Russell Wilson and Ashton Meem

First of all, I have no idea who this Ashton Meems is. I never heard of her until this morning. So we don’t communicate at all.

Secondly, I don’t know what “site” the email author is referring to. A loyal reader sent me the tea about Ciara and Future.

As I stated so eloquently in my post (that some of you failed to read all the way through because I use too many big words), the tea was NOT confirmed. I urged you to sip cautiously for that reason.

I am a firm believer that every bit of gossip has a kernel of truth to it.

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Hi everyone, below is the latest email I’ve received from my readers complaining about Google’s auto-redirecting ads. Please know that I have no control over Google’s ad inventory, including Google’s auto-redirect ads that takes you to other websites.

As a result of Google’s inaction in regards to this problem, I have asked my ad networks to remove Google’s ad inventory from my website. I hope this resolves the problems of ads redirecting you to other blogs.

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We live in a society where male and female roles are defined by gender stereotypes.

Some homosexuals (not all) choose to self identity by adopting the gender stereotypes (behavior, style of dress and attitude) of the opposite sex.

Women who choose to dress and behave like men are referred to as studs.

Loyal reader Dee Perry learned the hard way that gender misappropriation often leads to charges of gender discrimination when studs object to being treated like men.

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Keri Hilson and mom at Ebony Fashion Fair Reunion

Some of you are too young to remember the Ebony Fashion Fair Tour when it was at its peak. Thousands of people turned out in every city to see the most beautiful black models and urban fashions on display. For many fans, the Ebony Fashion Fair was the only opportunity to see dozens of top black, biracial and mixed race models in one place.

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We all know Beyonce is pushing 40 years old but some people are just now figuring that out. Isn’t that hilarious?

As women age, our eggs dry up and our ovaries stop producing new eggs. This is why Beyonce (allegedly) utilized a surrogate to deliver her only child, Blue Ivy.

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Up-and-coming Amsterdam rapper Snxo (pronounced Snow) writes in to correct a photo caption that mistakenly identified her as Australian one-hit-wonder Iggy Azalea. is proud of our history of breaking new artists. It’s a shame that those artists always go on to fame and fortune and forget who helped them along the way.

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Quincy Brown, Keke Palmer, Cory Hardrict

Loyal reader Keisha H. writes:

Hi Sandra,

I read your post and the comments on the independent movie ‘Brotherly Love’ which I had the pleasure of viewing last night. I must say everything I read about this movie on your post was soooo off. First off it is not a comedy by no means nor is it a straight to DVD movie. I will admit I went into the theater thinking it would be some straight kiddie garbage which is what we always think when we hear independent and see a young cast with some newcomers.

Well I was totally surprised at how great this movie was. The plot is on FLEEK 10,000%, the acting was great and the film quality looks like a big budget film. It’s funny,dramatic, a tear jerkier, suspenseful, about life’s choices and so relatable to today’s issues that you’ll be as shocked as we all were in the theater. Also KeKe did a great job in this movie and I think all of the young ladies will enjoy the acting & eye candy of Quincy, Romeo, JJ, Eric and Cory, who’s so gangster in this film that his sex appeal went up 100,000%!!!! Lol!!! He killed his role. It was also nice to see Macy Gray and Malik Yoba in the film.

I truly suggest everyone of all ages go see this movie. I guarantee you will not be disappointed AT ALL!!!! I saw it for free last night but plan on going to see it again with some friends on opening day because it was that good and I feel we need to support more independent movies so they can get financed and tell our stories in the right way just as this film did. THE ENDING OF THIS FILM IS SO SICK THAT IT WILL BLOW YOUR MIND!!!!! THE ENTIRE THEATER WAS GOING CRAZY, CRAZY, CRAZY!!! WE WERE IN TOTAL AWE. SMH!!!

Thanks for the post and the great pictures.
Best regards,
Keisha H.

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