Every attention whore has their day, and yesterday was Mashonda’s day to shine. I know she couldn’t wait to Twitpic these images of her son, Kasseem Jr., celebrating his birthday with his deadbeat dad Swizz Beatz at FAO Swartz toy store in Manhattan.
The kid looks depressed doesn’t he? Like he knows he was born to be a photo op for his narcissistic parents and nothing else. Little Kasseem Jr. looks like the walking wounded who’s seen one too many battles between his parents.
You can tell he’s undernourished, wearing a size 3T? My grandnephew is 2-years-old and wears a 4T.
Of course Kasseem’s self-absorbed parents don’t see the damage they’re doing to their son because, well, they’re self-absorbed. So they probably think if they throw enough money at him, such as buying him frivolous things like $400 Louis Vuitton sneakers, that he’ll forget they were horrible parents when he was little.
Mashonda even tweeted “I know one day you might Google us, but I just want you to know there was always love…” Isn’t it sad that the kid has to grow up and Google her tweet to see that they always loved him? Child protection services needs to step in and evaluate this child’s home environment.
Maybe Mashonda should lean on Solange Knowles for advice. Solo seems to be a really great mother to her son Julez.
Kid looks sad. They were a cute couple though. Swizz looks more comfortable taking those pics then he does w/AK.
Sandra how is Swizz a deadbeat?
I am glad they can come together and be the BEST co parents they can be for their child! More ppl should take note. Good for them
Smokie will be commenting on the no smiling in 5 4 3 2 1…
What a cute little boy.
I’m glad to see the parents got along for at least one day to share this little boy’s birthday.
@ Sandra, he’s right on target clothes-wise for his age.
How is Swizz a dead beat. Mashonda has NEVER called him such. If anything thru all the pics on his twitter and what not it seems as though he takes very good care of his son and is a good dad.
And for the record, Mashonda U put UR business on front street thru twitter. U darling U.
Im so happy they came together for their son. I loves it.
Oh and maybe your nephew is just a lil big.
Okay let me stop Auntie you know i luvs you.
“You can tell he’s undernourished, wearing a size 3T? My grandnephew is 2-years-old and wears a 4T.”
LOL…..Swizz is a twig Sandra what did you expect?
nice to see they came together for the sake of the child.
my daughter is 1 and wears a 2T/3T but she is FAT lol
how old is he? if hes is 3 then he is right on target
They are both good parents Sandra…stop trying to start trouble
Lovely *waves* hey girl! I am not going to clown like I did on that other site
LJ My fat neice also wears a 2T on her way to a 3T with her big tail she is GREEDY like her mama!
You can tell he’s undernourished, wearing a size 3T? My grandnephew is 2-years-old and wears a 4T.
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But it is nice to see that Mashonda and Gonzo get along for the sake of their son…
He looks scared to me. How can you tell if he’s malnourished? His dad’s not the healthiest rat I’ve seen
I do agree that they seem to be seeking attention, Mashonda more than anyone.
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“Kasseem Jr., celebrating his birthday with his deadbeat dad Swizz Beatz at FAO Swartz toy store in Manhattan.”
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What’s your definition of a deadbeat dad?
@ Daisy yea cause you were clwowning HARD.
Side Note: Why didnt they invite Alicia?? #justasking
ok the children are always off limits. that wasn’t called for sandra
he looks like the lil boy off the Smart Kid
lol daisy. my daughter been chunky since day ONE! no idea where she gets it from
@Mirsmommy,
Thats a football player in training lol.
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
he looks like the lil boy off the Smart Kid
Cause he does
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I can no longer find mashonda on twitter…did she remove her page afta that otha tweet….
Dang @Lovely, I was gonna say the same thing
LovelyLady Says:
Side Note: Why didnt they invite Alicia?? #justasking
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u know better. they probably would have been fighting and better…. based off mashonda’s twitter explosions lol
This post would be so much better if Alicia showed up.
I am on Mashonda’s side on this one. Keep your head up.
Memo to Soror Piano Keys: Close your legs to married men.
Dear Mashonda:
Lord knows this letter to you has been a LOOOOONG time coming honey. I been trying and trying to NOT write you one but I’mma let your azz have it in 5, 4, 3, 2, 1…
Mashonda getcho azz off Twitter with all your muthafukking personal biz. Tryna save/defend your marriage, trying to parent via Twitter? Some shat is best left UNSAID and PRIVATE. If you want that lil boy to know he was always loved do you HAFTA say it on Twitter? Can’t you do something sweet and put together a book with pics of him and his parents all together? At home? In private? GOODLAWRD girl.
Have a Merry X-mas, stay your azz off Twitter and just live life.
Your sister in Christ,
kwall
P.S. And your azz not slick. You did NOT put them pics of you, that man, and that baby up there for the lil man…you did it to be spiteful to Alicia. Who is NOT “stuttin” you.
see that emoticon? That is A.Keys right now. NOT THANKING boutchu.
LovelyLady Says:
@Mirsmommy,
Thats a football player in training lol.
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How is that Hood Rat? How is he undernourished? Maybe your nephew is eating too much beef, pork, chicken and milk, and getting all his vaccinations – all too toxic!
You want to talk about a raggedy momma, Solange is a raggedy momma, imo. Does her boy even go to school, for taking pictures in the park all the time? She lets her son say stuff like ‘Jews are cool’.
He’ll be using the n-word, regularly, by the time he’s 7. :mad1: But this ain’t about Solange – not today, Sandra.
Sandra, you ’bout as bad as the women that are blaming her (Mashonda) for Kaseem Sr cheating/leaving – your accusations hold no merit. I’m sure if she was that bad Swizz would be all over it. You should apologize to them.
mirsmommy, you better hush before sandra say you trying to train your baby to be a money train, j/k!
@Kwall
I can’t breathe!
@Lovely I am sure if Swizz/Akeys are still boo”d up next year she will be n the mix. The drama shld be over for real by this time next year and u know Mashonda said she has a new boo now so they will both have dates
He look just like his daddy!
That little boy is adorable!!! But Solange being a good mom—um no. She’s an attention whore too….
I think Sandra is referring to him as a deadbeat because he willingly left his wife to be with another woman(alicia). This destroyed his family therefore leaving his son to be raised without his father in the home. She also says the parents are “self-absorbed” because they only seem to care (well at least swizz) about themselves and not the child they brought into the world. I don’t blame Mashonda for saying what she has. Swiss is a deadbeat because not only did he cheat on his wife he cheated his child!
*Sigh. Mashonda just wants some shine…which you have now given her. YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER! She needs to stop trying to use their son as an “object” to keep Swizz around.
Kwall,
Well Dayum. Nuffin else needs to be said. Im with LJ
And Sandra why you aint post that other tweet. I like drama so imma go find it and post it my damn self. Be right back
LMAO…again….all these assumptions from a few pics and I think Mashonda was referring to her breakup with Swizz and all the rumors surrounding it not the fact that he is loved.
On another note Solange DOES seem like a really great mom.
j.c. Says:
mirsmommy, you better hush before sandra say you trying to train your baby to be a money train, j/k!
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FROM MASHONDA VIA TWITTER:
Ok,so moving foward..Ive been in a weird place lately. My heart has been all gushy and soft.LOL. It feels great. Love is in existence! Its nice when God sends us people to speak to. Its better when those people understand ur situation and will allow u to handle them b4 movin. foward.I know the world is all in my life,so I will be the 1st 2 let you know the day my [Divorce] is final.Then Ill be able to righteously move on.Until then, I will focus on my son and myself. But its nice to know someone is waiting patiently
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SO WHAT YALL THINK YALL THINK THEY REALLY WAITING UNTIL THE DIVORCE IS FINAL?? ITS BEEN 2 YEARS NOW.
dat boy look just like swizzy
ReadTheBlog Says:
How is that Hood Rat?
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That’s what I want to know. This looks like a family sharing a kids bday party.
Yea Solo IS a great parent. I cant knock that, at lease from what i see.
LovelyLady Says:
FROM MASHONDA VIA TWITTER:
Ok,so moving foward..Ive been in a weird place lately. My heart has been all gushy and soft.LOL. It feels great. Love is in existence! Its nice when God sends us people to speak to. Its better when those people understand ur situation and will allow u to handle them b4 movin. foward.I know the world is all in my life,so I will be the 1st 2 let you know the day my [Divorce] is final.Then Ill be able to righteously move on.Until then, I will focus on my son and myself. But its nice to know someone is waiting patiently
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SO WHAT YALL THINK YALL THINK THEY REALLY WAITING UNTIL THE DIVORCE IS FINAL?? ITS BEEN 2 YEARS NOW
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I don’t know why she felt the need to share that. Perhaps to throw shade at swizzy….i mean who cares
I had to look at the body language. He is not feeling her azz at all. Probably sitting there wondering what his boo for life is doing. Dang Moshonda I thought you were going to do better in the new year. Guess you’re getting the best out of 09.
Smh. Must be sad sleeping with a broken heart. I never wanna be sleeping in ya bed.
& Kwallace I agree 100% she put those pics up for Akeys in a
kindve way. She better hope that shyt don’t back fire and Akey release xmas cards of her, swiss & shorty.
NEWSBREAK!
Moshonda soon to be ex wife of the producer swizz beats has killed herself tonight. She leaves behind a son who will now be raised by his father and girlfriend Grammy award winner Akeys. Smh grown up already!
Wow Solo seems like a great mother to me. She tweets about her son all the time and they have had pics of her taking him to school. He doesn’t seem to be abused to me n anyway shape or form and spends time w/ his daddy.
@Lovely
at u for being messy going to find that tweet and post it 
Iscream said:
She better hope that shyt don’t back fire and Akey release xmas cards of her, swiss & shorty
than i dont know what would be.
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Well hot dammitt if that wouldnt be a
@isc, isn’t he sitting there like “DON’T TOUCH ME, I’M HERE FOR MY SON”?
i just need her to step AWAY from the iphone, blackberry, keyboard…whatever the phuck her means of communicating to the rest of the world about her feelings, intentions, private PERSONAL BIZ….i need her to have some kinda of intervention already. don’t she got a sister, a momma, a aunt, hail a REAL friend who can tell her “that shyt is SO NOT what’s hot in the skreet”????
for goodness sakes marriages even amongst the famous break up erryday. the minute it has taken me to type this…some man done got his shat packed and was told to go kick rocks. is his wife on twitter tweeting out her feelings about it?
Daisy,
I had to
LovelyLady Says:
FROM MASHONDA VIA TWITTER:
Ok,so moving foward..Ive been in a weird place lately. My heart has been all gushy and soft.LOL. It feels great. Love is in existence! Its nice when God sends us people to speak to. Its better when those people understand ur situation and will allow u to handle them b4 movin. foward.I know the world is all in my life,so I will be the 1st 2 let you know the day my [Divorce] is final.Then Ill be able to righteously move on.Until then, I will focus on my son and myself. But its nice to know someone is waiting patiently
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SO WHAT YALL THINK YALL THINK THEY REALLY WAITING UNTIL THE DIVORCE IS FINAL?? ITS BEEN 2 YEARS NOW
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that “someone [who] is waiting patiently”.
*Blank face* The world cares BECAUSE? Lawd, she ain’t waiting until the divorce is final. You know she’s already
Then to throw God into it?
@Lovely…that’s just more proof that she needs to delete her twitter. She puts all her personal business out there for the world. Celebs & Twitter just don’t mix…fans don’t want to think of them as regular people. I like to think that celebs only live to entertain me not talk about themselves all day…
I am sure Akeys knew they would be taking family pics and will be for the rest of their lives its what divorced (soon to be) do all the time w/ kids they have together.
i don’t think there is someone else. she’s just saying that cuz she’s hurt. she’s hoping it will stir up some type of emotion in swizz which is obviously not going to happen. i feel sorry for her.
@ Kwall – that letter was needed. *in Madea’s voice* Amen! & Hallelujah!!
Why are the comment sections turned off when pics of Tiny’s and Monica’s kids are posted? Why are their kids off limits but everyone else kids are not? I’ve never seen anything slightly negative posted about their parenting skills or how their kids look. IMO, ALL kids are off limits.
Kwall you said something just then didn’t you? Please, I have two children with my ex-husband and we always did things with the children. The pictures that were taken were strictly for my children. I can’t stand the knee-grow, but for the sake of the kids I love him. Now that they are older and he’s remarried I’m very cordial. He left me for someone but there was no way that I was going in on the other woman because she didn’t make that vow to me he did. I mean the situation was not a good one but it was his fault. Who knows what she thought of our situation because of what he said and at the same time he ws probably being a good man to her making her fall for him. After that it was on for her, he’s the blame the same as Swizz is the blame. If I did fight for him at least my ex was fine, Swizzy, not so much. Sorry
If i was her sis, I wouldve *smack that azz right to the floor, smack that and ask do you want some more*
Mashonda’s manager (if she has one cause she supposed to be a sanger :rolleyes:) needs to follow what Chris’ camp did. Shut dat damn Twit sh*t down immediately.
(Acting like Intense) YOU ALL BETTER LEAVE MASHONDA ALONE.
@Cinderella I agree as well
I will say that BOTH Mashonda and Akeys are pretty Swizzy has good taste.
@Lovley
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*whispering that was my JAM though*
If Mashonda has sum1 new then good for her…she deserves to be happy! But I must agree she do need to stop puttign her buiness on twitter but hey whatever floats her boat…
RTB
Whats wrong with saying Jews are cool. How does that equate to the N word??? And how does that make u a bad parent??
Im really confused help me out.
Mashonda can airing out her damn business on twitter has nothing to do with how she raises her son, if thats the case then half of the mofo’s parents twittering are NOT taking care of their damn kids…. Mashonda was married to swizz way before the fame and money, she is dealing with her hurt the best way she know how too! smdh at some of yall…
And sandra, this is hoodrat well atleast mashonda and swizz were married before they had a baby, unlike monica… Now who is hoodratish…?
@Lovely- That is so friggin hilarious to me.
Hi Daisy. My son got delayed because of the snow in Philly(had a layover there; was cheaper) will be in tomorrow.
LovelyLady Says:
Sandra post that vid of Miley lil 9 year old sis dancing to Akon smack that. SMH. Fats azz girl.
If i was her sis, I wouldve *smack that azz right to the floor, smack that and ask do you want some more*
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Mizzdallas writes, “And sandra, this is hoodrat well atleast mashonda and swizz were married before they had a baby, unlike monica… Now who is hoodratish…?”
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Girl, you better preach!!!
Sigh… Mashonda is not a hoodrat. We don’t know how long they been separated. If they were separated, how do we know what he was telling her in the interim. Hopefully the can all be happy in their lives and great parents to their son. That is all.
i’m so sorry…. but i DO NOT THINK for ONE SECOND she got a new man. hail up until last week it seems like she was too mufukkin worried about what templeton the rat looking azz swiss was doing with a.keys. and she HAS been for many many months now.
that woman ain’t
nothing new more than a man on the gotdayum moon. she been sitting in her window waiting for rat-face to come home imo.
NEWSFLASH: he not coming home. no amount of twitter pics, rants, etc. gonna brang him back sweetie.
I have a twitter page but I am slowly starting to see its stupidity. People on there that follow me or I follow say the dumbest SHYT!!! Like sexxual things or reference to relationships and then wanna look dumb when every one knows what your were talking about… buncha dummies
“here we go again” -DMX Belly
damn Mashonda, ya just lost me.
give this shyt a REST will ya.
Yes I agree, Mashonda is no hoodrat. But she doing hoodrat shiat like twittering all the damn time. Take a breather and get over Toucan Sam first.
that kid looks super sad…they spent all that money and he cant even smile for the camera. my son looked happier at his burger king b-day party
Sandra….I know you supposed to have a shark of a lawyer but on the real, you might wanna be easy when it comes these kids….
so I was right in thinking either the kid’s party and AK’s album listening party were the same night, or Swizz is just cheap. He rocked the same gear at both. Somebody seems to have a full life.
swizz has some really pretty eyes.
Krysi work bish <<<<— As Daisy would say
I LOVES LOVES the new pic,
kwall says:
i’m so sorry…. but i DO NOT THINK for ONE SECOND she got a new man.
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I agree. New dyck will make you shut the f*ck up about your ex – not say one word. She would be trying to figure out how to keep that new d*yck instead of worrying about her ex. He ain’t checking for you boo. She hasn’t found anyone.
Clawd Have Mercy! This is sooo last week, but was anyone a Dexter fan (show that came on Sho-Time). Terrible how it ended right? I so can’t wait for the next season. :woot:
I still dont like A. Keys ol dyke
@Cris you will NOT talk about my Akeys like that
I wont stand for it 
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LovelyLady, I don’t think a kid should be talking like that. Freedom of expression in children is fine and well, as is being cultured – I encourage it in my home. It just leads me to think he’s obviously around people who are putting people in one category/labeling, etc… Just as ‘they’ do ‘us’ – He’s what, 4-5? What should he know if a Jew is cool? He should be talking about Transformers are cool, or Legos are cool. Leave that grown up stuff to the grown ups – be a child in the meanwhile. It’s a bad habit in the making. But his momma is a big mouth, and apples don’t fall too far from the trees that bear them.
Going HAM early in the week I see….have you guys had your morning
@ Crislex we on the same page lol
i cant wait till AK leaves Swizz for her female lover lol
Awwh cute pics. Alicia aint worried about these pictures, hell he took pictures with her at her album release party that same day; unless he wore that same outfit, jacket and all two days in a row!!
mizzdallas Says:
Mashonda can airing out her damn business on twitter has nothing to do with how she raises her son, if thats the case then half of the mofo’s parents twittering are NOT taking care of their damn kids…. Mashonda was married to swizz way before the fame and money, she is dealing with her hurt the best way she know how too! smdh at some of yall…
And sandra, this is hoodrat well atleast mashonda and swizz were married before they had a baby, unlike monica… Now who is hoodratish…?
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Now that’s hoodratish…
@ mizzdallas
I forgot to put up the
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Quitta Says:
Clawd Have Mercy! This is sooo last week, but was anyone a Dexter fan (show that came on Sho-Time). Terrible how it ended right? I so can’t wait for the next season.
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But yes, that was crazy. I was not expecting that to happen.
RTB
Have you ever stopped and think maybe he was tombout his self. .Like Jews short for Juelz. Thats what it sounds like to me.
When is this woman going to stop!!!! I’m tired of hearing about her ranting on twitter! What does she do again?
She has no relevance and neither does this post. He aint coming back and if he does who would want him. Next!!!!
Aww that baby looks so so sad. poor thing aint no telling what he see go on between the parents
@Lovely I am with you. Solo is a good mother IMO by what I can tell from her tweets, interviews and when I see her and Julez out and about. He is such a cutie pie as well.
Maybe AKeys will leave Swizzy for Mashonda
No offense, but she ain’t the first chick to get a divorce nor will she be the last. Mashonda, please go sit down somewhere.
*DEAD* @ civil
LovelyLady Says:
RTB
Have you ever stopped and think maybe he was tombout his self. .Like Jews short for Juelz. Thats what it sounds like to me.
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I’m dipping, that’s what I got out of it. What mother would allow her child to say “Jews are Cool” and not explain it?
UMMM MASHONDA BOOBOO,I’M GONNA NEED YOU TO KEEP YOUR AZZ ON THE INTERNET STAT! ARE YOU TRYIN TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS BY SAYING YOU HAVE A NEW MAN??? CHILE PLEASE, EVEN STEVIE WONDER CAN SEE THRU THAT CRAP! SAVE THE PICS FOR YOUR PHOTO ALBUM AT HOME AND THAT’S A PRETTY LAME AZZ ATTEMPT AT MAKIN ALICIA JEALOUS BY POSTING THE PIC WITH YOU AND HIM! GUL PUHLEEZE! I WAS ON YOUR SIDE FOR A HOT MINUTE BUT NOW YOUR AZZ IS JUST COMIN ACROSS AS DESPARATE!!! UMKAY BOOBOO!
CivilEngineer Says:
Maybe AKeys will leave Swizzy for Mashonda
that would be a hellava story. How bout all them just get it in together.
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Well hot dammitt,
@Mizz Mashonda wasnt married to Swizz before the fame and money. Swizz been in the game since he was 17 not that it matters just wanted to clarify that for you.
I MEANT OFF THE INTERNET
People kill me acting like adultrey is the BIGGEST sin ever. Last time I checked all of them equal the same.
LovelyLady Says:
CivilEngineer Says:
Maybe AKeys will leave Swizzy for Mashonda
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Well hot dammitt, that would be a hellava story. How bout all them just get it in together.
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mirsmommy Says:
Quitta Says:
Clawd Have Mercy! This is sooo last week, but was anyone a Dexter fan (show that came on Sho-Time). Terrible how it ended right? I so can’t wait for the next season.
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You late, us Dexter fans had this convo the Monday after it aired.
But yes, that was crazy. I was not expecting that to happen.
That day I was actually doing work that’s why I couldn’t join the convo.
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I know, I know I’m late Mirs.
Daisy Says:
@Mizz Mashonda wasnt married to Swizz before the fame and money. Swizz been in the game since he was 17 not that it matters just wanted to clarify that for you.
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Exactly him and Mashonda started dating when he was helping produce her work. ITS HIS OVA BABY MOTHER that was with him beofre the fame.
Q_ATLANTIS Says:
that kid looks super sad…they spent all that money and he cant even smile for the camera. my son looked happier at his burger king b-day party
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yea they should’ve had a party at chuck e cheese, probably would have been much happier there
Hmmmmm all these negatives comments towards Mashonda is disturbing. Especially from other women……
I’m all for venting, but at some point you have to give it a rest. Heck, I feel stupid when I keep venting to my friends about the same stuff over and over again. Bless her little heart.
Being in the game since you were 17 does not make you famous or successful. He sold his first beat when he was 20. I have wikipedia to you know. The fact of the matter is, if he wanted to divorce her, he would have made it happen. He was trying to have his cake and eat it to. He could have recouped the money he lost from the divorce if they TRULY did separate two years ago as he is having people believe. I hope what is tween Alicia legs is worth him throwing away his marriage. Mashonda is still going through the stages of loss. All of us are regular folks, I can’t say how I would react if my husband left me for a superstar and it was played out in the black blogs (cause we all know whitey don’t care about this mess).
Ok,so moving foward..Ive been in a weird place lately. My heart has been all gushy and soft.LOL. It feels great. Love is in existence! Its nice when God sends us people to speak to. Its better when those people understand ur situation and will allow u to handle them b4 movin. foward.I know the world is all in my life,so I will be the 1st 2 let you know the day my [Divorce] is final.Then Ill be able to righteously move on.Until then, I will focus on my son and myself. But its nice to know someone is waiting patiently
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she saying dis shyt ^^^ because somebody posted video and pics of Swizz and Alicia hand in hand at her album release party…..and he was quoted saying “I told yall we weren’t scared of the people”…..him and Alicia danced on stage and all…..it probably stirred up those bad feelings all over again for the poor gurl…..DAMN!…that shyt gotta be hard
BUT..
its time to let GO Mashonda…..don’t look back.
I hope Swizz has some hot tracks for DMX new cd and can he please for the love of all things holy bring back the E V E pitbull in a skirt sound
I wonder if he tried to get at Akeys when she was on the hook to Eves song and in the video back in the day
LovelyLady Says:
CivilEngineer Says:
Maybe AKeys will leave Swizzy for Mashonda
Would she be seen as less of a “homewrecker” if she stole Mashonda from Swizzy?
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Well hot dammitt, that would be a hellava story. How bout all them just get it in together.
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You know I LOVE stating the obvious
She just HAD to grab her son hand with that hand to show her tattoo that says “loyalty”
SN: I feel so bad for her, cause i know she is hurting
But hey it still makes for good blog posts 
@attorneymom
Deitrick Haddon did that!!!
Oh hot dammit
Sandra FORGIVE ME IM SORRY I DID NOT KNOW IT WAS THAT MANY SMILEYS IN THAT POST
*smacks self on the hand* I know thats a
I’s sorry.
@attorneymom:
What are the Trumpet Awards?
@ LL
Holy sh*t. I didn’t even peep dat.
HE DOESN’T APPEAR TO BE A DEAD BEAT DAD JUST A CHEAT
I’M OUT I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR HISSING HENS TODAY
IF A KEYS WAS THE WIFE AND SHE WAS THE X AND JUST THE BABY MOMS-THEY WOULD TEAR MASHONDA A NEW ARSE FOR HER BEHAVIOR
BUT WIVE’S NO MATTER HOW BAD THE BEHAVIOR ALWAYS GETS A PASS-LOL
Her twitter name was/is MashondaLoyal
that is her running theme!
LovelyLady Says:
If i was her sis, I wouldve *smack that azz right to the floor, smack that and ask do you want some more*
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Quitta Says:
mirsmommy Says:
Quitta Says:
Clawd Have Mercy! This is sooo last week, but was anyone a Dexter fan (show that came on Sho-Time). Terrible how it ended right? I so can’t wait for the next season.
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You late, us Dexter fans had this convo the Monday after it aired.
But yes, that was crazy. I was not expecting that to happen.
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I know, I know I’m late Mirs. That day I was actually doing work that’s why I couldn’t join the convo.
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Well considering she tweeted ‘Jews ARE Cool’ and not ‘Jews IS cool’ no, I did not consider that he would be talking about himself, and I will not consider that he was talking about himself. It is what it is.
Can we get a
can we get a
plz
kwall Says:
i’m so sorry…. but i DO NOT THINK for ONE SECOND she got a new man. hail up until last week it seems like she was too mufukkin worried about what templeton the rat looking azz swiss was doing with a.keys. and she HAS been for many many months now.
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**I can’t breeve**
Please tell me you did not call him Templeton………….
attorneymom Says:
Did anyone see Chris Tucker break his Trumpet Award? LOL And did anyone see Deitrick Haddon performing Change is Gonna Come? He tore it up
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I think it came on around March the first time I saw it on BET. Chris is a fool- had me rolling and yes ma’am Soror Deitrick tore that song up.
Daisy Says:
I hope Swizz has some hot tracks for DMX new cd and can he please for the love of all things holy bring back the E V E pitbull in a skirt sound
I wonder if he tried to get at Akeys when she was on the hook to Eves song and in the video back in the day
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I miss the Ruff Ryders’ as a whole.
I wondered if Gonzo and AKeys were gettin down back when she released her second album, with her song, “If I Was Your Woman.”
Things that make you go hmmmmmmmm……
@Civil I have 2 more gifts to buy keep putting it off as if Christmas will move to another day for
CivilEngineer Says:
How many people still have Christmas shopping left to do?
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I didn’t even start.
mirsmommy Says:
Quitta Says:
Clawd Have Mercy! This is sooo last week, but was anyone a Dexter fan (show that came on Sho-Time). Terrible how it ended right? I so can’t wait for the next season.
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You late, us Dexter fans had this convo the Monday after it aired.
But yes, that was crazy. I was not expecting that to happen.
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I know, I know I’m late Mirs. That day I was actually doing work that’s why I couldn’t join the convo.
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At least you were working. That’s what I shoulda been doin that day and today, too.
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Tell me about it. I ain’t doing shiat today. It’s gonna be slow this week any damn way. So i don’t feel bad.
@Civil…
I have one more gift to purchase. It’s for my 16 year old cousin. She is graduating from high school in June and thus far has made all A’ throughout high school so I want to get her something nice.
CivilEngineer Says:
How many people still have Christmas shopping left to do?
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me and hubby going to get the last few gifts TODAY. i refuse to go back in that mall after this.
@ Civil
Yes, I’m done. I only had a 7 year old and a 34 year old to buy for this year. What about you?
@ mirsmommy
Wait…. you didn’t even start. Damn. Do you have alot to do? LOL
sandra did TI get outta jail today?
“You can tell he’s undernourished, wearing a size 3T? My grandnephew is 2-years-old and wears a 4T.”
Wow talk about going in! I do think spending such money on a child is a bit much even if u r rich but I guess that’s what most of them do. I have to admit SR that baby does look quite bored, I mean he’s not smiling in any pic! MaShonda why didn’t u load a pic of him cheesing? SMH
Ms G, I thought that (trumpet awards) was a re-run, cause Keysha Cole didn’t look pregnant.
LadyJustice *\o/* Says:
CivilEngineer Says:
How many people still have Christmas shopping left to do?
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me and hubby going to get the last few gifts TODAY. i refuse to go back in that mall after this.
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Dammit and I gotta go to the mall. I’m going tomorrow so hopefully it won’t be so bad.
ReadTheBlog Says:
Ms G, I thought that (trumpet awards) was a re-run, cause Keysha Cole didn’t look pregnant
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Right. I did some volunteer work for them one year ( a strange experience) and I thought they always film the show in Feb for Black History month.
check this out yall
a WHAT IF:
what if….Alicia Keys actually brought that outfit for the kid and Swizz dropped it on him like he did, and Mashonda decided to do an b-day outfit change at the last minute and let him wear it…..!! And she cheesing like chuckie all in the pictures and shyt…..Alicia probably ballin tears off these twit pics..
:/ …just a thought.
Sandra you posted all that stuff to be more messy.
That little boy looks on target for his age and is adorable. The parents look happy to be there to celebrate his big day regardless of their adult issues.
Furthermore, I am glad Mashonda took down her Twitter page. I know she was hurting/angry and needed an outlet for expression and revenge, but what she really needed was spiritual guidance.
She HAS to move forward and sometimes that has to be done in silence.
@ RTB
I bet it smells like a cat in heat.
rtb, i still love m by mariah. it’s really nice!
I just noticed that Sandra has this post tagged as ‘down low’ amongst other things.
Krysi, I thought the same thing…
@ Civil, I was done a long time ago because my fam and friends are getting giftcards.
To answer your question, hail nawl.
ReadTheBlog Says:
Anyone got a favorite perfume or cologne right now? How manu plan on getting Beyonce’s perfume ‘Heat’
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*hand raised, please don’t laugh*
I LOVE “Wrappings” by Clinique. It was a regular perfume for them, but now its only sold at Christmas and sells out every year. I buy 4 giftsets at a time.
I haven’t done any shopping. I’m doin mine tomorrow
hsa anyone smelled halle’s perfume
I would not wear a perfume from Beyonce if created in a lab set up in my living room.
Oh @ Lady Justice, I asked the same question yesterday because I heard he was getting out today.
ReadTheBlog Says:
Anyone got a favorite perfume or cologne right now? How manu plan on getting Beyonce’s perfume ‘Heat’ ?
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I’m not into current celeb perfumes. I love Red Door, Liz Clairbonre and Celine Dion. If Whit had a perfume what would they call it? 5,4,3,2,1. I have not started my Christmas Shopping yet.
Never smelled Halle – but they sell it at CVS and I have some ECB’s if you need em!
Brown, I should whoop you. Everything is going to be sold out tomorrow, esp with this weather that is coming in. You’d better be trying to shop tonight.
That’s why you cant care what anyone thinks of you really smdh oh well I’m off here today….
I’m so
I haven’t bought but one gift and I just got that yesterday. I really haven’t been in the mood to fight traffic and the mall crowds. All those people…I just see fumes coming from my head 
I’m doing like @Daisy…hoping Christmas will move to the 26th, 27th or January 
I know it’s wrong…
i think solo is a good mom too. and children’s cd is the shat. hmmm never thought he was saying ‘jews are cool’. i always that he was saying he was cool. after all, his name is juelz (juelz is cool).
Mashonda if you reading these keep moving forward with your life bishes always talk shyt and haven’t truck a mile in your shoes. If you found somebody and want to tell the world about so what DO YOU. you cant please everybody and don’t try to. No matter what moves you make they will disrespect and clown you because that’s the kind of world we live in. Keep pushing forward to bigger and better things because truly nobody knows your hurt or walked in your shoes to say anything disrespectful to you. Keep pushing and remember “stick and stones my break my bones but your words will never hurt me.” Good for you, keep moving God has something better waiting in the wings……
Get em Sandra! Enough said!
hsa anyone smelled halle’s perfume
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its TERRIBLE….please do NOT attempt to make this someone’s xmas gift…
Try that “Nina” by Nina Ricci
OMG….its heaven sent, and men love the smell
either that or “versace crystal” ….you can never go wrong with that
RTB the few items I need are at Wally Word and gotta get 2 things at Dillard’s for my hubby and I’m good!
Mashonda if you reading these keep moving forward with your life bishes always talk shyt and haven’t truck a mile in your shoes. If you found somebody and want to tell the world about so what DO YOU. you cant please everybody and don’t try to. No matter what moves you make they will disrespect and clown you because that’s the kind of world we live in. Keep pushing forward to bigger and better things because truly nobody knows your hurt or walked in your shoes to say anything disrespectful to you. Keep pushing and remember “stick and stones my break my bones but your words will never hurt me.” Good for you, keep moving God has something better waiting in the wings……
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but actually a lot of us have been through it, maybe not on a millionaires level, but this is why we are encouraging her to take it down a notch……..money or no money you still look like a lame
And you’re right we are living in that kind of world….and I agree it is sad that Mashonda took the opportunity to make her business public on Twitter for people to form opinions and clown her about
“You can tell he’s undernourished, wearing a size 3T? My grandnephew is 2-years-old and wears a 4T”.
@Sandra
LOL. Nawl, Sandra…I disagree with this statement. My daughter will be 3 on V-day, and she is rocking 24M/2T. And I know dayummm well she ain’t malnourished. I feed her some of the fattening good stuff just to get her weight up. Some kids are just tiny and have high metabolisms. She is healthy and growing and developing normally. Plus..look at Swizz. He is tiny himself. My daughter’s sperm donor is a T.I. look-a-like down to the weight. Skinny basterd!!
@ Daisy – yeah, he’s not smiling in ONE pic and that is so disturbing… LOL
i tot swizz was an ugly guy…but he looks good i see why a sista is heart broken over him!!!..lol
@Krysi J Says:
I disagree I hate it when people tell me I know how you feel, NO you don’t, U don’t what I’ve been through or the pain I suffered so you can not relate to me or tell me to get over it. I had to check my friend about that, I can’t stand when people do that try to tell me they know, You don’t know my life, your husband/bf might have done you wrong but you can never understand what I’ve been through so don’t try to, just let me be….That’s the true just because you had a break up or whatever doesn’t mean you can understand somebody else’s pain because you don’t know how deep they where burned. That’s like me telling a woman who caught AIDS for her ex I understand her pain. No I don’t that didn’t happen to me so I can not relate to her pain, all I can do is try to understand her hurt and just be there, Me telling her to get over it, I’ve been hurt before will not make her feel better because it’s a different type of pain.
So it’s always easy to be on the outside looking in and say get over it but you don’t truly know what pain that woman had or has because we don’t know what she’s been through. People can assume all they want but the truth is we don’t know. And I had to get my friend in check about mouthing off to me about getting over something and moving on. It is not her place to speak that to me because doesn’t know what I have to deal with everyday so she needed to stay in her place. So we all can sit back and tell a person what they need to so but who are we to tell them that when you don’t even know the half of it.
And beside everybody puts there business on twitter that’s what it’s for but I rather put my own business out there than somebody else real talk…
sorry for the typo’s
Quitta Says:
@ mirsmommy
Wait…. you didn’t even start. Damn. Do you have alot to do? LOL
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@ReadTheBlog Says:
I love EUPHORIA…it’s the bestest IMO!
I also love Ocean Dreams, and pretty much all the Escada’s and JLO’s.
Swizz’s body language screams, “I’m only here for my son” in the first pic.
Ugh, he won’t fit those shoes in a month. So ignorant. Mashonda should have saved that money for a therapy session for her and her child.
Black folks kill me speaking like they know Mashonda, Swizz, or AK.. Mashonda move around. It’s over. Would people rather he stay with Mashonda and treat her like shit? I know folks in Marriages that are miserable. I’m not trying to make a man stay with me who’s not happy. So many bitter black women are talking crazy about AK because their men dogged them. Grow Up! I’ve been with my husband since I was 18 and we have 2 daughters together. If he’s not happy I’m not going to make him stay…..Get some self-esteem and move the f@ck on……..
And by the way Sandra. My 5 year old wears a 5 (or 6 depending on the length). Fat is not healthy! Maybe the baby was tired! Damn. I have pictures of my 5 year old at her 3rd b-day party and she looked pissed on most of the pictures because she was sleepy….I guess we have to find something to talk about!
@ INTENSE
omg @ 24 Kwall. u bout knocked me off my chair..seriously though no one knows how she feel. maybe it’s theraputic for her to vent on twitter. she could have showed up at the album release party and everywhere else AKeys and Swiss go. people go through divorces all the time but her divorce is being played out in the media
again people kill me trying to tell somebody what they need to do shameful
Sandra why you talkin bad about the baby. Heen do nothin wrong. It’s not his fault he caught up in the middle of this mess. and why swizz gotta be a deadbeat. deadbeats are people who dont take care of/spend time with their kids. just cause mom & dad couldnt make things work dont make him a bad father. thats just not fair to say.
I wonder if it would have been different if it wasn’t Alicia Keys
The boy is wearing the right size clothes. People with no kids shouldn’t pass judgement. The pics are cute and no matter who was the daddy’s girlfriend, I would post the pics for everyone to c. Swiss is not a deadbeat dad cause lord know Mashonda would have tweeted it!
I mean seriously…..do people really think it’s okay to stay in a bad relationship? I think that’s unhealthy for kids also. My aunt was with her husband for 38 years talking about she stayed for the kids and when my cousins got older they told her they wanted her to leave years ago…2 of them are in counseling right now because of seeing all the bickering between parents that were not happy!
But her relationship is NOT “playing out in the media.” SHE is the one that has repeatedly made this mess public. Even the messiest tabloids don’t give a good gosh damn about a Mashonda or even a Swizz beats. If Mashonda insists on putting her business out there, she should at least do it in a profitable way via a breakup album. Folks love sad songs and they still won’t know who the hell she is but at least she’ll get a few ITunes sales with which she can buy herself a backbone.
But her relationship is NOT “playing out in the media.” SHE is the one that has repeatedly made this mess public. Even the messiest tabloids don’t give a good gosh damn about a Mashonda or even a Swizz beats. If Mashonda insists on putting her business out there, she should at least do it in a profitable way via a breakup album. Folks love sad songs and they still won’t know who the hell she is but at least she’ll get a few ITunes sales with which she can buy herself a backbone.
a break-up album will change your career. when mary j. dropped “my life” the whole world stopped to listen. usher and his “confessions” too. man you best tell THAT. folks esp. BLACK folks love that ish.
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you better
as far as my opinion on she needs to back up off of twitter i am entitled to mine as you are yours. i think most of us agree tho she is starting to look more and more bitter, spiteful and just all out bat shyt crazy with every tweet she does on the subject. she putting her own biz out in the skreet cause he (until recently) akeys, nor the mainstream media have had shat to say on the subject.
do you think US weekly, people, <<<<<< (insert major media outlet here) knows who a fukkin’ swizz beats or mashonda is? or cares? nope just us black folk.
I didn’t know she deleted her Twitter. Good move on her part. People who have poor impulse control should not be on Twitter.
& doesn’t one have the option to make their page private? Doesn’t one have the option to pick & choose who they follow, who follows them?
And beside everybody puts there business on twitter that’s what it’s for but I rather put my own business out there than somebody else real talk…
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Alicia got a twitter, she ain chose to speak on none of dis shyt, because she knows better
However, I am not saying that Mashonda should just GET OVER IT….what the hell I look like IZ RIGHT, thats why i stated that people are mostly encouraging this gurl to take it down a notch, and thankfully she has taken this advice by taking down her page. None of those rants have made her life any easier….infact leaving yourself to PUBLIC OPINION is harder than anything you endure in silence. I do understand where she is coming from I don’t have to feel the same pain as her to know that I have been there and back…but what she is doing honey quite plain and simple…is OVERDOING it…its not a good look for anyone, but ESPECIALLY not for her. I hope you realize now that you are over your situation that you had a good friend, you may have felt like she was outta line, but she was only looking out for you. She couldn’t stand to see you looking stupid, and she called you out for that reason….so you wouldn’t look like Mashonda is looking right now.
just saw the video on nb site with alica and swizz and they look sooooo happy
I really think that those who are telling Mashonda to move on is easier said than done when it happens to you. YOU may say you’ll find another man, YOU may say you’ll handle the children and your business while he is legally separated and dating, these are things some of YOU MAY SAY!! But let these things come into play and you in HER shoes… I said the same thing about a BF I was with for 7 years. Grew up with him and everything. Told myself that if he didn’t want me I would definitely not hang around and let a guy disrespect me. WRONG until it happened to me. It took me soo long to get over him and those lonely nights, after the partying and hanging with friends and I had to go back to my bed and he wasn’t home with me any more. THAT SHYT HURTS!!! Mashonda has a right to feel mad, confused, and hurt. No she should not want Swizz back, but I really feel that they both are at a confusing stage right now and even Swizz shouldn’t be dating till he knows exactly what he wants. He with Alicia and SOOO that doesn’t mean he wanna spend forever with her. Mashonda will obviously want him back if he came, she still loves him. We cant sit here and tell someone to get over something when we either don’t have experience or don’t know what happened in THEIR marriage for her to feel this way.
To whom it may concern:
I never, EVER,EVER,EVER,EVER,EVER…said Mashonda should get over it
Yours Truly,
Krysi J.
how did folks air their grievances just 10 short years ago? before twitter, myspace, FB, and all that shat ever exsisted? hell just 14-15 years ago in 1995 when the internet was new?
j/a.
kwall Says:
how did folks air their grievances just 10 short years ago? before twitter, myspace, FB, and all that shat ever exsisted? hell just 14-15 years ago in 1995 when the internet was new?
j/a.
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We picked up a phone or visited someone, sent a letter in the mail.
People have been airing their business for YEARS. It just so happens that the more technology the more people want to express themselves. Granted the consequences will come, but at the same time those grieving, ranting, expressing themselves will also have the opinions and encouragement of those who understand where they are in their life cause they have been through it. Back then you would call a friend or someone who doesn’t know how to console you in your situation. Now, in my opinion, if you express yourself online, if you allow, you have a more broader audience who might have gone through what you gone or currently going through to give words of encouragement. Its a catch 22.
We picked up a phone or visited someone, sent a letter in the mail.
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and that was private between two folks right? you see what i am getting at anna. you said it before.
and i AM a child of technology. my dad is a former IBM’er, i never typed on a typewriter, etc. i am as computer saavy as they come. but now i see why folks are getting fired, sued, in trouble for crimes for allowing a peek into family/private biz, what you do on vacation, how you feel about xyz etc. with technology. i see it. not just here with this mashonda hubabaloo…but everywhere.
now how many folks think swizz would be wrong if he stopped her legally from posting pics of that baby on the internet?
When your hurting you look stupid??? and My friends minds her business and I mind mine and that’s they way we leave it. Good friends don’t tell you what you need to do because like I said she doesn’t know my pain so it’s best she keep her opinion to herself. And that’s the way I roll but that’s just me….
You still cant tell anybody who is obivously still in-love to get over it! smdh at some of these chicks , eventually with time she will get over it, Im so glad mashonda deleted her page, heck most of yall was just snooping around any damn way…
but that’s just me…
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u right.
Anybody who doesn’t back down from my backlash during my time of foolishness and during my times of pain, and steps in and makes it known that hey its time to pick up the pieces and move on the best way you can, sure you won’t move on until YOU yourself are ready but at least you know there is someone loyal that has your back—HONESTLY haves your back instead of letting you look like a fool carrying on behind this man that clearly doesn’t want you, cuz you mad, trying to get even, be spiteful, put him on blast, or hurt his feelings….TELLING YOU whats truthful and helping you get thru it instead of laughing at your stupidity behind your back. Its one thing to be in pain, its a nother to be a damn fool OK. Pain doesn’t take you to this place….borderline insanity does…..you start to let shyt like that take control of you, CANT YOU SEE THIS GURL is letting this shyt eat her ALIVE..its TORTURE!! She is giving Swizz and Alicia entirely TOO much power over her LIFE, what the hell good can that be to her? A friend that is willing to bear all that pain with you and wipe your tears and come up with any and everything to help you get over it except encourage you to be a damn FOOL is a TRUE FRIEND INDEED. what kind of friend minds their business, even Jackie didn’t mind her business when Ike was whooping Tina’s azz, do you consider her a bad friend too? SMH…come on Nichelle….you seem like a strong beautiful black women, I don’t wanna believe you would let a man break you like that….you may not GET OVER IT, but you for damn sure ain go let the niccah leave, and take your mind with him?
I think the majority of people have walked in Moshonda’s shoes. If you empatize with someone you have walked in their shoes. I know I have. & I know that once you move on you look back and laugh. Wondering how you ever played yourself like that in the first place. That feeling is a good feeling. Why does people encouraging her to move on have to be made into a negative thing. Its not as if he cheated and is begging her to forgive and people are saying. No girl move on. HE DOESN’T WANT HER BACK! & her doing all this extra stuff trying to put AK on blast is making her look stupid now. Not the fact that she is hurting but the fact that he has made it obvious to a duck that its over & she won’t accept that.
@nichelle
If a friend can’t tell you the truth then what are they there for? I don’t think its done out of malice but love. No one wants to see their friend in pain. JMO
your opinion but thanks anyway have a good day
your opinion but thanks anyway have a good day
@ISC
Telling the truth who’s truth I can care less about Mashonda I was stating my opinion just like everybody else and like I said people deal with things there own way. But I can pesonally care less about her and again I don’t need nobody telling me nothing period….
& her doing all this extra stuff trying to put AK on blast is making her look stupid now. Not the fact that she is hurting but the fact that he has made it obvious to a duck that its over & she won’t accept that.
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You have a good day as well sweetie
@ Sandra Rose…..
Why are you calling Swizz a Dead Beat dad? I haven’t heard anything about him not being there for his son. Is he a dead beat cause he doesn’t want to be with Moshonda anymore? Cause that doesn’t make him a dead beat. It just means he has moved on from her, & as long as that Handsome little boy is taking care of that is all that matters.
@ Sandra Rose…..
Why are you calling Swizz a Dead Beat dad? I haven’t heard anything about him not being there for his son. Is he a dead beat cause he doesn’t want to be with Moshonda anymore? Cause that doesn’t make him a dead beat. It just means he has moved on from her, & as long as that Handsome little boy is taking care of that is all that matters.
@MsG, LMAO @ at calling Detrick a Soror.
@Quitta, the Trumpet Awards are awards given to people who don’t send the Civil Rights Movement back a thousand years.
That child is freakin ADORABALE. Of course had Mashonda not put it out there when the child Googled them later he would only find info on Swizz’s career and maybe a little something something about his relationship with Alicia. As for the child feeling loved, I doubt he has to go to Google to figure that out. Anywho, it looks like the little angel would have been just as happy if the party was at the house. All that flashy stuff is for the parents.
ANMurray Says:
@ Sandra Rose…..
Why are you calling Swizz a Dead Beat dad? I haven’t heard anything about him not being there for his son. Is he a dead beat cause he doesn’t want to be with Moshonda anymore? Cause that doesn’t make him a dead beat. It just means he has moved on from her
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A real man doesn’t “move on” from his family. He doesn’t “move on” from his son and see him whenever it’s convenient and attend his birthdays for photo ops. A marriage is a contract between a man and a woman made before God.. If he’s not man enough to honor his contract then he’s a deadbeat dad.
Edited: to add that I’m sick of black women making excuses for these deadbeats. That’s why the black community has the highest rate of divorces and single mothers.
@211
It’s painful to say, but your right Sandy!
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Edited: to add that I’m sick of black women making excuses for these deadbeats. That’s why the black community has the highest rate of divorces and single mothers.
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So does that rule also apply to your beloved TI because if I’m not mistaken does have kids by more than one woman. He had to leave one family situation to start another…
I have one thing to say here, can Monica’s name be left out of threads that don’t invovle her and at least her kids is being raised in a 2 parent home with no drama.
@Sandra, you better preach! But I have to agree with Iscream, you don’t throw Clifford or Rocko on the deadbeat Black man bus.