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Actress Paula Patton posted a throwback photo of herself and ex-husband Robin Thicke. Patton, 40, and Thicke, 39, co-parent their 6-year-old son Julian Fuego Thicke. She captioned the photo: "no regrets".

That means she doesn't want that ol' thang back. She's just reminiscing on a time in her youth when she was innocent and in love. Those days are over, but the love she has for her ex still lingers on.

You never forget your first love. And the love never dies. But Patton has moved on with her life (she's rumored to be a practicing lesbian now). She has no regrets.

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  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Adorable pic. I burned ALL my solo pics with Rif10's dad. I gave him all the ones with him and her in them.... Meaning there is not one of him at all in my house

  • Sucker Free

    I kinda wanted them to reunite...but I understand when a woman us fed up it ain't nothing you can do about it

    *r Kelly voice*

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    I don't do reminiscing. Came across a pic of an old girlfriend a fews years ago and was pissed that I didn't see the crazy in her eyes way back when.

    As the saying goes: I was young, dumb, and full of .......

  • hottlanta

    Practicing lesbians. Is that the same definition where Leroy
    and TransJenner get the breasts/put on a dress/heels and leave on their balls and scared to get their things chopped off practicing to be women. She should be called a trans-lesbian because she hasn’t gone all the way.

  • SameoleJ

    Well dayum!! But yeah I ain't reminiscing either. You post TBT pictures and they posting pictures with the current person, give them shout outs!! Nope, not I! I'll reminisce in the sanctity of my home.

  • Angela

    Wow..Robin looks like he could have been the 7th Brady in the bunch playing a guitar...Just greasy looking..

  • LibraGirlonly

    And in my mind.

  • Auditor

    SO I left today...

    The base had a change in command so no one was in the office but the new person when I arrived. I gathered up my things and decided this was the best time to leave. I got my boss a card and wrote in it that she should read the book of Genesis about Joseph since she believes people don't come together to conspire against you. Stuck my resignation letter, credit card, Id, and key in there and slid it under her door. She texted me and left me a voicemail saying I need to contact her. Bish you tried it...no I DON'T...send me my last check and be DONE.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Still have some of the pics of me and Dub21 dad and a lil birdie told me he still got his too (back when you took em to the drug store to get em developed and got two prints)?

  • Auditor

    Lol so true

  • Angela

    ??

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    she’s rumored to be a practicing lesbian now
    ________
    Sandra, Sandra, Sandra *hollering*

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Pics are memories. Why would he get rid of them? With or without them you all are tied together forever via Dub21.

  • SameoleJ

    You in an "At Will' State? Cause um, nope you don't.

    I wrote that on a resignation letter:

    Dear XYZ,

    I cannot for the sake of my mental health remain at this place of employment for the following reasons...
    A.....
    B....
    C....

    This is my formal resignation. As PA is an 'At Will" state, I am not required to provide you with 2 weeks notice and that is not a courtesy I wish to extend. (**I have included a description of the term "At Will")

    I thank you for my time here.

    Best Regards,

    XYH Johnson

    **At-will means that an employer can terminate an employee at any time for any reason, except an illegal one, or for no reason without incurring legal liability. Likewise, an employee is free to leave a job at any time for any or no reason with no adverse legal consequences.

    I only included the definition, cause I knew her dumbazz didn't know what it meant.

  • SameoleJ

    Shoot even without Dub21....you can't erase the time spent and put in. People crack me up with that...Imma delete your pictures from my phone and off social media and burn all the pictures....but you can't erase all them FUKKS!! CTHU

  • Auditor

    I got ONE pic of me and my ex...saved on a drive somewhere lol

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Some hoes be angry about it. I can see that BM number 2 having actually burned em. But nigga they made it (the pics)

  • Auditor

    Lol I don't believe state laws apply to me since I'ma federali

  • Benita Renee’

    Let Sandra Rose tell it, everybody is a practicing lesbian!!

  • MsSincerity

    #throwbackthursday....when nobody wanted him but her.....The new chick that he got is painfully skinny. She looks like a walking x-ray.

  • FireStarter

    Hmmm, kind of passive aggressive don't you think?

  • Finding Forever…

    Go to your nearest couch & rejoice...be sure to shout the following (in gif). Congrats...Congrats. I could ONLY imagine her face reading your inspirational, life guiding & enlightening letter, LOL.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    You sure can't erase all those fawks given.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Those hoes need to work on their self esteem and confidence in their own relationship.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I think I am amped about Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin returning to We TV. We is a little more quality than Love and Hippity, so maybe if they get married. it would be a little more classy? Dunno, thought I throw that out there...

  • Karma WhO

    i dont hold on to shyt! whats done is done .. i love everything fresh and new..i even love new socks after i wore the first pair, throw them shyts out! lmao

  • Karma WhO

    i dont hold on to shyt! whats done is done .. i love everything fresh and new..i even love new socks after i wore the first pair, throw them shyts out! lmao

  • http://olskoolblackflix.com Taco Juice

    I had a friend like that. Back in the day, she was a tomboy but every so often, she would claim that some str8 girl was after her or she witnessed a down low lezzie.

  • http://olskoolblackflix.com Taco Juice

    I had a friend like that. Back in the day, she was a tomboy but every so often, she would claim that some str8 girl was after her or she witnessed a down low lezzie.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I see Joe Buddens is dating Erica Mena's ex lipstick Cyn Santana.
    Boy he has a type. He changes girls like his Doctor changes his meds.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I see Joe Buddens is dating Erica Mena's ex lipstick Cyn Santana.
    Boy he has a type. He changes girls like his Doctor changes his meds.

  • Anna Maria

    Sandra said she "prefers the company of women" which, I assume, is the same as a "practicing" lesbian. Why didn't Sandra simply write that Paula is a lesbian inasmuch as no one really knows nor cares whether someone is sexually active or not, heater or homosexual. Sandra has a special interest in defining women as lesbians. Maybe she has a gay-dar that works 24X7.

  • Anna Maria

    They're not married YET?

  • Fendi

    *He changes girls like he changes vests.

  • Fendi

    Sidebar: When your MCM and your WCW are the same mf.

  • Fendi

    Nope. Yandy wasn't lying when she called Chrissy's ring an "installment plan." Did she call it Fingerhut or did I? ? Either way, it's the truth.

  • Lisa daniels

    She looks like Halle and he looks like white jesus

  • Finding Forever…

    I LOVED his song, When I Get You Alone back in the day. Crazy to see the same message carrier on a bike (from the video) turned into Mr. Blurred Lines...Paula Please, Please Take Me Back. Glad that she can reminisce on the good ole days because he begged a damn nuff. Paula looks like a love child of Janet Jackson & Alicia Keys, by the way. Fresh face...not worry in the world.
    https://vimeo.com/71265261

  • Elle

    I don't know..I kinda think she's saying, "you never know what could happen, but love is always the answer" as in they could very well get back to where they used to be. *Shrugs*

  • SMDH x2

    I gave my ex the photo album with all our wedding pics. When I say I'm done.. I'm done!!!

  • Auditor

    How so? She's always talking shiit so I laid into that ass. Employers don't give notice when they fire you so why should employees?

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    (deep hearty chest laugh)...

  • Auditor

    Yup at the hotel getting my drank on lol

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    naw... I am really rooting for them. Too Cute!

  • Finding Forever…

    Keeping the physical memories of an ex depends on the treatment. He's GARABAGE then the photos are GARABAGE as well, LOL. If & when I have a kid & if we don't "work out" I'd keep a few...hidden of course (for the kid's sake). I'm not very interested in a shrine of what was or what could have & should have been. Now the here & now...the mental memory of my ex...one nighters...a.w.b. (Associates W/ Benefits...NONE were "friends" enough to deal outside the bedroom, LOL) is memory ENOUGH. #PhotoEvidenceNOTRequired...NORDesired

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    yeah...Says the pot looking at the kettle...Yandy is a hater, like her life is better. hmmph...Least jimmy has his freedom.

  • Auditor

    I saw that! Sadly he's fine either way!

  • KB

    I'm happy for you ?. I never looked back. I knew I was overwhelmed, stressed & miserable. I didn't know how much until I didn't have to go back in there and see her face everyday.

  • Auditor

    Lol DAMN cold-blooded...naw not really lol

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Yes ma'am. I married at 19... (different dude). Those wedding pics are in the landfill somewhere in Texas.

  • SummerBaby

    You never forget your first love. And the love never dies.
    ...........
    I must be an exception to this rule, because I've never believed this.

  • brooklyn23

    I liked Robin Thicke with the longer hair. I remember seeing his video for the 1st (before he blew up) time when he was riding his bike in the street. I forgot the title. But I liked that song

  • brooklyn23

    For real. Obviously if a personstudent relationship ended it's for a reason or else you would still be together. So with that said an ex is an ex for a reason , no need to be reminded of who you're not with anymore

  • Willetta

    GOD Bless you! That took Faith & Courage ... I pray that HE has better things ahead for you!!

  • Finding Forever…

    What cha drinking on? Take a shot...or two for me & those rosettes in your celebration. I would ask for your consumption of a Mai Tai or white wine, but Fu#k It...get white girl wasted, LLS (of course noooooo drinking & driving).

  • kgirl33

    Me 2 lolol

  • SummerBaby

    That's how I took it too!

  • SummerBaby

    ....

  • SMDH x2

    Not at all, i didnt break the vows he did. I just chose to keep it moving after 18 years of marriage. Now he wants me back

  • SMDH x2

    I did to. Had 2 kids(now young adults). Lasted for 18 yrs. Now that they are grown and he's gone, I'm doing me and loving it

  • SMDH x2

    We are cool though, he wants to rekindle that old flame. I'm enjoying my adulthood right now, lol

  • Auditor

    Lol a Cosmo...might get another...hell wish I woulda just stopped at the store and got some good ol Barefoot sweet red. These drinks be killing a pocketbook lol.

  • Renee Bee

    Chile...it is what it is. Good luck on your new endeavor. You going all the way up!

  • Auditor

    Amen to that!

  • Auditor

    Thank you kindly!

  • Auditor

    Yes both! Thank you and I hope so too.

  • Renee Bee

    I have burned a couple bridges in my past and I'm still standing. Be great, Auditor!

  • Auditor

    Agreed...folks be SO scared to burn them bridges...unless you're in a very small field...and even so ain't nothing the Lord won't get you through. What's meant for me will be...I'ma firm believer of that.

  • Renee Bee

    Let the church say, AMEN!

  • mzwhang90210

    ??

  • Luv Pitties

    Hey are you still leaving the country ? If so I have questions

  • Purpleaxxe

    I do understand your position. Hostile work environments are not healthy for you. My boss was recently fired for no reason other than the higher ups did not like him. When one of the higher ups came in on an interim basis until a new boss could be found, he turned the place upside down. He became upset when I needed to take a day for a doctor's appointment. Had the nerve to follow up with a call and an email. Everyone has been miserable since he arrived although some of same people who conspired against our boss who was fired have been miserable as well. I was so upset at my doctor's appointment that he placed me on medical leave. Since I've been off, i've been happier than I've been in a long time. Plus, four individuals have reached out with job offers out of the blue. Needless to say, dude came keep it moving with the mess he has going on. God is gonna bless you too. You'll see.

  • Auditor

    Yes I am! What you need to know? ?

  • Mel

    Chile my daughter's father sends me pics of us with captions like " remember this pic? We were so happy" he still waiting for a response from me ?

  • Auditor

    I feel you...was in the same position for this job with taking a day off for a medical appointment.

    I'm going overseas...I'm going to post my blog when I head out at the end of the month.

    Lord is amazing and ALWAYS comes right on time. ?

  • Auditor

    Sigh...why do they do that? Men are pieces of work...don't know a good thang til it's gone...

  • Auditor

    Sigh...why do they do that? Men are pieces of work...don't know a good thang til it's gone...

  • Auditor

    Sorry to hear that. Hell 18 years...I'm mad I used up my 20s on a nig nog. Just got out of being bitter (I hope). Blessings and good dack for the rest of your years ?.

  • Auditor

    Sorry to hear that. Hell 18 years...I'm mad I used up my 20s on a nig nog. Just got out of being bitter (I hope). Blessings and good dack for the rest of your years ?.

  • Mel

    it's been 9 years ain't nobody want his ass he can send throwback pics but can't call his child? Clown ass

  • Auditor

    Sad...

  • Shira Harding-James

    They always do!!

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Ummm hmmm that's my ex! Sending subliminal messages saying he is STILL single! STILL will be if he waiting on me! He is way older than me and that dack is probably shriveling up and getting gray hairs. I will grow old with you and get accustomed to some things but I am not taking you back ....

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Amen!!

  • Mel

    Lmaoo

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ?????

  • Luv Pitties

    I know you resigned, so is this a personal move or do you have something lined up with a contractor?

    I am thinking of doing it but the only options I am being told about of course is in the desert in order to continue working with the fed.

  • Auditor

    No I'm going to go teach business courses. I have a degree in accounting. So I'm hoping a total career change. I never wanted to be an Auditor forever anyway. I just needed the work experience to obtain my CPA but since they're blocking me on that no point in staying.

    What's your career field? Getting a job overseas with the feds is easier in certain fields and with certain agencies. I could have stayed and went overseas with my agency but I don't want to audit anymore. My agency sucks and once you've had it hood with one agency ain't no going back to getting mistreated.

  • Luv Pitties

    Postal service

  • Auditor

    Hmm yea I know nothing about them... especially since they're quasi federal. All I know is they wanted experienced Auditors no fresh meat lol.

    I'm guessing you're a postal worker so yea I couldn't see any overseas opportunities with the feds. I believe it was the State Dept that had something that could fit in the mailing category. Embassies/unicef hire postal workers but they're not federal.

  • Luv Pitties

    I know postal service had openings in the Middle East but I wasn't trying to go there. I don't necessarily have to stay postal though, I actually prefer to get in full fed

  • Auditor

    My ex-boss (now lol) went over there and said she had a ball. That was in the earlier days of having nothing of "civilization". She traveled while there to other Middle eastern countries too.

    Too bad you're not DOD...they go all over...

  • Luv Pitties

    Yea I had an interview there years ago but didn't get it. I don't know anyone who gets hired via usajobs or that other site, smh

  • Auditor

    Lol I have at least 7 times...that's the only way to apply now...bar a few agencies...you need a long ass resume spelling out your whole life story. Mine is 10 pages I believe...

    It's quantity not quality with the feds...man over the past 6 years best believe I've put in I'd say over 2,000 applications....sadly...

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    They look so happy. Sad they couldn't work past whatever the issues were

  • che’lint

    Mistresses and babymamas on one side...Thots and side pieces on the other. Is that what the relationship goals young gals have nowadays? ... ??? sad

  • Auditor

    It's foretold in the Bible so yes...

  • che’lint

    Auditor ???? where? Oh my goodness. It was just an observation of mine.. wow

  • Auditor

    Isaiah 4:1

    And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.”

  • Auditor

    Basically what's going on now...women saying they don't need a man and they can raise the children by themselves and the men just jumping from this one to that one having children.

  • Pam

    Cute pic of them. He's just happy to get some new tail right now. Soon he will be back to his "for sure"

  • T3

    ???

  • Tina Turner

    I'm in the same situation. Exact same. Mine is obsessed with me. Won't move on after 10 years. Not checking got his daughter. More worried about me and my business

  • MsEducated

    They always miss a good thing when it's gone. .. going thr same thing....

  • Stat Quoz