Jay Kelly

When rapper The Game's friend passed away recently, the father of 3 stepped in to fill his friend's shoes as a father figure to the man's adolescent daughter (pictured left). More than one loyal reader emailed me pointing out the similarities between the girl and singer R.Keliy's 14-year-old daughter, Jaya Kelly aka "Jay" (pictured right), who recently came out of the closet as a 'transguy' -- a girl who thinks she is a boy.

Jay Kelly

Jay Kelly took to social media recently to explain her progression from a biological girl to a transsexual. Jay took questions from users of Ask.FM who asked about her condition, which until 2012 was classified as a mental disorder, and still should be.

Jay says she identified as a boy since the age of 6 or 7. The youngster who isn't old enough to drink or drive is taking male hormones and she plans to undergo surgery to “to help me be who i was supposed to be." By choosing to act out on her delusions, Jay ignores the science that says she's a girl. Her DNA and sex chromosomes says she's a girl, and those are facts she cannot change with medicine or surgery. Long after we are gone, our DNA will tell future generations what we are, not what we think we are.

The Gay Agenda, a political tool of the left wing media and the Obama administration, is influencing a generation of confused youngsters who can't apply for a driver's license but they can request cancer causing hormone shots and permanently alter their bodies.

The Game's daughter

Enabling children with gender disorder is like performing liposuction on anorexic children who think they are fat. Thinking does not make it so.

Gender is a social construct and can change with the wind, but your sex can not be changed. Instead of encouraging children like Jay Kelly to make dangerous, life altering decisions about their bodies, we can have empathy for her and other children with her condition.

As Sven Bocklandt, a geneticist at the UCLA School of Medicine once said, "I really believe the reason most humans are straight is the same reason that most crocodiles are straight, and the same reason most whales are straight; Nature would not leave something so important for reproduction, for the survival of the species, to coincidence."

Thanks to loyal reader R.Williams for the tip.

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    • Savannah

      Come on Sandra these kids don't look alike at all!

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      upon first looking when this story first came out, i really thought that was a lil boy, no girl in sight :(

    • Wasting time

      :facepalm:
      Why is Jay Kelly pic in the post ?!

    • Ms Peaches

      This post was just everywhere. :no:

    • CHA CHA

      NO RESEMBLANCE AT ALL :stop:

      but why cant GAME get me pregnant :hide: ...oh yeah Im married :mad:

    • deedeegirl

      I totally agree. Parents should not be encouraging kids in this kind of thing. Kids go through phases. Instead of waiting for them to mature, they're dressing little boys in pink, skirts and growing their hair long because they like to play with dolls. It's really a shame.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :huh:

      UMMMH
      WHET
      Nahhh??
      Ive read this post twice. they look alike? and then went to gay :think:
      :shrug:

    • User Friendly

      this post has too much going on :huh:

      gay on brake babies, dead friends, mental disorders, kids with shaved edges, whet? :confused:

      is this what RWilli submitted, Sandra or did you just take it and run like a game of Telephone :rofl:

    • Wasting time

      Cha Cha! Ya Gravie! You won on today !!

    • luVn_liFe…

      :eek:

      Just
      read
      a
      third
      TIME

      :kona:
      Im CONFRUZZLED

    • Jdore

      Why is Jay Kelly pic in the post ?!
      by Wasting time on Jun 23, 2014 at 10:58 am
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      :cosign: I was wondering the same thing

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      deedeegirl says:

      I totally agree. Parents should not be encouraging kids in this kind of thing. Kids go through phases. Instead of waiting for them to mature, they’re dressing little boys in pink, skirts and growing their hair long because they like to play with dolls. It’s really a shame.
      ___________________

      ^^^^^ The only one who actually read and comprehended the post.

    • sassyshe

      ...but didnt the game said thats his bio daughter????

    • CHA CHA

      I think the little biracial child is to young to have her shaved like that :shrug: I dont know but there was a little six grade girl graduating with my daughter that had her shaved on the side..
      Lil Cha Cha: Mom she's had it like that all year
      Me: Oh really now :no:, do you think its cute
      Lil Cha Cha: Nah, but it aint my hair so I dont care
      Me: The Cassie hail :nono:

    • Savannah

      Ladies would you let your young daughter get her hair cut like a dude if you thought she was gonna be a :bball: ? :kona:

    • Wasting time

      Welp
      :kona:

    • SummerBaby

      :huh:

    • LongLegged

      Here we go with this crazy "medical min"....this is just ridiculous. If you believe this crap ~ I gotta bridge to sell you in NYC.

    • LongLegged

      this has to be the most delusional bunch of responses I have ever read in my life...WOW, smh at the ignorance.

    • CHA CHA

      @Savannah...She dont even got to be a lil Young man...Too early IMO like piercings,hair dye and tattoos :shrug: I let my 14 yo shave the old school lines in his eyebrows and I even had a tough time when he asked me could he do that, he was about twelve then.

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      speakin of....am i the only one that noticed that college commercial where the guy got his wife and son on there and they asking who did you do this for and all that...and the lil son was like congratulations daddy and it was like awwww soooooo cute? ummmm, why did that SON have a hula hoop??? i thought it was a lil girl until i really looked...no bueno :no:

    • CHA CHA

      TRIED IT :rolleyes:

    • User Friendly

      Savannah says:

      Ladies would you let your young daughter get her hair cut like a dude if you thought she was gonna be :bball:
      ____________________

      some ppl wont even let their daughters play sports because they think it will turn them gay. as for the hair, its only hair. :shrugs:

      my kids being gay, ballheaded, or athletes is nothing that worries me. I want them to be good ppl, the other stuff is irrelevant to me.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      Similarities as in the way they present themselves.

      :waves: hey y'all!

    • buddapecan

      But the Game said the little girl was his "real" daughter on IG. *shrug* I agree with everything else you said tho :coffee:

    • SummerBaby

      Ladies would you let your young daughter get her hair cut like a dude
      ------------------
      Absolutely not! My kids grew up w/a girl that her mother allowed to dress like a boy & wear a haircut like a boy. We met the family when the girl was in 2nd-3rd grade she's 19 now. You know how confusing it was to other people when the youth center sports team showed up with A girl that looks like a boy.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      The little girl on the left is cute though..

      I swear R. Kelly had no part in the making of his daughter. She looks like a younger clone of her old hard assed face mammy. But she can dance her :buttshake: off though! :tea:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      :offtopic:
      dudes be saying "these heaux ain't loyal", but have a wifey, 4 side chicks, and 2 "friends", but that's none of my bizness :dead:
      ok, back to the regularly scheduled program.....

    • VDot

      gay on brake babies, dead friends, mental disorders, kids with shaved edges, whet? :confused:

      ___________________

      :lol:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      luVn_liFe says:

      Ive read this post twice. they look alike? and then went to gay :think:
      :shrug:
      __________________

      Are you pretending not to notice their masculine features?

    • luVn_liFe…

      :blink:

      Ummhh, I KNOW there were some tom-boys on this blog :ido: I was.
      when I was young all the way up until maybe middle school
      I did NOT like boys, I liked sports.
      I didn't dress girly I liked my tennis shoes, with my hurr pulled back in a pony tail.

      Now Im the most feminine person EYE KNOW and STiLL Love the hell outta sports
      FOH with the dumb dumb

    • User Friendly

      SummerBaby says:

      Ladies would you let your young daughter get her hair cut like a dude
      ——————
      Absolutely not! My kids grew up w/a girl that her mother allowed to dress like a boy & wear a haircut like a boy. We met the family when the girl was in 2nd-3rd grade she’s 19 now. You know how confusing it was to other people when the youth center sports team showed up with A girl that looks like a boy.
      _______________________

      how has it affected your kids lives to have grown up with that girl?

      :huh: so what do they do when they see Lupita, Camille Cosby or most women in chemotherapy? they are ballheaded too. :shrugs: lotta women are ballheaded.

    • ShadeQueen46

      you know what............

    • luVn_liFe…

      Are you pretending not to notice their masculine features?
      ~~~~~~~
      :facepalm:
      COME ON Sandrita! the lil girl on the left, HAS NO Masculine Features
      :blink:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun: says:

      Similarities as in the way they present themselves.
      _________________

      ^^^^ Only 3 readers in this post got it. :no:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      I guess tis due time for me to change my gravie... :tea: but before then, I have a question...

      If your S/O gave you a choice between a bigger ring and a profesional grade camera for an anniversary gift, which would you choose? I asked for one week to think on it and it's been three. :crying1: I stuck! :lol:

    • sassyshe

      @miss iyana the ring

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      :waves:

      Keep me outta this please! :kona:

    • SummerBaby

      how has it affected your kids lives to have grown up with that girl?
      -------------------
      My kids became friends w/her. The girl did grow up to be a lesbian. The biggest controversy came when the girl wanted to run for Prom King & she won :tea: my small suburban community was outraged.

    • User Friendly

      Sandra Rose says:

      Are you pretending not to notice their masculine features?
      __________________

      they say Serena looks masculine too. some ppl have athletic bodies and chiseled faces. some of them are gay, some arent.

      Aaliyah used to sag hear baggy jeans and show her boxer shorts underneath :shrugs: TLC too. :yes:

      clothes, hair, facial features dont make one gay and even if they are gay....then what?

    • aRoTh

      Sandra Rose says:

      Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes says:

      Similarities as in the way they present themselves.
      _________________

      ^^^^ Only 3 readers in this post got it.
      ______________________________________

      ....but even still, it says NOTHING about the title. :shrug: :tea:

    • sassyshe

      I cant say I disagree with parents supporting their kids through their phases - it lets them know that they can be comfortable with who they are or what to be without fear of rejection or reprocussion. I do think that drea should have wait until jay was 16 before allowing the hormone treatment; I also blame the doc for administering them to a child so long unless she had a preexisting condition that required the hormone treatment

    • luVn_liFe…

      I suppose some group will start a petition about this child's shaved head
      :smack:

    • Wasting time

      Razz
      The camera if you will use it!

    • User Friendly

      SummerBaby says:

      My kids became friends w/her. The girl did grow up to be a lesbian. The biggest controversy came when the girl wanted to run for Prom King & she won my small suburban community was outraged.
      ____________________

      well wait til your small suburban community gets a load of your gravi :shocked: you may get excommunicated, chile! :hahaha:

    • User Friendly

      The ring because thats not something you will likely buy for yourself. :yes:

      happy anniversary tho! :partyhat:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      sassyshe says:

      I cant say I disagree with parents supporting their kids through their phases – it lets them know that they can be comfortable with who they are or what to be without fear of rejection or reprocussion. I do think that drea should have wait until jay was 16 before allowing the hormone treatment; I also blame the doc for administering them to a child so long unless she had a preexisting condition that required the hormone treatment
      ___________________

      I :cosign: everything in this post!

    • VDot

      Razz - The RING!! :yes:

    • SummerBaby

      well wait til your small suburban community gets a load of your gravi you may get excommunicated, chile!
      --------------
      :hahaha: True indeed!

    • Who Dat

      Are you pretending not to notice their masculine features?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Go and Google Chastity Sun Bono as a baby, a teen, as a young woman. She looked like a bulldagger as a young woman...but not all out masculine.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      I will use the camera as a side project/job. I've wanted a particular camera for a long time, and he's always said he would upgrade the ring after we saved enough money..and I like nice things... :crying1:

      Thanks User but it's not for a couple months... I guess he's trying to set aside some cash first. :shrug:

    • Ms Peaches

      I KNOW there were some tom-boys on this blog
      ---------------------------------------------
      I was very much a tomboy. I just feel its a phase. I was from the play outside generation. So playing sports better than some of the hommys made you a little tomboyish, but that didn't stop no one from slowgrinding at the house parties.

    • CHA CHA

      The RING....I just got my upgrade and Im sooo happy

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      When you're actually trying to accomplish some work and the application you need timed out... :rolleyes:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Doctors who give these young girls male hormones shots should lose their license. There is nothing medically wrong with these kids. There's a commercial on TV soliciting anyone who received Testosterone therapy for a lawsuit. T is no joke. It is very harmful to females and is known to cause cancer. 90% of violence and rapes in the world are committed by men, and the #1 reason for all that aggression is testosterone. Google the word "detransitioning" to read the sad stories of young women who thought they were men and are now struggling to rid their bodies of the terrible effects of too much testosterone. This is the dirty secret the LGBT crowd don't want you to know about.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      So playing sports better than some of the hommys made you a little tomboyish, but that didn’t stop no one from slowgrinding at the house parties.
      ---------
      :spank: fass ass. :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Nori stil a loyal reader sending in stories huh :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZyRnPtLVyw Jerrica

      Luv I was the same way. Couldn't get me to dress up unless I was going to church and even then that was a hassel. My sister told me the other day, you dress up more than I do now. I still rock my J's though and don't come at me when football is on.

      Cha Cha :yahoo: Hey Lady!!!

    • Who Dat

      I KNOW there were some tom-boys on this blog
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Still a tomboy. On the inside. Outside not so much. I can be though Every now and again. Everybody has accepted it.

    • Wasting time

      Razz
      My boy had your gravie on IG and captioned it
      "When you don't take your doorag off for 2 decades"
      :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      I'm only on comment 10 and most of them are FOH :crying1: Y'all so ungrateful

    • OutsidetheBox

      Whaa..

    • User Friendly

      Wasting time says:

      Razz
      My boy had your gravie on IG and captioned it
      “When you don’t take your doorag off for 2 decades”
      ________________________

      :lol: so what you saying, thts wave new growth?

    • OutsidetheBox

      Not here for dis..

    • OutsidetheBox

      Ive read this post twice
      _____________

      :eek: :phew: It aint me..

    • CHA CHA

      JERRICA....runs through the rose petals to give you a GREAT BIG :hug: Hey my boo

    • Ms Peaches

      Doctors who give these young girls male hormones shots should lose their license. There is nothing medically wrong with these kids.
      --------------------------------------------------------
      :cosign:

    • User Friendly

      :hahaha: I just noticed that Obama made his way into the write up too!

      only person missing is Beyonce :rofl:

    • OutsidetheBox

      90% of violence and rapes in the world are committed by men, and the #1 reason for all that aggression is testosterone.
      ____________

      I.. but.. :facepalm:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      User Friendly says:

      :hahaha: I just noticed that Obama made his way into the write up too!

      only person missing is Beyonce :rofl:
      _______________

      :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpImj7RI0Rc Man, I just don’t care™

      @SANDRA

      Ain't no "ethics" in medicine. :no: These doctors will give you literally anything you want as long as they getting paid for it.

    • capricorn83

      This schizo ass post.... :tape:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Nawh B it aint Just yew. :hug:

      Jerrica :happy:

      whatevs though; The real story should be #55 comment,THAT PART!

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      Aww shoot Auntie sipping her tea ala Kermit style. :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpImj7RI0Rc Man, I just don’t care™

      I just noticed that Obama made his way into the write up too!

      only person missing is Beyonce
      _______________
      :rofl:

      Sandra slipping. She coulda threw in Chris Brown and Rihanna when mentioning the effects of Testorone too! :rofl:

    • Wasting time

      Wait!
      O in the write up?!?

    • OutsidetheBox

      Aaliyah used to sag hear baggy jeans and show her boxer shorts underneath :shrugs: TLC too.
      _____________

      :hahaha: gay gay gayyyyy

    • OutsidetheBox

      :hug:

      Lebron's wife tho..? :nono: Bee-oshh

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpImj7RI0Rc Man, I just don’t care™

      Aaliyah used to sag hear baggy jeans and show her boxer shorts underneath
      _____________________

      lookin sexy as a muthaphucka too.
      :coffee:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      63 User Friendly says:

      Wasting time says:

      Razz
      My boy had your gravie on IG and captioned it
      “When you don’t take your doorag off for 2 decades”
      ________________________

      so what you saying, thts wave new growth?
      -----------
      I'm saying :rofl: He must of used Murry's pomade.

    • User Friendly

      I’m saying He must of used Murry’s pomade.
      _____________________

      :fistbump: either that or royal crown. somebody is still buying it because they are dam sure still selling it in the "ethnic" aisle.

    • Wasting time

      Aaliyah used to sag hear baggy jeans and show her boxer shorts underneath :shrugs: TLC too.
      _____________

      :hahaha: gay gay gayyyyy
      =========================
      :rofl: :cosign:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpImj7RI0Rc Man, I just don’t care™

      How your sideburns got waves tho?
      :blink:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      some ppl wont even let their daughters play sports because they think it will turn them gay. as for the hair, its only hair.
      -----------
      Oh so we cutting deep with subliminals huh :blink: Just cause I told Taken9 to come byke in the house always trying to play :bball: before she end up a musty bulldagger don't mean nothing :kona:

    • User Friendly

      :lol: MisTaken you did NOT tell that baby that!

      :shocked: you didnt really, did you? I was actually talking about my friend in real life. didnt know you said that too.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :eek:

      USER

      that

      gravie

      is

      Not

      FRIENDLY
      :nono:

    • SummerBaby

      either that or royal crown. somebody is still buying it because they are dam sure still selling it in the “ethnic” aisle.
      --------------------
      :ido: We keep Murray's pomade in my house, one of my daughters' uses it for edge control.

    • User Friendly

      Luvie, its michelin-chic :nun:

      rawrrrrr :wink:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      83 Man, I just don't care™ says:

      How your sideburns got waves tho?

      ------------
      How yo sideburn waves connect to your goatee/beard? :rofl:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      User Friendly says:

      Luvie, its michelin-chic

      rawrrrrr
      --------
      Was it Kay from foolishness and funkery who said she looked like a busted can of biscuits or was it Funky Dineva? :rofl:

    • User Friendly

      "Face book has completely eliminated the need for "class's reunions". We see that bitch has 3 kids, no man, and a whole lot of stomach. I can save this outfit.."

      Dunky Fineva said this and somebody posted that pic to go with it....and then I commenced to dying :ghost:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      "British rapper Iggy Azalea,"

      :rofl:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKUg9iK7xeU Miss Iyana stay RAZZLING on you hating bishes :nun:

      ”. We see that bitch has 3 kids, no man, and a whole lot of stomach. I can save this outfit..”
      --------------
      he was entirely wrong for that bullshyt :rofl:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      @User: Well I didn’t use the word bull dagger to her face per se. What I look like? FOH :eek: I told her that she still need to carry herself and look like a little lady if she wanted to play sports and that she would KNOT be walking up in my house and around school looking tired, musty, manly and wild headed on my watch. So now she plays ball in high heels :tea:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      While I do find FD funny at times he has NO ROOM :nono: to talk about anyone looking like a reject off Ren and Stimpy with a wig on. Like how he is so entrenched in the whole M2M saga and is pro Quad and Reco Chappell cause they besties :rolleyes: I watched the DVR last night and I am ready for this season to end. It is SO lame. Grown women acting like one person is the cause for all their mess and yet they still manage to keep up mess when that person isn’t there but act like it’s no biggie. Then they wanna act like it’s all her fault because she hasn’t :bow: apologized for EVERYTHING they see wrong. I mean Reco did get in old girl’s face yelling and had to be retrained but to hear them tell it he just said hi and she is evil trying to ruin lives. And everyone else :cosign: it like it was true and hadn’t seen nothing.

    • Wasting time

      So now she plays ball in high heels :tea:

      :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      I am so tired of refreshing my screen and seeing the Kelly’s boy doorter :hide:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :goodpost: Sandra

    • User Friendly

      Wasting time says:

      So now she plays ball in high heels
      _____________________________

      ohhhhh, like Queen Latifah and Robin Roberts do. :kona:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Jenie :ghost: Cause I interpreted that my own way

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      @user: Like MC Lyte present day :hahaha:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      :newpost:

    • Wasting time

      So I just watched the say yes video and due to it being a gospel/inspirational song and visual I will :kona:

    • MisUnderstood

      Am I the only one who doesn't care? If it's not my children & doesn't affect my children, do them :shrug: