Dennis Byron of Hiphopenquirer.com has the full details of Judge Bensonetta Tipton-Lane's explosive final decision in the hotly contested Raymond vs Raymond child custody case.

The 33-year-old singer and his ex-wife Tameka Foster-Raymond were locked in a bitter public battle for their 2 boys. Each side accused the other of being negligent parents. Usher accused Foster-Raymond of being unfit and mentally unstable. While Foster-Raymond accused Usher Raymond of abusing drugs around their children.

In the end the judge decided Usher Raymond was the better unfit parent -- but parents would continue to share joint custody.

Tameka Foster-Raymond plans to appeal the judge's custody decision, according to gossip website TMZ.com. Tameka tells TMZ the ruling was "unfair" and she thinks the judge's connection with Usher's attorneys may have influenced the judge's decision.

In court documents obtained by HipHopEnquirer.com, the judge determined that Tameka and Usher would continue to share joint custody.

The judge set forth the visitation schedule as follows: "The mother shall have the children every First, Third, and Fifth weekend..." The judge gave Usher control of "all matters concerning the children, including but not limited to education, religion, extracurricular activities, health and mental well-being, but but he shall first discuss any major decisions" with Foster-Raymond.

The only difference in the child custody arrangements set forth in 2009 is that the tables have turned and Raymond is now in control of the boys. Although Foster-Raymond gets liberal time with her sons, she must arrange those times with her ex-husband. The judge's order states that Foster-Raymond will not be forced to travel to visit her sons (since her funds are limited).

According to court documents, Raymond and Foster-Raymond must provide each other with full contact information, including any alias that they may use when checking into hotels. Usher Raymond retains possession of the children's passports. But if Foster-Raymond needs to travel out of the country with the boys, Raymond must turn over the passports to her "7 days prior to her departure date."

The judges order stipulates that Usher Raymond and Foster-Raymond meet monthly with a "co-parenting coordinator" whose purpose will be to help plot an educational plan for the children. In addition, USher Raymond must pay Foster-Raymond a "lump sum" for nanny costs (since Tameka's funds are limited).

Another hearing is scheduled for September 11 in the Fulton County Courthouse.

READ THE FULL COVERAGE ON THE CASE


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    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I just reading about this :tea:

    • lovezoe

      So sad. Everybody want control. I am not saying either party is innocent, but I'on like Usher. Notice how his video came out Saturday. :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      :tea:

    • Kcg80

      Are Tameka's funds limited? :tea:

    • Trendsetter

      Good Morning Jenie and Love :waves:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      lovezoe says:

      So sad. Everybody want control. I am not saying either party is innocent, but I’on like Usher. Notice how his video came out Saturday.
      ______________________
      Hmph you noticed that too :tea: I pray for these kids, because both parents are a damn mess smh :no:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Morning Trend :hug:

    • lovezoe

      Trend :waves:

      Jenie- Hmph indeed. Like I said, I don't Tameka an angel, but to ME Usher is bout as clear as mud.

    • Milky

      Good Morning All. They should have kept this out of the public eye and agreed on joint custody. Neither one of them come out looking good in this situation at all.

    • http://amarieadhis.wordpress.com/ Annemarie

      I really don't get why two grown people need the direction of a court to help them decide on what's best for THEIR children... Just a hot, nasty and sad mess. These two need to do better for the kids.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Good Morning Roses
      :hi: Jenie/Trend

      :yawn:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Good Morning Roses
      :hi: Jenie/Trend

      :yawn:

    • sassyshe

      I really dont see the big changes in the agreement except that now he can take them out of state to live, he dont have to ask her permission to take them anywhere and he dont have to deal with her to see them. Honestly if anyone read the original agreement, it was as though Meka was a paid nanny because all final decision making originally went to Ush, which is the same as now. The man now just has the standard agreement that all men in GA who get physical custody of their kids have

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      lovezoe says:

      Trend :waves:

      Jenie- Hmph indeed. Like I said, I don’t Tameka an angel, but to ME Usher is bout as clear as mud.
      ___________________

      Usher yep :tea: Tameka a damn hot azz mess too, but Karma gets ya every time :nono: Usher day coming too :no:

    • Trendsetter

      Good Morning Luvn :hug:

    • sassyshe

      Milky says:

      Good Morning All. They should have kept this out of the public eye and agreed on joint custody. Neither one of them come out looking good in this situation at all.

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------
      :cosign:

      Keep telling people about family court - child support and custody arrangements. Jeez Meka was better off having me to represent her at least I got what the courts look at and now she stuck with a huge lagal bill.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      lovezoe says:

      So sad. Everybody want control. I am not saying either party is innocent, but I’on like Usher. Notice how his video came out Saturday
      ________
      I understand what you are saying, but he has manager and "we" know that in showbusiness publicity good or bad sells. :shrug:

      He's always gonna be frowned upon, because people feel it's unnatural for a dad to have full custody of their children. In my opionion I really don't think it's about money for HIM. He's been working since he was like 12, he's PAID. If you have EVER been a custody issue, it can get nasty and yes, money does and will play in how folks act. Especially if you are on the end that will loose money. I respect the fact he fought for his kids, it's easier to walk away and send a check. That's what most dads that don't give two shiats do....

    • sassyshe

      On another note morning all :waves:

      countdown to vacay - three more days :yahoo:. I need to get outta here asap

    • prynsexxx

      Morning EVERYBODY! :hi:

      Am I the ONLY ONE that has given THIS custody case any type of concern? Custody cases come a dime a dozen. I don't know who's wrong and who's right. So I don't feel one way or the other about Usher (n)OR Tameka. And as far as the new video being released...what video, for what song? :shrug:

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      this stuff is just stupid, i will be embarrassed if yt folks got to tell me how to raise my kids, who and when i got to report to somebody, send me a so call "in the middle man", cause im to dumb and stupid to handle my own affairs, just dumb as hell. I can't with this raymond / plus raymond they digust me as humans :kona:

    • NaijaGal

      Morning Folks :waves:
      ready to put this issue at rest...anything exciting over the weekend?

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: @ cali
      . I respect the fact he fought for his kids, it’s easier to walk away and send a check <---- I agree"

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Morning Luvn, Cali, Creamy, pryn, Sassy :waves:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Naija :waves:

    • FuturedocDonte

      mama's crazy and daddy likes nose candy. Just enough family dysfunction to make the boys normal :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      Luvnlife - Morn bew :hug: Who is that in the photo?

    • NaijaGal

      PRYNN - your thoughts on the latest episode of Awkward

    • NaijaGal

      JENIE :hug:

    • luVn_liFe…

      NaijaGal says
      Morning Folks
      ready to put this issue at rest…anything exciting over the weekend?
      :wave: Naija . . . ^ ^^ ^ ^^ ^^
      Agree
      The most excitement i Had was watching Tropical Storm Isacc DO NOThing Other than get my hopes up for a Monday off :mad: StoopidO media!

    • sassyshe

      NaijaGal says:

      Morning Folks
      ready to put this issue at rest…anything exciting over the weekend?

      ------------------------------------------------------------------------
      Sandra was going off on some chick on Twitter yesterday but it had me scratching my head because I couldnt figure out why. Other than that just waiting for the reunion tonight

    • prynsexxx

      Creamy says:

      , i will be embarrassed if yt folks got to tell me how to raise my kids,
      __________________________________

      I don't think the name Benihana Lipton-Tea, 'scuse me Beano, oops I mean Bensonetta Tryptophan, ah hell the judge on THIS case is YT. IJS. Carry on. :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Cali thats my son when he was 2 and i was so in :love: with him :| Not so much Now

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      luVn_liFe... says:

      @ cali
      . I respect the fact he fought for his kids, it’s easier to walk away and send a check <—- I agree
      _______________
      Me and my ex-husband went back and forth for 5 years. It was all about money! FOR HIM!

    • ThatgirlJD

      Sandra,
      Can we please get a post about Kanye West controlling behavior and why he seams so small and insignificant with Kim Kardashian?

    • Native New Yorker

      Good morning everyone. I think both parents are messy and both were pulling out all stops n fighting tooth and nail for their children. Why is Usher so much more horrible than Tameka because he had the resources to put up a better fight? Obviously HE saw or felt something about her parenting skills that made him feel the need to have primary custody of his boys. Why is he wrong for using the courts for what they're for? Should he have continued to go back n forth with a scorned bitter ex who refused to move on? I mean why is she still using his last name? N the way she puts her business on twitter is ridiculous. Sometimes all u have to do is give someone enough rope to hang themselves and in this case it seems like all Ursh did was kick the chair out from under her.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: prynn/Sassyshe/Future Doc;Future how was your Bday Weekend? #nosey

    • sassyshe

      32 luVn_liFe... says:

      Cali thats my son when he was 2 and i was so in with him Not so much Now

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------
      That's a cutie

    • free

      In the end the judge decided Usher Raymond was the better unfit parent — but parents would continue to share joint custody

      *************************

      :rofl:

    • prynsexxx

      @Naija

      It was funny as usual. I can't wait for the next one.

    • lovezoe

      NAIJA- Boring weekend. I did try a new recipe and it was really good. Other than that, nothing at all. Church yesterday. Got some cupcakes, coulda made my own for cheaper and better.

    • NaijaGal

      sassyshe says:

      Sandra was going off on some chick on Twitter yesterday but it had me scratching my head because I couldnt figure out why. Other than that just waiting for the reunion tonight
      ==================
      girl why am I ready with popcorn for this messy reunion tonigh :lol: I want to see Rasheeda show out even though she wouldn't on the actual show

      LUVN - :hug: your son not off to college yet?

    • luVn_liFe…

      good Murrning Native New Yorker :hi: I agree with you 100!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @luvn - LMBO. Today was my son's first day of high school and I'm not even home. #dont judge

      I haven't been on vacation in over a year, this was the first available oppournity, since I've been spending most of my down time, having surgery. However, we hanging out in the hotel because Mr. Issac is controlling my vacation :sad:

    • GAGIRL87

      This is a mutherphucking shame :no: IN THAT ORDER!!!!

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      it was a time black people was strong, took care of they kids, never went to ANY system for help, they manage, feed, nurture, loved, disciplin a well brought up family in a great family home from generations to generations these punk ass parents now make me sick :vomit:

    • sassyshe

      @Naji from the clips the showed, K Michelle was coming off as real crazy screaming at people while they talking.

    • NaijaGal

      LUV N - your son could've been a DeBarge
      :whistle:

      To the beat of the rhythm of the night
      Dance until the morning light
      Forget about the worries on your mind
      You can leave them all behind
      To the beat of the rhythm of the night
      Oh the rhythm of the night oh

    • luVn_liFe…

      SassyShe Thank you and yes he WAS Cute there :lol:

      Naija gurrrl.... he went and left the damn school,his behind is Back home and started Community college :shrug: he's a jackA$$

    • lovezoe

      The reunion will be must see. Must see. I just want to see Scrappy proposing, because I just can't figure out why she with him. Oh and Tiny and TI come back on next week. #ratchet is the new VH1

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      sassyshe says:

      Sandra was going off on some chick on Twitter yesterday but it had me scratching my head because I couldnt figure out why. Other than that just waiting for the reunion tonight
      ==================
      girl why am I ready with popcorn for this messy reunion tonigh :lol: I want to see Rasheeda show out even though she wouldn’t on the actual show

      LUVN – :hug: your son not off to college yet?
      _________________________

      :stop: The reunion show comes on tonight, haven't seen a preview for it :thinking:

    • GAGIRL87

      Wait :stop: the reunion coming on tonight?

      Hey EVERYBODY :waves: :hug:

      Jenie :yahoo:

    • NaijaGal

      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      it was a time black people was strong, took care of they kids, never went to ANY system for help, they manage, feed, nurture, loved, disciplin a well brought up family in a great family home from generations to generations these punk ass parents now make me sick
      ========================
      back then black men left their families too...I read what your're saying but let's not act like parents weren't just as trifling back then too

    • GAGIRL87

      45

      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      it was a time black people was strong, took care of they kids, never went to ANY system for help, they manage, feed, nurture, loved, disciplin a well brought up family in a great family home from generations to generations these punk ass parents now make me sick
      _____________________________________________________________________

      :cosign:

    • NaijaGal

      JENIE , GAGIRL - :yes: tonight is Part I, next Monday is Part II

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      GAGIRL come here (sits up in your lap! :kiss:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Naija :hahaha: ---->your son could’ve been a DeBarge

      @Cali where are you for Vacay..Im NOT Judging you one bit,do you Cause i have experienced first hand,In the end with some of these Ungrateful Bastid PhuckTerds you Think,Dayum i should have worried about me MORE!!
      :cheers: to you

    • lovezoe

      Anyone read about Ocho allegedly paying this booty model rent and then stopped when he couldn't pay his own?

    • GAGIRL87

      :offtopic: So ummm I bought K Michelle single "Kiss My A$$" on itunes and have been bumping that chit extra HARD!!! :ashamed:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      JENIE , GAGIRL – :yes: tonight is Part I, next Monday is Part II
      ______________

      Awww shat now :popcorn: thanks for the reminder :thumbsup:

    • NaijaGal

      *wonder what would happen if God made all the 'ain't chit' nigguhs disappear*

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      :rofl: so Auntie u saying her funds r limited huh? :rofl:
      gm SR & ROSES :waves: <---i love NY graphic tee

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @lunvlife - Unless something changes, according my current bank statment he is slated to start community college unless he get a track scholarship.

      It don't make no sense to go to a 4 year school. Community college has really changed and matter of fact, after you finish your first two years for less than 6000 dollars you automatically transition to a 4 year school in VA and MD.

    • GAGIRL87

      57

      lovezoe says:

      Anyone read about Ocho allegedly paying this booty model rent and then stopped when he couldn’t pay his own?

      ____________________________________________________________________

      Don't know why this made me chuckle :rofl: It's every man for himself :shrugs:

    • NaijaGal

      lovezoe says:

      Anyone read about Ocho allegedly paying this booty model rent and then stopped when he couldn’t pay his own?
      ==================
      I did...then I saw her pic :huh:

    • Trendsetter

      ThatgirlJD says:

      Sandra,
      Can we please get a post about Kanye West controlling behavior and why he seams so small and insignificant with Kim Kardashian?

      _____________________________________

      I heard that he told Kim to get rid of her wardrobe and he will provide her with a new one....rumor has it, he doesn't like the way she dress/dressed

    • NaijaGal

      FAYLA :hug: *patiently waits for my t-shirt in the mail* how was NY? you have fun? what yall do besides :hump:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: GaGaGirl
      :happy: Fay . . Are you back??

      NaijaGal says:
      *wonder what would happen if God made all the ‘ain’t chit’ nigguhs disappear*
      :dead: ^ ^^ ^ ^^

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      NaijaGal says:

      sassyshe says:

      Sandra was going off on some chick on Twitter yesterday but it had me scratching my head because I couldnt figure out why. Other than that just waiting for the reunion tonight
      ==================
      girl why am I ready with popcorn for this messy reunion tonigh :lol: I want to see Rasheeda show out even though she wouldn’t on the actual show

      LUVN – :hug: your son not off to college yet?
      _________________________

      :stop: The reunion show comes on tonight, haven’t seen a preview for it :thinking:
      ------------------

      I don't think they are showing it tonight...they need to come one with it though...

      Where are the previews?

    • Trendsetter

      GAGIRL87 says:

      So ummm I bought K Michelle single “Kiss My A$$” on itunes and have been bumping that chit extra HARD!!!
      __________________________________

      i listen to it on youtube everyday....lol

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      @NaNjiGAL Im speaking of a foundation yes I know we had issues since beginning of time, but since we have been bambozzled by the media, this t.v, Radio, etc, parents today have beacame weaker, in a sense. its hard to find a solid strong family nowadays, back in the 1860-1930's u had this, I wish it can get back to this. i know its a long shot. but hey i can wish,

    • lovezoe

      NAIJA- I am like if you gone cheat, at least upgrade geez. Now she on Twitter acting innocent.

    • Trendsetter

      Morning Naija and GAGIRL :hi:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

      #doublestandards

      She Wins... "Get your paper booboo...good for you girl"

      He Wins ... "Why he take her kids from her,...didn't she just lose a child..he heartless for this"

      :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      Ace says:

      #doublestandards

      She Wins… “Get your paper booboo…good for you girl”

      He Wins … “Why he take her kids from her,…didn’t she just lose a child..he heartless for this”

      _________________________________

      so true....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @Lun- We are now in Coral Gables, we were in the Keys headed to the Bahmamas, but Mr. Issac changed those plans :cry: We will be here until Tues and head to MIA, as Mista has a meeting on Wed and Thur and will stay through the week-end....

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      oh and morning Family :waves: errbody, jeni, naija, love, Gagirl, trend, luv'n, Fayla :yahoo: unsual and all i missed :love:

    • NaijaGal

      TREND :hi:

      @BNATURAL - it comes on tonight...I saw the preview yesterday...showed K telling Karlie she looked like she belonged in thriller

    • cheeks8683

      Question: Did Meka go through all this trouble with her other kids? Her aunt testified against her saying that she kept her older children every weekend of their life as she chased her dream of a fast-paced lifestyle correct?

      Good Morning fam :wave:

    • NaijaGal

      @BROWN :fistbump: I totally get you

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      Hey Ace :kiss:

      Fayla - I'm in your rainy state :mad:

    • Trendsetter

      Well on vh1 website it says that it's a new episode tonight and you chat live with cast

    • Native New Yorker

      Creamy its true but over time we became more dependant on help because it became more available. There weren't as many resources and opportunities at one point in time. So being strong and independant wasnt a choice. And as more fathers started to leave the home and mothers had to work two and three jobs with little or no education what should have been used as help began to morph into a way of life for some. Ever heard of sins of the mother/father? But even tho as a whole our dependance on outside help has run rampant,there are some cases where outside help is needed bcuz trying things on their own only creates more drama. This may be one of those cases.

    • Trendsetter

      Morning Creamy :waves:

    • NaijaGal

      cheeks8683 says:

      Question: Did Meka go through all this trouble with her other kids? Her aunt testified against her saying that she kept her older children every weekend of their life as she chased her dream of a fast-paced lifestyle correct?
      ==============
      Meka wasn't previously married to Usher...one thing I've never heard about her being was a bad mother...stank attitude, yes...bad parent no...you do anything exciting this weekend though

    • sassyshe

      bnatural says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      NaijaGal says:

      sassyshe says:

      Sandra was going off on some chick on Twitter yesterday but it had me scratching my head because I couldnt figure out why. Other than that just waiting for the reunion tonight
      ==================
      girl why am I ready with popcorn for this messy reunion tonigh I want to see Rasheeda show out even though she wouldn’t on the actual show

      LUVN – your son not off to college yet?
      _________________________

      The reunion show comes on tonight, haven’t seen a preview for it
      ——————

      I don’t think they are showing it tonight…they need to come one with it though…

      Where are the previews?

      ------------------------------------------------------------------------
      It is they were advertising it last night. I am convinced that Mona thinks she is a cross between Oprah and M Night Shaylaman

    • free

      Ace says:

      #doublestandards

      She Wins… “Get your paper booboo…good for you girl”

      He Wins … “Why he take her kids from her,…didn’t she just lose a child..he heartless for this”

      ***************************

      i think it's really a shame that both parents don't AUTOMATICALLY have certain rights. the fact that a man has to go to court to even get joint custody is kinda sad. unfortunately, most men don't have the $$$$ to fight the system or there would probably far more men with more rights and women wouldn't FREAK when they get it like it's the end of the world.

    • luVn_liFe…

      @Cali It don’t make no sense to go to a 4 year school. Community college has really changed and matter of fact, after you finish your first two years for less than 6000 dollars you
      Here to in FL -----> automatically transition to a 4 year school in VA and MD.

      Yes its WAY cheaper/Economical to do it that way I Have NO Issues with that,But he was hell Bent on going to this university,we spent alot of time touring it,CPT,registration,Put a room/key deposit on his Dorm room that unrefundable.Buying Crazy stuff for his dorm. . . Then he just didnt want to go. :wtf: its been a dayum Nightmare with this Whole college situation w/Him.I almost wrote his Behind off for all the stress/Energy/Drama/and Money he has caused me For NOTHING!! :mad:

      But at this Point its all water under the Bridge\he's enrolled/Attending comm.college :shrug: what are you gonna do

    • NaijaGal

      Ace says:

      #doublestandards

      She Wins… “Get your paper booboo…good for you girl”

      He Wins … “Why he take her kids from her,…didn’t she just lose a child..he heartless for this”
      ==============================
      I actually saw the opposite on this board

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

      @UPS

      :hug:

    • sassyshe

      lovezoe says:

      NAIJA- I am like if you gone cheat, at least upgrade geez. Now she on Twitter acting innocent.

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------
      Ocho wins for having the worst looking side pieces ever

    • NaijaGal

      free says:

      i think it’s really a shame that both parents don’t AUTOMATICALLY have certain rights. the fact that a man has to go to court to even get joint custody is kinda sad. unfortunately, most men don’t have the $$$$ to fight the system or there would probably far more men with more rights and women wouldn’t FREAK when they get it like it’s the end of the world.
      =======================
      typically all custodial cases are joint custody with one parent being the primary residence

    • Ms.Fashion

      Morning All!!! :waves:

      All I have to say is @sandrarose write ups are hilarious!!

      Usher Raymond was the better unfit parent <----- PURE COMEDY!!!

      Better unfit parent??? Shading at its finest :lol:

    • NaijaGal

      sassyshe says:

      Ocho wins for having the worst looking side pieces ever
      ===================
      Him and Tiger might be neck in neck though :lol:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :yahoo: hey Cheeks/Brownskin Happy Monday i guess

      @Cali. . .CoralGables is nice,This storm has totally Pissed me off.Its suppose to be much better downSouth today :| I seen the Key West is flooded
      I wonder How Razzle is Doing??

    • sassyshe

      NaijaGal says:

      free says:

      i think it’s really a shame that both parents don’t AUTOMATICALLY have certain rights. the fact that a man has to go to court to even get joint custody is kinda sad. unfortunately, most men don’t have the $$$$ to fight the system or there would probably far more men with more rights and women wouldn’t FREAK when they get it like it’s the end of the world.
      =======================
      typically all custodial cases are joint custody with one parent being the primary residence

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------
      :cosign:

      Legally mother is only recognized as being the physical custodian not sole custodian as most people think. Once the father is recognized as the legal parent he has the same rights as the mother

    • NaijaGal

      FASHION :waves:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Hey MsFashion :hi: howUdoooing??

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @lunvnlife - I spent my sons' college money on a 2 bedroom condo that I rent out. #dont judge

      He can go to community college and stay there and by his jurnior year start paying half or the mortgage and when he finishes college he'll have his first house.

      So many kids, going to school and not getting jobs and living in dorms that aren't all that great.

      Well at the end of day, you put your best foot forward and did your due diglence as a mother. Community college is less expensive and the curriculum is the same. You stay winning :wink:

    • luVn_liFe…

      The recovery is as important as the surgery itself. There’s a strict no-sitting protocol. During recovery, you’ll need to sleep on your stomach and lie on your side. You cannot sleep on your back.

      You can sit on the toilet and do your necessities for five-minutes or so, but that’s about it. You will wear a compression girdle for about two-months. It’s very important to decrease the swelling and provide a smooth transition on your body.

      I typically prescribe antibiotics for seven-days and a water pill to decrease the amount of fluid retention for about three-days, and also pain medication.”
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      another site is reporting MelB had a butt lift " :shock: " here is the care after the operation :no:

    • prynsexxx

      NaijaGal says:

      sassyshe says:

      Ocho wins for having the worst looking side pieces ever
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      Him and Tiger might be neck in neck though
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      Don't forget to add Kobe and that Denver chick he turd tickled. O'an Arnold Schwezenigr (sp)....

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      brb yall lemme get my laptop set up. :pc:
      Naija that red river is MUTHA! i was sell a bit the entire time :crying: hold me bew u know im feenin!

    • luVn_liFe…

      @ Cali Well at the end of day, you put your best foot forward and did your due diglence as a mother. Community college is less expensive and the curriculum is the same. You stay winning :yes:

      #WHATEVER i told him just Be great #faceious

    • cheeks8683

      Question: Did Meka go through all this trouble with her other kids? Her aunt testified against her saying that she kept her older children every weekend of their life as she chased her dream of a fast-paced lifestyle correct?
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      Meka wasn’t previously married to Usher…one thing I’ve never heard about her being was a bad mother…stank attitude, yes…bad parent no…you do anything exciting this weekend though

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      Well....I was supposed to go to dinner and a movie on Friday night....Until the dude that asked text to see if I could cover the dinner while he paid for us to go to the movies...Ummmm not only are you wrong for asking me to pitch in the the beginning stages (I'm not above flip flopping on the bill as the relationship develops but thats later), but you are double wrong for asking me to pay the larger portion (the dinner). I told him politely not to contact me anymore and that I wasn't interested. These jokers today, I tell ya...I blame the chicks that spolied him, asking me whats wrong when I stopped texting him :rofl: . Other than that I went out of town to visit friends and had a darn good time :danban: you?

    • Ms.Fashion

      :waves: @Naija and @Luvn_Life!!!

      @Luvn- at work wondering why I am here with this storm that's about to come through.

    • free

      NaijaGal says: typically all custodial cases are joint custody with one parent being the primary residence

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      joint physical custody where the child is spending as close to equal time with each parent.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost: Pics of Trey soNgs :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      :waves: @ Fashion

      @Luv - I was ready to raise up out of the KEY and then when I say how long that ride was across that bridge I was completly done when I saw Crocdile :wtf:

      Coral Gables is nice, every other store is a bridal shop. Yesterday we spent the day at the movies until they closed early.

    • Native New Yorker

      :newpost: is up

    • luVn_liFe…

      @Cali yeah i donT Know what the Hayle the bridal shop story is there. . .Strange,No?

      YES that 7mile bridge is a trek and a half.Been meaning to get to KeyWest i want to go try this Conch Restaurant that was Featured on Triple D
      But uuumH i dont want to do that drive :|

    • GAGIRL87

      luVn_liFe give me that baby!

    • San

      This agreement don't seem bad to me. Now I wonder if she still gets child support

    • luVn_liFe…

      GaGa His Behind is 18 Now! you can have em,iM willing to sell him :lol:

    • Ms.Fashion

      Hey @USUAL!!!! :waves:

    • luVn_liFe…

      MsFashion where are you?Near where Isaccs hitting?

    • pointhimout

      :lol: usher's the better unfit parent. oh Sandra. This seems fair. Something's telling me Usher did this to prove he could.