him in the video or not. I think I've seen him once or twice, so couldn't pick him out of a line up if my life depended on it.

  • Charles

    @119

    im serious about the white thing because white people just dont do these things, when black people get together they ACT UP!

  • Daisy

    @point if the chi town kid was banging I think the media would have been all ova it :shrug: I believe he was tryin to help a friend n was killed its sad when we assume all of our young blk men are in gangs

  • Richie Domino

    remember back in the day when black people would say "black people don't do stuff like that" when something happened and now we are seeing it happen on the regular?

    I think our issues also boil down to DNA, toxic melanin, bad mental diets as well as food diets.

    I watch some people and I swear they act like androids or humanoids.

    I know it's a lack on home training etc as well but people just seem much more angry these days and less tolerant of anything.

  • starr

    @point

    I didnt' want to watch that vid again, but i did...to see if i may have missed somthing, but i don't see anything indicated he was fighting. And i actually didn't even realize he was hit with those railroad steels or whatever it was from behind. smh

    @daisy
    I agree. the cops can call it what they want, but the media would of gotten to it by down. I don't believe that kid was in a gang. And even if he was fighting, we don't know what would of led him....i don't think walking away would of worked that day...i think i read that another kid was injured that day as well...i'm not sure

  • Divinebrown

    Charles...aka Uncle Rukus....

    I HAVE PLLLLLENTY OF WHITE FRIENDS, RICH, POOR AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN. THEY CUT UP BUT IN DIFFERENT WAYS THAN WE DO. White folks get drunk and fight each other. White folks get drunk and start breaking up sh!t. *their own shi!t included* I have watched many bar fights from the sidelines IN WHITE BARS start over absolutely nothing. They get kicked out of the club as much as we do. I've seen the club cleared out because of the people I was with. Still fighting after being pepper sprayed. White girls get drunk and like to dance, kiss each other and start taking their clothes off.

    The only difference is the media sensationalizes EVERYTHING WE DO and we are portrayed as vicious animals in the media. Not to mention cops are terrified for that reason. Please dont further pertuate unjustified stereotypes.

    Not to mention....MARINES FIGHT MORE THAN ANYONE!!!!!!!! Weren't ya'll under curfew in Okinawa for bugging out????? Hail...I HAD A "WWWWWWHIIIITTTEE" MARINE THREATEN TO CHOKE ME BECAUSE I WASNT PAYING HIM ANY MIND. Grittin his teeth all up in my face. And you know damn good and well I'm telling the truth. If you have any white marines that you hang out with, you know them dudes are fckin crazy.

  • glamdiva83

    @Shay1 I'm glad u posted her actual tweet b-cuz some people on here are taking it out of content on what she said...if u have twitter u should know everytime some1 twit u automatically get it on your cell...she probably got tired or being interrupted in her time of mourning 4rm the direct tweets 2 her & that's how she replied...I don't see nothing wrong w/her tweet when I received it round 4 something this morning....On a brighter side if u guys saw Thursday episode a lady was watching it & contacted her 2 let her know she has all her original plaques hanging on her wall & is giving them back 2 Kandi claiming she didn't know they belonged 2 her but Kandi put on twitter her name is on all her plaques & happy 2b getting tjem back

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Charles writes, "im serious about the white thing because white people just dont do these things, when black people get together they ACT UP!"
    ******************************************

    Whites do the same ish to each other as Blacks do to each other. Don't you watch Nancy Grace? The only difference is their crimes are not televised as frequent as black folks' crimes are. That is by design, of course. I see that you have fallen for the bait. SMDH

  • Gagirl73

    PRAYS' TO AJ'S FAMILY FIRST AND FOREMOST!!!

    SANDRA, WHO ARE YOU TO SAY HOW A PERSON SHOULD GRIEVE?
    KANDI OR ANYONE ELSE CAN POST WHEN EVER THEY WANT. YOU HAVE NO SAY SO OR CONTROL OVER THAT!

    WHEN MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY ALL I WANTED TO DO IS SLEEP TO KEEP FROM STAYING UP TO INTAKE MY BROKEN HEART AND I WAS NOT ON ANY MEDS!

    YOU ALWAYS CALLING THIS ONE A THUG THAT ONE A THUG, BUT A WHILE AGO WHEN ROCKO SHOUT OUT TO MY PEEPS ON BET. YOU STATED THAT'S HOW THUGS SHOW LOVE! SO I GUESS HE'S A GOOD THUG IT DEPENDS ON THE BABY MAMA! AJ LOST HIS LIFE, SIX KIDS LOST THE FATHER, PARENTS LOST THEIR CHILD AND IT GOES ON AND ON. SANDRA BE CAREFUL KARMA IS A BEAST!!!!!!!!!

  • Daisy

    Richie are you new? I am on the welcoming committee lol

  • kcicero

    @ Charles

    Google Philly fan beaten to death and you tell me who were the murderers...I'll wait though I already know the answer since one of the guys is friends with my husband's co-worker :coffee:

  • Kymystry

    Thank Everyone for the :happy birthday: wishes !

  • Kymystry

    :happybirthday:

  • Kymystry

    i give up ... THANK YALL :party:

  • Charles

    ill brb to answer these ?s

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Lawd, Sandra is show her mean azz on twitter.
    *********************************************
    She tweets, "Isn't it a shame that AJ Jewell died fighting another man for his woman? Smh @ Kandi crying over a man who didn't even want her."
    *********************************************

    Sandra, how could you be so heartless?? This woman has lost her uncle and a man that she loved or at least cared about. She was not cheating on anyone. His azz was allegedly banging another man's wife. How come you are not going after the wife?? Didn't she know that her azz was married?? If the allegations are true, then she should feel like a real nasty azz right about now. Perhaps she is banging you which would explain why your azz hasn't said nathan about her cheating azz. LEAVE KANDI ALONE.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Correction: Lawd, Sandra is showing her mean azz on twitter.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    If AJ was in fact banging a married woman, then he asked for an azz whippin. I hope he and McNasty enjoyed the sex before they died. I would advise the husband to retain TI's or R Kelly's attorneys. I don't take to kindly to cheaters.

    7th Commandment: Thou shall not commit adultery.

    Jesus said:
    Matthew 5:27-28: 27Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
    28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

    Romans 6:23: For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

  • Anna

    Kymystry Says:

    Thank Everyone for the :happy birthday: wishes !
    ~~~~
    Kym I hope you enjoyed your bday weekend. I remmember when I turned 30. I am just glad I can remember it, it was a dozen years ago. LOL. Have fun in your 30's but the 40's sure do rock.
    ~~~~~~~~
    Happy annivesary to our first couple. 17 yrs of wedded bliss.
    @ AM, the fight was about infidelity? I wondered why she took AJ to the hospital and not her own hubby.

  • pointhimout

    lord, AM done pulled out the scriptures. DO NOT get her started.

    SR, why are you going in on Kandi? I haven't read ur tweets yet, so please dont remove them, or have them removed.

    Is it true this VERONICA RICHARDSON chick is the same one caught in the middle of that PACMAN JONES ness way back when, also at bodytap? This bish is nuttin but trouble, i see. y r u going after the guy who painting the walls of ya wife with his love juice? snatch her by her poorly processed weave instead. I dont get it.

    "my mama told me there'd be days like this." ---cheatin on me (song), Kandi Burruss

    i'm always team kandi, so definitely not tryna take no sideway comments at her. Now that some sketchy details are coming out, I thought about that song she wrote for her debut cd years ago. i still will not say a.j. deserved this, cuz he didn't. i still dont wanna believe it had nuttin to do with a chick in the first place. who fights over a chick when there are 50/1 man in Atlanta? seriously?

  • pointhimout

    SANDRA ROSE, NO YOU DID NOT.

    "If ur Not Industry Don't waste ur time requesting to Follow Me."

    That reminds of T.O. saying something similar about 'not reading messages sent to him, so no need leaving them.' I could never have that much audacity, SR or TO.

    oh well.

  • Daisy

    :rofl: @Sandra

    I think alot of rumors are going around and some of them may be true but at the end of the day nobody has any right to take anothers life unless it is in self defense or to protect their children/family IMO!

    My prayers will continue to go out for Kandi and AJs children and family.

  • pointhimout

    after reading different news reports and such, i thought back to the "group" of guys who participated in AJ's demise. Many reports make it sound like one on one, but i refuse to believe one person did that much damage to AJ.

    ***********According to a source, the night Ashley Jewell (AJ) was murdered: The source says, the brawl allegedly started over money owed."

    The fight allegedly started inside (where beer bottles were used) and escalated outside where A.J. was stomped repeatedly by six men. He was bleeding profusely (with massive head injuries) and club goers were shouting for the perps to stop but they didn't.

    Sadly, if A.J. would have survived, due to the blunt force trauma and brain injuries, he would have been a vegetable.

    An arrest has been made in the case.

    Contrary to reports, A.J. didn't own "Body Tap," but was once interested in purchasing it for $2 million dollars.

  • masonmom

    see i heard he was gettin it for $1 mil (of kandi's money im sure)! to stomp and brutally beat somebody doesnt change the fact of gettin money owed. even mafia's n mobs back in the day just broke ur fingers as a warning!

    to ms holier than thou attorney mom, thanx for the scriptures and givin us a lesson...HOWEVER, its not up to any living man to handle god's judgement on folks that commit adultery. I have been involved with a married man in my PAST and guess what DONT JUDGE ME!!

    umm, i thought sandy said she doesnt do twitter? is somebody impersonating her with a fake acct!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    What a sad and unfortunate event. My condolences to both Kandi as well as AJ's family. I am completely at a loss for words. May God be with them in this time of need. Sidebar: Happy Belated Birthday Kymystry!! May all your wishes come true.

  • Shauny

    Some people on here just AMAZE, seriously.

    I've heard 3 different stories about his death and will not comment until I hear which one is the truth.

    If more than one person contributed to the death of AJ then the evidence will show that. If this Veronica chick is involved more than what they are saying then her time will come and she'll probably sing like a bird.

    No matter what the story is a fight shouldn't end with loss of life. I tend to believe the part of the story about Veronica though. If your husband was injured enough to end up in the hospital, how do you end up leaving him and taking AJ? That doesn't make sense to me. Also, the fight started in the club, ended up out of the club where there are supposed to be witnesses but yet the police are accepting this one on one fight scenario? I can't wait until the true comes out.

    Why is it so hard to believe that AJ had his own money? If he was this "drug dealer" as some would like us to believe or he had "shady" business dealings, why can't he have his own? Why does Kandi have to be taking care of him? If they weren't together anymore why would she be giving him a million dollars?

  • masonmom

    i can see kandi still takin care of him just like she's takin care of his kids. she has a big heart and is a very genuine person. i love how she stepped in to be a role model and help his kids out while their mother gets herself together. we think wow she's crazy for takin on extra mouths to feed that dont belong to her but imagine where these girls would end up if nobody steps in to guide them in the right direction. They end up in "tip drill" video's or the playaz club!

  • pointhimout

    Yes Sandra, Queen Kandi has tweeted. Please throw no shade via ur tunnel vision on how one must deal with grief and turmoil. please and thank you.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Masonmom writes, "to ms holier than thou attorney mom, thanx for the scriptures and givin us a lesson…HOWEVER, its not up to any living man to handle god’s judgement on folks that commit adultery. I have been involved with a married man in my PAST and guess what DONT JUDGE ME!!"
    ******************************************************

    First of all, folks have to realize that we can't control the consequences for sin. Some folks can get away with ish for a very long time and others are dealt with a lot sooner. But it catches up with you sooner or later.

    Don't get mad at me because you cheated. I am just repeating what Jesus said. Your azz was wrong and you know it. I hope you have learned from your mistakes and will not inflict that type of pain on another woman (wife) again. Keep your head up and legs closed to married man. It is just that simple. Don't start none, won't be none.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    pointhimout writes:

    SANDRA ROSE, NO YOU DID NOT.

    “If ur Not Industry Don’t waste ur time requesting to Follow Me.”

    That reminds of T.O. saying something similar about ‘not reading messages sent to him, so no need leaving them.’ I could never have that much audacity, SR or TO.

    oh well.
    *******************************************************

    Pointhimout, I missed that tweet. LOL. Sandra, you are funny.

    I still think twitter is the dumbest thing. I can only stay on it for 20 minutes or less, every other day. I only read the first page of updates and that is it. I am not that star struck so the ish is stupid to me.

  • Daisy

    AM twiiter has nothing to do with being star struck so you stand corrected. I talked to friends n family n ppl from my SR fam as well as LJ likes to say twitter is what u make it

    @mason girl we all have our crosses to bear AM judging you is just as much as a sin as sleeping with a married man. Sin is sin in Gods eyes

    Does Kandi have a milli to give to AJ and who in the HAIL knew the body tap was worth that much

    If veronica took AJ to the hospital it cld have been because she knew he was worse off than her hubby n she was trying to prevent him facing murder or manslaughter charges

    Shauny AJ was a former dope boy that's a fact cause that's all Tiny dates n I know ppl who knew AJ as well here n the A

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Daisy, what judgment did I make against Masonmom? Oh, I get it okay for you to judge me, but I can't say s*** about anyone? Sit your azz down and stop being a hypocrite.

    Mental note don't attend: Don't attend Daisy's and Sandra's church cause they ain't learning ish over there. SMDH

  • free

    what's REALLY a damn shame is that my 65 year old mom knows more about this than i do. she hipped me to the fact that tiny used to date AJ way back in the day; she knew all the details.

  • KayCeiSoul

    This is so sad. I hated to hear this happened. I wish A.J.'s family and Kandi my condolences. I'm sure this is alot for her to have to deal with.

  • KayCeiSoul

    @Free - word up? Sorry, I had to go old school on this one. I had NO idea about Tiny and A.J., and the above references in the comments were going over my head. They used to date foreal?

  • Shauny

    Top of the week fam

    Daisy - I wasn't saying that he wan't one, my point was that if he was/is he'd have his own money.

    As far as the explanation for Veronica, I'm sorry but if I'm driving anyone to the hospital, I'm taking my hubby no matter what. An ambulance could've worked on AJ in route to the hospital and got him care that she couldn't while on the way. Take your man or leave them both there.

    @free :lol: at your granny giving you the 411.

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Shauny Says:
    As far as the explanation for Veronica, I’m sorry but if I’m driving anyone to the hospital, I’m taking my hubby no matter what. An ambulance could’ve worked on AJ in route to the hospital and got him care that she couldn’t while on the way. Take your man or leave them both there.
    ----------
    I agree!!! Very odd that should would ride with AJ vs. her own hubby

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Shauny Says:

    As far as the explanation for Veronica, I’m sorry but if I’m driving anyone to the hospital, I’m taking my hubby no matter what.

    *******************************************

    He was her EX-husband, EX. But they still owned several business ventures together including The Body Tap.

  • KayCeiSoul

    This is deep. There must have been some toes stepped on or some serious money owed, because beating the death out of someone in a one on one fight shows relentless, pinned up anger and aggression. Can't be anything good, because something had to fuel this man to react like that, even though he was wrong for killing him.

  • BLACKBARBIE404

    GOOD MORNING!

    TOO MANY ASSUMPTIONS ON HERE FOR ME!

    SMDH...WILL IT EVER END???

  • Shauny

    Sandra thanks for the clarification. I didn't read that they weren't still married.

    O.K damn, so that throws a wrench in one of the theories local ATL people have been giving over the net this weekend. You can't cheat on an EX. And if they were EX spouses who still were unofficially together then that takes us back to who I'm taking to the hospital.

  • iyonah

    Good Morning all! I am with you BB to many assumptions. How about we be kind and extend condolensces for the family grieving?? There are 6 kids minus a father.

  • iscream

    Good Monday Morning all.

    Hope everyone had a good weekend. I see nothing has changed in this story.

    Where's the post on Jon snatching that money out of their joint bank account? Kate must not have no brothers cause that fool just made the beef personal.

    :party: I love this icon.

  • Krysi J

    OMG!! OMG!!.....this is crazy!! and so SAD...poor Kandi!

  • KayCeiSoul

    Good morning Isc - yes! I'm hearing Jon left Kate $1000?? What is she supposed to do with that? That might be enough for a month's worth of groceries for 8 kids. That's about it. Jon is 'bout an ole' dirty thang for that one.

  • Anna

    iscream Says:

    Good Monday Morning all.

    Hope everyone had a good weekend. I see nothing has changed in this story.

    Where’s the post on Jon snatching that money out of their joint bank account? Kate must not have no brothers cause that fool just made the beef personal.

    ~~~~~~~
    I use to feel sorry for Jon. Now I see how pathetic he is. He wants the show to stop filming his kids, he said he was not mad that the show dropped him and his name. Yeah right. TLC said that he was filming with them two days before he decided he wanted to pull the plug. Jon taking money out of their account, the divorce papers have already been filed, isn't this theft?
    I love this icon.~~~~~~~~~~ Don't be tardy for the party.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice

    my prayers are with Kandi, and AJ's kids during this difficult time :( im still waiting on more details though.

    im getting tired of jon and kate plus 8. i think they just need to cancel this show point blank. supposedly he took everything out of the bank except 1000.00 lol. wtf is wrong with him? hes trying to fight so hard to get the show off the air NOW, but he wasnt thinking about that when he was making the BIG BUCKS. he is just drama filled

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Shauny Says:

    You can’t cheat on an EX.

    *********************************************

    Veronica's husband was old school (he's an older man) and he paid all her bills. So I'm sure he felt some kinda way about this young buck stepping up and doing his ex. I'm sure he still had feelings for her. The point in all of this is, AJ wasn't thinking about Kandi. He moved on. But she's milking his death like she was still #1 in his life when she wasn't. AJ lost his life fighting over another woman.

  • flyqtnva

    smh

  • iscream

    I saw him on Larry King with those devil eyes. I also use to feel sorry for him but he was sitting there with that fast talking attrny. What a loser he is for taking that money. I don't care what his reasons were. Sell your girlfriends tits if you need some extra cash.

    I never watched the show so I could care less if it gets cancelled or not. They are two feet behing and three kids ahead of Neffie at this point.

  • mizzdallas

    I guess the miss the :party:! aj death was too sad to bad that another black man was murdered

  • Anna

    iscream Says:

    I saw him on Larry King with those devil eyes. I also use to feel sorry for him but he was sitting there with that fast talking attrny. What a loser he is for taking that money. I don’t care what his reasons were. Sell your girlfriends tits if you need some extra cash.
    ~~~~~~~~
    I think the show would benefit much more being she will be a single mother. Most can identify with that. His eyes were looking devilish, and I thought I saw horns. LOL.

  • ~LovLi~

    "The point in all of this is, AJ wasn’t thinking about Kandi. He moved on. But she’s milking his death like she was still #1 in his life when she wasn’t. AJ lost his life fighting over another woman."

    Grieving over the loss of someone's life has nothing to do with whether or not you were "#1" or for what reason they were killed. Loving a person doesn't stop just because the relationship didn't work.

  • iscream

    :rofl: @ Sandra.

    How is she milking off of his death when if it wasn't for Kandi we wouldn't even be talking about his death. His name is known because of Kandi not the other way around.

    When his death is reported as with this post. Its titled Kandi's Ex.. & lets not forget she does have custody of two of his children.

    I wonder if this story is true if this woman is the reason they eneded their relationship.

  • Krysi J

    So AJ was stomped out over a fukking female??.........Aw hell this shyt is just WORSE....than I thought. I mean I know they weren't together, but this is not a good look, and its so fukked up for AJ to be dead over some bullshyt like fukking? Where is this woman NOW??!!

  • Shauny

    Isc - cosigning #173

    Krysi - that is just one of the many stories floating around, it hasn't proven to be true yet.

    Also Jon is a biotch. Kate looks like she could whip his azz anyway. The fact that he took all that money from their joint account and left her a stack is reason enough to finally go upside his head. I heard his lawyer advised him to do that and has done it with other clients before. I hope the judge throws his azz in jail. Jackazz.

  • http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

    Very shocking.

    Kandi's response via twitter was very respectable.

    My prayers are with the family!!

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice

    i just read on a site that AJ and Frederick were fighting over a stripper... pls say it aint so. too many stories going around

  • Jessie

    Stop the violence! Stop black-on-black crime!!

  • Daisy

    AM sit you azz down and talk what you know and know what the hail you talk. I did NOT judge you I made a comment you go around condemming folks like u r the only one who knows Jesus or the word. You judged Mason n said as such so you get a BITCH please n sideye how is that for coming at u since u always accused me of such n the past. I don't have a heaven or hell to put anybody in so I don't play the judging game hell I got my own sins to worry about

    I am team Jon but don't think he shld have taken the $$ but Kate has money somewhere cause she has book deals on top of the TV show I don't believe they only had 200k left in the bank

  • iscream

    Well dizzam.

  • Daisy

    Ice lol shoot gets on my last nerve on reserve so I had to vent n feel much betta!

    Forgot to shoutout my wonderful Pastor and church Rev Dr Cynthia L Hale Ray of Hope Christian church!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Daisy, you really thought you said something. And your buddy Iscream is soupin you up like you did. Two Gremlins. Bright light, bright light. You all better sit your azzes down before I throw some holy water on both of you. LOL

  • Daisy

    AM I have my own holy oil so I am good on that but thanks for offering lol and you can sit in a corner facing the wall :coffee:

  • iscream

    Souping her up? You must got me confused for someone who really cares. You don't know what my comment represented. For all you know I found it offensive. :rolleyes:

    Go take a holywater bath. You are losing your way.

  • masonmom

    wow..just wow man! im'ma keep it classy cuz apparently daisy got my drift >>>>>here<<<< (did i do it right, lol). it aint even worth goin back and forth over nonsense. we all made our points!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Masonmom, I am just playing with the two Gremlins. I have so much fun with them. We can insult each other and keep it moving unlike some other folks.

    I am scratching my head though. They never clown me about my cussing. They only jump on me when I quote scriptures. That use to really set Daisy off. I can quote Rappers, just don't quote Jesus. Blank stare.