Blogger Necole Bitchie is broke: ‘My life is a total mess!’ (Video)

I know this makes some people so very happy….She will be just fine…

I haven’t been to her blog in decades. Anyhoo i aint watching that long vid. How you work for years and end up broke? Living beyond ones means I’m sure.

Sandra, she stole from you?

Right. But this girl lacks financial education. Ran out of money 3 times tho??

Well I feel bad for her. Not gonna kick her while she’s down. I’m sure she’ll find her way back. You can only go up from here.

Auntie I know you somewhere cackling so imam cackle with you…. #pettypeople

I dunno her last I’m leaving post reeked of self importance and haughtiness. I’m all for expanding your horizons and not wasting ALL you time with frivolity but her post was like when people announce they are leaving social media because people shouldn’t waste their time and there are so many better things to do blah blah blah

So you think that’s the real reason she’s broke and not the reason she gave?…

Well… I hate to say this, but you are right about why people go to blogs for the most part. I tried to read the xoNecole but the post were regurgitated twitter/facebook conversation topics and the writing was often basic. I understand wanting to grow, because we all want that in a way, transition is tough. I hope she finds her place.

She did in a way, I remember as it was happening. Went from a commenter, to linking at times, to being entirely competitive with SR.

+1.

They did, it seems like traveling creates this attitude in people.

Auntie somewhere giddy as hell…

I think its the opposite. She was all out mean and now after many, MANY years… she has perfected her own brand of shade.

Never read Necole’s blog like that. A little way back when. Das it. Good tidings to ya though.

She miss her Caucasian home with her Caucasian things….nothing else.

LOL. Caucasian living ain’t easy chile.

Soooo..she didn’t even purchase a home? Just put all her money into the new website?

yea…press reset hun…

Auntie…fun fact…i found your site whilst visiting necolebitchie…one of her readers namedropped you in the comments ?

She was driven by ambition. Motivated by current events. Tired of the labels attributed to Black women. Wanted to motivate and inspire young women to aspire for more. I get it. She took some risks. I get it. I get it, I get it, I get it. I once headed an organization that mentored Black youth. I was exhausted to the point of depression. Nothing I could do for those kids,,,Nothing was ever enough for me. No amount of new clothes, new sneakers, biblical passages, nothing could erase the pain of a tortured life from their eyes. Nothing. I get it. I had to step away, much like she stepped out on faith with the intentions of motivating, I had to step away and distance myself. Yeah. Not going to bother watching the video. I wish this Sista all the best??

I don’t get a off on others folks misery. I have never been to her site but I wish her success with her goals.

SMH…and you’re enjoying every minute of it, Sandra. Gosh I thought black brits weren’t as petty, hateful and simple as you constantly show yourself to be. You have kept your chapped lips on this woman off and on for YEARS…GREEN with envy over her success AND looks. Now she’s down and out and you decide to make it a topic. How very classless and small of you.

So you move on with your life and find something else to do. I want to be a runway model and live in an $10M NYC apartment; Not happening. So …….

Sooo TS or none of them other sponsors came thru, or nah? All that hob nobbin and gobblin I’d be saltier than a fish honey..

Indeed. I remember when the shade room surpassed balleralert in follower count. A blog that copied the format of the other, but promising messiness and shade. I have insider/behind the scenes info on that drama, allegedly. Maybe some other time…

Oh and people do want inspiration Sandra. She just have to find that audience.There are many making multiple 6 figures “inspiring” folks, telling them what they wanna hear

Or Sandra was trying to send people over to her new blog. #JustAThought

Beautiful. Thank you for bringing some positivity.

Who is they? And why should they tell you anything?

Dummy . That’s all I got .

I’m at the DMV so I have nothing but time to watch the vid.

I never frequented NecoleBitchie, I thought her brand of reporting was way too patronizing and “kiss-assy” But when she launched XONecole, I must say I was impressed by the quality of content being posted. It was very much like essence.com, madamenoire, forharriet, etc.

In the video, she says she funded the idea completely out of pocket and didn’t want to rely on investors. Most entrepernuers who take this approach run into trouble early. But as a young woman investing in herself and once again building a brand from the ground up, I think her story is an inspiration and I applaud her honesty.

She is not abadoning XONecole and is very much still committed to making it work: this is what she said in the video. Her purpose for making the video was to let others know, the path to your dreams is a hard one. You’ll see a lot of failure in that road to realizing your dreams, but if you want it and you commit to it, it’s as good as yours (hardships be damned). I think millenials and children of generation z need to see more vids like hers so they understand instant gratification will almost never lead you to anything worthwhile in this fight to manifest your visions/dreams.

I’m rooting for Necole. She’ll find her way.

I think Nicole was hobnobbing before she switch to the inspirational side. She wallowed in the celebrity of others celebrity..so now her she see..none of her celebrity “Friends” are really her friends..cuz why she at her momma nem house?

Good luck to her. Ain’t nothing fun about being broke. I think it’s crazy that people complain about gossip blogs, but not enough people will visit a lifestyle blog or whatever format she had.

All of what you said!

shuttering her wildly popular gossip blog Necolebitchie.com.–Did she really say Shuttering or is this a typo?!

Other than that……being broke and losing it all is a terrible place to be, but it can be humbling and if done right you can grow from it. Hopefully Necole does this.

I agree with you. I didn’t like her other site, but I do like the new direction. She has to understand that when trying to go positive, you will never AT FIRST have as mush success as going negative. However, her time is coming. She will be just fine. It might not ever be like her 1st site, but peace and purpose are priceless in comparison.

I used to like Nicole’s site … She’s talented & beautiful ..she will be alright .

If I wasn’t married I’d be her captain, she hot…

I didn’t watch the video, so thank you for the insight and I agree with what you wrote and what she said. She took a leap of faith on herself and wanted to change who she was….NOTHING wrong with that. Now I want to visit the new site to see what it is about.

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I used to visit frequently but when I’m at work I need something interesting to get me through the day. XO wasn’t it.

?? ??

I think it’s supposed to be shutting but I’m sure Sandra was in a rush to post this.

Exactly!!

Not my thing to cheer for another sista downfall. Even if I don’t like you. I will probably giggle if you did something to me personally and even that will be done in private. My energy is not blessed nor used properly if I lived like that. All the best to her. Didn’t visit any of her sites but didn’t wish bad either.

Auntie – so nice of you to make some publicity for your colleague/friend/sister !!! I watched the whole video – and now I feel like giving Xonecole a chance !

Right!! I got healed from that quite awhile ago!!

Hey Baby!!! All of what you said. I have stepped out on faith and it failed, so I had to step back out on faith about 2 more times for it to succeed. She wanted to be a better person and with that transition many “friends and associates” will leave..in her case it was blog visits. The right people will find her and she will be good. I so love your spirit!!

+1 All of this.

Life happens ..I am more than sure T.D.Jakes would appauld her struggle for positivity …

I wish her the best..but I will say this..blogging times have changed and from visiting other blogs online and on IG..people love when a blogger put celebs on blast, expose or, reveil that their favorite singer/rapper/ actor dun got caught up with a groupie, drugs or any other shock value gossip. This is what the new generation likes…look at TSR and Famelous… for example.

And tell her how he failed a few times and even sold chicken dinners before he saw success!!

It’s the people on Sandra Rose blog that keeps me coming back. Beautiful minds and spirits.

Dayum aunty you been dragging her for years. Lmao!!! Sn, but she travels around the world. How is the broke though………Damn people stay frontin on social media.

You know, I don’t mean to be mean but I sensed this coming when she started wanting to be a celeb instead of just staying in the background and writing about them.

Another one eaten up by the fame monster.

I think she ran the crew, did the recruiting and even the hazzing.

she was good at it though. maybe that was her gift. she left to do something completely opposite. maybe she could have transitioned to doing ish like E or red carpets. Ijs

I’m still angry about that!! There’s always one that thinks they’re bigger and better than the rest of the cast only to realize later that we just loved the character they played on the show.

yes! too much info all at one time. messed with my ocd

I wish I would have invested more in my blogspot Character Corner blog. Now Google won’t give my domain back. Some white dude face pops up. Ugh!

I digress…….

I met Nicole in Atlanta during Blogging While Brown. She was such a nice person.

I wish her well. She is making a smart move by v-blogging on YouTube. That should help her blog traffic.

That line about the plantation of the man who wants to buy their land: a museum of our slave ancestors, only the Browns have replaced Blacks (something like that). So true.

Yeah I just watched it. Very inspirational. My error was reading the write up. I didn’t want to watch her in the midst of a nervous breakdown. That’s not what happens in the video. My hope is to let her testimony be motivation for me. I can’t make any promises, but that’s my wish for the day…

I’m banned to travel anytime after March ?? have to save on beast mode after Feb. Have fun. I’m sad already ??

Yeah, I know like the alleged sexual harrasment …

But how she paid for veeners though…….I didn’t see any tears

I never heard of her until seeing an interview of hers a minute back (almost like a bio). She had to couch surf at some point before blogging & also attended MSU (from some part of Maryland, I believe), so for that I cheered (or at least hoped she succeeded) for her. Sometimes sticking to what you know is BEST, but there is nothing wrong with stepping out on faith too. Best Wishes & Luck To Ya.

A cruise this year. We normally do the beach or mountains. But a cruise out of Orlando looking like the $$ move.

Everybody’s priorities are not the same . As my mom would say “she is young & baby less ..when she eats she can brake the plate .” Maybe she felt like life was more than just a house & working to pay bills . Who knows the lesson , culture & experiences she may have come across while traveling .

Dark humor etc…

WHAT? Let me lissen.

What’s up Bloop Bloop?

Well they say your best teacher is your last mistake. The only problem is when people keep making the same mistakes and never learn from them. So hopefully she’ll learn from hers and become even better & stronger after this.

Um.. girl stop crying…I’ve been down to $3, and had to put that in my gas tank..if u got your health u can bounce back..

SPEAK!
She will regain – God keeps her humble and looking to Him unlike others! God got you sis, hold on!!!!!

She’s a brave woman and she’ll get it back and more.

Can somebody give me a rundown? I have a headache. Like really.

This! Not everybody is hyped to be tied to debt for the rest of their life. Just to say you own something you never truly own (re: taxes). A lot of millenials prefer delaying starting a family so they can travel the world and rack up on once in a lifetime experiences.

Amen! I learned that the hard way. You can’t be friends with the people you blog about.

This makes me sad. Its for greater good tho baby cakes.

“Sandra probably set for life as far as bills are concerned.”
^^^^

Sandra who?

Interesting. I decided to watch the video. I didn’t want to watch a Black woman on tape at her lowest. That’s what I thought it as coming based on the write up. I was wrong. Indeed I felt her message. Now I can’t make any promises, but I’m hoping this moment, me watching the video, me hearing her message, I’m hoping this can be good for me??

I tried to plan a cruise. I didn’t know what I was doing lol. I totally forgot Orlando had a port. I’m guessing it’s probably cheaper than Fort Lauderdale or Miami.

Myra Panache is the top female blogger she’s talking about. Lol. I miss her blog. It was great!

@SandraRose is actually giving her a plug here.

Not exactly. She used my blog to build her audience. Then they abandoned my blog for hers.

Nicole was on top when she was running a messy blog ..she tried to switch to positive and lost her way . Most of us are encouraging her or using her testimony as motivation ..while others are too busy acting like they ain’t never been down …

Bullock .

Nobody is reveling, sis. I’m simply stating the facts.

It is cheaper. Tampa too. I really wanna sail out of Jacksonville (in proximity it is the closest one to us out of all FL locations) but they aint got our school spring break dates I have seen yet. Charleston has them but for some damn reason cruises out of Charleston are beyond astronomical.

hile others are too busy acting like they ain’t never been down
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GIRL

I am not mean. Don’t listen to Dub.

And annoying .

Yassss, J!

Never that, hun. Welcome back, by the way! ? We missed you.

I want to be like @SandraRose when I grow up. Wake up on the beach, full of lesbians, flip open my Toshiba laptop…

I know. Sniffles ?

If she rose to the top once, she can do it again.
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Amen!

Thanks for staying.

Make it Key Lime cheesecake and I’ll accept. LOL

I don’t know why people try to do custom sites, that don’t know how to code.

Come thru!!!! Thank you.

Thanks, hun. Some people are clueless.

But, like Necole, you’re sacraficing to make your dreams come true. It’ll pay off, Harlem.

Ok I thought so I remember when I first started lurking I would see her commenting on this site then all of a sudden her site popped up.

They abandoned her like a broken down roller coaster.

Right , internally ..happiness is not a one size fit all thing ..

LOL…Bernhard?

Sandra, you one evil woman. A real POS. Finding joy in a black woman’s pain is an illness.

He didn’t go to make love. He only wanted to fugg.

I see lol either or is fine with me.

Don’t matter, don’t care.If you gotta people will talk about you, if you don’t have people will talk about you and if they real ratchet they will kill you!

Well, I backlink to your blog.

These hoes ain’t loyal. Either they driving traffic or trying to take traffic.

All of this Except the extra cats.

It varies. I earn a modest living, but I owe the IRS a ton of money. Meanwhile, bloggers like Karen Civil a drive Rolls Royce. Obviously I am doing something wrong.

People do want inspiration. I think the new site just hasn’t been something I automatically go to daily YET tho.

Typically, I’ll see her FB posts and then click thru. With the old site it was something I checked multiple times a day. Then, she left and I was so sad because I always loved the positivity that shined thru even with her doing celebrity gossip. I think she should’ve had the new site ready to launch the day she gave her goodbye. That way she wouldn’t have lost any of her daily traffic in translation. I know there are others like myself that were still going to the site after she “closed” it strictly out of habit but once we got used to it being gone… Or she could’ve launched the new site while the other was still going to give it time to grow.

Water under the bridge now tho. I hope the new site continues to grow and become a huge success. She has already had so many great articles on the site. Nothing but up from here! ?

You are welcome ?

Ya’ll are wasting ya’ll breath. Some just dont get it smh People love to praise the like of TD Jakes, Oprah, etc. But man, if they knew the struggles those individuals had on the road to their success…

Ok………

Shuttering means to shut down.

Stayed up too late, woke up eyes still burning.
Jaws still glockin’.

I do it all the time. I like to travel but don’t have unlimited funds (or vacation time). I struggle some months, but I make it work somehow though.

No, it’s less expensive and does the same thing if not better. Rids the body of toxins and helps with sorry muscles and is relaxing.

It wouldn’t be the same but I’ll take another Girlfriends type of show over all of this reality TV we have now.

That’s some real Lil’ Kim – Nicki Minaj type of sh*t !

Let me setup this “GO FUND ME ” account.

Regina George.

Ha, U are a damm fool, LMBO!!!! Not the go fund me account

Like Juvenile.

Sure do. I felt like him and Kendrick this morning

*nose laugh*

Queen Sugar is everthing! This season of AHS seems like it’s going to be wack. That premiere episode was trash. Oh and Cuba Gooding is in this season. Ryan keeping his lights on this year ?

For who? Me? I also take foodstamps. I’m not picky.

??? she hits with all my life in had to fight. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b029c76378ea5eb0d17be0ae40b316f329298b08b0b47105020d3c5aaea4a82e.gif

Well Ms. Sandra you must expand your brand. Karen Civil is an author, a philanthropist, probably into fashion, she has her hands in many things. And with the IRS, seek a payment plan. Good luck, you deserve it. Many, Many people love your blog.

In summation she working on it and guess what…It’s typically hard for one to admit they were faking the funk. That’s why I tell my story, it may help someone…
Incog-knee-gress – I got mad respect for you, you aired some things that I was like why she say that, but in the end I know you helped someone. It’s all just a journey.

No matter your age, social status, income or culture.

Best of luck to her and all.

You are on one today lol but thank you for getting me together!!

You not stunting for the gram.

I pray this sister a healing and restoration in her life. I know she is a hard worker. This Business ain’t easy is it Sandra Rose. I too wanted to write and be in the blogosphere by suggestions of other people who know what I am capable of, but it’s a hard damn job, and tough skin is needed. She’ll bounce back because her name rang out, just like Sandra’s.

I remember trying to read NB blogs but every article was so happy and positive and I’ll admit I don’t read celebrity gossip for that so I stuck with SR because she tells it like it is

I love Nicole,she is an inspiration.”Press the reset button as many times as you like.”
Be Better Not Bitter

Amen!

Am sorry but I almost screamed …????

Exactly. Now she needs to put on her manager hat and protect his career. I see the son into Becky’s.

You betta say that!

Sandra you next.

Right .. lol. I never left.

Yes! Ain’t nothing like being well traveled. ???

Been lurking on your blog since ’08 but never really knew the backstory or origin of contention between you & NB. Makes complete sense …

Stop saying this Aunite

“This Business ain’t easy is it Sandra Rose.”
^^^^
No it isn’t, hun. It’s hard work.

Me too ????

You better keep doing it too. Chit, if you waited until money was just right to travel, you wouldn’t have half the stamps in your passport. Traveling is everything ???

Perhaps Diddy or Tyra can still use a Assistant? 0_o

When RalpAngel pulled that gun out. My my my.

I think slot fo the blogs went kiss ass when the advertisement push started happening. So glad the banners have died down.

Exactly but I do think she should help his funky butt. For better or worse right?

Tuah, the same ppl with this mind set be the same ones tho that be at the bigger celebs for not having morals or doing whatever for some coins ….pick a side

She’s his manager, she better help.

Wow I had completely forgotten about her! i used to visit her blog for gossip (not inspiration) as well as this one. Why can’t people have checked out both? Did it really need to be that competitive?

Lmao ???

Exactly. ?????

But you were just stating facts in this post, right? You’re not mad at all.

Yew STEAL cute
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EYE see what you did there.

You can’t be mad at that though, this is like The Cotton Club.

#itsthetruth

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Off topic but what do I have to do for my emojis to work on here?

Yeah, we usually on go somewhere once a year to a tropical environment…I see no need to visit hotness when It’s summer in the east.

Guhl BYE!!

OMG — where is he? I loved his comments and drags. SR community used to make work days go by so fast. I would laugh all day at the commentary. I thought I was blocked a few times too when it wouldn’t work all of a sudden. I like being able to edit comments now.

I was scared for him and proud at the same time.

I’m loyal to AHS so I will give it a shot. I will catch up by the weekend with queen sugar

She was too busy trying to rub shoulders with celebrities. She probably thought a baller would wife her…….smh

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I feel her on so many levels. She’s trying to encourage someone to go after your dreams. I commend her. It’s hard to put your fears and failures on front street because hell we all got em

I go in December/January.

She could have just created a separate section w/in the site and just did both.. provided gossip and inspiration which is what women do everyday! #Boop

I know i should not laugh but this just too funny to me.

I respect her for following her dream! We all need more courage to go for our dreams! Sandra I read your blog all the time, and I wish you were more positive. Imitation is the best form of flattery.

It’s fearful, but those they do tend to be more successful. Oprah..Ms. Banks. Put it out there, folks like to see you vulnerable. They feel like they can relate to you.

Borrow a helmet ?

What that?

When will my kids go trick or treating in September? Are you going trick or treating later? ????

Still laughing at that.
Lemme tell you bout Sandra’s racist ass ??

did she call herself a huge success?
“Before I became this huge success.”?
Ugh I wanted to feel sorry for her but she’s a victim of her own creation.

A helmut. TEARS

I thank her for giving you me!! CTHU!!!

In this raggedy muthafugga

Her site was boring. Too much celebrity butt kissing.

Me too. I think that white man had something to so with it. I’m rooting for him the most (Ralph Angel)

Boths hands ?

I hope all goes well for her in whatever she decides to do. I commend her for taking a leap of faith, that in itself takes a lot of guts. In life we have to fall in pursuit of following our dreams and that’s okay. Just don’t stay there and hold your head in shame. Hopefully she can find a way to combine the two.Wishing her the very best moving forward,

Toes ?

EYE got my stopwatch out! ?

Eyes

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When I tell you that made my damn week. The whole vid is hilarious. Dude in the red fixing them chips to perfection to be front row at that read ???

Sandra got to stuttering when that manager got on the phone.

Criss cross applesauce

You know he don’t like Sandra so he was not gone miss a minute.

But why you got to kick someone in the teeth when they are down? Smh.

Lol!!! Seriously though…my comment won’t post when I use an emoji.

As yew should…. Okay…. Who’s next?!

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?SamEYEam

I can’t stop laughing at that. She was tight. When in the middle of September will they go trick or treating?!! I died

Kona ..

Yas

?? I’m seriously tearing now. I gotta watch this again. Vid of the year contender in my book.

So serious.

CTHU!!

Charles is still here.

He kept fixing that shelf all while thoroughly enjoying every second.

THAT video was the highlight of my night. Because ALL the Family Dollars DO be raggedy as fukk! AWL OF’EM!

I said she gave YOU Me, not the other way around, CRAZY!! You are welcome!! LMBO

Loved every moment of it ??

I know lol all I can do is believe in her hopefully she will find her niche’

I been bitching about their raggedy ass for 16 yrs now. I shop there once in awhile.

“Where everybody knows your naaaammmmee… And they’re always glad you caaaaaammmmmee. You wanna be where you can see, troubles are all the same. You wanna be where everybody knoooooows. Your name.” LMAO

Abosolutely!

she isn’t too broke, she’s in Vietnam right now….I believe her spending isn’t on a baller level and that she’s sort of been forced to turn down a little bit.

Yes. Clearly. Some things are just basic English.

Man I went into one of the 50 billion ones on every corner and the ceiling had fallen down…………on the “Employment Opportunity” computer.

Or like it’s a Liquidation Sale in there.

Between that and the chick knocking ole boy out for snatching her ponytail, it’s been a funny week.

And yes, the store was indeed raggedy ???

Right, Sandra only let you join once a year. The door would be open for maybe two days. You could only registered from a secured email address, like work or cable. Unfortunately, I was in school at the time and couldn’t afford cable. Then disqus happened ??? now I can comment in the garden, but I still lurk and laugh and side eye….lol

Mama’nem be making me take her there. Then she sits out in the car while I “run in for her”.

Sandra get us the hell outchea

& they only got 2 WHOLE ppl working in the store ..the same person on returns gotta check you out too ..???

Yall seen the one where the folks walking down the street with the casket?

No I have not what in the world

Man listen. They down in Nawlin’s. Just two guys pushing a casket and signing.

Typo

Don’t should be doesn’t ???

I ain’t got the time ..like my boo said not in this post .

I was always right here at 9 o’clock AM since 2004 checking for pics of my future husband up in the club. Victory comes to those who preserver.

I hate chu ??

You don’t have ig?

EYE red that backwards. So that’s that??

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Who else wanted to buy her blog besides Ray J though?

But why the mama didn’t have on no bra?

Necole Bitchie went into “debp”.

Right..lol

Ain’t no difference between her or her staff blogging. You know that if you own a business and have staff, you still have to tend to that business even if occasionally, right?

He probably would’ve spint it like thisis50.
Worldstar crushed 50’s site.

I remember that… I felt like I had to choose. lol

You the real mvp

Nah it’s on SR or our LSI.

She wrote watt NB don’t know! ?And she’s British ? Quane’s Anglish ?

No?

when you need to do yo job

YES!

I saw yesterday! When he said don’t make me gone down and get custody. Tell me why my momma said that with my oldest ??

She’s going YouTube at the wrong time. They are no longer monetizing some videos.

She going to raggedy ass family dollar. Quick store run ?? I can’t do that with these d’s but more power to her

What’s PG?

Haha

Yes honey braiding some cornrows @ $10 per head will add up.

Naw. This good enough lol

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Prince George’s County.
I grew up around there.

*genetically

Cause we is one person Nucy. We part of the same place. We is part of the same time.

How many other ways can you catch pink eye

I didn’t finish the whole video but I commend her or anyone for doing what they feel is THEIR purpose. That being said, a few comments.

1) I kinda feel like this is a marketing ploy. Which may turn out to be very successful for her. Especially seeing as how she managed to get featured on SR’s blog.

2) You had “top success” for 8 yrs but you managed to go broke three times in a six month period, while launching a blog from your living room. I can’t think of a few other lessons she can take away from that experience…seriously.

3) She had the opportunity to have investors but chose not to, simply because she wanted to do it on her own. But, she already proved that she could do it on her own with her first blog. Had she said she did it because she didn’t want to have outside input or influence, I would have understood, but the reason she gave was dumb as hell to me.

All I know is it comes from butt crumbs

+1. All I can handle

Nucy?

Girl, if you aint got the time, use your little time wisely and move on. Yes, there is this thing called ‘scroll’. It works wonders.

Girl yall handing out packets???

Yew hah bay-bees?
Yew got a huh-band?
Iss he gudd tew yew?
In my Asian nail tech voice.

But why would she give up the blog to start the SAME type of blog? Doesn’t make sense…

I never left even after being banned?, I must admit I was a pancake though I would flip from her blog stories to yours reading and giggling all day, work was a breeze.

Random first thought: I hope she gets some discount Nikes while she there.

Yall ain’t right ain’t sent me nar pack

Honestly I don’t remember. I signed up once long before disqus…commented like 2 times a couple years ago…tried to recover info before starting this account but my email wouldn’t go through.

I was thinking the same thing. It’s always like that in life though. Two people start off on a path. One is more successful than the other. The one that’s less successful harbors resentment against the more successful one and is waiting for their chance to overshadow the more successful one. When the less successful one finally gets a chance, all their true feelings are exposed (jealously and envy) and they give their inspirational ex-friend their new famous ašš to kiss. Never thinking they’ll one day fall from grace. But the original successful one (if they’re smart) will remain strong (even alone) and preserver. This is why you never dog people out when you finally get a little shine. Just like you saw them on the way up, you’ll see them on your way down. Stay humble my friend. This also, teaches the original successful one, who is really their friend. People always expose their true feelings about you, when they think you have no one else or are down and out. Then when your back on top, they try to flip it like it was you who had the problem with them. I can’t make this shït called “life” up. It is what it is.

Right. I’m not about to watch anyone crying on video ???

I ain’t eating nobody a** and if he asks….he’s out the door.

It wasn’t. There wasn’t any gossip.

A celebrity would give her more than that.

Hey y’all! So is she broke for real or she is doing this for publicity?!

GOODness! Getcho govt nam offa here ????

Do we really care??

lmfao and ‘sussessss. smh

This post is pure comedy. WTF..yall drinking already?

You got some chiren?
Where you work?
Signifigant other/spousal information.
You Republicant or Democrat?
You went to college or you a life educated someone?
Murder Inc or DTP?
Do you eat ass, suckle on dack, suck toes or nah?
Have you ever had pink eye?
How the hell you find us?

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It’s murdahhh ???

Hey YEW

Where? Did they find out you eat ass or summin?

I sang it beliw? When did that question make it to the packet ??

I sure as hell hope you not one of them April’s that was born in October.

A lot of folks sadly.

I gotta say it real. Those many years ago I would lurk on Sandra Rose page I remember her clearly. At that time there were gossip sites and being a blogger was starting to really pop as well as YouTube channels. I don’t necessarily think she got the idea from Sandra Rosa but I think she got the formula the format. She was the it girl she had the look, the celebrity connections, the celebrity hookups (cough, Try Songz) lol.
Honestly her downfall was when she thought she can migrate into the Hollywood scene on a higher level it just didn’t happen

December

Murder Inc. or DTP

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It was a spectacular fall from grace for a woman who was once the most celebrated black blogger in the blogosphere
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Sandra is that you …I’m shocked lol no too many packs of yaki references *grabs popcorn and scrolls back up*

spectacular fall from grace *hollers*

…is that a caucasian ballsack with stubble on it in your avatar?

How many times can you hear oh baby, my baby, or it’s murderrrrrr. No thanks.

Right. I like the question though.

Hollywood Street King gets stories from this blog and a lot of times they do not credit @SandraRose

Female
Yes two boys ages 1&2
In home support services 10 years strong
If you consider the school of hard knocks
DTP
Been known to sucka mean dack
No Pank eye chile..
Can’t rember it’s been so long

It’s been awhile. It had to have been in 2011/2012 before the format changed.

Welcome!

No, no, no, my sistah. You’ve got to get your own.

I was being facetious?

Makes sense lol. I wonder if August Alsina was born in August…..

Democrat

Im fat TEW! Yasss.

It’s an optical illusion?? Much like the age old ink blots test, the visual varies depending on the viewer. When I look at it I see Beyoncé and JayZ frolicking on a beach just as the sun sets??

I was almost an April (born in May) until grandpa told moms she might as well name me April May June lol

My fellow Taurus lady. I aint eem know I dont think. Yasss

Do you let kids climb fridges cause you too lazy to fix them food?

I done pure had a check coming in mail too few years ago over the same stuff. No Judgement from me.

For shame.

I see clearly what she’s doing she’s created this Channel with this heartfelt intro message to get her old followers buzzing and talking about her and then following her Channel which will eventually equate to Necole Bitchie spin off TV show. She wants the blogs to post this video just as Sandra Rose did. Borderline genius if you ask me. I’m sure if I go to IG today Necole Bitchie is trending.

Got w/ them ppl.

New Post
Stop asking for specific Posts !!

Omg Sandy. You took clips of this video and turned it into something else LOL

Do you have direct deposit? Or a Rush Card? Or are you still picking up your paycheck after 2 pm on payday?

^^^^^
Listen…..I almost got fired that day lurking on this site. When taken asked her when was the last time she got paid….I yelped so loudly ???

DO YEW WATCH ‘POWER’ WITH YOUR 6 YR OLD?

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Hey my luv ???..how ya day going ?

Same here…I’ve been lurking 8 years and had no clue what the problem was….

We still here?

Fat girls unite?

Fine girl my off day got me a chicken in the crock pot.

Hillary 16 dead or alive ?

Stay honest with folks Nicole and watch something shift for ya … Got nothing else

That was a dumb move on her part. If that’s what she really wanted to do, she would’ve had both blog running in tandem.

Both Sandra and I are two fumbled steps and a hip replacement away from Shady Pines?? She more than I?

SHUSH (whispers in your ear) Didn’t say it was a bad thing. Back in 08, I lost over 60k…Let me tell I felt like I wanted to jump off a bridge. I had lived my parents for 4 years, making great money bought a brand new condo paid my mortgage for 6 months and just let my most of my income go into my 401k…Then yhittey and his chums on their sails boats, 30 thousand sq feet mansion in Italy and Hamptons. My dumb broke ignant ass living in two brandnew condo thinking I’m the shit.

But not it crossed my mind again, when I thought about HOW I DROVE FROM CALI TO VA CAUSE MY HUSBAND WAS HABITUAL CHEATER AND BEATER

THEN IT CROSSED MY MIND WHEN I LOST MY JOB, AND I WAS TOO PROUD TO ASK MY DAD TO HELP ME OUT.

THEN IT CROSSED MY MIND AGAIN THAT I DATED THIS JEVOAH WITNESS, WHO WAS SO STRANGE. I FELT LIKE HOOKAH, BUT HE HELD IT DOWN.

YEAH IT CROSSED MY MIND, Hi AND goodbye

I want a crock pot , so many awesome meals ..enjoy ya off day luv

hehehe

That went over my head. What were we supposed to learn from Mase?

I agree, don’t cut your lifeline until the other is up and running!

I sure hope she keeping her legs closed, cause ain’t no way I’mma be homeless opening my legs. That’s a NO partner!

She isn’t smart at all my God,who in there right mind would leave a successful business venture with no savings ?! Smh

Hate chu …

She stealing money tho
Karen Civil that is

Smaht azz!! LOL

wow! I never knew all of this, but I can only imagine what it must be like to go from having money and being popular to being broke. Why did she just close the other site? Why not take on a lesser role in her main money maker and let the sight keep running? I think closing the site was a terrible business move on her part. Hopefully she will learn from her mistakes

Whatever, then you wouldn’t have posted this story . You’re a spiteful woman. It’s no surprise you & Michelle Brown are “besties” . NB will be fine, she just needs to work on her brand a bit more. Humble yourself miss rose.

Ahhhh, there goes that “ray of sunshine”!!

After I saw so many “others” go on and get rich!! Millionaire, don’t have to work and can run around spread their hate on the dollars of those accounts…………….I say have at it!! If it helps, Great!!

Lol

yeah me either…deep sigh

Yeah I remember when he was transitioning back, and his church here in ATL shut down. A lot of people were pretty shaken up by that.
Interesting that he went back to the same hip-hop world he said God had delivered him from.

Hey! Where you been? Hope you doing well, we (Brenden) was asking about you two nights ago. HUGS

Smdh….embarassing.

I like her new blog. I get a lot info from there.

Couldn’t watch.

IAfiya is in another post. She was ill and in the hospital.

Which post?

The new crazy post…with mama cussing up a storm.

yup! trey songz lol

Wait. I just dribbled this mint cran-lemonade.

damn I remember those days. when she opened registration it was like Moses parted the red sea lol

Yeah, it’t gone left. It will give time for Sandra to come with a another story or run errands or whatever she does when leaves post up for 5 to 10 hours.

Good look, hun. You always bring the real. ?

Sandra you need to go back to how your blog used to be back in the day… with the gossip and ATL shit… you be posting weird shit these days. shit about obama and mental disorders….tf?

Didn’t she bleach her skin and get some surgery? I think she has some self esteem issues bless her heart. She may need a wellness check.

Yesssss lol

I’m glad you’re better, hun. Be well.

Is she ok?

That you’re lustful, horny?? Let me guess…You’ve seen Magic Mike recently, huh?! Yeah, that white ballsack youre envisioning , it is that of Channing Tatumn. I don’t blame you, that’s a fine ol yt boy???????

2…..A base…..he’s an a** but we’re working it out….D….Still in college part time…Both…ummmm….no….I can’t remember but I was a long time lurker, had some favorites, took a break and came back, people changed names so I have no idea whose who but I’m still very entertained. Whew!!

She clearly should have been focused on her coins.

She said, “I went into DEP,” instead of, “I went into DEBT.” WOW! Instant hate. She can’t possibly make good decisions.

Yes

NO DA HAYLE YOU DIDN’T!!!!

THEY may have missed this. EYE didn’t. ?

check with Jen. Nay.

Oh my GOOOOOOSH ?

So is she shutting down xonecole too? I LOVE that blog and follow their youtube channel as well.

You should have used Oprah,Jay-Z also with her failed ambitious Weight Watchers venture and that Tidal streaming venture..
Businessmen and women fail everyday regardless if you like them or not..Besides it isn’t only white folks voting for him.. Stop being fooled by what CNN and the like want you to see and think..

Yes…but your restricted commenters. Your site was very “clique-y” that could’ve been the reason why you saw low readership. I left myself.

Good ?
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she should have made 2 or added to the first one

I guess I’m not “old skool” because all I read in your comment was a basket of hatoration & jealousy… Did you really start talking about her private parts?? Are you made because “everyone had it” but you?!?!

Good luck to you.. I can’t wait to see how your blog does…

Oh wait………………. LOL!

What is the back story? I heard from an interview with another blogger that you (despite whatever deep differences you two have) have advised and guided them and how instrumental you were to their success.
Now I won’t even lie and may like her blog got more than 5 minutes of my lurking. I just don’t understand the fall out and why you were never acknowledged.
I hate it for her though.

I know someone said her blog was good,
(maybe I didn’t get it). She shut down one blog and started
another…….not linked to, but started over. I always wondered. Is she
alright in the head?

I witnessed the SR NB show down. All i can say is, dont bite the hand that feeds you and don’t take yourself too damn seriously

lmfaooooo so deep the B starts to cry out

A lot of what Sandra post is valuable information, her Medical Minutes, and posts about politics, media bias, the self-inflicted decline and destruction of the black family/community, self-esteem, etc. are all important things to post.

Sandra has dished out some good advice and points that have gone over so many people’s heads (based on the comments I read and I read a lot of them), I see why Sandra gets frustrated at times and want to ditch this blog and start another one with a different audience. Shoot, I experience the same frustration in my professional life too.

Ha ?? she still traveling and taking cooking classes on the Gram looking like she just left a job. Flossin’ game proper ?

I remember Necole from here. I never latched on to NecoleBitchie but I wished her well. I was very shocked when she shut down her highly successful blog that celebs actually didn’t mind being associated with. I figured that it would have been better for her to slowly change the content rather than abandoning it.

I commend her for wanting to be positive and uplifting to the point of not selling her blog for someone else to spew garbage from. I still wish her well and pray that she will be blessed for her positivity.

Wish I had the chance to run out of money 3 times…. Where they do that at??

I remember this but I also remember that you didn’t open up your blog to new commenters. Even though I didn’t always agree with your point of view I thought you had good articles. But your commenters were your fans that praised you all day but never really had anything interesting or profound to say about the articles. Maybe it was free of being banned. Well it got stale and boring. Some of my favorite blogs are because the comment sections are on fire. LOL. I’ve learned some interesting things just from reading a different point of view.

I would read both blogs. Night and day but I appreciated both for different reasons.

Yours. You’re petty asf and passive aggressive. Move on from her and this issue before you get an ulcer. You’ve held on to this story for years.

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Nobody wants inspiration they want messiness

Damn!! Sandra the great hater.. Kick a lady while she down…wow.
You used to be a nicer person years ago. Yeah its me …I’m back

Whatever happened to the blogger Angel Laws Sandra? She had a popular blog back in the day and fell off a cliff.

Exactly!!! I was just about to post that. Like bih, y didnt u just keep ur gossip site and add a link that will redirect readers to ur inspirational site…wit cho dumbass!!!

Oh I remember that u were asking for donations and all!! I think i gave about 20 lol i need to borrow that bk to jk

Necole was too busy trying to kiss these celebrities on their ass she forgot the need/wants of her audience we want to read gossip and ratchetness….we can go to church for the motivation. Her dumbass cudve obviously continued to run the gossip site and added the inspirational site as a a sister/sub website smh what is this bih IQ bc it doesn’t make sense

This does not make sense…on so many levels. She didn’t know how to grow her brand and rebrand… However I’ve been reading this blog since 2007/8 I think – When did this blog start? I only started to comment when Sandra when on the new commenting system…

Oh my goodness. I was just thinking about Nicole I was getting ready to look her up on the internet. When she closed her site I thought she had gotten a job with mainstream media. Then I came on here and Sandra had this. Wow. Good luck to her and continued success to you Sandra.

She once dated Trey Songz,he dogged her out badly.

she talking about funky dineva’s nemesis and ex bestie mrs. ATLien

I never made it in time?

So that’s what the beef was about! Thank you for your candor and honesty.

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Awww

She’s an idiot. Ppl love when news is sensationalized and not inspirational.

I JUST WROTE THIS ABOUT YOU…
see how I know you (we are friends in my head lol)

yup

Wow ! I don’t know how you deal with the daily insults . It’s terrible ! People are so rude and disrespectful ! How can one presume to come on another domain and tell them off . It’s mind boggling to me .

That’s not true Sandra, when she was shutting down her site I saw where she said u were the number one person that helped her set her site up and basically told her everything to do. Anyway that was nice of u to post this so people would find out about her new adventure and tune in if they so choose. I guess she u owes u again..

I never left and I been checking yo blog since 2000.. I just never made an account and when I did try you weren’t accepting lol..but I’m still here checking and now posting

Her new blog doesnt seem authentic… Articles celebrating low brow reality chicks come on…. She has a good photographer taking pictures but those stories… whew…

I used to read her blogg and she was quite successful. TBH everyone in the blogging industry is biting off someone else plate so to call out her solely isn’t right. Some of her commentators may have been drawn to her blog via yours but I don’t think its right to celebrate her downfall. You never really know what its like to win until you have lost at something. Her honesty about her situation is actually inspiring as she didn’t have to be transparent as she was. I hope each of us black woman will begin to pull each other up at some point.

Why didn’t she just do both?

Makes me think of Kanye’s “All Falls Down”.

Hope she gets it together, but if it was ill gained it will be lost

She’s hoping to make it big on YouTube. YouTube is ruthless. The big Youtubers are gamers, comics and beauty bloggers. She’s none of these. I’m a big YouTube fan and I don’t see anything attractive about her channel. She’s planning to upload twice a month. What! The money makers upload three times a week. Some of them several times a day. She should have kept her blog and started a YouTube channel. She’s pretty but not very smart.

Her new blog targets a small audience…Young black women. There’s nothing for older women or men. She bet on a small demographic that would rather hear the latest gossip on Jay Z and Bey than how to grow a garden on your patio.

Things happen, gotta have passive income coming in. That blog was rolling for 8 years should of had some other investments or another business as she closed the blog. All these financial advisors out here. Shit just a small simple house somewhere would have worked..crazy.

I and many others could never comment because Sandra blocked registration for commenting but to her chosen few. There would have been a whole lot more visitors to her site had she not chosen to do that because people were on other blog sites talking very badly about her. NB on the other hand would let you comment but as she got more successful she’d block comments she didn’t like through moderation. The issue with us black folks is that we don’t know how to agree to disagree. I don’t have to agree with you to respect your point of view. Real Talk!

GIRL, WE all are a mess, broke, busted & disgusted at some point. There is NOTHING WRONG with having a come to jesus moment. I have had several. As long as you DO NOT STAY THERE!!!! God got you!

Necole quit her blog because she wanted to be a celebrity herself and got too close with some of the celebrities she spilled the tea on so it became a conflict of interest. I feel like the site could’ve still prospered but she chose to let it go. I tried to support her newest blog but got bored ?

ALL OF THIS!!!

THANK YOU!!!

poor her. Yeah, women go church on Sunday to be inspired. M-F, they want gossip, a get away from reality. This is an example of her friends not being friends. She walked away from a brand, not a blog. Your fault and not wise. If anything, hire ghostwriters and such to keep NB going while you branch off to add to your brand, not shut it down.

I bet someone gassed her up to get her out the way so their blog can breathe and finally get more life.

yep, not sure what business classes she took in college, but you expand your brand, not shut it down.

a mess. this fool was paying atlien $1495 a month for RENT? Dude, ur dumb.

What hating envious person talked her out of her lucrative career? You don’t leave a sure thing to launch an unknown. Keep that sure thing while you get the unknown popping.

THIS. I launched a small business, and we just celebrated our first full year in biz this week. It took me six years to launch because I bootstrapped everything, and I STILL have a day job, and 2 roommates to keep this NYC overhead in check. You have to constantly be strategizing how to keep your brand afloat.

Agreed

I never understood why she walked away from her brand…she could’ve just revamped her original set up if she wanted to try something different

I wouldn’t call out lacking financial education. Trump filed bankruptcy 3 times. Anyone can go broke.

It is not really the same type. There is a difference between a gossip blog and a inspirational one. I do think that she should have just included more inspirational stories as well.

Right! Nicole is smarter than some want to give her credit for! Nicole did a “Reintroduce myself video” but first spilled her own TEA which made ALL of the other blogs give her FREE exposure on her new venture! She is a freaking genius, of course in my opinion.

Good luck to her! She deserves it.

Watch your words and don’t be so quick to speak. The same words that she’s saying could one day be coming from your mouth. Just be careful of what you say. Wish the lady well, instead of rubbing her “fluke” success in her face. Peace

Did you ever write that post Sandra?

I think you are right. She should have kept her first website (I never knew about either website, but others did!) just in case the second website did not go well. She has tenacity. She has what it takes. Necole (I just learned about you today), you have what it takes.

I learned about Necole today when I watched her interview Jennifer Hudson. I wanted to know how educated she was because I am into higher education. Then I watched the video here. However, she has come up since then. Now watch her xo Necole YouTube channel. She has IT. She will do well. Today, I subscribed to her YouTube channel.

I’m not gonna lie I use to go to necolebitchie daily, it was a ritual, then she changed it to the new one and I just can’t get into it like that.