Offset and Cardi B

Rapper Offset Migos proposed to rapper Cardi B at Power99’s Powerhouse concert in Philadelphia on Friday night. Why are young people in such a hurry to get divorced? Is she pregnant? Have they even dated for 6 months?

It was so romantic. Cardi was onstage, performing her only hit song, “Bodak Yellow”, when Offset tapped her gently on the shoulder and nonchalantly dropped to one knee.

Cardi and the sold out audience of mostly teenagers lost their minds. It looked so staged that rumors spread quickly that it was all a stunt by Offset to stay relevant. His group Migos aren’t exactly blowing up the charts these days.

After performing her set, Cardi posted a photo of her $100,000 20-carat diamond ring on Instagram.com and wrote: “Jesus Christ I’m so emotional, @offsetyrn I loveee you so much.”

She heaped praise on the father of three, writing:

“Thank you for seeing the potential in me since you met me .For giving me advice molding me and loving me .Your such a amazing man to me your family ,friends ,kids and you are extremely talented.I can’t wait to spend FOREVAAAA with you .Lets make a lot shmoney and love together.”

If Cardi does rush down the aisle with Offset, she will have a ready made family of step-sister wives and stepchildren in good company at her wedding.

Oriel Jamie

 

Shya Lamour

2 of Offset’s baby mamas — Shya L’amour and Oriel Jamie — are stunners. They both seem to have the entire package — beauty, brains and style. But they don’t have a #1 hit record.

Offset kids

In total, Offset has 3 baby mamas and 3 beautiful children (2 of them are pictured above). Offset is not the prettiest member of Migos, but he does sire pretty children.

The haters are saying Offset’s baby mamas are cuter than Cardi. They say the ladies are clean and wholesome and have real hair. But looks aren’t everything.

Still, who would you rather take home to mama: a gang-affiliated ex-stripper or one of these beauties?

Shya and Oriel

Cardi may not be all that in the looks department, but she has somethings the baby muvas don’t have: a ring that hit record.

 

@Migos' #Offset proposes to @iamcardib at #PowerhousePhilly! #CardiB #Migos

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  • Malai

    Cardi is having the BEST year of her life… NBS… I have never in my life seen so much good stuff happen to a person all at once

  • missmiami305

    She’s gonna regret making her relationship so public.

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Best wishes to them and l hope it works out some know each other forever and the marriages don’t work out so just good luck.

  • deanya

    1 . He clearly got a type lol 2. 6months or 6yrs if it’s real it’s real 3. He ain’t shit she ain’t shit match made in heaven lol

  • deanya

    Lol its not that public tho

  • U gon learn today

    Have to agree with every word written in this post. Theyve barely had a courtship, just had an Instagram breakup days ago, and now here they are putting on this grand show of a marriage proposal. I’m sure reality show producers, wedding dress designers, etc. are already in line, eager to jump on this disastrous hype bandwagon.

  • deanya

    Eh I feel people make cardi b more money hungry than she really is . I don’t think they’re getting married any time soon and I don’t think it’s gonna be the “grand wedding” . I mean she left lnhh when she could’ve stayed and made a shit ton of money and fans

  • Vonn

    “The haters are saying Offset’s baby mamas are cuter than Cardi. They say the ladies are clean and wholesome and have real hair. But looks aren’t everything.” Sandra Rose, you always come through with the shade. This is platinum shade.

  • freelancepimp .

    Well we see who don’t want the dark skin sisters strip for him. But yall keep buying his music and going to his shows, and following on social media anyway. LOL He probably aint he Black let him tell it.

  • U gon learn today

    First of all, I didn’t say a word about money…people don’t always make certain career moves for the money. Second, they make at best $100,000 per season doing the LHH franchise and that is certainly is not a shit load of money. Let’s not forget that Bodack Yellow was released AFTER the last season of LHHNY wrapped and I’m sure Cardi was planning to return for the next season because she was still z list, and nobody expected that song to take off the way it did. Of course she isn’t going to go back to LHH now…the franchise can’t afford to pay her what she is worth and she would actually be lowering herself by going back.

  • Diane

    I agree, too young to get married and what’s the hurry?
    Cardi B is a gang member? since when

  • AQUEEN

    Auntie….???????? I cannot I cannot in my joseline voice

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Team pear cut! Mines is a modest 1 carat.
    But since when folks get engaged and not kiss? And shouldn’t the first picture posted be of them together and not a close up of the ring?

    Anyway, congrats! I love a good publicity stunt.

  • Noirluv45

    Everything has to be done for show now. Narcissism in effect. People can’t propose in private, so they take it to social media. Why?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    She sold her soul for money and fame. It’s only a matter of time before she has to pay up.

  • http://www.nailgurl.com NailGurl

    Congrats to Cardi, I hope that she continues to fly high on success. She does deserve to be happy! Hey Offset (that name kills me) seems to love her…so let’s hope that they (both) get their B.E.T WEDDING SPECIAL!

  • Real Name

    Who said they are getting married right away. Some ppl do stay engaged for a year or two before getting married. She’s hot right now so I’m sure planning a wedding is something she not so eager to do at the moment. Folks always see the bad in everything these days.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Tommy come get your girl!….

  • MissyJ

    Why not get engaged when you never plan to get married..

  • KA

    Rappers seem to throw around “engagement rings” like they use the “b” word.

    I watched the video and what I noticed is he never actually asked her, just stuck the ring out there. He wasn’t even all the way on one knee LOL! It seemed more like a romantic gesture than a proposal.

  • Michelle1953

    So disrespectful and messy Sandra. Smh.

  • Malai

    I think it’s some truth to that… everything that go on in the entertainment industry comes at a price

  • KA

    I noticed that too, as well as the fact that he never really asked her, and was squatting as opposed to being on one knee.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Why do people even get married now in days ???? I guess its just for show and the act of getting married but the money wasted the words said are nothing but lies what is the point ???

  • Noirluv45

    Nothing but lies? No, not for everyone. I think many people who get married (depending on their reason) do so because they plan on staying together for a lifetime. It doesn’t always work that way, unfortunately. Then, sometimes I think the “idea” of marriage is unrealistic and people think fairy tales are real, but there are some very good, strong, and happy marriages. To me, it’s better than playing house and then have nothing when that person dies.

  • nick c

    That’s what a life insurance, will and trust is for no need for marriage to still be covered legally.

  • Noirluv45

    That’s usually not how it works. Oftentimes when people get play house, they live together for years. They break up and then they fuss and fight over who gets the dog/cat, the pots and pans, the TV, furniture, etc. A lot of women aren’t gonna play wife to a man who isn’t going to put a ring on it. Why should he if he’s getting a cook, someone who cleans, takes care of the kids, and give him sex on the regular. Nice set up for a dude, huh? I ain’t giving a man all that without a ring. At least, if he wants to leave, it will make it harder than just walking out.

  • nick c

    That’s why marriage rates are low across the board re marriage even worst. People want to walk if the relationship ends not be trapped or go through long expensive legal proceedings. I say a lot of women are playing house these days more than ever.

  • deanya

    But her career was popping after season 1 and a reable pay check is a shit ton of money lol also u doing 2 much

  • deanya

    How?

  • Noirluv45

    To each his/her own. Exactly! You see, I’m not going to invest years in a relationship with someone who isn’t willing to make it work. Relationships are hard. It takes work and dedication, and if a person, when times get rough, wants to just “walk” then that person wasn’t committed anyway. For those women who want to play house, that’s on them, but this woman isn’t about to give wifely duties to a man who isn’t willing to make me his wife. Why should I?

  • YellowSauce

    seriously I love Cardi BUTT ( pun intended ) these dudes only want to be in the spotlight with a chic …they don’t want real women THAT WORK they want entertainers that take off their clothes and say nasty things … intelligent women get demonized for being smart and opening their mouths against hypocrisy racism inequality … like now … i’m sure some dummy will be offended by what i’m saying …. screw college I should have been a stripper …. I might be married now lol

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth
  • Being bad is way more fun

    I equate that example to the the drug dealer that says I am smart enough not to get caught like everybody else may way is better but reality when you look around smacks them in the face. And with all the BS religious reason attached to marriage they are stuck even with the worst of life situations.

  • JRock

    First off, it’s not that young people are in a rush to divorce. One must keep in mind that this is a paid business. These so called entertainers are paid to date each other and everything they do is only for publicity.

    Secondly, you know this so called romance is fake. This Card person is old enough to be his mother. Have you seen the wrinkles, rolls and lines in her neck? That check has to be pushing 50 years old. My cousin’s wife told me years ago you can tell a woman’s age by the lines, rolls and wrinkles in her neck and I have found that to be true. These Cards, Beys and other untalented people getting your money are not as young as they say they are. But y’all “DO YOU” and keep giving them your money.

  • Patricia

    i didnt know he had multiple bastard kids and bastard bm’s. that puts a damper on everything. but lets be real, she is who she is. cant you already see her and the baby mamas having it out on instagram and in the streets? they are a match for the one another. ALL of them.

  • mzbestseller

    I hope they work and it isn’t for show. They haven’t been together long but my husband of almost 17 years proposed the night we met. Our marriage has NOT been a fairytale but we are committed to each other to work through our problems. The first five years I didn’t think we would make it here but I’m so glad and blessed that we have! If Cardi and Offset want it to work and they put in the work it can definitely be a beautiful thing.

  • IamAllnatural

    Those are some cute kids.
    I have nothing else for this lost generation!

  • SummerBaby

    This entire write up ???

  • Malcom Flex

    BP are lost AF, its smart to marry thats how property and wealth is inherited.

  • Patricia

    exactly. thats hard work playing wife negro all so he can throw me and the kids out and give everything we built to another woman (iv seen it happen to several couples!) no sir! men say that marriage aint nothing but paper mess to deter a woman from protecting herself and her children. never fall for it.

  • Noirluv45

    But why does marriage have to be so negative to people? There are thousands of marriages that are beautiful. There are thousands of people who stay together. There are thousands of people who shack up and after 10-15 get left in the dust with nothing to show for it. I believe in free will. If people what to play house, so be it. If they want to get married, that’s great too. Marriage is still alive and well even if 50% are getting divorced; 50% are not. Maybe people need to see more positive examples instead of all the negativity. Many are stuck in the worst of life’s situations regardless of whether they are married or not. Many don’t want to leave because they’ve invested years and years into it with zero to show for it. Nothing in life is guaranteed.

  • Noirluv45

    ALL OF THIS!!! It ALWAYS benefits the man.

  • Tammie Reed

    My daughter has been around him since he lived down the street a few years ago up here in Gwinnett, said he is not the nicest guy and he loves the women! He looks mean as hell but maybe he changed who knows! I just wouldn’t want a guy with ALL them damn kids and I don’t have any! Too many personalities to keep track off…argh! At her age and status, I would want my “own” family. She has her own money, why not be with someone who you can start your own family with. I don’t know.

    I personally think she can do better but some girls like the bad boys, time will tell but she looks a bit old in the face and with all that running around she’s doing, it’s going to take a toll. Let’s see how she looks in about 5 yrs from now and if they are still an item. Their body language together is very suspect.

  • jazzysmith12

    lol I’m too.It’s stock market earnings season baby.My melanin is working overtime!!!, https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4769a37b53b3df192b25855eaf6e7584a29202bfc48f7d1e25ae15dcc7954114.png

  • kekeb

    Congratulations to them!!!! Love that they love each other!!!

  • Karen Brady

    This whole entire start to finish motha fawkin write up..I will not fall the fuk out in this nail salon. This one’s a winner Auntie.

  • Queen B

    Im more concerned that these chicks look like sisters ? But looks aren’t everything Cardi seems like a cool chick and they might b more compatible than the bm’s ?

  • Toni Wiggins-Sorzano

    Auntie you and this Saturday write up, childddd.
    How many kids and bm does he have?? And those two chicks look like the same person. So he has a type, sort of.

    Sigh Cardi take your time child. That’s all I’m saying. Cause she seems to be a cool person. And she seems to be supportive of her men. Ala Tommy locked up arse.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    It was a good day for you. Way to go.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Offset is not the prettiest member of Migos……..WAIT WHAT????!!!!! There is a pretty member of Migos? ??? Auntie Sandy still entertaining the masses!!!! I can’t tell them apart ?!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Marriage is what is it but I tend to find that most new age meaning the one in the 2000’s even if they are together they are not happy so being together still married does not mean anything. I wish anybody that want to get married the best just get counseling financial and wedding. Talk to new and old couples. Talk about bills and find out the do research dont just get married because of love thats the last reason to get married lord have mercy lol. Since I wont have to live with either of you I really dont care what you do but one word dont be younger than 25. Good luck !!!

  • Ms Thang

    According to one of the baby moms cardi haven’t met the kids yet. I couldn’t help but think about my dad. I use to ask him why he wouldn’t introduce me to the girlfriend he had at that time and he said that he only bring women that he loved around his kids. I finally met her at his funeral.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    I thought it was 8ct, or the 20ct shade went of my head. Still hung over ?

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Cardi has had an amazing year, I wish nothing but the best for her. Congrats.

  • Nala Shakur

    She had a whole n*gga in jail..what happened to him? And none of these celebrity arranged marriages seem real to me. All smoke and mirrors. I wonder what underlying message all these misguided young girls are getting…i have nothing against cardi b–she really came off as a genuine relateable personality..she doesn’t irk my soul like that fraud ass hypocrite nicki minaj ????? But i see through a lot of these industry ploys. Not buyin it…

  • Ms Thang

    I was reading a post and a lady said that she graduated high school with Gucci mane wife in Miami. I can’t remember the year but the lady said that they’re 39, not 32. I kept saying that she looks older than 32 but I got called a hater.

  • Black men hate black women

    Dominicans are very racist to black people but black people don’t care.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Lol, how is she supportive when she abandoned Tommy as soon as he got locked up? ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks luv. ??

  • Luv Pitties

    I disagree, that “paper” does not prevent him from walking out one day and never coming back. It also doesn’t prevent him from changing beneficiaries on his life insurance.

    I’ve seen it happen, husband dies wife thinks she is getting something and no he left it to someone else. No law saying spouse has to be beneficiary for life insurance. Also I a lot of states as spouse can abandon the marriage, the other spouse has to wait a certain amount of time and have to post an ad in the paper in order to have divorce granted.

    So if there are kids involved all you are pretty much left with is child support and we all know you don’t have to be married to get that.

  • Black men hate black women

    After her racist Dominican self called that black African girl a black cock roach..my goodness . DOMINICANS ARE SO RACIST LOOK WHAT THEY’RE DOING TO HAITIANS? AND THEY CLAIM TO BE TAINO INDIAN AND WHITE NOT BLACK! STOP BEING DISLOYAL FOR ONCE ALREADY THAT’S WHY BLACK FOLK STAY LOSING.

  • Luv Pitties

    I personally would not re marry for that reason. Why be forced to stay married on paper when neither wants to be together any longer.

  • Black men hate black women

    None of his children will look like him because black people hate themselves. I find him handsome but black women will say he’s ugly beacause they also are mental poison to the black race
    SANDRA EVEN YOU! A MAN IS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PRETTY.

  • shun king

    one message is that bizarre behavior can lead to success…tell them they cant be the loudest hood rat and success might strike . its trying to stop people from getting real college educations. want everybody living like a savage.and once the dream die they can go slave for minimum wage and make the rich people kids richer..setting up the factory workers for the future

  • Black men hate black women

    Bit you’re a lesbian so it makes sense you want man to look “pretty” smh.

  • Ms Thang

    I just turned 46 and have been on my job for 22 years and I get called a hater because I’m not impressed by the celebrities lifestyle. I don’t have a degree but I have a fat 401k,a little stock in the company and my health insurance is $17 a month. My only son is in the national guard and he’s in nursing school. Hoes not winning. I’m winning

  • Black men hate black women

    She thinks black women look like black cocktail roaches according to what she said to the African girl from London on love and hiphop.

  • Toni Wiggins-Sorzano

    Wasn’t she with him for a long while, but decided to leave him once he wasn’t supportive of her career. And then after she broke off the relationship, she still supported him financially?

    Hell thats the story shebtokd when she was on the breakfast club when she first came out.

  • Black men hate black women

    She’s a rap groupie who’s also a rapper. Also a typical Dominican racist that passively aggressivly caps on black women when she is not stealing our black men and calling us black cockroaches.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    For once, I agree with everything you just said. Facts

  • Black men hate black women

    Yet she called a black woman a black cockroach after after leering with the girl’s man and after sleeping with her man and asking if she does threesomes over the phone.

  • Black men hate black women

    That Taino white Indian racist fraud isn’t black. Dominicans hate black people that’s why they’re publicly lynching Haitians over there.
    Cardi beek nose called a black African girl a black cock roach.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You’re smart. I had GILD in my portfolio in 2014, along with FB, NVDA, AAPL, and 500 shares of NFLX. Then the tax man cometh. This is why I wish the GOP would hurry up and pass tax reform. ??

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/ce5d2c1ae0196a90905cc9a075b664a868b6168456895f09c3a28cec83643631.png

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Handsome rappers are a rare breed. They all look girly to me.

  • NicoleZee

    Wow! Pretty women stay loving unattractive men! Yuck, no bueno! The mothers of his children are beautiful though, so are the babies. But hey, you love who you love, I guess looks don’t matter to some. I just feel like there is nothing wrong with wanting someone who is attractive and well groomed, especially if you are.

  • Black men hate black women

    This is proof that black people ain’t ish. You support a racist Taino white indian that sees you as black cockroaches all because she’s lighter and acts like a buffoon for a hood rat fanbase. This girl is not a black Dominican. She also called that African London girl a black cockroach after taking her colorstruck man. Domincans are publicly lynching Haitians over there that have nowhere to go and racially bullying them 24/7!

  • shun king

    domincan chick really confuse me they have kids and marry black guys but talk all kinds of shii about black chicks very strange..and i never see black chicks at the family get together not at the ones i go to anyway..they will let a light skin chick hang a little bit tho

  • Renee26

    Congrats to them… the kids are cute… lol sista wives are cute

  • Black men hate black women

    Who do you consider handsome? Who do you consider beautiful that a black woman? The answer will tell me all I need to know.

  • Black men hate black women

    They only do it to spite black women they’re obsessed with offending us because theyre jealous of the trends we set worldwide. I’VE FOOLISHLY DATED A DOMINANT MAN AND HE SPILLED THE BEANS. I AT FIRST HAND EXPERIENCED WHAT THEY TRULY THINK ABOUT US BLACK PEOPLE. They also partake in black magic. Offset better be careful.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Was that for a scripted reality show?

  • Black men hate black women

    Coon ,How is she pretty and how is he unattractive? You’re an idiot house kneegrow.

  • Black men hate black women

    I privately spoke to the girl in her DMs on instagram and she said they set her up and no it wasn’t scripted on her part they set her up to be humiliated on TV to boost Cardi bird nose.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That’s what she said. But her actions speak louder than words.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    My condolences for your loss.

  • NicoleZee

    It’s spelled “pretty” and “house negro”. You can’t even spell or use correct English. Oh, you’re mad because I’m light and you must be dark from the way you sound. Too bad, not my issue. You need to work on YOUR self-esteem. And you’re an evil POS that needs to get a life. We all have opinions. I’m just not into unattractive men that look like they have bad hygiene. I can do that, it’s MY life, MY choice. I’m not ugly by any means sweetheart, so I don’t feel the need to settle for someone who is. You sound like you hate yourself and you need mental health treatment. Very sad. Get help and get yourself better. Stay blessed.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Keyshia Ka’oir is 40 IRL, but her stated age is 32. ?

  • Black men hate black women

    From your avatar you’re a wierdo. I’m proud to be chocolate and natural to the universe. I love myself which is why I try every chance I get to open the eyes of my people. You’re here to further push a light hierchy. .. BIRD NOSE CRAKKKA!

  • JRock

    That’s what I’m saying. These chicks bout 10-15 years older than they say they are. Look at the neck of this Card person, Beyawn, Nick the private dick, etc. These are old heads trynna front like they brand new.

  • Black men hate black women

    She,also bleaches her pretty skin.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She’s affiliated with the Bloods.

  • NicoleZee

    That’s the thing. Most people these days have children, it’s hard to find someone who doesn’t. Before I had a child, I tried to avoid dating men with kids. Now that I’m a mum, I just believe that people with kids should also date and marry other people who have kids. You have more in common that way. No one without kids wants to be bothered with someone else’s child, they just tolerate the child because they love or like the person they are dating or married to. On another note, I heard the same about Playset, I mean Offset, that he isn’t nice to most people. That should be a red flag along with him being a womanizer. But hey, women seem to love unattractive men who sleep around and who treat them and others like garbage, so it’s their choice to be together. I just believe that kindness, chivalry, and humility still go a long way. I wouldn’t want someone who is not polite or kind, men like that don’t change, they get worse. Very sad.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Lol! Maybe that’s why Cardi quit. I remember asking my readers who this Cardi was around that time. ?

  • CaramelDrop

    Love it! ??

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Men: Jeezy, Tyrese, Tyson B., Morris C., etc.

    Women: Kelly R., Gabrielle U., Tamron H., etc.

  • Karen Brady

    She looks 40+

  • klwbaby

    Congratulations!! I hope everyone is enjoying their weekend!!!!??

  • tt

    She also doesn’t have a baby by him. Men will have babies for everybody but marry the chick that doesn’t have a baby for him.

  • Noirluv45

    I couldn’t agree more. I think your advice is great. Lol!!! I hear ya!

  • Noirluv45

    I was just talking to someone about relationships/marriage and she was saying that so many of need to know what we want or won’t accept. What is the deal breaker? So many women have lists a mile long saying what we want, but not what we need. What kind of character does he/she have? How does he treat his mama? Is he loving, attentive, faithful, etc. She was saying that so many of us have to dig deep instead of focusing on shallow qualities.

  • NicoleZee

    Very, very true. However, you have to be attracted to your partner in order for things to work. We all have our preferences and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I just prefer better looking men who are well groomed, nothing wrong with that either. Handsome men are rare these days, but he should at least be cute, just my opinion. But you love who you love and if that person treats you and others very well and has other positive qualities, then go for it. EVERYONE has preferences, no harm, no foul in that! Men, regardless of how gross they look, prefer beautiful women, so nothing wrong with a woman wanting a beautiful man!

  • Bashi22

    Wish them all the best let me sit back and watch the soap opera unfolds daily in their lives. They live for social media

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, that’s very true about attraction, but you know what’s funny, and I’m speaking for MYSELF only, there are men I’ve met that weren’t attractive, but when I got to know him, he became more attractive. Sometimes things don’t happen right away. Getting to know someone takes time, and that’s why I like talking to guys before seeing them. I’ve found that I don’t have the physical getting in the way, but that’s just me. Don’t get me wrong. I never said there was anything wrong with wanting a nice looking man. I love beautiful men. I never said people didn’t have preference. Go for what you know. I’m not mad at what any woman wants because I don’t live her life and she does’t live mine. What I’m saying is that sometimes we don’t give people a chance and we tend to overlook the qualities that make a man a good man, but each woman has to figure out what’s right for her. I don’t really care one way or the other because it’s not my life.

  • Noirluv45

    BTW, Nicole, I wasn’t judging you. If you took it that way, I apologize. I was speaking from my POV, period.

  • shun king

    yeh some of the men in my family are married to some dominican chicks and boy one of the main things they talk about is black woman don’t have no hair and dark skinned

  • Neva RuthLess

    Unfortunately this sort of dysfunction is very prevalent in the black community. It’s soft polygamy and it’s destroying black children’s lives. To have a father create children with other women, and never marry them. Sad.

  • jusme

    But she got the ring dont care if it last or not & its always somebody prettier than us so what thats what stop alot of you haters. if he wanted them BABY MAMAS he would have married one of three. damn he had 3 choices and still chose Cardi and as far as the “dark skin” comment she alledgedly made we as darkskins always crying wolf but i hear so
    many of us dogging light skin women cutting faces just bc they light skin leave this girl be damn the hate is real knowing damn well are whole life is just as shaky n questionable as the next tuh

  • HTOWNPinkPuffingHerbal

    I said the same thing, but they came for me said she’s not racist and didn’t say that. But I guess, I love to see people happy and in love. So I still wish them well…?

  • NicoleZee

    I know! You made some really good points though. I think being attracted to someone is key because you have to fall in love and then some people fall out of love. But we all know that how someone looks and the way they act can be turnoffs. You mentioned relationship deal breakers. Deal breakers for me include bad hygiene, bad health, nasty attitudes, liars, and criminals. That omits most men these days!!! Sad.

    What are some of your deal breakers when dating or in a relationship???

  • Malai

    ????

  • Noirluv45

    Good! I’m glad you didn’t take it that way. ? Yes, having someone with looks and a stank personality/body is a deal breaker, indeed! We were talking about the small pool of men these days. It’s sad.

    Some of my deal breakers are: Bad hygiene/personality, a man who has no manners, someone with no spiritual base, a man who doesn’t know how to treat people, and one who is selfish, self-absorbed, and angry. Oh, I almost forgot and it’s what you said above: Liars, criminals, and cheaters. Can’t deal with those things. Lol.

  • Yetunde

    I noticed that too. There didn’t seem to be much chemistry between them either.

  • OvertheMississippi

    Future is handsome.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Like a week ago they were childishly, publicly fighting with each other online for the world to see…I have to agree about them “being in a hurry to get divorced.” They were like two teenagers in dire need of attention.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Thank you for bringing up the ethnic cleansing going on in the Dominican Republic, against Haitians, it’s really quite sad. I’m yet to meat a Dominican that wasn’t a bigot in denial about their own blood, they hate their own African blood so distance themselves as much as possible, sometimes even looking like damn fools in the process.

  • BaileyBlue17

    Gawdy looking ring.

  • shun king

    yes it is such an awful cycle…lot of guys consider the baby mom a headache woman change after they have a baby tho

  • Judi Lauren

    Yes chile… like old white lady Elizabeth Taylor diamond. I asked my hubby for 2 ct. , and no bigger because I am AWFUL with keeping up jewelry and that thing would get all scratched up… we got matching bands for everyday use, and the real deal comes out at functions only.

  • jazzysmith12

    thank u and have a blessed week-end

  • jazzysmith12

    lol, exactly those taxes are a killer.

  • Malcom Flex

    THAT

  • Malcom Flex

    YUP the dumbest thing a woman can do is be a baby mama. Ducks and runs but it’s the truth.

  • Black men hate black women

    Because the lightones who are Taino white indian domincans bully the black domincans. That’s why the black domincans deny it because they get abused by white Taino Indian domincans for being black.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Yes woman normally mature and realize that their priorities are no longer solely centered around themselves or their man. It’s called motherhood.

  • Black men hate black women

    Ok. What about Angela basset?
    No luptias? No alek weks? No the guy who was married to kimora Lee that played in Gladiator? No Naomi Campbells? No Super rich chocolate indigenous queens that haven’t gotten Nose jobs?

  • Black men hate black women

    They bully the black domincans the same way. The lig by er ones are white Taino indians. Worldwide there is color caste system in wvery ethnicity! The lig by er domincans are white Taino indians that are LYNching HAITIANS TODAY.

  • Black men hate black women

    Mona had her filmed in a dirty bath tub as a revenge tactic for calling the African girl a black cock roach. Remember Mona is a chocolate woman that use to be a video model back in the day and is also Haitian. MONA dealt with colorism back then but she was pretty with a big but flat stomach back then she wasn’t alway big. Her and Chris light started Violator! Mona is smart.

  • Black men hate black women

    Poor black children. I feel for our youth, man. They’re taught from young that theyre not good enough as the mule-latto half breed reptilian eyed child. Every black man and woman wants a mule-latto 4% or more animal genetic baby. https://youtu.be/gZijwCgiFL4

  • imright

    Migos been lit since 2011?? mainstream is LATE AF as usual. ? i hope Cardi dont get pregnant. BONGRATS BARDI & SET????

  • Black men hate black women

    When she gets upset with him she will call him a black cockroach just like she did the African girl. She’s the Taino white Indian Dominican not the black hatain Dominicans that are over there publicly being lynched daily because the lighter skinned Dominicans aka taino white indians that black people praise so much for (being lighter skinned with long hair ) don’t want no black Dominican Haitians. They all hate black people and only use us for clout. I bet you that offset writes her music. This girl don’t have no talent.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You as well 🙂

  • shun king

    yes i noticed that one of the cousin i was dealing with always talked about how she is lighter than her other cousin and its hard to find a dominican as light as she is

  • shun king

    go look at the top ceos in saudi arabia they all look like white men it is shocking

  • Coco

    It’s also dumbest thing a man can do, make kids by different women. Kids belong to 2 parents, shared responsibility.

  • Gina

    Fake azz Nicki Minaj, is engaged woo- hoo!!###!! Next is the E televised million dollar fake wedding

  • Gina

    Everything about her is gawdy and tacky

  • Black men hate black women

    Translation: “Mule-latto white privelged invaders of the black communty stay “Loving” people that I think are Dark nappy headed slaves that I believe I am better than in this color caste system” YOU STAY TELLING ON YOURSELF!

  • Black men hate black women

    The racist neanderthal animal race is everywhere there are hue-mans that are dark because they’re not natural to this planet. Had we never intervreeeded with them they would’ve never been able to leave those caves because the sunlight would burn them worst than it does now. They always tell on themselves through mythical stories such as vampires, etc. They’re a reptile race according to the bible where Eve (a black woman ) was tempted to eat that fruit by a snake meaning she had sex with a reptilian sub hueman and brought evil into the world. They will always expose who they are you just have to pay attention.

  • Nala Shakur

    Well said

  • Oh Tommie

    Didn’t they just break up last week and gfrt back together? Oh well…if they like it, I love it

  • 70114

    Cute babies

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Soft polygamy. Hmmm…never heard the phrase but I like it.

  • MythCalledLove

    20 you say? O. K all this Cardi stuff is going wayyy too fast. Something just seems bogus, fixed, arranged. It’s soooo perfectly put together. Friend of mine from college works in the PR/Music business. And I told her how I feel and she said ” Yeah and?” She said you can brainstorm and come up with the type of artist they want. Find one and play off of who she then we get a team for the music and we get people to talk it up on social media. Send out info about the artist to different sites. We get them invites to events. We go off of the public’s reaction of what they like & want. Get it on the air. Everything is designed to give the people what they want. Then she said “I almost forgot we are not above supplying travel jewelry.

  • MythCalledLove

    I had to read your post twice because “white liver” popped in my head.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Offset has a type.

    Cardi’s ring is eight karats, not 20.

    Cardi bothers me. When she first came out, I found her entertaining in a hood booger, tales from the strip club type of way. Then, I found out about her alleged gang ties, the fact that she glorifies gang culture, her general aversion to tact and intelligence, and her issues with black women. I can’t get with it.

    She is only like 25, and he’s a male entertainer….this is not going to last. Even if she is ok with him sleeping with chicks on the side, she isn’t going to be able to take the public humiliation. She is very insecure and extremely concerned with what people think about her. It’s just going to take a couple of side chicks posting screenshots and she will be single again.

  • Black men hate black women

    That. LA LA LA LA la LA Bamba face ass broad with her silicone from home Depot popped butt. I’m tired of these pretend people.on the rap game. I can’t wait for her to go on another racist rant but this time it won’t get cut like it didn’t on love and hiphop. Give it time she will show who she truly is just like Hazel E DID.

  • MythCalledLove

    Mine is bad credit. You usually won’t know if the person is a liar most of the time until you catch them in a lie. I like my men dark skin and fluffy.. lol Deal breaker that I will never stray from I will never date a guy if his name is Eric (I even hated typing that)

  • bhavana

    Her fingernails look nasty. I don’t like long nails on anybody. I can only imagine all the bacteria under those claws.

  • MythCalledLove

    Not to me he looks like the Avatar that anymous uses

  • NicoleZee

    Why the name Eric??? Bad credit??? I can look past the credit depending on how it got bad since my credit is shit too! You can still get things with bad credit though. I can’t deal with liars, ultimate deal breaker. Be who you are, the truth always come out eventually. I dated a guy that was the worst liar I had ever been with. I found out he was married, a criminal, and he lied about money. Not for me. What I don’t get is that there are PLENTY of women that will date a married man forevaaa, so why do they have to lie??? Just find a side chick that doesn’t mind being a side chick. I’m too old for that mess!!!!

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    Girl, I used to tell young girls, if you want your man to leave, get pregnant. They were all “That’s a lie”. So I said, look at all your friends/family who aren’t married and have kids. How many are still with the child’s father. All I got was crickets.

    If you tell your man your pregnant and he doesn’t immediately say, “we should get married”, he’s working on his escape plan.

  • NicoleZee

    Smart woman!!! Glad you mentioned manners. Lawd!!! I am just NOT okay with a guy that has horrible manners and social skills. I dated a guy who refused to speak to everyone when he walked in the door, had horrific table manners, and the worst attitude. You can actually take etiquette classes to improve yourself. Being polite and kind is important. Not to bring up race, but it seems like black and Hispanic men have the worst attitudes. I don’t get why. I guess some people are just miserable or mentally ill and it reflects in how they treat others. Very sad.

  • BaileyBlue17

    I’d be rocking that 2 carat on the DAILY!! You better enjoy your ring hunty. Shoot. Lol

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Did you notice the “etc.”?

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Tainos were all over the Carribeans. They had different tribes also different shades. Some Haitians came from Arawak Tribes of Tainos. Jamaicans, trinidad, cuba etc some of them also have Tainos ancestry. The only reason history has been switched is for us not to reclaim OUR Land

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Trully Happy For Cardi B and Offset.

    I just only hope that is not like when Future was engaged to Ciara while he had 100 baby moms to only give her a baby and make her number 101.

    But OffSet sems to have a type

  • shun king

    seem like alot of black women not doing that but putting kids in stoves instead

  • shun king

    Another part is that this contributes to whorish ways not caring about the future and not wanting to be bothered by children..yes the black entertainment is really killing black people literally…i just dont think people really understand how deep a hole we are in…i deal with some very intelligent teachers in the atlanta school system and the things they tell me….and the fact we are a couple of generation into the wild behavior really mean darker days are ahead

  • Truth

    She is black and knows it get over it so save that Taino shit she still a nigga

  • Truth

    Because you are lame

  • Truth

    Man that nappy ass hair on her head tell it all she knows she is black and so does he he just like light skin who cares

  • Patricia

    he can walk out and disappear. everything we built is mine. he can change his beneficiaries. that has nothing to do with everything that is in MY name which is everything we have together. whats mine is my kids inheritance as well so we’re all good b/c mama is good. kids dont have to have a daddy. theyre nice to have but not a dire necessity for daily living. as long as mama is set after a divorce or his disappearance or death, whichever comes first, we’re all set to move on without him. thats what that “piece of paper” is for.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Black woman? Oh buddy, please take the sty out your eye and see that evil comes in all colors.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I really can’t understand how someone who comments real hatred toward African Americans stay commenting on an African American blog. You are so obsessed. It’s creepy and concerning.

  • Black men hate black women

    A low frequency music listening hood sheep that probably sings along to black male rappers calling her bitches all day while clogging her arteries with Popeye’s chicken and mash potatoes IS TELLING ME ABOUT THE DNA OF A TAINO RACIST WHITE INDIAN DOMINICAN?

    Haha..

  • Wreckognize Game

    Don’t feel bad my don’t ever date again name is Derrick. Doesn’t matter which way it’s spelled. And no more Virgo men.

  • Black men hate black women

    Give me a break. Man you’re ignorant.

  • Karen Brady

    No don’t duck and run. Just had this convo last night with someone who told me she’s pregnant by her ex who already has 2 baby mamas. She can’t understand why I didn’t jump for joy. She already works 2 not so lucrative jobs & running herself ragged. I think she’s a God damn fool and told her just as much. Told her YAY! you’re a baby mama, congrats! Cuz we just don’t have enough of those!. Girl bye.

  • shun king

    would you consider a black man who is feed up and points out and open eyes to the crime and willful ignorance of the black community spouting hatred

  • shun king

    black women think they own the child and the man just the ATM andif he act right and kiss her ass he can have a little say so in the child ….and its black women who say what i just typed is going on but you will say i am skinhead for saying it that is not nice or right

  • Karen Brady

    David for me. Mark second.

  • Karen Brady

    Lmao!

  • TxCyn

    truth

  • YellowSauce

    win on ….. lol but them hoes are winning too lolololol

  • Luv Pitties

    You can get the house, cars and joint bank accounts in both names without that specific piece of paper. I also disagree that kids don’t really need a father as if that idea of having one is simply a cute idea in theory.

  • Coy little wink

    He’s not unattractive…he looks like a man to me…I won’t get into his attire tho…

  • MsChocCookie

    Offset is a horror, but none of those Minions, are cute.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Sir, why are 92% of black men’s biracial children out of wedlock, and 88% on welfare? Why are black men married to white women have the highest rate of divorce? Black men are the problem.

  • Coy little wink

    I like Cardi…him I don’t really know but if he makes her a wife it says a lot…sure they are young but tomorrow is not promised to not one…seize the day! These ninjas need to shyt or get off the pot after a year is my motto

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Congrats to them if it’s real. I like Cardi but something about their relationship seems fake to me. ?

  • NicoleZee

    I’m black and I’m a mum. I would NEVER harm my child like that. But I do pop his tail when he needs it! I wanted my baby, even though he was complete shock and surprise. A lot of people are severely mentally ill or just psycho, those are the ones that shouldn’t be having kids to begin with. And half the time both the woman and the guy are nuts or probably have mental health issues. My mom knows the family of the psycho that put her kids in the oven and they said that she is very loony and I think the father seems like he has some issues to, plus he’s a broke deadbeat. Most people just shouldn’t breed. I keep saying that the government needs to get involved with getting people sterilized. If you don’t want kids, then fix your damn self with a vasectomy or tubal ligation and don’t have any! Sick and sad.

  • NicoleZee

    Not just black men, seems to be that way with other men of color too. Hispanic men do the same shit as black dudes and are probably more evil come to think of it. But there are men in ALL races that are deadbeat fathers who make children that they don’t want and then abandon them. It’s sick and sad when anyone walks away from being a parent. Maybe it’s too much like right, but I keep trying to figure out why more people don’t get sterilized as I mentioned in another post. It’s a simple surgery that could solve a lot of problems if you ask me.

  • shun king

    you mean the black men that was raised and taught by their mothers..i wonder how many of those guys from a single parent home in those stats

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    Something got flipped in our community. We seem to think that getting married is a bigger commitment than having a child.

    I understand a lot of people aren’t for marriage but the type of men some of you all having children with. . . Jesus.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Midwest Derick was jealous of my southern roots, that I traveled and went to boxing matches with my friends.
    “Nice”Derek was a bugaboo and would say slick stuff about my family and friends to try to make me spend time with him. Instead of just saying hey I want to do something with you.
    Church Derrick was dating me and someone else at the other church service and thought I wasn’t gonna handle his ass for playing with me.

  • shun king

    most of these folks is getting pregnant just on drug and/or liquor fueled flings…not no love or nothing like it.. hell they barely even knowing each other

  • NicoleZee

    Very true. That’s even more dangerous. Babies being born, diseases being passed, ridiculous. Maybe some people are not well educated on preventing disease and pregnancies. If most men are not using condoms for whatever reason, then there needs to be another alternative because people are not going to stop having sex. Men seem to be uncomfortable using condoms for whatever reason and a lot women can’t use birth control either or it just doesn’t work for them, so I think scientists have tough issues to solve. We need some type of solution that prevents pregnancy and disease that would work for everyone and be accessible to everyone too since most folks don’t want to get sterilized. I just find it sad that anyone would create a child they know damn well they don’t want.

  • OrishasandMyAncestors

    Public Relations. They’re both on the same record label.

  • shun king

    here in atlanta i hear a lot of women saying they will not take birth control because it makes them gain weight…things have got very out of control i have saw plenty of cell phone video of guys running trains on female and not a condom in site…its a chick 25 with 8 kids just kids on top of kids and all different daddys some dads have more money so that kid a little better off and his sister and brothers have to suffer.and its repeated all through the black areas..really once a woman have kids be several different guys she is unsuitable for marriage basically

  • Malai

    And this was my exact thought! It actually pains me to see him marry Cardi ONLY because there are not one but two women that committed to having his children but he didn’t see either of them as good enough to marry… I definitely could see him being engaged to Cardi, getting her pregnant and then never ever actually marrying her… only moving on to the next and repeating the cycle… smh

  • Black men hate black women

    Youre not even black!

  • Teide_luv

    I’m using your “soft polygamy”, just a heads up.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    From her avatar you assume she’s a weirdo? Strange. From your username you’re a bitter, unhappy person.
    Sounds like some black man hurt you. You might wish to get some therapy. Seriously, it would probably do you some good.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Marriage has been devalued a lot by our people. It’s sad. I work for a large company, with a couple hundred co-workers, and even at my building, I’ve noticed that over half of the white men in the 30-50 age range have on wedding rings.. but among the black men, it’s rare. As a matter of fact, I know that many of the brothas here in that age-range have at least one child, but very few of them seem to be married. That kind of thing disturbs me on so many levels.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yes and life ain’t fair males nut and run females get nutted into and breed babies while broke.

  • Malcom Flex

    “Pop his tail” …. I just can’t.

  • Malcom Flex

    You wrong they just have a difference in opinion

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I am opinion to different opinions. That shun King character is full of shyt.

  • dontgetblocked

    Wasn’t she just engaged to some guy in jail?

  • Pamela

    Awoo..what’s wrong with Virgo men? I’m a Virgo woman.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    When I was in university my whites roommate’s friend used to come by. She was in the wrong relationship, nothing abusive just not the right guy. She’s ended up pregnant and didn’t believe in abortion. She was so stressed, and it took her a while to find the courage to tell him. Weren’t those two married a month later.

    Same thing for another girl who happened to be Muslim away from home for the first time. Pregnant midway through first semester with some catholic guy. She too got married before the child came into the world. In both cases I remember thinking you are lucky you didn’t get pregnant by a black man. Which is so sad.

  • KEKE

    Haven’t they learned from Kim K.

  • Malcom Flex

    Thanks sis. Being a broke baby mama is for silly birds you’re breeding poverty that ish isn’t cute.

  • Blah Blahhhhh

    don’t believe the hype

  • NicoleZee

    Preach Mr. King! I am here in Atlanta too and I’ve met women like that as well. I try not to judge too harshly because I also have one child out of wedlock and I’m single now. I think it’s better to have monogamous relationships and “try” to find someone who is trustworthy, and NOT have several sex partners. The more people you sleep with, the higher your risk is for disease. I pretty much threaten men from the beginning. I tell them, if you give me a disease, then I will kill you, period. So far, it works, no diseases!!!!! LOL!

    I’ve had fertility issues so I really can’t even begin to understand fertile women who purposefully have several kids knowing they can. Their body, their choice I guess. I’m not the baby factory! At the end of the day I count my blessings. I have a healthy growing child and I’m healthy, no diseases, so I do thank God for that. It’s funny when I think about it because I listen to what goes on about nasty folks that pass disease and people that have an army of kids. I have never met a man like that. I guess I’ve been lucky. Where are women meeting these men who have 20 kids and STDs??? The f*ck??? I don’t even want to know!!! I mostly meet bums, which is why I’m glad to be single again, but they don’t have diseases and most of the men I’ve dated didn’t even have kids. I think we just need to pray for people and pray they get their asses sterilized! LOL! NO MORE KIDS! NO MORE KIDS! NO MORE KIDS!

  • Noirluv45

    Isn’t that one of the worst traits ever? You’re right. If a person has bad manners, they can change them. No excuses whatsoever for bad manners. I think many Black and Hispanic men have so much to deal with that many of them just don’t care. That might be why some of them are like that. It’s very sad.

  • SG

    The baby mamas are prettier. Not that that matters…he must realize true beauty is on the inside.

  • SG

    Lol at tales from the strip club type of way. What’s her issue with black women?

  • SG

    And I don’t think Cardi is that attractive.

  • deanya

    Lol learn what

  • Kimberly King

    His BM’s look better, but we all know that looks aren’t the deciding factor. I see he has a type

  • Coy little wink

    Who cares what u think about Cardi..my comment was about Offset. Troll someone else

  • SG

    I wasn’t trolling you. But ok.

  • Coy little wink

    Several of her close female friends are black…why do u think she has issues?

  • SG

    Um, I wasn’t trolling you. It’s not that deep.

  • Karen Brady

    didn’t know that.

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!.TRUTH!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!AND MORE TRUTH!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    yep!! Same at the company I work at.

  • Karen Brady

    Oh hell naw…not 3!!! yep no more Derricks or Dereks for you! Lol @ Church Derrick thought you weren’t going to handle his ass…teeeeeheeeeeeee chile.

  • shun king

    well i going to say it like this what white folks don’t affect me

  • shun king

    you would be surprised how some chicks WANT to be a babymomma because it seem like the cool thing to be

  • shun king

    off topic but i remember working in my 20s with a lot of young white servers that most had rental properties and married not even 25 years old i was like damn i am behind

  • shun king

    why you blame the black man? i might have been the black chick. ask plenty of guys once a woman is pregnant they think you she be under their control

  • shun king

    those chick might have been flings

  • shun king

    i hope yall understand most of these kids are the results of flings and not a couple that been together for years hell in my city it seem everybody trying to see who can screw the whole city men and women

  • shun king

    nope

  • Bambi

    The baby mama’s may look better, but who cares he didn’t put a ring on them or did he? Unless this is a publicity stunt it takes a special kind of woman for a man to want to put a ring on it, especially the way things are now a days, men aren’t in a rush to get married anymore.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I would never be a baby mama nor will I marry a man who already has kids.

  • Coy little wink

    Sad but true!

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    They’ve only been dating for two seconds. He hasn’t found the time to impregnate her lol But don’t worry, negros like these get them *all* pregnant first lol

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Instead of threatening them, how about asking to see their STD results? Most doctor offices have went electronic and have “my chart” features where one can pull it up immediately online. Also asking when was the last time that they have been tested? How many people have they slept with since then? How many with and how many without condoms? How many kids do you have? What is the possibility of having a kid you don’t know about? Will you be sleeping with other people while we are sleeping together? Am I the only one? Can I sleep with others? Is this a one time thing? Do you expect a relationship with me? Do you want a relationship with me? Why did your last relationship fail? Did you lie to your ex? Did you ever cheat on an ex? If so, why?…

    We need to ask more questions. That’s the problem, we only as a question or two and think it sufficient enough to sleep with a person. The later when the woman finds out he was married, gay, or whatever, we claim we don’t know. Yes men lie, but by asking many questions (over 100 is recommended) one should be able to discern if the other person is lying. And if one feels uncomfortable asking or answering then both parties aren’t ready for sex.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Welp… If this is a publicity stunt it’s a nice one. At least she got a pretty diamond ring out of it…

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    It’s the black mans responsibility to wife the woman he impregnates. If he doesn’t want to marry her, he shouldn’t impregnant her. If he doesn’t want to imprrgnsnt her, logically he shouldn’t have sex with her because that is the purpose of sex. If a man does decide to sex a woman, he should be aware of the full risk he is taking. The woman should be aware of the risks that if a man sexes her, there is a possibility that he will impregnant her. She should also know that as long as that man isn’t married to her, he holds no responsibility to her. It is the woman’s responsibility to hold the man responsible. It’s the woman’s responsibility to keep her legs closed until she is comfortable knowing that the man can handle the responsibility.

    Yes, it’s easier said then done in this age. I have learned the hard way.

    Women these days sleep with people they know nothing about. All they know is their IG name and phone number and that’s enough to lie with them. Then both parties get mad when the woman gets pregnant because that’s not what they signed up for. Next thing, the man hanged his number and the woman is now left pregnant and alone. What else did you expect if you never held him accountable for anything before sleeping with him in the first place?

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    I think a few women and teenagers get pregnant for the stability of a government cheque. Not realizing that cheque may seem like a lot when you have nothing, but it’s a trap.

    I dont think half of the “baby mamas” out there planned on being one. I think a lot of women are fooled into thinking they can fix/uplift these worthless fools and build a life with them.

  • shun king

    its funny how its all ways the man who is the worthless fool but the women has no blame in on it it??chicks out here with 6-7 kids and not 30. 5 different baby daddys she will be looked at as heroic and the man worthless because they left her but the reality is she is a whore not heroic and was just a sex toy

  • shun king

    and its not like you talking about a babymomma with one child these chick have three and 4 by different guys so they trying to uplift all these different guys time and time again

  • shun king

    ok thats sounds about right but lets not just say the dude is the worthless one its both party…i know for fact most of these chick just having sex to be having sex and the guys too and pops a baby that nobody really wanted

  • Ms.Jones

    They don’t have too much brains if Offset is their children’s father.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Omg reading this article was a lot?shocking & funny all in one.Didnt know he had so many kids.They women are cute,real please stop.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Virgo women are good. Church Derrick was a Virgo after I tried to date 2 other Virgo men; all back-to-back. I can’t stand them. That was my first season of ever dating that sign and don’t want to do it again. Coincidentally, the other to Derick/Derek are both Aries.

  • free

    Publicity stunt. This couple got the whole hood ready to watch their wedding special. She’s definitely going to get a show.

  • free

    Why you gotta ring Popeyes into it tho?

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    Like rapper Future did to Ciara now he has built a career on trashing her while she found a real black man to marry

  • NicoleZee

    People lie, so asking them very personal questions about sex, other than what they desire in the bedroom, probably won’t garner the truth. I really don’t need to ask anything, never had that issue. I let them know at the door from day one! Any man with me knows to keep his doctor’s appointments and keep up with his hygiene or he can find someone else. I’m not sure where women are meeting these men, but I don’t lay down with men that spread disease, thank the Lord! My son’s father was very healthy and kept up with his doctor’s appointments on his own. Now with the last guy I dated,he was sometimes lazy, so I had to keep reminding him to keep his appointments and get the bloodwork done and he did, so did I. We were together for a long time, I was never on birth control because I hate that shit and we trusted each other sexually, very much so. He respected whatever my decisions were regarding my body and he didn’t care about no birth control or condoms! Puh-lease! What were we preventing if we were strictly monogamous and we didn’t mind if a baby happened ( I wish it had because I want to get my tubes tied after the next one, but oh well!). I only have one baby for now, so I’m good, but I know he needs a sibling :(.

    I never doubted my ex or thought he was with someone else, but even if he was, my health wasn’t affected by it. Yes, men cheat, but at some point you have to trust someone if you want some type of relationship and if you want to spend your life with someone and have children. I do not have the time to spend my days worried about who someone is f*cking, I have better things to do. I don’t care what these niggas do, just don’t infect me with anything. You can’t control people, everyone needs to realize that. I don’t play around with my health so the main thing I ask of any man is to respect that or get lost! But yes, I agree that everyone needs to be more diligent about their health and get their regular checkups and STD testing, including being tested for HPV and herpes, which a lot of times you have to personally request because they only test for those automatically if you’re pregnant.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    I don’t insult the women, only because 9 times out of 10, they are believing the words (and even actions) of these worthless fools. 😀

    Seriously, black women, hell all women want that fairy tale. You may have kids and you meet a guy who treats you great and loves and treats your kids well, but when you get pregnant something changes -only he doesn’t say anything until it’s too late.

    Listen, if your man tells you he doesn’t want the kid, then you either prepare to do it alone or don’t have the child. BELIEVE HIM. But I know with so many of my friends, sometimes they tell you one thing, and then when the awesome responsibility and cost of having a kid is here, they creep off into the night (which is why I said earlier that if you tell him you’re pregnant and he doesn’t immediately say he wants to get married he’s working on his escape plan).

    We as black women need to stop f*cking with men who don’t financially support AND physically look after (documented visitation schedules) their kids. Just leave them be. When you date these fools, you just encourage that behaviour. We need to start shunning those men.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    If you don’t trust the answers a potential lover tells you, you shouldn’t sleep with that person. As women, we have to take some responsibility in our own actions.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    I don’t think women think they are trying to control the men. I think getting pregnant smartens a lot of people up.

    Carrying that child is an great responsibility, and reality hits women faster. They start thinking about what the child NEEDS and will NEED. Sometimes men take a little longer but they do come around.

    Some dumbass women never get it – those are the ones that are on the 6 o’clock news shaming us all. 😀

  • shun king

    see i live in a city where the weave and club takes precedent over the kids so i have a different point of view….where as long as you kid have new jordans he is being taken care of..t

  • MythCalledLove

    Never let migo..

  • shun king

    but most of these people having kids young and they just having sex for fun these guys not courting or dating it just i look good lets have sex that a big portion of these kids out here

  • shun king

    me being a man i a looking at it from a logical stand point but now i see the woman emotional outlook on things…my baby mom might have been thinking that same stuff about me

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    Much about nothing. I got $50 on them not even making it down the aisle. What she needs to do is get that ring insured so she has something to fall back on when this relationship ends next year ?????. Not being a hater, just speaking the truth. I mean, obviously…

  • free

    Awww lawd…. #dead

  • NicoleZee

    Very true. But even if you trust someone, you never know what they do when you are not around them. I don’t run myself crazy thinking about these fools, I have a life to finish, and only I can do that. At the end of the day, the only thing any of us can do is worry about ourselves and do what is best for us. You will drive yourself nuts always being paranoid and insecure about what a man is doing, life is too short for that. Until a man gives you a reason not to trust him, you have to trust him at some point with something if you really want love and/or a family or whatever you desire from someone!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I tried to have this conversation on the blog like 6 months ago and I was told in no uncertain terms that a lot (the insinuation was that most) of black women don’t want to be married. They prefer to be career girlfriends/baby mama’s because there is no benefit to marriage. That there was nothing wrong with being content as a gf or baby mama since the longevity of the marriage isn’t a guarantee anyway.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Are we really using the “I have black friends” get out of jail card? Out of an abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Whenever she gets angry or has an issue with a black woman, like a yt woman, she results to calling them a racially based derogatory term (e.g., roach/monkey). She liked the Hazel E posts where Hazel E said that her mom kept her from dark skin/brown skin girls because they would hate her/be envious of her light skin, and that darker girls were just made because “they couldn’t pass the brown paper bag test”. Literally her words.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Oh course we will never know Nicole. We barely know ourselves tomtrist our own decisions. All you can do is TRY to minimize the risks. And when we do fall, we have to learn from those experiences so that we can make better decisions in the future.
    Things will get better but we have to make it so.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yes that’s what they’re doing.

  • Malcom Flex

    Sad to say most black males are broke or struggling and can’t afford to breed as fathers.

  • gail jones

    How do we change?

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    True. Sex is great. As a result, sometimes it makes you careless.

    I’m pro-choice and I will never judge a woman who’s had an abortion. I know people think it’s a sin, but I swear, bringing a child into this world that you KNOW you cannot take care of and uplift properly is a bigger sin. It’s downright evil to be a neglectful and bad parent.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    Actually, sad to say those black males who are not broke or struggling and can afford to have kids, get locked down really early, or don’t date black women. 😀

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think a lot of women convince themselves of that, because the “marriage market” isn’t very good in the black community right now. But at the end of the day, it’s on the men. I think if a lot more black men were marriage-minded and proposing to their women, we’d see a lot more marriages in the black community. That’s just the reality of it.
    I once heard a wise man say that women are the gatekeepers when it comes to sex, but men are the gatekeepers when it comes to marriage. I think there’s a lot of truth to that.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    Just do right by your child, no matter how bad it is with your child’s mother. Start by not calling her “my baby mom” LOL.

    I don’t know your relationship with her, but have compassion. Being a parent is hard, if your a full time parent and the guy get’s to swing in on weekends and be the good guy, your kid doesn’t see it till they are older (and they always figure it out). The full time parent is the parent, friend warden, teacher, parole officer. The part time parent, is just the parent or really fun babysitter depending on how much time you spend.

    You may, depending on your situation, have it really easy in comparison. Black women walking around with their kids and no man or wedding ring get disrespected openly. Black men doing the same get praised. 🙁

  • shun king

    this hip hop is no longer music its the black culture so whenever the jewish/white owned entertainment companies want black culture to get better they will decide…as far as black looking at our issue and coming together as a community and change them…its not going to happen

  • Keepin’IT100

    Beautiful babies!! I can assure you that this engagement is a business arrangement

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. I’d say for the most part they get locked down early. A college degreed, employed, straight black man with good credit is a basically a catch nowadays (and he knows it).
    If he’s marriage minded – and not a “player”- he has a lot of options he can choose from. For a man like that to still be single at 30 or 35 is pretty rare.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I give Russell Wilson props for that. I heard a lot of people criticizing him for marrying a woman who already had a child (since he could have chosen from so many childless single women). But he looked past that and didnt let that child stop him from appreciating a good woman.
    Definitely a happy ending for both of them so far.

  • Jussjess25

    The ring is horrible!! Just gaudy and weird, there was no thought process behind its choosing, thats the number one indicator that the engagement is staged. The girl still lives in the hood. I like cardi I think its cool that she has made it as for as she has but shes not going to be the best female rapper out there.

  • Jussjess25

    The ring is horrible!! Just gaudy and weird, there was no thought process behind its choosing, thats the number one indicator that the engagement is staged. The girl still lives in the hood. I like cardi I think its cool that she has made it as for as she has but shes not going to be the best female rapper out there.

  • Jussjess25

    Not really.. if they done get married shell have to give it back

  • Jussjess25

    Not really.. if they done get married shell have to give it back

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw – bruhs with money ain’t in jail it’s the dumb broke scrubs in jail. black males with money swirl it on over back to the white man or marry Cardi B types.

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw – bruhs with money ain’t in jail it’s the dumb broke scrubs in jail. black males with money swirl it on over back to the white man or marry Cardi B types.

  • NicoleZee

    Exactly. But you know, most men don’t care about their bodies or health. So in that regard, as women we have to kind of force or encourage them to care, which is sad. If I’m getting to know a guy and his hygiene and home environment are horrible, I’m out. I’m grown and was not brought up like that. Men are disgusting but some women are too. I have an uncle and aunt with bad hygiene and their kids are the same way, which is ridiculous. I don’t get it. I guess some folks just don’t care about themselves or they have mental health issues preventing them from caring.

    I’ve been in enough f*cked up situations. I have a child, not trying to raise a grown man boy, not doing it. There is no excuse for any human being to have bad hygiene and not care about their health. There are shelters for homeless individuals where they can bathe and get assistance. The last guy I dated was mentally ill, took me awhile to really see it, I was in denial somewhat. He kind of gave up on himself, I tried to help, but he got offended and felt insulted, so I had to leave for my own sanity and protection. I just want women to do better and look after themselves and be careful with these men. Pay attention to the red flags and listen to your gut. I’m tired of hearing about women getting HIV or AIDS or being killed due to some abusive lowlife bum. I just pray that we all can do better.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think it is on the men, for the most part. I would say most black men nowadays are not married-minded. Their mentality is basically “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” .

  • Coy little wink

    I’m not using any card…she has close female black friends…her crew from the strip club was black!
    she’s even called herself a roach too. I haven’t seen the exact video but I read her rebuttal about using the term roach. You say whenever she speaks or gets angry…you can’t honestly say that come on now! This doesn’t add up to her having an issue with black women imo…

  • Nala Shakur

    Trust me when I say I fear for the future. I see the division hip hop culture creates. All the men rap about pretty much the same shit…low key shunning black women in most of their records..strippers becoming famous and praised simply off of looks..its scary..it really is..i just want to go somewhere where all of this shit doesn’t matter or has no influence over the masses…

  • shun king

    i disagree i don’t think both parties even know what it means… i have been in my city and what i see a women really don’t want a MAN they prefer “simps” a dude that’s going to let them party do what they want ,go when they want, and say what they want….any man that’s been raised old school is not going for that.. this is a conversation at work and among my friends women want simps they want to dress provocative as hell and a man shouldn’t say anything about it.my jaw drops when i see couple together and the woman have on legging and children and to top it off me being a clean cut handsome man i have been sleeping with married women since early 20s and my friends have too so who want to gt married when you see the married women give it up just as fast as single women

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Slave owners slept with black women/men and procreated w/ them. They were still very much racist.

    D Rose’s gf (who may be black/biracial) has/had several black female friends and she has repeatedly made racist and derogatory remarks about black women (google her). She also sleeps with the product of a black woman every day.

    Kim Z has black friends. Wasn’t her assistant/slave supposed to be one of her closest friends? She’s a reported racist.

    Alleged relationships with individuals (“you’re different”) of a different race does not preclude one from being racist/prejudiced against the collective of said race. Moreover, proximity and circumstances often force individuals that would otherwise not interact to do so. It is possible to associate with someone and still have negative feelings about them and their race.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    By “locked down”, i meant married. 🙂

  • VM

    Dam, it’s like an epidemic out here, never realizing they are hustling backwards.

  • Malcom Flex

    Gotcha. I stand corrected.

  • Malcom Flex

    Right and better than Kim and Kanye cause Ye is mentally ill and gay.

  • Let’s Play
  • Pamela

    Lol. I agree with you regarding Aries men!

  • BOSS

    BEAUTIFUL RING ? BEAUTIFUL KIDS ? She deserves it! CONGRATS CARDI ???? WISHING YOU MUCH SUCCESS!

  • Tennessean

    I hope nothing bad is going to happen…the industry is spinning this girl waaay to fast. Be careful Cardi…

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Sandra you hating Cardi is beautiful and does have alot more than both of those baby mommas pictured she got the most important thing of all….HER OWN BAG!!! Both of those chicks are in IG spending they baby daddy money. They are nothing but piggybank holders. Please keep in mind Im not a Cardi fan but that girl managed to go from nothing to something and speaks from her heart. I respect her to the fullest…Oh and Offset is the finest of the Migo’s lowkey…

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Um Cardi is Dominican and Trinidadian…shes black…

  • EMILY POST

    Not shocking.. Thats the dream girl for a man in the Entertainment industry.

  • Guess Who

    CTFU @ Sandra’s entire shade riddled write up!

    Offset is hideous and cardi is average but I am completely amused and wholeheartedly agree with this union. Why fuk up a decent person’s life when these two can fuk up each others? Yeah..stay wit him..fo’ evvah….

    …btw, I hate the shape of her too long nails.

  • SDot

    wow! 3 baby mommas! I’m sure she know that. Congrats to them

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    All of this!!!!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Oh wow!!!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I kind of appreciate a young “thug” type (you see I put thug in parenthesis) proposing to his woman. These kids cant tell the difference between real and fake anyway. it might inspire some of these younger dudes who look up to him to start doing right by their woman. Congrats on the proposal whether it be real or a PR stunt, she seems to be genuinely happy.

  • Dowoop

    I tend to stay away from saying someone is prettier than another person because its usually a whole other person below all that makeup.

  • gail jones

    I meant the comment you made about women changing after the baby. How do we change?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Chile they don’t hear you…they too busy facedown azz up in the pillows…

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Thats what I say all the time. I honestly think that the crack era had alot to do with it. Those kids raised in that era are now in the late 20’s to late 30’s didn’t have a father at home or their momma was addicted or just working hard as hell to keep a roof over their heads. These post crack- era adults had babies early and didn’t know or care if the father’s of their child(ren) were present because they were never given the example of a 2 parent home so why should they want or strive for one. That trickles down to their kids (preteens to 21) who discover sex earlier now and dont know about love at all. Both generations equate sex to love and it usually ends up with a pregnancy then desertion which starts the cycle again…

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree. I worked for a firm for 8 years and the white men my age at the time were married or engaged but the brothas never were. I can count on my hand how many weddings I have been to for our kings and queens. I go to more baby showers then weddings now smh…

  • shun king

    i would say the woman considers the child HER property and they feel they have the man by the balls..its like act right or else…just on social media you can see how women threaten men with child support all day and night or its i will not let you see your kids…this not 100% but this is my experience and plenty of people i know…think about it a woman can be married living with the man who pay all the bills get caught up cheating and she leave with all the kids ..i have saw this and was like damn they using these kids as checks..that’s why that dude went off and killed 8 people in mississippi she cheated ran off with all the kids like wtf am i the only one see something wrong with that

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    I watched his reaction after he proposed, there was no immediate hug or kiss from him…after an awkward minute she hugged him and he hugged her back with one hand, then just casually walked off like he just finished a performance….

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    and gay???…….I’m over here CTFU…

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    You must be young…men might not be rushing to be a real husband but they will rush and put a ring on it, just to stop other people from doing so….not necessarily out of love but ego.

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    Idk why people think Haitians or Dominicans are mixed with Tainos. To my knowledge, the vast majority of Tainos had died off via murder and diseases before one slave stepped foot on Hispaniola. Christopher Columbus most definitely eradicated most of the Tainos, a very small group of them lived in the mountains but no one knows for how long.

    Dominicans are mostly mixed with Spaniards and Africans….that’s it. Very few Tainos remained by the time slaves came to Hispaniola. A very small percentage of the Haitian and Dominican populations have that in their blood.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly! I saw that to. Seems like she thinks its real though?

  • Lolly Asher

    This.

  • hottlanta

    She got a lot of lumps in her azz.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Columbus was travelling with slaves from get go and Moors and he didn t step foot out of the boat and start killing Tainos. In Haiti in the the mountains there are still signs of Tainos history that is now block by US government. Why do you think?

    I love the story of Hispanola. The real truth is coming out. Can’t lie to us any longer. This is OUR land also.

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    No shade to your version of history but Columbus *did* set foot on Hispaniola. Matter of fact, “He seized 1,200 Taino Indians from the island of Hispaniola, crammed as many onto his ships as would fit, and sent them to Spain, where they were paraded naked through the streets of Seville and sold as slaves in 1495.”

    As for Haitian ancestry and DNA, most do not have any traces of Native American blood. When I traced my DNA, I am 96% African despite having caramel skin and different texture hair. All my life I was told I must have white or something in the background and all untrue. All my features and traits came straight out of Africa.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    His first trip was with slaves and other as he though he was going to India and their land needed sugar.
    Some of Haitians are feom the Arawak tribes of Tainos. There were different tribes all over the Carribeans. You can follow the American books. Even the European History Books has been modified. I go straight to Hispanola sources. It would be like saying all Mayans of Guatemala are all dead but over there they know in the mountains there are some who are as short as Mayans and speak the native language..NOT spanish…

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Columbus didn’t set foot all alone. Especially his first trip. He had a crew, Moors, Workers and Slaves

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    I did not state that there was no Haitians of Native American ancestry. I stated that there were very few….and by few I estimate less than a thousand. That’s an insignificant amount of people. The vast majority of Haitians are African (and very little mixing) according to their DNA results.

    Also, it’s good to read various sources of history but for the most part, it’s not going to vary *that* much. Some sources just won’t go into detail.

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    I understand that Columbus did not travel across the world alone. No one traveled alone during that era. I understand that it was a team of people. That wasn’t up for debate. You keep making it a point though…not sure why lol

  • shun king

    crazy i was doing some thinking i knew this chick a total of 5-6 hours and she was preg

  • shun king

    and i be thinking a child dont grow up wit they dad they can turn out gay or stupid like the rest of these boys i see running around here rapping

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Hummmm sure if you so. ?. I’m actually amused on how people choose to see one version and conclude when there’s many versions to research…. To each it’s own

  • CARDI B SOUNDS IGNORANT

    Cardi B and Offset will not get married, this is just a little PR…..Her rap/song or whatever that rubbish heard that YOU GUYS made popular
    was awful. She needs some class!