In light of the recent publicized extramarital affairs of Superstar athletes such as Tiger Woods -- Jackie Christie, wife of NBA player Doug Christie can hold her head up high and say, "that will never be my husband!"

From Bloomberg.com:

They poked fun at Doug Christie. Oh, how they laughed. They whispered and snickered in the locker room, even his own, which is supposed to be a safe haven. They mocked. They mimicked.

They called him names. Heck, Bryant Gumbel once labeled the former National Basketball Association player “whipped” on national television.

Ignorant and mean. Much of the venom was directed at Christie’s wife, Jackie, who was deemed controlling. And that was the nice stuff. There were threats made by telephone and e- mail.

“Pure evil,” Jackie said over the telephone the other day from Bellevue, Washington, where the Christies are settling into their new loft-style home.

Christie was a professional athlete who dared to be different. He willingly brought his wife on road trips. He took his marriage vows seriously, especially the part about forsaking all others. Christie actually enjoyed having Jackie around, even if her presence meant no strip clubs or groupies at the hotel lobby bar. Even if teammates didn’t get it. Imagine that.

Christie loved his wife. And, what’s more, he wanted her to know it, even while he worked. So the husband made up a signal, which he’d flash during games. On the court. On the bench. Didn’t matter. Christie would raise his left fist, and extend his index finger and pinkie.

It was the husband’s way of reminding the wife that he was thinking about her. Only her. The single-game record was 72 gestures. Different, yes. But so what?

Get this: Some of the athletes who once snickered at the Christies are now seeking their advice. Neither of the Christies would name names, except to say that Woods isn’t among the athletes who asked for help.

“I wish he would’ve reached out,” Jackie says. “I think we’ve stopped a lot of affairs.” Read More...

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  • http://hok.com ATL_Reese

    They just need GOD's advice... No HUMAN can give better advice...

  • Mahogany03

    :claps: for this couple. More male athletes should take note.

    And who gives a damn about what Bryant Gumbel has to say?! Really?! Bryant Gumbel?!

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    @atl-reese

    if they break their vows in front of god then of course they not gonna seek god's advice im just sayin

  • CivilEngineer

    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early :D sorry I couldn't resist!

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I've been waitin for a book to come out about them. I watched the game where he kept showin her that signal

  • pyt305

    Congrats to them if this is all true :)

  • http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

    I can understand why they would say this.

    Its so 'uncool' to be a married, faithful man than if a man is those things they get ridiculed.

    I recently asked a friend what is wrong with saying to the world "I love so and so!"

    I guess so ur options will still be there. And you won't look a a pu$$ie whipped fool

    Sad

  • Krysi J

    I never saw an episode of this show.

  • kwall

    :nono: sandra. stalking your man into submission is NOT the answer. the AVERAGE woman (working, tending to kids, holding it DOWN) does NOT have time for that ish ANYWAY. i got my own dayum job...wtf i look like tagging along to HIS?? :wtf:

    jackie christie i always thought (and still do) has a few marbles loose. making him remarry you in a lavish ceremony...EVERY YEAR? letting him choke b/c there is no female doctor available? no sorry that is NOT normal....

  • mirsmommy

    CivilEngineer Says:

    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    __________________________________________________

    :blink: You know what, get to the Kona, as the rest of em say..... You, Civil, please do not leave the Kona, until you are asked to rejoin the crowd... :lol:

  • yanna402

    I heard Jackie was crazy.

  • thaspinaltruth

    they should host a Jump-Off Seminar. Teach you how to keep your man from (Jumpinf-Off). Good for them though.

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    This is legalized stalking to me :wtf:

  • CivilEngineer

    mirsmommy Says:

    CivilEngineer Says:

    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    __________________________________________________

    You know what, get to the Kona, as the rest of em say….. You, Civil, please do not leave the Kona, until you are asked to rejoin the crowd…
    -------------------------------------------------------
    But I apologized...doesn't that make it ok?

  • Krysi J

    But I apologized…doesn’t that make it ok?
    ---------------------------------------------

    HELL NAW... :rofl:

  • KrayZKat

    Doug and Jackie are a beautiful couple, and I've always had mad respect for them, especially Jackie. Ya'll show em how it's done. Now they're coming to you! You're enemies will be made your footstool.

  • Daisy

    @Kwall I agree its one thing if thats what HE wanted to do on his own but she always just rubbed me the wrong way. I dont want to follow behind my man to and fro 24/7 anyway not my cup of tea more power to those who do.

    As always if they like it then I love it

    NEXT

  • thaspinaltruth

    Did anyone notice the tattos on their arms?? They must be in some kind of love cult.

  • mirsmommy

    Krysi J Says:

    But I apologized…doesn’t that make it ok?
    ———————————————

    HELL NAW…
    ________________________

    :rofl: Damn Krysi J, you beat me to it. :lol:

  • CivilEngineer

    MAN when yall start being all sensitive :( (head down in the corner waiting for the signal to rejoin the population)

  • thaspinaltruth

    I mean on their hands.

  • scandalous1

    I'm sure the rest of the celebrity wives thought the same thing about their men. Then one day, here comes Becky, Sue and Carol out the woodworks describing his stroke blow by blow...

  • mirsmommy

    yanna402 Says:

    I heard Jackie was crazy.
    ________________________________

    Really??? She does look like she's quick to cut a b*tch. :yes:

  • CivilEngineer

    Oh and never say never (runs back to my KONA)

  • http://myspace.com/cocoasister kkizzle

    This article sounds all romantic and what not... But, if memory serves me correctly, she would not ALLOW him to go on the road by himself. This article makes it sound like it was his idea... lol.

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Maybe it's me but it's just NOT HEALTHY to want to be around your spouse 24/7/365. Hell, I want you to have a life outside of me. Can't stand to be smothered, cuttin my air supply off and what not. That is NOT for me. Reminds me of my ex. Used to call his friends and beg them to take him some where. Geez....

  • kwall

    i was done with her when she ran onto the court and i think it was rick fox she beat down b/c he had fouled her husband and there was an on court-fight. again... :wtf: and like i said the remarriages...EVERY YEAR...who DOES THAT? i am not talking a fam bbq in the backyard where we renew the vows. no ma'am. miss thing gets a new wedding dress, a cake, catering, invites, etc. EVERY YEAR.

    they best be saving that nba money they done spent on 15 WEDDINGS. cause doug christie was not THAT great of a ball player. i mean he was okay but it is not like he is a kareem, or dr. j...when tambout nba "legends" his name is NEVER gonna come up.....

  • pv2forchrist

    Wow! There are a lot of negative comments. I am very glad to see a happily african american married couple with their unique way of not giving up...being in the pro nba world is not your average career..its great they have an innovative way to go left while majority tends to go right...God bless them

  • missmiami

    look @ her eyes she is crazy but hey can't knock her. whatever, works for them because they are still married and going strong. DID ANYONE NOTICE THAT TATTOO? I guess he has had some red gravy

  • CivilEngineer

    Is she related to Ashanti? :-?

  • kwall

    I heard Jackie was crazy.
    ________________________________

    Really??? She does look like she’s quick to cut a b*tch
    ----------------------------------------
    rumor has it that she got some woman FIRED from her job in the sac kings front office for MAKING EYE contact with her husband.

  • MOUTH

    Whatever floats their boat, they like it, I love it. Great

  • VIBABY

    Good for them I guess :shrugs: . Following your husband all over the place screams bat shyt crazy to me, but if he wants her around ALL the time I dont see a problem with it.

  • CivilEngineer

    missmiami Says:
    "I guess he has had some red gravy"
    ----------------------------------------------------
    :yes: I told you! Guess that means I'm FREE from KONA duties now! :D

  • mirsmommy

    kwall Says:

    I heard Jackie was crazy.
    ________________________________

    Really??? She does look like she’s quick to cut a b*tch
    —————————————-
    rumor has it that she got some woman FIRED from her job in the sac kings front office for MAKING EYE contact with her husband.
    _____________________________________

    :blink: Damn.... :blink:

  • ReadTheBlog

    lmao is she gripping and squeezing his balls in that pic :rofl:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    It's one thing to desire to be with your mate while they travel, work , etc. But it's another thing to force your presence on his co-workers, peers, etc. That is manipulation and a relationship will never last long if one party is forced to do something just to please their partner. What happened to having faith in your man to do the right thing whether he's with your or not? :shrug:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    oh well dayum he's afraid to cheat! Hear I was thinkin he actually wanted her around that much!

    Seal and Heidi renew their vows every yr

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    CE
    be a rebel like me, you see I was sposed to be in the kona and i still do what I want cause I'm just gangsta like that!

  • missmiami

    I don't there is nothing wrong with renewing your vows annually. Life is hard enough and marriage is extremely difficult in the times we live in. Hey you are not promised to make it to your 10th or etc so why not do it while you can.

  • MOUTH

    Is it me, or do she favor Lisa Raye?

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    oh well dayum he’s afraid to cheat!
    ______________________________________________

    He prolly sleeps with one eye open.... :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    CE
    be a rebel like me, you see I was sposed to be in the kona and i still do what I want cause I’m just gangsta like that!
    ___________________________________________________

    :lol:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Now, Seal and Heidi...that's love! In the interviews I've seen with the two of them together or just how they speak about one another, you can tell they are in love. These two?. Not so much. I think Doug is a tortured soul. Probably afraid to sleep, leave the toilet seat up, etc. Poor guy! But hey, to each its own

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    That is doing too much.

    are those tatts real? :blink:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    she's lookin like "see beeyotches, I got his azz in check now phuck wit him if you want to"

  • Thando

    It's very easy for me to say:

    'People waste money on designer clothes. What's wrong with Top Shop, House of Fraser, H&M....?'

    That is, until I am let loose in Harrods with no credit limit on an Amex card and no security watching my azz!!!

    What I'm saying is, it's very easy to be faithful when your peeny is on lockdown and surveillance 24/7. I would be very proud of my hubby if even after giving him space and his God given freedom of choice, he still remains faithful.

    That's like some woman who uses voodoo love portions claiming her hubby loves her. No bish, he is under remote control. Real love does not need to be drilled down one's throat like some sort of deep throat contest

    It's women like this that force men to go DL.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    I am sorrY i would travel on the road with my husband to I mean if he's gone away 6 weeks he needs to have sex, 6 weeks by himself I don't think so, I would be there 75% of the time but that's just me. And that's not stalking that being real a man and woman needs sex if he's gone 6 weeks without you he will be doing it without you REAL

  • thaspinaltruth

    She put them roots on him.

  • thaspinaltruth

    @LJ

    I hope those tatts are not real, it was clearly a waste of ink.

  • CivilEngineer

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    CE
    be a rebel like me, you see I was sposed to be in the kona and i still do what I want cause I’m just gangsta like that!
    --------------------------------------------------------
    I thought that's what I was gonna have to do but I've been emancipated :lol:

  • Daisy

    Don't men go 6wks w/o sex after their wife has a baby if they are married that is? :shrug:

    What NBA player is on the road 6wks straight though?

    Again if they like it I love it but I aint the one

  • M_promp2

    @ATL_Reese they need any advice they can get.

  • MZN

    I've watched their show, but stop watching because it was just whack. She was very insecure and he was sooo weak... I just couldn't watch anymore...smh

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    This woman is my hero. She has her man on lock. Some husbands (like Mr. Attorneymom) know their azzes better not cheat.

  • ReadTheBlog

    #26 - that's what I thought too. Turns out a majority of men want their wives around a lot!

  • MZN

    He'll flip out and cheat on her one day... watch. She is just so damn controlling!

  • therapist1911

    Hmmmmmmmm I must have been living under a rock because I know nothing about this couple. When reading the article, I'm like this sounds a little too good to be true but I'm glad it's occuring. Then I read the comments and yall know a lot of ish about this couple. So I'm left with this thought...

    Damn if you do and damn if you don't...

    Same people that talk about other couples not showing affection and being together for publicity are the some of the same ones that are criticizing this couple. You do what you have to do to make it work........right? Isn't tht what yall said to Swizz and Mashonda. *shurgs* I guess you can't please them all

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    DOUG WHISPERIN ON THE PHONE WITH HIS BOYS: MAN IF I DON'T TAKE HER I'M AFRAID OF WHAT SHE'LL DO! THAT'S WHY I COOK ALL THE FOOD. I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GONNA SET HER OFF AND IF I TELL HER SHE CAN'T GO THEN SHE MAY TRY AND KILL ME. I ONLY SLEEP WHEN SHE'S AWAY (SHE WALKS IN) "OH HEY BABY" YEAH SO ANYWAY, YEAH MAN ME AND MY BABY WILL BE THERE, YOU KNOW HOW WE DO

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Khole and Lamar has tats, that's one thing wrong with folks they worry to much about how another couple makes there relationship work. Maybe this way doesn't work for you but it works for them so why knock it. All relationship are ran differ for me, if I was in one it would be mandatory sex three times a week and twice on sat there would be no way for us to be a part like that, But to each it's own

  • Daisy

    Khlomars tatts are cute to me :yea:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I GUESS I MISSED THE SHOW

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Daisy Says:

    no I didn;t wait no six weeks after and I know a lot of women who didn't and beside thats what head is for

  • CivilEngineer

    I don't care what yall say, I'm sticking to my red gravy theory. No wonder he never really excelled in the NBA, she was sitting on the front row sticking pins in dolls and sh*t

  • therapist1911

    Also I feel that couples who put out books on love and relationship and offering advice always set themselves up for failure. Now the spotlight is on you guys to keep up this fairytale image. Then, something happens and people will throw it back in your face and pray for your demise

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Thats why it's always good to keep your business to yourself

  • Anna

    yvonne79 Says:

    It’s one thing to desire to be with your mate while they travel, work , etc. But it’s another thing to force your presence on his co-workers, peers, etc. That is manipulation and a relationship will never last long if one party is forced to do something just to please their partner. What happened to having faith in your man to do the right thing whether he’s with your or not?
    ~~~~~~~~
    Right, who wants a 5th wheel. Men love to talk smack while on a bus or in a locker room.

  • pyt305

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:

    .... mandatory sex three times a week and twice
    on sat there would be no way for us to be a part like that
    ---------------------------------------------------------

    Damn girl lol thats alot of sex..whats happens if ur on ur flow during that week?? or like daisy said if u just given birth???

    And sex gets played out real quick so I hope thats not the only reason why he wouldnt part...

  • therapist1911

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN

    ___________________________________________________________

    LOL hey that's worth a try but still not fool-proof

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ THERAPIST

    I should have said in some cases

  • Anna

    therapist1911 Says:

    Also I feel that couples who put out books on love and relationship and offering advice always set themselves up for failure. Now the spotlight is on you guys to keep up this fairytale image. Then, something happens and people will throw it back in your face and pray for your demise
    ~~~~~~~~
    This is why many celebs don't do movies with their spouse, it's almost a precurser for disaster.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN
    --

    :rofl:

  • thaspinaltruth

    It's getting X-rated on SR.

    :offtopic:

    The lady that played Rose on 227 died. It has been a lot of Celebs dying in 2009.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Twice on sat???? That's all???????

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    pyt305 Says:
    I say to each it's own it's perfect for me, and like I said I never waited so that's that we all different people, with differ wants to much for you just right for me.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    pyt305 Says:
    I say to each it's own it's perfect for me, and like I said I never waited so that's that we all different people, with differ wants to much for you just right for me.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @LJ

    without being too graphic, you will know if you have successfully sucked his soul out because he will pass smooth out

  • kwall

    A spokeswoman for the Sacramento Kings who was let go last autumn has sued the Kings organization, player Doug Christie and his wife, Jackie, alleging harassment and discrimination that she contends resulted from Christie's practice of avoiding contact with all women but his wife.

    Stephanie Shepard, who was assistant manager and later manager of media relations for the Kings over four years, accuses the team of reducing her responsibilities and eventually terminating her employment after Jackie Christie complained about her because she gave Doug Christie a phone message.

    Trouble began, Shepard alleges, after she delivered a phone message to Doug Christie as one of her duties. "As a result, Jackie Christie aggressively approached Ms. Shepard the next day and instructed her never to speak to Mr. Christie, regardless of the professional circumstance," the suit says. The conduct escalated, the suit alleges, to "outright threats and physical intimidation. Jackie Christie physically 'bumped' Ms. Shepard on several occasions."

    "With few exceptions, Doug Christie does not look at other women, avoiding dialogue or even eye contact," Wise wrote. "'Every conversation I've ever had with a woman since we've been married besides my wife she knows about,' Doug said."

  • ReadTheBlog

    ROse on 227? The little old lady that should have been dead? The one that was in Don't Be A Menace to Society while Drinking Your Juice in the Hood?

  • Anna

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:

    Thats why it’s always good to keep your business to yourself
    ~~~~~~~~~
    My sister got married this summer. She is calling me about her husband and he is calling his brother about her, I told her you and your husband are the only ones in a marriage and need to be talking to each other. If you don't have communication to me you don't have a marriage. If I have a problem with my hubby I address it to my hubby.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Anna Says:

    I agree because once people start with there 2 cents everything is doomed

  • kwall

    no @rtb the lady who was marla gibbs character ace boon.

    she also used to be olivia on ses. skreet but i am showing my age with THAT one... :yes:

  • ReadTheBlog

    My, bad, just googled her. It was the one that used to be on Sesame Street.

  • chase

    I always thought she was a spazz for having her husband on lock down. After reading this article I am not sure what to think of her now...

  • thaspinaltruth

    @rtb

    It was the one with the Geri Curl

  • mirsmommy

    CivilEngineer Says:

    I don’t care what yall say, I’m sticking to my red gravy theory. No wonder he never really excelled in the NBA, she was sitting on the front row sticking pins in dolls and sh*t
    ________________________________________

    :rofl: I can't even comment on that one. :rofl:

  • pyt305

    “With few exceptions, Doug Christie does not look at other women, avoiding dialogue or even eye contact,” Wise wrote. “‘Every conversation I’ve ever had with a woman since we’ve been married besides my wife she knows about,’ Doug said.”
    ----------------------------------------------------------

    Who in their right state of mind would want to live their life like this?? These 2 lunatics derserve each other. They should just stay buried in their rooms and never speak to any1 but to each other...fukkin crazy man lol

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN
    __________________________________________

    :blink: Oh my.... :lol:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Yes, Spinal, she's the one... Well, there is our '3' The Ball Player, Brittany Murphy and Rose fron 227.

  • thaspinaltruth

    @RTB

    It comes in three's. There has been a lot of sets of three's this year.

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    Twice on sat???? That’s all???????
    _____________________________________

    :lol: Damn, that's what I was wondering..... We wake up extra extra early on Saturdays to get it poppin, and during the kids' nap time.. Don't want the kids walkin in..... :wink:

  • cheeks8683

    Looks like we need to sic Mrs. Christie on Miss Matlock...teach her a lesson. Way to honor your marriage vows thats whats up!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I concur with therapist1911. Prophetess Juanita Bynum and Bishop Thomas Weeks III only married for a minute before they became experts on marriage. Look what happened to their relationship.

  • yanna402

    @ mirsmommy....Yeah, Jackie dont play!

  • cheeks8683

    Then again reading the artical I'm about 100% positive he is scared of her, she polly got a gun duct taped to her knee at night in cause he try to creep out lol!

  • CivilEngineer

    mirsmommy Says:

    CivilEngineer Says:

    I don’t care what yall say, I’m sticking to my red gravy theory. No wonder he never really excelled in the NBA, she was sitting on the front row sticking pins in dolls and sh*t
    ________________________________________

    I can’t even comment on that one.
    -----------------------------------------------

    HAHA!! I win!! :D

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ mirsmommy

    I know I know. I got too explicit! It's a bad habit

  • FloridaChick813

    Christie would raise his left fist, and extend his index finger and pinkie
    ____________________________________________________

    OMGGGG!!!!!! That is the sweetest thing I ever read in my life!!!! :(

    Where o' Where is my Prince Charming??? :violin:

  • Quitta

    LOL @ comments.

    Yes of course he won't cheat when you're on his tail 24/7. That's no way to live. She looks like she'll str8 right hook his azz, chop him in the throat, put him in a choke hold until he passes out. :yes:

  • Daisy

    Well I guess that is what head is for since I will be married after giving birth but umm I thought we all knew sex/head whatever doesnt keep a man or did I miss the revised memo help a sista out please n thank you

  • FloridaChick813

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN
    ________________________________________________

    LMFAOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lolol: :rofl:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    put him in a choke hold until he passes out
    _______________________________________________________
    :rofl: :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    Quitta Says:

    LOL @ comments.

    Yes of course he won’t cheat when you’re on his tail 24/7. That’s no way to live. She looks like she’ll str8 right hook his azz, chop him in the throat, put him in a choke hold until he passes out.
    _________________________________________________________

    damn sure does... I bet she has a gun permit too :shotsfired:

  • FloridaChick813

    Ya'll are killing me with the comments...

    TOO DAMN FUNNY!!!!!!!!!

  • j.c.

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    @ DAISY

    IF YOU SUCK HIS SOUL THROUGH HIS PEENUS HE WILL DEFINITELY THINK TWICE ABOUT CHEATIN

    **********************************************************

    WHAT THE HAIL YALL GOT GOING UP IN HERE? :rofl:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ FloridaChick813

    I AM FULL OF KNOWLEDGE WELL WAIT THAT DIDN'T SOUND RIGHT!

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    @ FloridaChick813

    I AM FULL OF KNOWLEDGE WELL WAIT THAT DIDN’T SOUND RIGHT!
    ______________________________________________________

    :rofl:

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    I guess it all depends on how good you are at it....

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I'll just keep my mouth shut cause I'm just gettin deeper and deeper... wait that dont sound right either! Ok I'm done

  • Anna

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Quitta Says:

    LOL @ comments.

    Yes of course he won’t cheat when you’re on his tail 24/7. That’s no way to live. She looks like she’ll str8 right hook his azz, chop him in the throat, put him in a choke hold until he passes out.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    Who the hell wants to babysit their spouse into being faithful? If anything happens to this man and she finds herself single, she will never get another man as stupid as him. It sounds boring and juvinile to me. :lo:

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    I’ll just keep my mouth shut cause I’m just gettin deeper and deeper… wait that dont sound right either! Ok I’m done
    __________________________________________________________

    :blink: Okay, I'm goin to go at get a fan for you, and some COLD water. I hope you're not at work going through this "moment". If so, I give you a pass to go straight home, and meet ya man there. :yes:

  • mirsmommy

    *and*

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    CivilEngineer Says:
    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    _________________________________________________________

    What dey! What dis Voo-Doo mess ya tallkin Civil

    OKAY!! On Topic:

    Then what do you want LADIES!?

    Some one please describe for me the man that fits INBETWEEN

    A serial cheatn ass man whore, who lacks even enough respect to use a condom or to ensure his jump-off knows she is just a jump off

    and the.....

    A man is not concerned with peer-pressure that he doesn't mind demonstrating his love for his wife publicly and consistently.

    Please tell me what is In-Between THAT?

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I'm goin home but the eagle has landed so there won't be any hangin from the ceiling but I am workin on my xmas gift so he might just pass out again1 I need to get that on tape!

  • mirsmommy

    ggouch Says:

    CivilEngineer Says:
    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    _________________________________________________________

    What dey! What dis Voo-Doo mess ya tallkin Civil

    OKAY!! On Topic:

    Then what do you want LADIES!?

    Some one please describe for me the man that fits INBETWEEN

    A serial cheatn ass man whore, who lacks even enough respect to use a condom or to ensure his jump-off knows she is just a jump off

    and the…..

    A man is not concerned with peer-pressure that he doesn’t mind demonstrating his love for his wife publicly and consistently.

    Please tell me what is In-Between THAT?
    _______________________________________________________

    In the words of Sandra, GAY... :lol:

  • MZN

    Jackie is probably cheating on Doug!

  • j.c.

    brownsuga, please go home and get the AAA's cuz you need to release that PRESSURE! LOL!

  • Quitta

    @ Anna

    Yes. I agree.

    I mean where’s the excitement in being around him all the damn time? I mean she looks like a dyke, but when does she have her girl time? Doesn’t she have a life? I don’t understand it & quite frankly don’t want to. If the voodoo she put on him works than so be it.

    I don’t want my man to cheat on me either. I know this though, I won’t go through those measures to make sure he doesn’t.

  • pyt305

    MZN Says:

    Jackie is probably cheating on Doug!
    -----------------------------------------------------------

    and that wouldnt surprise me in the least bit

  • Daisy

    @GG the issue isnt with a man showing his love and appreciation for his wife for me. I dont want to be up under my man 24/7 and I dont want to bully or be able to bully anybody I am dating. I need a man with a backbone. I love Will and Jada and what they APPEAR to have the love they portray (I dont get into the swinging and gay rumors) I love that President Obama is not afraid to show his love for and to Michelle so thats not my issue. I aint trapsing behind my man running on the court or the stands clowning trying to fight UNLESS somebody is coming at me and mine.

    As I said before if they like it I love good for them :clap:

    I want a God fearing, FAITHFUL, family oriented man that has FRIENDS :lol:

  • Quitta

    Not only did he eat the red gravy, she dotted it on the middle of his forehead too.

  • Daisy

    @Nichelle are you serious or playing? Men can have the biggest freak in the world at home and still want new puzzy or least thats what my male friends have told me :shrug:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Um JC that's gross since the eagle has landed! I'm usually like this just about everyday apparently this post opened up the flood gates but I will try to behave better!

  • CivilEngineer

    ggouch Says:

    CivilEngineer Says:
    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    _________________________________________________________

    What dey! What dis Voo-Doo mess ya tallkin Civil
    ______________________________________________________

    I've heard of a man submitting to a woman on some things but damn, he's barely a man! There's nothing wrong with spending time with your wife and wanting to be around her often but jeeeezzzz following him on the road and all that....she clearly cooked him some pig tails in red gravy and added her own little monthly special to it. That's all I'm sayin :lol:

    P.S. I'm from Louisiana, my mom warned me about red gravy a LONG time ago!!

  • Quitta

    @ civil - they put it in the spaghetti. That's what I heard. LOL

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Alright yall im out.
    Peace, Love and Soooouuuulllll!

  • j.c.

    oops brownsuga. i didn't catch that! LOL! well sounds like you got this whole thang figured out anyway!

  • mirsmommy

    CivilEngineer Says:

    ggouch Says:

    CivilEngineer Says:
    Sounds like he ate some red gravy from her too early sorry I couldn’t resist!
    _________________________________________________________

    What dey! What dis Voo-Doo mess ya tallkin Civil
    ______________________________________________________

    I’ve heard of a man submitting to a woman on some things but damn, he’s barely a man! There’s nothing wrong with spending time with your wife and wanting to be around her often but jeeeezzzz following him on the road and all that….she clearly cooked him some pig tails in red gravy and added her own little monthly special to it. That’s all I’m sayin

    P.S. I’m from Louisiana, my mom warned me about red gravy a LONG time ago!!
    _____________________________________________________

    :rofl: @ little monthly special. You supposed to be in the Kona.

  • Yanaja

    I agree with Jackie and Doug on one thing. You do have to find new ways to show your love to your mate to keep it fresh. I don't however agree that you HAVE to be up under your mate 24/7. There should be some level of trust between two adults who chose to spend their lives together.

    I know all too well about the life of a basketball player's woman, and it isn't pretty. There is A LOT of temptation and it take A LOT of restraint on a man's part to resist it, but that is exactly what separates the men from the boys. Jackie treats Doug like a boy and she keeps him so close because she knows that as a boy, he will stray if she isn't there...the ugly truth.

  • Quitta

    I'm on my way. Made it through another day! Good night all. :cya:

  • LBCali

    Jackie is and will always be a WHACK JOB!

    If you have to follow your man around all day n night, just so he don't stray, what is really holding this marriage together? It sure ain't love, IMO he probably detest Jackie.

  • FloridaChick813

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
    @ FloridaChick813

    I AM FULL OF KNOWLEDGE WELL WAIT THAT DIDN’T SOUND RIGHT!
    __________________________________________

    :rofl: DEAD!!!!!!

    Me too ;)

  • FloridaChick813

    @ LBCali -- Sounds like she's holding the marriage together... By his nutts...

  • starr

    I've always thought Jackie was was a lil....i dont' wanan say say crazy...but she look like the type to spaz. I remember watching her from the sidelines, and it was clear she was controlling. This dude is never gonna slip up he's is scared a heck of this woman.

    I remember that story that kwall posted, and if i remember correctly...she was constant prob for the kings.

    I think people want their husbands to do those things because they want to. I don't think doug has a say in that relationship. Its clear she's judge and jury on everything. That to me is not the makings of a real relationship. I don't want my husband to be afraid of me. I don't want to be up under him 24/7....yes athletes have more opportunity to cheats, but u know what, if i can't trust my husband or s/o...i wouldn't be wit em in the first place. I don't need him to do 70 signals to show he loves me...i should know that he loves me.

  • missy

    @Mizzdallas-Sorry I wasn't by my laptop but CB says...... "Steezin on these heathens" ........

    @ Civil-Please exit stage left and stay in the KORNA for a while......No questions need to be asked just stay there...

    @KrysiJ-Fab gravi.......Work Bish ((c)Daisy)

  • starr

    MZN Says:

    Jackie is probably cheating on Doug
    *********

    wouldn't surprise me either..

  • Anna

    Yanaja Says:

    I agree with Jackie and Doug on one thing. You do have to find new ways to show your love to your mate to keep it fresh. I don’t however agree that you HAVE to be up under your mate 24/7. There should be some level of trust between two adults who chose to spend their lives together.

    I know all too well about the life of a basketball player’s woman, and it isn’t pretty. There is A LOT of temptation and it take A LOT of restraint on a man’s part to resist it, but that is exactly what separates the men from the boys. Jackie treats Doug like a boy and she keeps him so close because she knows that as a boy, he will stray if she isn’t there…the ugly truth.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    I have been married for over 12 yrs. I agree that you have to change it up a bit, I know hubby loves me because he gets up every morning to take his black butt to work, although hubby and I make the same amount of money hubby thinks the man should pay the majority of the bills and I would not have it any other way. :lol: This Jackie woman is setting her self up to fail, a man has to have "me and the boys bonding time" as much as I love my hubby I don't want to be up under him 24/7 if I didn't think I could trust hubby, I would not have married him, too many other things to worry about in a marriage and I don't have time for a cheating spouse.

  • FloridaChick813

    I want a God fearing, FAITHFUL, family oriented man that has FRIENDS
    _______________________________________________

    :cosign: He def. has to get up from under me!!!!

  • starr

    @krysi j

    cute gravi

  • Anna

    @Star, we must have been typing at the same time. Our comments were similiar. How can you grow as a person if you are under your spouse 24/7. A spouse always wants you to have their back, is Doug allowed his own opinion, can he pick out his draws in the moring?

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @ Daisy
    I'm not the one with the book out you have to ask the Kristy's I'm guessing I say everybody has to find what works for them and stick with it...

  • missy

    Any one remembers when Doug Christie and Rick Fox fought......Well lets just say she went in the tunnel after her husband and fought Rick with her husband......

    But anyone heard of the NBA wife who told her husband he could cheat.......I know you may think she is stupid(I thought she was stupid)........But her husband never cheated on her.....Now I know that plan won't work on everyone but it did on her husband......I guess she pulled a guilt trip on him.......

    But i think she may have cheated on her husband........she is doing a role reversal thing.......She is the man(who is usually controlling when he cheats) and he is the woman(the one who didn't do any thing but has to be kept on a tight leash by their trifflin spouse)........

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    @ daisy, I feel you. My list is:
    a strong minded, but not so strong he can’t consider my point of view, BLACK, THICK, 6feet+ man that has respect for the women in his family, respect for me, educated or pursing education, hard working, god fearing, sexual being who is a part-time comedian so he can get my jokes. A nurturer...the one who if you just mention you have an interest in something, the least he will do is buy you a book on the topic, money disciplined, cause I'm not

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Go to a meeting and come back and y'all are acting up in here. :lol:

    So, Sandra, where has Sean Garrett been lately? No new pics?

  • Stunna

    Sex (oral, vaginal or anal) is not going to keep a man and/or woman at home. It is more about a deeper emotional connection. You will not always be able to have sex but you should always want to feel loved.

    Jackie is crazy as hell, seems to have very low self esteem but if they like it, so be it. She is going to pur herself in an early grave torturing that poor man.

  • http://twitter.com/Licia31 licia

    i'm happy that this works for them , but i shouldn't have to follow my man around 24/7 to keep him faithful .

  • Cinderella

    @ missy, The player is Andrei Kirilenko of the Utah Jazz. Him and his wife are from Russia. She allows him to have one affair a year. She says that's how they do it in their country.

  • Anna

    Stunna Says:

    Sex (oral, vaginal or anal) is not going to keep a man and/or woman at home. It is more about a deeper emotional connection. You will not always be able to have sex but you should always want to feel loved.
    ~~~~~~~~
    There is a big difference in playing house and being married, ppl say they don't need a piece of paper. I do and it is a commitment that I was special enough and he to me to marry to make it legal, I don't have to look over my shoulder wondering if anything happened to him is someone going to come in and take everything we worked for away. Marriage taken seriously has this beautiful bond. I may not be in love 24/7, but I am in like 24/7. Truly liking your spouse is a special gift.

  • Daisy

    @Nichelle I asked u cause I thought that's what you were referring to but I guess not I know who wrote the book

    @GG that was just the basics of my list but overall it doesn't take much to make me happy.

    My mama n daddy have been married for 26 yrs n together for over 30 I want what they have and a lot of ppl my age n younger don't value marriage and take it serious IMO.

  • MZN

    LOL... We'll see Jackie on the next episode of SNAPPED:rofl:

  • MZN

    LOL… We’ll see Jackie on the next episode of SNAPPED :rofl:

  • EricaDenese

    Advice? The only advice this woman should be giving out to to others is how to completely humiliate and control your husband...

    All of this started when he cheated on her in the beginning of his career. For her NOT to divorce him (and take half), he agreed to this arrangement that she is to be the only woman in his life, LITERALLY. He can't look (as obvious at the article above that was posted) or even be interviewed by women. This b*tch isn't smart, she's crazy.

    What's the point of all of this? Why stay with a man if you can't trust him to do the right thing when you're not around??? This "marriage" isn't based on trust, it's about control!

  • aqtpie

    :rofl: at these comments!!!!

  • Toni

    Registration is open again? I waited forever for that to happen and ever since I did..Sandra's been registration happy--lol

  • MizzT

    I think thats kind of cute for them, but I do have to say she does look like she wares the pants in the home

  • missy

    @Cinderella-Thanks ...........But I thought she said he never cheated........

    @Ms.kaylamomma-Why do you want a Sean G. post........I mean it would be a good post to end the year with.... :yes: but you can't talk bad about someone who oozes sexiness.....every time he takes a pic.

    @MZN-Doug would be the one on Snapped.......

    & registation is open again..... :shrugs:

  • pointhimout

    i loved the doug and jackie show on BET. after watching the first 2 episodes, it was clear they were into each equally. jackie's not as overbearing as they made her out to be. she loves that man, took care of the house and business affairs. when he went to work, he had nothing to worry about when he was on the road or at work. i hate they didn't come back a second season.

    i remember when doug banks morning show tried to come at doug and he just down played their antics, nipped it, and maintained a professional interview. very classy.

    i wouldn't say what they're doing will work for all. they took their vows seriously, both times. the wedding at their home was really nice. doug loves his wife. If that connection isn't their, these other couples can't take notes. she submits to doug, doug submits to jackie; it's mutual and balanced, contrary to all the media tried to report.

  • smileylsc

    I really miss their show!! I hope my marriage will be as strong as theirs!!

  • CivilEngineer

    I've been sent to the KONA so much today that I think I'll have to start tomorrow there :(

  • GoldenGirl25

    Ummmm...does anyone know how I can change my avatar????

  • missy

    *walks in*

    Oh and do they have kids???......If so why wasn't she focused on raising them instead of following her man all over the place...... doesn't she look like Sheree from RHOA..........And doesn't she look like the type of person to cut your tires if you cheat on her and write her name all over your stuff........

    She needs to re-evaluate her self and see this is not a healthy marriage & when they are old what stories are they going to be reflecting on......

    Jackie-Oh Doug remember how I chin checked that heffa who looked at you for 2 secs or the time I fought Rick Fox for you or the time I almost cut your mother for looking at you to long......I know she is your mother but you are my man

    Doug-baby I love the way you stand up for me.......and beat up people for me and how we spend every waken hour together...I am a lucky man

    Jackie-You sure are..........no other woman would be behind you for 24/7 365 ...we were soul mates......

  • missy

    @goldengirl-go to gravatar.com to register and use the same e-mail you use on Sandra there...

    @Civil-you deserve the KORNA & should start tomorrow out there you were cuttin up to much today......Please and thank you :heart: missy

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Missy

    Sean Garrett oozes sexiness, huh? I guess if you like a man that wears a onesie jogging suit and dusty azz construction boots. :shrugs:

    Welcome to all the new people.

  • missy

    @Ms.kaylamomma-Any man that can got out in public in a onesie jogging suit with construction boots and confident gets respect from .........No shade....no hate......but respect & he even gets a slight sexy *SEOD* from me.......

    Sings SWV's-I get so weak

    "I get so weak in the knees I can hardly speak.
    I lose all control and something takes over me.
    In a daze and it's so amazing, it's not a phase.
    I want you to stay with me, by my side.
    I swallow my pride, your love is so sweet.
    It knocks me right off of my feet."

    YAASSSS.... I :heart: Sean ......forget Lance....Real talk

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    I love a man with confidence too Missy. :lol: If you don't want Lance anymore, I will take him :love: He oozes sexiness as well and never seems to have a bad picture day. You can Sean "Papers" Garrett if you like. But please make sure he is not wearing a turleneck with that huge azz head of his. He looks like a bobble head.

  • Daisy

    @Mskay and Missy I can always count on yall and usually Tex to be on at night.

    Missy you and Iyonah (she doesnt post often) both have a thing for Sean G and he does NATHAN for me :nono: He can write some nice songs but I dont know if he has the look to really make it as a solo artist per say but I could be wrong.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Daisy

    He doesn't do anything fo me either. Sandra tried to say he was so sexy and fine but couldn't find a picture to collaborate that :lol: I like that song with him, Mario, and Gucci Mane but that is the only song I know of. :shrugs:

  • missy

    @Ms.kaylamomma..Oh no you can't have Lance ....I'm greedy ..(i know i said forget about him but no way)....I just was caught up in the moment... :nono: ...Lance is still my chocolate drop..... :yea:

    @Daisy i know Iyonah likes sean and she can have him....I want my Lance back.

    I only was joking about Sean ..but i do like that SWV song....

  • missy

    Sean was in that Ludacris song - What them Girls Like

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    missy Says:

    Sean was in that Ludacris song - What them Girls Like

    -----------------------------------------------------------

    :blink:

  • starr

    @point

    cuz we know reality shows are real right.

    She prob told him to behave while hte cameras were rolling...lol I wouldn't put it past her lol

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Watching Diddy's show. Is that Popra's real hair? I like it.

  • Daisy

    @MsKay I watched Diddy earlier(records during the day) and I say :nono: to that being Poprahs real hair

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Thanks Daisy. I wanted to believe it was real. You still working on your research paper?

  • Daisy

    @MsKay I turned that paper in TODAY at 6pm :cheer: Next qtr I have to turn that 15 pg paper into an 80 pg research paper in order to graduate :cry: :sad: lol

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Cool. What are you going to school for?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    New post please!!!

  • intensemocha

    THE MAN MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE!!!!! IF HE'S COMMITTED TO YOU AND ONLY YOU

    YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT UNFAITHFULNESS-NO MATTER WHAT HOT HOE OR GROUPIE FLASHES HER AZZ

    EVERY MAN IS NOT WEAK FOR FLESH-AND IF ONE MAN IS CAPABLE OF BEING FAITHFUL THEY ALL ARE-THOSE WHO ARE NOT MAKE A "CONSCIOUS" DECISION TO CHEAT WAY BEFORE THEY DECIDE "WHO" THEY WILL CHEAT WITH

  • H.B.I.C

    This heiffa just jinxed her own marriage with her holier than thou "that will NEVER BE HER HUSBAND". She just gave sideline ho's motivation lucky for Alicia's occupied but others are gearing up just to prove her wrong. Okay, let's see how long it takes for this to blow up in HER face :crying:
    5,4,3,2,........ (( POW ))

  • H.B.I.C

    Jackie your insecurities are showing. The true test of your love and fidelity is stepping aside and seeing how this man will honor you without having to shadow him. I've heard that this chick is certifiable and many ain't got no love for her. Puhleeze, when a man decides he's going to cheat he can do it while you're in the next room. She's the kind of chick that will kill him, the kids and herself if she finds out dudes cheated on her. Putting your business on front street makes people come out of hiding and stories will be told on her antics and much more. hope she's ready :shrug:

  • H.B.I.C

    @CivilEngineer: I was wondering if she was related to Keyshia Coles :whistle:

  • H.B.I.C

    @Daisy: Ma' ain't nothing wrong with you, your info is correct and apparently your mind is too regarding this situation. Some women just invest too much on their va jay jay's and sex skills to keep a man. Hell if that was guaranteed dudes would be lined up to marry supahead and porn stars galore. While sex is great A REAL productive adult needs more. Because any married couple married for decades will tell you passion and sex wanes you better have more than bedroom action to keep you togther if not then what you've got to fall back on? :shrug: