I found this pic of this seemingly macho black man on Ms. Wanda’s blog yesterday. To some of you, he may seem like the hunk of your dreams, who simply oozes sex appeal.

Unfortunately, this brotha likes the same thing you like.

Pop the hood to see why…

This is the dilemma faced by many sistas in Atlanta who meet brothas like this every weekend in the nightclubs. Yes, he looks good, ruggedly handsome with sexy lips — but he’s also as gay as Kanye and Adam Lambert.

Black women in Atlanta struggle mightily to separate the eligible men from the many queens who prowl the same nightclubs they do looking for the same men they are looking for.

For this reason the competition for straight men in Atlanta is very fierce, and the hopes of finding a straight one who isn’t married is dismal.