Open Post: Carmelo, La La Anthony’s Relationship ‘Strained’

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La La and Carmelo Anthony’s relationship has been “strained” ever since he was caught sunbathing with a voluptuous mystery woman on a yacht off the coast off France, while La La celebrated her 40th birthday in NYC on Tuesday.

“Things between La La and Carmelo are strained,” a source exclusively tells Us Weekly. “It has been difficult for La La to move past the infidelities, the child out of wedlock … Those actions rocked La La to her core.”

Another very well-connected source tells Sandrarose.com that Carmelo, 35, went out of town “on business,” and it was understood that La La would be on the West Coast filming episodes for the Beverly Hills, 90210 reboot, BH90210, where she plays the wife of original Beverly Hills, 90210 co-star Brian Austin Green.

Since La La was busy filming on the West Coast, Carmelo jetted to France where he was caught luxuriating with his busty friend on a yacht. He didn’t skip her birthday party in NYC because no party was planned.

On Tuesday, La La flew home to New York, where Kim Kardashian threw an intimate ice cream birthday party for her.

By the next day, the paparazzi photos were everywhere.

We still don’t know the identity of Carmelo’s vacation beauty, but this blog thinks they know who she is.
 

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  • Seldomseen

    When a boyfriend cheated on me, he told me that I wasn’t with him enough. He is still a cheater to this day. It is what it is.

  • Melissa Rice

    He already did the worst he could do and had a baby on her, is she really suprised he’s still cheating?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Hey guys what’s that log in to read thing about is it the same log in as our Disqus?

  • 100milesperhour

    La La & Larsa…2 wives estranged from their husbands running behind Kim to get on their h0 stroll. Kim is a Babylonian whure but I digress. La La’s not ready to give up the b-ball wife title. Melo would move on too easily.

  • Bree

    I wish Lala much success in life. We share the same sign. Never really been into the sign thing, but okay. She looks pretty good for forty. Hopefully, if she decides to move on she has the right people in her corner.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    What’s this log in thing for? What account is that to?

  • JesusSidePEACE

    Some men just don’t change.

  • Coy little wink
  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    It has been difficult for La La to move past the infidelities, the child out of wedlock…… and she still went back soooo…..

  • Peppermint Patty

    They should just co-parent at this point. What kind of philandering husband doesn’t spend a milestone birthday with his forgiving public persona of a wife???! The optics on this screams Wendy Williams and kev less the sober living and fainting &gossiping on tv

  • interestingconcept1

    I was wondering the same thing…

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I tried using my Disqus log in but didn’t work

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Wayment… log in to view this post https://media3.giphy.com/media/7dPhaWI5mxmAU/giphy.gif

  • Ms..N

    Cheaters always try the blame the person they cheated on as if it was their fault! When in actuality its a character flaw in which they just want new new by any means necessary and could careless about breaking up home!! LOL https://media3.giphy.com/media/3oGRFgnYup0LlUvdcY/giphy.gif

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Sandra you kicking us newbies out and trying to lure the old crew back?

  • Bree

    Carmelo moved on over two years ago when he got with Mia. I think he married Lala out of obligation. I tell women all the time, you can’t force a man to marry you, baby or not. My auntie forced a man to marry her, they’ve been married for ten years, and she has been miserable as hell. They don’t even sleep together. She is finally considering a divorce.

  • cleopatra04

    The relationship must have already been strained or they would have been together on her birthday.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    @sandrarose what’s this log in thing I been around for a long time I don’t know about no log in now granted I did as of a few years ago started commenting and signed up to do so but I been reading this blog for yeaaaaaarrrrrsss and never seen no log in stuff is this something different from Disqus Sandra rose I need answers and access please and thank you

  • Stan4NoOne

    He has a type… short torsos and fat asses.

  • Shenanigans1

    Right. What husband who’s actively trying to get back in his wife’s good graces misses the opportunity to be with her for her birthday? Also what kind of husband would even be near a woman dressed like that if he was trying to get back in? The baby proved he didn’t care and these photos double confirmed how he really feels about her.

  • what?why

    Strained? He has shown how he feels over and over and over … their poor child.

  • Victor Nathan

    who really cares???? is she a saint. if they were good, why didn’t she fly with him and celebrate the birthday there.

  • che’lint

    Open post, right? … Why do people wish happy birthday to dead people? What is the thought behind that?

  • Coy little wink

    Cheaters have low self esteem and lack self discipline

  • Shenanigans1

    A YouTube I follow put it simply. People love to purposely get themselves upset. I’ll go further and say that it’s also to gain sympathy. I’ve never been one to do that or to make a pilgrimage to my family’s plot, buy flowers and sit and cry over someone once a year. When I miss a family member that’s passed , I talk to them in my head and move on about my day. I’m with you.

  • Coy little wink

    Ignore that hun…i scrolled right on past it

  • Alextra Ballard

    Indeed…a man who would rather spend time with his Mistress than his wife on her birthday tells me their marriage probably been rocky for a minit.

  • Allihave2say

    February marked 6 years since my father passed. He’s buried at the local VA cemetery. A few months ago I told my hubby I had the urge to call and talk to my dad, but then I remember that he was home for me to call. I miss him from time to time. He was annoying af. but I still wanted to make that call.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Men test you to see if youre all mouth or not. Fail once and youre fawked. The first time he cheated she shoulda been out and co parented if only for about a year just to show this ninja she means business but instead she let it slide until he knocked a heaux up and then she fake left but bish by that time he didnt give a fawk and still dont. So u got 2 choices leave him or let him cheat in peace.

  • Alextra Ballard

    I wonder is her relationship “strained” enuff that she’ll finally divorce his line,cheating asz?

  • Allihave2say

    Her b’day celebration looked boring, running around with Kim and Jason Chebum eating ice cream. Grown as people!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    10 years ago you had to sign up to be a rosebud and not with no gmail address either i used to lurk my butt off and was so happy when she let us all in lmao

  • KcoolMuziq

    Carmello is the one that pursued Lala.

  • Allihave2say

    I’m a lover of jazz and romantic songs. I found this Grammy winner on Youtube Gregory Porter featuring sexy chocolate ass Kem. Open post means I can share with the roses. Drop a rose for the brothers in the reply if you like it. This deep masculine velvet smooth voice with Kem unique groove, mmmm…
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTMKjJpB7Uc

  • Alextra Ballard

    I saw some photographs where the bidch was waving for the camera. I wonder did this wanna be Model tip off the Paps.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Carmelo did damage control with a QUICKNESS….

  • Ni Ni

    Woo hoo, i finally figured out my old login. It had my old picture still up….nostalgia! Sandra, i thought you was gone spill that tea you been holding onto for ten years.

  • Ni Ni

    and failed

  • Shenanigans1

    And watch…if lala leaves for real, this chick is gonna be apart of the kkk krew—replacing Lala.

  • Shenanigans1

    She probably still hurt after drinking behind theeee stallion

  • https://nylapoprush.com/twitch twitch.tv/NylaPop

    The fact that I can’t remember my login is really triggering me

  • luVn_liFe…

    Kimmode looks alienish up there.. Sandrita! you cant pour that old piping tea you have???

  • luVn_liFe…

    miserably!! “ya’ll got me out here looking crazy” negro Puhleeze

  • Coco17

    ????

  • Allihave2say

    We saw that Khloe gave Kim a toy so we know Kanye isn’t hitting that. LaLa is in a dress that we just saw Kylie & Jordyn age 21 in. Now I’m not saying at 40 you can’t be killer. I’m fire at 49 but, there’s a manner to my sexiness and appeal for my age and profession. Kim is totally street trash. All her sisters are following in her footsteps, except Kendall who is too busy working on her anorexia.

  • luVn_liFe…

    I wish I felt bad for Lala.. when someone shows you who they are.. yada yada

  • abby500

    I don’t see anything wrong. It’s a way of remembering and acknowledging them. I do it and I don’t care if anyone “likes” or responds to it on social media. And it doesn’t make me sad. Now I’ll say this an anniversary of the death means nothing because if you mourn them… u mourn them and the date should not matter

  • Shenanigans1

    Right. Like who is “yall”

  • Coco17

    All that surgery, fake breast and azzz and a ninja still cheat…smh

  • abby500

    I do believe that ppl find comfort in being mad or upset. They love living in that lane. Unfortunately my mom is like that.

  • luVn_liFe…

    with a chic that looks just like her ans what she used to look like body wise

  • Notatall

    He must be a pathological liar because that video made no sense- it insulted my intelligence so I’m sure Lala’s is shattered

  • Chulita

    I like Lala, but that pink dress is just not a good look. Why dress like that?

  • Coco17

    Damnnnn you sho right too funny!

  • Allihave2say

    They need new narcissistic supply to prove they still got it. When they run low on supply they go pull the old supply off the shelf and suck on that until they find new adventurous supply. Future plays this game well with his harem.

  • Chulita

    Men are as faithful as their choices.
    Who said that again ?
    Who thinks these men that are rich and famous are loyal?
    None of them are.

  • Shenanigans1

    I agree. I have a friend who just can’t relax and go with the flow. Always overthinking and trying to agitate the simplest things.

  • luVn_liFe…

    she cant be shattered.. Melo’s been cheating and had a whole baby on her. She should have been shattered when baby girl popped up. that would have been MORE then an enough for me

  • Allihave2say

    No they don’t. That’s a farce. They have great self esteem and believe they’re entitle to the attention of as many people who will give it to them and don’t give a damn about hurting others who may genuinely care about them.

  • Bree

    Don’t all men that has a woman in his life pursue her!? At least to my knowledge. I said he may have married her out of obligation. To me, it seems only Lala is married. Carmelo is out here living the single life.

  • Malificent

    Me too! I need access please! How I sign up????

  • Bree

    Wow! Never thought of it like that.

  • luVn_liFe…

    there’s nothing in the post that is new after you log in. It must be a glitch for that to have popped up

  • DroneRivers

    You can’t even trust some of the broke ones!

  • Bree

    Amen.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Periodt!

  • Chulita

    Lol! Btw I think it was Chris Rock who said that.
    I could be wrong.
    But yes, if a broke is good looking he will cheat as well.
    They all do.
    Specially if they are famous.

  • pure_rachet

    Since this is an open post… What you guys think? my dude of 6 yrs cheated and married the chic, had a baby, moved to the opposite coast, then she abducted the baby to her country and can’t come back. He’s filing the paperwork and wants to get back with me. He came and stayed out here for 4 months. Since he’s been gone I’ve been dating but I know he’s coming back. Should I give him a chance? I went on a date with a gorgeous dude last weekend (has a nice car, good job, smart, fun) and he pulled his dack out. :(

  • luVn_liFe…

    the broke one’s are the worse.. they have no money,no job and nothing but time to scam

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I beg to differ, i got heaux/stripper friends and not all celebs men cheat, my homegirl tried to holla at boris kodjoe when she was waitressing for a kevin hart event and he put her in her place like you should do better than to hit on a married man and he walked away leaving her there looking dumb af her words mind you shes one of the beckys with the good hairs that many famous men run after and john legend also rejected her. I think men put that propaganda out and women ate it up because women will do anything BUT leave the dirty deek. It works for them that so many women are pre accepting their cheating.

  • luVn_liFe…

    RUN hunn! block him,ignore him get a restraining order;MOVE ON! HE’s a bum

  • DroneRivers

    Just to honor the memory of that person. Assuming it’s a loved one, you’ll be thinking about how they’d be x years old today if they were still alive.
    I mean even with famous people, that’s always gonna be their birth date. The day they were born and the day they died will stay the same forever.

  • Malificent

    I feel bad for her. We all live to please people and the ideals set up for us. It’s easier when you can make it work with the person you have a child with but we have to choose the man that wants us and not who we want.

  • MoneyMillz

    He is dope. I used to see him in Brooklyn, where his brother owned a cafe.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Drop his ass

  • Bree

    Don’t go back. I’m sorry that happened to you. I say any man that can leave you like that for the girl next door is not the man for you. Those situations never work out. I was in a relationship for three years with someone and he left me for a low life piece of trash. Once he stuck his thing in that, there was no turning back. You deserve peace if that’s what you are looking for, but DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT pass go, DO NOT collect $200

  • KcoolMuziq

    With Ballers it’s different rules.

  • Tee

    OMG AUNTIE, I have been a rose bud since 08-09 and I don’t have a sandrarose account. I need access ASAP ?

  • luVn_liFe…

    but Melo was sick and acted like he couldnt move on with life after baby girl popped up if he couldnt be with his “wife and family. He needs to stop his shyte

  • pure_rachet

    Before she used Disqus, in order to comment you had to sign up with a paid email address like work or something (not yahoo, gmail, etc) She had the power to ban you. I still have my log in.

  • luVn_liFe…

    me too .. i logged in to that link..

  • Bree

    What are the rules?! You’re saying the baller’s rule don’t apply?

  • Malificent

    Nope date the guy who pulled out his dack’ I hope you cussed him out good and showed him you ain’t about that and now hopefully he will come correct. There is a lesson in this post so follow it! Don’t take him back and be a Lala because he will do it again.

  • DroneRivers

    It had to already be strained if he didn’t even stick around NYC to celebrate her birthday with her. They’re both out here looking crazy though.

  • pure_rachet

    I logged in. Am I the only one?

  • Chulita

    Move on and don’t ever go back!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Your homegirl wasn’t his type. There are some faithful men. I was talking to my frat about it. We must know at least 100 of the same men and he could only give me the name of one guy that doesn’t cheat. We were all hanging out (10 men, me the only woman) and the stories they told had me shook. They said they don’t cheat except for when they know they won’t get caught. All handsome, educated, well spoken, intelligent men (some married) with great jobs. Barbershop talk got real.

  • pure_rachet

    its your Sandra Rose account log in.

  • Cricket404

    Who said they were even together? I thought they broke up and just started to talk about getting back together. Are they back living together?

  • DroneRivers

    It was Chris Rock and I remember telling an ex that he should be thankful women aren’t only as faithful as their options cuz we always have way more. But we’re just wired (programmed raised) differently than men.

  • Bree

    Wow!

  • Bree

    So true. The man should do the pursuing, it is up to us to disregard their advances.

  • DroneRivers

    I think that was copied and pasted from another post and not meant for us.

  • pure_rachet

    I don’t believe all that for all cheaters. Maybe they are unhappy with the person they are with and don’t know how to tell them?

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    She is seeking attention because she can’t get it from her husband.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    He cheated and married the chick that he cheated on you with? Now he wants to come back because they’re not working out? For you to even be considering this…..you couldn’t love yourself.

    He pulled his dyck out? Do you know how many women that he does that to? Girl…move on.

  • Bree

    I agree. She needed a more mature look.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    It was strained when he had a baby on her….and was proud.

  • BicoastBlackGirlGeek

    I am, isn’t there more to read once logged in?

  • Ni Ni

    That was a nice little jam to two step to. Everything doesn’t need to be over done. Nice to hear some bass in their voice; grown man singing.

    Here’s an old performance i recently discovered. Its a patti labelle tribute from ron isley, tamia, peabo, and rachelle Farrell. I was blown away by Rachel’s voice. Nice performance…check it out when you have time.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BTMKjJpB7Uc

  • luVn_liFe…

    i logged into it.. there’s a little tea with a link about the chic

  • pure_rachet

    yes a bit more.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Maybe or maybe they don’t cheat either. I have lots of men in my family and we had those talks too and when i pushed them for the real real they reluctantly admitted to cheating because they knew they could talk or cry their way out of trouble with their women. My brother flat out said we cheat because we know yall wont do sheeit but make empty threats and cru. That day i decided that i wouldnt forgive as much as liking another bish pic. No sir you either all about me or we dont associate.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Amen!

  • Bree

    Amen. My cousins tell me all the time that they could never date me if we weren’t family. I was puzzled like what the heck is wrong with me? They all laughed and were like, nothing, we cheat and you wouldn’t let us do what we want, you already act like everybody’s mama. Tripped me out.

  • Allihave2say

    Wow! I just found him and I’m in love with his groove. #euphoria

  • pure_rachet

    2 diff dudes. I was just demonstrating how difficult dating life is. His marriage dissolved 2 years ago when she took the kid.

  • Allihave2say

    huh?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The login is open now. I removed some information from the post that was not for public consumption.

  • DroneRivers

    Move on, don’t take him back. Even as bleak as the dating scene can be, he shouldn’t be an option. He didn’t think you were his top option then, so he should get no consideration now!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You’re good if you still remember your login! ? Hold onto it. I might be switching back to the old WordPress commenting system soon.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    No worries. I removed the information that I didn’t want the outsiders to see. ?

  • Malificent

    They’re relationship is just a look.
    That’s the world we live in.
    She looks good as a basketball wife and he looks like he got a good one meanwhile the dopamine has faded and they’re not a match but the world loves them together so they try to make it work for the likes and ratings and live a separate life in reality. The only person suffering is their son who lives their truth.

  • DroneRivers

    It almost looked like she just remembered it was her birthday at the last minute and threw something on from her roleplay closet. Cuz that is a horrible look for your 40th imo.

  • NewNew

    Yay! I liked that better. Disqus is wack

  • Chulita

    Maybe they are ugly?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It’s open now. I removed the pertinent info. ?

  • Shenanigans1

    Megan thee stallion poured alcohol down her throat the other night.

  • Malificent

    Some men won’t but the majority will

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    What did you like about WordPress’ commenting system?

  • Malificent

    Exactly men cheat because they can
    Find a woman willing to accept being 2nd.

  • Malificent

    Yea I didn’t like it either

  • Malificent

    That’s what I thought

  • Ni Ni

    I have no advice to give, but the others have given sound advice. I just understand how you feel. ?

  • Ghetto Real Name

    The internets done found old girl. She is not no damn married.

  • Malificent

    Hmmmmmm? I know someone like that too. What makes them be that way?

  • Malificent

    Who is she?

  • Chulita

    I get it.
    Not all men cheat.
    But most do. That’s all. If you got a good man keep him and take good care of him :)

  • Chulita

    Yes ! And she would look so much better!!!!!

  • 100milesperhour

    Lol…Kendall said later for those artificial asses, I’m good flat & gristle-y.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Damnit. There will be no more talk of this on this here blog. This tea spilled over and got stale when ol boy had a baby on her. Let her figure this out and either act or not on her own. They are not interesting enough celebrities for this to be entertaining. This is so Monica and Tiny era. Let’s get some fresh celebs to pick on.

  • Coco17

    Could’ve saved her money.

  • Coy little wink

    I think it’s low and they boost it (temporarily) by cheating. It’s fake validation. Deep inside they know they aren’t worthy

  • ???TheRider???

    True, ask Tiny.

  • chan chan

    Lala is a busy woman with all of her acting gigs. Of course he’s gonna cheat she’s never around.

  • Coy little wink

    Yes I added to that see above

  • GuestSTAR

    He looks comfortable with ol girl to. Bet she’s been in his life a long time.

  • speakinmymind

    He is the biggest simp and she needs to believe she deserves better.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    This is why it’s best to keep a side guy.

  • CeCe

    Carmelo wanted a woman with a real body and got tired of Lala and all of her fake parts.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    “I’m fire at 49”
    ___________________
    I love this!?.

  • the guest

    Beautifully stated.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Listen, Queen, he’s a d*ck with too much baggage and drama to take on …you deserve so much better.?
    Shake both of these fk boys and don’t settle for either of their disrespectful azzes!

  • MJ

    Tiny is facially challenged. Shit was never going to work.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    GP is So under-rated! ?

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Sad all around

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And some just Lie

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Chile you’re in danger….. RUN!!! https://media1.giphy.com/media/9rRacglGbs68E/giphy.gif

  • DeepThinker

    I know a few women this has happened to. My answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. He was with you for six years and chose another instead of you. You should never trust him or respect him ever again for being capable of hurting you like this. Being alone is a better option than choosing him again.

  • Jussjess25

    Smdh .. this fool said “ let me know of yall want the video of her family” i’m done af. This is just disgusting at this point. What yall think lala gonna do tho ?

  • DeepThinker

    Dack flasher aint spit either. That’s is way of telling you what he wants out of you already. Anyone moving at a pace you are not comfortable with is nothing but trouble. Probably, married, crazy, 1000 kids, diseased or all of the above. Run for your life girl!!!

  • Jussjess25

    No sis this plot thickens .. supposedly they got back together to save face. Lala will say they were not together tho watch

  • Jussjess25

    Nobody.. just a regular cute chick from ig .

  • xxxgracious

    Sara Smiri

  • Marlika

    Lala looks like a boring lay like her dry cooch Bff.?????

  • Jussjess25

    Gurrrlllll.. run for your life please!! And block hom forever and ever. Change your address and move . ??????????

  • pure_rachet

    no more trolls! It is my most cherished log in!

  • xxxgracious

    F*ck no….my previous ex did the same thing to me. Cheated and got a baby out of it. He said he cheated because I wasn’t affectionate. Anyways he hardly knew the bish. Well apparently she was legally married and gave my ex herpes. (My condom game stay on deck!) Of course he came running back. Ninja went from being child free and STD free with me to dealing with that trick who signed her husband’s last name on the birth certificate. So he has ZERO rights. I’ll be honest I still love him but I will NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be intimate with him or take his ass back. P.s. me and his mama still talk. Would have been the perfect mother in law. She pissed he didnt have a baby with me. She never met her grandchild and it breaks my heart because she’s a good lady.

  • Tinytoon

    I read blind item about a deal they have. For every time he is caught, it cost him $1m. She’s staying for the $.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Babe!
    How’s everything?

  • DeepThinker

    I would not be surprised. One picture she is looking right at the camera.

  • Brown & Proud

    Nothing about Kardashians as friends is real or genuine. Come on now. I judge anyomes character that considers a jennerdashian a “friend”.

  • Pebbles

    The fact that your asking the oquestion…. you’re not over him. The people have given you good advice but it totally up to you.

    Listen if you do go back & get caught up!

    No one will judge you, shidddd we’ve all have slipped once or twice???

    You can always come back and say: what had happened is …. then we will know …but will be a support system

  • Pebbles

    Me too!

    I would come here… with snacks, read and laugh at the comments… some of y’all had the gift of comedy.

  • abby500

    La outchea fronting with the phoniest of the phony while Melo is getting it in with a chick who has a real cellulite filled, slouchy tit body. How sway?

  • abby500

    Right. And meanwhile her man is creeping

  • WhoKnew

    1. The mistress has an ass that’s both huge and flat at the same time which prolly means those doorstoppers are prolly real…maybe not.
    2. It’s clear that downtown La La’s face, boobs and shyt shaker have all been surgically transformed into an alien looking bug-eyed mess. And I don’t care how fugged up the man is straight men still want to feel and cuddle with a real woman, meaning her natural ass and tiddies.
    3. If the mistress didn’t try to force Mellow Yellow’s hands and put out the pics then Mell and Bugsy are living a Wendell and Kevin type lifestyle. You do you and I’ll do me just don’t publicize your side babies and I won’t publicize my side sausage.
    4. They might have been planning to divorce and were too vain to admit they couldn’t make it work so they brought in “a reason” (big fat flat ass).

  • abby500

    Abby 5000 runs to her ig page ….

  • Allihave2say

    I love listening to Kem. YT cycled GP into my playlist and I’m so glad they did!

  • Allihave2say

    Kendall is starting to look manly. As she thins out her face and brow bones protude and she looks unwell. But, hey, she’s making that gawp!

  • Allihave2say

    Oh. IDK MTS but I know BS & they’re too old for whatever took place.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    They are just not interesting to me is all. The ooh ahh factor is gone. They are both washed up entertainment for me. … a cycle of boredom. That’s why I called it the Tiny and Monica affect. No shock at all to whatever FaLaLaLaLa goes through with this dude.

  • Allihave2say

    Rachel is my girl! my girl my girl! In college a mate and I used to perform her duet with Will Downing. I can hit a few of her notes. She’s smooth and melodic. The magic of music. All vocal greats! This was dynamic! I love all these beautiful people. Hands down riding out of town with my hubby is the best concert of my life!

  • Kimberly King

    Chile …… What a difference in these two bodies. Ain’t nothing fake or phony about boat bae’s body. Men can front all they want and act thirsty over IG models, but that’s an example of what they REALLY like.

  • ItsMeIvory

    She will remain with him like she has always done. She has no self worth.

  • leapyearpisces

    Not condoning this fugger at all, but boat bae is gorgeous. She made her ig private so I looked her up on Google. Pretty girl. I think Carmelo and his best bud Lala are secretly divorced.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    She looks like a baby!!How hell she walk on that cobblestone street with those shoes?

  • pure_rachet

    awe Thanks Pebbles, my new bestie on the blog. I understand and I agree I am not over him and that is why I asked. I really just need to know how to tell him not to come back. It is too hard on me and I know I don’t want him plus what if he is just using me and I need to start my life over and I wanna get married. NO KIDS.

  • leapyearpisces

    This random AF, but yall already know I aint wrapped too tight (LOL), so is it wrong for me to want this damn fruit fly to go ahead and fall into my wine so I can drink this shat in peace without its annoying azz hovering around. Like OMG!!!!!! Die already!!!!! LOL.

  • pure_rachet

    YO! I got banned on the Disqus and had to make some maneuvers but I’m back. Still got the bomb job! Loving it. Loving being free. How are you Luv?

  • pure_rachet

    OMG wow yeah so God had your back on that. This dude had broken up with me the night before he met the chick and had her move in that day!. Y’all are right. Fukk him.

  • pure_rachet

    You must not know about Los Angeles rent. I’m rent controlled and I stay here. But I get it. I just can’t afford to move and too much on the line.

  • Kimberly King

    Yea I’m not condoning it either. Just making a point that eventually men get tired of the fakeness. I can only identify with boat bae because I have a few dimples in my ass and a lil pooch to go with it just like she does. Lol but bae still gon eat the booty like groceries. ??????

  • MoneyMillz

    He’s incredible

  • oshh16

    ITA, I had someone do that to me at a bar. He followed me inside the place cause he saw me walking with my cousin and his work associate. Then was trying to proposition me, I’m steady trying to tell him I was not that girl, then the nigga pulled his dy8ck out. I should have thrown a drink on his a$$. I was done and made my exit.

  • Meme

    ??

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Added protein ?????

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I wasnt trying to convince you or change your mind. I dont have a dog in this fight, the only people who benefits from women believing that “all men/some men/the majority of men” cheat are men themselves, they’re the only winners here. I just wanted to respectfully give another perspective. Hopefully we don’t raise a generation of passive women pre-programmed to be doormats.

  • xxxgracious

    And God will have your back too in sending you someone who will appreciate you! Kick his ass to the curb lol.

  • Gloria

    It was genius of Sara Smiri to call the paparazzi. Her modeling career is about to take off and she can be the side piece of someone richer than Melo.

  • Pebbles

    That’s exactly ( allegedly!) how the paps know they were there

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sweet Jesus please ….. love you Sandra

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Your bans …….

  • Pebbles

    I don’t know after my second response.. you might take it back! ? LOL!

    The posters gave you real good advice.

    But !

    You do know that you don’t owe him an explanation.

    Secondly, He knows that you have feelings for him and he will play on that .

    Thirdly, you have to remove yourself from the situation completely meaning no contacting momma and em ( even though u and his mother maybe cool her loyalty is to him ultimately she ain’t even tell ya! That he was dipping with sis and trust the families know they always do

    Fourthly, even if you follow your heart know that the trust is broken …deep down inside you know what he did ain’t right Sis ….

    But if you make the decision to meet and see him

    As I said things happen…. meet at a place of your other than your apartment…( or house) it easier to bounce and return home with out him being there and go through the headache of getting him to leave or him leaving something just to have an excuse to come back

    Have a pre written letter … insert name

    Dear Jon … by the time you read this I will be long gone.. I can’t do this …it’s not right! Every time I think about what you had done to me my eyes swell with tears and my heart feel pain… your married and have a whole another family who you need to focus on .. we had our chance but you made the decision to be with someone else so, deal with your decision .

    Don’t show up at my home or call or text

    Change you number or call the phone company and have a list of numbers you ant blocked

    I reiterate things happen and I understand it!

  • DeepThinker

    Yes was thinking the same thing. It’s a big long booty that does not have much projection. Probably the way LaLas azz used to be. The pictures from her Instagram it looks flat with clothes on. Maybe Melo will kick in some dollars for her to get it lifted. She does have a pretty face.

  • WhoKnew

    He more likely will fix her up now that she’s been exposed. And him and La La prolly been separated and divorced for a minute but she is the reason why it prolly now come out.

  • DeepThinker

    I’m glad you were able to escape dude sounds like a potential sex offender. Exposing himself unwanted is $exul assault.

  • Moon Lee

    Damn…

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yes! Kem is fire And ice!?

  • DeepThinker

    It’s sad that for her milestone birthday her man did not having any special plans for her. I always see sadness in her eyes. Now it’s even more obvious how much he neglects her. I hope she leaves him for good.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    GIRL!
    I’ve actually poured them their own little saucer of wine, hoping to trap them, so I don’t tear up my whole kitchen chasing them! Argh! ?

  • Anji

    Luv GP?

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    That’s how you stand over a “married woman”, Melo? Nobody believed that lie anyway…tuh….

  • Alextra Ballard

    The body language tells me that it is not their first hook up

  • Logan Roberts

    I forgot Sandra has always been obsessed with Lala. It doesn’t take fifty million posts to understand Melo is still cheating ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    RIght like how else would they know where they were but what is she modeling? Is she like a plus size model?

  • MRiGOThim

    Heyyyyyyyy Carmelo :P

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    If a woman think a man accrues millions of dollars to only have one coochie for the rest of his life they must be crazy… chill it’s just sex not love

  • Chapter29Chick

    well if a woman did it it would be WWW III, oh wat yall men dont see us as human. goes back to my non human world and rolls my eyes at ur comment

  • Chapter29Chick

    he bettah stop messing with lala she is hanging out with kim and will smash the homie on camera with a kartrashian twist. trust me, ninjas is checking 4 lala. she is definitely pretty.

  • TheDoubleHelix

    Perhaps, if she took care of her man instead of running around tryin to be a trashy Kardashian, her man would not be out there looking.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well women do it all the time

  • Queen B

    I think this chick called the paparazzi lol there was another pic of her waving at the camera

  • J2PC

    Utter bs.smh Sad to see some folks in urban/inner-city America programmed or conditioned to think that if they can allow their bodies to used and abused by a cheater they can miraculously keep a mentally flawed character from cheating.

    Lusting and cheating is in the heart of someone. It goes hand in hand with someone being sneaky, selfish, thrill-seeking mentality bent on lying, deceiving others vs those who are disciplined with respect for self and those they love.

    No worthwhile, decent woman have to belittle & disrespect herself in hope of manipulating a man into not being a lowdown dirty dog. It has never worked out for any woman who has settled for that kind of male. Noting that not all males are not coined “real men.”

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Why do you say men don’t see women as human?

  • Alextra Ballard

    Chiiile, it don’t work like dat….yew can “take care of yo man”fvck him 24/7,365 dayz a yr and that’s still doesn’t guarantee that he won’t stray….if a man wants tew cheat he will…only thing he needs is opportunity and a willing participant and it’s on.

  • J2PC

    They need to just divorce already. Love is none of that negative, disrespectful cheating behavior. Looks like Lala needs to stop wasting time & $$$ on ongoing therapy when the problem is easily resolved by getting rid of her problem via divorce.

    She only has a trust issue because she insist on being with a serial cheating athlete. Why not divorce and find a character she can trust instead of being with someone who is who and whatever he is?

    That characteristic about a person will never change. Cheaters will only figure out how to become more deceitful & sneaker to avoid getting caught again.

  • ???

    And skin disease contractions

  • ???

    On a nigga birthday tho…Kevin Hart did the same shit LOL. But that’s gold digger consequences for ya ?

  • ???

    That suit looks horrible

  • ???

    You must want Ziki virus

  • J2PC

    Can’t pity Lala if she insist on staying with him long after he has already cheated, had a baby 2yrs ago by another woman and now caught again with another woman publicly. Think of all the women who were not revealed. HPV is real.

    She wouldn’t want to be another victim of some HPV strain in one various body parts like other married women from a husband who has dirty dogged or cheated her. She’s sleeping inadvertently with all fluids, possible STD infections each woman may have subjected via a circle of males and females who have slept with each other.

    Time to divorce from all of that mess already. ijs

  • ???

    Yes! For the money and stats it’s sad! He flirted with me right in her face one time. She just kept smiling like all trophy wives and girlfriends do. Another white celebrity did the same thing while with his white girlfriend holding her hand!!! and she just smiled!!!?? Wtf?! I would’ve been like, ‘wtf u lookin at?’, really loud. I’m trying to move past those types of outbursts in public however, but wtf? Ain’t enough money in the world to disrespect me in my face!

  • ???

    Bitchs body is horrible!! So is LaLas tho lmfao

  • J2PC

    Nah. Paps stay busy with their drones, boats, yachts too which tend to strong cameras. That’s how they make their $$$. Some even are disguised as customer service, cooks, etc. They know where the wealthy tend to hang out. You never know who’s watching.

    She wouldn’t want to ruin her marriage & risk public shaming by exposing herself. Carmelo has the means to investigate her phone & internet activities during their trip to see if any were tied to such.

  • ???

    She’s cute not gorgeous. And that’s with the nose job, new teeth, lip fillers and cheek fillers.

  • ???

    Lmao @ (big fat flat ass)

  • ???

    Lmao

  • ???

    Y’all on a roll this morning lmao

  • ???

    Obviously for fame

  • ???

    Bitch is lying

  • ???

    That he took to Monte Carlo…and cruised the French Riv with…she was at the casino dressed quite differently from her IG page so I see she went shopping cause you can’t get in the casino unless you’re dressed like MONEY ?

  • leapyearpisces

    Well dang! Is ANYTHING on her face hers? That’s about as worse as Ana Braga”s character in Repo Men.

  • J2PC

    Right! Somebody lied to doubleHelix or he/she is another foolish believer of urban tales which is reflected in that community having the HIGHest STDs/HIV rates among any ethnic group in the US. It’s a twisted immoral mentality that is destroying the Black community via incurable strains of STDs and HIV.

    Then, you have those who feel saddled with unwanted pregnancies or babies of some deadbeat/loser because it’s cheaper for the female to just give birth with the help of welfare rather than scrape up enough funds for an abortion.

    Time to wise up & snub that lie peddled to urban Black folks to manipulate the minds of many to their own detriment. Just look at the negative statistics rates resulting from those who show up sick & tested at local clinics & the emergency rooms. It’s alarming among Black folks who fell for the lie.

  • ???

    You’re kidding right? Why the hell would you go back to someone who disrespected you like that??? Once someone disrespects they need to be moved to the left. I would just use his ass. Do not EVER get involved with him again!!

  • ???

    Either USE his ass for money or don’t answer his calls. I know he has no money based on his antics so just ignore his calls.

  • J2PC

    It’s just sex? Take a look at the CDC highest STDs and HIV rates where it is alarming in the urban Black community. It’s tied to an at-risk behavior peddled via vulgar music and urban lies told to manipulate others into join the promiscuous behavior that spread diseases.

    Respecting someone you claim to love is not putting them at risk for STDs/HIV by being sneaky, promiscuous and putting their health at risk by making them sleep, unknowingly, with a ring of other folks.

    That person should have the right to know the truth to decide whether or not they want to connect their mind & body to an at-risk cheater.

  • J2PC

    Sandra is not doing anything more than what major news network & tabloids have already done. The same pics can be found elsewhere not just gossip site. Therefore, you have not proven your point about Sandra being obsessed with Lala.

  • ???

    First date tho? I’ve experienced similar. I was younger. I’ll call the police on yo ass now.

  • ???

    Well Boris was trying to holla at a lady once and his wife was trying to holla at the lady’s date and they got turned down…oops lol

  • ???

    Lmfao

  • SG

    Really???

  • SG

    Sliced and diced your body up to look like an ant and for what? He still stepping out. SMH Thats why Im cool with my lil booty. It matches my frame.

  • Neva RuthLess

    He’s an idiot who needs to be blocked. It says a lot about a man that stays commenting on a woman’s gossip blog.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Men and women cheat. And men and women are both wrong and selfish for doing it.

  • Miss Lady

    By the looks of his “voluptuous” friend, Carmelo enjoys Sponge Bob shaped women. Maybe Lala should have kept her original Sponge Bob shape too.

  • Kimberly King

    I don’t see anything wrong with Lala or boat bae’s body. One is real the other one isn’t. I’ve seen worse. And these aren’t it.

  • J2PC

    Go to more therapy to figure out how to hang on in there. She already is quite experience with him cheating & having a baby on her by another woman. Yet, she stayed.

    More cheating to a woman who insist on staying is not so bad until other folks (the public) find out about it. I hope she is more dignified than that and will just leave for good to save face this time.

  • J2PC

    She has deactivated it.

  • J2PC

    Right! Supposedly, she’s in therapy working on trust issues. Then, he does another ultimate betrayal. GF needs to save her therapy $$$ and mind by just letting it go.

  • J2PC

    Right! Supposedly, she’s in therapy working on trust issues. Then, he does another ultimate betrayal. GF needs to save her therapy $$$ and mind by just letting it go.

  • J2PC

    That doesn’t add since the another woman, who is the mother of his 2yr old daughter, doesn’t have a sponge-bob shape. Maybe there is much more to an individual or woman than that which is just superficial like weaves, shapes, makeup, weight, etc.

    A man & woman have to be able to get along well. Perhaps, that’s what they have at the moment. Who knows?

  • Miss Lady

    I’m a whole grown azz woman and of course I know there are plenty of things that factor into the selection of partners, be it long or short term, wife or side piece. Don’t try to school me on anything. My point was she has done all this chit to herself and he is still laying pipe elsewhere. She could have stayed the same and been treated the same or guess what? Better!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well having a wife or a live in girlfriend is the main reason for using a condom when you having outside fun

  • Gloria

    That girl is not married

  • Strappyheels

    Cannot take Lala serious when she’s best friends with KK.

  • Strappyheels

    I have long ago come to the conclusion a lot of black men like vagina, but not us so much!!

  • Andrea Williams

    Chile……You said a mouthful right there!

  • JENNYJONES1

    EXACTLY, LALA AND THIS NEW CHICK ARE BOTH SHAPED FUNNY ESP IN THE BOOTY REGION. LOL!!!…….JENNY JONES!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    OF ALL THE STDs OUT HERE WHY ARE YOU SO FOCUSED ON HPV? ARE YOU THAT ‘OTHER MARRIED’ WOMAN?………JENNY JONES!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    OK I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. CARMELO THOUGHT HE WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE OCEAN SO HE WAS GOOD AND HIS DOGGY WAYS WOULD STAY A SECRET BUT THE PAPS SOMEHOW KNOW EXACTLY WHERE THEY ARE. LOL!!!…….JENNY JONES!!!

  • Andrea Williams

    Hey Nancy……How’s life girlie? Lord, now you round here trying to get flies drunk? I can’t share my wine with them. They gonna have to get drunk on their own dime. Lol, I am on a fixed budget…..I’m retired. Enjoy your day crazy.

  • JENNYJONES1

    WE SEE A PIC OF HER HANGING WITH KIM MAYBE 2-4 TIMES A YR SO SHE HAS SOME 360 OTHER DAYS TO TAKE CARE OF HER MAN AND THOSE FEW OUTING HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH CARMELO DOGGING AROUND. THE KARDASHIAN AREN’T RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING. LOL!!!………JENNY JONES!!!

  • Logan Roberts

    Move around wanch, I said what I said.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I think it worse for the woman because they are more likely to catch something or get pregnant

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You know I starting to see that poly thing take root with the younger people in Atlanta .. it like two men and women live together and all have sex together

  • Rita

    Exactly.! And she friends with KellyRo & Ciara. Serena, friends with Meghan, Ciara & Kim…And Ciara, friends with KellyRo, Lala and Serena. Their friendship dynamics are crazy

  • Queen B

    Lol Sara said im tired of being a secret i gotta let the world know its real ?

  • Queen B

    Nigga what part did u miss?! This chick aint married she’s divorced with an 8 y/o she aint got shit to lose by exposing her affair with Carmelo….her azz waving at the paps and shît….she called them lol

  • Candance

    His new baby mommas response to all this was the best. Carmelo needs to chill out!

  • Allihave2say

    Kem’s lil petite ass dancing in his videos is so sexy to me!

  • https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MknpWRJGXfKHBuF0otdzg Basement Conversations

    Marriage isn’t for everyone. I think it might not be for Carmelo. He was too young to settle down when he did. She knew what she was doing being a much older person than him by forcing the young boy to play the married life. Their better off Co-parenting so he can enjoy the rest of his 30s since she took all of his 20s away from him ?????

  • NewNew

    I liked that comments were exclusive to the blog. Disqus tracks your comments across websites which I don’t particularly like. What I didn’t like about the wordpress commenting system was that you had to sign up using a work email address.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Are you serious? How does a woman force a Man into marriage? Why do black men always gotta be the victim when they are usually the devil in situations?

  • Neva RuthLess

    HIV HPV and other diseases are literally male driven. Men cheating is actually worst.

  • Karen Brady

    ????????????????????

  • Cliffpetty

    Says volumes

  • Cliffpetty

    They were engaged for yrs before they got married. He married her just because. Lala knew what was up. She needs to lean only Khloe for support

  • Karen Brady

    Lol

  • Karen Brady

    ??????????????????????????????

  • Karen Brady

    Bug eye mess ?

  • Karen Brady

    This… they are so relaxed like they’re at the house.

  • Karen Brady

    Lol

  • Lee

    Listen. Rich folks fuck around on each other with each others husbands and wives, nannies, best friends, business partners wives, interns, caddies maids and EVERYBODY knows about it. We the only people in shock. Get rich, not famous and enjoy yall lives. #nojudgementzone

  • Society has changed

    That behind looks like character Rasputia from the movie Norbit…. not flattering at all!!! Men ??????

  • hottlanta

    Never let a man know if he doesnt give u any trim u wont get any.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    All right… keep your shirt on Sis.?
    ???

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Girl, just a spoonful, so they’ll gather roundst that saucer and not be bomb diving into my wine glass the minute I set it down!?

    You are one of a very few RETIRED friends of mine…
    (don’t push it, Sis)?

  • SayWhatNow?

    Right! I don’t condone but I don’t body shame either because this ass of mine sure has more dimples than I’d like, but it has never and I do mean NEVER been a problem. This ass looks good!

  • Chicagowise

    Speaking of strained relationships… one of my sisters has been hanging out with an A list celebrity. Her Facebook page is littered with pictures of the two of them together. Typically, this wouldn’t be a bad thing, but the man is married. My sister had a crush on this man since she was a teenager. I know this is a dream come true for her, but I am concerned that she’s headed for trouble.

  • https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MknpWRJGXfKHBuF0otdzg Basement Conversations

    Carmelo is WRONG regardless because he should’ve NEVER did what he did. But that aside LaLa knew exactly what she was doing when she courted a young 20 yo 1st round draft pick in him so she’s not no angel nor innocent neither. The difference between melo lebron and Chris Paul are they both had girlfriends before going pro which showed their level of maturity and wanting to play house and they still are with their high school sweethearts but melo ended up with Robin givens pt 2, an already famous star who sees the rising talent of a young bull and wants to hitch her wagon to his. Well it came with a price and she’s paying for it. She should’ve played it the way gab union did. Allow that man to have his time fun and to come into his own and then revisit the relationship when he’s matured and had enough sowing of his oats. You can get mad at me for saying this but in her heart of hearts even she knows this is true.

  • Desi

    And presenting herself as a streetwalker. I don’t care, money or not. If my child saw me dressed like that, she would be highly upset.

  • more

    Lala is just another pretty face that cant see her own value. All that plastic surgery only to end up with a cheater

  • more

    It’s the women fault accoring to you

  • more

    Lala went the plastic surgery route and still got played. If i ever go the plastic surgery route I would be out living my best life and not staying with a cheater but that’s just me

  • more

    Straight facts!!

  • more

    What baby???

  • more

    Basically women are wasting their time staying loyal to 1 guy.

  • more

    Lmaooooo

  • more

    Proof that plastic surgery don’t fix your self esteem. All those breasts and butt injections did absolutely nothing in the faithful department

  • more

    She was real at one point and he still played her

  • more

    The only person suffering is LaLa and her son. Lets keep it real for a sec…. she out here turning down men left and right while Carmelo is living his best life. If i was her i would be doing me on the side. Life is short

  • more

    Girl bye -_-

  • Ghost

    Understand your concern..let’s just hope it doesn’t turn out too badly! Him being married is not good! These wives can be ruthless especially when they have the resources!

  • Patricia

    havent you heard? ITS ALWAYS THE WOMANS FAULT, never them. EVER.
    This is what society teaches and endorses is always blaming the wives and mothers and thats why men who follow the world live accordingly. no accountability.

  • T Willis

    Lala was close to 30 yrs old. Ole girl ain’t have time to play the long game, she was trying to secure the bag with a baby

  • T Willis

    HPV struck me too ?

  • Coffy

    There’s a saying, “ show me a pretty woman and I’ll show you a man that’s tired of ucking her”.

  • Ice

    Her duck lips look terrible in the photo above.

  • https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MknpWRJGXfKHBuF0otdzg Basement Conversations

    Hahaha So true .. but she chose someone who was already a hot boy stud fresh off a college championship with looks, money and swag. Those USUALLY aren’t the types that’ll stay faithful the whole duration of a relationship ?????

  • https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MknpWRJGXfKHBuF0otdzg Basement Conversations

    Nah it’s LaLa fault according to me??

  • Michelle

    you going to drop a hint or ……

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Ok! ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Just like kelvin’s side chick calling them paps to show up

  • Andrea Williams

    Lol…..Oh lordy don’t push me out to pasture!!!

  • J2PC

    Old news that is proven true. Simply do a search for his full name fathered a girl daughter. Plenty of articles and pics online to observe. She looks just like him. lol

    The baby is by a woman who has a Masters Degree from Northwestern University in Public Health.

    That same woman posted a tweet, last week, in response to yacht pics saying he can’t come see his kid but can make time to yacht with another woman different country or something to that effect. That too has been posted in the news & on social media along with a copy of what the dagger thru heart pic from Lala.

  • J2PC

    Yep. It’s like a lab study for an ethnic group where weakminded, misguided urban folks can easily be manipulated & will jump on every evil bandwagon to try out any new street fad to their own detriment. From being violent and taking each other out (Black genocide & abortions) to disrespecting their mind, body & souls by sleeping with each other cult-like.

    Sadly, the joke’s on them because they are being labeled & followed to see how they move & sleep around with each other to pass on STDs/HIV, if not being hooked on drugs that ultimately take lives. That is why the STD rates is at it’s highest and most alarming among urban Blacks in the US because they foolishly volunteer to be puppets or pawns trapped in an urban maze project to be studied for epidemics. ijs

  • Successful Ladies Live

    You mean he chose her. He was still a Grown A** Man. These men are not children. Woman that think like you sadly are the biggest part of the problem.

  • J2PC

    I also mentioned STDs. Glad you focused HPV Everyone is quite aware of incurable strains of STDs/HIV-AIDs and have become too comfortable. However, cancers stemming from contracting an HPV infection is now equally up there. Folks are not aware until we see celebs mentioning having throat, cervical or colon cancer from an HPV strain.

    That is to say she is laying up with him after he’s impregnated a female & sexed others. A person might be lucky enough to not have an obvious STD, but what about considering being disrespected, betrayed and put at-risk for the one that manifests itself as cancer via HPV is the point.

  • J2PC

    He threw that out there in hopes of throwing the media and other folks off, but no one is buying it. lol It is what it is. Married or not they were alone on a yacht.

  • Chicagowise

    He has to be aware of my sister’s Facebook page. This has been going on for a couple of years. At first, I thought my sister took a photo with him during a chance encounter. Then, she kept posting more and more pics of them together, on separate occasions. A few days ago, my sister changed her last name on Facebook, to the actor’s last name. I hope she isn’t losing her mind! LOL

  • Chicagowise

    The only hint I’m going to give is… he started as a singer, now he’s an A-list actor. He wasn’t much of a singer, but he’s an excellent actor. I have asked my sister about their relationship. She says, they’re just friends, but I know how she really feels about him and she’s not looking for a handshake.

  • Chicagowise

    By the way, this guy is married to real pistol. She’s been with some well known celebrities and she has a reputation for being really outspoken.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Hmmm….um thinking?…how many times has Melo told Lala he was on a bidness trip,when he was actually out fvcken a side chick.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Just be there for your susta when this all comes crashing down. She’s playing a game that she won’t win.

  • Allihave2say

    I blame the hubby for the introduction. He had a playlist for me when we’re on date night. I started listening via YT abd there you go! LOL!

  • Ms. Jackson

    Chillllllllllle!

  • Ms. Jackson

    ?? ?? ?? ?? ? ? ?

  • pure_rachet

    Hi Roses I BROKE IT OFFF

  • Karen Brady

    Billy Dee!

  • Queen B

    I don’t understand why a title is so important its not like she’s a deadbeat without a career of her own

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He had an outside child but she took him back so she knew what the odds of him cheating again were.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I thought you were an only child like me.

  • more

    Wow!! This is news to me.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Aww …y’all are sweet?

  • PYT

    LaLa old thot azz has clearly forgotten to stay in shape, because her body looks horrible.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Don’t mind me hun… (I’m bitter and resentful of everyone who’s managed to escape the corporate plantation before I get my freedom papers.)?

  • EMILY POST

    Pretty much any woman who kicks it with them… lol Has no credibility…

  • Solstice

    Good for you Pure!!! Continue to move forward ???

  • Solstice

    ?…

  • Pebbles

    I don’t know ! The internet sleuths will find out…

    I don’t know why some didn’t think about a career in law…they get the deets..

  • onelove

    once a cheater is always a cheater i know!….

  • MzKeriBabee

    For a blog with mostly women commenters, I find it quite perplexing that most of the posts are saying its Lala’s fault????? That man didn’t have to marry Lala, didn’t have to date her fresh to the NBA, these are things that he CHOSE to do… just like he CHOSE to cheat on her on… now here were are, instead of trying to lift women up, we are tearing her down… I don’t get it… AT ALL…

  • Lady_Elle

    I pray that her experience doesn’t rip her apart!
    At the end of the day… he’s married.
    As for her saying we are friends… :-(
    Married men should not have single women friends.

    One day when she is married… she will better understand.

  • Sha

    Unfortunately that is what MOST women do on the regular. We should be attacking him, as he is the messy one. He is peace of shit but we do need more girl power, keep your head up Lala.

  • Sha

    Oh really? Hmmmmmm

  • Lady_Elle

    Black Women are typically trashed on this site!
    LaLa is Puerto Rican… so who knows.

    I do question her celebrating her milestone BD w/o her hubby. I thought they were trying to work things out.

    But… once a CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!

  • Andrea Williams

    Good Morning Nancy…….Boy do I understand your plight of wanting your freedom papers! The plantation can be a b*tch!!! I have been there, done that, and got the damn t-shirt. But even with the bitterness and the resentment (that you really don’t have), you still gonna be my ace boon coon no matter what. Just hang on in there and your day will come. And when it does, let me know and I’ll be just as happy for you as if it was me all over again. I’ll even drink some wine in my your honor because it will be no more plantation! No more bullchit from “those” people. I can’t wait for you to join me. Lol, I’ll even make the wine drinking more special, In your honor, I’m gonna “share” it with some flies. Enjoy your day as much as you can. Be blessed!

  • Sassie

    LaLa is officially a bad bitch. She don’t need Melo, and he obviously don’t want her. She needs to move on.

  • Sassie

    You are kidding, right? U know what….nevermind. LaLa’s body is on point and you know it.

  • Chicagowise

    She posted a new pic of them, today! Even her friends are starting to ask questions.

  • Chicagowise

    Nope. I have siblings. I used to feel like an only child, because I spent a lot of time with my grandparents.

  • Chicagowise

    Billy Dee Williams?! LMAO! ? I don’t think I would be able to keep that to myself!

  • Chicagowise

    I’m trying not to scold her, because she claims they are only “friends.” However, today, she posted a new pic of them together. Even her friends are asking her how she keeps crossing paths with him.

  • EasyBreezy

    Deep!

  • PYT

    I said what I said ??

  • Karen Brady

    LOLL

  • Listen2Me

    Is it Mr. Smith?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    “In your honor, I’m gonna “share” it with some flies.”
    ————————————–
    This mess got me wanting to holler in this nail shop!????

    Any minute now, im’a have silent tears streaming down my face… ?

    This why I can’t quit your cray cray self, smh.??

  • Andrea Williams

    Lol……I thought you might get a kick out of my homage to you. Chile, I dun put the word out…..they on standby!

  • Myopinion

    I can’t with these men who beg you to death to get back with them and turn right around and do the same sh*t that they did to have to beg in the first place… https://media1.giphy.com/media/26DN07Qk2Oz4tcad2/giphy.gif

  • Guess Who

    Ugh..Sandra, stop showing that pic of that long, lumpy butted, long tittied broad that was on the boat with Mello.

  • more

    When you allow a man to cheat he subconsciously loses respect for you.

  • TheOwley

    Leaves fine stake for cheap hamburger. What a guy.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Absolutely
    Yet females thinks that he proves loyalty, no baby you just proved your stupidity

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thank you for your concerns. I think the WordPress commenting system has improved.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks, hun. ?

  • Chicagowise

    If it was Billy Dee, I’d report my sister for elder abuse. ?

  • Chicagowise

    That’s a good guess, but no. This particular sister isn’t in to black men. And… I have never seen this actor with a woman of “color.” I wonder if he knows my sister is part black.

  • more

    Absolutely!

  • parisjok

    no, he wants his family and the side chicks

  • parisjok

    not really because he was still cheating and everything

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I suppose it’s the thought that counts….??

  • Bonquisha Alize Jenkins

    The lady resides in Paris, and her youngest son looks just like Carmelo. SMH ??

  • LLC

    lala looks gewt in that last pic. kim looks like a t-rex. i hate her feet.

  • PYT

    her alliance w/that coven of whores diminishes all of her credibility

  • Andrea Williams

    Yes, it is.

  • AListDiva29

    Their son is 12, so she still has 6 years of child support, plus her own career, so she should divorce this loser before she gets any older! I don’t know why women waste their prime on serial cheaters! The men will be going for and get women 10-20 years younger, but sadly women over 40 have a hard time getting someone their own age!

  • Ken Hargrave

    I so badly want to UN-see that ass! Peace.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    I’m good, just banged out a medical assistant program right quick
    Now planning quick getaways

  • pure_rachet

    Congrats!!

  • Moon Lee

    No one deserves that type of humiliation.

  • Michelle

    Hmmmmm singer? One more hint. Pop or R&B? White or black? Group or Solo ?????

  • Chicagowise

    No. He isn’t black.

  • Michelle

    Solo or group? I’m sorry I’m desperate for answers ???

  • Michelle

    I know I know!! It’s that fine @as specimen of a man Mark Walburg??? ??

  • Malificent

    She probably is. I hear she like women.