Toni Braxton Reveals She’s Dating Outside of Her Race to Anderson Cooper (video)

Sandra Rose November 9, 2011

Toni Braxton has given up on dating black men. The “Breathe Again” singer appeared on the Anderson Cooper show where she talked about her experiences dating outside her race for the first time.

When Anderson asked Toni, 43, if she was currently dating, she responded: “Kinda… sprinkles of dating… I’m beginning to play in the snow a bit.” When Anderson pressed her for an explanation, Toni said, “He’s Caucasian.”

“And that’s a change for you?” asked Anderson. “I’ve never played in the snow before,” said Toni.

Toni Braxton also discussed seeking revenge on an ex:

“I remember in the past in my college years I was a little revengeful. But I wasn’t a stalker though. But a little bit revengeful. But back then, the internet wasn’t as popular. I don’t want to be sued. I remember I didn’t do it but a girlfriend of mine keyed this guy’s car. She keyed it for me and I felt bad about it. Yeah, she really did that. She keyed it. But I told him I did it, and I told him i’d pay for it, actually my girlfriend did it. And he said, ‘I want my money.’ Then he later on said, ‘Oh no, don’t worry about it.'”

Watch both videos after the break!

Toni Braxton discusses “playing in the snow”

Toni Braxton discusses revenge on an ex

Creamychic

Ima play in the snow too, and a lil in the mud (brazillian men)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

I’ve did vengeful things, long long long long long long time ago. *cues Jazmine Sullivan’s I’ll Bust the Windows out your car*
xamayca que linda

Umm okay…Toni isnt the first nor tha last to date outside her race so why is this worthy of a post?

Post something on Selita and Terrence J!!
prynsexxx

I LOVE the shoes(color) and pant outfit.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

I didn’t read that she said she’d “given up” on black men. I just read that she said she was “playing in the snow!” Dating outside your race does not mean you’re given up on one particular race. It means you are exploring your options. Black women did not have many options back in the day, now all races are beginning to realize what black men have known for centuries……
NaijaGal

Should white people be offended by the term snow
EB

Halle Berry said the same thing…………
A.J.

:coffee:My my my how some jump ship because their career has come to an end and they can’t manage their money affairs…
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

prynsexxx says:

I LOVE the shoes(color) and pant outfit.
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Her shoes are giving me my life. Green is my favorite color, too!
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

GOOD FOR HER, I HOPE HE MAKES HER HAPPY

NO BIGGIE, DO YOU, THE WHOLE RACE THING IS SO TIIRRRED AND PLAYED OUT, WHEREVER YOU FIND LOVE IS YOUR BUSINESS-POINT BLANK

MEN HAVE BEEN DOING IT FOR YEARS, THEY TELL US TO MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT, I SUGGEST ANYONE ELSE WHO HAS AN ISSUE WITH IT DO THE SAME~
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

A.J. says:

My my my how some jump ship because their career has come to an end and they can’t manage their money affairs…
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and
GAGIRL87

xamayca

I’m convinced that Toni is all the sisters she’s looking just like Trina in this interview
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Damn I love me some Andy Cooper. That is all. For now.
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

I didn’t read that she said she’d “given up” on black men. I just read that she said she was “playing in the snow!” Dating outside your race does not mean you’re given up on one particular race. It means you are exploring your options. Black women did not have many options back in the day, now all races are beginning to realize what black men have known for centuries……

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DITTO THAT WAS MY TAKE ON IT AS WELL
GAGIRL87

I HATE HATE HATE plastic looking shoes they look so cheap
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

@ ANDY COOPER

I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME-LOL
GAGIRL87

5 Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

I didn’t read that she said she’d “given up” on black men. I just read that she said she was “playing in the snow!” Dating outside your race does not mean you’re given up on one particular race. It means you are exploring your options. Black women did not have many options back in the day, now all races are beginning to realize what black men have known for centuries……

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MrsMommy

People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.

I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.

And they AGE rather fast.
cheeks8683

Whats up with the Whataburger commercial at the biginning of the clips…got Takisha shucking and jiving to her yt customers going up to the tables and ish….What can I get for u saaa?

Shooo aint nothing wrong with paying in the snow :wave: <<<<<Ryan Gosling's shirt from Crazy, Stupid, Love
A.J.

Banks offering ‘Financial Advisors’ all day for FREE
xamayca que linda

Morning GAGirl….*slips feet into those shoes before you walk off with them*
caligirl

Good Morning Errrbody

Good for Toni! Who cares what color he is, as long as he’s respectful and treats you well.
lexdiamonz

MrsMommy says:

People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.

I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.

And they AGE rather fast.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

@ Intense & GAGirl. I know ya’ll feel me! If my Mexican Grandfather had not…..well, I’d be here in another form, which is fine by me, but I’m okay with who I am.

Also, I hate when people assume or make statements that are not true. You know what they say about ppl who assume……
A.J.

What needs to be recorded is Toni sitting down with someone that knows how to manage money!
(that person) Toni, this is how you save..leasing a home because you really cannot afford it is not in your best interest.
caligirl

MrsMommy says:

People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.

I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.

And they AGE rather fast.

She probably think he sandals are the bizness in the summer huh?
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

Heeeey XYZ & caligirl.
GAGIRL87

MrsMommy says:

People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.

I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.

And they AGE rather fast.

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You know when white people die they return to their orignal color BLACK little none history fact
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

MrsMommy says:

People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.

I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.

And they AGE rather fast
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DON’T START TODAY!
kahmmillion

Toni’s wack arse is always looking for attention. Weird looking trick.

Did anyone hear about this?

“Bus Driver Loses Job After Assaulting Student Who Used N-Word” SR pull up article and do post. Very interesting and very racist bloggers on the CBS website.
MzTisch

cheeks8683 says:

Whats up with the Whataburger commercial at the biginning of the clips…got Takisha shucking and jiving to her yt customers going up to the tables and ish….What can I get for u saaa?

Shooo aint nothing wrong with paying in the snow <<<<<Ryan Gosling's shirt from Crazy, Stupid, Love

^^^^^^^^
I wanna see that movie just cuz of the previews of the six pack……..
Plus, he IS a great actor too!
PAGESINADIARY

nothing wrong with snow. i played in it 6 years ago and im still married. happily too
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

@ caligirl – your gravi is much to be desired. I feel like I seen this brotha somewhere! &
lady_cn

I may or may not have keyed a car or two in my day as well. (I won’t admit to anything here. lol)

There is nothing wrong with playing in the snow. I have done it, granted I always come back to black, but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
caligirl

Hey Tatted and
lexdiamonz

I used to like to “play in the snow” (white men may can’t jump but they can damn sure pick up the check )

but ummm i thought that term was racist in 2011 and PHONY braxton get on my nerves.. I still blame her for terry leaving Mint Condition… but i digress … i cannot wait until the new season just to see the PURE GRUDGEFULNESS AND JEALOUSY among the sisters that they try to pass off as rivalry and “we support and love each other” is PURE COMEDY…
xamayca que linda

Morning my lovely tatted bew! :hugs: and @ YSO
prynsexxx

GAGIRL87 says:

I HATE HATE HATE plastic looking shoes they look so cheap
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Its the color that I’m digging. :drool: Its something about that green that is as @Tatted said…”giving me life”.
http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

Everybody fluckin everybody these days. Toni trying to win over some fans with this “announcement.”

She always flucked with yella niggas anyway. Jason Kidd, Jim Jackson, Ol boy from Mint Condintion… Wonder if she called herself “playing in piss.”
GAGIRL87

Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

@ Intense & GAGirl. I know ya’ll feel me! If my Mexican Grandfather had not…..well, I’d be here in another form, which is fine by me, but I’m okay with who I am.

Also, I hate when people assume or make statements that are not true. You know what they say about ppl who assume……

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You make an azz out of you and NOT me love that quote
pointhimout

i’ve been saying for years black women need to open up to dating all races. black men do, why shouldn’t you?

I get what Toni’s doing press wise too, and I can’t blame her. She’s so beyond the “reality” stuff with her career that supporting her sisters shouldn’t mean she has to show up at every event with them. Her success is way beyond theirs. they are not on the same level. that’s truth. I too would book separate shows and gigs by myself too.
lady_cn

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

She always flucked with yella niggas anyway. Jason Kidd, Jim Jackson, Ol boy from Mint Condintion… Wonder if she called herself “playing in piss.”

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@ ‘playing in piss’
MrsMommy

caligirl says:

MrsMommy says:
People who date whom they want. As far as white skin, I can’t get over the zombie effect it leaves me.
I have a white female boss who is rather heavy. In the summer, her feet and cankles look like polar bear wearing sandals. Her fat hands and wrist remind me of a polar bear wearing bright red fingernail polish.
And they AGE rather fast.
She probably think he sandals are the bizness in the summer huh?
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You made me fart and tinkle. You wrong for that.
GAGIRL87

@ prynsexxx they remind me of that sorority that I can’t remember the name of, you know which one I’m talking about

pink & green
ohpretty1

@ Tatted – #5 You took my words verbatim. If Toni is bitter over her divorce she doesn’t show it and she sure as heck isn’t blaming black men.
!*LaKErCHiC@*!

ive never played in the snow but i aint against it
Mother Jefferson

Toni needs to stop playing, she might be dating YT men but she and Keri still be gettin it in… He was still sexy on last season when he showed Trina a house. Even now that he has gone gray lol
GAGIRL87

xamayca que linda says:

Morning GAGirl….*slips feet into those shoes before you walk off with them*

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YOU’S can have them
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Not playing in piss. Playing in YELLOW snow.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6yW-Chp7Pw screwball69

@Tatted

I didn’t “comprehend” that either but Sandra did. Let me :stop: you right there before she tries to be sarcastic and insult your reading comprehension skills.
MrsMommy

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Everybody fluckin everybody these days. Toni trying to win over some fans with this “announcement.”
She always flucked with yella niggas anyway. Jason Kidd, Jim Jackson, Ol boy from Mint Condintion… Wonder if she called herself “playing in piss.”
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You know, there are so many ways to insult our rainbow brothers and sisters. I don’t think you wanna go there. Because you do know that brown is associated with lots of sht, don’t you?
caligirl

@Tatted he has too much time on his hands is all I can say. I think his eyebrows are braided too. I couldn’t resist.

to GA, Naiji, Pryn, Man,ladycn, MzTisch, cheeks8683, Yso, Intnse, creamy, unpred….Errybody
ohpretty1

Now Halle Berry, she stated she gave up on black men and she is bitter.
http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

xamayca que linda says:

Umm okay…Toni isnt the first nor tha last to date outside her race so why is this worthy of a post?

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The post should be called “old crazy black women who have to date outside their race because they have been married a time or two purchased new body parts yet haven’t taken the time to self evaluate their baggae colored girls who once considered suicide when they lypo wasn’t enough” starring Toni, Vivca, Halle… Badu’s bag lady should be the theme.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

Big deal. If I remember correctly, her mother in law is white so doesn’t that mean she had half way tried interracial dating anyway?
caligirl

Hey Prettygirl I’ve dated YT men before and I just couldn’t get into them. Just my preference.
!*LaKErCHiC@*!

@wifie moorning lookt at them puzzy cats in ur gravi..
cheeks8683

Hey Cali :wave:

@ MzTisch- Ryan got me thinking that ish on the notebook could really happen…Knowing good and darn well I aint about to stay out in the rain kissing anyone in the process runing my hair and catching a cold…
caligirl

ohpretty1 says:

Now Halle Berry, she stated she gave up on black men and she is bitter.
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We all know that Halle Berry is pretty as she want to be and just as CRAZY.
http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

“play in snow”
i hate that analogy espesslly being said on a yt show. but i hope she happy . color dont matter
JMO

GM

Hey, whatever floats Toni’s boat! I’ve never really been attracted to white men EXCEPT that white actor who played Sanaa Lathan’s boss in the movie “A Family that Preys”. Now THAT man is fine as hell!
GAGIRL87

Cali and Dimpz
caligirl

at Lakerchic
NaijaGal

@Cali hey chica
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6yW-Chp7Pw screwball69

Dawn Sheen

or is just crazy as hell…

add Rozonda Chilli Thomas to that list too.
MrsMommy

People like Toni get introduced to men with lots of wealth and from diverse cultures.

But for me, it’s always gonna be black or brown men. I always figured that I hit the lottery as far as the culture and race I was born into.

Black people (when they got their sht together) are some of the most loveliest and sexiest creatures on God’s green earth.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

Hey Wifey!

Them cats still there? I had changed my gravi. Lemmee try again.
!*LaKErCHiC@*!

@cali hey mija how u this a.m?
@dimpz i still see the cats maybe is my slow azz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

@Man

Heyyyyy Cali
caligirl

screwball69 says:

Dawn Sheen

or is just crazy as hell…

add Rozonda Chilli Thomas to that list too.
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her too
http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

@MRS. MOMMY

I was asking a question, not making an insult. Why not just say she is dating a white person?

Anyway, no one cares about Toni “Can-you-loan-me-a-twenty” Braxton anyway. She should be waiting on her social security check and chit like that now. Why did they interview her again?
xamayca que linda

Thanks@ GAGirl…*writes name on bottom of sole before you change your mind* :hugs:

LMAO@Dawn LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

Morning GA! :wave:
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

@ ohpretty – she does not seem bitter to me either. And if she was, that would be stupid & petty because her sons are black and will soon be men. I’ve never played in the snow, don’t have a desire for the snow (hell, I hate winters) but to each is on. It doesn’t make me one bit of difference. People to worried ’bout who fuggin’ who! I never had “that to do” seeing that I have to worry ’bout my own crotch!
!*LaKErCHiC@*!

@Gagirl u ignoring me today well if so i still likes ur shoes them legs look purrty too!!
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

LOL@ DAWN

TOO FUNNY

CALI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJewNV_LhnE&feature=player_embedded Zoe B.

NaijaGal says:

Should white people be offended by the term snow

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Right because I would be offended at playing in the dirt or chocolate or brownies you get it
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Anyway, no one cares about Toni “Can-you-loan-me-a-twenty” Braxton anyway.
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lovezoe

They saying Heavy D weighed 344 when he died yesterday, he did not look like he weighed that much on the EBT awards. So sad regardless.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

MzDimplez1123 says:

Big deal. If I remember correctly, her mother in law is white so doesn’t that mean she had half way tried interracial dating anyway?
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xamayca que linda

GAGirl! Them boots are fieeecceeee! (nice set of legs too)
MrsMommy

Zoe B. says:

NaijaGal says:
Should white people be offended by the term snow
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Right because I would be offended at playing in the dirt or chocolate or brownies you get it
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Except for that white and SNOW are associated with purity.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

screwball69 says:

@Tatted

I didn’t “comprehend” that either but Sandra did. Let me :stop: you right there before she tries to be sarcastic and insult your reading comprehension skills.
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I’m NEVER worried about being insulted by Sandra. She does not hold that type of power of me.
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

People to worried ’bout who fuggin’ who! I never had “that to do” seeing that I have to worry ’bout my own crotch!

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I SWEAR I JUST SPIT OUT MY COFFEE!!!!

I’VE BEEN CURIOUS BUT NOT ENOUGH TO PARTAKE, IT’S NOT A BAD THING TO ADMIRE OR CRUSH ON A HANDSOME MAN NO MATTER WHAT THEIR RACE IS, TAKING IT TO THE BEDROOM IS A WHOLE NOTHA LEVEL

BUT I’M CERTAIN WITH THE LIGHTS OUT IT’S ALL THE SAME, BUT THAT FOR ME WOULD BE A SERIOUS CASE OF MIND OVER MATTER, THE THOUGHT ALONE I WOULD PUNK OUT
prynsexxx

to EVERYBODY that spoke (or didn’t) to me. THIS MEANS YOU! LOL

@GA yes I know the sorority that you speak of…but for whatever reason, Toni’s shoe color looks “richer”. Look beyond the “patent” shine. LOL

*goestofilloutapplicationformacysshoedepartment
Anna

prynsexxx says:

I LOVE the shoes(color) and pant outfit.

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She’s playing in the “Snow”, and wearing her Chrismas color shoes.
http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

JMO says:

GM

Hey, whatever floats Toni’s boat! I’ve never really been attracted to white men EXCEPT that white actor who played Sanaa Lathan’s boss in the movie “A Family that Preys”. Now THAT man is fine as hell!

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Chile yes, they can make a part two and title it “The cousin who sucked the stripes off her mamas bosses candy cane”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

Morning Tatted!
lovezoe

My brother loves what I call “snow bunnies”, then again my momma told him never to bring home a white girl and that is ALL he like. He thinks Black girls are golddiggers, etc. He wants a chick that is light, bright, Mexican, or white. The end.
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Is good to you? (I like it)
kahmmillion

All the red bottom is almost gone off of Toni’s shoes. She getting her money’s worth out of those LVs.
MrsMommy

White people always look better with make-up. Something like everythang goes betta with coke (take that anyway you like).
deedeegirl

Good for her. The truth of the matter is that if he is a good person, skin color doesn’t matter.
http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

People to worried ’bout who fuggin’ who! I never had “that to do” seeing that I have to worry ’bout my own crotch!

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I SWEAR I JUST SPIT OUT MY COFFEE!!!!

BUT I’M CERTAIN WITH THE LIGHTS OUT IT’S ALL THE SAME, BUT THAT FOR ME WOULD BE A SERIOUS CASE OF MIND OVER MATTER, THE THOUGHT ALONE I WOULD PUNK OUT

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It was like my first time with a BBW… I was nervous but it all grinds the same… ground chuck, ground turkey…
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

@ ANNA
JMO

kahmmillion says:

All the red bottom is almost gone off of Toni’s shoes. She getting her money’s worth out of those LVs.
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I am not feeling those shoes . I don’t care who designed them. I would only wear them on Christmas
http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

@ZOE
Yt people ain’t worried about being called “snow” and “powder” and “cocaine color” and chit like that.

They just worried bout fixing the system to keep the fat and lazy.
MrsMommy

deedeegirl says:

Good for her. The truth of the matter is that if he is a good person, skin color doesn’t matter.
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My hand is over my heart as the National Anthem plays.
kahmmillion

@ MrsMommy says:

People like Toni get introduced to men with lots of wealth and from diverse cultures.

But for me, it’s always gonna be black or brown men. I always figured that I hit the lottery as far as the culture and race I was born into.

Black people (when they got their sht together) are some of the most loveliest and sexiest creatures on God’s green earth.

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I know that’s right. I’m sticking with my black/brown men as well. I just can’t bring my brain to going out of my race. Honestly, I tried it once, went out to dinner with him….I didn’t even eat, I just got up and told him this is not going to work out and left. I love my people too much.
MzTisch

Cali-Love!

I have talked to a white guy once….he was real cute. But, it was like he was trying to act urban/black (is there such a thing?) because I’m black. He wasn’t really being himself, and that was a turn off.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

People to worried ’bout who fuggin’ who! I never had “that to do” seeing that I have to worry ’bout my own crotch!

^^^^^^^^

I SWEAR I JUST SPIT OUT MY COFFEE!!!!

I’VE BEEN CURIOUS BUT NOT ENOUGH TO PARTAKE, IT’S NOT A BAD THING TO ADMIRE OR CRUSH ON A HANDSOME MAN NO MATTER WHAT THEIR RACE IS, TAKING IT TO THE BEDROOM IS A WHOLE NOTHA LEVEL

BUT I’M CERTAIN WITH THE LIGHTS OUT IT’S ALL THE SAME, BUT THAT FOR ME WOULD BE A SERIOUS CASE OF MIND OVER MATTER, THE THOUGHT ALONE I WOULD PUNK OUT
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I feel you. Like I said, I’ve never had the desire. Back in my teens, it was this yt guy that like me, and he even went to an all black high school, only dated black girls, was the homecoming king, etc. etc. I went out w/him for a few weeks but it wasn’t my cup of tea! Come to find out, dating men was not my cup of tea…. BUT again, I’ve never been concerned about who laying pipe to who. I’m focused on ME getting laid down!
kahmmillion

@ JMO says:

kahmmillion says:

All the red bottom is almost gone off of Toni’s shoes. She getting her money’s worth out of those LVs.
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I am not feeling those shoes . I don’t care who designed them. I would only wear them on Christmas
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lol. You know fools buy the name, not the shoe. Them ishts are ugly though. Hate the color…hate the shoe. Nah, that’s not going to work on Christmas either.
MrsMommy

kahmmillion says:

@ MrsMommy says:
People like Toni get introduced to men with lots of wealth and from diverse cultures.
But for me, it’s always gonna be black or brown men. I always figured that I hit the lottery as far as the culture and race I was born into.
Black people (when they got their sht together) are some of the most loveliest and sexiest creatures on God’s green earth.
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I know that’s right. I’m sticking with my black/brown men as well. I just can’t bring my brain to going out of my race. Honestly, I tried it once, went out to dinner with him….I didn’t even eat,

“I just got up and told him this is not going to work out and left. I love my people too much.”
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DAMN, cuz, that’s cold…….Were you giving him the side-eye the entire 3 minutes you were there? Or did you run, gagging from the table?
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Mr. Big Stuff…Who do you think you are?
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

HEEEEEEY MZD!
ohpretty1

caligirl says:

ohpretty1 says:

Now Halle Berry, she stated she gave up on black men and she is bitter.
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We all know that Halle Berry is pretty as she want to be and just as CRAZY.
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I’ve been saying that since David Justice. There were many who couldn’t see past her looks. She had the media, etc disliking all of her ‘victims’ at some point, while playing the victim.
lovezoe

My mom doesn’t agree with white/black relationships because she believes ALL white people are racist deep down. She had a co-worker that was cooler than AC, but when his child brought home a black girl he was NOT a happy camper.
MrsMommy

BUT again, I’ve never been concerned about who laying pipe to who. I’m focused on ME getting laid down!
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Too bad you aren’t a blonde snowbunny. Herman Cain would have reamed your azz out by now, and you would have a story to tell and loot in the bank.
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Hell…I love my people too but I feel like that includes all races. We all came from the same place (Africa) right?
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

@ YSO –

Diddlydiddlydiddlydiddlydiddlydeeeeeeee
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

MrsMommy says:

BUT again, I’ve never been concerned about who laying pipe to who. I’m focused on ME getting laid down!
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Too bad you aren’t a blonde snowbunny. Herman Cain would have reamed your azz out by now, and you would have a story to tell and loot in the bank.
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heyul yeah….i’d be writing checks ratt now!!!
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

kahmmillion says:

Nah, that’s not going to work on Christmas either.
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lexdiamonz

hmmm hmmm I KNOW WHAT SORORITY YALL TALKING ABOUT TOO!!!!! (skee weee) and like those shoes we are FAR FROM CHEAP !!!!! LOL….

I notice alot of people scuff the soles of their christian louboutin’s sandy when tamar and trina skype in tell them to tell Toni (LOL) to just take them to a cobbler and get the sole protecters you can get them in clear or red and they do not cost that much and as much as you pay for the shoes themselves it is worth a few extra dollars to protect them….
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

I got nuttin but love for you baby
I got nuttin but love for you honey…
kahmmillion

@ lovezoe says:

My mom doesn’t agree with white/black relationships because she believes ALL white people are racist deep down. She had a co-worker that was cooler than AC, but when his child brought home a black girl he was NOT a happy camper.

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I also believe that when whites are around whites…they basically say how they really feel about blacks….no matter if they are smiling in your face. People will say they are not all like that, but I do not believe it. I’ve heard from too many black men who say, they were with white women and as soon as they get into an argument, the first thing the white girl would say is that he is an “N-word and how ghetto he is and how he is from the projects and she didn’t expect any better from him and should have listened to her parents”….also, many black women have gone through the same thing. A white person knows, the easiest way to get a black person angry is to call them the N-word. I am the only black in my firm. I’ve never worked in a firm where there were more than 5 blacks. So, I do believe they feel if they have too many of us in one place at the same time, the company will fail.
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

@TATTED

I’m sitting here jammin!
MrsMommy

lexdiamonz says:

hmmm hmmm I KNOW WHAT SORORITY YALL TALKING ABOUT TOO!!!!! (skee weee) and like those shoes we are FAR FROM CHEAP !!!!! LOL….
I notice alot of people scuff the soles of their christian louboutin’s sandy when tamar and trina skype in tell them to tell Toni (LOL) to just take them to a cobbler and get the sole protecters you can get them in clear or red and they do not cost that much and as much as you pay for the shoes themselves it is worth a few extra dollars to protect them….
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Chile, you do know that these folks don’t be buying most of their clothes, don’t you?

These people get free stuff all the time just for being RICH AND FAMOUS. So, they don’t be caring about going down to no corner sto’ to get they shoes glazed.
JMO

kahmmillion says:

@ JMO says:

kahmmillion says:

All the red bottom is almost gone off of Toni’s shoes. She getting her money’s worth out of those LVs.
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I am not feeling those shoes . I don’t care who designed them. I would only wear them on Christmas
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lol. You know fools buy the name, not the shoe. Them ishts are ugly though. Hate the color…hate the shoe. Nah, that’s not going to work on Christmas either.
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I agree
kahmmillion

@MrsMommy says:

kahmmillion says:

@ MrsMommy says:
People like Toni get introduced to men with lots of wealth and from diverse cultures.
But for me, it’s always gonna be black or brown men. I always figured that I hit the lottery as far as the culture and race I was born into.
Black people (when they got their sht together) are some of the most loveliest and sexiest creatures on God’s green earth.
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I know that’s right. I’m sticking with my black/brown men as well. I just can’t bring my brain to going out of my race. Honestly, I tried it once, went out to dinner with him….I didn’t even eat,

“I just got up and told him this is not going to work out and left. I love my people too much.”
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DAMN, cuz, that’s cold…….Were you giving him the side-eye the entire 3 minutes you were there? Or did you run, gagging from the table?

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I was kind of giving him and everyone else the side eye. My palms were sweaty….I just wasn’t comfortable. I just wasn’t feeling it at all. It was not my cup of tea.

There are a lot of good black men out here (pretty hard to find, but there are) and I don’t see the need to go chase another race.
MrsMommy

kahmmillion says:

@ lovezoe says:
My mom doesn’t agree with white/black relationships because she believes ALL white people are racist deep down. She had a co-worker that was cooler than AC, but when his child brought home a black girl he was NOT a happy camper.
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I also believe that when whites are around whites…they basically say how they really feel about blacks….no matter if they are smiling in your face. People will say they are not all like that, but I do not believe it. I’ve heard from too many black men who say, they were with white women and as soon as they get into an argument, the first thing the white girl would say is that he is an “N-word and how ghetto he is and how he is from the projects and she didn’t expect any better from him and should have listened to her parents”….also, many black women have gone through the same thing. A white person knows, the easiest way to get a black person angry is to call them the N-word. I am the only black in my firm. I’ve never worked in a firm where there were more than 5 blacks. So, I do believe they feel if they have too many of us in one place at the same time, the company will fail.
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I’ve seen this even with white people who have “black” biological kids.

Because of the society and world we live in, there is always a tape playing in our heads that white is always right.

For instance, a pitiful white person is simply just a person who makes mistakes, whereas a pitiful black person is subhuman or a danger to society.
http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

Black people have just as much barely hidden hate for other races sooo…
Ty

I thought she was dating Terrence J? Why is that everyone that wears red bottoms have to sit with their feet in the air or make sure that everyone sees the bottom of their shoes? I know they want people to know they spent a grip on those bulky azz shoes but damn we get it.

I love the color though
MrsMommy

YSoSerious says:

Black people have just as much barely hidden hate for other races sooo…
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I wonder why…………
kahmmillion

@MrsMommy says:

YSoSerious says:

Black people have just as much barely hidden hate for other races sooo…
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I wonder why…………

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They get it from me like they give it
flsun99

I did revengeful things too in the past…..so glad I’ve grown.

Go head Toni and play in the snow; nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we (sistahs) limit ourselves in the dating department, we need to be venture out and try new things…or people! If I ever were to get a divorce, I would date someone from another culture or ethnic background. There is a whyte guy at my job who I had to pleasure of working with ” on a few projects a few years ago, that I would give it too real quick….if I were unmarried or into cheating. He’s fine azz hail!!
***Lord forgive me for my lustful thoughts.***
caligirl

MrsMommy says:

kahmmillion says:

@ lovezoe says:
….but when his child brought home a black girl he was NOT a happy camper.
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….also, many black women have gone through the same thing. A white person knows, the easiest way to get a black person angry is to call them the N-word. I am the only black in my firm. I’ve never worked in a firm where there were more than 5 blacks. So, I do believe they feel if they have too many of us in one place at the same time, the company will fail.
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I’ve seen this even with white people who have “black” biological kids.

Because of the society and world we live in, there is always a tape playing in our heads that white is always right.

For instance, a pitiful white person is simply just a person who makes mistakes, whereas a pitiful black person is subhuman or a danger to society.
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I agree with you 100% I have white and black friends who married opposite races, they both failed. This is not to say they all do. In both instances, it was some type of race related issue. With the ex or grandparents.

Grandma use to say, STAY with your own kind. You’d be better off.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

It may have been just me that felt this way, but her comment made me slightly uncomfortable. How would it sound if there was a white woman up there saying she decided to start playing in chocolate or dirt (in comparison to snow being on the ground)? How would that sound? I don’t think she sounded very classy saying what she said…
caligirl

flsun99 says:

I did revengeful things too in the past…..so glad I’ve grown.
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I’m too thankful for growth and leaving dummb arse men alone!
OutsidetheBox

Yes, I date white too. Even Asian.
caligirl

at FeFe – Oh my, playing in the dirt. Would not go over well at ALL!
kahmmillion

@caligirl says:

MrsMommy says:

kahmmillion says:

@ lovezoe says:
….but when his child brought home a black girl he was NOT a happy camper.
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….also, many black women have gone through the same thing. A white person knows, the easiest way to get a black person angry is to call them the N-word. I am the only black in my firm. I’ve never worked in a firm where there were more than 5 blacks. So, I do believe they feel if they have too many of us in one place at the same time, the company will fail.
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I’ve seen this even with white people who have “black” biological kids.

Because of the society and world we live in, there is always a tape playing in our heads that white is always right.

For instance, a pitiful white person is simply just a person who makes mistakes, whereas a pitiful black person is subhuman or a danger to society.
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I agree with you 100% I have white and black friends who married opposite races, they both failed. This is not to say they all do. In both instances, it was some type of race related issue. With the ex or grandparents.

Grandma use to say, STAY with your own kind. You’d be better off.

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Your grandma is correct. I just don’t feel like a white man could ever really understand my struggles or understand what I do through on a daily basis.
caligirl

at OutsidetheBox of course you do….you are OUTSIDE THE BOX. corny I know.
iCandy86

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I’m JUST seeing this post, and it JUST made my whole day worthwhile Man Toni, Toni, Toni She makes my heart go pitty pat *sigh*
pointhimout

@121, it’s funny you say that. i thought about race when i heard tom joyner call the older judge on DWTS “a queen.”

I say this to say I believe we all have some type prejudice and aren’t as open or receptive as we’d like to think. we tolerate, but we’re not receptive or open to much.

I dont care for jamaicans, especially the guys. some of their traits can be found in every other race or culture, but they seem to have won the gold medal and pulitzer prizes on some of the schit they do. I work with one and wanna punch the phuck outta of em every time I see them. I then ask, wow, is this how racist yt’s look at us? whatever, it’s how I feel, but i TOLERATE them.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

@caligirl

Yeah, I think she could have been a bit more “together” with that chit…

I’ve openly dated white men before and I’d do it again, my husband is black but I don’t discriminate when I date…Toni ain’t the first chick to go there and she won’t be the last, so her “revelation” was silly to me…
pointhimout

and yeah, she could’ve saved the “playing in the snow” nonsense. that’s offensive. black folks will have no references to chipmunks, monkeys, darkey, or nothing else. so i’m not sure why it’s so easy for some of us to do it to other races like it’s ok. yeah, what she said is offensive.
MrsMommy

pointhimout says:

@121, it’s funny you say that. i thought about race when i heard tom joyner call the older judge on DWTS “a queen.”
I say this to say I believe we all have some type prejudice and aren’t as open or receptive as we’d like to think. we tolerate, but we’re not receptive or open to much.

I dont care for jamaicans, especially the guys. some of their traits can be found in every other race or culture, but they seem to have won the gold medal and pulitzer prizes on some of the schit they do. I work with one and wanna punch the phuck outta of em every time I see them. I then ask, wow, is this how racist yt’s look at us? whatever, it’s how I feel, but i TOLERATE them.
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YES, but why do you have to reference white people when something pertains to black or brown people—–like you are their messenger on earth or something?

Why can’t you just call out bad behavior on it’s own negative merits? Why must you consult the White Pages or the local ku klux klan when you see a niccra doing something bad?
MrsMommy

pointhimout says:

and yeah, she could’ve saved the “playing in the snow” nonsense. that’s offensive. black folks will have no references to chipmunks, monkeys, darkey, or nothing else. so i’m not sure why it’s so easy for some of us to do it to other races like it’s ok. yeah, what she said is offensive.
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White and snow is associated with purity in most anglo societies.

Please tell us how snow equates with calling someone a chipmunk, monkey, or darky. By the way, once upon a time black people were call n-word or darky in lieu of their God-given names or personhood.
kahmmillion

@MrsMommy says:

pointhimout says:

and yeah, she could’ve saved the “playing in the snow” nonsense. that’s offensive. black folks will have no references to chipmunks, monkeys, darkey, or nothing else. so i’m not sure why it’s so easy for some of us to do it to other races like it’s ok. yeah, what she said is offensive.
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White and snow is associated with purity in most anglo societies.

Please tell us how snow equates with calling someone a chipmunk, monkey, or darky. By the way, once upon a time black people were call n-word or darky in lieu of their God-given names or personhood.

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That is all.
100% usa made!

I don’t see nothin wrong with a little creME in my coffee. Do you Toni! I ain’t mad at cha :wave:
pointhimout

@mrsmommy, what r u talking about? I’m not sure if you’re generally speaking or asking me a question. In my post, I said i wondered if this is I how yt’s look at us. In no way was that to say I refernece or seek approval, or channelling white folks.

you know black folks will get pissed if you reference us looking like or being anything but black. so to your point of saying “snow,” it’s the same thing. if he’s white, say he’s white, since it’s of significance to you (toni). if the peson is black, just say they’re black, no references to any objects, animals, or things needed. my point, which I thought was clear, apparently not, is that black people will raise all kinds of hell if you compare or reference us to anything other than human.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

you know black folks will get pissed if you reference us looking like or being anything but black. so to your point of saying “snow,” it’s the same thing. if he’s white, say he’s white, since it’s of significance to you (toni). if the peson is black, just say they’re black, no references to any objects, animals, or things needed. my point, which I thought was clear, apparently not, is that black people will raise all kinds of hell if you compare or reference us to anything other than human.
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EXACTLY! And this is why I said what I said…and just because their ignorance prevailed and was accepted at one time doesn’t mean we have to continue it on and MAKE them adjust to the chit…ignorance is ignorance no matter who it’s coming from…
pointhimout

@Fefe THANKS DOLL.

I had to re-read what I posted three times to see what I was missing.
alabasterboi

NaijaGal says:

Should white people be offended by the term snow

im not call me the snowman!!! lmao
MrsMommy

FeFe says:

“……my point, which I thought was clear, apparently not, is that black people will raise all kinds of hell if you compare or reference us to anything other than human.”
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And you have a problem with this why?
MrsMommy

kahmmillion says:

@MrsMommy says:
pointhimout says:
and yeah, she could’ve saved the “playing in the snow” nonsense. that’s offensive. black folks will have no references to chipmunks, monkeys, darkey, or nothing else. so i’m not sure why it’s so easy for some of us to do it to other races like it’s ok. yeah, what she said is offensive.
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White and snow is associated with purity in most anglo societies.
Please tell us how snow equates with calling someone a chipmunk, monkey, or darky. By the way, once upon a time black people were call n-word or darky in lieu of their God-given names or personhood.
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That is all.
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Note that this point was never honestly addressed.
Daisy

@point Toni wasn’t above signing her name to the dotted line w/her sisters to get a show nor was she above them when she was promoting it last season. Toni needs to be droppin a cd while the show is hot and current IMO.

The only thing I wanna do w/snow is make snow cream…wait that didn’t come out right #teamblacklove
pointhimout

tu che, daisy. ur right, but I think she did it FOR them, she didn’t need the press. who knows?

Mrs, we can agree to disagree. I still dont care for Jamaicans, and referring to ya lover as anything but man or woman is ridiculous. A lot of black folks are offended when it affects us or done to us, but dont see the big deal when it’s another race (that we do the same thing to, case in point Toni). I aint one of those blacks.

We’re all different. It’s cool.
Daisy

@Point Since when doesnt Toni need the press? What was she doing before the show…I’ll wait and I like Toni and want to see her comeback on the music side.