Pictures have surfaced of Antwaun Cook’s wife, Paula Cook, smiling as she attended church with her sons Christian and Jackson yesterday in Charlotte, NC.
Is there anyone left who doesn’t believe that Paula, a 36-year-old school teacher, and her estranged husband Antwaun, conspired with Fantasia to boost the ratings of Fantasia’s reality show?
Still, Paula and her attorney, Tamela Wallace, reacted with surprise at the photos of Fantasia and Antwaun’s reunion in a park on Friday. They hint at filing a lawsuit against Fantasia for “alienation of affection” — or depriving Mrs. Cook of the affection of her husband.
Wallace tells People magazine:
It’s that kind of brazen behavior that Mrs. Cook has had to endure for the last 11 months, until June of this year. This is something that has caused her emotional distress, pain, anguish.
She wanted nothing more than to have a happy family with her husband and her children. And she’s not been able to do that.
The only mistake she made was marrying a man who Ms. Barrino felt like she was entitled to have. She is having to defend her marriage, when she didn’t ask for this.
Something tells me that “alienation of affection” suit will never be filed.
Regardless if the parties involved are celebrity or not, all I can seem to think about are the children. How is all of this going to affect them and their way of life? Is a piece of cooch or peen really worth all of this? Rhetorical question…..
WOULD SHE HAVE FILED THIS SO CALLED LAWSUIT IF THE PERSON HE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH WAS NOT FAMOUS…SURVEY SAYS…NO…FANTASIA IS NOT THE FIRST PERSON THAT HE HAS CHEATED ON WITH IM PRETTY SURE.
INSERT.. HER
Look at Paula getting her Celeb On
I don’t know if this messy situation’s about publicity or not. I feel for Paula or any wife having to deal with a trifling, phalandering huaband who doesn’t seems to be willing to share desire for a “happy family.”
Who was that “loyal” reader who said he only liked yellow-bones…Mrs. Cook is a brown shooo nuff sista. Well she looks nice. Only thing I was confused about was that I read that she had planned an anniversery trip with her husbend early this summer and that is when she learned about the affair….That’s not right cause we heard about this last year and fantasia has had that tattoo for a minute
HEY YVONNE AND CHA-CHA
*husband*
Ms. Thickness says:
WOULD SHE HAVE FILED THIS SO CALLED LAWSUIT IF THE PERSON HE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH WAS NOT FAMOUS…SURVEY SAYS…NO…FANTASIA IS NOT THE FIRST PERSON THAT HE HAS CHEATED ON WITH IM PRETTY SURE.
DING DING DING……YOU ARE RIGHT..
Good morning MZZZZZZZZ THICKKKKKKKKK
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Cheeks I read on PEOPLE that TWAN and Paula supposedly just seperated in June…We are well off in to August so something super fishy about it all..
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To be honest, I’m tired of hearing about all of this really.
the paparazzi wrong for snapping the pic at the girl “church” thats crazy
on a side note fannie’s premiere episode ratings are going to be off the HOOK for sure
cheeks8683 says: Only thing I was confused about was that I read that she had planned an anniversery trip with her husbend early this summer and that is when she learned about the affair….That’s not right cause we heard about this last year and fantasia has had that tattoo for a minute
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all three of these bumpkins are liars.
They have paparazzi in North Carolina?
Paula Cook should be more upset with her husband for disrespecting their marriage and family. Hopefully, the children can live happy, normal lives when this is settled.
@ free and cha cha…yeah this ish aint adding up. Fanny talking about she fell in love and knew nothing about an on-going relationship with twan and his wife. Heck I know she can’t read but I didn’t know she was blind too!
Truth be told…Al-
IM TIRED OF THIS TOO….BUTTTTT I gotta feeling its not going away anytime soon!!!
THIS IS ALL A BUNCH OF BULLSHYTE… THE ALL NEED TO BE WHIPPED.
Let’s say they did plan all of this, it seems that it’s the “in” thing to do among celebrities to make up story to get some publicity. But the suicide attempt is taking it much too far. The wife is older than the Antwaun because I thought he was only 25 or something, if so, good for her :).
Cinderella says:
They have paparazzi in North Carolina?
GIRLL you know that aint nobody but Teeny behind the lense…. Shoot he still trying to get that deposit money up for his apartment.
Just kidding.. I luv Teenie..he was my favorite, nicca need his own show!
@yvonne79 said…
Is a piece of cooch or peen really worth all of this? Rhetorical question…..
IT shouldn’t be but it USUALLY seems to be with Reckless-n-Foolish individuals
The real losers are the kids. Dad is gone and mom is left to fend for herself. As a married woman, I would be ashamed to plan a scam on someone else where my husband had to be intimate to gain something. The whole thing sounds fishy(no pun intended) and Fannie needs to go sit down somewhere. It’s a shame that she has all this drama. Just goes to show you that common sense is not one of her strong points.
I wonder what church she attends
Well I think she is doing the right thing by going to Church GOD will protect during this trying time…
If she doesn’t file, she’d be a damn fool….sorry but, there is evidence all around, their still legally married..COOk went and did his thing on Fantasia’s dumb azz dime, why can’t the wife get broke off and leave both their azzez BROKE!
#PutHomewreckersNtheirPlaces
I hope the ruling is enough to go down in HISTORY, every since Angelina and Bradd hooked up while he was married to Jen people have been doing all kindz of scandalous shyt and GETTING AWAY WITH IT, hell everybody blames these wives for the husbands cheating im glad those females can be compinsated for this bullshyt their dealing with in the public eye wit deez hoez.
Hey Mz Thickness…what it do?
I don’t believe that she just found out. It has been all over the internet for a year. I can’t accept that she nor anybody she knows saw this all unfolding when we did.
I also don’t believe it’s all a hoax, I think shes just trying to get a come up and twuan is an opportunist. Anyone with all those jobs at the same time…. hmmm.
and
GOOOOOOD MORNINGGGGGG ALLLLLLLL (7PM my time zone but somehow it didn’t feel right saying good evening)
#PutHomewreckersNtheirPlaces
I hope the ruling is enough to go down in HISTORY, every since Angelina and Bradd hooked up while he was married to Jen people have been doing all kindz of scandalous shyt and GETTING AWAY WITH IT, hell everybody blames these wives for the husbands cheating im glad those females can be compinsated for this bullshyt their dealing with in the public eye wit deez hoez.
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U betta preach!!! Folks dont respect marriage for anything anymore. This guys asked for my number, I told him I was married (total lie but i digress)…This negro gonna say, “well are u happpy”? Ninja get out my face with that foolishness!!!
You know in this day and age..I find it to be a lame azz excuse for women to be like “I didn’t know he was married”. Child please (in the words of Ocho cinco). You can find marriage documents through vital records because you know why???? ITS A PUBLIC RECORD. And the internet is a very handy tool to find out information.
DO BETTER!
Krysi J says:
If she doesn’t file, she’d be a damn fool….sorry but, there is evidence all around, their still legally married..COOk went and did his thing on Fantasia’s dumb azz dime, why can’t the wife get broke off and leave both their azzez BROKE!
#PutHomewreckersNtheirPlaces
I hope the ruling is enough to go down in HISTORY, every since Angelina and Bradd hooked up while he was married to Jen people have been doing all kindz of scandalous shyt and GETTING AWAY WITH IT, hell everybody blames these wives for the husbands cheating im glad those females can be compinsated for this bullshyt their dealing with in the public eye wit deez hoez.
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compensated…lol, no i didn’t
Okay, so she knew they were married however he said they were separated and residing in two different residences. He took her to him “home” many times which had no signs of anyone else residing there.
Even if the wife has NEVER seen any sign, signal or hint of infidelity in the past ( and I think she has) she had to be pretty blind to not notice that her husband was missing for days at a time.
Just for the record I do think Fannie was wrong, because she should have enough respect for herself to want a man to be completed disconnected from another woman emotionally before entering into a relationship.
They have paparazzi in North Carolina?
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i ain’t never seen natta nah one…EVERRRRR. in LIFE!
so….paula at 36 is a few years older than antuwan at 30 huh?
sorry 4 the typo’s
not one focusing on the real issue. “The family!”
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agreed.
he didn’t care. did we expect him too. i didn’t…
tasia doesn’t care what kinda message this hoe shyt is sending to her impressionable daughter. cause i KNOW somebody is talking about this at that lil girl school, summa camp…someplace.
paula doesn’t care what kind of message that this is sending to HER kids. and i am sure that the church folk done prolly told her to steer clear of this hoe shyt but here she is…right up in the middle of it. getting photo’d by some country azz paparazzi. you know they tambout this hoe shyt up at her job at the school and what not. smdh….
QUESTION…do folks think their kids live in bubbles and will never hear about this ish? Read about it if not now then one day? SHEW….
Miss Sandra your are a cynic of the highest order so I can see you thinking everyone in this scenario is bad. I can’t speak for Paula, but I can tell you I wouldn’t serve my husband up to Fantasia for any amount of money. Plus she ain’t even got no money so it’s a moot point.
Hey everyone! I haven’t been in here in forever it seems.
Hey @Kwall and Krysi J
kwall says:
so….paula at 36 is a few years older than antuwan at 30 huh?
hey @gypsy!! yeas you been gone!
Cinderella says:
They have paparazzi in North Carolina?
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We do now.
Mrs. Cook knew her husband was sleeping with Fanny, but she tried to fight for the marriage anyway. They’ve been playing tug of war with him as a willing participant. I’m confused why everyone is so confused by this scenario. Yall ain’t never been in or seen an affair before? All of this mess is par for the course. It don’t take no planning on everyone’s part for the ladies to fight to the death for a man. The dumb reality show decided to take advantage of the situation AFTER the do do hit the fan.
Krysi you betta work that picture boo! pause…..no homo
TMZ has a photo of Antwan moving out of his and Paula’s home this morning. They did reconcile in January (Fanny soon changed her tattoo after that) so Fanny knew the man was married. I’m thinking Paula and Twan broke up in June because he went back to Fanny.
Hey gypsy!
Tuan and Fannie STINK!
kwall says:
not one focusing on the real issue. “The family!”
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agreed.
he didn’t care. did we expect him too. i didn’t…
tasia doesn’t care what kinda message this hoe shyt is sending to her impressionable daughter. cause i KNOW somebody is talking about this at that lil girl school, summa camp…someplace.
paula doesn’t care what kind of message that this is sending to HER kids. and i am sure that the church folk done prolly told her to steer clear of this hoe shyt but here she is…right up in the middle of it. getting photo’d by some country azz paparazzi. you know they tambout this hoe shyt up at her job at the school and what not. smdh….
QUESTION…do folks think their kids live in bubbles and will never hear about this ish? Read about it if not now then one day? SHEW….
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I do feel bad for the KIDS though. They need to make a law for vow breaking, low life cheaters to have to pay out the a$$! Something like “Caught doing hoeshyt and now I gotta pay law”. Phuck that talk about alimony, hell plenty of people pay that and they didn’t cheat how is that compensation for philanders?
Also, many women have used alienation of affection in NC and none of them were celebs, so yes Miss Paula might have done this if her hubby’s jump off was not a celeb. This woman is the victim and she is being dragged through the mud further by this mess. Got Sandra claiming she’s plotting because she has a smile on her face at church. WTF? She deserves all of Fanny’s couple of dollars for this hassle.
She is pretty, tho.
@ Yvonne,
Krysi, you betta WERK Bish (c) Daisy.
from a philander!
Well I CAN’T speak to wanting & supporting a female SUING ANOTHER Female for her husband’s Cheating Ways BECAUSE I’M A MAN…
But being A MAN it does kinda disturb me that This Female seems to be BLAMING This FEMALE (Fantasia) for her failed marriage because this isn’t the FIRST TIME he’s done this to her knowledge… And TRUST ME He’s done this MORE THAN ONCE w/o her knowledge (Real…)
I smile too when I leave church.
Whats the big deal?
She is such a pretty lady… I think it is safe to say that everyone knows this is not the first time Twan cheated on his wife….
Just to add to the convo and because I’m on lunch break at work, I went back to mediatakeout’s archives. Now, they are not the best place in the world but they are the main blog I know who have been on top of this story from the jump.
November 18, 2009-Fanny caught stealing someone’s husband
January 4, 2010-Back to Wifey!-Fantasia’s boyfriend goes back to wife and kids
March 17, 2010-Homewrecker fail! Fantasia’s boyfriend was back with his wife this weekend. Reconciling
This man has been back and forth between those two for a while.
@Mirs and Yvonne, thanks yall
I highly doubt Paula blames Fantasia for her failed marriage but Fantasia is a grown azz woman, and some people need to accept the fact that Fantasia made the choice to put a red target sign on her azz or bank account was her DECISION, she didn’t have to do it, people mad that the wife is an opportunist like Fantasia?? The question is why not??
Hey TYZ cha cha…. Yvonne79… Kwall …. Krysi…..Choco
@Krysi
WAS that comment #57 meant for me (Just Curious…) because MINE was geared towards most females want this female to SUE Fantasia and ACTUALLY Ruin her Financially !!! I take that kind of reaction from females being THOSE that have had their Bf or Husband cheat on them AND they knew who the female was (Just My Opinion…)
And You’re STILL LQQKING at ME “IN THAT WAY…”
Hey Snooty!!!
Hey Snooty!!
@Elove
lol @ the look, don’t start!
And it wasn’t specifically directed at just your comment. Far as im concerned its the judge decision to ruin Fantasia financially not the Petitioner’s, she’ll asked for the amount she wants and its up to the judge to review the case that will without a doubt find grounds to sue for said amount…ultimately the JUDGE will say yeh or neh. There is nothing wrong with what Paula is doing…unless there was nothing wrong with what Fantasia and her husband did? If Fantasia had no wrong doing in this situation by being with cheating azz, MARRIED azz, Antwaun, then Paula has done no wrong either.
ELove says:
MINE was geared towards most females want this female to SUE Fantasia and ACTUALLY Ruin her Financially !!!
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I take it you have not had two women fighting over you. Good!!! Still I don’t understand your position. Paula and Fantasia are wishing death on EACH OTHER. Believe that. But you think Fanny’s financial ruin is too harsh? People die in these situations. Fanny is lucky that woman ain’t crazy like her. You don’t see Paula faking suicide attempts to try to hold on to her husband like Fanny has done. Are you saying its better to let Fanny ride off into the sunset while Paula’s children are stripped of their live in dad partially because of the adulterous relationship? I’ve been cheated on and I have cheated, but I can still be objective and understand everyone’s feelings. I’m telling you for a fact that Paula and Fanny would love to kill each other right now. Literally. All is fair in love and war.
@krysi J…….EXXXXXXACTLY!!!! Don’t play in the mud and expect your hands not to get dirty. You better break that down! The consequences are the result of POOR DECISION MAKING ON FANTASIA’S PART. Or did she forget that she’s a celebrity and every move of hers would be broadcast across the globe?
@yvonne- hey hunny bunny! what’s poppin?
Hey Ya’ll! Lord have mercy, this is getting out of control! One thing I will say is that I feel sorry for the wife. Not only is she a school teacher, but she is currently in a PhD program to get her certification as a school principal. She has a lot on her plate, I just hope and pray that the children of both parties will make it through this situation. I can only imagine what Zion is thinking and going through!
@Bird
Actually I HAVE and I didn’t quite understand it then either (Real…)
I GUESS I come from a LQQK at YOURSELF in the MIRROR perspective because you can’t make someone DO RIGHT BY Your standards & desires… And that’s a very COMMON MISTAKE a majority of females make in regards to maintaining SERIOUS Relationships IMO
This is coming from SOMEONE who was cheated on during My Marriage
I do understand the INITIAL strong-n-passionate feelings & reactions regarding something that is TOTALLY UNEXPECTED but when does Logic & Reasoning become part of the equation ?!!?
U betta preach!!! Folks dont respect marriage for anything anymore. This guys asked for my number, I told him I was married (total lie but i digress)…
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@cheeks…ummmm how is lying about being married anymore respectable? A person that respect the sanctity of marriage wouldn’t lie about it…would they???
Hey Snooty et al-
Look i remember the pain and angush my family went through when my dad left my mom. I remember catching my mom in the middle of nights crying something she never did in front of us.
HOwever, suing the hoodrat my daddy cheated with wouldn’t have changed anything. The pain, the emotional scars will still be there. You can’t put a price on that. In on breathe we preach money doesn’t buy happiness and blah blah blah but yet most of you seem that if Mrs. Cook sue Fanny it will begin the healing process for her and as a result for you.
BTW all yall screaming “alienation law” Mrs. Cook haven’t even filed for that at this point. and have any of you actual read the law?
I think Fantasia is suffering from this. Her reputation is something she will never get back. She is forever tarnish. WHich is probably why she overdose not so much attempted suicide.
Again we all done some hoeshyt whether our holier than thou selves will admit to it on a blog or not.
@Divine
yes girl…Fantasia is too damn old and successful for this fukkery, she needs to get out of that country azz state of mind, you wanted the life of fame you got it, sorry you didn’t get the memo, but yes your personal life will be on blast until you crawl under a rock and call it quits, she needs to suck it up, and make better decisions PERIOD!
@Therapist
If NC has that law then why not use it-I mean you act as if that’s so absurd…
BTW she doesn’t need a PHd to be a principal. I hope she is going to do something else with that PhD. I’m going back to school for my Master’s in Educational Leadership to become a principal myself.
She is a nice looking woman.
I do understand the INITIAL strong-n-passionate feelings & reactions regarding something that is TOTALLY UNEXPECTED but when does Logic & Reasoning become part of the equation ?!!?
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after somebody gets their azz whipped….or after the bank cuts the check and your Lawyer presents it to you.
I swear I don’t feel sorry for Fantasia I mean she may be slow but she able minded…
@therapist…I totally respect the whole union of marriage…This man was really bothering me so as a way to get him off my back I told him I was married…still didn’t work. I’m just saying there used to be a time when people respected that and went about their way, now its become more of a conversation starter lol. I never like that on the regular but this dude would not take a hint lol!
@Choco…we only like/embrace laws that work to our advanatage. NO i don’t think it’s absurd….actually yes i do. If it was so important wouldn’t every state have this law? Anyone can make a law if they go through the proper channels. Obviously some bitter person who was cheated on created lol
@KrysJ….i see you with all the new pics….what u had a photo session over there this weekend? NIce pics
@Daisy…what’s up ma?
Choco says:
I swear I don’t feel sorry for Fantasia I mean she may be slow but she able minded…
I dont feel sorry her either……….
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@cheeks…..lol point taken. I’ve lied about being married too. You right it’s like a catalyst. It speeds the gettig in bed process up. lol
@Therapist
IDK I mean if the law is there use it – y didn’t you email me
Again we all done some hoeshyt whether our holier than thou selves will admit to it on a blog or not.
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Now hold on nah……some of us may have done some LUSTFUL shyt, but you’re not required to be hoeish to do that……now fukking someone’s husband or wife is HOESHYT, because its clear that the man/woman has selected their mates, wheather they choose to remain faithful is their decisions, but to engage in a relationship with someone whom is knowingly married is YOUR decision ONLY…nobody elses. So all this shyt about “If it weren’t Fantasia it would have been somebody else” just be sure to add, that somebody else would have DECIDED to do some HOESHYT as well….the crime doesn’t change with the person..???
@krysi…POWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! I WISH SHE WAS READING WHAT YOU JUST SAID. THAT’S WORD FOR WORD WHAT SHE NEEDS TO HEAR.
THERE HAVE BEEN PLENTY OF TIMES THAT IVE HAD TO PASS ON SOME FINE MARRIED PEEN because my conscience would get the best of me. Especially with children in the picture. I just cant do it, and I don’t know how people can. I work in a hospital and I have seen the painful and embarrassing physical ramifications of sharing and splitting genitalia between 2 or more people. That’s neither here nor there. I honestly think cheating with a married person is a moral issue. Something that is often forgotten and left by the way side.
@Therapist….thanks sweetie
@Snooty
Was so irritating is her playing victim are tryn to act like the victim-and then is shocked when society (won’t use the word fans cuz I’m not one) reacts I don’t get how effn stupid she is acting like CLUELESS n shyt
@Krysi
DAMN… That’s the ONLY TIME !!!!!
And I HOPE my comment was the reason why you changed your pic (Real…) It was Ridiculously SEXXY… I wasn’t going to start anything
Effn with a married man is desperate and disrespectful mainly to yourself but to others as well – I’m sorry it’s not that damn serious and for one a married man coming onto me is a turn off and vice versa
I meant WASN’T the Reason …
after somebody gets their azz whipped….
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i already sung it on the other post but here it is again…
“truth is…paula needs to hit her with a shoe…”
in the immortal words of a pimp i once knew…whup dat trick…(DJ~ “Hustle and Flow”)
@Bird, I definitely get your point but IMO no Fanny shouldn’t get to ride off into the sunset without any consequences and if she doesn’t have to pay Paula a dime, her name will forever be tarnished. Meanwhile Antwun’s no good, lying, cheating, vow-breaking a$$ gets too ride off into the sunset and he was the mofo who made the decision to disrupt the lives of his WIFE and children while Fantasia knowingly/unknowingly obliged.
What consequences does this low life, vow breaking, philander who disrespected his vows, wife and children have to pay? I personally think they need to change the law so that the common denominator “THE VOW-BREAKER” pays half of any amounts awarded to the cheated on spouses, that way BOTH people who NEED to be blamed will have to pay to play!!!
THERE HAVE BEEN PLENTY OF TIMES THAT IVE HAD TO PASS ON SOME FINE MARRIED PEEN because my conscience would get the best of me.
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Well sis this is different…cause Paula’s husband look slow (like he was one chromosome away from a short bus ride) and is NOT fine.
Aight yall want “homewreckers” stoned to death. Like I said my family has been torn by an affiar but damn we moved on. Shyt matter of fact that made be a better man. The one thing that stuck with me is that my mother never spoke ill of my father or his mistress in front of us. She allowed him to remain a father….even times when we out of childish anger blame her for what was going on. She didn’t keep us from him…she allowed us to go over that woman house and spend time with our father.
my mom taught me the true meaning of forgivness and strength. Something a lawsuit or gossip could never do.
Love the New Gravi @Krysi
@K-Dub
I SUPPORT the shoe-throwing 110% because My Mother use to throw her shoes at us every time we did something wrong and She wasn’t CLOSE ENOUGH to grab us
she needs to get out of that country azz state of mind, you wanted the life of fame you got it, sorry you didn’t get the memo, but yes your personal life will be on blast until you crawl under a rock and call it quits, she needs to suck it up, and make better decisions PERIOD!
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if she got the memo who read it to her? teeny?
“The only mistake she made was marrying a man who Ms. Barrino felt like she was entitled to have. She is having to defend her marriage, when she didn’t ask for this.”
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da fuk….so ummmm her mistake couldn’t have also been selecting a poor choice for a father and husband. It’s solely Ms. Barrinos fault because if she never existed he would never have cheated.
Yeah ok Mrs. Cook you educated…getting your PhD….don’t make a mockery of common sense and your good looks
I honestly think cheating with a married person is a moral issue. Something that is often forgotten and left by the way side.
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Exactly….its all about your morals….and what was instilled in you, and if you are desperate enough to be with a married man, someone who could never belong to you without substantial drama…you got that much time on your hands to waste or throw away on another human being then by all means reep what u sow boo.
Yes @Elove…A shoe in your azz will make you wake up and smell the coffee. Worked for me. Works for my kids. Worked for some other folks who was on some hoeazz shyt that I know…
#teamsize8
I’m confused, how she just blaming fanatasia, doesn’t her husband have alot to do with them two being together.. haha she needs to be sueing him not her.
@Therapist
I mean the wife will move on but damn I think having a law like that will help keep some families together while I’m not a bible reader but it is a vow so when you break that it’s like breaking the law…I just think Fanny should be stoned cuz of how she carries herself
therapist1911 says: my mom taught me the true meaning of forgivness and strength. Something a lawsuit or gossip could never do.
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there is strength, but most of all, WISDOM in that decision because it was about her children. these days, the kids get the short end of the stick whether it’s a mistress, new wife, other babymama, or new girlfriend.
@BK
I believe she is suing her husband as well
there is strength, but most of all, WISDOM in that decision because it was about her children. these days, the kids get the short end of the stick whether it’s a mistress, new wife, other babymama, or new girlfriend.
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Thank you she is securing her children’s future he could well we already know he is questionable so he could leave and never look back-She’s an attractive woman I’m certain she has some male friends she can lean on…
I personally think they need to change the law so that the common denominator “THE VOW-BREAKER” pays half of any amounts awarded to the cheated on spouses, that way BOTH people who NEED to be blamed will have to pay to play!!!
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I agree!!!
@Kwall – u iz a fool girl
@ all yo damn comments
@Snooty – Thanks sweetie, love yours too babe!
@Elove – yea, i took it down, cuz i wasn’t sure if I wanted to put it up in the first place, I like the pic ok, but that hair over my eye may have been too muRch..LOL
don’t need yall niccahs thinking im cock eyed and thangs… :lolol:
I believe she is suing her husband as well
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WHAT?! I haven’t heard that…what the hail she tryna get out of him?
Free refurbished phones for life?
Free tickets to the Pirates home games forever?
His free tickets that HE gonna get from ‘Tasia for the next revue of “Mama I Wanna Sing–Part 8–“From the Outhouse to the Whorehouse?”
Lawrd Paula. You lucky if you get child support from this dude. You need to stop…
@Therapist
I understand where you are coming from…but you know what babe…IM TIRED OF THE REAL VICTIMS CRYING IN SILENCE…..don’t you think its time the vow breakers and the no moral having az hoes got what they deserved. Now if the man is checking SINGLE in the box on his tax return then all is fair in love and war…but MARRIED…umm no bytch somebody gon have to str8TEN me??!!
#SoSorry
#NoLogicForMe
#TeamWHUPDATTRICKANDHERSOON2BDivorcedBF
@Kwall
Alimony and child support…
#teamsize8
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I FUKkking LOVE IT!!!
lol now yall chalking the lawsuit up to “securing the children’s future” GTFOH lol
Aight so there is no confusion i prefer married people to stay married and not cheat. I prefer outsiders to stay out side of another’s marriage. I just don’t agree with the suing the outsider for your mate making a decision to cheat on you.
So yeah ok if that help some of you get beyond whatever bitterness you hold then so be it…
Money aint never brought wisdom or security
@Therapist
You are tripping if you think money doesn’t bring security I personally think it’s a good BUSINESS decision to sue Hubby and Celeb Lover
@KrysiJ
I gotcha boo. It is time for the victims to be heard and not cry alone..that we can agree on
@therapist I never said she needed a PhD to become a school principal. I read that she was in a PhD program, I am in education as well so I am fully aware of what is needed to become a school principal.
Alimony and child support
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That dude was NOT contributing to some lavish lifestyle for her to upkeep to even be HOLLERIN’ about no dayum alimony! *NEWFLASH* Paula…your husband sells gatdayum second rate phones for a living boo! In his SPARE time he try to sell a few houses. In one of the WORST real estate markets in America…He look like one of those nukkas who he spend his extra money on DUMB shat like video games..when the kids need new shoes and shat. Hope this ain’t true. If it is…she need to satherazdownsomeplace and stfu.
Can someone explain in a logical, non-emotional manner how another woman is “responsible” financially for “breaking up your marriage”. I am happy to see this foolish law is only available in a handful of states because the more progressive states realized how dumb this law really is. Let us not forget this law was created when women were considered property of their husband and he was allowed to sue for the value of his “property”.
Secondly, at what point and time are women going to be able to just realize that it is THEIR husbands fault? Do women have such low expectations for their husbands that they cant even blame him for what he does with his own penis? Are men so weak and stupid that we shouldn’t expect them to respect the vows THEY MADE? I honestly believe women who blame other women for “ruining their marriage” are foolish, insecure and stupid.
I continue to ask, can someone please explain in a logical manner using logic and no emotion why another woman should be financially responsible for their husband’s cheating?
Thank You.
@CHoco..one bad financial decision can end that “security”. please check on all those lottery winners who are now broke nd in debt
@Southerbelle…gotcha didn’t mean to imply that’s what u were saying. i was just making a general statement
@Krysi J
Who are the “real victims” and who is responsible for their pain? I’m sorry this all makes me chuckle just a little. Why are women so desperate for their men that they cant just realize it is their mans fault he cheated? Last time I checked, married men who cheat were not rape victims. They lie to their wives, spend time with these other women rather than their own families. Sometimes they spend money and share their secrets. Please explain why the “other woman” is responsible for this?
I am literally laughing at you saying “the real victims who cry in silence”. These victims need to deal with their husbands. They need to either get therapy to fix their marriage, find out why their husband refuse to respect them or they need to leave and choose a better mate. But this misguided hatred and anger women have towards the other woman is out of control.
@Kwall
Y shouldn’t she get alimony tho? Whether or not he can afford it but I mean most divorced woman do get alimony
@Therapist
What is your zodiac sign? Those lottery winners are sometimes stupid I’m going to assume Ms. Cook is educated and thinking of her children’s future- college, extracurricular activities…
@LadyP
Uhhhh I don’t know the logical reason why someone made that law as far as Fannie being held financially responsible that’s becuz she lives in North Carolina-my exhusband cheated on me I didn’t blame the females I blamed him and left his azz
@Lady Progressive
to answer your question apparently suing will “secure her childrens future” lol hey seeems logical….right?
#sarcasm
@therapist no problem, I know there are a lot of avenues that can be taken in education. Good Luck with your Master’s Degree and I think it is very commendable that you want to work in the field of education. Many of our young Black men need to see positive role models that resemble them in the school system as well as someone who can properly advocate for them.
@K-Dub said this and I HAD to put it in it’s PROPER Perspective…
That dude was NOT contributing to some lavish lifestyle for her to upkeep to even be HOLLERIN’ about no dayum alimony! *NEWFLASH* Paula…your husband sells gatdayum second rate phones for a living boo! In his SPARE time he try to sell a few houses. In one of the WORST real estate markets in America… He look like one of those nukkas who he spend his extra money on DUMB shat like video games..when the kids need new shoes and shat. Hope this ain’t true. If it is…she need to satherazdownsomeplace and stfu.
Damn at Therapist you are really feeling some type of way about my comment it’s not that serious FOR REAL HON!
Hey ain’t nobody never heard me say money can’t buy happiness. Rich folks have the same problems I have except they have a lot more money. Why I gotta have the problems AND be broke? Paula hasn’t sued Fanny, but I would if I were her. Twaun will pay, but like someone else said he will pay the same price that people who haven’t cheated paid. It would be nice if she could sue him for more than child support and alimony.
Elove
I definately feel ya. It is that initial passion that makes the woman act a stone cold fool and keeps the husband wanting the other woman. For the man I imagine it wears off when he is threatened with losing his wife or after he settles down with the new woman and winds up in the same situation he had with his wife. We are speaking prematurely anyway because the wife has not sued Fanny.
*clears throat*
@L.Progressive
Lets look over some things…
Lets see, financially Fantasia is not responsible for Paula’s divorce until the JUDGE says so..however, Paula will be put in a strained situation financially being a single mother of 2 kids, and the other half of income (claimed on taxes) coming in her home has to be replaced. Sure Fantasia is not the reason for Antwaun’s absence, he made his decision as well…and trust Paula is going to wipe him out too…i mean in this case cleary Paula lucked up because some celebrity decided to make an immoral decision a carry on an adulturous relationship with someone else’s husband in a state where she could be sued for it…that alone makes Fantasia financially responsible for taking that risk on a low life like Antwan whom will be sued the same and divorced.
#SoYouSayingThatAinLogic?
#wellFukkLogic2DenLMAO
j/k
a single mother of 2 kids, and the other half of income (claimed on taxes) coming in her home has to be replaced.
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And I can’t believe some folks don’t see it like that…
@choco….relax i’m sure you are not the only one that believes the money would provide security for the kids. And it would….honestly i can’t deny that but that’s assuming Mrs. Cook would be responisble with the funds and not slurge…quit her job and give NC the dueces
maybe the judge will giveher Fantasia’s house but stil lrequire tasia to pay the mortagage
@Kwall
Y shouldn’t she get alimony tho? Whether or not he can afford it but I mean most divorced woman do get alimony
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Really? I am waiting around for my sep. time to be up (In NC you have to be sep. and living apart for a year before you can get divorced) and I don’t plan on asking for any cause hail MY train of thought is…the nukka couldn’t afford me when we was married….and I know he can’t afford me when I’m gone. I know of plenty run of the mill working middle class divorced sistas who don’t get it. In fact, I only know of one person who ever got it. Here you only get it for half of the life of the marriage and you have to prove that the life you live cannot be supported on just your income. I am sure Paula is the bread winner in that scenario. So she won’t get much and she won’t get it for long but if she thinks she is entitled….then…get those free phones girl!
@Therapist
I’m relaxed been relaxed-yes that’s assuming she would do something responsible with the funds- I mean her track record indicates she is a responsible individual I doubt coming into a little money would deter her from obtaining her Master’s degree
You seem really touchy today everything good?
@Kwall
I can dig what you are saying becuz I didn’t bother with alimony from my exhusband but I did get that child support for my daughter our lifestyle wasn’t going to change becuz of a divorce the family dynamic changing was enough for me
Who are the “real victims” and who is responsible for their pain? I’m sorry this all makes me chuckle just a little.
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and sweetie, please don’t take one of my comments, nor one of my statements if you have not read them all and ask me to repeat the answer to a question i’ve already addressed…i can’t help but chuckle a little about that…..I’ve clearly stated the reason i will not side with Fantasia nor Antwaun Cook, I don’t label women who are married desperate to keep their men because they FILED FOR A DIVORCE and PETITIONING their mistresses for compensation…that lady can do what ever the fukk she wants to do, she’s the one living with that situation not anyone else and im not about to try and trash talk her for doing so…especially not to agree with someone who obviously has low morality…like Antwaun and Fantasia.
You can’t blame Fantasia alone…and I haven’t (please read :coffee:)
but i for damn sure ain gon talk down on this woman. Just like Antwaun made the “decision” to cheat with a celebrity, just like that CELEBRITY “DECIDED” to engage in a relationship with a knowingly married man, Paula can “DECIDE” to divorce and sue their azzez. simple as that.
LOL how am I touchy? I’m just dialouging with my fellow SRers.
Track record? All we know is that she is a teacher who isalledgely obtaining another degree. I don’t know her well enough to say whether or not she is responsible or not.
Hell Mrs. Cook and I are very similar in professional careers and aspirations. I know when it comes to money I can make some fk up decisions (get it from my daddy) I gotta habit of spending before I get the money in my hands lol
@Therapist
It’s all good bro – your sarcasmn and telling me to relax is why I felt as though you were touchy but I’m not in this to win it feel me I will keep it moving
@Lady Progressive
She IS dealing with her husband: she is filing for divorce with alimony.
How is Fantasia financially responsible or any mistress?
Because women statistically over men end up on the short end of the financial stick during a divorce, mostly due to having primary custody of the children. They go from being legal wives to single mothers. Antuwan Cook, according to stories I read months ago, left Paula and the kids and moved in to Fantasia’s house. There went his income and presense. If he was on trips with her, was he working? Maybe not? Paula’s financial life is hurt.
Either way, she got a lucky break. Only six states even have this law on the book
Mrs. Cook prehaps can be entitled to spousal support. Alimony and sposual support are two different things….right? My mom still gets sposual support bc my dad wanted her to have it *shrugs* and they were seperated for 20 years before getting divorced
but i for damn sure ain gon talk down on this woman. Just like Antwaun made the “decision” to cheat with a celebrity, just like that CELEBRITY “DECIDED” to engage in a relationship with a knowingly married man, Paula can “DECIDE” to divorce and sue their azzez.
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APPLAUSE
Nah i was just saying relax…don’t worry…i’m not taking any of this personal. we just shooting the breeze.
I’m glad she did get a lucky break GOD don’t like UGLY and Fannie knew what she was doing woeing him with her success cuz her looks are shot
we just shooting the breeze
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That I don’t mind doing : )
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Child support and alimony is a given, hell that is money he most likely gave/would be giving if he were living at home with his wife and his children anyway. I still don’t see that as being sued for the actual act of sleeping with a married man/committing adultery, like Fanny can be sued for!!! I still say his vow breaking a$$ is getting off scott free (unless we are counting money he will have to give his wife that he more than likely spent/ would be spending on his wife and kids if he were still married and living with them anyway)!!
I don’t blame the wife nor do I feel sorry for Tasia and the bad decisions she has clearly made BUT I am still a fan
I don’t agree w/the law and being allowed to sue the mistress its up to your hubby to respect the vows he took b4 God
I don’t do married men either not my cup of tea but different strokes for different folks
And Fantasia is DESPERATE as hell, to cause all this shyt on herself, for a man working at t-mobile tryna help her reset her fukking sidekick, that she decides to seduce…whats the matter boo?…the niccahs in the industry in your “tax bracket” weren’t tryna wife your azz up, so you had to risk it all and kill what was left of your slow reading GED image and attempt to whoo someone’s husband from them. How the hell you go on American Idol, win that MF, become successful just to fukk with a married man. Going back and forth between you and his wife???…you still second rate babe, even as a CELEBRITY you can’t compete with this man’s wife. THATS WHAT YOU CALL DESPERATE. Not a wife exercising ALL her fukking rights while filing for a divorce from a low life husband.
aqtpie says:
“Child support and alimony is a given. hell that is money he most likely gave/would be giving if he were living at home with his wife and his children anyway. I still don’t see that as being sued for the actual act of sleeping with a married man/committing adultery, like Fanny can be sued for!!! I still say his vow breaking a$$ is getting off scott free (unless we are counting money he will have to give his wife that he more than likely spent/ would be spending on his wife and kids if he were still married and living with them anyway)!!”
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My thoughts exactly. There are men who file for divorce and did NOT cheat but guess what, still have to pay alimony and child support. So, in essence, child support and alimony are not punishment for cheating like the alienation of affection law is to the mistress.
@Krysi J you are going in like Nancy Grace on Fannie. I hate that Fannie got in this situation and this says a lot about how she views herself. I don’t believe every woman involved with married men has low self esteem, some wenches just like doing #hoeshyt but I think Fannie has a lot of self esteem issues that stem from a number of things. I hate that this is the year of the #jumpoffs, homewreckers, twerk team members, and all the other hoeshyt you can thing of.
OFF TOPIC: can u see my new gravi?
@Suthern yes sweetie i can see your gravi and the pic is very cute!
On Topic:
That was in response to whom ever said Paula was desperate…wtf??!!!
#GirlBYE
or
#BOiSTOOOOOoooooop
my 2 cents= ANY AFFAIR IS EMBARRASSING I’M SURE…HOWEVER SHE IS A SCHOOLTEACHER SO THIS IS EXTRA HARD. DOES IT MAKE HER SPECIAL? HELL NO! WAS THIS THE FIRST TIME HE CHEATED? PROBABLY NOT! IMO, HE IS UGLY. WE DIDNT LIVE IN THERE HOME SO WE CAN ALL ONLY SPECULATE! FANTASIA IS A DAMN IDIOT! SHE IS LOOKING REALLY STUPID RIGHT ABOUT NOW…
ANTWAN IS NOTHING TO FIGHT OVER AND HER NEW SONG,”LUCKY” WELL WHY EVEN COMMENT SHE ACTS LIKE SHE NEVER HAD D**&^ BEFORE SHEESH!
@ KRYSTI SO YOU THREW YA HEAD BACK ON YOUR NEW GRAVI EH? I SEE YA!!!!LMFAO!
I CALLED IN SICK, AND ENJOYING MY DAY OFF.
@LuvMySailor
Thank You for answering the question. Yes, I understand that due to sexism women are paid less than men and usually that is why men are forced to pay spousal support in divorce. However, Mrs. Cook is a teacher and her husband works at the T-Mobile store, I have a feeling she was the bread winner. Secondly, you stated that Mr. Cook moved out of the home with his wife and children and moved into Fantasia’s home. EXACTLY! HE MOVED! He made the decision to leave his children and wife and chase after another woman. He decided to abandon his family. So, why then is Fantasia responsible?
I think we are mixing up “immoral” with “responsible”. It is immoral to have sexual relations with a married person but that doesn’t make you responsible for that married persons actions.
Pasula, stay strong and get that money. Shout out to your attorney.
@therapist
LOL! I doubt that woman is trying to secure her children future, it was her husband’s responsibility to secure his children future.
My issue is, if I cant sue my husband due to “no fault” divorce, how can someone else be at fault if the person I am MARRIED to cant legally be at fault? Seems foolish to me.
@LadyP
Why don’t you just google that law then???
@KrysiJ
“Clears throat”? Really?
Its a blog, you are taking this far too seriously. Not to mention all of your “logic” is seriously flawed. Why bother.
Well all i have to add to this topic is that any relationship that starts off under bad conditions (ie fooling around when one is legally married) will have its share of turmoil and about 90% of the time (just a percentage i came up with in my head before someone asks me where i get my statistics lol) will end under the same circumstances. What goes around always comes around.
@Krysi J thanks boo, I’m trying to keep up with you
@ricanlbc is that your daughter cause she is absolutely adorable?
@ Choco
No need. I know the law very well, I even referenced it in a previous post. It is an old law that was created when women were considered the literal PROPERTY of their husband’s. It was created so men could sue for the value of their “property” if their wife left to be with another man. IT was considered “stealing”. The law was and still is sexist and has no business being on the books in the six backward states who still have it.
Since we do not believe humans to be property of another person, the law has no use in a modern day society and is used for nothing more than revenge from bitter ex’s who refuse to understand the man/woman they choose to marry has little character.
@Choco
@LadyP
Uhhhh I don’t know the logical reason why someone made that law as far as Fannie being held financially responsible that’s becuz she lives in North Carolina-my exhusband cheated on me I didn’t blame the females I blamed him and left his azz
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GOOD! Keep your head and self esteem high and keep it moving. I just don’t understand dragging yourself and family through all of this foolishness for a man who doesn’t want you. I read the complaint, she NEVER blames her husband. Women like this are delusional.
Hope you re-marry to someone decent.
@SuthernBelle4= Yes ma’am! 5 yrs going on 15!!! I have 3 AND I am Active Duty! They keep me b-u-s-y!! I recently got some head shots done. I want to get her back into print ads…so time consuming!
“Clears throat”? Really?
Its a blog, you are taking this far too seriously. Not to mention all of your “logic” is seriously flawed. Why bother.
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More like I don’t know why you bother to read my comments.
you chose to single me out on my opinion boo….I was just about to welcome your azz to SR…but hell “why bother”
GREAT DEBATE EVERYBODY!!
@Rican – this laid back pic is old babe….I took my other pic down.
@Suthern – awwww thanks
@ricanlbc well she is a cutie patootie. Wow I give you mad props Ms. Lady serving our country and taking care of little people, that is simply amazing. I can’t even imagine being someone’s wife much less someone’s mother, but to those who are, you are truly special women
@Krysi J you are welcome Ms. Lady
I may not agree with the law….but its the law
She hasn’t even sued fanny…but everyone is talkn about it. Mrs. Cook just make folks think she’s gonna sue….keep her on her toes
@LadyP
Thanks for the marriage blessing I had to chuckle cuz I was damn Tiff have you even thought of re-marrying
Me and Krysi been –><– all day on this one. I don't hate Fanny and if I can determine her CD is on point I will buy it and I dang sure plan to watch her show, but she wrong and that negro is wrong. Wifey is screwed. Take Fanny's last $50 girl! That's the least you could do since you didn't pop her for having the nerve to talk smack to you.
I'm Audi 5000 G. It's so great to be back man.
Bird…..I meant to
you….but i think we both got caught up in the debate. I don’t hate Fantasia either….but hell just like she said “TRUTH izzzzzzzzzzz……” she wished she was in YET another females shoes…damn now that I think about it, Fantasia always singing about how she want somebody else’s man…its almost like she don’t feel good enough to have a man of her own….now i bet if the shoe was on the other foot and she and Antwaun were married living their normal lives with their kids and Paula (as a celebrity) pushed up on her HUSBAND, she would have sued her azz….cuz obviously Fantasia don’t have shame when it comes to a man, so i could see her going all out to fight for her marriage. I just refuse to bash Paula for what they did….I will NOT! Im tired of people flipping that shyt man….THE WIFE DID NOTHING WRONG…HELLO…?? WTF i look like. LET her sue, shyt…..I would be more upset if she DIDN’T(Divorce him and sue)! Hell everybody else jumping at opportunities why can’t she!
*mumbles*
how the hell she wrong for that is what I can’t understand???…i mean i am seriously confused about peoples thoughts now a days in this world we’re living in…how the hell is a WIFE wrong for divorcing her cheating husband and suing both parties in the affair…she’ll get money from Antwaun too…is that what people don’t appreciate that Fantasia has to PAY just like Antwaun will….but they both had the affair together???
SuthernBelle4 says:
@ricanlbc well she is a cutie patootie. Wow I give you mad props Ms. Lady serving our country and taking care of little people, that is simply amazing. I can’t even imagine being someone’s wife much less someone’s mother, but to those who are, you are truly special women
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I love being a wife and mother, it really is not for all. The pay sucks, but the hugs and kisses are priceless. Why did my son move back home yesterday. I guess he could tell when were ready to clear his room out for a guitar room.
*we were ready to clear
Why is everybody, including Paula, so quick to blame Fantasia? I believe Antwaun was the one married not Tasia. He is the one who broke his vows. Her husband is the one who disrespected her, mistreated her and broke up her family. Fantasia could only be in the middle if he let her. I’m 100% sure that Fantasia is not the only person he ever cheated with. Fantasia couldn’t break up her marriage because her marriage was already broken up. How could she not know he was cheating when everybody else in the world knew and saw the pictures on the internet. She knew just like everybody else. She just thought he would get over it and come back home like he always have in the past. Can somebody please think about the children and stop playing these games in the media.
And who believes that her lawyer didn’t have this picture taken.
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