Blac Chyna Mechie

First, the statistics: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention just released startling new data on the HIV/AIDS epidemic that is sweeping the black community.

The data released by the Atlanta-based CDC shows that the south has the highest number of black people living with HIV, according to CBS46.

According to the CDC, one in 2 gay black men in the south is infected with the virus that causes AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome).

Black men (and women) have overtaken white gay males as the population most at risk for contracting HIV infections.

There is an increase in the numbers of straight women who are knowingly dating gay or bisexual men.

The numbers are sobering: black women are second only to gay men as the category with the highest HIV contractions.

Why are so many black women and women of color dating or marrying bisexual and gay men?

According to Psychology Today, most women who fall for gay men are insecure and seeking a relationship where they are emotionally attracted to the man rather than sexually attracted to him.

These types of relationships — where Dopamine or “instant chemistry” is not the initiating factor — tends to be more satisfying and last longer than traditional heterosexual relationships.

So there you have it. Now you know why your girlfriends are attracted to feminine men. I hope this helps explain why celebrities such as Blac Chyna, Tamar Braxton, Toni Braxton, Kim Kardashian, and others are emotionally attracted to bi and gay men.
 

Will it last?! #BlacChyna & her new man

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An earlier version of this post was edited to correct the following: “One in 2 gay black men in the south is infected with the virus that causes AIDS.”




  • Nina Ross

    Prostitites do anything for money, but at least somebody like kris Jenner got a gay Olympic multi millionaire

  • lil goodie

    Smut bucket..

  • Justlooknout

    According to Psychology Today, most women who fall for gay men are insecure and seeking a relationship where they are emotionally attracted to the man rather than sexually attracted to him.

    The list of women that are/were married to gay men. FACEPALM. Foolery Tuesday goes out with a bang.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Folks need to just live in their truth. Get tested regularly and be honest with those you’re sleeping with. But I’ll tell ya in 2017, I won’t sleep with anyone in Hollywood. I don’t care how misty you make me. Nope not finna have me burning for life

  • Justlooknout

    Just Hollywood?

    Wall Slides

  • Wreckognize Game

    Thanks Sandra for the first pic with the tongue kiss ?

  • IAmLegend
  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    “Why are so many black women and women of color dating or marrying bisexual and gay men?”
    —–
    I’m guessing… because they don’t know the dudes are gay/bisexual?

    The down-low phenomenon is a real thing in the black community. I think we all know that by now.

  • Rayne

    That sure looks disgusting

  • Pamela

    Is SR not afraid of getting sued by implying unproven gossip?

  • Pamela

    Terry Morrison phenomenon is REAL folks.

  • IAmLegend

    Implications usually don’t hold up in court. Plus adding the word ‘allegedly’ protects you every time lol.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I will never understand why she was so angry. If you buy a can of Sprite, it’s supposed to be sweet. ?

  • Coy little wink

    ???

  • Coy little wink

    Bruce is not gay…he is a transfused lesbo ?

  • Pamela

    Does anyone else find nose rings unappealing? They look so dirty. Ugh.

  • Pamela

    She was just happy that she got her groove back. Can’t say I blame her.

  • Coy little wink

    McMillan…how did she not know that colored contact wearing fool was gay…shyt was dead giveaway IMO

    What phenomenon…being a cougar on vacation?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I said the way the groom sashayed down the walkway with his sleeves dangling should’ve given her a clue.

  • Justlooknout

    Iono like non of it. I should not have got a second hole in my ear at age 17.

  • Pamela

    Yes. Terry McMillan. Thank you. Love all her books.

  • Coy little wink

    Chile…the devil is always in the details ?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    The other day, a very handsome lesbian called me “sexy.” I don’t know if it was a compliment or an insult.

  • YellowSauce

    yes he is …. lol

  • Wreckognize Game

    Uh uh, wouldn’t get my groove because I would be Sahara dry

  • AJ

    With public figures you can provide opinions, like in a blog. You also have to prove malice, which is a difficult standard to prove.

  • Guest©

    It’s deeper than this. These are the last days. Right is wrong, wrong is right. Deviant lifestyles are celebrated. I am not here to condemn anyone, just wanted to add that the lack of spirituality is also valid. In the words of Lauryn Hill, “how you gonna win when you ain’t right within?”.

  • Pamela

    Don’t forget, colored contacts were all the rage back then. That Jamaican sure fooled dear Terry.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well, she got a husband out of it (at least temporarily) plus a book and a movie… and he got a US visa, so I guess in a way it didn’t work out all that bad for them in the end .

  • Pamela

    Are you saying you’d be as dry as the Sahara Desert in North Africa? Lol.

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Probably should have had some STD test kits on that boat. ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    All the rage items that I would not date a man if he had -back in the day
    1. Colored contacts
    2. Slits in eyebrows
    3. Jheri curl (although Eazy E was cute)
    4. Dangling earring

  • Pamela

    Oh okay, didn’t know that. Thank you.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    According to the CDC, one in 2 black men in the south is infected with the virus that causes AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome).
    ____________________________________________

    define “South” https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9d465041cfaadc9080119da3ebc9e8e678679d3b3b44dc4f5fce24974c1de281.gif

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    For me it depends on the person as bad as that sounds lol

  • CrunchyBlack1

    Sex is just another form of currency, the social variety. When you’re poor, struggling, not in a good financial space. You’ll turn to any vice to distract you and sex is one of the better forms of instant gratification.

  • You Could Never

    yes. HIV/AIDS. Wrap it up.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Toni Morrison is the other author hehe

  • You Could Never

    And Starlet said and I almost quote…she knows all she NEEDS to know about Al and his gay ass past.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    The books were written before the marriage

  • You Could Never

    in related news to this post…

    Mama Toni is fukkin it up.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BYrB5DwFsK_/

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Monique B

    AIDS, STDS, SMDH, EVERY DAM DISEASE OUT

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    It’s an easy mistake the other author is Toni Morrison

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Gotcha. I stand corrected.
    So i guess she just got a husband out of the deal ( for a while).

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Ray, Stevie, and Lady Liberty saw this, smh

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    She really was. I remember watching them on Oprah and from the looks of it they both admitted there were signs. But Terri overlooked so IDK shrugs!

  • Wreckognize Game

    Yep as any desert

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    *CACKLES*

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    HOLLERING!

  • CrunchyBlack1

    I was joking with a coworker about a dude that comes to our gym but never works out. He comes in like clock work (same time daily) to have “convo” w/ another guy, then leaves. I told her his wife must request reg morning sessions. So he has to run to see his boo to sort of cleanse his mind and vent about his trauma of having to be inside a vagina lol

  • Wreckognize Game

    Now Kris has a wide hip, big booty bih

  • CrunchyBlack1

    VA and below

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • stav

    Black Chyna is heavily into pegging! My assumption is that she wants to feel in control, and wants to know what is feels like( even though she can’t) to have sex like a man, or to have a man/boy in a submissive position. She wants to believe she’s the dominant!

  • SDot

    Not I…..YUCK!
    Chyna is beyond gross.

  • Karen Brady

    Never have been and never ever ever will be but you tried that Sandra.

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Not a fan of nose rings, but to each his/her own. The tiny nose studs are aight — and only then on a female. I’m ol’ skool, so I was never down with dudes wearing earrings. But brothers now wearing nose rings — studs, hoops, and bull rings??? Nah. Seems to be portraying a bit too much femininity for “me”.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    just rap it up and you’ll be aight.

  • Karen Brady

    Log out Nancy. Log back in tomorrow. We’ll try with you again.

  • Karen Brady

    TIGHT

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Not a fan of nose rings, but to each his/her own. The tiny nose studs are aight — and only then on a female. I’m ol’ skool, so I was never down with dudes wearing earrings. But brothers now wearing nose rings — studs, hoops, and bull rings??? Nah. Seems to be portraying a bit too much femininity for “me”. ?

  • Pamela

    I think Terry was desperate for her son to have a father and she was also doing so well with her books and all, that she probably felt she needed a man by her side.

  • Karen Brady

    yeah yeah

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i’m worried for my lil nieces…. they nice clean girls, LOL!!!!! these lil saggy pant, job averse, ‘experimental’ dudes not loyal, smh

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    the people want to know!

    ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Junkanoo

    l read an article that said omega males make better partners than alpha males most women tend to want a alpha male. The pickings are slim out there weather your straight ,bi,gay or non bianary .I think a lot of women are perhaps more open minded or tired of being alone and want deep friendships and emotional connection over hot sex . As gay male l have given up on sex so many guys indulge in raw sex especially if their taking prep .I even had a hiv postive guy try to talk me into raw sex like ot was no big deal. There also guys if your not paying attention who will take the condom off ,not ok.Partying and playing also leads to less safe sex when drugs are involved .

  • Karen Brady

    very handsome lesbian.. I. am. tickled. I’m sure it was a compliment though.

  • Karen Brady

    his sleeves dangling… ya’ll ate slowly turning up on this Monday afternoon. I just can’t. lolllllllllll

  • BRuhman_Vista

    “handsome lesbian”. So you found the lesbian attractive?

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    my goodness! you be safe out there and maintain your standards. (you know, i learned on this very blog that some folks attend parties to intentionally contract the virus!!!!!!!!!!! i forget what they called them… bug chasers? someone will come along and correct me…)

  • FallenOne

    These stats like 5 years old

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    its scary out here!

  • Pamela

    Damn.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Gross! Tired of seeing her and bootleg Devante swing.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    rude.
    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    ROFLMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I l know that’s right!!!!! BWAHAHAHAHA

  • CrunchyBlack1

    they gotta watch out cuz these same dudes be in the ymca, servicing old white guys that preside over their felony cases.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    very!!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Karen Brady

    This is very specific and I can’t handle too much more of this shyt now. Tryin’ to tell you..

  • Karen Brady

    PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    we out here like Guam, hoping N. Korea don’t launch off and kill us all, smh

  • Noirluv45

    “According to the CDC, one in 2 black men in the south…” I’m not buying this. The South encompasses a lot of space. I’m not believing if I take two Black men I know and put them together, than one of them has HIV/AIDS.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl you just don’t know. this how i really feel, as i’m sitting here in my cube….

    dis tew murch. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/adf60a6e2371eb61ed06e11e80488e695ce1b05aba500eece1116c5034cde3bf.gif

  • Junkanoo

    Yes. I heard of those types of partes also that was back in the early 2000’s . I refuse to have unsafe sex with random strangers .

  • Karen Brady

    ya’ll cuttin’ up.. I’m about to clock OUT … lol

  • Wreckognize Game

    I promise you. He was the 2nd man that I can remember after Boy George with fabulous eyebrows. These two invented eyebrows on fleek.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I’m my opinion nose rings look awful on Yt ppl. Everyone of them I’ve seen with one looks filthy not matter what. They just look dirty and grungy with them them. Tupac the only man that can rock a nose ring in my opinion.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Oh no hopefully I wasn’t coming off like a no it all

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yes honey, choose life.
    social media will have people out here feeling like they’re the only one who doesn’t have anyone ‘special’ …you’ve got YOU; learn to appreciate how special YOU are. then when the right one comes along, you won’t have exhausted yourself kissing infected frogs!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    We do that… after success we feel like we need to have a man all of a sudden

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    see, this is where she got me. I’m sitting here now squinting over my cube tryna count the brothers in IT and figure out which one of every two is suspect, LOL!!

  • Karen Brady

    YOU CRACK me UPPPPPPPPPPP CONSTANTLY!!!!!! I love it!!!!

  • Noirluv45

    Ha! I know, huh! Has you looking suspicious at everyone! Now I’m gonna be doing the same thing. ?

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • WeKnowsItAll

    Stop it right now. You’re killing me. ???

  • Jen_no_juice

    LOL….nah it’s a lot of regulars too. Haven’t been with anyone in 3 years. But to keep my list under a certain # of characters and not to call folks out specifically …. Hollywood is the list

  • Junkanoo

    no doubt , thats what am doing learning to be ok with being single it’s not the end of the world but if you focus on it too much it makes you feel incomplete .

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you know, you are absolutely correct. i remember that one season of ‘top chef’ they had all those circus looking yt folks on there with all those tattoos and piercings. i was like, no way i’d be eating from the carnival rejects!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I use to think eyebrows slits were so cute.? In my defense I’m under 30 and I didn’t know any better back then. Shit I thought a dude having an earing made him cuter. Which I now know is a damn lie. I side eye all the dudes that bleach their hair , and do all sorts of nonsense to it. Like your a man, invest in a good hair cut or something. Not a hair style from hype hair magazine. It looks fruity and unnecessary.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Yes, she was kinda cute, in a manly way.

  • Pamela

    Yes Jahnee. Pac really rocked that stud earring. You know who else? Lenny Kravitz doesn’t look bad either.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, it gets lively in my head some days. but girl let me tell you my latest fiasco. went to costco to the little smart tv they had on sale. good deal, good purchase.
    tell me why i left there, ran in target, and bought a firestick. 1 day later, i’m looking at the box sitting in the garage. it’s got all the diff apps available, right there on the box the tv came in, so tell me WHY DID I BUY THE FIRE STICK. Mister wouldn’t stop sniggling, but i reminded him, Sir, YOU set it up! TUH! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    She knew she wasn’t getting a strong cup of coffee.

  • samuel severino

    Lol “job averse”

  • CrunchyBlack1

    Dead ass walked into the sauna and an old white dude had his hands down a young black dudes shorts.

    I was ear hustling one day, being nosy/observant. Overheard young dude telling another dude, that he had an open case and “conveniently” ran into the judge at the gym. They recognize each other (chopped it up)…then said when he went back to court the judge fu*ked around and reduced his sentence to probation.

    Said they ran into each other at the gym again and he was telling the judge how he changed his life, thanked him for another chance, yadda yadda. Now they sort of “befriended” each other and the judge advised him to come workout w/ him to stay out of trouble and he would hook him up with a buddy to work odd/end jobs til he found something permanent. That way he don’t gotta sell drugs or whatever he was doing.

    Two weeks later I walk into that scene and haven’t seen young dude since, but ran into old dude this morning and I wear he went ghostly white lmaoooo

  • CrunchyBlack1

    read my response to karen brady

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, been there done that. but i tell you i was embracing and appreciating being single once i got out of that abusive relationship. never take for granted have peace of mind, and peaceful home, and not being constantly drained by an emotional vampire. i’ve always know how to enjoy my own company anyway, so i suppose that helped, Lol!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Baby, she was livid! She almost wore a whole in Oprah’s couch with all that fidgeting! I kept waiting for her to pull a switchblade! LMAO!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    rest of the evening! i need to stop for gas, so one of the brothers behind the counter getting ‘tagged’ whilst i swipe my card, and try to see which one might be walking a lil funny….. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9eb2b76e506e38d5072dd1cf3ad262774eb5ffcb7856de93eefa3205f33fbcb1.gif

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Lol

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    (you need to switch gyms)

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • hottlanta

    Naw she was livid on the Tavis Smiley show he had to show it again because folks was buzzing about it. OMG!!!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ROFL!!!!!

    you could have told her, huh?

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    so Cisco not on your list? ROFL!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    let me get out of here before it rains…. see which of the 2 out of the 4 security guards downstairs is wearing his gun with flair, or got his eyebrows on fleek, smh

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Bye.. LOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • hotntot95

    Angela is having the time of her life..??

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I saw that season. They all looked unwashed and smelly. No way would I eat anything they prepared. No way! They all looked as if they had dirty finger nails, dogs that they allow in their kitchens , use the same spoon to taste everything and touch their hair while cooking.

  • Queen B

    That niqqa is clearly a homo i don’t get it BC!!!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    He confused me growing up. I thought he and nokio were cute. Yet I was under the impression they were dating each other. I also felt his tattoo around his navel was and still is gay.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Nah, it’s all good. I didn’t take it that way.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Baby, that cup was full of creme soda.

  • CrunchyBlack1

    cole, yew stewpid! lol

  • CrunchyBlack1

    it was my am spot cuz it was downtown and close to work. its not the main spot for sure so it wont be missed.

  • U gon learn today

    Ok so I know I’m in the minority here, but specifically referencing Chynas dude, what exactly makes this guy a suspected fruity? Because he has a pretty baby face? Like what is he supposed to do to look more manly? Especially when many of the DL men out here are manly like Hercules, looking like Ving Rhames, but secretly they are out in the streets pumping other men?

  • EMILY POST

    She is bisexual herself….Very Dangerous time and now that black males are now the number 1 Aids leader…. and are not concerned….

  • ItellNOLies

    I recently just ended a fling I had going for 14 months because I was just tired of the lies & the games and the fact that he’s been in a relationship for several years so yeah it’s just a big mess ! I recently had a conversation with his woman & exposed him for the dirt bag he is !! (Even tho she know he ain’t bout dog poo) I let her know how long the 2nd round been going on & I discovered things this round that I didn’t discover in the 1st ! While she was trying to tell me everything about me ! But don’t know the man she’s been with/sleeping next to for SEVERAL year’s….. & That he’s bisexual !! I don’t know WHY I meet guy’s like this & WHY it turns me on at FIRST & after a while gets DISGUSTED !! She just don’t know (well now she do) that her man likes his ass play with first it started off with my tongue (did it abt 3 times but stopped) & finger I seen that he like it so much next thing you know I brought a vibrator & next a strap he got on all four & use to let me give it to him! I guess one time I was doing it wrong & he took it (the dildo) & said “like this” & started doing his self with it !!! & That right there let me know he’s bisexual !! I don’t care how much of a freak a Man is ! A REAL man won’t let you put NOTHING near his butt hole !!! A REAL MAN won’t ask you to do him in his rear! For some STRANGE reason it turns me TF on I have the best orgasm when in 69 position & I’m giving it to him with “Mocha”

  • Coy little wink

    You can’t get your pucci back…lawd I can’t wait to say this to somebody ?

  • Evillene

    Untrue. Str8 dudes like it too.

  • ItellNOLies

    A straight man will not allow a plastic penis no where near is butt or inserted…

  • ItellNOLies

    His

  • Anunnaki

    wait straight dudes you know like their azz played with..WHAT!!!!!!!!im officially waiting on the most high…lol.

  • xenaD

    U licked his butthole? I need answers but I don’t want sandra blocking me! She got rid of some people for oversharing ??? but anyway… why would u put ur tongue in a mans doodoo route

  • xenaD

    I hadn’t no idea that was Chynas man til she jumped in the shot! I thought the writer of this blog was showing us a gay man on a yacht smfh

  • Nonya Bizness

    Chyna seems very clingy and attention seeking to me. Always sticking her tongue down a man’s throat on camera. Go raise your kids already.

  • SumthinSweeter

    I seriously should have never read this while eating a snack. But so and anyway, any guy that likes asshole play is suspect to me. He could be gay, may not be gay. Not my job to wait around and find out.

  • SumthinSweeter

    any guy that likes asshole play is suspect.

  • pecancandy

    I follow Walter Lee Hampton youtube vids. This dude got me so paranoid that I swear I am getting a private detective the next dude I meet.

  • ItellNOLies

    Idk I was feeling really freaky I guess ! Not that this makes it better but I licked around it & I made sure he washed real good

  • Coy little wink

    Misconduct

  • ItellNOLies

    Esp with a rubber penis ! Takes it from you & start doing his self with it !!

  • Kimberly King

    I been peeped that homeboy was gay. Chyna doesn’t know how to use her coochie. Disgusting.

  • SumthinSweeter

    Jezus but you are so right and It’s scary being sexually active these days, even after you “feel” like you have gotten to know someone.

  • HalleMerry

    Blac Chyna dates gay men because it keeps her in these Blogs.She has Stripped,Hoe’d,Got knocked up,and now this! What’s next? Porn and blow up dolls? (If she ain’t already doing that…)

  • Coy little wink

    The blond hair…goddess braid…slight build…pretty face…and his name. Plus they wear the same shoes and size it appears…

  • HalleMerry

    The firestick can do SOoo much more once you jailbreak it. You can watch movies that are still in theaters,sports events,EVERY darn channel,and Errr free P0rn’s if you’re into that??

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    What the heck is Chyna dating bi men for?

  • ItellNOLies

    My Ex who’s now in prison confessed to me a year into our relationship that he was into tranny’s & I loved that man so much (or was it the lifestyle he provided?) I stayed with him…. Not knowing if he was just with a tranny before he walked through the door… ! I Thank God EVERYDAY that I didn’t catch nothing from him or this last guy I !was seeing…. Pegging really turns me on but when a guy seem like he likes it too much I instantly get disgusted…. By him letting me play with his rear I’m already thinking like “this man is DL or BI”

  • AG

    Is he a former stripper?

  • Junkanoo

    Glad to hear you know how to be alone it can keep many in relationships that are toxic. These emotional vampires are a dime a dozen being married to one you can’t get away and you really can’t help anyone one uless they deal with there own issues.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Truth be told he might not be gay????? Might just have that gay look. I don’t believe in bisexual!!! It’s either your gay or straight ?????. As a gay man I don’t put sh!t pass a man, not saying all men gay cause not all men are.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Saying goodbye to actress Novella Nelson. She played the part of Mrs. Tate in Antwone Fisher. She was so fierce in that role, I hated her for years! Goodnight, sweet lady.

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Uh-uh I refuse to believe Vince is bi or g@y. I need receipts. Now them other ones? Yes! And let’s not forget Ms Amber Waves of Grain, herself.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Most dude who deal with trannies bend over, so I can def believe you. Most of my female friends say they’ve played in some dudes cakes ? before ?????

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    Wellll Lauryn ain’t right her damn self with all those kids by a married man at the time but I digress and understand the quote ?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    For some, gay is a process.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    Well she was a stripper so the lifestyle is what’s she’s used too. Going straight with a hubby and white picket fence is not her cup of tea??

  • ItellNOLies

    Even though it turns me on I’m also digusted by it…. I don’t want no man I’m involved with liking is butt played in….

  • T3

    I believe this. And my “gaydar” is pretty good. I’d never give a man the time of day of I thought for a second he was interested in any sexual involvement with another man. I do think some straight men like how some play back there feels, but don’t like the thought of it. And they don’t want to talk about it. It’s as if it never happened.

  • Guest©

    Yes, see the message not the messenger because at some point we’ve all done some thangs, lol. To a more or lesser degree that is, lol.

  • hottlanta

    Washed. Chile plain water ain’t gonna do it, You need one of them hydrogen bombs from North Korea. They got em small where they put them on the tip. Blast all the germs away.

  • hottlanta

    Why am I reading this like it is an episode of the ID Channel. WOW!!!!.

  • hottlanta

    A straight man doesn’t like to be constipated. They ain’t trying to strain and push to get nothing hard outta their butthole. Gotta be soft at all times.

  • hottlanta

    Love my smart tv. Got my ID channels in rotation. My hotel had a smart tv and I didn’t know how to act. I was like YES!!!

  • ItellNOLies

    Another reason I had to break it off because I felt like I was living a crazy ID episode…. Twisted crazy love triangle episode !! That & the fact she told me if she ever see me she’s going to ” bust my head to the white meat with her Louisville Slugger” I’m like sis you can keep ya ole DL man !! Cause one of us bout to be dead & the other in the penitentiary… I hope it NEVER get that serious for me that I will accept whatever a man do to me like he can play Russian roulette with his life all he want but don’t play with mine !!! She’s 55 he’s 39 & I’m 34…. the boy is SICK… & A habitual liar !!*with her own eyes* She seen a text in his phone to me & with a straight face that ninja told her he didn’t know what she was talking about… He can piss on her tell her it’s rain & she’ll believe it… Smh… Asking me ? Just to tell me I’m lying & what he said like of course he’s going to tell you what you want to hear & paint a bad picture of me. I just stopped telling her his TRUTH cause she’s in denial & is never leaving because she’s a weak woman.
    .

  • ?Royalty?

    Preach.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Ok great

  • 100milesperhour

    LOL

  • TheOwley

    Hmm, I always thought the attraction was there because 1. straight women don’t feel threatened or pressured by men who have no interest in them sexually. 2. Your straight female bff is a soft threat to your relationship. When the straight boyfriend wonders why her friends are gay, it’s a subconscious move by her for preservation of her relations with him. 3. Some gay men overly exaggerate female skills attributes (make up, clothing coordination, design, home design, artsy stuff, etc.) which some may find helpful. Now if your boyfriend is gay or on the DL, all bets are off. Pop psychology 101. Low self esteem and moeny might be reasons women hook up with closeted gay men. Hollywood is loaded with them.

  • Karen Brady

    thank you

  • Allihave2say

    Um! This dude was skipping in a video without any ropes with his shirt tucked up under itself like a woman’s crop top. Let me find this video….
    Wait do you have up to date health & life insurance? I don’t want to be responsible…don’t die laughing! ?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQ1X4QF35Fs

  • Karen Brady

    yep.. they horny enough, super relaxed, sometimes drubk and or high.. sometimes straight sober.. some str8 dudes are wid it. Trust and believe.

  • hottlanta

    You are 34 and she is 55 acting like that. It takes strength to leave. She is not in denial she is in foolish. I told myself I will never fight over a man. I walk away don’t call me don’t wanna be your friend or nothing. BYE!!!!

  • Allihave2say

    She has her own Chyna Dolls
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AS0CUTFKL6s

  • Karen Brady

    damn…. I believe every last word of this.. this is bananas.. real eye opener

  • Allihave2say

    Narcissistic and histrionic personality disorders.

  • Karen Brady

    lmaooooo… mister laying in the cut..having a good laugh on your azz huh?

  • hottlanta

    Some women that don’t want the married life are not strippers. They fanaticize about the white picket fence and when really hits they wanna jump over the fence to get away. I remember this lady on Oprah talking about that. She had this fairy tale image of what it is suppose to be like but after everyone had gone home from the wedding she broke. She said no one told me it was hard, No one told me how hard childbirth/raising a child is. She said she wanted her single life back. Them married women were looking at her like they wanted to kill her because she is supposed to be happy because she is married.

  • hottlanta

    Let me go back to #1 a straight man could not wanna have sex with me because I am not his type. That doesn’t make him gay. He is just honest with himself and me by not wasting our time trying to have sex with me when he doesn’t want it. I can respect him more because of that. No hard feelings.That is just like some guy telling me to have sex with him to prove to him I am not a lesbian.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    So true some women fall into the trap of what society say they should have the husband, kids big house then they’re miserable. I know a couple of people that married in college and did all that and are divorced today. They fell for somebody’s else’s dream instead of their own. Not stereotyping that marriage and all that is bad but women need to live their life, not their moms, auntie etc say they should live.

  • Glitter Cupcakes

    Sigh. The parenthesis though. ? Gay men “(and women)” don’t spread HIV. Dishonest, unknowing and/or untested people spread HIV.

    Yep, facts are facts. However, looking forward to the day the “scary” news stops slapping colors, races and sexual preferences on a disease that cares less about either one.

    Wrap it. Keep living… ???

  • Glitter Cupcakes

    See… ?? Bwahahaha. ? Wow.

  • Yup, I said it

    She just don’t even care. She would ,hump a duck to avoid being single.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yes, this!
    Like they cooked in a commune using scraps they scavenged from dumpsters on restaurant row. No. Thank. You.?

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Dating each other…?

  • NicoleZee

    Um, Auntie can you please do a post on why gay men are attracted to straight women when the we DO NOT want them??? I swear the next gay dude that hits on me will get a cut to the face! I am tired of gay dudes hitting on me, nothing wrong with being gay, but I’m NOT gay nor am I curious or interested in a gay or bisexual man. I was in the park (Piedmont Park) with my child and gay dudes were trying to flirt with me WHILE I’m with my child! The f*ck??? Naw, next time, I won’t just walk by, I’ll be flagging down the cops. Sick of this shit! I believe all the straight men have left Atlanta by now! Sad.

  • Noirluv45

    You have a good rest of the evening too! I wonder what you’ll see. Update if you remember, OK.

  • NicoleZee

    That’s what I don’t get. I’m thinking women into gay men are gay themselves or bi. That would turn my vagina all the way off. Ain’t nothing about a gay man that would attract me to him, I don’t care how he looks, how big his pecker is, or how much money he has. If he’s gay, then goodbye!!! I’m tired of gay mens hitting on me, it’s a turn off and somewhat disrespectful, especially when I am out with my son. My son doesn’t need to see them acting like assholes hitting on someone like they’re dogs in a meat market. Sickening.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    that’s wisdom right there.?

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Note to self ?: Halle tryna get you locked up. ?

  • Jussjess25

    Wow really?? Ive never been hit on by a gay man.. except sometimes they grab my boobs and say “yaassssss” ?

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    …?

  • Jussjess25

    I will never by into the white mans statistics, which says black women have the highest rate of aids outside of gay white men?. Its a lie from the pit of hell !!

  • Jussjess25

    Wow

  • NicoleZee

    Yes! It’s disgusting. Clearly, I have no interest in that lifestyle, not for me. I have never ever been curious or wanted a woman or gay man. No diss to the gays, but hitting on straight women is not cute. I only maintained my composure because I had my baby with me. Next time, either they’ll get sucker punched or I call the cops, period.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    On the regular, smh… its always something with me, Lol!

  • T. Lee

    Gay men want to date you so that they can get with your men.

  • NicoleZee

    What??? Why can’t they just find other single gay mens??? Sad. I don’t think there are any straight men left in Atlanta anyway. And the ones that say they are straight are just users looking for sex, a place to stay, or food. Sick and sad. No one wants love anymore, they just want someone to use. Sorry asses need to get jobs and stop using people! It’s sickening!!!! My legs are closed and so is my refrigerator, front door, and wallet. Lowlife sorry men need their own planet!!! Geeesh!

  • Goddess™

    Yes, the fuck it is a lie! They just had to throw black women into that bullshit. it is a lie from the pits of hell !!!

  • Nina Ross

    They will screw anything including your pets & kids… be careful!

  • Nina Ross

    Does this fruit loop have on makeup?

  • AJ

    Feeling the love! How you durrin? ?

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Gurl I cutch my pearls. He’s one of The kids. BC I hope you not letting her smash you????

  • Renee26

    Lol how you know that’s really him though

  • RICHIE_RICH
  • Guess Who

    SMH @ the entire write up, lol.

    Sidenote: Can someone tell me what is all the big hoopla about that show, Insecure? I tried to watch it and cannot get into it. What am I missing? Is it really good and I should give it another chance?

  • Renee26

    LMAO at this whole conversation!! Ya’ll are KILLING me

  • Renee26

    See…that’s the denial aspect that has women messing with gay men

  • Renee26

    Gay

  • Renee26

    Bingo…they gay

  • RICHIE_RICH
  • hottlanta

    I am loving the honesty. They ain’t trying to be a miss goody 2 shoes to please certain people. They are speaking their truth. Lots of respect and kudos. I always say we all have a different path it is not for us to like for to respect.

  • 2telldatruth

    Well maybe these women are attracted to gay or bi-men because it’s just that darn many men who are just that. Not saying that I want one…but I would date a gay or bi-man ANYDAY as oppose to having one on the DL hiding behind his masculinity. At least you know what you’re dealing with.

  • Naomi

    I think it’s really good, but this season the characters have become annoying to me. I’m still going to stick with it though. They do have a few characters (supporting) that I wish I could see more of! Plus I feel I can relate to it, being in my late 20s and struggling with the dating scene….the rest of the shenanigans they get themselves into I just look at for entertainment lol

  • NIA

    This is Alarming wrap it up People.

  • Look@m3

    Yes give it another chance….I guess if you are black you can identify with some of her thoughts or voiceovers…. LOL its a good show. I just can only pay for one station, Power or HBO. Power won….

  • Look@m3

    I have never heard of gay dudes trying to holla at straight women. Like how they approach you, Hey girl? I can not!

    Uhm but you have to stay out of piedmont park girl unless its during the daytime when its packed with GA Teckies and Fitness people…..other than that anything goes in that park!

    All the straight men have NOT left ATLANTA. I wish this rumor would stop. There are still straight men here….just a lot who like to play games because unfortunately like any other city chicks be making that playa lifestyle to easy for them.

  • Look@m3

    OMG. Where does this stuff happen at??? yawl got to be making this up! I have never seen a gay man touch or try and holla at a straight woman. The most I have seen is Girl you killing it in them heels or your hair fly or some random ish! I just smile and keep it moving..this must be a new generation of gays.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    The sad part about this is, Chyna is an insecure misguided young lady that would do anything or anyone just to maintain the lifestyle she is custom to and its a shame that she is not willing to change or think she deserves better especially since she has kids of her own that she should lead and live by example

  • Look@m3

    LMAO at skipping with no ropes!! DEAD

  • Wreckognize Game

    I just rewatched the movie with Leon playing him. You are correct. Flawless

  • Tay Gee

    lmaoooooo #dead

  • TheOwley

    True, but we are talking about having a straight woman having a “gay” male friend. He’s not going to pursue her sexually and thus she might feel safe in that relationship. A straight guy who is a friend may or may not pursue a relationship, she just makes sure with having the gay dude as a friend instead and this of course relates to women who have gay friends for this reason. it could also be just a random thing.

  • hottlanta

    Gay men dyck gets hard around straight women just like a straight dyck men does. Why do think some of them love being around women. They ain’t there just for the conversation yet no one is suspicious why some gay men love being with straight women. No one wants to talk about that.

  • Tay Gee

    It’s such a double standard when it comes to homosexuality vs lesbianism. It’s rare that I see a post targeted at the lesbian community or the many women who have “experimented” before. In fact, straight men praise “fem lesbians” and the idea of sleeping with two women at a time, but when it comes to gay men, let’s pull out our bibles and holy water, lol.
    Sad but very true. #mytwocents

  • WhooCares

    Agree!

  • WhooCares

    Not just you. I think it’s over-hyped as well.

  • oshh16

    It is only natural for a man to be attracted to a woman right?
    Annoying but natural, that is the only conclusion I came to myself long ago.

  • Nauje

    He looked uncomfortable kissing her.

  • C Mack

    Not one mention of a condom or unprotected sex. Sandra, educate instead of ignite. You have such a great platform yet you waste it with your various agendas that may you look vindictive and ignorant. Please do better.

  • C Mack

    Or you can just finish writing this fictional story?

  • oshh16

    Every homosexual dude is not effeminate, I that ties into these statistics Sandra posted, because quite a few switch hitters you would not even suspect.

  • Allihave2say

    Go to You Tube and search for Mechiesocrazydancing! Make sure you insurance is up to date!

  • Yoni7

    LOL I don’t have either. LOL

  • Yoni7

    Although I haven’t watched Insecure (I don’t have that channel). I did become a fan of hers from her YouTube days. Awkward Black Girl is where she started at. Check those out. Very funny.

  • Yoni7

    So will straight men.

  • Brianna

    Why don’t you just be single rather than date someone who you have no real future with. Dating a gay/bi man over a DL or shitty man anyways is a sign of insecurity and the fact you don’t believe you deserve your own.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Black Chyna and her man will not last not on the account that he’s gay, but on the fact that it’s fake!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Black Chyna’s relationship will not last not on the account that he’s gay but on the fact that it’s fake!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I personally have thought many gay men were attractive. Would It ever be more than that…no. But just because a man is gay doesn’t make him any less attractive to the female eye, it’s what you decide to do afterwards.

  • KA

    This article makes it seem as if it’s a preference for heterosexual women to be attracted to bi-sexual or gay men, and that makes no sense at all. Heterosexual women prefer men. What is happening is that it’s getting harder and harder to know whether a man is straight, gay or bi-sexual. And men are so often on the DL and not coming out and saying “by the way, I sleep with men too.” And often times people are not disclosing their HIV status, and sadly people aren’t asking. You don’t know what you don’t know!

    No sane woman – straight or otherwise – will choose a partner who will unknowingly expose them to the risk of HIV. The message of this post should not be that black women are so desperate they will date any man. The message of this post should be that black women should be woke to what’s happening in the community, and be asking questions and protecting themselves from infection. No one is gonna take care of you like you.

  • C Mack

    Tupac was so feminine right? Black people kill me with this thinking.

  • C Mack

    Having sex with another man makes a man gay. The blond hair and braids are just tacky, but that’s how he chooses to express himself. Those things don’t make him gay lol

  • Coy little wink

    Humor me hun…my comments are mostly for giggles ?

  • NicoleZee

    It happens all the time. While I was leaving the park, a few of them were catcalling as I was walking by gesturing for me to stop and come their way. WTH??? I’ve been asked out to the movies, even been asked for my number, when I can clearly tell that they are gay! What the hell would I do with a gay man??? The f*ck???? I just don’t get it!!!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    That picture is gross…ewwww

  • ALLMINE

    she likes feminine guys. i dont took they gotta be gay tho..

  • NicoleZee

    Damn! Times are so horrible now. My Lord!!! I don’t even want to think about some sick lowlife haming my child; nigga would never be found after I got done with him!!! Hell naw!

  • Li

    Most black women have daddy issues – just like the men do. The man is missing from the home, and they are forever looking for daddy. So WHAT if the man is gay? He’s a man and probably a friend. And there’s a shortage of REAL black men in the country.

  • Lolly Asher

    Well for the women in Hollyweird their choices are bi or gay men so there’s that.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    My bad. I fixed the post to say “one in 2 gay black men in the south is infected with the virus that causes AIDS.”

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Why should I mention a condom or unprotected sex? Do you think my readers are stupid?

  • C Mack

    No but your approach to this topic was. You could have clearly stated that these women and men should practice safe sex instead of going around the central issue to divert to an alternative agenda.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I was a nursing student who volunteered to work on the first all-AIDS unit in Miami in the early 1980s. Before we even knew that AIDS was caused by a virus. Before it was even called AIDS. Since that time, billions of dollars have been spent educating gays and everyone else about using condoms and practicing safe sex.

    Do you really think my readers don’t know about using condoms and practicing safe sex?

  • Jussjess25

    Lol

  • Jussjess25

    Lol exactly

  • C Mack

    Ask yourself that question. You felt the need to drop all these HIV stats when the original topic was straight women being attracted to gay men.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly goddess, but please take notice to how “statistics ” say that black women suffer from and die from everything under the sun more than any other race of woman. like stop with the lies. Because if black women have the highest rate of aids where’d we get it from? Because “statistics” say black men dont marry or love us like that out of all the other races of women. Furthermore if we lead in the highest number of hiv, wouldnt that mean that black men do as well? Because statistics” say we dont really date outside of our race. Its all lies goddes dont believe it. Its just another ploy to paint the balck women in a negative light. Sorry for the noval ??

  • 4RGSpot

    Gay men do be fine as all get out. Their are many also who are struggle faces but I’ve seen some gay men that are just blessed with looks which makes ya mad when you see them trying to act, talk, look and dress like women.

  • Goddess™

    I agree Jess, I TOTALLY agree with you. You are right on when you say black men don’t want black women so where do they come up with the statistics. They have to say negative things about us black women. it is a fact that we are the world’s most hated race of women and due to that we are the world’s most talked about women. The world is fascinated with us. We are strong and cannot be ignored. They admire our tenacity, resilience and perseverance…they envy our courage and audacity, the fact that we are fearless and bold and that we possess the will to continue to exist. Us black women are a force to be reckoned with…no one has our backs in this world…NO ONE! No woman of any other race could endure what we endured everyday of our lives, they could not fathom being in this world alone…the thought of that being their reality is frightening to women of all other races. We are negatively talked about…we are simultaneously despised and idolized because it takes an INCREDIBLY EXTRAORDINARY woman to live her every breathing moment fighting not just non-blacks but the males of our own race.

  • http://www.gogirlastrology.com ThaGuru

    I was just talking about this the other day!!

  • AllSeductress

    ONE THING I HAVE NOTICED BI MALES ARE VERY PERSISTENT AND CUNNING. THEY ARE TRULY OUT TO DECEIVE I HAVE CALLED THAT AZ OUT ON IT- A MANY OF TIMES AND GUESS WHAT THEY FLEE QUICKLY.WOMEN ARE TO RELAXED STOP SLEEPING . I HAVE SEEN TO MANY WOMEN FLAUNTING DUDES THAT ARE NOTICEABLE GAY U CAN HEAR IT ALL IN THEIR VOICE