A longtime loyal reader sent in this tip about the woman who allegedly broke up Mary J Blige‘s 14-year marriage to music veteran Kendu Isaacs.

My loyal reader writes, “Please forgive me for being messy, but I discovered the woman that Kendu left Mary for, and wanted to share. Her name is Starshell, and she is Mary and Kendu’s 28 year old former artist. I’ve attached a few pics.”

This information has not been independently confirmed. But judging from all the photos my loyal reader sent in of Starshell hugged up on Kendu, it’s not a stretch to imagine he did partake of the wine. Unfortunately, I can’t post those photos for legal reasons.

Women with wisdom and experience know how to keep their men away from women like Starshell. Unlike dogs, men cannot be trained to behave.

Despite the lies told by feminists over the decades, men and women are not equal. Not by a longshot.

It’s necessary to keep your man on a short leash around other women. Just ask Jackie Christie, Tameka “Tiny” Cottle, or Monica Brown how short that leash needs to be.

As you know, God put men on earth with one specific purpose: to breed indiscriminately with as many women as possible in order to ensure the survival of the human species.

A day doesn’t go by when you don’t hear about some man forgetting his marriage vows and slipping inside a chick who isn’t his wife.

It has been ordained that men cannot resist women. They will breed with women of any stripe, size, race or ethnicity.

Would you allow a nubile tenderoni like Starshell around your man?

Photos by WENN.com




  • hereforrihanna

    no maam

  • tintin

    I can see Kendu and his broke self saying to seashell “just wait the money is gonna come in just be patient, the prenup don’t meet shiaatt”. and then eventually him blaming seashell for ruining his marriage. and getting drunk and tell her to get off of him.

  • Libra80sBaby

    Mary knew about this, I’m sure. She even said she was willing to share her husband with another woman, just not this one. Chile….

  • Voice Of Reason

    The implication of this post is that it’s Mary’s fault for trusting her husband to be faithful.

    MARY was the prize in the relationship. She shouldn’t have to monitor him. He shouldn’t have the audacity to think he could keep a woman like Mary down while he did his dirt.

    I’m so happy for Mary that she found the strength to leave.

  • LibraGirlonly

    SMDH good mutha freakin bye Kendu !!

  • imright

    i was shocked,surprised & a lil angry at how weak Mary is !!! ? the things she put up with & WOULD have put up with !! she let this Red Nose Pit face asss loser break her down all the while pretending to b so strong & empowering? !!! ? Mary please !! too old for this type of bullshiit??

  • SpiceGirl

    end of the day…Mary is STILL human.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    As you know, God put men on earth with one specific purpose: to breed indiscriminately with as many women as possible in order to ensure the survival of the human species.

    Exodus 21:10: “If he take another wife for himself; her food, her clothing, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish”.

    Deut 21:15–17 states that a man must award the inheritance due to a first-born son to the son who was actually born first, even if he hates that son’s mother and likes another wife more.

    So, according to the Old Testament, although this is not forbidden- these men are NOT adhering to this in its entirety and since they cannot, should NOT be practicing it half way.

  • We Can Do This

    As a man it is hard not to fall into temptation for women. It’s a blessing and sometimes a curse.

    This article has merit.

  • Rachel

    This whole article is written to make Mary look bad. A man who cheats will do that regardless no matter what type of woman he got at home. Mary gone be aight. Starshell ain’t gonna be around long either. It’s all good now cause he prob convinced her he gonna get 100k out of Mary every month. Which I doubt that will happen. If he had Mary dancing on tables for chicken, ain’t no other artists looking for that kind of management. He better enjy the nookie while it lasts, this chick is not gonna stick around when reality kicks in.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Mary was like a lot of broken women….inside she wanted to be the powerful woman that she portrayed, but had not taken the time to heal and build herself into that woman.

    Kendu is like a lot of opportunistic men- he saw that weakness and fed on it- separating her from anyone who could support her and isolating her until she only felt that she needed him.

    Some of the most powerful woman are broken inside and it takes a major hurt to get them to see where they are weak and finally acknowledge it and do something about it.

    I know this first hand.

  • Junkanoo

    I think people just fall into certain archetypes that aren’t specific to being a man or woman some people are gold diggers ,some are selfish morons who don’t care who they hurt. Relationships change over time maybe the love died ,I don’t know why if you have Mary you want a little girl but I don’t have all the details of their relationship

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Starshocked will be his karma.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    She has a harsh face!

  • NeverSurprised

    Pretty girl, but she’s not 28. The nasal labial folds in her face are too deep. She’s like TI’s side piece — a pretty woman in her late 30s who happens to still look quite youthful.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    He didn’t LEAVE Mary for her, he CHEATED on Mary with her!

  • jayhawkpride

    I am always amused by the naivete of a person that quotes a book that’s only 2,000 years old and put here to control you. I see it’s still working!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Are you talking about me or Sandy?

    My comment was a nice way of saying BullShyt!! LOL

  • KennyHollywood

    Hey, one persons loss is another persons gain…..Let’s hope we get a “My Life” quality album out of this old Chicken. The song she just dropped with Kanye is Fire! Let’s hope there’s more to come..

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I’m so happy for Mary that she found the strength to leave.

    ^^^^THIS!! She had a history of bad relationships that tore her down piece by piece- I honestly think she stayed so long because she didn’t want to have another failure. Glad she said this isn’t worth my peace of mind.

  • imright

    yes a weak one !!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    We are ALL weak in some way or another.

  • Sexy CJ

    Unlike dogs…..men cannot be trained to behave………A day doesn’t go by when you don’t hear about some man forgetting his marriage vows and slipping inside a chick who isn’t his wife.

    It has been ordained that men cannot resist women…They will breed with women of any stripe, size, race or ethnicity………..

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/21c2285a643c1b6e8367d5d61aaee7dfbe3e95af093fcfbc161ea6f1d4d20721.jpg

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And even a dog shows loyalty.

  • 4RGSpot

    God does not bless ugly. If he truly thinks he’s gonna reap the benefits of cheating he’s sadly mistaken. All he’s gonna reap the benefits of is what he has sown.

  • Yoni7

    He left her for a Bratz doll?

    See how folks be all up in yo face and in yo manz face and they screwin’. No ma’am.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And say they just a friend or colleague.

  • Yoni7

    Did you say “labial”? *faints in speculum jelly* LMAO

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Yes, she was nicely called a puss face!! CTHU

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    Her nasolabial folds are not very deep for her age actually… If they’re not caused from excessive smiling then typically they’re genetic as is the case with mine… I’ve had nasolabial folds since I was like 25, my mom and maternal grandma same story. I do think she’s like 33 but it’s not only the folds confirming that for me.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And he may get some added grief for good measure.

  • Rayne

    Starshell ?? yo career ain’t going nowhere if this is true. Cause I fux with Mary the long way.

  • Jen_no_juice

    As you know, God put men on earth with one specific purpose: to breed indiscriminately with as many women as possible
    ————–
    Considering God does not condone fornication or adultery how is that possible?

  • AListDiva29

    Typical male having a mid life crisis so chases after a PYT half his age! I hope he doesn’t get any of Mary’s money though!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Unlike dogs, men cannot be trained to behave — Sandra!!! This is COLD!!! LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    See this kind of stuff makes you want to slap a Heffa… All up in Mary’s face… knowing she is sleeping with her; not boyfriend, but HUSBAND!!! Sorry Skank!!!

  • Jen_no_juice

    The judgement. … glad she can’t judge you on the dumb things you’ve done for the one you love. We’ve all done dumb sh!t for someone who wasn’t worthy

  • IAINTMADATCHA

    Kendu cheesing like the cat that swallowed two canarys. SMH

  • Tammie Reed

    that sounds a lot better lol

  • klwbaby

    No disrespect but what straight woman will follow the advice from a lesbian who don’t deal with men on that level??

  • Tammie Reed

    I remember a few years ago when they came to Atlanta and Mary performed and we watched a film about the making of her new album over in London with Sam Smith.

    Kendu sat next to me during the q&a and I could tell from his body language and demeanor that they weren’t going to be together long. He just didnt sit right with me. They seemed like an odd couple to me but whatever. I wish Mary the best.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    I knew it was something about her face lol……..

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Lol yes it does

  • Judas & GOD

    who lesbian ??

  • klwbaby

    Sandra

  • SpiceGirl

    alrighty then strong one….you Go!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    I hope that Kendu doesn’t get a dime out of Mary!!! Besides, this chick really doesn’t want his dumpy, middle aged azz… What can he do for her without Mary J’s money and influence? Mary’s the real MVP; Kendu needs to slither under a rock and stay there…. Besides how you get them is how you lose them… Kendu’s a fool if he thinks this chick is gonna be his ride-or-die…

  • Quitedeliteful

    And look how he’s leaning into her… From his body language you’d think he was with her instead of Mary…

  • January Jones

    Look at Kendu’s face in the first pic

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • Ro

    HES A MESS! How he gonna leave Mary for that?!?!?

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    “As you know, God put men on earth with one specific purpose: to breed indiscriminately with as many women as possible in order to ensure the survival of the human species.”
    ================================

    No.
    Just… no.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And don’t forget his daughter chiming in on how Starfish ruined their happy family and created a strain between her and her step mom.

  • bhavana

    Men screwing around with multiple women is the devil’s work.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    He never intended to leave…he was going to ride it out….but Mary had her fill and said You gotta go!

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Brutha look plenty thristy, and not in a good way. ????

  • IAINTMADATCHA

    Mmm Hmmm….Damn shame.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    I hope it’s not true. Right now, it’s just a lot of speculation to me.

  • Yoni7

    SO WRONG! LMAO

  • Yoni7

    She gone ride til HE die.

  • Yoni7

    You ain’t know?

  • Judas & GOD

    lol are u sure ? that can explain why she bitter

  • Yoni7

    He was/is.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Yeah…there is no doubt. You must be new. LOL

  • Genia

    OMG!!!!! This^^^ this whole entire post…..

  • Yoni7

    You new?
    If there are any Roses left on the committee, please get this person TWO welcome packets. One for each handle.

  • smartchickfl
  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    She is a true trumpeteer–she will kept repeating the lie until we believe it.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I ain’t touching that handle……….*grabscross LOL

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yup!! She gonna suck the life outta him and his pockets…

  • Yoni7

    It’s like a split decision. LOL

  • SG

    I like her hair. But I don’t thinks she’s particularly attractive *shrugs*

  • SG

    I peeped that too.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    It’s hard for me to believe that anybody really believes that, deep down.
    I’m thinking she just says that to “stir the pot”, so to speak.

  • Reina1718

    Yep thats her

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    I’ve never heard of this “artist”.
    Can anybody name any of her hit songs?

  • Reina1718

    He aint leave Mary,she left him! He woulda stood rite with her & kept the side chick & Mary money

  • Reina1718

    Exactly

  • Malcom Flex

    Miss Sandra…you’re right most of the time yet you get dissed here for it you need to have a block party for ungrateful heffas.

    Many women are too egotisical to even think they man looks at other women. Men aren’t to be trusted with younger women. Also the women closes to a male is who he cheats with. By that photo alone you can tell he was banging that young lady.

  • Sunny Days

    This reminds me oh Juanita Bynum. On “stage” she appeared to be such a strong woman of God. I would have NEVER guessed all the stuff that later came out.

  • Sexy CJ

    It has been ordained that…… (MEN) CANNOT RESIST WOMEN….They will breed with women of any stripe, size, race or ethnicity.

    *Then How Do Gay Men With No Children Resist Women Then?

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b70ddb907b4dfe0a2c3af5de8bfe598197f53f1db97b76f70a10875f1de26900.jpg

  • Ro

    wow! oooo ok.

  • VernadineTheQueen?

    Mary basically said he wanted the other woman over her. She said she was willing to share him, but he got so disrespectful it was unbareable. He left Mary for this woman. Note: I have been a Mary J Blige fan for over 24 years & ride with her and for her tough!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong
  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong
  • Evilpeoplearetheweakest

    Lol.

    A lesbian’s idea of heterosexual manhood is comical at best.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    She must have had some work done to her face. She does not look like this on her IG.

    I listened to Mary’s interview on the Breakfast Club–whoever the woman was, he was in love wit her. That’s got to be rough. Then this douche has the nerve to ask for alimony, child support, elderly support,etc., after committing adultery, misappropriating business AND personal funds, and neglecting his management duties. If she was smart, she would sue his azz in civil court for breach of contract, breach of fiduciary duties, etc. I would try to decimate his lying azz.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    If it’s true, then that was definitely a downgrade on his part.

    Supposedly, MJB is worth like $20-30 million . If I had a wife who was loaded like that, I’d be the best-behaved husband on the planet.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    AT this point, Mary doesn’t have to do anything to destroy him—he has done the work for her and he done gave her plenty of pain to write an amazing album. Folks been waiting for Mary music……the likes of which we haven’t gotten since he came on the scene.

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Mary. I know you got this! ?

    “Don’t need no hateration, holleration…” ?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    She said she was willing to share him<—–that is the words of a broken woman. And then he went too far and broke her past her ability to deal.

  • Sunny Days

    This makes me so sad for Mary. I also read over the weekend, that he’s asking for her to take care of his his child support obligation along with his parents. Ugh this is not a man!!!! This dude is a bitch made evil ass snake and opportunist. I always got a weird vibe from him, like that bummy dude Vivica was married to. I really hope she heals from this and true love can find her one day ?. BTW this chick is not cute….. Like one of the other posters said below, she looks like a bratz doll ?

  • Guess Who

    It’s odd…she looks like Superhead to me…only superhead looks younger than she. She’s only 28 years old? o_0

  • Scromes1212

    Men don’t cheat because the other woman is cute lol if given the opportunity most men would sleep with this lady. JS

  • MissHarlem

    This rumor has been going on for awhile. Wendy was trying to suppress this rumor awhile back on her show. Glad she loves herself more and is moving on. I like her new song.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Why? Because she’s light skin. Why would most men sleep with this particular woman?

  • klwbaby

    I don’t know her personally but I’m pretty sure she is.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I disagree. Despite the infidelity rumors he is still coming for her money. Men like him need to be taught a lesson. Refrigerator box’s (Sherrie Shepherd) husband came up and now all of these no good, broke dudes are trying to come up. He needs to be made an example.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Starshell tho??

  • MzKeriBabee

    Starshell trying to get a come up from Kendu, but hunty, Mary is the QUEEN… and Kendu is NOTHING without Mary… so kiss whatever career you had bye bye :) LOL… Don’t you know we fukks with Mary HARD!!!!! You can’t disrespect the Queen!!!!

    Good Luck on your Karma Kendu and Starshell…:)

  • Scromes1212

    I wasn’t saying that because of her, I was just saying men cheat based off of opurtunity. It’s usually someone they work with or they see often. You spend enough time with a person your intimate with and you will most often find yourself in this situation. Speaking as a man.

  • Nonya Bizness

    Really? Tiny’s keeping her man on a short leash? Does she let him off of it now and then to chase other women, or is that leash just not as long as you’re saying? It is not a woman’s job to keep a man on a leash. They’re not pets, and we’re not their owners. They have free will just like we do. They don’t all stray, and men can resist women. Everybody knows generalizations are childish.When you constantly repeat how men can’t be faithful, you sound like the women in relationships being cheated on that tell themselves the same stuff you spout so they feel better about being with someone who chooses to disrespect them and not be faithful. Cheating is a choice.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Got it…and I agree. I thought you were saying that most men would sleep with her specifically–irrespective of proximity.

  • Sunny Days

    I know that. Im just agreeing with another post, that she looks like a bratz doll.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    He is coming for it, but won’t get it and I am not saying he doesn’t deserve to be taught a lesson- saying she doesn’t have to do anything, as he is painting himself out to be untrustworthy and has managed to publicly hurt a person who is respected and well loved in the industry and in multiple music genres.

  • Pebbles

    Well ! I listened to a interview Mary did on the breakfast club, and out of her own mouth she said he was in love with someone else.. she didn’t identify the woman. However, she made it clear that the divorce will happen

  • Diva_woman

    Jackie Christie may be a lot of things, but she don’t play when it comes to her man. She don’t care who you are, even her own child she’s putting Doug first. That’s her prerogative and she’s kept him longer than most so more power to her.

    Also, don’t believe men can’t control themselves. It’s just that society excuses their behavior so why modify anything when you’re given excuses and passes to act like an animal. It’s an oxymoron to say men are superior yet they aren’t evolved enough to control an animal instinct. Are they superior to women or inferior and closer to animals? ?

  • Pebbles

    I just wrote this above.. I listened to it too… Most people would try to hide it… but she kept it 100…..

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Ohhhkay so is she partying like a rock star or nah? Nicca ain’t done that hand pose since at least ’07! He picked her over MJB?!?!?

  • Scromes1212

    She is the smartest woman on reality tv. They laugh at her but Everyman should want a woman like her and every women should take note.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Jackie Christie is a piece of ish. Any woman that puts a man over her child is a piece of ish. And she hasn’t kept ish–he just hasn’t left. Yet. I think he’s ghey anyway. Or a submissive…the kind that likes to be pissed on and stapled to the wall.

  • Scromes1212

    New post

  • shun king

    Common for men to leave older women for younger since I have gotten older myself I see why and do agree

  • Judas & GOD

    lol

  • Judas & GOD

    lord lol

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Well didn’t she file for divorce first? If I’m not mistaken?

  • Nicol B

    I agree. it has NOTHING to do with looks and everything to do with timing.

  • SayWhatNow?

    Well she is aging like spoiled milk up top so he should have just stayed with Mary

  • SayWhatNow?

    That shit is ugly

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    She said if it were anyone but this person she would have tried to share because she loved him so much.

  • SayWhatNow?

    Does your real name start with a J?

  • 2brefrank

    Divorce is sad…whatever the reason…

  • SayWhatNow?

    Some men cheat just because they are still breathing!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    No

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    No it doesn’t.

  • Scromes1212

    Lol very true. But some men don’t cheat cause they don’t have the opportunity to. Females aren’t really throwing themselves at them. But women will look at that man as a good man. When really he just not being tempted like other men. In my humble opinion.

  • imright

    are u lost ? this is a blog. EVERY ONE comes here comments & judges !!! ?????

  • Diva_woman

    Say what you will but he puts up with her shenanigans and is the only husband on BBW that shows up and shows out for her year after year. He gives her a wedding every year and never disrespects her. All these “smart” women but none of them can keep their men. She respects Doug and though some people think it’s wrong to put a man over her children it works for her. It’s definitely unfortunate that she daughter that isn’t doug’s they have a bad relationship. But her other two kids she seems to be very protective of as well.

  • imright

    shes WEAK for a MAN !!! stay on topic

  • Scromes1212

    Thank you! I don’t understand how females don’t see this smh

  • Reina1718

    Yes thats y he askin for spousal support…her interview with angie martinez she says it all..basically using her & now he wants her to take care of him & his kids even his parents smh

  • IAmLegend

    I heard her say she was willing to share him too. I was like damn Mary, you still don’t know your worth!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    U are so right, men leave their wives who they’ve been with during her better younger days and once she gets older they start seeking or looking at much younger women. Anyway the chick ain’t that cute, just exoctic looking, nothing much to see here, helll, they all look alike to me!

  • hottlanta

    So glad some women have woke up and start dating younger men. I love Frederick Douglass but I ain’t trying to pull the covers back and see him in my bed every night.

  • Nonya Bizness

    I had an aunt named StarLynn, which sounds hella country lol. Starshell sounds like she was named after a Starfish. Should have named her Crab.

  • IAmLegend
  • Nonya Bizness

    Thank you for this. I knew I read it but couldn’t find it again. Mary truly loves/loved that man.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    She should have said NO to that endorsement. That didn’t help her public image one bit.

  • Coffee1st

    No need for violence, lol.. karma takes good care of these types of women. Ive watched Karma do her thing more than a few times…. truly sum to see ??

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    I could understand if her mama gave her that name… but her real name is actually LaNeah Menzies. So she chose the name “Starshell” for herself?! SMH .
    Super-lame.

  • hottlanta

    Ladies never marry a man that don’t have a job before the WEDDING and you have to create/give a job during the duration of the MARRIAGE. Tired of my black sisters making these men their managers, which means job creation for the marriage.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    BITCH YOU ARE A YOUNG THUG STAN! FUQ YOU! YOUR OPINIONS ARE INVALID! THE NERVE OF YOUR SLOW DUMB ASS TAKING ABOUT MARY LIKE THAT! SHE’S BEEN THOUGH ALOT AND HAS STILL MANGED TO RISE FROM THE ASHES TIME AND TIME AGAIN! FUQ YOU!

  • Vegas1989

    Amen to that…..

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    She definitely has that crazy gene in her… but she’s definitely a RideorDie chick times 100. Doug seems happy to be with her so that’s what counts.

  • Vegas1989

    Do KFC even sell this any more?…..LOL…

  • hottlanta

    Women are tired of old sagging balls and men breasts as men get older. Muscle shirts are for muscles not fat. It is funny as hell to see man about to explode while he holds his breath in while he got his shirt tucked into his pants to make his stomach appear smaller. Brother be looking like he is ready to pass out.

  • Cheese eggs

    ???

  • Coffee1st

    Just for claritys sake. Did she really say she was willing to share him??

  • A D N

    You sure gave me something to think about. Wow!

  • Rarechild93

    Say it AGAIN!!! my momma use always say this. If a man is lacking when you meet him…Hes definitely going to be lacking when youi tie your dumb azz to him!!! Love dont pay the bills and there IS NO romance WITHOUT finance!! Ladies get a clue yesterday. And ole Kendu aint seen the last of his misery. God dont like ugly and he has done it all to ole Mary. Turnabout is fairplay all day. Sho nuff. Also, any real women would not have the desire to be with a man of a women that offered you a comeup. shell ghet hers too. relationships like this never work. Mark my words. LOL

  • A D N

    Men cheat. Women cheat. The end.

  • hottlanta

    Jackie is an idiot when she makes statements like when he goes to the bathroom I am there to shake it. Really girl you make yourself look stupid. He will find a way to cheat if he wants to because while you thinking you know his ways he knows your ways as well. Don’t be shocked when he dies and there is a baby on the front row that looks just like him. Ever seen a dog that has never been around other dogs and all of a sudden the dog is pregnant and the owner is shocked. They will find a way.

  • Scromes1212

    Exactly. And Doug a good dude, laid back just chilling with his family doing him. I don’t know why they get such a bad rap.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I’m a year older than that bratz doll shellfish yet I look years younger. She’s a huge down grade from Mary. I see Mary still has some self esteem issues ( Capricorns take eons to get over things) I never liked kendoodoo, to the point where I wished I could’ve warned Mary about his dog ass.

  • Coffee1st

    That’s not love. That’s a mutated, distorted, sick mind set that identifies as Love. Not judging because i was about there many years ago.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Nope, but she appears to have a bushel of fans that be like I love your song such and such. Ain’t never heard of her.

  • Coffee1st

    Mm-m-mm….smh.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Funny that people think she looks old in these pics that were taken years ago. She looks much older now. Sorta like Ev Lozado who is 10 – 15 years older than her. Needless to say they are careful not to take pics together nowadays. But I checked out her FB and she appears to still be living the high life with no damn career. Kendu must have a couple of dollars stashed away.

  • Diva_woman

    Well while all the other NBA players cheating openly, having babies that their wives are forced to accept, disrespecting them etc Jackie hasn’t had to deal with any of that. Not saying it’s 100% certain that he won’t do anything but if she’s an idiot then what does that make Shaunie O’Neal, Vanessa Bryant, Gabriel Union and the thousands of other NBA wives who’ve put up with worse?

  • Taylordanes

    I I saw this tea months back…. she seems to be the side chick…

    and men and women cheat… it is the nature of dishonest people,,…..people who are mature are loyal

  • hottlanta

    Being in an unhappy marriage is ever sadder.

  • Taylordanes

    appears… sont believe SOSHAL MEDIA lol

  • Ms. Cree

    Starshell is 28?? LIES!!! LOL!

  • Yoni7

    You need one for Lord too?

  • hottlanta

    You don’t know that. TV shows you what they want you to see just to make that money honey. A woman is a fool to be following her man around like a lap dog as if that is not gonna make him cheat, She can get divorced like anyone else she is not special. She choose the right man because the average man wouldn’t deal with her crap and pretty soon he is gonna get tired. It’s a fulltime job to be cheating computers, cellphones, miles on the car etc, etc, and you call that healthy and she is lucky that they are still married. If I gonna do all of that give me back my single life so I can get some sleep because doing all of that just to stay married is exhausting.

  • Diva_woman

    She’s been married over 20 years which is longer than most can say. Everybody got the answers but can’t seem to make their own relationships work. Tv tells you a lot, it may not be the whole truth but there is truth in it. Her husband cares enough to put up a facade of respect (that’s if you believe it’s lies). That’s more than Shaunie, Malaysia, Brandy, Tiny, Rasheeda, Cynthia Bailey, Phaedra, and a whole lot of other reality tv wives can say. She’s been on that show for a long time and married to Doug even longer and if you hear the way he speaks about her you can see he loves her dirty drawers.

  • hottlanta

    Have you noticed how men always move in with the woman but the woman rarely moves in with the man because he doesn’t have anywhere to stay. Some men do it so frequent they don’t even have suitcases they just put their stuff in those little plastic bags with 2 handles. I was out one day and this brotha walked up to me and said he had 9 kids and he makes $12.00 an hour. When I talk to a man I do the math in my head once he pays his bills what is left over for me. For him nothing came in my head because after uncle sam and taking care of 9 kids there was not enough left cover to go to a movie matinee for $5,00. I told him to back away because he was toooo fertile I didn’t want to get pregnant just by talking to him. Just like Monique making her husband her manager and Neicy Nash husband has a home office. Betta get you some office space and leave the house everyday.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Your husband does come before your children. The most high comes first then your husband, you, then the kids. Now that doesn’t mean you care about them less it just means there’s a certain order to things. Your children are suppose to respect and honor you. Now I’m not saying to ignore your household and chase after your husband 24/7 365 that’s ridiculous. In my opinion Jackie is a terrible example because she has zero respect for her household ( her children) and Doug has no backbone. As a man he’s suppose to make sure his family is doing well and everything is in order. Jackie is out of order and Doug goes along with her non sense. If Doug had any type of backbone Jackie couldn’t behave the way she does towards him and their children.

  • MsPam

    I thought Mary banned ole boy from having female friends?! How did she get pass Auntie Mary?! ???

  • 88

    MJB was lazy i saw a interview where she said he was asking her to cook and her lazy ass said you knew I didn’t cook when you met me….ridiculous

  • hottlanta

    So being married for 20 years what do they want a cookie and to put them up as a model for others to follow is stupid. Remember how folks was praising Bill/Camille about being married for over 40 years and look at how she is spending her golden years dealing with some BS. None of us are immune. I stand by what I said. Doing all of that to stay married is exhausting where you can’t get any rest to ENJOY the relationship is exhausting. Being suspicious that your spouse may cheat is not happy That still doesn’t mean they can’t get divorced. People get divorced after 40/50 years. I could care less about Jackie/Doug because I am loving/living my own life But you in kinna deep in other folks relationship. How is your relationship doing?

  • Fred G sanford

    Body language says it all, in that first pic his hand is very near her azz as he leans in towards her and his hand is the opposite on his wife

  • hottlanta

    How is she lazy because she didn’t want to get in front of the stove and cook when his lazy azz didn’t want to get in front of the door and open it to leave the house to go to work. If you get do out to make the money to get the food where I can cook you go hungry.

  • Blak

    Starshell is the hoodiest of hoodrat names that I’ve ever heard. I’m sure the name means “desperate” in some other language.

  • Blak

    But he still married her anyway. Fellas, if your making these compromises from the gates don’t expect an older woman to change for you. He looks fat and lazy and I’m sure she didn’t ask much of him

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ?????real???

  • 88

    According to her he did work she should have got off her lazy ass and cooked how hard is that?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Chillleee, THIS!!?????

  • hottlanta

    If she wanted to give him a job to support him she should have put him in the mail room managing the mail not as her manager managing her money. That is why he is making all of these demands because he knows how much money she makes. I will be investigating his azz to make sure he wasn’t stealing my money from me.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Yea i know a lady who’s so insecure that she follows her husband around at family gatherings. It’s sickening. I feel really bad for her. Who wants to live that kinda life?

  • SaltineCrackers

    Smh. Mary, Mary, Mary…

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lmao @ stapled to the wall!!????

  • hottlanta

    After a job she gave him. It ain’t like he was man enough to get a job on his own. Any man who ain’t employable ain’t cookable.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ????

  • 88

    That’s the problem in our community we are lazy and we settle for mediocrity. It’s nothing wrong with improving yourself if you don’t know how to cook learn how to cook, take some classes, Don’t flop down be lazy and say well I was like this when you married me so I’m gone stay like this.

  • hottlanta

    Those who don’t have one. They think that is cute showing I am in control. You look like an idiot.

  • Diva_woman

    It’s not that deep, you have as much negative to say as I do positive so please don’t act like you’re above any of this. You are mighty concerned and making predictions like you’re a fortune teller and know what’s coming for them. What they are doing works for them and they have a recipe figured out. If something happens 40 years from now we’ll see but I’m not about to sit around calling someone dumb from some premonition I have about what their life might turn into I’m talking about what is currently their reality which is love and respect. No one said they were models but you seem so mad that they have a relationships that works for their lifestyle. Chile keep being “smart” I hope you’re happy ?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Right!!

  • hottlanta

    A GROWN man cooks for himself a BOY waits on someone to do it for him. If she wasn’t there he will find a way to cook. If he didn’t have a job he needs to learn how to get a job, take some classes. You all upset about her not cooking but not upset about him getting a job to take care of her so she can cook for him. For that he is lazy.

  • Diva4lyfe

    LMAO with the ain’t employable ain’t cookable. I like that. On the real though this dude said he want 100K for child support and living expense a month like they had kids together. MJB point blank said she didn’t have any kids with him and she b damned if she giving him that so his kids, momma and girlfriend can live off her. I ain’t even mad he better gone with that foolishness and sit yo arse down somewhere then his daughter all on Growing up Hip hop with the label MJB stepdaughter doing shady ish. Then this joker gonna say if she don’t give him that amount that he dropping dime on how taxes was filed, big dummy she go down u go down u filed together smh

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lol

  • hottlanta

    Naw he is going down if he was the MANAGER to handle her finances it was his responsibility to file them.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    What????!! Did Mary REALLY say she’s willing to SHARE her man??

  • hottlanta

    I was laughing when she said Sal was trying to be all spiritual by not having sex before marriage.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Amen!! That is so sad.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lmao

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Hey Love….I emailed you something!!

  • hottlanta

    A real man shakes his own thing when he finishes peeing. He don’t need anyone to do it for him.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Girl me too!!

  • Diva4lyfe

    you right but that was his throwback to her to get her to give him that money heck even Charlamagne or however you spell his name said dude need to rethink that he will be in more trouble than her. And I am rolling at you and that Diva_Woman convo below. she is serious about that thing. LMAO

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Hey babe. Yea i got it. I emailed you back. Thanks ???

  • hottlanta

    I could care less. I stand by what I said, there is not one marriage out their that isn’t divorce proof. She can follow him around all day/night. While she is looking for clues she is missing others.

  • 88

    That’s what AMERICA and your slave masters have taught you and thats why yall don’t have husbands. Our communities are filled with baby mamas and ex girlfriends no wives because you have no clue what it means to be a wife or to teach a young woman how to be a wife and that’s sad. MJB our her own mouth said her husband had a job and provided for her so she had no excuse.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Are you? Who said they were right either? Good day

  • imright

    u big mad about my lil opinion !! ??? Mary is weak !!! i said it again !!

  • hottlanta

    Oh the ole trying to make a single woman feel bad because she doesn’t have a husband card. YAWNNNN so played because we plan on marrying/loving a real man and not a boy. If that is why we are single that is a good thing. We ain’t trying to marry a HUSBAND via paper and wait for him to grow up to finally become a MAN during the marriage. Why isn’t Jamie Fox married? He got baby mamas all over the place. What is wrong with him he isn’t married. What is wrong with Shamar Moore he isn’t married. Oh my bad they waiting on the right woman but if I am single I can’t afford to wait I can’t get anybody. Don’t believe the hype. Single women like myself are living life like it is golden and trust me ain’t waiting on you to finance us or sex us.

  • Queen B

    She looks 38

  • 88

    Guess what Jamie foxx and Shemar Moore are hoes no one in their right mind would expect a ho to be a husband. Ain’t nobody trying to put you down so get our of your emotions and insecurities. If you trying to marry a husband like you claim then you need to know how to COOK or learn don’t sit on your lazy ass and say I ain’t doing shit because he can cook for himself. Again this is why we are at the bottom of society.

  • hottlanta

    Er excuse me. Don’t add me in your plural analogy WE at the bottom of society. You might be but I am not. My God puts me beneath no one. I guess having a President with 5 kids by 3 different baby mamas/ Sarah Palin daughter who didn’t finish high school but has 2 kids by 2 different baby daddies and that 51 year old married man who is roaming the country with a 15 year old child is the positive representation of white folks being at the top.

  • Ms.Caramel

    Mary looks like the assistant in the picture the way he is leaning towards the other one.

  • samuel severino

    The issue is that Mary was okay with the threesomes. But once she found out he was banging her behind her back then she had an issue and kicked them both to the curb.

  • hottlanta

    The only threesome I would have will be me/him and my divorce lawyer.

  • Lola

    Her name is Laneah.. that’s her stage name ..

  • Diva_woman

    Who said it’s divorce proof? No marrriage is, but it is successful. They enjoy each other and respect each other which is what most people look to have.

  • 88

    You gotta a strong delusion sis believe or not your ppl and yourself included are at the bottom of society. God put us there because we didn’t know what it meant to be good wives and husbands. Who gives a damn what your slave masters do God ain’t dealing with them he’s only dealing with us. Focus on yourself and your ppl for a change and quit making excuses.

  • samuel severino

    That is funny.

  • samuel severino

    I used to have friends named Startika and Christarra.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    He CHEATED on Mary with her, and she tried to accept the fact but it didn’t work. That’s why I said He CHEATED on her. He didn’t leave his breadwinner.

  • Guess Who

    I know this ain’t the time nor place but FUK BOSSIP! Ain’t no way I’m disabling my Ad Blocker. WTF? They already had way too many ads and bullshyt to begin with know we have to be forced to view MORE? FOH

  • shun king

    I hope these women being careful because these young guys will go up in a tranny or milf who ever paying

  • shun king

    Yes it’s awful I see it so often and the ladies be just looking lost

  • Maxey Ross

    They did Mary a favor.

  • Maxey Ross

    Mary don’t have to cook, good thing hes gone.

  • Nakia Brown

    with MJB’s money, who needs to cook!

  • Maxey Ross

    you can cook 6xs a day, and bake a cake on Saturday don’t matter. He wanted Mary’s money.

  • 88

    and thats why shes gonna be old and lonely

  • Scromes1212

    I don’t really watch the show so I don’t know if what you said is a metaphor or what exactly that means. Being a man has nothing to do with that lol I hate when people use silly metaphors to state what a real man is lol. Taking care of your family and doing what’s right are characteristics of a stand up man. I don’t care who shakes your pen*s lol

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Lol at Crab

  • LeeSeeCee

    Mary was cooking on that stage & in the studio, ya hear? She was supporting that idiot & his dang kids. She should have asked him why he doesn’t have an income separate from what SHE provides to the household. SHiddd. OR told him, I will cook when you make equal to or more than me MF. That was some straight up double standard BS that you fonted…

  • PrettyBrown28

    So you know every Black woman? All the Black women I know are happily married to their Black husbands. They cook and clean as well. Keep it moving paid troll.

  • PrettyBrown28

    We’re at the bottom because white people say so? Nope, keep trying.

  • Chocolate Bliss

    Very old looking 28 year old

    Fuk him Mary!! He was nothing before you and now he’s back to being nothing without you. Cue Orange Juice Jones ” In The Rain ” for his ass Mary.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Yup. She said her life revolved around him. She would have done anything to please him. She said that he has been treating her like crap for years. It took him falling in love with this particular person and abandoning her for her to finally walk away.

  • ??Tommys_Female_Doppelganger??

    Well now she can pay all of his bills & child support….

  • 88

    We are at the bottom because TMH put us there look around in case you haven’t noticed we are #1 in Abortion, unemployment, incarceration, single parent households, lack of business ownership, homicide, high school dropouts etc. You have to be either delusional or on some powerful drugs to not notice it.

  • Voice Of Reason

    No matter who you are, if an emotional abuser manipulates you, you can lose yourself

  • 88

    If that’s the case why you getting emotional? a hit dog will holler. Pay attention we are talking about the ones who ARE NOT married and see no reason to get married. Stay in your place, which is out of this conversation if you can’t keep up with the topic.

  • Renee Bee

    Yes! That body language tells no lies. Smh.

  • Renee Bee

    Darn it! Now I can’t get the song out of my head.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Oh wow. That’s awful

  • hottlanta

    Marriages were never meant to be put into a box as successful and failures. So, if a couple is not divorced they are successful and those who are divorced are not successful. It is called life.

  • IamAllnatural

    It’s his lost, with his ugly dog face.

  • hottlanta

    I was looking at the show and she said it. No matter where he goes I am right there even when he goes into the bathroom and I am there so shake it when he is done. I guess she thought that will make her look cute. I rather shake his money because shaking his thing when he is through peeing is nasty.

  • 4RGSpot

    ???

  • hottlanta

    Since when did being single get to be someone kind of Emergency Alert do or die. We see no reason to get married because we see no man in front of us that makes us wanna get in front of the altar and get married. If men wanna become husbands they need to stop acting like lil boys.

  • hottlanta

    Why is it that folks give all kinds of excuses for a older woman not to have a relationship with a younger man but none for the old man to have a younger woman. Old men are just as bad because they still got something to prove. Tranny’s didn’t just pop up overnight they been around forever. Ain’t nobody never told Lil Richard to take the makeup off his face. Remember Teddy P. had an accident with one in his car.

  • hottlanta

    Chile Diva Woman going on and on like the relationship Energizer Bunny. I get Jackie. Jackie is going around with Doug all over the place so Doug can’t cheat but if Doug saw a woman he wants to have sex with, Jackie joins a threesome with him. She probably even picks the chick out where he thinks the chick is for him but the chick is really for Jackie. He knows Jackie is Bi-sexual so he has the best of both worlds but Diva Woman doesn’t get it.

  • hottlanta

    Wow I guess married 51 year ole boy who is running around with the 15 year old high school student just knocked your statistics out of the box. He will be unemployed, jailed, made his wife a single parent, incarcerated, running around with a high school dropout and lack of business ownership. Wow today is not your day.

  • IAmLegend

    I sang this at the drive thru when this commercial came out lol

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Sings? I saw you…..and him….walking in the rain??

  • hottlanta

    Like I always say they will find a way.

  • 88

    What you just wrote made 0 sense

  • PrettyBrown28

    Sorry, your statistics derived from white people do not phase me. Either you’re delusional or a paid troll. I know Sandra have to keep eating. #keepsandraworking

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Mary doesn’t exactly have the type of career that allows her to be a domestic type.

  • 88

    cocaine is a helluva drug.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Why? Men are the ones who don’t perform as well as they get older. I want a young man as a plaything myself.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Although she didn’t name the woman Mary said she heard the rumors but didn’t believe it until she caught them herself.

  • Renee Bee

    Ha! Too funny!

  • PrettyBrown28

    Sorry, your insults don’t phase me. It shows that you are incapable of having a debate without taking it personal.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    She was so hyped to show her around when she first came out.. But at the same time, she looked like she was introduced to Mary by a team member and Mary had to go along with it.

    Let me check my old pics from her album launch

  • Arnicia Miller

    Amen! I recently got divorced 3/01/2017 .it’s a hard thing to go through especially if you were loyal and dedicated to the spouse…God will get her through this..He always had something better!

  • PrettyBrown28

    Sorry, come better. Your insults don’t phase me. What are you, 16? Clearly you can’t be an adult.

  • parisjok

    oh, so that is why he wants all that cash from her

  • AggieMom96

    Too bad he couldn’t leave Mary’s money too. Good luck girl! I hear he has parents and kids that need looking after ????

  • Anita Johnson

    Amen

  • Anita Johnson

    Mary is an amazing, gifted, classy woman she will always be Mary, love her music how she sings about her life’s ups and downs inspiring others

  • Lisa daniels

    Parent support, too

  • Scromes1212

    Lol yeah that’s a bit much

  • SacredLaughter Perkins

    You can’t keep your man from any woman if he is going to cheat it doesn’t matter what you do as a woman it is your job to take care of you not take care of a man that is stressful and that’s impossible when he cheated on her that was not the first time he disrespected them average that was just the icing on the cake

  • Tea??

    Can’t keep a man from cheating. Who knows what this man is telling these girls probably got them thinking he has the connections to make them big stars when really he’s a nobody and will be a bigger nobody once they divorce.

  • Ringingthebells

    Normally I don’t talk this way , but like Li wayne say (I done everything but trust them Hoes ).

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Exactly! How things have been over for a long time, blah, blah, blah! But, she should think twice because Mary has a lot of friends and real contacts within the industry and her career won’t go far IF this is true! Kendu’s stock has already dropped, especially coming for Mary!

  • Enoughsaid2020

    I rather be single, and get a four legged dog. These two legged dogs are too much!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I feel for celebrities that their breakups become public, comes with the job perks and fame! But, it’s just not easy or nearly impossible to make another individual feel comfortable, secure, faithful or needed! Dude got commissions as Mary’s manager, and possibly futures earnings, and now he’ll have to get a real job because the spousal support won’t do him any good, he is the biggest loser!

  • JENNYJONES1

    YEAH I GUESS SHE AIN’T KNOW THIS NEGR0 WAS ON A PRE-NUP B/C IT HAD TO BE ABOUT THE MONEY……….JENNY JONES!!!

  • Toya Redd

    Does Mary realize her power and influence? Clearly this man was never in love with her. I do remember their marriage and how she dated him for a long time initially. What happened? She got older and he got tired of the same old putty tat.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I honestly felt like he was in love and cared deeply for her at one time, however, nobody likes a needy person and the fact she said her life revolved around him speaks volumes.

  • shun king

    Don’t do it I hear story’s of young guys laying up with trannys and I see them borrowing money from gays at the job

  • Notdownwiththesheeple

    But how do you expect anything good to come from a man that already had kids and lives off of being your ‘manager’?
    He doesn’t even work to make sure his own kids are ok and this is the type you find marriage material? I’m sorry but Mary was DESPERATE to marry and he knew exactly what to look for to find a type like Mary and more so, knew exactly what to say to a type like Mary. No pre-nup no nothing. Gurrrrrrllllllllllllllllll

    I hope Mary learns from this and moves the hell on to a better man that can meet her on her own level. WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU MARY!

    And this sidechick imo don’t even matter in the story. If it wasn’t for her there fo sho would be another one!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Women with wisdom and experience know how to keep their men away from
    women like Starshell.

    AGREE.

    Unlike dogs, men cannot be trained to behave.
    DISAGREE.

    IT IS IN THE HOME TRAINING. CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She said that??!!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    And then he went too far and broke her past her ability to deal.

    Love how you stated this.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    WOW!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    This is true. You have to be super balanced to deal with a needy, codependent person who is obsessive.
    Too bad she never went to therapy.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Agreed.
    Love is balanced.
    Obsession is unbalanced.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Love is balanced.
    Obsession is unbalanced.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Thank you…..that was a testimony comment. Wasn’t willing to share, but I did accept things that hurt me.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    God Bless you and your continuing growth.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    ALL OF THIS!! If he doesn’t have the drive to do better for himself…..don’t convince yourself that you are so special you are going to make him be more.
    If he ain’t loving himself like that…..how he gonna love you.
    We women tend to fall in love with “potential”, not the actual person standing in front of us. Yes, there may be instances where you can help someone realize their potential, but it is rare.

  • reddfoxxy16

    LOL…Hi 5…

  • reddfoxxy16

    ok? LOL..

  • reddfoxxy16

    Not Necessarily….

  • reddfoxxy16

    What is the issue you have with this whole COOKING thing??? What’s the BIG deal???

  • reddfoxxy16

    TELL IT…..

  • reddfoxxy16

    YUP, Fantasia, Mary, Vivica, etc..

  • reddfoxxy16

    LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

  • Rarechild93

    Child, the convo would have ceased and I would have stop listening as soon as he said 9 Kids!!!???

  • Ringingthebells

    That is so true.

  • Ringingthebells

    Thats the problem ,she (let him treat her like crap) some men will treat and respect a *** like a queen and treat a good women like a piece of ****.

  • Tony

    Sandra! I hardly EVER AGREE W YOU! But ? about these dogs.

  • Hater

    LOL! So true tho! ?

  • Ajavee

    Nah she is far from old and far from lonely. She will be “Just Fine”??

  • Ajavee

    Who is y’all? Do you have a clue what it is to be a husband?

  • Ajavee

    Yep paid troll.

  • Ajavee

    This ???

    Any man who ain’t employable ain’t cookable

  • Ajavee

    Is Niece Nash husband her manager too?