"BBOD" Mixtape release party

As you know, reality TV star Althea Heart is cooling her heels in jail for 10 days. Heart, real name Althea Eaton, was locked up on July 19 for contempt of court after she attempted to confront her baby daddy, Benzino, real name Raymond Scott, in an Atlanta courtroom.

According to blogger theJasmineBrand.com, Heart filed a Temporary Protective Order (TPO) against Benzino on June 24th.

The TPO request cited domestic violence, holding her against her will, and threatening to kidnap their infant son.

Heart cried that, without the TPO, Benzino would continue to stalk and harass her.

Benzino

theJasmineBrand.com -- On July 19th, the judge granted Althea a 12 month protective order against Benzino which lasts from July 19th 2016 to July 19th 2017. Benzino was ordered to stay 500 yards away from his finance and her newborn. Further, the order awarded Althea temporary custody of their son.

Benzino was ordered to complete a family violence intervention program and has to show proof of completion to the court by February. The judge ordered that Benzino can’t possess any firearms and the local sheriff will take possession of any weapons until the TRO expires next year.

According to court docs, following the court hearing, Althea confronted Benzino despite the judge instructing her not to communicate with him. The judge then found Althea in contempt of court and ordered her to be locked up in a Georgia jail for 10 days for civil contempt. According to official records, the reality star was arrested immediately following the hearing on the 19th and has been in jail since.

  • Hugga Bunch

    Welp.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    According to court docs, following the court hearing, Althea confronted Benzino despite the judge instructing her not to communicate with him.
    ........
    Yeah you deserve that 10 day lock up

  • Sucker Free

    Cute boots Althea

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    Everybody who comes for Jos ends up in jail. Mimi, you're next.

    Jos, share the voodoo secrets...or is it just a case of 'who God bless, no one curse'?

  • Buttercup

    Really!

  • MookieFly

    See...pure stupidity. Getting protective services does not mean you get to antagonize those you're protected against smh. Oh well. At least she can say she got her OITNB on for 10 days.

  • LabellaMior

    I'm crying real tears at the pic above...I mean who is really checking for both they tired azz??

  • Buttercup

    Neither. They are a volatile couple, but they refuse to leave each other alone. My heart goes out to the baby.

  • MoniquetheGeek

    These 2 need to break up forever and focus on co-parenting.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    How about a Joe Budden post?

  • nucynu25

    & these idiots reproduced.. Poor baby

  • yoni

    The fukk boy ass police done beat a man with Down's syndrome because they mistook his colostomy bag for a weapon.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Man. I laughed all night off of that.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Tell me you joking?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    That's what she gets.
    It don't work both ways.
    File something and abide by it.

    ??????

  • nucynu25

    +1

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    LMAO at the meme!!!! Zino has Stephanie Mill's syndrome. Those beauty supply boots though :facepalm:

  • iWasteTime

    They made the "After a Bad Car Crash" body a meme ... and gave it to Benzino.
    I mean ... lmaoooo!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Although I agreed with everything he did, it still was funny as hell ???

  • That’s Interesting

    Damn he did something. I wouldn't have pegged him as the type???

  • yoni

    Nope. Miami.

  • iWasteTime

    I don't know how to feel about that!
    Where those dumb ass kids stupid as hail YESSSS!
    Was I expecting Joe to turn around looking like he straight off a crack binge, I did NOT! !

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Those memes though.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    So she tried to get him Iocked up and got herself locked up. Tragic.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    What happened?

  • yoni

    I'm all for him fuggin them kids up. Don't run the fukk up on my shit! I probably woulda fugged them up as well! YT folks think they can just do what the fukk they want. UGH!

  • yoni

    Thi-Thi, yo outfit is THEW-THEW.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Im still wondering how these women smang with Droopy?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I can't get past that damn meme either! Bwahahahahaha!!!!!

  • Str8tUpMenace

    With that baggy ass wifebeater. LMAO!!!!!!! Reminded me of Snoop in Baby Boy. Bony as shyt

  • Ceezus

    So she broke her own TPO?? Smh

  • Str8tUpMenace

    ^^^^^^THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • MissHarlem

    ?? good that's what you get. You dig a ditch for one you better dig one for yourself as well. Sit down and think about your childish thot antics.

  • MissHarlem

    Welp

  • nicelyput32

    When being petty goes horribly wrong.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Say werd!
    That thing they created as Benzino in the meme is disgusting. About to puke!

  • gellie

    Kind of defeats the whole philosophy behind a restraining order, right? You're supposed to be afraid of the person, right? Judge gives her the TPO, and she immediately gets confrontational with the dude that's allegedly abusing and harassing her...

  • Canary Red™

    OK!!!
    AINT that usually how it goes!!!!!! LOL! Take what you got and keep it moving, just had to say something with her crazy ass!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Some kids thought it would be a good idea too go to his house and trespass. They approached him as he was leaving his house. He runs after him by foot and by car. You gotta watch the video to get the full comedic effect ??

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Say It Again!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Obviously she not scared of him.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I keep hearing on it, but I can't find it...is he going off again!? On Drake!!??

    Those Virgos i tell ya! (can't stop wont stop! lol)

  • iWasteTime

    I did to! He chased them little phuckers DOWN!!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    The temple run had me dead

  • harley_quinn2.0

    He had every right but it was still hilarious ??

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Go to IG....I saw all the clips on the shaderoom

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Hell on a scholarship. When will this crap stop?

  • iWasteTime

    I laughed so hard when his ass turned around!!

  • 100milesperhour

    They're both addicted to drama, this is normal for them. Benzino has a nasty temper. Women take out TPO's all the time, then cool down & want it dismissed. She better wise up b/c they're plenty of men in prison now for losing it & taking the life of the 'woman they love'.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Was the car still rolling when he pulled up on him. I was screaming. That was so funny. Still laughing.

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    Im disturbed, what in sweet Jesus is that "thing" up there? If its a living thing, God bless it!

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    She's not. She Laughs when he blacks out. But I would too. Anyone yelling and screaming like a maniac slamming doors and throwing up blood and crip signs are funny to me. See this on Marriage boot camp.

  • SuggaB

    Oh my.... That's why I am SO glad I am done with the baby making phase and stressful marriages. Kids are grown. Now, I can kick back, do me, enjoy my life/job. Stack my money and travel. Life is good.

  • nucynu25

    Congrats luv

  • iWasteTime

    Supposed to be "What The Human Body Would Need To Look Like To Survive A Car Crash"

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Brenden is gonna be livid! ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Punk jump up to get beat down ???

  • Shira Harding-James

    Women can Be the downfall

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Yall Know Joey on those Rx... when he don't take em...Uh boy! They need not to mess with him when he is fresh out of bed!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    According to official records, the reality star was arrested immediately following the hearing on the 19th and has been in jail since.

    ^^^^^^
    She'll be out before the month is over ?

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    While I was on the gram, I seen that clip of Keke Palmer singing You Needed me. I love Rihanna, but KeKe, sang it better than her. I can actually Understand what was said!!

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    lol I know

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    This lady in chick Fil a. Her kids swinging on the play equipment. Guess the hue.

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    OMG thanks for letting me know, its scary.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    WATTS for lunch?!

    Chick up top gots to be Hungry by now too! :facepalm:

    Gel Lunch Yikes! ?

    She didn't think this through ?
    Bet she wasn't in a warm outfit and I wonder ? If she memorized anyone's phone numbers ?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I'm going to have that tonight :bounce:

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I keep reading TPO as PTO...Which means I need to be off ??

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Alabaster? ?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    You know it

  • yoni

    But it's play equipment..... LOL

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I'm not talking about the bars that hold it up lol

  • side_i

    These ppl are made for each other, I wish more of these crazy ppl would find each other.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Approved! *bam*
    ?

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I think I'm going to get a pedi and some Japanese. You?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Your desk must have a lot of dents in it. Always bamming and banging... LOL!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ? IONO lol
    But I'm hungry!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    U ain't gots to tell me twice ??

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Didn't Kirk tell yo dumb azz to get s prenup??? Nig on LHHATL like "no prenup!!" My nig the Pusey couldn't have been that good. Meanwhile Stevie somewhere laughing like hell

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    If you do the fist bam 'just right' it leaves no marks (evidence)
    ???

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Lololol @ warm outfit. I bet she wasn't either. You make an interesting point with the number thing. As technology progresses, very few of us know/remember numbers. There's only one person who's number I had committed to memory in case of emergencies. Ironically, the muthafukka claims he lost/forgot mine. My number. Same number that hasn't changed in over 15 years? Man. Yeah. It's good to dial people's numbers out from time to time. Never know when you're not gonna be able to access contacts...

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Me too. I want veggies which is the only reason I'm thinking Japanese.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ?IF
    When he calls---Shoot that Mofo to voicemail!!! ??

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Y'all make sure y'all drink some water in these streets today.

  • Lisa daniels

    She needs to be locked up for waste the courts time and taxpayer dollars.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    She has a good voice

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yes! Drink it even before you get thirsty!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Mmmmm I can smell it now lol

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    If you ain't peeing, you dehydrated. Get that water in ya.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yes!

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    I just read a good book on this.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    LOL

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    Steamed vegetables.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm thinking hibachi shrimp and veggies... light soy sauce.

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    *Nose laugh*

    They hit Benson with the Juggernaut head.

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    They look paper thin.

  • I aint the one

    101 in NYC with the index. Not including the temp underground in the subway. It's atleast 115 in some stations. I'm ubering my ass around until the weather decides to be chit.

  • I aint the one

    They never married.

  • MzFutureLCSW

    *sigh*
    This is where having a Higher Power comes into play.
    (Mine is Christ Jesus) If you are NOT continually in communion and reading spiritual holy books, this type of gross immaturity will ALWAYS happen.
    SOMETIMES, you HAVE to go to GOD for true, deep down healing & be willing to acknowledge & accept that YOU are a HOTT mess.
    Even, if the other person started the mess, YOU still have the responsibility to be able to control yourself and handle business decently and in order.
    This situation. The Tiny situation and all the rest, shows that regardless of age, you can still act like a dysfunctional adolescent.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    From the young man's sister: All I hear from the news is how my brother was holding a gun; He wasn't. How my brother was blocking traffic; He wasn't. How my brother ran away from the group home; he didn't. How my brother was suicidal; how ignorant! He wasn't.
    He was walking with his caregiver.With his toy truck.
    Now I hear the police saying how they wanted to shoot my brother and not Mr.Charles. As if THAT makes the whole situation better. And if that was the case, how come they handcuffed Mr.Charles while he was bleeding from the bullet wound? Also handcuffed my brother. Leaving my brother inside the police car for 4 hours despite all the staff members from the group home informing the police that Arnaldo was Autistic. Instead they just read the "rights" to him.
    Now Arnaldo is in Aventura Hospital in the Behavioral Unit. He keeps having frequent episodes of screaming, intense fear and flailing while still asleep. Asking for Charles, crying. He wasn't eating and he was anxious. Being easily startled or frightened. How can we explain to him what happened? He doesn't have the capacity to comprehend the gravity of the situation. He has no sense of what danger is! But he understands someone got hurt. He understands Mr.Charles got hurt. Why? Because he kept saying to my mom:"Blood oh no Charles,blood!"In a desperate atempt to explain what he went through. What he witnessed.
    In the end I just hope Mr. Charles recovers quickly and stays safe. Him and his family have gone through enough as well. Praying for everything to be settled appropriately.
    I also hope Arnaldo heals and forgets what happened quickly. And that my mother can actually have some peace of mind. Even though she is still mortified, perplexed, angry and appalled.
    I'm just tired.
    But this isn't over.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    DeadT. How you win and lose at the same damn time ?? They was all lovey dovey kissy face up until she gave birth. What had happened after?

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    I like Nigiri, but I end up eating it by myself because my wife doesn't like raw fish.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Thanks for sharing...Even though this just pissed me tf off?

  • iWasteTime

    He keeps having frequent episodes of screaming, intense fear and flailing while still asleep. Asking for Charles, crying. He wasn't eating and he was anxious.
    -----------------------------------------
    Poor Arnaldo!
    I pray for him, he now how PTSD on top of that and the next time he sees a cop, it isn't going to be good for him

  • Finding Forever…

    Damn Thi-Thi...what were you thinking? Ask for a restraining order and YOU'RE the one to violate it...LLS. They seemed to have ALWAYS had a "rocky relationship" or a real STRONG/INTENSE one or some ISH like that. I remember him telling her she couldn't leave him & he'd bust through a window or some ish to get to her (on Tamar & Vince). My thoughts THEN were...DAMN. Does he still have that crab spot in the A? Just wondering...

  • PettyEyezPrime

    What happens if I drink it and I'm still thirsty?

  • yoni

    And no amount of money, apology, firing, marching, therapy will help that.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I read a report when he went to the hospital a security guard was near him and he threw his hands up and screamed he didn't have a gun. Heartbreaking.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    None.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LOL!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    lmao!!! beauty supply boots! TEARS.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So I read that last sentence as, "My thoughts then were, damn does he still have that crab spot in the A?" Lol. I was cracking up. Thought you were random as hell.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Truth

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm with your wife. I don't like raw fish either.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    My post vanished?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Don't leave us in here all day

  • PettyEyezPrime

    So Thi-Thi's ensemble up top. Raise your hand if you would wear that. Together. At the same time. To go out. Take pictures. Be seen. Be proud.

  • SameoleJ

    Sits on hands....mine and yourn!! LOL

  • SameoleJ

    She gave birth....he got his seed....her job was done.....she refused to quit.......he should have listened to Steebie!!

  • Pebbles

    If that's the case the restraining order should become null & void . The judge should give a restraining order for benzino against her..

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Does he still have that crab spot in the A?

    ^^^^^^
    Have you eaten there? Is it any good?

  • yoni

    How much you payin'?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    She got on velvet, suede, mesh, denim and leather. Possibly Poly and Ester and Rayon.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    What corner am I working on. Main St or a side one?

  • yoni

    HOW DAMN OLD IS THAT PIC????? Dude next to Thi-Thi got on some Reebok PUMPS!

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    I didn't even know they had a baby.

  • nucynu25

    She got too much going on ... In her wardrobe & life

  • yoni

    Drink some more.

  • Finding Forever…

    It was sooo very random, lol. Could be because I've been WANTING some blue crabs (couldn't just put crabs...someone might get to wondering something...or get to clownin', LOL). It's called Benzino's Crab Trap though. Was wondering how the food was but I googled-schmoogled & it's only 3 stars...so I got my answer after all ;). He MUST have a thing for Traps...come to think it.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LMAO!

  • yoni

    THE ONLY # I know by heart are my mama's, my daughters and that negro's social security #. LOL

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Nil

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Johnson St. ?

  • She_ShowOut

    Yes, he still has the crab spot. Food was on point too during Beyonce weekend in Atlanta. Thi-Thi was there snap chatting with fans...she was fun and seemed to be so sweet. I hope they can work it out with counseling.

  • CaramelDrop

    ?? Thi- Thi looks like she is fresh off The Last Dragon casting call! Whoever let her walk outside like this hates her guts lol!

  • Full Monty

    I have no sympathy for her. He punched Joselyn in the face right in front of her and she thought it was so cute and funny. I bet you she ain't laughing now behind bars! Why some woman choose to ignore warning signs is beyond me!

  • Finding Forever…

    You couldn't tell HER she wasn't POPPIN' too. The bag is ALL for me. Struck a pose & all. Him & those water color painted jeans & the sneaks to match. I'm going to need them BOTH to go back to the drawing board in the closet...and come again, LOL. The things she would wear on LHH & other shows just look cheap to me...welllll besides the Nelly-Nelly above of course.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I just want her to separate her clothing by seasons and not go to jail behind her own TPO

  • CaramelDrop

    I can't catch my breath ?????????

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Not old enough for her to be out there looking like she looking with him looking like he looking.

  • yoni

    This pic has to be old.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Saw this early yesterday on the news... it was heartbreaking!

  • nucynu25

    Wait ..what ?

  • Finding Forever…

    Why thank ya...reading this & ALLLL I could think of was "from sugar to $hit" as far the relationship. Sorry. I thought they could go the distance too (in the beginning), but such is life.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Sausage Blvd.
    ?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    ubishu.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    ...

  • CaramelDrop

    This is good stuff!!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Lord have mercy

  • Karma WhO

    wowwww..so you get custody of your kid only to get locked up for 10 days...sooo who has the child now???

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    The
    Last
    Dragon
    ...............................
    why oh why did I come in here????

  • She_ShowOut

    You're welcome. I agree. Both of them appeared to be genuinely in love..not a fake reality show relationship. But, she also wasn't going to accept him cheating or any other bullsh*t. (I don't know if he cheated) (most men do...especially ones in the lime light) IMO

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Means your gonna meat ah a Hottie tonight! :bounce:
    ???

  • I aint the one

    Nope

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Chile taint no point in me knowing my Mama number by heart. If I were arrested or in the emergency room all she'd be able to do is cry and call on Jesus...All she's ever been able to do?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I'm in n out TSO IONO if thee other Roses have forgiven yew yet or not, and I'm loyal? SEW saddle ??? down and lemme find out SO I can NO ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    WATTTT
    He did all of that?!?! Oh! She right where she needs to be in Court/Jail Wherever when you mess with a rowdy rowdy piper mofo.

    And ION care ???

  • yoni

    SAME HERE! Mine would cry, call on Jesus and then go and gossip to folks about it. LMAO "You know you aunt/sister in gel..."

  • iWasteTime

    omg! That poor man! He is messed up for life.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :chase:
    #justdontcallmeh ????

  • She_ShowOut

    Food was good...took my people from out of town there...they are crab aficionados... and they loved it and Spondivits.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    HI

    I'mm go back and read...The entire article again. But GOOD for her, and the man punched her. WHAT?????

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Oh please? Only time I'd call yo fat ass is if/when I need to know which brand of lard is best for frying pork knuckles?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    That gif of him up top is so disturbing.

  • Full Monty

    Yup that was one of the biggest reasons they both got fired from the show and he attacked a producer as well.

  • She_ShowOut

    I wonder ? If she memorized anyone's phone numbers ?
    ^^^^^^^^^
    2 Real---This is what I be praying about

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I did not know he punched Joseline in the face.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ? Clearly they have no home training ??

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    AND YEW KNOW IT!!! ????
    ???

  • That’s Interesting

    I didn't either. But not surprised cause he did something to her to get a years restraining order from her AND THE BABY. She also got custody so there was good reason. Ugh he's abusive on top of being super ugly with no neck.

  • Full Monty

    Oh yeah when he came at Stevie he missed him and deliberately punched her in the face.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Awww SchNappp

    No more Baby Jane!

    ? Who dat?! Tammy Fay Baker? Beyonce? I'm Chinese with that pic ?

  • Full Monty

    Yup!

  • I aint the one

    This is the full body pic

  • She_ShowOut

    Exactly....unnerving..creepy

  • Full Monty

    None whatsoever!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    IF and? this is a big IF?

    Butttt IF she threw on a fur coat and buttoned it up?, then she'd look cute up there ??

  • She_ShowOut

    Damn, what episode was this?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Now I'm offended to be in here... IONO why SR got us up in this Unsavory Post! ?
    #manufactureourowncrisis

  • She_ShowOut

    Hold up.. I can't support a woman beater.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I joke about Jose, but dang.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Think it was the reunion.

  • rodt

    50 year olds tripping like this

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Messy messy messy.... Folks gotta find some inner peace man..

  • LeBrick James

    To me Benzino always reminded me of that nerd kid in school who always tried real hard -- too hard -- to be cool, and to prove to everybody how cool he was.
    But at the end of the day that nerdiness just always came through.
    #lamenegros

  • She_ShowOut

    Somebody let me know when yall post the link

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Did anyone get a load of the Rick Smiley team gigging on Monica Shoes in one of her first videos? They (including the Bratt) were laughing through out the whole show at the comments and couldn't even broadcast...Rick has been laughing for over 24 hours. He better be glad she didn't call in.

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Yes girl!!!! The baby.. if they don't want to get together for themselves please do it for the baby...

  • She_ShowOut

    I caught the tail-end of it. What started it? Where were they reading the comments from. You know they get a lot of the Tea from Sandra Rose's site.

  • Auditor

    Yup why I don't fool with anyone...my life be peaceful as fck...call me antisocial if you want to...

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Rick came on Laughing about 8am... not sure what happened before that But I catch it around that time. This fool says he was getting ready to go on and perform (standup) and was trolling his Facebook when someone tagged a picture on the RSMS page with the comment about church shoes... stomping out the devil for good...First Lady #2's...they were going in. Rick said he laughed so hard he couldn't even go on to perform, that someone had to go on in his place.
    Gary was doing the tea and Rick and Bratt was still laughing looking at the comments. It was a mess.

  • Auditor

    Sigh...

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Can someone explain to me why Old as Ancient Chinese Secrets azz Benzino still dress like he 12?

  • LeBrick James

    yup.
    when you're a 51 yr old man and still got all that messy woman/relationship drama like you're in your 20's, then at some point you've got to look in the mirror.
    Maybe the main problem is not "her", but it's YOU.

    #immature

  • SG

    Why did these two ever procreate with each other? I feel sorry for the baby.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Well alright. ...Thanks for the review. I'll look them up the next time in the area.

  • LeBrick James

    Benzino, 1993 called.
    It wants its wardrobe back.

  • Auditor

    Preach...same for women...

  • iWasteTime

    I saw the meme but didn't know its context.

  • Auditor

    A lot of men do...my momma and sister gone get on me cause I said I refuse to messaging a man that has hoodies. I don't even own a damn hoodie.

  • LeBrick James

    So true. People just dont seem to want to grow up any more.

    It's like 50 is the new 30... mentally speaking.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    OFF Topic
    I now know why Moe's call one of their burritos HomeWrecker.. It has you backfiring like an old 32 Diesel Dumptruck on watered down 87 octane gas.. UGGGHH!!! You can get a divorce off this ish siting Irreconcilable differences..cuz you can't understand how anyone could smell like this!!!

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    when they said she had on walk on water elites and prayer line 14's *hollering*

  • harley_quinn2.0

    But, but, but but what if he wears the hoodies to work out? Rocky Balboa inspired lol.

  • nucynu25

    ????

  • LeBrick James

    Same thing with Jordans.
    When I see dudes in their late 40's still wearing Jordans....

    lame. just super super lame.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    My son is 20 and he calls me and said..mom..I had to go shopping cuz I realize I am still dressing like a teenager...in my head i was like "thank you God! My son is growing up...

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    THAT don't sound too good ?

  • Auditor

    Lol at least he realizes it...you raised him right!

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Girl when your signif other is sounding off so loud it wakes you from a DEAD azz sleep.. maaannn...I thought Dizzy Gilespy was in the bed with me the trumpet sounds were so loud...But he didn't get too mad at me for waking him up.. (ROFL!!)

  • She_ShowOut

    I want to see the meme

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    In these cases..you were it were appropriate. younguns can get away with it walkin round casual like. Usin..cant..

  • She_ShowOut

    Yeah, they were going hard.

  • Auditor

    Hey hey now don't lump us in the same group. My ass has always been different. I've always been about my paper...fck everything else and I'm 29. If young folks quit chasing after D!CK and pu$$y they'd be a lot farther along. Then wake up one day in their late 30s still working at Kohl's. Nope I've always had goals and been driven...ain't nobody ever got in my way and never will.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Yes...that and he has a woman in his life now.. ROFL!!! He is starting to take her out and realized he had to step his game up cuz she dresses like a grown azz woman..

  • She_ShowOut

    Listen, I took a pic with Gary with Tea this weekend and why my eyebrows look thicker than Bert from sesame street.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Orchid posted with her comment. You probably need to refresh the page.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    ...talking about they weren't laughing at Monica, they were laughing at the comments because he can see some dark skinned brother smoking weed sitting around busting and cracking on those shoes just thinking about stuff as they go along.
    Bratt was in on it too. silly stuff. Shoot, those shoes coming back!

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    OOOH no... did he have anything to say?? You Know they always playing the dozens! lol

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I do too!!!

  • She_ShowOut

    Thank you, I need glasses and for somebody point stuff out to me like I'm Stevie Wonder, then on top of that I'm slow..LOL..I tell people talk and treat me as you would your 2 year old.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I think I laughed more at Ricky laughing. I could hear him in the background, knocking crap off the desk, so he must have been on the floor...and rock t and bratt didn't make it any better. They some clowns!

  • She_ShowOut

    They all be cracking me up...I listen every morning!

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    oh shoot...I am just as slow when I posted the damn thing!! :) I thought it was an actual meme out there besides the one I put up!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I'd be trying to get rid off the air before bed time ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    They cute though ??

  • iWasteTime

    reload, she attached it

  • harley_quinn2.0

    No I think that's the only meme lol

  • Auditor

    DEAD

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    yes I enjoy Ricky :) I love Ryan but Wanda works my nerve. I don't listen to them at all anymore.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    He was really a thug in Boston. I dunno WHAT the hell happened once he moved South/Florida. He got whipped for sure!! That always break a thug azz nikka down. Having them crying and ish.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    For the times yeah. They was saying the struggle is real..... um not really, this was 90's! the outfit fit the budget of that time in my opinion...

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    They need to put their 90's phoTOES up then! ??

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Chile I tried.. I sat in the bathroom and pushed hoping something would relieve the pressure..nothing..until..3 in the morning...rat tat tat!!! uhh so embarrassing!

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Why the straight face?

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I usually don't listen to any station due to heavy rotation of the same damn songs, but I'll tune in to Ricky for the Gospel and health tips...the other stuff like man law-and paternity test i can do without.

  • She_ShowOut

    Farts for dayz

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    If you do the "upside down bicycle" exercise (less than a min) it'll get you goin ??
    Kona

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    riiiiight!!
    High top fades, zig zags in the eyebrows...fake drug jewels gold...fake suede fronts, paddidas and fumas...see who'll laugh then.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Imma try that before he comes back..He catch me in mid cycle..that's on him ROFL

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Beano is good too ?

  • yelpforhelp

    So yeah............how you gone go to court for a restraining order and have your body language and mouf testifying against you? WHY SWAY????

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Hell, Monica cannot help the fact that she is damn near 6 feet if not taller. She'd look mighty whack if she had a size 6 in a shoe.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Girl..I just thought about it..beans...sourcream...CHEESE,,guac...ONIONS...oh lawd no one stands a chance!

  • dumplings39

    I don't know why those two procreated in the first place, all they do is argue&fight!

  • yelpforhelp

    I just want to say "ALTHEA, you big dummy!!!!", but she'll be out before my letter come.

  • Passion

    Two violent, crazy fools undeserving to parents.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    How long does it takes to work. Can you do it after the fart...i mean fact?

  • She_ShowOut

    This made me think about my wardrobe. I wore some pink lipstick trying to look younger...and my best friend roasted me for about 20 min. I sent her some pic trying to show out that I was in the VIP with Jermaine Dupri and Irv Gotti and 'em. She went and let have. LOL

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Try that or lay down and bring your legs straight back towards your head and bounce a lil bit ?

    And you're in good position IF he walks in LOL

  • yelpforhelp

    Especially when you know YOU better than anybody else. You know if you can keep your crazy in a 1 hour cage or if it will only stay in a 15 minute slot.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    That's Heart Faces for the young man soldier! ?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Oh brother,,,This makes me think of @Nancy's stankin ass????? Mexican food, dairy products, fiber, and faucet water all make her flactuate???

  • Genia

    during their stint on Marriage Boot Camp. I actually found that Althea is antagonistic with this man....she pushes buttons until he's riled up, then she sits back with a smirk watching him go off the deep end....I actually liked Althea and Benzo together....but i now i think she keeps him on the edge....she played the good submissive role to get him...got him and now chumps him off....

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yeah. You overdid it ??

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Rofl...not for me..It is hard to keep the safety on when you...you know...and if he makes you have and OOOO..you can't control them muscles down there! He prolly never want to have ses with me again if I let that roll...

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    You take it before and ?it doesn't allow the gas to produce <--- IONO if that's an accurate stmt but it soundT good :D

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    It was so goot too! and that ground beef...greasy greasy beef..just letting slide through to the danger zone...

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Who is Nan...you know what never mind..Im afraid to ask..

  • She_ShowOut

    Ikr, I got pic of a feathered out ponytail...that could touch the top of a doorway...another celeb pic gone wrong...I scared Ice Cube with that hair...he couldn't stop staring at it..LOL This was at a promo for his first solo album.

  • yelpforhelp

    Even an addict know how to go without a fix for a little while. I get where you're coming from.
    My brother's on again/ off again killed killed him. They had plenty of drama and she used the fact that he wouldn't hit her. I know it can be the other way around.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    oh.. It looks like a mean mug on my compootah!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    You'll know when she comes in here and sees this and announces ALL of his 'booty business' ???

  • yelpforhelp

    You is brave. I would see how far my shoes would take me. and run slap pass the car.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Lmaooo

  • yelpforhelp

    Not to mention what it does to women and men who are really in fear of their life.

  • Auditor

    Baking soda...have you posting in 1.5 seconds...don't overdo it though...it's a laxative too

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Awww never that (for him)

    Thank him for his service! :bow:

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Who is,,,wait, what? You don't know my bess fran? 1 demerit for you?? And may the next ass you eat,,,May it blow one of those nice burrito farts in yo face while you're doing it?

  • yelpforhelp

    Apparently crazy got plenty of energy.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ?????#ritofarts?

  • yelpforhelp

    Shiiiiiiiiiddddd chirren period. I don't trust they asz pass the No Trespassing sign. A kid is the one that will fucc you up and be in the streets when they turn 21.

  • yelpforhelp

    Is them velveteen pants or nah?

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly, folks walking around with white meat hanging out getting the third degree because raggedy hos like her. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c19a2a3afbda10059e050ef34fe36043e3247096b263f8048a32e6b70f5f9a3c.gif

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I don't mind hoodies a lot of men wear them to the gym, to play ball etc. I have one or two that I wear to the gym .

  • Finding Forever…

    Nope...I've never eaten there. I'm in Baltimore, so was just wondering if it was any good & if the business was still open. We have Phillips, Caton Dockside (one of my fave), Rusty Scupper...seafood spots like that. Those spots are downtown, but a spot in Gambrils, Md is good too. Blue Dolphin. I MISS Legal Seafood. THE BEST SEAFOOD IS HERE...IMO. Just a listing of faves, if you find yourself in these parts (or suggestions if you're from these parts).

  • SameoleJ

    You are not allowed to use the word/phrase/spelling "poot" after your story up top!! Nope, you are banned from it!!

  • Buttercup

    Agreed. She isn't completely innocent. Instead of her trying to calm him down or calmly talking through things, she would continue to poke the bear.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Agreed. No excuse for abusive behavior, she has done stuff like videotape destroying his property on tape. Both are toxic and need to focus on their child. It appears he really loves his son. Lesson watch who you mate with.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    This is just horrible

  • Finding Forever…

    New Post...Open...Tick-Tocks.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    New Clockable ? Post

  • Vonn

    Rat tat tat!!! time of death...2:34pm. It was nice knowing y'all.

  • Lisa daniels

    No they picking on the disable. Cops thunk that had it before, just wait until these disable groups get to protesting. Mofos is losing jobs and pension. No more paid leaves.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    LIES.YOU.TELL!

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Oh I wish I could have seen it! I thought only Jersey did big feathered ponytails...lol...ah the times!
    Don't get me started with my Polka dots and asymmetrical hair cut when I was rapping with two other girls... we were Coriander and Lime-Rub f. Chile Powder...since they already had a Salt n Pepper. still mad because we never got that break!! (>=<)

  • EC

    She was already set with the protective order for a full year; she messed it up herself!

  • observer

    He is not cute!!! He always looks a little dirty to me. That's just me though.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Ah Mank fixes shatt yo! ???

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I'll keep this in mind

  • She_ShowOut

    Awwww, I wish you would have got that break!

  • Tammy GILBERT

    she gonna learn today he aint worth no kinda jail time to me as long as our child not in it

  • Brownie
  • She_ShowOut

    He was cool and friendly and told me I look like a hot diva...I just never look right in pics. LOL Why I looked like blameonitkway w/pink lipstick in my pic w/Irv Gotti. Arrgghh! Nevermind me (I like to self deprecate)

  • Emily post

    Benzino actually pulled that outfit off now his spouse is another story....

  • Brownie

    I did NOT hear about this story until you said something. They weren't reprimanded for that shyt either.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    ROFL!!!

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    ROFL!!! Sam..its all up in through me soo it naturally came out compootah! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bb4264f7d4d7227830d50436ebc02fe52f854ab6633bc6dbb91c04c30c8efcd0.gif

  • She_ShowOut

    Oh hell yeah Blue Dolphin is the truth. I got aunts, cousins and my grandma may God rest her soul in B'more.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..
  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Yes! I will do this as soon as i get home!!!

  • Brownie

    YES! I can't stand when clowns play around with things like this. When serious cases come up, they aren't taken as serious as they need to be. She's not going to learn ?

  • She_ShowOut

    Oh yeah, it's not a 5 star spot...just better than I expected from a reality star restaurant.

  • yoni

    Really? They will be. Hopefully! But we are talking about FLORIDA!

  • Crazy tee

    Benzinos outfit is all wrong....solid black sneakers "solid"

  • Alicia.Ashe

    I don't get Althea's outfit.

  • Fendi

    Hasn't she been the one putting her hands on him? Althea was pregnant on Marriage Boot Camp and she was exhibiting violent behavior towards Benzino. Interesting.

    Karlie Redd got the last laugh in this case. None of this is funny, but sometimes, when someone wants what you had and they want to make it a competition, let them have it. Concede. Just sit back and watch what happens next.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    No amount of fame is worth your peace of mind. Very messy their relationship is.

  • Canary Red™

    Watch she have a baby between July 19th 2016 to July 19th 2017!

    SMH - girl run! Leave well enough alone!

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    #truth
    #facts

  • yelpforhelp

    Lawd I done flat lined on the cement floor. A hard fall, not a pillow are NOTHING!!!!!! LMMFAO

  • Anji

    Damn

  • Brownie

    Yes ma'am. His name is Gilberto Powell. I can't seem to find an update right now. As of '11, his attorney stated that they had not even been suspended. I can't believe I never heard about this story and why there are so little details.

  • Lisa daniels

    I can't stand raggedy ass ho abuse the system and everyone else who makes the same claims go unheard because of it.

  • Alisa

    She looks so cheap in that getup. But why do I get the title for tat vibe. If she is the one in jail I find it odd she was granted a TPO plus usually that means temporary order like until the next court date. If he was smart he would hv his lawyer get a restraining order against her setup court mandated custody & child support. Have a neutral person present when they exchange the child for visits. He needs to never hv direct contact w/ her because he was not smart about this relationship now it's a child involved and that's who his relationship should be with.

  • yelpforhelp

    If I saw somebody tag team her eye I wouldn't believe it. She just a worthless wanch. I hope he petitions for custody of the baby, not out of spite, but because this b^tch right here ain't ready to be a mother.
    And I'm sick of folks with this, it is both they fault in situations like this where it's clear who the fool is. I roll my eyes so hard I done strained my cornea.

  • Sandra Dee Spidey

    Wasn't he warned about "Thee Thee"? I guess nobody likes her for a reason.

  • Molly Church

    So disappointed n them. I Luved them together. Thought they really had a chance. Their luv appeared really genuine?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Patsy from Absolutely Fabulous!

  • mzwhang90210

    I wasn't readyyyyyyy?????

  • Fendi

    Wow. My condolences.

  • yelpforhelp

    I appreciate that. Thanks.

  • Fendi

    Contempt orders are no joke. Her case needs to be thrown out. Her child needs to be placed in Benzino's custody, if he wants to care for the child. She needs to be ordered to complete anger management counseling. She also needs to be ordered to pay child support until she is able to regain at least partial custody of the baby. I bet she'll learn to calm down and respect not only the court but her child's father.

  • Lisa daniels

    She gonna mess around and catch a real ass whupping and then courts ain't believe her because it's on record that she is a froggy snake bish.

  • Fendi

    If I may ask, is she incarcerated? What was her sentence? DV isn't just a man v. woman situation. A lot of men are brutalized and they live in silence as a result. People don't allow their sons, especially their Black sons, to show emotion or to express discomfort. When they're raised not to hit women, they always end up meeting that one b*tch who abuses their upbringing. When they're raised not to cry or show sadness, they become wildly depressed or they're powder kegs just waiting to explode. It's not fair. Black men endure enough BS from the rest of the world. When they are home, they should feel at peace. But they should also reciprocate that royal treatment towards BW.

  • Fendi

    She gets into physical confrontations with everyone. Benzino, Joseline, Karlie, Erica Dixon... Althea is the common denominator in all of that. You can't walk around wearing a Pamper, onesie or whatever outfit that is better suited for a newborn and think people won't get at you JUST for that. That sparse bond weave she used to wear was laughable, too. And she was fighting over Benzino, of ALL people. Is Black Rob still in jail? Didn't Ma$e get a divorce? There are far better men to "fight" over. Was Jeremih booked?

    Althea's mother had 50-11 husbands, so the woman wouldn't know stability it nutted on her chest and smacked her on her ass. The games she played to get Benzino backfired on her. My former bestie from NY explained to me what Althea did. It works well on weak industry men. You can get them, but it doesn't help you keep them. ??

  • yelpforhelp

    1. No she was not, even though there were witnesses and she brutally murdered him.
    2. No arrest no sentence...............that is the norm in DV murder cases. I actually have met another person that lost her sibling just like that and the woman is not in prison. DV perpetrators usually get minimum sentences.
    3. You said everything I feel. I am now pursuing every avenue to get her convicted. I wasn't strong enough until now.

  • yelpforhelp

    You can ask anything you want to ask. I am trying to get a plan together now and I need to getting our story out their. People need to realize that domestic violence where a man is the victim is a whole nother beast. Although women are more systematically violent they are seen as weak.

  • Lisa daniels

    the woman wouldn't know stability it nutted on her chest and smacked her on her ass. ????????????????????? straight homicide. Yeah, Zino is a simp.

  • Fendi

    I'm speechless rn. I won't even ask how this woman is free.

  • Fendi

    I'm not well versed in criminal law, but the only "good" thing about this case is there's no statute of limitations on a murder charge. The question is, would a judge and/or jury consider this murder?

    I pray your brother filed at least one police report against her for DV. (Prayerfully, more than one, which would help establish a pattern.) I also pray the witnesses who saw this beast kill him in cold blood would testify, or at least submit sworn affidavits to be entered into evidence at trial.

    You're in my prayers.

  • BlackFeeMale

    Y these lhhat relationships end in violence or something related to violence??? Hmmmm lets see StevieJo=restrain ord. KirkRa=bike burning but they got back together. BowMena=instafighting. ZinoHeart=Jailtime. Sad so sad.and its all documented. Like itll be cemented in tv history....waaaahhhh

  • Mel

    I knew their relationship was toxic it's sad a baby is in the middle of this madness

  • TheMove

    Domestic violence is never funny... I'm laughing at these comments too! Funny as hail!!!?

  • TheMove

    I'm hollering!!!! #BlackRobTho?!?!?????

  • Fendi

    Loon was fine. I think he still is. He has grown a beard and become the Muslim brotha from Oz while in prison. No shade, but I'm not letting go of Jesus for the sake of having a man. We could talk, tho. Grab a fish sammich, bean soup and cabbage from Shabazz, if it's still open. I'm cool like that.

  • yelpforhelp

    We gone laugh today!!!!! This right here is funny. It's good to laugh, I get tired of folks being too dayum sensitive.

  • yelpforhelp

    We gone laugh today!!!!! This right here is funny. It's good to laugh, I get tired of folks being too dayum sensitive.

  • yelpforhelp

    It was most definitely murder....that part is real clear......and we have a reliable witness.
    We called the police every time we though she was acting a fool. I could see it coming to that. There were also restraining orders and no trespass. So I'm on it.
    Thank you for your prayers and if you or anybody else can think of anything. I would love to hear it. Thanks for the support.

  • yelpforhelp

    The conviction rate and/or the time of incarceration for people who commit acts of DV are little to none across the board. When you see a conviction and long prison sentence make the news it's because it's unusual and not the norm. Any DV expert will tell you that the police is your enemy, because most of the time they can relate to the abuser. They are 78% more likely to be an abuser.

  • Fendi

    She violated restraining orders, too?!. Who tf is the district attorney in the city where your brother was murdered?!. Perhaps, you should reach out to the Attorney General and bypass the DA since the DA's office should've been moving to prosecute this matter. The damn police didn't arrest her?!. That's a problem. This is a TOTAL miscarriage of justice.

    I would advise you to consult a civil rights attorney in addition to a criminal law attorney. And file a wrongful death civil suit against her. Tie her ass up in legal proceedings until she admits guilt.

  • Fendi

    Your last two sentences >>>>>. I know these cops can be outright brutes. They still have an obligation and responsibility to serve and protect. I'd sue the sh*t out of everyone who dropped the ball in this case.

  • yelpforhelp

    I'm working on that too. I wish I could tell you exactly what, when and how right now, but it would take too long. Please keep in touch.
    ......but yes, the police are not DV victim's friend. They will not lock them up even if you have proof. They are more apt to let them go and cool down. If the woman and/or man have a child(ren) they stand to lose their children if they call the police too many times to report abuse. Until recently, and it is still true in some areas, a DV victim is likely to be evicted, not for non-payment, but for nuisance calls. The landlord is in between a rock and a hard place because the city can and will heavily fine him substantially if there are too many calls. So the DV victim has to weigh in on how bad they got they asz kicked or if the stalking has gone too far THIS time.
    That whole shelter thing, men and women don't leave because there is no where to go, especially if they have children. The secure shelters are ALWAYS full and they truly do the best they can. People, myself included have said or say things like, "Why don't they just leave?" or "Why don't they call the police?", let's start with that.

    P.S. I always tell people my brother is (he will always live in my heart) handsome, funny, chivalrous well educated, he was a veteran, a home owner and financially secure and had a helluva support system and he was still brutally murdered.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    No, it adds to THIS ball of fashion confusion

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I luv water?. I want it all the time.

  • Fendi

    Smh. I'm standing in agreement with you for justice. I know it isn't easy for you and your family, but I believe justice will be effectuated and you will be a blessing to future DV victims. I pray for changes in legislation, too.

    I had a bff who was a victim of DV by her ex-bf. She was evicted from her complex after he beat her so bad, she had to be hospitalized.

  • mocha brown

    These two know they shouldn't have ever been together!! Benzino needs to stop getting randoms pregnant!!

  • mocha brown

    These two know they shouldn't have ever been together!! Benzino needs to stop getting randoms pregnant!!

  • yelpforhelp

    He was murdered out of state. Even with her breaking restraining orders, criminal trespass ALL of that , she was NEVER arrested, it was just another report. All they would say was next time. I risked it all and dragged her at her mama's house............and she still did what she did. I still blame myself. This woman even allowed her children to be raped by a family member. Yes, it was reported and no they didn't do a dayum thing.........because "The family lives in poverty and would need a lot of support to rehabilitate"I was told this by social services. Yes, I have made numerous reports and called the police. I still blame myself though because I didn't do enough.
    You know if she will allow her children to be raped and yes it was confirmed (a bit much huh) you know she didn't give a dayum about my brother.

  • yelpforhelp

    He was murdered out of state. Even with her breaking restraining orders, criminal trespass ALL of that , she was NEVER arrested, it was just another report. All they would say was next time. I risked it all and dragged her at her mama's house............and she still did what she did. I still blame myself. This woman even allowed her children to be raped by a family member. Yes, it was reported and no they didn't do a dayum thing.........because "The family lives in poverty and would need a lot of support to rehabilitate"I was told this by social services. Yes, I have made numerous reports and called the police. I still blame myself though because I didn't do enough.
    You know if she will allow her children to be raped and yes it was confirmed (a bit much huh) you know she didn't give a dayum about my brother.

  • Fendi

    SHE is to blame for all of this. She is sick. She is sick and she needs to literally be quarantined so she cannot harm so much as a hair on another person's head.

  • yelpforhelp

    Just pray and if you can think of anything else I welcome it. This has devastated my family and took him away from his children and from my mom. I took care of my siblings their whole life as a big sister. Girl, this hurt deep that I couldn't prevent this. I keep going back and trying to figure out what I could have done or what I should have done.

  • yelpforhelp

    So you have a personal experience with it. I am praying for you and your best friend. DV does something to your mind. That's why I educate people as much as I can and when I can. I am trying to be as strategic as possible because I want to get this right for him, for my parents and our siblings. I know they look to me and I will forever feel that I failed them.

  • Fendi

    I cannot relate to it on the level that you can. IDK my friend when she went through what she went through. She and her ex were water and oil. It took a long time for them to end their situation, but they finally did with no further casualties.

    I was dealing with someone not so long ago. Against my better judgment, I allowed them to visit me. I'm thankful to have walked away unscathed. Some people are literally obsessed. They're jealous and insecure. When they feel they can't give you what you deserve or they feel inferior, they will go outside of themselves and act in ways people just shouldn't act. I cannot nor will I ever rationalize his behavior, but we will never speak again. That's my only firsthand experience with DV, and I will say it was more of an attempt against me than anything. That attempt was enough for me to say NEVER again.

    If I can think of anything else or if I am in receipt of any info that I think can help your process, I will let you know. ??

  • yelpforhelp

    People don't realize it only takes giving away yourself one time too many and there is no concrete line. I am so glad that you made the decision you did, when you did. You probably saved your life. You would be surprised how many people go against their intuition and end up fucced. I admire that. You may think it was nothing, but trust me it's bigger than you are a hero.
    People say experience is the best teacher. I know you can learn from someone else experience and move with wisdom. People take a life time to get where you're at. Know that you are amazing. Practice on accepting it without apologies.
    Again thank you to the moon and back.

  • Fendi

    ?? Thank you. But you are motivating ME to do better. I've been ready to throw in the towel re: several things in my life and family members' lives. Your words and actions are daily reminders to me that even when I'm exhausted, I've got to keep going. Justice oftentimes isn't swift, nor is it easy to attain, but with the proper efforts and reaching the right people, it's possible.

    Today is Emmett Till's birthday. If people did more to avenge his murder in the right ways, perhaps Mike Brown, Eric Garner, Philando Castile, Sandra Bland, Wakiesha Wilson and a lot of other men and women would still be here. We need legislative reform. As long as the laws are against us, the courts and law enforcement will be against us. It isn't easy to learn laws/civil codes of procedure, but it's possible. I just pray you and your family see that animal prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law before you're all old and gray. May justice be swift and permanent. ??

  • Fendi

    ?? Thank you. But you are motivating ME to do better. I've been ready to throw in the towel re: several things in my life and family members' lives. Your words and actions are daily reminders to me that even when I'm exhausted, I've got to keep going. Justice oftentimes isn't swift, nor is it easy to attain, but with the proper efforts and reaching the right people, it's possible.

    Today is Emmett Till's birthday. If people did more to avenge his murder in the right ways, perhaps Mike Brown, Eric Garner, Philando Castile, Sandra Bland, Wakiesha Wilson and a lot of other men and women would still be here. We need legislative reform. As long as the laws are against us, the courts and law enforcement will be against us. It isn't easy to learn laws/civil codes of procedure, but it's possible. I just pray you and your family see that animal prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law before you're all old and gray. May justice be swift and permanent. ??

  • Panther Charleston

    Hmmm...looks like Althea Heart is straight eating that humble pie.

  • yelpforhelp

    Fendi, you just don't know.....
    My lively hood, what I love and live for. The natural part of me is a fighter. The best part of me was my faith. I lost ALL of that. God blessed me with the ability to be able to make things, to be strong. In one night that wanch stole that from me. My mother is not the same and there is nothing I can do to make her whole again. It has damaged me more than anyone in my life knows. I wonder if I will ever be a fraction of what it was. I have actually prayed for God to take my mind and NOBODY in my life knows and I have retreated from the world.
    I'm stronger than I was a year ago and stronger than I was the year before that. I don't know what you've been through or what you're going through now. You probably don't even remember when we were going back and forth exchanging comments and ideas laughing. We kept going back and forth. I NEVER commented on this blog or any other before then, and this is like a closed family.
    Full disclosure: I experienced an injury so I was on the shut in list, so I do anything, but think. It was weighing heavy on me. That night I was going to end my life. Quietly and privately, I had all I could take. You had no idea that THAT saved my life.
    I've shared a little bit every now and then and I've always thanked the people that make me laugh. They have no idea who I am, you have no idea who I am so I know it's not because you have an angle.
    You have to know you were a part of saving my life.

  • Fendi

    Are you serious?!. I actually was going to extend an apology to you earlier because when we first interacted, it was volatile. The next time we interacted, it was like nothing ever happened. I was thankful that you didn't hold a grudge, because I didn't hold one. Some folks around here take things so damn personal when those things were never even about them. That's why I keep my guards up.

    I apologize to you for the low blows I took. God is a healer, so I can give thanks for the fact that you know suicide is not the answer. I remember you mentioning you have a husband and a lot of children. I know you know they love you, and they not only need you, they want you to be here to a ripe, old age.

    I know the feeling of exhaustion. I've been caring for my mom for nearly 7 years. I'll be up at the at 5am to escort her to doctors appointments for tests and maintenance. She had an accident that literally changed both of our lives, and not for the better. It has been THE most arduous process, but each day is a new day. I have times where things are great. I had a couple weeks this month that made me want to kick the bucket. The thing is, that's life. It ebbs and it flows. Nothing is permanent. The same way we have, we can have not. The same way there's lack, there can be abundance. We just have to believe in prosperity, and abundance of good, restoration and recovery. And rather than ask God to play Calgon and take all of the negative aspects of our lives away, we should ask Him to help us navigate our way through those situations with grace. Grace and mercy are powerful tools. Without them, I'd literally be plotting people's demises rn. I still want to throw hexes on certain people, but when those feelings arise, I just pray my way through them and trust that God is my vindicator, as He always has been. Pray for what you want. Have people who are likeminded stand in agreement with you. Matthew 18:20, "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." You're one. I'm two. Your mother is 3.

    Ask God not only for physical healing of your body, because by His stripes, you are healed. Ask Him for mental, emotional and spiritual healing. If your finances are in need of repair, ask for financial healing. I've gone from a have lot to a "what the hell happened?!." My mom was led to look up a couponing site, which I visited and began researching other resources. I found one individual's blog that had me receiving free items on a weekly basis. I didn't have money, but I was able to manifest so many things that I didn't need money. I'm still trying to build my finances, but I've learned how to make a dollar out of 15¢ as a result of all of this "lack."

    I'm still working on building my business and expanding it. I still want to rebuild my legal clientele from the recent past. I have goals. I just need to have more faith in myself. The messed up thing about trials is how badly they tend to shake up your confidence in YOURSELF. When you have faith in God, it's a requirement that you have faith in yourself. He made you in His image, so everything you need is within you. He is right there. Remind yourself of that if/when your confidence waivers.

  • yelpforhelp

    I wish we could face time, THIS IS SO MANY THINGS!!!!!!!!!!! You just don't even know!!!!!!
    I don't believe in circumstances. I believe that everything happens for a reason. Guess what. I don't even remember anything bad, but I remember the ki ki we had. Guess what I'm not even trying to remember. Yes I have A LOT of babies. I do remember sharing that. I don't share too many things, about myself, because of who I am off line all day everyday. I appreciate you apologizing, and if I struck back I apologize, but I honestly don't remember that.
    Our lives are almost parallel. I'm just saying.......I don't know what to say. Whatever you said, it helped me get some fight back. I needed that word!!!!
    People say, someone is worse off than you, so that you can feel better about your circumstances. I am a realist. A person may have it worse, but I'm living mine. I don't think it is right to discount your journey in any way and I believe it is in fact a disservice. I can empathize without borrowing someone else trouble.
    I LOVE COUPONING!!! I did it for the hail of it and I was blessed with the rush of saving and helping other people.
    God did this!!! I'm praying for you. I am believing God with you. Thank you for allowing God to use you to minister to me. Look at God!!!! People don't believe me when I say there is a method in the madness.
    I kept asking you and saying, if you hear ANYTHING, if you know ANYTHING, and, here it is. LOOK AT GOD!!!!!!! I was expecting this, but I WAS EXPECTING THIS!!!!! Here you go again!!! Thank you Fendi!!

  • yelpforhelp

    P.S. Forgive me for writing a term paper. You blessed me twice. I needed that word.

  • Fendi

    I absolutely love forums like these because we're able to share valuable info. I know people come here to gossip and keep it light, but if people aren't directly affected by physical affliction, someone close to them is. We can and should all be a support system to one another. We're all we've got. The majority of us are WoC. The majority of us are young or fairly young. The majority of us are trying to navigate our way through life using our faith, not just our so-called knowledge or intellect. So much of what I "speak" is what I'm led to say. I can't take credit for it. My fingers move across my touchscreen as directed.

    We can all be assets to one another. I don't relish in others' suffering. It hurts me to know people are suffering. If I can do something to ease their pain and sorrow, I will. If I can't do anything else, I can pray for them and stand in agreement with them for a positive outcome.

    I will definitely be keeping you and your family in prayer as well as my buddy @Auditor, specifically, and the blog commenters in general, as well as Sandra. I'm seeing too much destruction in the world rn. Marital dissolutions, families being destroyed, women made to carry too many responsibilities on our backs sans support from a man, etc. That needs to change, and it will change. We've just got to have faith and trust that all is well. ??

  • Fendi

    Your reply wasn't even a term paper. Please excuse my novels. Lol

  • yelpforhelp

    We have to keep in touch. You would trip ALL the way out if you knew how parallel your message is and how similar our life experiences are.
    That same word you spoke in my life, I know that God meant it for you too. I just know it. There is no way this "just happened"
    I totally agree we have to do something different, bigger and better. You can't underestimate your power. You're familiar with history. I've read your other posts. I believe that you can take those lessons and learn from them, that that those lessons teach you what to do next.
    I was just reminded of this "Sometimes God allows things to fall into pieces so that everything came together and you can know what peace is"

  • yelpforhelp

    I don't know if you've read Sojourner Truth's autobiography (it is a must read).....she says, "If men can turn this world upside down, surely women can turn it right side up again!"

  • yelpforhelp

    I am praying for you by name and @Auditor and all of the people in the comment section. Don't trip out if you hear your avi name somewhere. When the time is right. I have to share this out loud.
    When I say I see so much of me in you, I am still tripping out. Who your daddy is???? LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Please pray for me. My next 24v hours is crucial. If you know any strong prayer warriors please ask them to pray on my behalf. I believe in intercessory prayer. Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!!

  • Fendi

    I am definitely praying for you. Re: my dad, he has several children, so we may be related. ????? I'm my mom's only and my dad's youngest. Old head has been a grandfather. I hope no other children crept up after me. He has been married multiple times, too. Smh

    I will leave you this number. It is Unity Ministries 24-hour prayer line. They publish Daily Word, which can be found on Daily Word (dot) com. It is 816-969-2000. They place your prayers in their chapel and pray for you for 30-days. You can call as often as you need to. The calls and prayers are free. My mom subscribes to Daily Word. So does my Gran. My mom pays for her subscriptions and I pay for mom's subscriptions. We also send them checks here and there to keep the ministry going. Every contribution helps.

    Sleep well. I have to tie up a few loose ends before I go to bed. I have to wake up at 4:30, not 5. ?

  • Fendi

    I haven't read it, but I will make a note to. I'm not mad @ her.

  • Fendi

    *screenshots* That last sentence >>>>>. I've been calling on God a lot lately. Thank you for that good word.

  • yelpforhelp

    Amen. Get some rest and I'm going to let you know how everything went!! I am excited.

  • yelpforhelp

    You have to read her book. I read it in a day...........the more I learn the more I realize how much I don't know. It is that amazing!!!!

  • yelpforhelp

    I'm my bio's oldest child. Other than my siblings with my mom (they were married) that dude got around repeatedly. I know a few of his chirren. Some of them are jealous for no reason other than counting coins over here. My oldest is the same age as one of his off spring.......and I married REAL young. SMH

    My great grandmother use to read this ALL the time. She even had to the loaf of bread with the small daily verses. Thank you for sharing that. I read their material, I use too anyway. Good looking out. I will definitely be visiting over there and contributing.
    Good night and thank you again!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • sunni_daze

    They are parents and need to get it together for that baby. Sad

  • yoni

    It happened Friday. Are you in Miami?

  • Brownie

    No, ma'am. Not in FL. I commented with a link with a very similar story then. From your comment I googled | colostomy police miami | but only found his story http://www.nbcmiami.com/news/local/Man-With-Down-Syndrome-in-Clash-With-Cops-129820353.html

  • Moon Lee

    Madness!

  • SpiceGirl

    OK...first im hearing this....trouble in paradise? Who has the baby? What every happen..I thought they were happy?? somebody spill it...I don't feel like going on Google.

  • denise

    What is wrong with these people? I thought that they were happily in love...this is crazy

  • Butter CreamFactory

    I swear, that's why you cant take these Social Media post seriously, they be looking all happy, her and "Rudy" ... #fakelives

  • TheMove

    I just died laughing for a full 5 minutes ???

  • Fendi

    Well, I'm glad you've been resurrected. I wasn't even trying to be funny. ?