Most committed women complain about unwanted attention from men. But Ayesha Curry, wife of NBA superstar Stephen Curry, sparked controversy when she complained about the lack of attention from other men.

Ayesha, 30, sat down with Jada Pinkett Smith for a frank Red Table Talk discussion about living in the public eye. Also joining the discussion was Steph's mom, Sonya Curry, pictured left.

Ayesha shocked viewers when she revealed:

"Something that really bothers me, and honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity, is the fact that yeah, there are all these women, like, throwing themselves (at Steph), but me, like the past 10 years, I don't have any of that. I have zero - this sounds weird - but, like, male attention, and so then I begin to internalize it, and I'm like, 'Is something wrong with me?'"

Ayesha responded to the public backlash over her desire for male attention - and she didn't backtrack or bite her tongue.

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"I have never been one to cage my feelings and emotions to any capacity," she wrote in a post on Instagram.com.

"I am human. It brings me pure joy to speak my mind, be vulnerable at times and to know myself inside and out. Seeing as how it's mental health awareness month I really want to take the time to encourage everyone to speak their truth regardless of perception, fitting into a mold or offending someone, because it's YOUR truth. And that's okay!"

She added:

"If what I'm not afraid to say out loud about being a 30yr mama of 3 helps another woman like me feel like they're not the alone and not the only one with an insecurity (because we ALL have them, don't play) then that makes all of this hoopla worth it. If you get a chance to watch the actual RTT and not the headlines and rumors please do! As women let's continue to uplift, empower and not suppress and compress our feelings and thoughts, as fleeting as some of them may be. Love to you all!"

Ayesha spoke her truth: that she wants more than just the attention of her husband. And other women agreed.

Essence magazine's Joi-Marie McKenzie writes, "What I heard was a wife's honest admission of being fully human, of saying that although I have a man that many women would love to be with, there are times when even he's not enough. There are times when I want to see if I still got it."

Human beings are not monogamous by nature. Women and men who seem to have it all (marriage, kids, fame, wealth) still want more because it's in our nature.

Studies show polygamy is becoming more popular in America where the practice is still outlawed.

The bible provides incontrovertible proof that polygamy was the acceptable norm before the shift from polygamy to monogamy in the 1800s.

Ayesha is getting more male attention now than she can handle. Not only from strange men, but from her husband, Steph, who is probably wondering why his wife causes controversy every time his team heads into the NBA playoffs.
 

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This is me throwing a pair of spanx in a Marie Kondo-Esque bin. “Does it spark joy?” I have never been one to cage my feelings and emotions to any capacity. I am human. It brings me pure joy to speak my mind, be vulnerable at times and to know myself inside and out. Seeing as how it’s mental health awareness month I really want to take the time to encourage everyone to speak their truth regardless of perception, fitting into a mold or offending someone, because it’s YOUR truth. And that’s okay! If what I’m not afraid to say out loud about being a 30yr mama of 3 helps another woman like me feel like they’re not the alone and not the only one with an insecurity (because we ALL have them, don’t play) then that makes all of this hoopla worth it. If you get a chance to watch the actual RTT and not the headlines and rumors please do! There is so much more depth to the talk and our family is grateful to @jadapinkettsmith for giving us the opportunity to bond together. As women let’s continue to uplift, empower and not suppress and compress our feelings and thoughts, as fleeting as some of them may be ?. Love to you all! Go FIND YOUR JOY and SPEAK YOUR TRUTH unapologetically. ??(that’s all-Miranda voice)

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  • missmiami305

    I understand where you’re coming from Ayesha. Don’t entertain the trolls.

  • Junkanoo

    Light skinned women dont age well at least not this one . What kind of attention is she looking for emotional or physical . Go give your husband some head she needs something in her mouth so she shuts the hell up . She probably thinks everyone should fawn over her cause she isnt bad looking , she sounds needy.

  • tintin

    i get what she's saying too she should have kinda kept this to herself. it does kinda does suck if men aren't looking at you. you start wondering if you ugly and fat.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Believe or not a lot of married women feel this way

  • MrsSpice1

    Go give your husband some head she needs something in her mouth so she shuts the hell up....
    ———-
    ?? Sht took me out ???!!!!

  • MrsSpice1

    Oh girl bye!!! ??...sht ugh so annoying!! She better not jinx her marriage then she’ll really have a reason to feel “insecure.” Ol ungrateful azz! I would be embarrassed if i was Steph...imagine if he said that about not gettin enough attention from groupies...?

  • ALLMINE?

    Lebrons wife looks better than her. Ayeshia is aight looking..

  • CaramelDrop

    She believed the lie that she is cute?????

  • MJF

    Yawn is it Friday yet??!!

  • ALLMINE?

    She's just "aight".

  • iWasteTime

    We really should be talking about these women who aggressively pursue married men, celebrity or not, at any cost. Society has literally looked the other way in this case and attacked the wife. She said his DMs are full and mine are not. That says a lot about how men see and respect certain relationships and women don't.
    Look at the sheer number of WOMEN who've attacked her. From her skin tone, eye shape, body etc etc and that didn't start with this interview.

  • Coy little wink

    I need the blazer...help a bish out ? ? ?

  • Coy little wink
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    That is why I dont believe people should settle down and get married straight out of High school or College before getting a chance to LIVE and EXPERIENCE life!
    Now Ms. Ayeshia is figuring out that having Everything she thought she wanted isnt infact ALL that! She is having single woman cravings and that’s a sign that she has regrets about the path she chose in life???

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Yeah something is certainly wrong Ayesha

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think she's just digging the hole deeper. She should stop.

  • MJF

    Lucky you sis!! I'm in this office tryna keep my eyes open..

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Lol @ that gif! I LOVE him!!

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    If Ayesha done go home and fix her 3 kids some grits, cheese eggs, bacon and cheese toast already ?

  • Jordan’s Memory

    That's mean! She is pretty. But MAYBE she thought that would be enough to keep her husband focused on her and it's not working out. It's just so weird to me how much they look alike.

  • ALLMINE?

    I think she needs a tan. Shes pale as f*ck. All light aint right. Definitely not my type. She probably has a nice personality tho.

  • Daffanyrose

    God you just made hungry as f*ck

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LeBron's wife is soooo pretty! I bet she was that bish in High school where Lebron had to keep her around. lol

  • CardiB’sAbs

    1) That tan lip she has in the headlining picture is everything!
    2) Steph’s mama has some strong ass genes. Steph and all three of his kids look just like her.
    3) I hate when women pull the “Let’s all uplift each other blah blah” because they’ve done or said some stupid sh!t. Just because we both have vaginas that doesn’t mean you’re above reproach or that I owe you anything besides common decency.

  • Daffanyrose

    She look homely as h*ll

  • CaramelDrop

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It’s food to compliment your kids but if you do it too much your kids grow up to deal with this. Had she been secure in her other talents maybe she wouldn’t be seeking attention from other men while married.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    The married ones that pressured their boyfriend to marry them, helped them pick out the ring then took out loans to pay for an outrageous wedding.. Only to find out, marriage is more than the ring and wedding ???

  • CaramelDrop

    *food =good

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Right! *Sips on protein shake in disgust*

  • Yup, I said it

    I know she works Stephens nerves because she works the hell out of mine. Every time I see her I know she will do or say some dumb attention seeking shit.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    You think so? I think she is pretty and nice arm candy. but she also looks very needy and seem bratty to the point where you just want to leave the house to get away from her.

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    Girl just get a boyfriend and stfu *rolls eyes*

  • AllIN19

    Just here for the comments??

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    She had/ has low self esteem too like Ayeshia! Memba, she stuck around having babies with a man that put her on the back burner for damn near 10 yrs and 2 kids before deciding to marry her.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Give yourself attention that will solve all of that ... you wait on somebody shid be waiting for years even lifetimes ... don't ever look outside yourself for satisfaction .... that's a self esteem ... self worth issue .... I will send you my bill from da heavens ..... keep the change Ayesha ...? (1)

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Lol

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO! A cuddy Buddy like Being Mary Jane. he was sooo yummy too! ummmm

  • CardiB’sAbs

    You think they look alike? He has very feminine soft delicate features while hers are more pronounced and broad. She’s pretty to me.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ????

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    That's all she needs to do.. LOL

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • CardiB’sAbs

    What else was she going to do? ?????

  • MJF

    lmao

  • Jersey Girl

    She was a pageant queen so she craves that adoration! Narcissism at its best.. and when she is called out... ERRRBODY run to the mental health game! Gurl Bye! I was rooting for you ( In my tyra banks voice)

  • MJF

    Random: How is it that Bardi B released a collection with fashion nova at midnight and 2/3 of it is sold out. Do people lose sleep and stay up until these things drop? Like I'm confused... I definitely wasn't losing no sleep waiting for it to drop.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Because she pretty much has it all and there have been no rumors of Steph stepping out on her so basically what else does she want?
    Now she's talking about she wants men besides her husband to pay attention to her?
    Ohhhhhhhhhh k!!
    I am glad I don't deal with women because you guys are sooooooooooooooooooo confusing.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Girl, get that check, get her a REAL man with a regular hairline and live LIFE https://media3.giphy.com/media/3orieOxN5SAVeSRZQY/giphy.gif

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Yes, if you look at that pic with all 3 of them, they all look related. they have the same eyes, complexion hair color and everything!

  • chan chan

    I’m not with u Ayesha. I will not allow u to cause trouble in my marriage. I’m thankful and grateful. I see a divorce in her near future.

  • tintin

    Lmao

  • AllIN19

    Just put it in your moooouth???? ok the song came to me...

  • eyesopen

    How many of the female commentators have been married for 5+ years?

  • iWasteTime

    No. Most time people buy and resell.

  • ALLMINE?

    Yooo google oj Simpsons ex wife.. they look exactly the same. Its kinda odd

  • chan chan

    Of course she is. She is getting attention albeit negative but she’s working up a divorce and she will be eating her words shortly. Learn from Cyn Santana.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Different noses (his is tiny hers is wider and flatter); face shapes ( hers is wide and flat his is small); chins (his is pointier hers is broad); eyes (hers are big his are normal sized); and lips (he has white woman lips she has a full pout). They both have light eyes and both have lighter complexions-those are the end of the similarities.

  • chan chan

    Thanks for pointing out the specifics ????

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I have a friend who did that and going threw the ringer now. Haven't been two years and they already throwing the divorce word around. But at first she LOVED saying My husband this My husband that.... she really got a kick of it like it defined her in some way. Now every time she is mad or fussing about something he did which is literally every other day, I say Girl that's UR HUSBAND.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Unfortunately, having a social media platform opens ANY individual up for criticism and attacks. Comes with the territory ????? Cant take the heat, get out of the kitchen! I dont feel sorry for ANYBODY who is posting their lives and thoughts on social media then gets attacked! Social media is a CHOICE not a necessity https://media0.giphy.com/media/SbK2P1MhjfKuFkqkSw/giphy.gif

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ?????

  • Daffanyrose

    Exactly

  • YellowSauce

    She doesn't get attention from men because she said she preferred it that way ...she said her husband knew what she had under her clothes and she wasn't here to be sexy for other men and actually told OTHER women to put some clothes on ......REMEMBER ??? .....Now she wants the attention she said she didn't need .... my boyfriend is big mad at her for this LOL ... She has a good man one that women would actually hurt HER for if he didn't have good morals ... eh hem (jay z) ....smh lol Did I say that out loud ??? hahahahaha and NOW she wants it ... If I were Curry she would be getting ALL kinds of side eyes and i would be talking to a lawyer lolololol .......

  • Daffanyrose

    Lol

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    What happened to Cyn?

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Ayesha and Nicole? Or his Mom? The mom kinda looks like her.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    She is EVIL isnt she ?. I cant eat NONE of that!

  • JazzyBossyJen

    Shaddup attention hoe...Your man out here trying to win Championships and you complaining about groupie attention for him and none for you, instead of saying that he ain’t paying you enough mind! The backlash is that Dumb sh!t is like comparing apples to oranges..Furthermore, Stop trying to compete with your hubby and take that bs to a therapists not the world. I truly believe something is wrong even though Steph hasn’t any bad press with cheating scandals...That was mad disrespectful as a married woman bcuz that’s her husband job not other thirsty men to make her pie face assss feel special! Ugh

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ???

  • Jordan’s Memory

    OMG I use to love me some Cyn until she appeared full time on the show she is sooooo damn annoying winey and needy!

  • Honeylove123

    Exactly! She’s being honest and like she said it’s her truth. Folks just jealous and it’s sad. She’s being human, everyone wants to feel like they still “got it”, doesn’t mean she’s gonna act on it but damn it feels good to be desired. Real woman shit.

  • guest
  • Jordan’s Memory

    Or maybe they had very limited stock or maybe she bought the shittt herself like people use to do records and magazines they will buy them all up to make it look like they selling good. who knows with that girl and her ghetto ass team.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ???

    Chile... When I hear chicks talking about the ring and the wedding they want, I roll my eyes like you have NO IDEA that it is WAY more than that! Ive only been married for 10 years ?????

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ??
    In your mopucking MOOUUFF ?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    THIS!

  • Vegas1989

    My husband and I had this convo last night...We both got rowdy and loud....LOL...And my puppy dog.....LOL...I love that dog to death and he loves his mommie….He jumped off the love seat and went to the sofa where my husband was sitting and was just barking his little behind off....LOL...He thought that my husband Vince was trying to hurt me...LOL...I wish people could have seen that. He picked up tension between us and went out to protect me...We busted out laughing....She needs to hang out with me and I will teach her how to feel good about myself....My husband be trying to hang on to me like my Fendi bag...I tell him go hang out with your Friends....LOL,....Always want to come and troll to see what I'm doing....LOL..

  • CardiB’sAbs

    *heads to fashion nova*

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    All she saying is she wanna lil train action... she just wants to try out what she watches on Pornhub is all.

  • Hunni24

    You mean in your BanX voice? LOL

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Y’all stop hating on that lady she told the truth I have slept with several married women and it’s all a common denominator they feel like no one is paying attention to them.and they feel lonely

  • missmiami305

    Real talk ??. It’s the nature of the beast....the world we live in. They give women an expiration date so to speak.

  • Jersey Girl

    right!!! The new & improved Tyra! ..lmao!! .. I just can't anymore

  • Jordan’s Memory

    lol I do not think that's what she is trying to say. She don't want Mandingo style action. She seem to lame for that anyways. lmao

  • Marlika

    ?? Shame on you...

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Well all rightly then Mr.Clean Up Man.

  • Vegas1989

    Good Morning Coy little wink lucky you. I get off at 3 but come in tomorrow for 6 hours of OT.....

  • Marlika

    Gurl ? Please go sit down somewhere and STFU!! If Steph does cheat on her annoying whining ass I can’t say I’d blame him.

    Why Steph’s mom look younger than his wife?

  • missmiami305

    Folk still patronizing Fashion Nova

  • Guest

    THIS: but from her husband, Steph, who is probably wondering why his wife causes controversy every time his team heads into the NBA playoffs.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Every damn time!

  • Ni Ni

    Well good for her. I hope she finds her style soon. That bra outfit and that jumpsuit from yesterday is not it.

    #ParentsSayNoToStudentLoans #ItsAScam

  • MsSapphire9800

    Here you go Mrs. Curry.....they are looking at you!!!! Now go somewhere and worry about your husband and children.

    https://media0.giphy.com/media/3otPoAAdbeJA97NPJ6/giphy.gif

  • CardiB’sAbs

    I bought a bikini from there last week for a pool party I’m throwing. It was priced cheap and slutastic-just the way I preferred.

  • AllIN19

    Yess ?? I gotta log off

  • Malai

    Tell her Vanna! ?she goofy as all hell

  • Nathan Hastings

    None

  • Soon2BWife

    Hey, Gabrielle Union Jr.! Mrs. Pie face realize you are not likable by men or women. Be thankful you have a husband, healthy children and the time to sit around and worry about who is or isn't attracted to you.

    Next!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Lololololol

  • Malai

    Ayesha, I hope the universe gives you EXACTLY what you’ve been longing for. And when it do, we don’t wanna hear ? about it!

    Namaste ??

    ?

  • Guest

    My (baby) puppy does the same thing when me and my Honey have heated debates. Love Her!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I was young I don’t do things like that anymore

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    I don't understand why people don't like this woman. Seems to be a lot of hate out there for married black women and I'm not sure why.

  • Soon2BWife

    Mr. Soon is terribly bothered by all this too! ? He was like what am I missing about this situation? I told him she is immature, attention seeking, and bored out of her mind. She is also a goofy for causing this controversy while her husband is in the playoffs yet again.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ???? There are some 5+ years married women in here

  • Ebony Starr

    Especially when people are ooowing and aawing over her mother-in-law whose almost twice her age.

  • chan chan

    Cyn made a comment stating she doesn’t date Hispanic men she love dating black men because they cater to latinas. She had black Women pissed. Fast forward to May 7 Joe Budden has been cheating on her with a lovely tall dark skin model named Jazma Kendrick her insta is Jazma_Kendrick. The internet went ham on Cyn when they seen who Joe is cheating with.

  • Soon2BWife

    Say it again for those in the back!!!!

  • Coy little wink

    Get that money boo ?

    I'm delivering flowers tomorrow and Saturday for mothers day ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile ??? 1

  • 11pink123

    Ayesha, I’m not fazed by no females. If my husband is willing to risk loosing me over another female, they can have him.

    I had a white flight attendant that tried to flirt with my husband right in front of me. I put my head phones on and start watching a movie. He was mad at me for not getting mad at her. I told him I know him and trust him, but the truth was, Im thinking “fool you can’t replace me”. especially not with these basic hoes they got out here today. I don’t care how cute they are, they all basic. Stupid bytches are following Beyoncé, lol gtfoh...

  • free

    she's an aggravating person who has made controversial comments in the past. however, this time, i think it was coming from a genuine, vulnerable place.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Correction she is confusing ....

  • tunjie

    Sheeeeeeet, I'd start a dm pen pal with that pretty thing if she wants! Brake me off a little $$$ if you can also ma'am! I do bet his mom was like WTF is this woman talking about.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Amen! To me, I feel like it is the man’s job to draw the line of what is inappropriate and what isn’t when interacting with women. You can stay on his social media, go through his phone etc but it’s ultimately up to him about what he allows. ?????

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    It's just a little too much and I feel like people are more aggravated by her than other annoying celebrities.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    She allowed herself to be vulnerable and is being punished (using that term loosely) for it.

  • free

    i think her past comments and demeanor have come back to haunt her. she was all chaste and housewifey-like so nobody is checking for her and the groupies only checking for steph for his money and to say he hit it cause he looks like somebody lil nephew.

  • justlooking
  • free

    i wonder why folk go on that red table shit cause everybody is gonna act a fool like it ain't them. i definitely felt steph's mom and how she laid out the stages of marriage but i haven't had a chance to finish the whole thing.

  • Coy little wink

    I want some ?

  • Coy little wink

    What stephs mom say? Where can I watch this?

  • free

    i have not really followed her but i get a "my life is perfect" vibe that people have taken and run with. so now that she is saying she has a need or desire for something missing, and it's like errbody is going in. plus some dumb ass men are just using this as a way of trying to say you can't make a woman happy, which is completely wrong.

  • free

    you gotta watch the whole thing, not just the clip of ayesha. it's in the beginning though.

  • free

    i don't even know how long we was together but 10 for me.

  • chan chan

    ??? @ u put your headphones on and started watching a movie!!!!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Smh , her husband thinks she’s cut. While most of y’all that’s so called cute (with makeup and weave) are lonely and angry ?????.

    Some women can be so mean for know damn reason , but quick to hashtag #blackgirlmagic FRAUDS

  • justlooking

    First of all most of us women, dress to impress other women.

    Getting hair, nails and spending HOURS picking out the "perfect" ensemble and shoes. Most straight men don't pay attention to that. Another woman will tell you where you bought and how much you paid and where you could have paid less.

    I'm not sure why a married women, would speak on this OUTLOUD. It's a great thing she clarified that it's mental health month, because that speaks volumes on her insecurity. She's not a ugly woman, so of course men are looking, but many times they don't say or approach you; married or not.

    LORD, I'm going to put her on my prayer list.

    https://media.giphy.com/media/xAGgqlMdqWjeq6mPJr/giphy.gif

  • free

    is it legit, like the clothes fit as sized, good material, cheap prices, what? i keep seeing it.

  • Vegas1989

    LOL...I got married 2 years ago at 45. It was my first and I have no kids. I told Vince what are we going to do. We either get married or break up and go our separate ways. We have been together for 10 years. I told him that I don't need him and I choose to be with him. I'm establish and have good credit and looking for a house.Sooo what are you going to do?...…..LOL....Long story short....He planned the wedding and everything. I just had to buy a dress and show up....LOL

  • KcoolMuziq

    Ayesha looks to me like I've always said unsatisfied. Her & Steph have no sexual chemistry or energy whatsoever. If she craves more attention than from her superstar husband. Something isn't getting satisfied behind closed doors.

    #TEAMJADA

  • Topic Influencer

    Still on a huge fukk ya to pie faced ass Ayesha.

    First she ridiculed women for seeking male attention and outside validation and then here she come hardly a year later---wanting women to side with her in sisterhood and be empathetic...to HER insecurity that is due to....seeking male attention and outside validation.

    Bish if you dont get your confused ass from ROUND my damn social media timelines with this here bullshat.

    You talk about lifting women up...but you werent uplifting and was looking down your nose at everyone ELSE. FOH https://media0.giphy.com/media/1DhUzOhxkLI1G/giphy.gif

  • free

    this. and hanging with jada ain't gonna help.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    See, this is one of the most insightful and logical responses to her comments! I get it, have seen it.

    Her cravings are like people that say they didn’t have a childhood. She wants her life (IMO), but also wants what she didn’t have, which created voids!

    There’s a price to pay for being 1st wife!

  • free

    i am surprised that women are going in because i thought all women went through this at different stages in their lives. can you turn off the DM? if i were an athlete, i would cut that shit off.

  • Sid

    This is why I like Savannah James and not this chick. This is Ayesha way of craving for attention. And she got it

  • chan chan

    Oh phuck the truth. The bottom line is this woman can’t relate to the average woman Problems. That’s the purpose of the wedding ring to say u are off the market. I’m glad u mentioned u slept with married women because this further prove why Ayesha comment and thought process is wreckless.

  • Topic Influencer

    She needs all the prayer her confuzzled ass can GET

  • free

    she's pretty but she screams schoolmarm.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    I haven’t seen it but I will tune in. Not sure if she mentioned post partum depression, but she could’ve struggled with that as well.

    I don’t feel like tearing this lady down because of how she feels. Many folks just seem to not like her.

    I like that she got her own bag and her own lane ????? Although said bag is due to her man’s superstardom LOL. I still can’t be mad at her.

  • Topic Influencer

    And Im sure she has an inbox FULLA DAMN DICK PICS NOW bc of this. If you dont go look at some BBD on repeat and hush.... https://media1.giphy.com/media/4GIvR6cmYs8jC/giphy.gif

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    yea I agree. hopefully she takes some of the feedback and fixes her attitude. Her wanting male attention is pretty normal for someone that got married early. I know my married at 30 plus year old self has had enough of male attention and the 95% chance of BS that comes after it.

  • Honeylove123

    Can you imagine folks sweatin’ your aging diva mother in law and totally overlooking you! Lol Chile... the cougar getting all the action

  • Sam

    Thank you for summarizing one of the main issue with what she revealed. Some people just aren't getting it. If she's now expressing her truth, the only conclusion you can draw is that her past contradictory statements were untruths made only to shame other women and paint her as somehow superior. She's insufferable.

  • Topic Influencer

    Sonya Curry is one of my fave basketball wives of all time. She is from an era where they did their volunteer work (Charlotte benefited greatly from hers) and if they had a career did that as well. Raised their kids (she did a great job with Steph, Seth, and Sydell) and STAYED IN THEIR LANE. I KEEP saying Ayesha needs to consult her mother in law.

  • chan chan

    Ayesha started arguments in most homes all across America. My husband was side eyeing me and I was like what? He was like I’m paying all the bills, I give u attention, take u on trips, nice home, and car, do u feel like her?! I said ni99a I’m not arguing with u about that pie face fool comment.

  • Topic Influencer

    Someone also pulled her IG/Twitter recepits with numerous older instances of her saying basically I got a man, his name is Steph Curry, and I wish men would leave me alone with ALL THIS MALE ATTENTION. She is so damn insufferable INDEED

  • Coy little wink

    Yep. Steph ain't hitting it right. She need to be manhandled...

    * goes to call mister...

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    EXACTLY!

  • hottlanta

    At 61 l am good. Brother just gave me the legendary nod ???????

  • CardiB’sAbs

    The bikini is fine. That’s the only thing I ever bought from there.

  • justlooking

    Iono get sis...

    As long as my husband coming home and smacking me own my ass and.......
    We are good. Maturity is mutha...She'll get there one day.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    WoooooooW!

  • Topic Influencer

    Ayesha needs a blunt, a half a bolla of wine, and a half nelson/wrassling moves sex session.

    Its my birthday. I will be having all of the above starting in about 6-7 hours. I suggest she do the damn it SAME.

  • currvalicious

    They even look like siblings, which is weird that they'd even be attracted to each other.

  • Yoni7

    First of all most of us women, dress to impress other women.
    _____________
    Half truths. LOL

  • Applebootay

    RIGHT! When my romantic relationships and marriage was good, I needed nothing else from another man. I was 30 with 2 kids too. I could care less if another man even knew I existed. As long as the man I was with made me feel beautiful and satisfied I was good. AND YES, I had/have those same insecurities but attention from other men definitely was not going to solve them. I CALL BS..honestly Steph should be pissed that she even said that sh$t it actually shows more of an emotional immaturity ..than anything else

  • Coy little wink

    Happy Birthday!!!! ??????? ?

    Misters is tomorrow it's going down ?

  • hottlanta

    Your know ray ray n them ready 2 smack that azz all day every day.

  • Sam

    If I were Steph, I'd be hot right now. He's out here trying to secure bags and win championships and this chick is complaining about trivial things taking attention away from the main reason she has a restaurant, cook book, cooking show, cosmetic campaign, clothing line, etc...Steph's basketball career. I'm all for female empowerment, but some times women need to know when not to rock the boat. She is not Gabby: people would not be checking for her were she not Steph's wife. These Veruca Salt chicks that are never satisfied kill me.

  • hottlanta

    Aint nuthin like wrestling with a 747 n losing on purpose. Ump ump ump.

  • Topic Influencer

    Not currently but was married for 7. Now in a relationship for the past 3.

  • Applebootay

    I have..had a friend just like her....SUPER INSECURE AND IMMATURE..she was always seeking outside attention even to the point of cheating on him for YEARS...AND SHE STILL DOES...but won't leave because he's holding it down financially....and she admits that their sex life is like watching paint dry...and shes been married 20 years...says he's wack in the bed.

  • Trace da Ace

    girl...say that shit.....

  • Coy little wink

    Smacked...choked...wrangled...dangled...oh my

  • Rhyme and Reason

    And, it didn’t just start. They talked about Edris Elba’s then fiancé then complain when a famous successful black man marries Becky! Ciara catches it too!

    Even Cardi doesn’t get dissed as much, and caped way more!

    But, this is a gossip blog, and social media is a double-edged sword before someone says it!

  • Topic Influencer

    Thanks

    MY FELLOW TAUREAN BROTHA! Whewt. You gonna get the smack down!! https://media1.giphy.com/media/1yN5TDiyzMcW8b9ESU/giphy.gif

  • Trace da Ace

    Ayesha...girl...have several seats....if you are happily married and all that...why do you want other men to try you??? I mean for real....if that was the case...you should have stayed single and started hoe hopping around....I gots nothing for you girl..for real...go bye bye

  • Just Me

    I guess society do not like when you expose your insecurities. Ayesha said nothing wrong to me, it’s just the way ppl perceive it. ????? I’m pretty sure she joke with her husband all the time about the attention he get versus her attention. If anybody should be getting bashed it should be the groupies who stay trying to get at a married man.?

  • Topic Influencer

    He is 6'3 and just a big ole country dude. I cant win if I wanted to lmao.

  • Coy little wink

    Say what?? Smh

  • Renee

    Goofiness abound!

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    I'm glad someone else noticed it. Even Gabrielle Union. The hate got a lot worse after she got married.

  • Topic Influencer

    Thats part of my issue. Every damn time GSW in playoffs she starts some kind of shit. She needs to HAVE.A.SEAT

  • Just Me

    Most of the ppl who bash this woman are insecure themselves. I like Ayesha which is an unpopular opinion. ?????

  • hottlanta

    Is he old ving rhane phune when he arrived on the scene in the movie baby boy. Girl l left thé last swallow of orange juice in the fridge just so my ole man could stand there n drink it butt naked

  • Topic Influencer

    She chastised folks about the exact SAME insecurities in OTHER women...just last year. Now bc she says she got em, we supposed to be team her? Naw. It dont work like that.

  • sjames

    "instead of saying he ain't paying you enough mind" THAT PART. it's not that she wants attention from others but that HE'S getting attention from others and giving NONE to her. so it makes her feel less sexy or wanted when he's around other women. that's what she actually feels. idk not one married woman who wants attention from outside of her marriage. we all wanna feel like the only woman in the world with the one we're actually WITH

  • Topic Influencer

    Yes he is big like that but has a little gut. I will take that gut and be happy for it lol

  • Applebootay

    I like her...no hate...but I think she has a lot of growing to do and some things shouldn't be made public and IMHO this is one

  • hottlanta

    Step thinking all of the moaning during sex were liés. She wasnt really into me she rather b with someone else.

  • Applebootay

    Not really...she's just trying to cover up her immaturity by masking it as vulnerability. IJS?????

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    Yea I definitely would not have voiced this one out in public

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    Rumors are he cheats on her...wonder if he does? Or does she?

  • oshh16

    I still don't see what the brouhaha is all about.
    I just think people don't like her ...... specifically over things she has said in the past.
    Even with that, if folk can celebrate being a slut, why can't other folk celebrate being modest, while keeping some things reserved for the bedroom/husband. Every dude or person is not privy to certain aspects of me.

  • Rayscoty

    Will and Jada can show her a good time.. JS

  • Topic Influencer

    Bc her ass is a pick me and always comes off as if she is better than everyone when in actuality she is a regular, schmegular, degular church girl from Canada. I didnt and still dont appreciate the superiority of her past comments on this same situation only for her to circle back THIS WEEK, and be like well I have these same feelings that I just ridiculed yall about last year.

  • Applebootay

    RIGHT...LOW KEY...she's actually thirst trapping....???

  • MJF

    !!!

  • Just Me

    I think ppl are not seeing that she is comparing the attention she get versus her husbands attention. She don’t really want the attention, but she is questioning herself as to what’s wrong with her. I agree, she did say she don’t think women should dress half naked to get attention. Again, she exposed an insecurity that she might feel now that she didn’t feel last year. Also, it also show that women aggressively pursue married men.

  • LibgraScales

    I understood exactly what she was saying. When you are with a man that has women literally THROWING themselves at him, sometimes while you're even standing there, one, that's a lot to handle, especially the disrespect that goes along with that, and two, I don't care who you are, even the baddest bytch can start to feel a little insecure about themselves, always wondering are YOU YOURSELF enough for your husband. And sometimes, when you get looks for other men, that can validate to you, that yes, I still got it! Now, that doesn't mean that you are leaving your husband and ready to have an affair. That just means that yes, I'm still attractive, even around all of these other beautiful women that throw themselves at her husband on the daily.
    Some women get lost in having a husband, raising kids, helping everybody else, and putting themselves on the back burner. It happens to woman every day. She is no exception. I like her openness and it's a real issue. All women want to feel attractive, beautiful, and be seen that way whether you're married or not. It's human nature.

  • hottlanta

    As long as he doesnt have 2 lift it up or strain your neck like a giraffe 2 get 2 the goods u fine girl.

  • currvalicious

    Idk what to say PR think of Ayesha's comments. Other than that's a discussion for close friends & her Mother & Mother-in-law (they seem pretty close). Not a red table talk moment. What would men look like ogling & approaching her?? Then that would be an issue b/c then she'd be hollering about being disrespected. Thing is, she can't have it both ways. They got married in their early twenties w/3 kids in & she's just 30. He's giving that cooch a lot of attention, the way she's popping out those kids.

  • Applebootay

    Yup and sh@t. I just canceled her fake azz too....because women like that aren't just insecure in their relationships to men, their insecurities spill over into everything they do and their miserable azzes make everyone around them miserable.

  • more

    You nailed it but unfortunately people can't think beyond themselves.

  • sjames

    married women who have not fully lived single lives feel this way. plus, i know men who feel this way too. i think she's misinterpreting her own feelings. 1.) she has regrets about getting married to the only man she's known. 2.) he not giving her attention at home and it's making her feel insecure so she saying slick shit out loud to let him know "since you not lookin i want others to look"

    she truly need to evaluate her life. she was bred and raised to be a perf housewife and she's learning that perfection don't keep a man or make you better than a woman who has slept around

  • Applebootay

    Happy Birthday!

  • Ebony Starr

    Grandma Sonya was at the RTT and even Jada had to stop the Talk to gush over how good she looked.

  • Coy little wink

    No doubt

  • Topic Influencer

    Thanks hun

  • Applebootay

    She's not "sexy" so men probably never will "lust" after her and I'm sure they never really have. However, if being able to pull an Rich Celebrity Athlete ain't enough attention to feed your ego...then.. nothing ever will be.

  • SayWhatNow?

    The same simple minded ass people that can't understand what this woman is saying are the same people who get mad when they don't get 1000 likes when they put up a picture on Facebook! People need to read and listen to comprehend what someone is saying, not just hear to have a response or pick out one thing to respond to.

  • Applebootay

    We can call her out on her BS w/o tearing her down tho.

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    pick mes are annoying but she never got the chance to be one. she got married in her early 20s. her views are based on her beliefs not trying to get picked but I 100% agree that she needs to be more sensitive and yes she's very guilty of oversharing. but those crimes don't seem to match the level of hate.

  • Topic Influencer

    Married women didnt need Ayesha to tell them that other women will agressively pursue your husband. Water is wet. A wedding band is extra attractive on a man to a lot of women. He aint gotta be Steph Curry rich either. His ass can be working at the McD's as a shift supervisor. Some woman on that crew wants to fukk the fry grease outta him. Probably MORE than one.

  • Applebootay

    If anyone should have a problem with what she said should be Steph!...He should be asking her.."Am I not enough?" She need JESUS that's what she need

  • Topic Influencer

    She got with Steph when she was 12. Well his attention.

  • Topic Influencer

    This. Other than calling her pie faced (which she is. hell one of my sisters is pie faced and so is one of my aunts) I aint torn her down. I mean I wanna like her. I truly do. But she is an irritant. She is pretty tho. And seems nice and not a huge bish. And Im sure she is a good mom. But BS is BS.

  • Just Me

    LOL!! You are right on that, I agee!???

  • Mz_Opinionated

    ? ? I have a question. Who thinks Steph Curry is attractive? I'm curious. He and his wife look like brother and sister. I can't 100% weigh in on how she feels right now. Because...I'm just not going to pay attention. She is 30 and I am almost 41. Our struggles, worries and concerns are so different. I am not sure I can identify...

  • Sircaput

    Why do she need to be "hoe hopping" to get validation? Some women wants to know that they are still attractive..her insecurities could be coming from the lack of attention she is getting from her husband..I totally understand what she is saying.

  • What???

    He gives her HIGH wife status in front of society and she EMBARRASSES him in front of society. Why?? So she can finally get dyck picks? Men have respected her relationship now she wants them to DISRESPECT him. He needs to leave her cuz she wants to know what it feels like to get ran through. She made him a TARGET which is the most unwifely thing to do instead of discussing it in private.

  • GirlSixx

    OMG, I am glad somebody finally said it. I don't find Steph attractive either, he looks like a 12 old boy in the face. I don't see whats all the HYPE about him besides his basketball skills. 8shrug*

  • NSYDEOUT

    I completely understand and she was only trying to show that she is human. I think she's one of those women that other women love to hate. No real logical reason for the hate just "Ugh, I hate her because of this and that". The response would have been totally different if say someone like Beyonce', Rhianna, J-Lo, etc. said this. It would be a "revelation", you know. It's nice to be desired. Men always like to know that they still got it, married or not and they will seek that attention in various to make sure. I see it everyday. When you become a mom, especially back to back like her, you engulf yourself in making the life of your family work;successful. I stand by what she said as I feel the same way but......at times.....you have to keep something to yourself because we as women can be so volatile towards one another as what I am reading in these comments. At least she isn't trying to pretend that she's perfect, coming off as stuck up, etc. I appreciate transparency in people.

  • T Willis

    Lol! Steph is a millionaire NBA player, he doesn’t have to be attractive. However, he’s one of the cutest player in the NBA. Plus he seems like a good moral man. That alone increases his attractiveness factor lol

  • GirlSixx

    I NEVER HEARD THAT RUMOR.. You tried it though.
    LOL

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Okay...I respect your opinion. I asked and received...

  • Topic Influencer

    I am 42 but I can indeed identify. I was 29-30 with 2 young kids and a husband and I felt just swallowed by LIFE back then. My whole everything wrapped up in them. But NOW 13 years later, I am divorced, one of my kids is now grown and gone and magically my baby is going to high school soon. So while my struggles have evolved, I still recall that feeling back then. My insecurities then need not to have been shared or now. Some stuff you keep at the house. All these folks applauding her for her honesty--Im confused. We stay hollering how these folks need to not splash their biz. But they overshare and get pats on the back. Whole thing a clusterfukk.

  • GirlSixx

    LOL. Truueeee.

  • T Willis

    Yeah but those ppl aren’t married to a millionaire NBA player. No woman should need outside validation from a man. That’s probably why she feels so unfulfilled or unattractive, because she thinks that validation needs to come from something outside of herself. Black women have to be their own cheerleaders. We have to learn to see value and beauty from within. I feel sexy and beautiful regardless of who’s on my arm, or how many dudes holler?????. Ayesha needs to seek a therapist.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    I don't find him attractive. Kevin Durant has money. I dare someone to say he is cute. It's definitely about the coin when it comes to Durant...Period.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    So you are offering up a different perspective. Thanks for helping me understand. Because I was certainly loss...I didn't understand all this fuss behind her and her comment. Is it because she's an Aries? Any Aries on board around here than can chime in...and also some younger mothers i guess...It's too much for me personally.

  • Sam

    Over 40 club here - He's isn't unattractive, but if he approached me on the street, I'd turn him down. Being talented, financially stable and an overall nice guy are pluses for any man who I don't find physically attractive out the gate, but he's just doesn't' do it for me. And there are some young ones out there that do...

  • Mz_Opinionated

    His age is not a factor in my determining whether he is attractive. I personally think Klay Thompson looks better. I digress! All opinions, thoughts and feelings are allowed by me. LOL! It's all relative. I agree to Steph's attributes. I'm just trying to figure out what wifey's problem REALLY is...I do like her cookware.

  • Topic Influencer

    A friend of mine just told me last night (Ayesha is quite the talk of the land here lately on all forums I guess) that the cookware was nice but burned her hands. Is that true?

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Lord! I'm going to allow the extra shenanigans because you are the birthday girl ?

  • Topic Influencer

    Lol. Thanks!

  • T Willis

    Naw that makes sense, but, I feel like this position - as an athletes wife - is something that she agreed to. That lifestyle, as a wife of an NBA player, isn’t conducive to incessant validation. And furthermore, if these are her anxieties, then she needs to discuss them in a forum with a therapist and her husband. A reality show isn’t the platform to lay your insecurities on the table, without discussing it with your husband first. I could understand if this was an issue that her and husband had worked through and he was okay with her talking about it privately - but the fact that she’s still admitting to feeling insecure tells me that the issue is still unresolved. And to a thot, that means a passage is clearing... and soon enough Ayesha will have all the time in the world to be oogled and solicited lol.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    OOH! You shut up ? I have one that goes into the oven! So I don't know if that's true because I have to use oven mitts! LOL! I don't doubt what your friend said though...someone said her cookware shatters in the oven. I haven't had that happen yet. If so, I will blast her on Amazon.

  • NSYDEOUT

    I like her as well. I am not sure why she gets all this hate. We all say things that might not be favorable and she says and does things that I've seen other celebs just get away with you. She's just one of those individuals that people, mostly us black women, love to hate. I don't understand. Guess because she's rich and pretty it's like, what in the world do you have to be unhappy about, IDK.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Yeah, I don't dress to impress other women...I was lost by that...but then again...That's just me. I thought you dressed to impress yourself...No?

  • T Willis

    The only person who can validate you is YOU. Ayesha is too grown to not understand this concept. And she’s the mother of two girls? I hope self-esteem and self-Love are just as important to her as being oogled on social media.

  • Lady_Elle

    I understand what she is saying...

  • Mz_Opinionated

    You on it I see ? regular, schmegular, degular ? smh...you are definitely ONE OF A KIND.

  • T Willis

    On the other thread someone mentioned how NBA players rarely have free time because they’re constantly traveling and making money via endorsements. But you’re right, sometimes women need to understand when to step up and handle things on your own.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Wimmenz ain’t going after Steph Curry cuz he attractive,they want him because he’s rich. But I for one would be able tew handle Steph goofy asz.

  • Lady_Elle

    This board typically HATES black women...
    They go after black women HARD!!!

  • Yup, I said it

    Because she says some really silly stuff. Everything she does is for attention. Its like shes jealous of Stephen being the "celebrity." Alot of people in relationships may feel this way and be jealous of their partners success, but it's selfish and you really shouldn't think it moreless be dumb enough to say it in an interview. She needs to grow up.

  • GirlSixx

    To sum it all up Ayesha never got a chance to go through her "Hoe Phase"
    There I said it!!!!

  • NSYDEOUT

    Yes, this is crazy. The men are not coming at her like that because they respect Steph same thing I would think with Lauren London. Men actually respect the nature of marriage more then women out here. Women will do shyt right in your face and they know this is your man.

  • GirlSixx

    Agreed.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    I say the same EXACT THING...smh

  • Yup, I said it

    I don't because as a single person I get so much unwanted attention that I stay in my damn house. People crazy out here. If she wanna wild out then do that but you cant have it both ways.

  • Michelle

    I like her....

  • RespectSelf

    This situation is another reminder of how silly society is. She said it was an insecurity . She was on the Red Table (known for folks being open and candid about their thoughts and feelings)... so she felt comfortable. She didn't say anything crazy. Most folks like to be noticed, complimented, and receive positive attention from others.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ???? Leave Kevin “I dont comb my hair or take care of my skin” Durant alone.

  • Lady_Elle

    I am a married person.
    I enjoy an occasional flirt!
    Woman occasionally flirt with my man!

  • Alextra Ballard

    If I were Steph I would be livid

  • Mz_Opinionated

    LOL! she has definitely opened the flood gates...bless her...maybe men respected her because she is Ayesha Curry. I don't know...I am just going to read everyone else's comments from now on regarding this topic because I truly am not getting it.

  • Yup, I said it

    This woman is silly as all get out. Your happily married but you want men to disrespect you, your husband, your marriage and themselves to "hit" on you just so that you can shoot them down and remind them that your married??

  • Trace da Ace

    I NEVER said she needs to be hoe hopping for validation.....MY OPINION....is that she should get validation that she is beautiful or attractive from the man whom she is supposed to get it from...HER HUSBAND. If she wanted validation from other men...then stay single and I bet her DM's would be jumping......now I know others will not agree...but again this is my opinion....and we are all entitled to one. It's not a right or wrong thing...she feels how she feels...and NOBODY should be chastised because they feel different.

  • Yup, I said it

    It they respect your husband they won't flirt with his wife and alot of men have respect for Steph.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    ? Yeah...He looks waayyyy to old. He is a young man. It doesn't make any sense.

  • T Willis

    Homely... basic... average... ?

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Opinions are like a**holes ??????

  • GirlSixx

    I was on twitter yesterday and a lot of dudes said the reason why she wasn't getting approached was out of respect for Steph (good Christian man) and the fact she's a Christian too.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Wait! I just logged on Instagram. Did anyone see the joke post someone possibly sent to Ayesha?! ? It was a guy...saying she had no hips and her face was mad big and Steph don't get shape ups ?? I'm logging off...I need to do my damn work.

  • Trace da Ace

    lmao..not the fry grease tho....lmao!

  • oshh16

    I like Steph's personality from what can be seen, no attraction what-so-ever. I am 44.
    Also just because I am not attracted doesn't make one unattractive,plenty of dudes folk fawn over who do nothing for me.

  • T Willis

    The only thing I learned from this is: women are very insecure and require outside male validation.

    Sad world we live in.

  • http://www.findyournichewithme.com Low E. 30BELOW

    "...there are times when even he's not enough."
    -
    SHE WASN'T SAYING THIS THO -EYE ROLL-

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Right! Yeah compliments are cool when they are genuine but that confidence has to come from within.

  • oshh16

    A lot of people require outside validation.
    Look at Instagram and the like, not all women, plenty of males there too.

  • RAE23

    The timing of it all makes it so much worse in my opinion. It was painfully obvious that Steph may not have been himself in the game last night. Thankfully, the rest of the team held it down. Celebrity or not we are all human and as a man I am certain that his wife's comments didn't sit well with him and please don't leave out every Tom Dick and Harry's opinion on her comments. AWKWARD!

  • LibgraScales

    She stated that she met Steph at 15 and he was an athlete than, of course, and he was a sensation. Especially in college. I'm sure she thought she could deal with being the wife of an athlete, but I think she was unprepared or didn't really understand the magnitude of being a NBA wife, and that's okay. But, the NBA is on an entirely different level than college and the groupies are too . . .lol, let's be honest. So, that's a lot to deal with. And, in my opinion, you are not human if that ish doesn't get to you after a while. The groupie thing is crazy and they are EVERYWHERE. At his hotel, at practice, on the way to practice, at the airport, etc . . . And she admitted that she sometimes looks at herself and wonder if she's still attractive ENOUGH, while not losing herself in all of the madness. She's had three kids, and I'm sure she's gained weight, etc., all women go through this. Even in normal circumstances. The difference is, most women are not married to an NBA superstar, which only magnifies the situation in HER household. Now, she did say that she and Steph HAVE had the conversation and that he does his best to NOT leave her out. When they are out, he makes sure that he's INTRODUCING her as wife, and out of respect for her, not lingering too long talking to a female fan. These are real issues. Even his mother chimed in on that and said that she's had to assert herself a few times in her marriage. As for the Red Table, I think she was just sharing what HER life is like. How this has made her feel insecure at times and how she has coped with all of it because it's a lot. It's a great conversation and I think even women who are not married to a high profile man can relate to her story. I really don't see what all the backlash is about.

  • Yup, I said it

    Searching for "likes" from any place they can get them

  • Alextra Ballard

    Ayesha is a wife,homemaker,mother of three,and has a career outside of the home,and the only thing that is missin in her life is “the lack of attention from other men.” Are yew fvcken kiddin me?

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    I ONLY care what my husband thinks.When he see me before we go to work looking professional and sexy , he plop back like d@mn. You ain't going to get me sitting at home depending on you. That's why I don't have friends now.

  • Kimberly King

    Girl bye. Her man hasn't been playing well this series against the Rockets and I wonder why. He has an idiot of a wife craving for another man's attention because apparently Steph ain't enough. I wish she would just go away. Her and Cardi both annoy me for the same reasons: They don't know how to shut up.

  • Yoni7

    Because I'm petty, I only dress for 1.5 women. LMAOOO My ex and his current (if'n I were ever to run into them - because he was the jealous narcissistic type and told me one day when we were together....."You can't go out anywhere dressed better than me." Ok bruh, say less. It's been on like Donkey Kong ever since. LOL) and my Grand-Sun's paternal grandmother....who lives in another state. LOL But let me clarify, I mainly dress "to impress"(at times) because I never know who I'm going to run into. And that's the truth. If that makes sense. Could be my future husband or my worst enemy (as I like to think I have none). LOL So either way, they won't say "Maaann, I saw Yoni out one day and she looked fuuuugged up." Then there's the saying "when you look good, you feel good." I like putting on clothes and mixing and matching prints and materials. That's just who I am. My mom (and sister) is a seamstress. Granted, I can't thread a needle, THEY can sew their asses off! So again, half truths. LOL

  • Yup, I said it

    That's what bugs me about this. Her husband can literally have any woman he wants and he chose her and he's faithful to her. But yet that's not enough she wants attention from my man, your man, the construction crew, Tyrone and any body else with a peen, girl bye?

  • Alextra Ballard

    Um dunT wiff this broad*mumbling tew myself* Ayesha can be messy asfvck then wants tew play viktum.

  • A D N

    Boy, the poor bible. Now think! Do you think the social norms of the ancient bible times can be applied to the social norms of today's time? Do you really think all women during the bible time was ok with their men with other women? Think! For example, men of the bible were dresses and women were pants... David was a man after God's own heart, but had 4 wives, (2 of whom were married to other men during the time David was fancied by them). Yes, God is the same, but is Man?

  • Moon Lee

    Let's see, a successful husband. A beautiful complete family. And u still need outside attention. Yep, go sign ur azz up with Brittany Bish! F.O.H. No sympathy 4 the B.S. here!???

  • Moon Lee

    Clearly she wants to be on Love in Hip Lol..Hop ! ????

  • Moon Lee

    Not all, she's being very thirsty!

  • Topic Influencer

    Baby so much crap goes on in those fast food rest. They be having their own little sub-culture going on. And YES they hook up with each other etc. All service industry jobs actually. My mom was a dist. manager for 18 years for Hardee's and then worked as head of housekeeping for Marriott, and my current boo was a manager at Arby's. The stories.

  • Topic Influencer

    Lmfaoooo. Not LHH.

  • A D N

    I think her response meant, if you don't identify with her position or words, then maybe it wasn't for you. Why do we assert ourselves in the opinions or experiences of others, then claim we do not relate? Maybe you don't agree, because it isn't your experience, and no one has the right to devalue another's experience. The majority of women in this world, would never understand AC's life. Majority of us would welcome only a few parts of her life.

  • Moon Lee

    Yes indeed.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Have I ever told you I can't stand you?!!! ????? Every damn day I log on! I could NOT be around you in person. You'd have me acting 12 instead of 40...I can't! I really...Just... Can't! Smh...You said "Say Less" ?????? Ugh..I'm a regular girl. I'm not flashy...just...regular. BUT...Unless I am coming from the gym I try to look presentable. I try and do my best. I'm not a girl that is outside and at the grocery store in a scarf or bonnet. But yo a$$ apparently takes the cake ? you make my day...truly.

  • Anyway

    Mrs. Curry is not as attractive as she think she is. She probably thinks that light skin, long hair and light eyes, should have men falling all over her.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    BINGO!!

  • T Willis

    Yeah but it doesn’t make it right. Kim K & co are attention wh*res, but I don’t see anyone defending them and their “humanity”. Ayesha, like most women and men, have to learn self-worth and self-love. The only person who can validate your worth and value is YOU. No one else can do that. The moment you allow “outsiders” to determine your worth, is the beginning of the end. So many ppl are committing s*icide because they allow outside opinions to determine their value. Right now it’s about flattery, but what happens down the line when DM’s are about how you need to k*ll yourself because you’re worthless? This is why you have to build a fort within yourself that can’t be broken by any opinions - regardless if it’s flattery - and hold onto it tightly.

  • Moon Lee

    Steph better keep that third eye open on Miss Thirsy Gram!??

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    I bet he let her have friends . My husband call my one gangsta mama friend a ninja. She clapped back and said," I'm Miss ninja" back then. She is talking bout nothing, it's about respect .

  • A D N

    Hmmm, good point. That is what she thinks she's missing. I wish she had a girlfriend who would tell her that she's feeling like she wanted to experience other men...not just sexually, but she's probably curious on what she missed out. I wish I could tell her she missed nothing!

  • Yup, I said it

    That's honestly the problem. She came from this little hicktown where she was the shit. Now Steph is surrounded by exoticals and she is about to blow a fuse. She also seems like the type to try to make him jealous by letting him know she's a prize because she has other suitors but now she has none and realizes the prize is Steph and humble self. She ain't nothing to both to Jesus about.

  • GirlSixx

    The grass always look greener until you actually get to that side.

  • Yoni7

    LOL I am truly silly and goofy. 90% of the time I'm joking, especially on here. I'm absolutely "basic" and regular. Not flashy at all. Not a fan of the branded brands. Not a trendy/faddy chick. I'm trying to learn how to do makeup because that is a skill/magic and there is money to be made out in these streets. And I'm with you in the bonnet department. I won't be caught dead in public in one. I'm glad I'm able to make your day. It's truly from the heart. Some get it and some don't. Thanks for getting it. LOL

  • ALLMINE?

    Nooooooo his first wife. ??? 1970s..lol

  • ALLMINE?

    That comment made my day..

  • oshh16

    Didn't say it was right, and I agree with much of what stated. IMO God is the source of true validation, no other person/human being has that power, everything else will fall short.

  • A D N

    But isn't there a saying that says money doesn't make you happy, nor does fame? Why do we view her lifestyle to her supposedly being content? She needs validation, unfortunately she thinks it needs to come from a man because she's living inside of husband's life who gets all this attention from women. She's content with her husband but is curious why she doesn't get the same attention.

  • NSYDEOUT

    Yeah, I'm interested in what she has to say. I do think some of these more seasoned women who've been married and managed a whole family, especially successful, need to speak up. Marriage is NOT this fairytale that people think. It CAN be a wonderful thing but just like anything wonderful thing that you have in life, you had to work to get it to that state and to maintain it is constant work. Ayesha would benefit knowing that his is a stage and this too shall come to pass. She's young, growing and life came at her fast. Takes time to settle into yourself.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    That's true...beauty is in the eye of the beholder...I get it.

  • Gowns. Beautiful Gowns

    and im sitting here still single... can we move on?

  • A D N

    OK!!!! Finally a post that "got it". Comprehension is an area many flunked in school, and life. We cannot have an adequate conversation is we can't "understand" each other.

  • T Willis

    No, I definitely get it and I’m sympathetic to an extent, however, this wasn’t the forum to discuss it. Since it’s mental health month or w/e lol she could have condensed all of those thoughts and emotions by saying “sometime the groupie attention is a bit much & Steph and I consult with a marriage therapist to cope..” or something along those lines. Why take it a step further and admit to wondering if you still got it based on male validation? And furthermore, what does her comments say about what she’s teaching her daughters? That it’s ok to validate your sex appeal based on how many men try to holler? And let’s not even get into to the blatant hypocrisy of her past comments lol. I mean, we can all sympathize to an extent, but the way she laid everything out just comes across as messy and disrespectful to her marriage.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    There is a LOT of money for make up artists...Please tell me you go on youtube! Want some suggestions? I am going to give them to you anyway. LOL! The GlamTwinz do make-up and NitraaB...I am no make-up guru. I do nothing. Just the basics. Eyebrow waxing and cleanse my skin with liquid black soap or some other chemical free cleansers so I am no help...BUT those girls are young and may be helpful ? if you check them out. Let me know...

  • GirlSixx

    That's exactly what she wants. lol She trying have Steph fighting niggas every night to prove his love.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    But...she signed up for "said life". I really have no dog in this fight because I DON'T understand what she means. But I am interested in seeing and hearing the opinions of others on the topic.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    You and your word play ?

  • Anyway

    I'm sure for years when he was chasing her, she made it know that she was the prize.

  • Let them eat cake

    Most women feel like this but she just made the mistake of admitting it publicly. However, I LOVE the fact that she makes NO apologies and stands firm in her opinions unlike others!

  • Guess Who

    Ayesha is not ugly...but she doesn't exude any sex appeal at all. She legit does look like the soccer mom. I still LMAO @ Sandra Rose implying that she has Cushings Syndrome.

  • Let them eat cake

    she's blessed, but eventually things in the relationship do get old no matter who it is. that said, i dont think she should have admitted this publicly, but privately to someone she trusts and her and steph should try and spice it up if they aren't trying already. the passion dies in a relationship. marriage is more than love.

  • LibgraScales

    I understand what you're saying and I get it . .lol But, she's definitely not a "background" chick or the "reserved" chick. She speaks her mind, like it or not. She lays it out there, and feels one way this week or she'll feel another way next week. Folks can either take it or leave it. How Steph feels we don't know, but I'm willing to bet that she's always spoken her mind, which could be one of the things he loves about her. Afterall, he did marry her. I totally get what she was trying to say, but maybe it wasn't expressed correctly, or maybe it was. .lol Ayesha is just being Ayesha and that's okay.

  • Yoni7

    I do go onto YouTube sometimes but not as much as I could/should. I'm no make-up guru either. Again....BASIC! LOL But I will check them out. Thanks.

  • T Willis

    Women who have a healthy sense of self-worth and self-love, are content when they have a faithful, moral, successful, wealthy man that provides them with a career in their field(s) of interest. Also, the number 1 reason for divorce in this country are finances. So, in this instance, she *should* be content, especially when what she’s seeking should be found within. Since it’s mental health month maybe she needs to save these feelings for a trained professional. Why encourage this type of backlash without any tangible resolution to your feelings? I could never pour my emotions out like this in a public forum unless it was providing a resolution. What resolution does this bring? And to do it while her husband is in the championship? This is like the definition of sabotage lol, and comes across as selfish and ingratitude ?????

  • rayne215

    i dont see the big deal in what she said. we all wish to be desired and she probably dont feel as sexy as she used to having just spit out 3 kids,

  • Anyway

    This so typical of women like her with certain "traits". They've been gassed up their whole life and can't handle not being the center of attention.

  • MzKeriBabee

    I swear women are RUTHLESS towards each other... Things for us will NEVER change because we are always against each other...

    Ayesha said what a lot of women feel (including me)… that sometimes we want to be reassured that we still have "it"... that we are still found attractive... Being a woman, wife and mother will wear you THIN... and I feel her... sometimes I feel drained, ugly, fat, and TIRED... I don't want to cheat and am not looking to cheat, just want to know that I am still beautiful and that is all she is saying...

    I don't think she is saying she wants every man to "swoon" over her... not at all... but with her man so in the spotlight, and all these women throwing themselves after him, who wouldn't get in their feelings a little... I am not even going to call it insecure...

  • T Willis

    Lol yeah... but it’s kind of selfish lol and self-absorbed. Ayesha feels... Ayesha says... but Ayesha isn’t in this marriage by herself. Stephs livelihood - their livelihood - is determined by public perception. Ayesha isn’t some 15 y/o girl anymore. She’s a 30 something woman married to one of the biggest NBA players in the country. When your positioning is that high on the echelon you can’t just speak haphazardly and candidly about your sexual needs or desires. It comes across crass and disrespectful. Not to mention, she had a hand in shaping their public persona of morality and chastity. When you represent a brand every move you make has to be strategic and well thought out. Instead of asking Steph to be more inclusive of her around female fans, she should have required therapy. In therapy both her and Steph could have talked openly about what she was feeling and why. A trained therapist could have developed tools for her to help her cope with self-esteem issues and her desire to constantly be validated. Again, this just wasn’t the forum for this and now she’s unleashed something that could destroy her marriage. You just can’t make these type of careless moves and think “oh, but I’m human, you should understand..” ummm no lol

  • Joy King

    Since Ayesha is demanding we speak our truth then let me just say this. Girl you mad that you’re basic. Not even above average. On top of that you have an entitlement issue which makes your attitude suck. Instead of being grateful that you married a man who is rich, famous and puts up with your BS, you’re complaining that no other man is envious of what Steph has. Real sex appeal can’t be bought.

    I now realize those cook books and other things you pretend to like is just a front. You’re really an undercover bird who wants to be a sex symbol but nobody sees you that way, including your husband. We all have gifts, Steph Curry handed you yours by giving you a platform to run your mouth because no one would care if you weren’t his wife. This is why you shouldn’t tell people to speak their truth because it’s usually never what you want to hear.

  • MzKeriBabee

    Spot on... I can't believe how much negativity this discussion is getting... I say this ALL THE TIME, can you imagine a world where women were FOR each other and not AGAINST each other... maybe family values would still exist and adultery/cheating would not be so common...…..

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Chile I got married at 19 and divorced at 38. I’ll be 40 next week and just starting to really live my life and exhale? my “everything” revolved around my ex and my kids

  • Yoni7

    +1

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Women get tired of the same thing year after year and trust me men get tired after a few months

  • MzKeriBabee

    I swear I can't get over all the HATE from women to women... WOW...

  • T Willis

    ?

  • MzKeriBabee

    WOW - such hate... Exactly what makes a woman BASIC??????????

  • Let them eat cake

    yall need to stop this "leaving" talk. We americans throw in the towel way too easily.

  • onelove

    I'm just glad i don't have that problem..men look at her but she just don't pay attention...

  • onelove

    YOU SAID THAT TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU GO JOY!!!!!! DROP THE MIC!! IN HER FRIED CHICKEN!!

  • Guess Who

    Well damn!

  • Fire & Ice

    I was just thinking this last night. Wasn't she on some talk show talking about women, dressing provocative for male attention or something like that???

  • JazzyBossyJen

    What’s ruthless is how mad selfish it was to BLAST your husband on a platform of that magnitude...Not to mention it’s a lifestyle she signed up for..Yeah I get it but this man in the middle of playoffs and she chooses to make him appear as the awful, none attentive and doting partner to the masses..IJS All that she has going on for herself from makeup commercials, cooking shows, etc..and she doesn’t get any type of flattery..Nah I’m not buying it, she’s definitely trying to one up him seeking the wrong attention by any means necessary..

  • LibgraScales

    She might be seeing a therapist though. She stated that she's on medication for anxiety, which could stem from all of this. I know she said that it was prescribed medication. At any rate, she has everyone talking and that could be a good thing. I understand what you saying about every move being strategic, but maybe this is her way of being "rebellious" against that, which is something that she also talked about. Not being constrained. Being free to say and think what you feel. I don't think this will destroy her marriage, at least I hope not. Again, I think Steph appreciates her honesty good or bad. Whether she should have aired that is up for debate, but she did say that they had the conversation, so there you go. And at the end of the day, I'm pulling for Steph and crew to win the whole damn thing again. But, I must say that KD is my favorite. I hope he gets another ring . . .lol

  • Lady_Elle

    You are right! :-)

  • Karen Brady

    This was the topic on every station driving home yesterday.

  • Let them eat cake

    she's making newlywed mistakes.

  • Fire & Ice

    Ayesha wants to be looked at as a bad bish, like those ig thots ????

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    She don't care about respect . She don't have the need to be an angel. Just a angel in disguise .

  • What???

    For public humiliation. Yes.

  • MzKeriBabee

    What is she blasting?????? How she was feeling had NOTHING to do with her man or her marriage... I don't think she is making him out to be an non doting partner, but maybe after 3 kids and being a wife and mother she is not feeling like she still has "it"... I would think that most women have felt that at some point in their lives... she has a new baby, and Postpartum is REAL....

  • JazzyBossyJen

    ..And a hypocrite one minute it’s all about class and how soooo beautiful she has said Steph always makes her feel blah.. blah..blah..Then turn around and pull that tasteless tacky stunt..Pssh who this yella Carnary think she fooling?! ? smhlol

  • speakinmymind

    @LibgraScales
    Your posts need to be posted on every blog, magazine and journalistic entity's website that had a write-up about her comments.

    I didn't realize there were so many millions of people in this world who have such low-level or nonexistent comprehension slills.

  • speakinmymind

    Yes, they do and it is sad, frustrating, exhausting...

  • Carrington

    I agree with Ayesha and I think her decision to air out her insecurity is rooted in the fact that she HAS her man and CAN say, "Damn... am I ugly? My husband has all these tramps throwing themselves at him... all my basketball wife homegirls have men liking and fawning all over their pictures on instagram and everybody looks at ME like a Sunday school teacher... my friends still got it, my husband still got it - damn it, what's wrong with me?" - I applaud you Ayesha. I wish I could speak my insecurity out loud.

  • Carrington

    She is surrounded by basketball wives and girlfriends who could easily be on the cover of any magazine for hot chicks. And then she walks into the room looking like she's there to help read scripture to them after they leave the club. I don't care who you are, you're going to begin to feel some kinda way if your friends are models, your husband can get it anywhere he goes and you get paid in dust. Aint' NOTHING wrong with wanting to feel sexy TOO.

  • speakinmymind

    Come all the way through C!!????????

  • JazzyBossyJen

    Sorry but that is NOT what was said...She clearly said why don’t I get any MALE attention, so it has everything to do with respecting your partner and marriage..Don’t exploit yourself or hubby on a show bcuz Jada is no marriage counselor nor therapist..She has mad money to get the real help needed for all that..

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    Thank you , I don't understand this lust for attention. I think she has gotten true love mix with attention . What she is saying to me is that steph is not her soul-mate.

  • Let them eat cake

    THANK you. i am so tired of people saying "the man is the one married." its an indirect way of giving the other woman a pass! BOTH are in the wrong and the women should be scolded for approaching married men!

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    All the women agreeing with her let they man say the same thing and see how supportive they are then

  • Junkanoo

    Ok that sums it all up pageant queens would for sure be addicted to attention

  • T Willis

    Lol yeah I hope you’re right

  • Ayeola George

    Context is everything ... yes she did say Male attention. But based on what she said preceding that I don't think her husband was included. I copied this from up top: "yeah, there are all these women, like, throwing themselves (at Steph), but me, like the past 10 years, I don't have any of that. I have zero - this sounds weird - but, like, male attention, and...

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    You know how many times my husband had to shake my goofy as to show me real love. Patience is a virtue and communication .

  • Neva RuthLess

    Damn not an UNDERCOVER ?

  • Guess Who

    Sounds like a personal problem she is experiencing, but I get it. We all want to feel pretty and desired by men. BUT!

    Some folks.....LIKE HER do not exude ANY natural sex appeal. If she wants to feel sexy, she'll have to buy it. She has plenty of money. I say go for it. Harping and boo-hooing about it won't garner anything from the masses except troll comments and clowning.

    There are women out there that can relate to how she's feeling but they don't have ANY of the resources SHE HAS to "upgrade" with high quality and safe methods.

    She better go visit Dr. Debrow and Dr. Nassif and make that shit happen.

    I wish her luck...

  • Tell the truth

    I personally think she is just jealous of all the attention her husband gets and she is looked at as the humble , respectful wife who is just that Steph curry wife . She feels unwanted of the lack of attention she does not receive by being a high profile basketball wife , so she feels the attention should be equal between the both of them . But I think she is just attractive not pretty either or sexy just attractive, I thought she was comfortable putting on the good wifey role to the world and now she is tired of being mrs. humble pie she wants sexy wife title now lol .

  • Look@m3

    Yawl doing too much! What she saying is true...I saw nothing wrong. But I guess yawl need something to talk about because there is nothing else popping. I'm out.

  • Look@m3

    I agree too but I don't think she was insecure about anything she said. I just think she was stating facts.

  • Look@m3

    Right like there really is nothing to talk about ....I guess this may throw her husband off in the championship tho!

  • Carrington

    A desire to be found attractive is validation. Validation can be read as insecurity. It's all the same thing, to me. Insecurity isn't a bad thing.We all have it. We're just not all willing to admit it.

  • Look@m3

    Yeah I just see the 2 differently that is all. Some people may need it to overcome their insecurities but I dont think they are the same thing.

  • 88

    She's a narcissist.

  • Desi

    I look good natural or transformed, and I will STILL blow up my negros spot in the middle of the Wal-Mart if I catch his eye wandering. I think it's more of a respect thing if anything. But some women are just naturally insecure.

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    Lol.Well, they got my girl Solange caught out there and I don't think she may appreciate it. We come on here for the laughs . The Internet is like an open wound for many that didn't quite heal. You can't help or explain sense with knowledge to some people.Obviously , money, fame as being a celebrity is not always an answer.

  • Anonymouse

    Not today, Satan. Not today.

  • Look@m3

    What happen with Solange?

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    Insecurity creates fear, fear creates hatred. Racism, colorism etc... needs to be healed.

  • jwoo250

    Ding ding ding that is the correct answer.

  • BythegraceofGodIcanexplain

    My girl just having fun dancing with a man but they're commenting he doesn't look like her older husband ... They tried.

  • MzKeriBabee

    Agree to disagree... I can appreciate what she is saying and her honesty.

  • MzKeriBabee

    Well atleast she is NOT posting half naked pics of herself all over IG or the internet... the women that do, are probably the women on here calling her BASIC and THIRSTY... Those women doing the MOST for "likes"...

  • MzKeriBabee

    Society has true love mixed with attention... just go to IG and see what women are posting for "likes"... just saying...

  • Look@m3

    Smh ...celebrities just cant live!

  • Yup, I said it

    If your single the men don't hesitate to let you know you still got it. Have you seen some of the menopausal hookers on every red district street corner in America? You cant tell them they ain't bad. Men still lining up and paying for it too. If your married then you are spoke, for and off the market. Men don't waste their time unless they thinks ur a cheating hoe.

  • Topic Influencer

    YES!

  • Malai

    ????

  • Applebootay

    Then that makes two of us...at least I have company...

  • Applebootay

    I have a pie face too and giggle every time you said it...then again...I'm a confident woman soooooooooooooooo

  • Applebootay

    and that's what happened to my friend. She married at 19 and BOTH OF THEM regret that shat like a mug...he's , however, getting his whole hoe out...while she sit at home and complain

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Wait wait so now it’s Hashtag mental health issues and that’s the reasoning for her words and feelings.

    She slapped mental health to her words for empathy ? I promise you can’t make this shit up.

    If steph steps out and cheats , I guess he could use the same hashtag , but I digress.

  • missmiami305

    Thank you!!!! Someone with a lil common sense. Ayesha is going through something many can relate to. It comes with age, motherhood and marriage. You start to wonder if ya still got it ?????.

  • Yup, I said it

    Amen, its being greedy. Either you want to be single and dating or married and committed. You can have it both ways. Only a woman's logic would say they want to be married and in a committed relationship but they want other men to ask them out too. Where they do that at?

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Insecurity isn’t a bad thing ? In what fucking world is it a good thing ? Stop it , insecurities in no shape or form is ever ok or applauded.

    What could be applauded is ones recognizing of those insecurities and the source of the issues , which is combated with therapy and help , but this celebratory bullshit rhetoric of her coping with it by wanting validation from men outside of her marriage is sick and disgusting. As men sliding in her DM would be the recipe for her insecurities.

  • missmiami305

    All facts
    ??????

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Yep the very same women that she turns her nose up at

  • Yup, I said it

    Its called the "7 year itch" where your bored with marriage. But you don't go around telling people that your having the 7 yr itch.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Damnn, don’t shoot the messenger.

  • Fire & Ice

    Yup ?

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Maybe the fact that she called out women in the past that dressed a certain way for attention, there are old tweets of her doing so , but then turning around and being jealous and insecure of not getting the very same attention from men towards the very women she dissed .

    That not only makes her a judge mental , but also a hypocrite and very basic and shallow herself. I’m sure Macy women would kill to be in her position and yet she’s here wanting validation from men only to turn them down . And oh wait , justifies her screwed up behavior to # Hashtag mental health illness . GTFOH

  • missmiami305

    ????

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Plot twist , lowkey she wants to be those women for a day.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Yep and blaming mental health for it is a clear indication of it .

  • Honeylove123

    I think that’s what Ayesha doesn’t understand. She presents a “wholesome” image so men are typically not going to approach you. But if she was presenting herself as “avaliable” and “open for business” lol, then men would “try” her. I feel bad for her..when keepin’ it real goes horribly wrong!

  • 11pink123

    Ayesha had lost her mind. She is probably one of the, if not The most gorgeous woman on TV and who ain’t been ran through. And she worried about some thots and some simple azz niggaz. Girl.....?????

  • Yup, I said it

    You haven't never lied. They want a man that is rich, handsome and successful and has eyes only for you. Then they get salty because other women want their man. HE'S RICH, HANSOSME AND SUCCESSFUL, of course other women are gonna want your man. You could be married to the Hunchback of Notre Dame and women will want him because he's famous.

  • missmiami305

    Ikr!

  • Yup, I said it

    Men know if another man married a woman and gave her his name its serious. In the males world wife snatching is an offense punishable by death.

  • LibgraScales

    Thank you speakinmymind. Again, I don't see what all the hoopla is about. And reading through the comments, some are just coming to hate, which is the usual thing folks do. It's pretty sad that a woman can't express herself HER WAY HONESTLY without folks ready to tear her apart. I would ask, if they were sitting at that same table with her, would they have said anything? I highly doubt it.

  • JazzyBossyJen

    This^^^...Comprehension is key! Thks

  • Fire & Ice

    I knew it was something like that about two or three years ago.

  • Bdot

    FOH, Ayesha!

  • Bdot

    Exactly. FOH!

  • Evillene

    In fairness to her, if my husband was bombarded by female attention 24/7 in front of my face and behind my back -- as is true for most athletes -- I would be wrecked by anxiety and insecurity. We're all just human and require validation now and then. Many of you know you would not want to be in her shoes for that reason.

  • JennyJazzhands

    I'm single and I think I'm older than her (34) and I dislike that type of attention. Yes, it's nice to get a compliment but not necessary to my self-esteem.
    Also, I find it hard to believe that no one other than steph has told her that she's pretty. Unless she never leaves the house or dresses weird, I can't see it.
    I think she'll get the validation she's seeking by striking out and going hard for her career/passion in life. It would give people outside of steph's circle a chance to get to know her and would give her worth outside of the home. She's never going to get the attention he gets in his world. Get your own world.

  • Coco17

    Mann she look aight. But she need to stop trippen. Step C. Ok too. Just ok. Take more than lightskin and eyes to make someone attractive. Sometimes you can be attractive but your personality suck, or your energy. Ijs

  • Coco17

    I agree

  • Mona Lisa

    I get where Ayesha is going. She wants to feel secure enough that if Stephan was ever to ever bounce on her with one of the groupies that she has options too. While she may not want to entertain this attention while married, I think she needs this to feed her self esteem considering that women are coming at her husband left and right. I have been married 16 years, and have dealt with infidelity at a point in my marriage. We worked through it, but during the time it wasn’t a good feeling knowing that this other woman wanted my husband while I had nobody to desire me like this other chick desired my husband. Now I keep connections in my back pocket because there won’t be no second time.

  • Queen B

    I understand how she feels! Im in a committed relationship and do not cheat on my man but i do enjoy compliments from other men every so often ? We all do!!

  • NSYDEOUT

    Then I'm not sure what kind of women u date. What she said is what some womem & MEN think but she said it out loud. She did not say she wants someone to take her out, just someone to perhaps notice her
    Yall act like she said she wants to ride a dude or something. She did not say she wants to leave her marriage or that Steph is a bad husband.
    Calm down, my goodness. She's not a bad woman, wife, mother, human being just because she said this.

  • NSYDEOUT

    These women are hateful, our women. I just don't get it. You can try to be the kindest person and women will vilify you over stuff u said or did 30 years ago, as if one can't grow up and change. This is why really don't do people. We are all flawed and not one of us got our shyt 100% together. We are still learning and will make mistakes. She's just a woman people love to hate.

  • NSYDEOUT

    Yeah, i can understand that the timing was bad and perhaps should have kept it to herself but, we are allowed to have a moment of truth; clarity. I guess she just wanted to just, "talk and open up".

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  • Maxx

    I don't care who you are or what your relationship status is, it feels DAMN GOOD when someone flirts with you, or gives 'the eye', or tries to holla. I am a 41 year old AA who is a widow, but now in a 6 year relationship with a 44 year old, and I was just telling my boo that a young chocolate fine brother at work was flirting & giving me 'the eye' and honey I was tickled & very happy about it! My man & I tell each other allllll the time when we get hit on..just makes us feel good like we still got it & then we just start flirting with each other which umm leads tooo....some yum yum! lol...Hey she was just being human folks.

  • chris

    She aint think steph was gonna be the big nba star he is. She didn't believe in you bruh.

  • Bree

    I use to like Ayesha. I only like compliments from my husband. My husband is an old soul and nobody ignites my fire like him. My husband and I are very "popular" in the looks dept. and people have told me that other men have tried to get my attention, but I pay them no mind. Am I suppose to? I'm happily secured for the rest of my life. My husband is a more handsome version of Chris Brown/Mike Ealy with a little more meat on his body and nicer teeth. Women drop their undies at the sight of him. I'm thankful that he doesn't go for any of that. I don't care that they scream when he comes through, I scream too! Ayesha, I'm disappointed in you.

  • Bree

    Thank you!

  • chris

    I wish all women were as secure and level headed as you.

  • luVn_liFe…

    THIS!!! I mean the lil kid coming outta Davidson!?? you are right

  • Bree

    I don't see why she would want them. Them whores ain't real, neither are their bodies. She's crazy to say she wants the attention. Men probably look at her, but there are men who respect her and her husband

  • chris

    She called out thottery and the hit dogs hollerd.. ????

    People only like loud mouths when they spreading whore agendas and ratchetness ala cardi

  • Bree

    I don't think Ayesha spoke for many women. She spoke for herself. I don't care for compliments at all, although both myself and my husband receive them often. I like when my husband stares at me and says that's all me right there, and then compliments me. When he looks at me, I go insane. And that's never a feel good just for the moment, it stays with me everyday. One word from the right one sets you straight for life. Good God Almighty!

  • Fire & Ice

    Those chicks would love to be Ayesha in a heartbeat.

  • skinsforlife

    Some of you are too vicious!!! I'm a guy, I think she's surely fine enough, and I'm certain she doesn't get the 'attention' she's talking about because both she and Steph are respected as good Christian people. You may not know it, but a lot of young'uns don't approach reputed 'good' people because their approach would be ratchet'd and they don't know how to do it any other, decent way, so they choose to keep stepping. I don't look at her differently now for wondering if she's seen as more than just Steph's wife. Actually, I admire her for speaking on it. Y'all bashing this woman mercilessly. And wrongfully. Speaks to me of just how limited some of y'all must be!!!

  • Dahl

    She seems quite needy...

  • chris

    Gotta love social media getting people to overshare things usually reserved for close friends /family. We not your friend Ayesha. You just giving all the guys on the court trash talk material. Look at Carmelo after the honey nut cheerios comments by Garnett. He was never the same again.

    She sounds like this is a competition. Its not. You would be a nobody witout Steph. She the only big nba wife constantly in the news. Savannah James not out here embarrassing her husband and neither should you..

  • Bree

    Exactly. I'm sick of Jada and her Red Table Talk. I would never go see Jada for anything, she doesn't even have respect for her own husband.

  • A D N

    I did not gather that perspective from her comment. I listen to the interview or conversation and it didn't flow in the sense of lacking or worth. It was more of curiosity of why. That's all.

  • Bree

    Probably, but not for the right reasons. If you're blessed to have a faithful, God fearing husband, there is not much more you could ask for. Unless, you are unhappy in your marriage or your husband isn't giving you attention. My husband is very aggressive and he compliments me often. So, I don't have that desire for attention. It makes me uncomfortable, even when I was single, I didn't care for it

  • A D N

    I wish others like your self acknowledge a lack of understanding a topic instead of offering an opinion without total information. Thanks!

  • Bree

    That's because Savannah knows her place. I doubt LeBron would be happy with his wife's public exploits. I like Steph, but he needs to let Ayesha know what time it is. Theres nothing wrong with discretion

  • A D N

    Actually many times the grass is greener. I wish many times I crossed over sooner just to discover just how green instead of looking from afar.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Wait , so basically you’re equating hey situation to yours when there has been no evidence or proof of infidelity amongst them ? Stop it , sorry that your husband cheating on you but don’t equate hers to yours , she has insecurities and inner identity issues that she needs to resolve.

    Secondly, about you keeping back up numbers in reserve due infidelity is ridiculous, because it’s almost as if you’re putting that negative cloud of energy over your marriage. Cheating happens and you either work through it or determine that it’s not worth going forth, playing the reserve “ I got backup numbers “ is ridiculous, because it’s not fair to the backup people you’re stringing along and it’s not fair to your current marriage because you don’t have full belief in the relationship, which is a recipe for disaster

  • EyeEmJai

    So...being insecure about it is permissible? LOL.

    No one is limited; she seems to be. Everything you said is logical. How come she didn't come up with that INSTEAD of saying she feels unattractive and less desirable?

  • chris

    She needs to learn her place as well. No man wants their wife embarrassing the relationship like that.

  • EyeEmJai

    Exactly! It is evident she envies his attention, his fame, his spotlight. She didn't think he would ever overshadow her...not the meek, skinny, church boy Steph. It is apparent she had been in conflict and competition with the elevation of it for TEN YEARS!!! The anxiety and surprise from it all has worn her down, which is why she had no issues being impulsive and speaking about it publicly. She had had enough and cracked.

  • EyeEmJai

    *drops mic*

  • Bree

    My husband is a man of great power, prestige, travels alot, and is constantly interacting with women. Women all over drop it like it is hot when he arrives. But he hates the attention and gets them together real quick. He makes it known that he is good. Sometimes, I am embarassed because he is not so nice when women approach him. And these chicks are gorgeous, and I am also. I'm not insecure. I don't need my husband to validate me. Even when I'm not around him, he still sets the record straight. We are very secure in our relationship. And my husband made it known to me that he's never dealt with a woman that wasn't jealous of another woman.

  • EyeEmJai

    "Yes, it's nice to get a compliment but not necessary to my self-esteem." THIS! ??????

    Some people are attacking others about not concurring with her statement about receiving compliments from other men. That's not the issue. The issue is she made it CLEAR she NEEDS validation from other men to fulfill her self-security and self-esteem. That's problematic as a muva and anyone who cannot see that is lost, too.

  • Bree

    So true. My husband is not a fan of certain things and I watch how he responds to things that I do. But he respects me as his wife and he allows me to be me. I know how to carry myself and he appreciates that

  • chris

    That's a beautiful thing ?

  • EyeEmJai

    ...and she used the word "insecure". I am not sure which parts Look listened to, but she began that first sentence with, "It makes me a little insecure..." not, "I'm jist stating facts." Lbvs

  • EyeEmJai

    All of this!

  • Mona Lisa

    Thanks for your opinion Oprah. But What works for me, may not work for others. For the record I am not stringing anyone along, these are purely old friends that I keep in contact with occasionally over the phone nothing more or less.

  • Bree

    Oh Wow! That only happens when my husband talks about Whitney Houston, he loves her!! Attention from other women makes him uncomfortable. He is the last man, any woman would want to publicly or privately hit on. I love him so much for his sincerity in our relationship. Not every person seeks attention, some of us are happily satisfied. To God be the glory!

  • Bree

    She's a well known married woman and there are men who respect that. Steph gets attention because these whores come a dime a doesn't and they have no respect for the sanctity of marriage.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Yeah Old friends that in the event if your husband cheats again , then they instantly go from old friends to “ hey big head “ what’s good, let’s go on a date , I’m back on the market friends .

    Sureeeee! SMH

  • Malificent

    Amen!

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    That’s because lowkey she wants to be Kim K for a day or two lol .

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Cry me a ducking river , you know who deserves empathy? Lala Anthony has to deal with a whole side baby and on top of that her husband is unemployed and struggling to find a NBA job. Is she on tv crying and fucking sobbing ? No she is juggling her marriage along with her acting career, all of which she obtained on her own without the assistance of her husband . She is handling it in strides . Ayesha is acting like an entitled ungrateful narcissistic brat of a woman. Then to add insult to injury , she fucking writes it off as # Mental health issues for likes and empathy, FOH.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Nothing wrong with wanting to be desired , the problem is coming home sobbing and crying when no one chose to hit on you or ask for your number . That’s cue to get her ass in the gym , lose weight , do squats , get plastic surgery, switch up her homebody wardrobe , I mean do anything other than crying about it in public . It’s a fucking insult and middle finger to her marriage .

  • Maxx

    We are happily satisfied that is why we are so confident in sharing our stories cuzz we know we only want each other. I have never (knock on wood) had a problem with my man nor he as far as a wandering eye. We only have eyes frfr for each other but it's still nice to know we are attractive to others. To each it's own.

  • Bree

    Exactly. My husband isn't an NBA player but we have a great lifestyle. And as his wife, I am a secure woman and my husband is so turned on by that. My husband carries a certain status but I don't care about his title. I'm in love with the man behind the money. Because he ignites my fire just by being present. I made a vow to him to stand by his side, while still doing what I do best. And he appreciates that. My husband has women in his face all the time, and at first he was surprised that I didn't care. Told me, it turns him on that I am not jealous. I told him that he knows where home is and if he ever forgets that, the locks will be changed.

  • Bree

    She's too young and immature to be a wife. And I'm sure she is a great mother. I was raised by seasoned women in the church and in my family. I had time to be single, enjoy life, make mistakes, and get myself together before meeting the love of my life. Every girl deserves to go through those phases. I'm glad my husband and I met when we did. He was looking for a wife and I was in position to be found. Our relationship works because we both had time to figure out what we want and what works for us. We vowed to make this last forever. Everyday, we fall in love with each other all over again, and no it's not a fairytale. This is 3 years in, no wedding or honeymoon phase. We not only love each other but we like each other.

  • Bree

    Preach honey! Women hit on my husband everyday and I mean everyday. He is impressed that I haven't snatched one of these witches bald. I'm like dude you can do what you want, you will just have to do it without me. No games played over here. When you know what you have at home, you don't run the streets. These whores come a dime a dozen. And I mean a dozen!

  • Bree

    My husband and I use to be friends on social media. I unfollowed his FB, but did not unfriend him. Never checked his page, rarely commented on his post, and only liked posts he tagged me in. This pissed him off. OMG! I was like are you serious? Didn't know he was use to women doing that before we met. I'm not doing all that crap. What's understood will never need an explanation and to who anyway? Checking his phone is a no, no for me. Cause love knows one thing about me, I'm not putting up with that mess! If Becky call, I better not find out because it will be some furniture MOVING round here! And I mean that in the best way possible. Cause me and mine won't be around.

  • Bree

    Honey, when you're married to a King, you don't feel that way. Ayesha is young. She needs time away from Steph to find herself. I'm surprised none of the NBA wives/girlfriends have taken her under their wing.

  • Bree

    It's been 3 years over here, we're still rolling. The beginning was the toughest hurdle but we're set for life. My husband is very outspoken and he hates attention from other women.

  • Bree

    They don't need to divorce. She needs time to herself.

  • chan chan

    They will be definitely separating. She caused unnecessary trouble in her home.

  • Bree

    Thanks. God is to be glorified.

  • Bree

    I don't agree that Lala deserves empathy. These basketball "wives" and I use that term loosely know what their husbands do behind closed doors, they just don't want it made public. Lala isn't Carmelo's soulmate, she's his baby mama. He needs a woman with more substance. Carmelo made the wrong career moves listening to Lala. He could have been known as one of the greatest.

  • Bree

    God is the same. His word is infallible. Men are fickle. I don't believe in polygamy, and I don't believe all of the women in the bible were okay with their husbands sleeping with other women. They may have adjusted but in today's society, I'm not putting up with another woman. Never have, never will.

  • Bree

    Separation doesn't always lead to divorce. She needs to find out who she is in her marriage. And she needs to stop using her platform to embarrass her husband. They make a "cute" couple which is not always a good thing. My husband and i are a cute couple but we have been called to stand next to each other. Ayesha is a great woman, she needs to know her place as a wife.

  • Bree

    Amen. No one should go to Jada for help. She has created her own lane and it is weird. Her platform is disrespectful to me. She has an amazing husband who built his own legacy. He's a King and a legend. It is sad to say that it doesn't means much to her.

  • Mona Lisa

    You got it!! This is exactly how this would work.

  • Guess Who

    THANK YOU

  • Guess Who

    That is wonderful, straight up.

    Doesn't mean you are not a person with your own mind but you are MINDFUL of things to do and not to do. I am sure he does the same thing. Sometimes some women feel being a "strong" woman means to be a HEARD BEFORE SEEN, MAKING A SCENE, cussing, eye rolling nag. NO man wants that....Just like we don't want no falling down drunk, stupid man acting an ass, dressed like a clown when we're out.

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    But u are married why are u worried about what other men think? Just like I said before if a man was married and wished other women would notice him more he would be lynched! But just because a woman says it she expressing her feelings and just wants to feel sexy! Gtfoh!!!!

  • chan chan

    I agree

  • skinsforlife

    OK, EyeEmJai, valid point. Perhaps she could /should have been more tactful. Or more conscious even, of how hubby might feel. So yes, 'limited' might apply. No argument there. We do have to allow, though, that perhaps this woman actually does question her attractiveness and desirability. We're not all oozing with confidence, no matter our station in life. I am Steph's biggest fan, so I'm not necessarily defending her, I'm simply noting that sometimes we can be overly harsh/critical of folks without valid reasons or knowing the whole story. When all's said and done, my stance is that if Steph's OK with it, then I'm good, and we all should be.

  • PG King

    She's looking for some new strange.

  • KLB

    ?????

  • NSYDEOUT

    I understand your perception of this. I truly think it came out wrong. If a man said it........I think the opposite would happen. If a man said he no longer felt desirable and that he just lost himself.....women would either do 3 things: empathize and build him up because the wife seems to not be doing so, ignore him because they think he's being funny, or light him up. I think it came out the wrong way with Ayesha.