Tamar Braxton

Tamar Braxton sparked divorce rumors on Saturday in a Snapchat video where she tearfully denounced someone who treats her like she'd be nothing without them.

Tamar's social media followers assumed she was referring to her rumored abusive husband, Vincent Herbert.

While all of this was going on, Tamar's husband, Vince, was involved in a minor fender bender near his home.

The blogs note that Tamar went nightclubbing with friends while Vince nursed his minor injuries. Others note that she didn't even mention his car accident in her social media postings.

Vincent Herbert

She allegedly posted a drunken Snapchat on Friday or Saturday in which she said, "F-ck you, do me!"

The skeptics among you will assume that Tamar's emotional rants are simply a PR ploy to entice viewers to watch her family's reality TV show. PR stunts have become so commonplace that social media users expect everything to be a stunt -- even Vince's car accident.

But suspicions aside; rumor has it that Tamar was brutally beaten by her husband for years. Sandrarose.com broke an exclusive that Mr. Herbert beat Tamar like a rag doll in front of her sisters.

Maybe she's had enough?

Tamar has shown signs that she is a domestic abuse victim (please see video below). Most abused women -- especially the ones with daddy issues -- tend to stay with their abuser, aka their father substitute, because they equate the abuse with love.

When little girls don't receive love and attention from their daddies, they grow up to be either lesbians, strippers, or insecure women who latch onto older, abusive men.

Let's pray for Tamar and all the abused women, that they may find the strength and self-confidence to love themselves and leave their abusers.

And if Tamar is pulling a stunt: shame on her.

  • Yoni7

    I heard he was in some sort of car accident. Either way, blessings to them and whatever they're going through.

  • Coy little wink

    If I'm crying the last thing I'm going to do is get on fukkin Snapchat

  • hottlanta

    She fought to get him in a relationship with her when he was with someone else, so now she gotta fight to keep him in the marriage. Wow what is going on. KeKe Wyatt said her husband is asking her for a divorce and she is pregnant with her 8th child while her baby has cancer. She said that he said she got emotional issues. I am like bruh you with your Old Navy wearing, overweight, black Elmer Fudd no job having behind knew who she was when you married her and now you can't handle all the kids and looking for a way out. No ma am.

  • KLo

    who gives a MUCK

  • hottlanta

    I know, they got into a fight when they were at a hotel last year where he bit her hand. She is so dramatic I stopped watching the show because of her.

  • Wreckognize Game

    This is what people do who think they have no friends and don't trust their family. They go on social media and talk to their fake friends

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Say what?? Y he want one?

  • bemetoo

    Tamar and like should do a song together both are going thru it

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Hopefully everything works out.

  • Wreckognize Game

    I hope not. Keke is gonna go Easter ham on his ass. He better hide the carving knives in that piece

  • Coy little wink

    What about Jesus? Tamar tried it...

  • shelly

    I can't see any man beating on me and staying. Vince needs her she doesn't need him.

  • hottlanta

    The year has dealt KeKe Wyatt many ups and downs, but this might be the biggest blow yet.

    Although the singer and reality star recently revealed that she is eight months pregnant with baby #9, her husband of seven years, Michael Ford, has asked her for a divorce. Wyatt shared the devastating news in an Instagram video on Tuesday morning. "Wanna know something America," she began, "when you 8 months pregnant, you got a child sick--in and out of the hospital--and your husband got the nerve to tell you that he wants a divorce because he says that you're an emotional wreck, he says from the very beginning you never trusted me and all that kinda stuff like, yeah telling other people, other women that, we getting a divorce and if she call like what? I am so done with Michael Jamar. Y'all can have him and roast his ass, I don't care."

  • hottlanta

    Keisha Cole song Enough of No Love always works for me.

  • MistaO

    Abused women (formally) make the WORST wives and or gf's! They typically find nice, decent men "boring", and most don't respect any man unless his foot up her you know what.

    Men, please steer clear of these emotional train wrecks.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    The season finale was two months ago so I don't feel that this is a publicity stunt. But I do know drinking can get you all up in your feelings and before you know it, you calling someone spilling the beans.

  • Wreckognize Game

    She will put this out there and then wait for his family to come to her first. I have to admit that I watch the Braxton's because of Tamar and stopped watching the Unreal when she left. But she really needs to grow up

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    You know what, I saw this this morning and was like, what in the hell is going on?!

  • Coy little wink

    I never watched the show but she seems kind of dominant to me...do u think he is abusive?

  • Coy little wink

    The unreal ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I always thought he was emotionally abusive because he used to say slick stuff and shush her a lot. Someone else just posted she don't need Vince. But I would add that she no longer needs him after he developed her as an artist and her personality carried her the rest of the way.

  • hottlanta

    I know I read this and I was like whoa. I don't tell women how many kids to have but why is she steady popping out babies. 9 kids come on. That is a lot of time out of your life. My mom had 8 of us like stair steps and the nursery bill alone would have put us in a shelter.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Couldn't stand Jeannie. She is like a lil gnat. Loni corny as hell and Adrienne didn't matter. The twin was the only one I felt was being herself.

  • Kimberly King

    Hmmm... I didn't grow up with my dad ... and bae happens to be 30 years older than me. lmao but he ain't dumb enough to throw hands at me. Poor Tamar. I'm sick of those blonde wigs.

  • You Could Never

    Well you said it happens when the daddy aint in the house with the girl as she grows up. Their daddy was present.

  • Renee26

    Vince doesn't beat her and I seriously doubt he even considered jumping stupid in front of her sisters...He did possibly bite that finger that one time. She basically said he controls her career like Ike.

  • Renee26

    He probably fell asleep at the wheel...he was alert enough to be snapping pictures so he fine

  • Renee26

    She waved it in his face and he thought it was a snack

  • AListDiva29

    Does anybody keep anything private anymore?! She's way too extra, and I'm sure she probably didn't marry him for "love" anyway!

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  • KarmaBackAround

    Tamar irritating as hell to me..real rap!

  • KcoolMuziq

    It's no way a woman with her mouth is tolerating getting beat down. She was in a abusive relationship before Vince.

  • hottlanta

    That's a lie. My sister was like that. Talk mad shyt to you all day but when it comes to the man in her life, she had nothing to say. She made me so mad I told her she is talking shyt to the wrong person she needs to be talking shyt to the one that be blowing his breath in her face every morning.

  • Anunnaki

    " Mr. (MY MAN)" beat My SisTER like a rag doll in front of her US."

    this chyt will have never EVER happen in my sisterhood NOT NEVER, Mine would be DEAD. an I mean DEAD not moving, he aint coming back, it is finished.. NO more HIM,..... Im just saying. he might have beat my azz by ourself, BUTTT chile those sisters of mine find out.they would be on his azz, ..they will tell me shhh, dont call the police...lol, those heifers are forreal...

  • Justlooknout

    Why does she look like Tina Turner current age 70 plus up top.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Tamar talks to Vince any kind of way on both of their reality shows in front of millions. I'm surprised he has put up with it for this long.

    I can see him snapping with that foul mouth of hers. But with that family full of outspoken sisters. I doubt he gets away with it.

  • SDot

    Im sorry Tamar plastic face is not being beat! Now I can see her beating Vince! She's too much. I KNEW this marriage wouldn't last.

  • Branch Davidian

    Vince must have taken her oats out of the stable....#horseface

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yes it's a lot of kids and if your marriage isn't solid can add major stress. I'm not certain how much of the reality show was fake or real but the marriage was not solid!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    He was, I believe when the divorce happened Tamar may have the only one still in the house, if I remember correctly

  • MsPam

    If Tamar was nice I would feel sorry for her.... but she'll be alright. Birdman will help her find another man.

  • WeKnowsItAll

    I hate the way Vince speaks to Tamar but I also hate how over the top she is. He probably has to be a bit overbearing to handle her. I couldn't stay in a relationship with a man who talked to me that way but I also don't act like Tamar so . . .

  • Natasha Adams

    What happened to her Steve Harvey produced talk show? It is supposed to come on in September.

  • pure_rachet

    He only bit the finger because he was hungry and thought it was a hot dog.

  • Jeloi

    I agree, most sister are not going to watch someone beat their sister and not intervene. I don't believe that the Braxton sisters sat and watch Vince beat Tamar. You want us to believe that Tracy, sat and watched Tamar get beat by Vince. No way no how!

  • EntrepreneurialSpirit

    Dead ass! The first thing I do is power the phone off. I want everybody to
    leave me TF alone.

  • hottlanta

    Mrs. Harvey put a plug on that. She said no ma am.

  • NicoleZee

    Oh wow. So how do you and your boyfriend get along with him being so much older??? I swore that I would not date anymore old dudes, but these younger ones and the ones my age are even more horrible. Old men just have less energy and a lot of sexual problems. But I've found that any man that is unhealthy or that suffers from mental illness cannot give you his best in the bedroom, or he's just boring in bed.

  • NicoleZee

    Now, there may be some truth to that, but not the way you think. I'm a survivor of domestic violence and I can admit that I am terrible at relationships, but I don't know if it has anything to do with my past of being abused, maybe so. I was horrible at relationships growing up way before the abuse. I guess some women are used to being abused and it's like they lay in wait wondering when they'll be mistreated again. I wouldn't call an abused person an emotional train wreck, but I will say that it takes a long time to overcome being abused and in my case, nearly killed. The best part is that I survived, I think that's what really matters. Had I died, I would've missed out on the best thing that could have ever happened to me.......my baby son :)!

  • NicoleZee

    You know, I wish these so-called "artists" would just sing, tour, never give interviews, and stay off of social media. No one needs to know all of your private business. It's not ladylike or gentlemanlike to tell people all of your business. Leave some mystery about yourself; learned that from my grandma :)!

  • NicoleZee

    I wonder why??? Controlling people usually end up alone in the nursing home with no one. It happens, I have seen it for myself. Very sad. No one wants to put up with that. How can you control your spouse's business decisions??? If it makes money, go for it if it will keep food on the table and is not hurting anyone or breaking the law.

  • hottlanta

    She had Steve sending out that memo where you can't see him without an appointment and when you do betta do it electronic so it can be saved.. She said she is over 50 nd this is her 4th and final marriage. Steve knows he gotta make this one good even if he had to fake it because that is how he made his money.

  • NicoleZee

    Steve doesn't seem like a nice person anyway, it's got to be the money because there is nothing else appealing about him that I can see attracting a woman to him. Yuck! Maybe Tamar should try to get her own show deal or pair up with someone with a better reputation, like Dr. Oz or somebody. Now I can see Tamar doing something like a healthy lifestyle show or cooking show. I love Dr. Oz, he's even cuter in person :).

  • Kimberly King

    He'll be 58 in November.. doesn't look like it at all. Scorpios are never boring in bed. lol I'm in my late 20's with no kids, so I still have a big case of the Me-Me-Me's, which I feel like is perfectly normal since I have no dependents. The only thing we really "clash" on is how I spend my money. Weird right? Especially since I'm the one making it. I spend a lot on makeup, bags, tech gadgets, etc, but I always take care of my business first.. He doesn't trust me with money, so he never gives it to me. Instead, he'll log on to pay my utilities and rent himself. Or will buy me whatever I need.... never what I want. I tried dating men my age AND younger men. Men my age are still struggling (financially), and younger men can't offer jack crap but some A-1 sex and STDs. I've always had a preference for older men though. Try dating one again girl!

  • Jennifer

    I just dont buy the whole Vince beats her thing, for this reason only: Her mama is way too cool with Vince for that to be true. As real a Black woman as the Braxton mama is, he could not be beating her baby and she be OK with it. For that reason alone, I call BS.

    Now its clear the sisters dont like him, and who knows what those reasons are. But if he was knocking Tamar out, parents wouldn't fool with him, even for the cameras.

  • Look@m3

    Uhm wasn't he just in an accident. She could be crying about that. SMH

  • Reina1718

    Awww her monthly attention rant

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  • Karen Brady

    Me too.

  • NicoleZee

    Alright then! Thanks for responding. Seems like you have an all around good guy in your life. You are blessed. I'm happily single right now. I told my neurologist I can breathe easier and have a peace of mind now that the last toxic lowlife is gone from my life. Whatever God has in store for me will be His doing. I'm done searching for love because I attract nothing but lowlife users. If there is a great man out there for me, he will find me. If not, I will still keep living and being grateful for each day that I wake up. Every day there are people that didn't make it through the night or the day, so I think every living person should cherish each day and those they care about. Good luck to you and your relationship :)

  • Kimberly King

    You're absolutely right. Women shouldn't have to look for anything. I'm a firm believer of that. That's why I always hated that dumb question "what are you looking for?" whenever I went on a date. Like uh.... I don't look for a dang thing. lol I've never had a guy use me before.. I used to have a "hurt or get hurt" type of mindset when I was younger... probably why lots of my relationships fizzled. I did all of the hurting and using out of fear of it happening to me. So with this relationship I'm approaching things completely different.

  • Killa_Tye_Cam

    She has an album coming out, she posed recently for cover art for her new work.

  • LostWilderness

    But Sandra Rose is a lesbian. Glad your daddy wasn't shit.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Ok that would explain it then! ?

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  • Capricornlady

    I cant stand her...like at all! I tend to believe she gets what she deserves. She's hella disrespectful to everyone...especially since the tv show(s)