A well-known author has written a book proving that men are pre-wired to cheat because they like sex — even though they love their wives or girlfriends.
Professor Eric Anderson’s book The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and The Reality of Cheating, details a study that he conducted using 120 college students. Anderson found that cheating is the norm for men, not the exception.
In the study, Anderson found that 78% of the male participants cheated on their wives or girlfriends — even though they loved their partners and did not want to break up.
In an interview with The Huffington Post, Anderson states that “infidelity does not break marriages up; it is the unreasonable expectation that a marriage must restrict sex that breaks a marriage up.”
In other words, it’s not the cheating that breaks up marriages, it’s women’s unrealistic expectations that a man should have sex with only one woman.
In order to preserve human existence, man must be fruitful (highly productive) and sow the seeds of future generations. This can not be achieved if 90% of men are married monogamously to a single woman and each couple bears an average of 2.5 children.
If men were not more sexually productive, the human species would cease to exist due to the effects of disease, deaths, old age, etc. Not to mention the deformities from inbreeding (incest between blood relatives).
Millions of years ago, the human lifespan was much shorter than it is today. But the rules of Evolution still apply even though women selfishly and stubbornly cling to the narcissistic notion that they “own” their men. Human beings are not born to be owned. And neither are we born to be monogamous.
Over the years women have grown to accept the fact that men are born to cheat.
Actress Goldie Hawn has been in a relationship with actor Kurt Russell for 27 years. Goldie believes that infidelity is in a man’s nature.
“I don’t believe we own anybody,” the actress said in a Vanity Fair interview. “I don’t think Kurt sexually only has eyes for me…The reality of him going out, of traveling, of seeing a woman—I think it’s kind of unnatural not to have those tendencies,”Adds Kurt, “Men are not suppose to see one woman and only desire one woman…that’s just science. If the species doesn’t mutate, it’ll die…This is a man. That is what he is on earth for.” Source
In some cultures infidelity and polygamy are accepted ways of life. In those cultures men bear children with multiple women the way it was originally intended to be.
Dr. Anderson maintains that women should allow their men to stray without subjecting them to any of the highly emotional guilt trips that women are famous for.
Many of you women will discuss Dr. Anderson’s study as foolishness. But that won’t stop your man from looking at other women, or desiring them sexually.