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She need to let the sucker go. Still wearing the ring make her look desperate. He already release a statement saying it’s over. This is so humiliating
I would still wear that ring too!
Sandra, what good could come out of this so called “stunt”? It definitely couldn’t be record sales, because who would rush out to buy a CD of a man caught cheating on his wife?
Tired of hearing about them and this sham of a marriage. Hello…. they have not been photgraphed together since she had the baby!
Good Morning
Nice Pic @ Yvonne .. You better WEEEEERRRRKKK it!
@Virtous … Why should she take off her ring? They are still married and divorce hasn’t been filed. I don’t think it makes her look any kind of way. If she does take it off, keep it in safekeeping Xtina cause we don’t know how the alimony & child support will play out.
Christina and Halle should hook up
@EBONY
“Christina and Halle should hook up ”
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“Chris-Berry”
That sounds delectable!
@Danielle – I don’t think its a stunt at all. I think he just said two tears & a bucket, f*** it and decided to parade the SC around. She was supporting his album and basking in new mommyhood, clearly living a different life. I think the SEPERATION came as NEWS to her. The Dream is known to like to keep something on the side. I would have preferred he not frolick in the BEACAH in PUBLIC with her like that. Men will cheat, that is a given, but he could have respectfully spared her this public humiliation.
Ehhh who cares?!
@Iyonah: Thanks hun!!!
@IYONAH
“Men will cheat, that is a given…”
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I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!
Nice ring!
She should have learned from Nivea…once you let a grizzly inseminate you he’s done.
But then again, I felt they were together for convenience…Dream is one of the few celebs I actually believe to be gay
iyonah says:
@Danielle – I don’t think its a stunt at all. I think he just said two tears & a bucket, f*** it and decided to parade the SC around. She was supporting his album and basking in new mommyhood, clearly living a different life. I think the SEPERATION came as NEWS to her. The Dream is known to like to keep something on the side. I would have preferred he not frolick in the BEACAH in PUBLIC with her like that. Men will cheat, that is a given, but he could have respectfully spared her this public humiliation.
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Truth of the matter, when it comes to celebrity divorces; very few indiviuals try to spare the other embarrassment and humiliation. Before the papers are even served to the spouse, one party has ALREADY moved on publicly. Sad but true. Personally, I don’t know if I would still rock a man’s ring after he filed for divorce. Never been in that position before. But I definitely can say that negro isn’t getting that ring back
@Iyonah I think it’s a stunt! The whole marriage is one big load of bull. I think he put out that statement to cover his tracks since he’s been photo’d out with various other women while his “wife” is at home with his child. And if he was actually cheating why would he be so public about it? Why haven’t they been seen together in months and they JUST got married? Too many things don’t add up…
@Iyonah “Men will cheat, that is a given”…
Not all men cheat…some do but not all
“The one who commits ADULTERY with a woman is lacking in understanding; he that does it DESTROYS HIS OWN SOUL.”
Proverbs 6:32
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@IYONAH
“Men will cheat, that is a given…”
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I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!
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@ MAN – It’s the truth anyhow.
Mamacita says:
@Iyonah “Men will cheat, that is a given”…
Not all men cheat…some do but not all
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I agree. I think a rare group of men will remain faithful. It is certainly not the majority. I just don’t know why they want to cheat when they can’t take the same.
@KAY CEI SOUL
“I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!”
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“It’s the truth anyhow. ”
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All men don’t cheat anymore than all women deserve to be cheated on.
“There goes my babyyy!”
Good Morning Fam..
once you let a grizzly inseminate you he’s done.
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@ Civil. Ugh…just the thought. He barely average in the face the build, and the voice. He gets a C+ for being talented.
@IYONAH
“I should have wrote ‘men like the Dream … not all men’, I didn’t intend to generalize, I do think some good loyal men exist on this Earth.”
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Thank you. I will accept this as an apology.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
All men don’t cheat anymore than all women deserve to be cheated on.
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I like that!!! – I don’t think it’s a stunt either. I do think they both knew it was over before the disrespectful beach pictures came out though!
Good morning fam
I think the marriage is fake anyway, so who cares
Yesss … CORRECTION … NOT all men do, but most will. Especially the corny ones who have $$ to add to what they offer as an individual seeking a relationship. I love the Dream’s music, and anybody that knows me, can vouch for that. HOWEVER, I do not like his handling of this or him and Nivea.
@Man … You know what you need to apologize about how you think in your head about that big girl, that is probably not really that big. You were talking about her as if people who are not aesthatically pleasing, don’t have the option to be seen in public. Why is she good enough to lay with but not be seen with outside? That post had to much going on for me, but I did want to ask you that
just curious…and someone may have the answer for me..
Is it tradition or custom ..when your separated or divorcing…you move you wedding ring to the ring finger on the other hand? or is that when you get engaged when its on the other hand?…
Women cheat too and probably just as much as men…women just don’t get caught…
@IYONAH
“You know what you need to apologize about how you think in your head about that big girl, that is probably not really that big. You were talking about her as if people who are not aesthatically pleasing, don’t have the option to be seen in public. Why is she good enough to lay with but not be seen with outside? That post had to much going on for me, but I did want to ask you that ”
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I know….
Wait, let me re-read this chit, to make sho’.
Yup…. you questioning my ethics and chit!
Ain’t YOU the same person that said a nigga wit a big belly is “undeserving of head” ….or some chit like that?
@MAMACITA
“Women cheat too and probably just as much as men…women just don’t get caught…”
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Yup. Probably MORE than men because we know more women are bisexual and they aren’t suspected of cheating.
Ace says:
just curious…and someone may have the answer for me..
Is it tradition or custom ..when your separated or divorcing…you move you wedding ring to the ring finger on the other hand? or is that when you get engaged when its on the other hand?…
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Now and days the engagement ring goes straigt on the ring finger. While seperated some women do change to the other hand while other may put it on a chain and wear it around their neck. There is really not a protocal, to each their own so to speak.
They had a Brandy Wedding #NOTREAL, and all men don’t cheat but some do, just as women cheat, some men don’t get caught just like some women don’t get caught.. You all know I must have some slow work days that I’m posting…LOL
Not ?’ng your ethics, I just want to know WHY YOU refuse to be seen with her in public, but its ok to do the do? Do you not care about how that might make her feel? Even if she doesn’t say its somehting that bothers her. And as long as you drive or have access to public trans, yall don’t have to go out in town And indeed, I stand by what I cosigned. I am not lifting a belly but we can def go out to eat I would not HIDE a big man if I was with one. But I am not risking my life underneath anyone’s GUT
@IYONAH
“Not ?’ng your ethics, I just want to know WHY YOU refuse to be seen with her in public, but its ok to do the do? Do you not care about how that might make her feel? Even if she doesn’t say its somehting that bothers her. And as long as you drive or have access to public trans, yall don’t have to go out in town And indeed, I stand by what I cosigned. I am not lifting a belly but we can def go out to eat I would not HIDE a big man if I was with one. But I am not risking my life underneath anyone’s GUT ”
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See, EVERYONE does a “risk/reward” assessment when making decisions. Even if it is subconcious.
For YOU, it was determined that the “risk” of “losing your life” beneath the gut of a fat man was not worth the “reward” of performing precious fellatio.
For ME, it was determined that the “risk” of “losing out on beautiful hoes” was not worth the “reward” of being seen in public with Jennifer Hudson’s twin.
I don’t see the difference.
I have to agree….I believe she found out by seeing the flicks and knowing that is his Assistant? He seems like an Opportunist @ best! He just tweeted not long ago, he was retiring. He goes with the moment. Its really too bad he leaves so many kids after the fact! He has 3 kids with Nivea (twins and a daughter) & He announced he did’nt want to be with her one day! Nivea FOUND out in a similiar fashion..SMH It really amazes me how these women think that “it’s something about them” that will make them do right! LMFAO!
Let’s all cop a squat and observe how Alicia & Swizzy fall down, down down!
(((((((KARMA)))))))))))))))))) <——–Shouting
@Man … SMDH … I presume we will disagree that its a difference. I don’t think the reward on missing out on other “hoes” is a fair comparison to not being able to breathe or see.
How did you meet this young lady and how long yall been ?
As an FYI I think Officer Ricky is CUTE … minus the kush smoke and alcohol, and don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.
I’m with the others on this. I don’t get how this would be an effective publicity stunt. Let’s just stretch this and say I was a Dream fan, I would be totally turned off and this would NOT make me want to buy anything Dream related.
Is this the intended or desired goal? If not, I just don’t get it. Someone please explain.
@artistman posting in multiple posts,lol.
Of course she is still wearing the ring. It didnt mean shyt to her to begin with. Just another piece of nice jewelry.
Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours……. :lolol:
@IYONAH
” SMDH … I presume we will disagree that its a difference. I don’t think the reward on missing out on other “hoes” is a fair comparison to not being able to breathe or see.
How did you meet this young lady and how long yall been ?
As an FYI I think Officer Ricky is CUTE … minus the kush smoke and alcohol, and don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.”
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Yes, there is a difference to the consequences of our “risks.” Yours was death, and mine was missed oppurtunity. But there is another difference in probability as well. It is extremely unlikey you would die performing fellatio on a overweight man while it is MORE likely for missed oppurtunity for me to be seen with the big girl.
I’ve known said Big’un for approximately ten years. I met her in college. We have only been messing around the past three years.
**I think you stand alone on your assessment of Rick Ross. **
Reedemed what is up with the scriptures? just curious. I saw you had a slew of them on another post. Has someone made you mad and you had to pull out your bible on them?
Yvonne I love your picture!! So beautiful!!!
@VIBABY
“Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours……. ”
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The “Home DNA Test” is going to ruin entire black communities!
@Iyonah “don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.”
Have you seen Officer Rickey?!? He has all of the above…if he doesn’t he will because he is DISGUSTINGLY overweight. The n he has the NERVE to walk around with no shirt on!!!!!
MAN says…”I’ve known said Big’un for approximately ten years. I met her in college. We have only been messing around the past three years.”
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And this chit keeps echoing…”I’ve known said Big’un, I’ve known said Big’un, I’ve known said Big’un…”
I never thought it was possible to absolutely love and hate someone at the very same moment. But MAN, you have just accomplished that baby boy. I am in tears laughing at my desk, sick as hell, coffee on my computer, you DIRRRTY THAANNNG! LOL!!! WHHHYYYY must you act upon your emotions daily? I can’t even say you’re wrong, because that is how you feel, AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO THAT, but your damn delivery is going to make me give up the ghost one of these good mornings…I SWEAR you sound like one of my brothers!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@VIBABY
“Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours……. ”
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The “Home DNA Test” is going to ruin entire black communities!
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Don’t the kits cost $20 and you have to mail the kit to the lab w/$120 for the results? Some will never know until they want a free trip to New York and a autograph of Maury.
Christina take the ring off.. You don’t have to sell your stuff on e-bay anymore. Everybody tried to tell you about that girl and you would not listen. Chalk this up as a bad business decision.
People keep talking about “just say no to shot gun or quick marriages” but will someone PLEASE tell me what that has to do with the price of tea in China? Meaning, that when it comes to love or relationships, there is NO, I will repeat NO rhyme or reason. Nothing is guaranteed to work
How many people do you know that have been together for a zillion years and their marriages end in, lies, deceit, infidelity, abuse or some other scandalous reason. Then on the flip, I know people that have dated for 3 month and are going on their 40th wedding anniversary. Now is that to say that they have the perfect marriage? No, but the point is that everything is about an individual and their particular character and integrity.
People keep making this about Christina and that she should have known better but in all actuality it’s about the Dream and his shady azz and his demons (whatever it is that he is hiding). If Chris was genuine in her love for him, it doesn’t matter whether they dated for a month or ten years, cheater, is a cheater, is a cheater.
w/Al-Ameera!!!!
You just made me pop in George Duke feat/ Rachelle Ferrell – “No Rhyme, No Reason”.
Jammin’ over here now!
@ANNA
“Don’t the kits cost $20 and you have to mail the kit to the lab w/$120 for the results? Some will never know until they want a free trip to New York and a autograph of Maury. ”
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I’m not sure how much they cost. I don’t have any (alleged) kids, but when that day come you best to believe Ima check into it. Ima be the dude with his picture on the box smilin and chit.
I think this is a case of swinging gone wrong. Maybe they did a threesome with ole girl, and it just got out hand.
@MAN I like Ross face .. #DJM … Actually it doesn’t matter if yall do. I think his voice tone is nice. If I met a man who looked similar to him, who had health issues and were working on them, he would at least get a date in a public place, to see if we had anything type of chemistry in conversation. So in 10 years, well the last three that yall been you have NEVER took her out on a date or even had the desire to do something other than have sex? You are truly one of a kind, never heard of that.
@mama … Yesh Officer Rickey has put on some more pounds and probably has all of the above. He comes across ignorant, but that does not mean he actually is not an intellectual behind closed doors. I believe in seeing people beyond the physical that’s the MAIN point of my inquiry with MAN.
@Al-Ameera … I KNOW I keep saying it because it’s one of the best #hashtags I have ever seen. And ummm I agree about your last paragraph on the Dream.
@GGOUCH: Thanks!
@IYONAH
Define “date.” I don’t think I’ve ever been anywhere in public with her in a “one on one” basis or at night.
Now, trust me, I do understand what you are saying as far as seeing MORE than just the physical. And I do that. If you just good looking with a great personality, I would give you an equal chance as a lady that is great looking with good personality. I like the full package and chit.
Technically she is still married, so I don’t see what the big deal is. I know women who wear rings on their “ring finger” and aren’t married. If she wants to continue to wear her ring, more power to her. For all we know, this whole “announcement” could be a publicity stunt as well. The Dream and drama go hand-in-hand.
I am so tired of Nightmare (dream). Scare Bear cant continue to around hurting women they way he does it will come back to him.
All men dont cheat most do. Men and women play games thats why the dating game is the way it is right now.
@Al I just feel that getting to know a person takes time and that can’t happen in a few months. And just because you’re in “love” at that moment doesn’t mean that you can be with them forever. Marriage is FOREVER and people should realize that before jumping into these marriages with people they barely even know. I’ve been talking to a guy for over a year now and I learn new things about him all the time. It takes time to learn somone and i’m sorry but when you rush and get married by the time the bad parts come out it’s too late!
@Iyonah “So in 10 years, well the last three that yall been you have NEVER took her out on a date or even had the desire to do something other than have sex? You are truly one of a kind, never heard of that.”
Obviously she doesn’t seem to have a problem with it
If she’s been in the situation for 3 years and hasn’t demanded anything more then that’s her fault. She’s still screwing him so clearly she doesn’t want one…
@MAMA … I think your right. “If she’s been in the situation for 3 years and hasn’t demanded anything more then that’s her fault. She’s still screwing him so clearly she doesn’t want one…”
@Man .. A traditional date, like you two choosing to do something together in the public as a means of spending time and engaging in dialogue and just @ Jhud twin …
I dont believe that just because you know someone for a long time that means your marriage will work out. A marriage must have the right ingredient no mater how long you have known each other. People can hide who they truly are for years. Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.
GM @iyonah
Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.
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Pardon my typos “matter” and “known”
“People keep talking about “just say no to shot gun or quick marriages” but will someone PLEASE tell me what that has to do with the price of tea in China”
Hey Al- *waves*
I def. say #notoshotgunweddings…first of all, because its usually someone else pressuring you to get married..just because you sleep with someone doesnt mean you want to marry them..
And motherhood is hard…I hear marriage is hard also so why throw those two “roles” together…Your statement also applies when comparing todays technology-filled, short-attn span having marriages to the marriages of yesteryear.
Anyway I agree that ” Nothing is guaranteed to work.”
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Having a solid foundation and not a foundation built upon rock mass is what will determine if a marriage will work or not….
Cmill saw how he treated Nivea so why should would make the same mistake she did not sure. The sign clearly read clear and present danger and she made the choice to continue.
@OTB.. GM waves
@IYONAH
“A traditional date, like you two choosing to do something together in the public as a means of spending time and engaging in dialogue and just :dea: @ Jhud twin …”
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Naw. She ain’t worth all that. Look, I’m just trying to and she down. I don’t see what the big problem is?
EVERYBODIES HAPPY!
If people changed their views of marriage from it being something that is disposable to viewing it as a lifetime commitment i think we would see more successful marriages.
Hey OTB, what you got on today?
Hey Mamacita! (I always call my friends that)
I am not promoting rush marriages but my point is it has nothing to do with time. Shady is shady. I think the more time you take getting to know someone makes the transition of two becoming one easier but he.ll I bore and raised my son for 17 years and sometimes he will do things and I think “I don’t even know this lil ninja”.
Same goes with mates. So let’s say Chris had dated him for 5 years before they got married, would that have made a difference? Mashonda said her and Swizz were together 6 or 8 years before they got married (which I didn’t know) and she said she NEVER expected this, she thought she knew him. Time frame really doesn’t matter.
People can hide who they truly are for years. Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. … Good Morning @Snooty I love the way you phrased the aformentioned. Relationships take effort that most don’t and won’t give all that is necessary to make it work. I know I didn’t and I regret it.
@MAN … Ok … enjoy your weekend and be safe. One last ? … all the and not one desire for something more ever in 3 years??? I don’t know young men, who just ladies for years and it be all about that, but I don’t know alot of people.
PARDON ANY AND ALL TYPOS – MY SUP IS ON THE PROWL
:lolol: @Al- A purple vintage 50’s dress ($7 bucks!), gold (muted) belt and same color strappy, wedge sandals.
Mashonda a doggone lie. Swiss had an “outside kid” on her! She knew exactly how he could be!
Time frame really does matter if you care about whether youre on your 1st or 3rd marriage, I guess.
I don’t think their marriage is real. They pulled a Brandy.Christina should have hired Brandy mom cause she would have kept a tight rope on Dream to make it look real. I need more wedding pics,marriage license or something.
Hey Al!
I completely understand what you’re saying and I agree that just because people are together for a long time doesn’t mean that it will last but the odds of it lasting are greater IMO. I agree with what @Snooty said ” Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.” How can you learn all these things if you don’t take the time to get to know someone? Everything starts great and fresh in a relationship but eventually the newness wears off and you see the person for who they really are. People are always on their best behavior when you first meet them but when they have you things change. You have to be able to determine if you’re able to deal with that person for the rest of your life and decisions like that shoulde be made wisely and carefully. Some people choose to ignore signs of a bad relationship for whatever reason but they are there. And there are some people who date for a few months and things work out but i’m sure it’s not a common occurrence.
A purple vintage 50’s dress ($7 bucks!), gold (muted) belt and same color strappy, wedge sandals.
@ OTB, girl tweet me a pic of that?
@IYONAH
“…all the and not one desire for something more ever in 3 years??? I don’t know young men, who just ladies for years and it be all about that…”
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Nope. Neva, not even for a second, wanted more. She cool people and all and we have good time together and chit but I have NO interest in any sort of a r’ship with her.
And I know a lot of people that have a long standing “arrangement” with someone else with neither side being interested in a r’ship. Maybe it’s a Louisiana thang or something.
Girl I love this dress! Hmmm. I dont have a twitter…
…you have an email addy? :lolol:
Okay lets break this down.
1st wedding – sept 2009
2nd wedding – dec 2009
birth of child – feb 2010
Now the dream releases this BS statement saying that they decided to separate late 2009. Dude your timing just clicking. And then he say they kept it to themselves cause they wanted to protect the child. You mean the child that wasn’t even here yet. Oh and jumping off with your assistant, having the pics plastered all over the net, and then leaving the child’s mother after you got busted really expresses your protective nature.
IMO. Dream was salty cuz Nivea was about to drop Wayne’s seed and Christina was his rebound. Maybe he felt like he one-up Nivea cuz he married Christina while Nivea is still clutching on to that fantasy with Wayne(ain’t going to happen though). Dream really should be ashamed for this. If he didn’t want to be with that girl there had to be a better way to go about it. He a low-life for this mess he got going on right here.
@Iyonah…. thank you….
@Mamacita.. You need time but the time needed is different for everyone because if the parties involved doesnt have chemistry you are doomed anyway because chemistry is not something you can work on you either have it or you dont…
I have been married before and I am not divorced.. We were married for 7yrs it was one sided I was all the way in 1000% he wasnt we waited awhile before we got married and I thought he was different and once we got married things changed…..
My questions is if you had a choice would you wanted to be respected or shown affection?
Pardonn my typos “now”
LIL is nor sexy neither is his money because he is attached to it….
Yuk mouth could be get me even if we were the last two people on earth…
“not”
OTB.. that outfit sounds really cute i love vintage clothing
@Snooty I never said there was a certain time frame they had to follow (i.e. 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, etc.) but time is definitely needed. All realtionships are different which means that the time it takes will be different but time to learn one another and grown is still a key factor and a few months just doesn’t seem like enough time to make a lifelong commitment that will alter your life in a drastic way IMO. But that’s what i believe and go by…
@Mamacita….. I didnt say that you did and I agree 6months is not long enough to say i want to spend the rest of my life with you. I was making a general statement about th time frame. I believe without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
Why is she not breastfeeding that baby? It is not like she has a job to go to!
Mamacita says:
without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
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And this is point I was trying to make. From reading the post one would think that Time showed his azz but no time didn’t do it Dream did.
Also, this is JMO, but I think oftime people know what they are dealing with very soon in a relationship. I think time just makes it easeier to deal with or walk away
I don’t know for sure if the Dream/Christina marriage scandal is a PR stunt or not but many in the entertainment world believe that any publicity is good publicity. If he said they’ve been seperated for months then he isn’t necessarily cheating on Christina. I was watching “The Daily 10” yesterday and this story was on there so many people who had never heard of him or her for that matter now do. Didn’t it come out that the whole Jay-Z is cheating with Rhianna story from a year or 2 ago was revealed as a PR stunt?
Blech. Formula.
Should have spent less time playing marriage and more time giving her baby what’s best.
She need to let the sucker go. Still wearing the ring make her look desperate. He already release a statement saying it’s over. This is so humiliating
I would still wear that ring too!
Sandra, what good could come out of this so called “stunt”? It definitely couldn’t be record sales, because who would rush out to buy a CD of a man caught cheating on his wife?
Tired of hearing about them and this sham of a marriage. Hello…. they have not been photgraphed together since she had the baby!
Good Morning
Nice Pic @ Yvonne .. You better WEEEEERRRRKKK it!
@Virtous … Why should she take off her ring? They are still married and divorce hasn’t been filed. I don’t think it makes her look any kind of way. If she does take it off, keep it in safekeeping Xtina cause we don’t know how the alimony & child support will play out.
Christina and Halle should hook up
@EBONY
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“Christina and Halle should hook up
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“Chris-Berry”
That sounds delectable!
@Danielle – I don’t think its a stunt at all. I think he just said two tears & a bucket, f*** it and decided to parade the SC around. She was supporting his album and basking in new mommyhood, clearly living a different life. I think the SEPERATION came as NEWS to her. The Dream is known to like to keep something on the side. I would have preferred he not frolick in the BEACAH in PUBLIC with her like that. Men will cheat, that is a given, but he could have respectfully spared her this public humiliation.
Ehhh who cares?!
@Iyonah: Thanks hun!!!
@IYONAH
“Men will cheat, that is a given…”
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I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!
Nice ring!
She should have learned from Nivea…once you let a grizzly inseminate you he’s done.
But then again, I felt they were together for convenience…Dream is one of the few celebs I actually believe to be gay
iyonah says:
@Danielle – I don’t think its a stunt at all. I think he just said two tears & a bucket, f*** it and decided to parade the SC around. She was supporting his album and basking in new mommyhood, clearly living a different life. I think the SEPERATION came as NEWS to her. The Dream is known to like to keep something on the side. I would have preferred he not frolick in the BEACAH in PUBLIC with her like that. Men will cheat, that is a given, but he could have respectfully spared her this public humiliation.
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Truth of the matter, when it comes to celebrity divorces; very few indiviuals try to spare the other embarrassment and humiliation. Before the papers are even served to the spouse, one party has ALREADY moved on publicly. Sad but true. Personally, I don’t know if I would still rock a man’s ring after he filed for divorce. Never been in that position before. But I definitely can say that negro isn’t getting that ring back
@Iyonah I think it’s a stunt! The whole marriage is one big load of bull. I think he put out that statement to cover his tracks since he’s been photo’d out with various other women while his “wife” is at home with his child. And if he was actually cheating why would he be so public about it? Why haven’t they been seen together in months and they JUST got married? Too many things don’t add up…
@Iyonah “Men will cheat, that is a given”…
Not all men cheat…some do but not all
“The one who commits ADULTERY with a woman is lacking in understanding; he that does it DESTROYS HIS OWN SOUL.”
Proverbs 6:32
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@IYONAH
“Men will cheat, that is a given…”
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I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!
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@ MAN – It’s the truth anyhow.
Mamacita says:
@Iyonah “Men will cheat, that is a given”…
Not all men cheat…some do but not all
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I agree. I think a rare group of men will remain faithful. It is certainly not the majority. I just don’t know why they want to cheat when they can’t take the same.
@KAY CEI SOUL
“I object to this statement!!! How repulsive! What an insult and contemptous statement to make that is pattently false and fallacious!
I demand an apology!”
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“It’s the truth anyhow.
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All men don’t cheat anymore than all women deserve to be cheated on.
Good Morning Fam..
once you let a grizzly inseminate you he’s done.
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@mama — Your right, but I think Christina is embarrassed that the most recent pics are that assistant. They should have said #Notoshotgunweddings © OTB when they learned she was prego and not marry for society. I do believe that is what happened and then Xtina tried to be a family lady, but Terrius is just not a family man.
@man — I should have wrote ‘men like the Dream … not all men’, I didn’t intend to generalize, I do think some good loyal men exist on this Earth.
@yvonne – I know that right, that ring will not be being returned
@IYONAH
“I should have wrote ‘men like the Dream … not all men’, I didn’t intend to generalize, I do think some good loyal men exist on this Earth.”
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Thank you. I will accept this as an apology.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
All men don’t cheat anymore than all women deserve to be cheated on.
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I like that!!! – I don’t think it’s a stunt either. I do think they both knew it was over before the disrespectful beach pictures came out though!
Good morning fam
I think the marriage is fake anyway, so who cares
Yesss … CORRECTION … NOT all men do, but most will. Especially the corny ones who have $$ to add to what they offer as an individual seeking a relationship. I love the Dream’s music, and anybody that knows me, can vouch for that. HOWEVER, I do not like his handling of this or him and Nivea.
@Man … You know what you need to apologize about how you think in your head about that big girl, that is probably not really that big. You were talking about her as if people who are not aesthatically pleasing, don’t have the option to be seen in public. Why is she good enough to lay with but not be seen with outside? That post had to much going on for me, but I did want to ask you that
just curious…and someone may have the answer for me..
Is it tradition or custom ..when your separated or divorcing…you move you wedding ring to the ring finger on the other hand? or is that when you get engaged when its on the other hand?…
Women cheat too and probably just as much as men…women just don’t get caught…
@IYONAH
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“You know what you need to apologize about how you think in your head about that big girl, that is probably not really that big. You were talking about her as if people who are not aesthatically pleasing, don’t have the option to be seen in public. Why is she good enough to lay with but not be seen with outside? That post had to much going on for me, but I did want to ask you that
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I know….
Wait, let me re-read this chit, to make sho’.
Yup…. you questioning my ethics and chit!
Ain’t YOU the same person that said a nigga wit a big belly is “undeserving of head” ….or some chit like that?
@MAMACITA
“Women cheat too and probably just as much as men…women just don’t get caught…”
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Yup. Probably MORE than men because we know more women are bisexual and they aren’t suspected of cheating.
Ace says:
just curious…and someone may have the answer for me..
Is it tradition or custom ..when your separated or divorcing…you move you wedding ring to the ring finger on the other hand? or is that when you get engaged when its on the other hand?…
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Now and days the engagement ring goes straigt on the ring finger. While seperated some women do change to the other hand while other may put it on a chain and wear it around their neck. There is really not a protocal, to each their own so to speak.
They had a Brandy Wedding #NOTREAL, and all men don’t cheat but some do, just as women cheat, some men don’t get caught just like some women don’t get caught.. You all know I must have some slow work days that I’m posting…LOL
Not ?’ng your ethics, I just want to know WHY YOU refuse to be seen with her in public, but its ok to do the do? Do you not care about how that might make her feel? Even if she doesn’t say its somehting that bothers her. And as long as you drive or have access to public trans, yall don’t have to go out in town
And indeed, I stand by what I cosigned. I am not lifting a belly but we can def go out to eat I would not HIDE a big man if I was with one. But I am not risking my life underneath anyone’s GUT 
@IYONAH
“Not ?’ng your ethics, I just want to know WHY YOU refuse to be seen with her in public, but its ok to do the do? Do you not care about how that might make her feel? Even if she doesn’t say its somehting that bothers her. And as long as you drive or have access to public trans, yall don’t have to go out in town And indeed, I stand by what I cosigned. I am not lifting a belly but we can def go out to eat I would not HIDE a big man if I was with one. But I am not risking my life underneath anyone’s GUT ”
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See, EVERYONE does a “risk/reward” assessment when making decisions. Even if it is subconcious.
For YOU, it was determined that the “risk” of “losing your life” beneath the gut of a fat man was not worth the “reward” of performing precious fellatio.
For ME, it was determined that the “risk” of “losing out on beautiful hoes” was not worth the “reward” of being seen in public with Jennifer Hudson’s twin.
I don’t see the difference.
I have to agree….I believe she found out by seeing the flicks and knowing that is his Assistant? He seems like an Opportunist @ best! He just tweeted not long ago, he was retiring. He goes with the moment. Its really too bad he leaves so many kids after the fact! He has 3 kids with Nivea (twins and a daughter) & He announced he did’nt want to be with her one day! Nivea FOUND out in a similiar fashion..SMH It really amazes me how these women think that “it’s something about them” that will make them do right! LMFAO!
Let’s all cop a squat and observe how Alicia & Swizzy fall down, down down!
(((((((KARMA)))))))))))))))))) <——–Shouting
@Man … SMDH … I presume we will disagree that its a difference. I don’t think the reward on missing out on other “hoes” is a fair comparison to not being able to breathe or see.
How did you meet this young lady and how long yall been
?
As an FYI I think Officer Ricky is CUTE … minus the kush smoke and alcohol, and don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.
I’m with the others on this. I don’t get how this would be an effective publicity stunt. Let’s just stretch this and say I was a Dream fan, I would be totally turned off and this would NOT make me want to buy anything Dream related.
Is this the intended or desired goal? If not, I just don’t get it. Someone please explain.
Of course she is still wearing the ring. It didnt mean shyt to her to begin with. Just another piece of nice jewelry.
Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours……. :lolol:
@IYONAH
” SMDH … I presume we will disagree that its a difference. I don’t think the reward on missing out on other “hoes” is a fair comparison to not being able to breathe or see.
How did you meet this young lady and how long yall been ?
As an FYI I think Officer Ricky is CUTE … minus the kush smoke and alcohol, and don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.”
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Yes, there is a difference to the consequences of our “risks.” Yours was death, and mine was missed oppurtunity. But there is another difference in probability as well. It is extremely unlikey you would die performing fellatio on a overweight man while it is MORE likely for missed oppurtunity for me to be seen with the big girl.
I’ve known said Big’un for approximately ten years. I met her in college. We have only been messing around the past three years.
**I think you stand alone on your assessment of Rick Ross.
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Reedemed what is up with the scriptures? just curious. I saw you had a slew of them on another post. Has someone made you mad and you had to pull out your bible on them?
Yvonne I love your picture!! So beautiful!!!
@VIBABY
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“Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours…….
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The “Home DNA Test” is going to ruin entire black communities!
@Iyonah “don’t think anyhting is wrong with a larger man, as long as he is actively working towards not having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc.”
MAN says…”I’ve known said Big’un for approximately ten years. I met her in college. We have only been messing around the past three years.”
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And this chit keeps echoing…”I’ve known said Big’un, I’ve known said Big’un, I’ve known said Big’un…”
I never thought it was possible to absolutely love and hate someone at the very same moment. But MAN, you have just accomplished that baby boy. I am in tears laughing at my desk, sick as hell, coffee on my computer, you DIRRRTY THAANNNG! LOL!!! WHHHYYYY must you act upon your emotions daily? I can’t even say you’re wrong, because that is how you feel, AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO THAT, but your damn delivery is going to make me give up the ghost one of these good mornings…I SWEAR you sound like one of my brothers!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@VIBABY
“Women cheat just as much as men if not more. Men tell lies, women tell bigger ones. Men lie about being at work. Women lie about the baby being yours……. ”
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The “Home DNA Test” is going to ruin entire black communities!
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Don’t the kits cost $20 and you have to mail the kit to the lab w/$120 for the results? Some will never know until they want a free trip to New York and a autograph of Maury.
Christina take the ring off.. You don’t have to sell your stuff on e-bay anymore. Everybody tried to tell you about that girl and you would not listen. Chalk this up as a bad business decision.
People keep talking about “just say no to shot gun or quick marriages” but will someone PLEASE tell me what that has to do with the price of tea in China? Meaning, that when it comes to love or relationships, there is NO, I will repeat NO rhyme or reason. Nothing is guaranteed to work
How many people do you know that have been together for a zillion years and their marriages end in, lies, deceit, infidelity, abuse or some other scandalous reason. Then on the flip, I know people that have dated for 3 month and are going on their 40th wedding anniversary. Now is that to say that they have the perfect marriage? No, but the point is that everything is about an individual and their particular character and integrity.
People keep making this about Christina and that she should have known better but in all actuality it’s about the Dream and his shady azz and his demons (whatever it is that he is hiding). If Chris was genuine in her love for him, it doesn’t matter whether they dated for a month or ten years, cheater, is a cheater, is a cheater.
You just made me pop in George Duke feat/ Rachelle Ferrell – “No Rhyme, No Reason”.
Jammin’ over here now!
@ANNA
“Don’t the kits cost $20 and you have to mail the kit to the lab w/$120 for the results? Some will never know until they want a free trip to New York and a autograph of Maury. ”
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I’m not sure how much they cost. I don’t have any (alleged) kids, but when that day come you best to believe Ima check into it. Ima be the dude with his picture on the box smilin and chit.
I think this is a case of swinging gone wrong. Maybe they did a threesome with ole girl, and it just got out hand.
@MAN I like Ross face .. #DJM … Actually it doesn’t matter if yall do. I think his voice tone is nice. If I met a man who looked similar to him, who had health issues and were working on them, he would at least get a date in a public place, to see if we had anything type of chemistry in conversation. So in 10 years, well the last three that yall been
you have NEVER took her out on a date or even had the desire to do something other than have sex? You are truly one of a kind, never heard of that.
@mama … Yesh Officer Rickey has put on some more pounds and probably has all of the above. He comes across ignorant, but that does not mean he actually is not an intellectual behind closed doors. I believe in seeing people beyond the physical that’s the MAIN point of my inquiry with MAN.
@Al-Ameera … I KNOW I keep saying it because it’s one of the best #hashtags I have ever seen. And ummm I agree about your last paragraph on the Dream.
@GGOUCH: Thanks!
@IYONAH
Define “date.” I don’t think I’ve ever been anywhere in public with her in a “one on one” basis or at night.
Now, trust me, I do understand what you are saying as far as seeing MORE than just the physical. And I do that. If you just good looking with a great personality, I would give you an equal chance as a lady that is great looking with good personality. I like the full package and chit.
Technically she is still married, so I don’t see what the big deal is. I know women who wear rings on their “ring finger” and aren’t married. If she wants to continue to wear her ring, more power to her. For all we know, this whole “announcement” could be a publicity stunt as well. The Dream and drama go hand-in-hand.
I am so tired of Nightmare (dream). Scare Bear cant continue to around hurting women they way he does it will come back to him.
All men dont cheat most do. Men and women play games thats why the dating game is the way it is right now.
@Al I just feel that getting to know a person takes time and that can’t happen in a few months. And just because you’re in “love” at that moment doesn’t mean that you can be with them forever. Marriage is FOREVER and people should realize that before jumping into these marriages with people they barely even know. I’ve been talking to a guy for over a year now and I learn new things about him all the time. It takes time to learn somone and i’m sorry but when you rush and get married by the time the bad parts come out it’s too late!
@Iyonah “So in 10 years, well the last three that yall been
you have NEVER took her out on a date or even had the desire to do something other than have sex? You are truly one of a kind, never heard of that.”
Obviously she doesn’t seem to have a problem with it
If she’s been in the situation for 3 years and hasn’t demanded anything more then that’s her fault. She’s still screwing him so clearly she doesn’t want one…
@MAMA … I think your right. “If she’s been in the situation for 3 years and hasn’t demanded anything more then that’s her fault. She’s still screwing him so clearly she doesn’t want one…”
@Man .. A traditional date, like you two choosing to do something together in the public as a means of spending time and engaging in dialogue and just
@ Jhud twin …
I dont believe that just because you know someone for a long time that means your marriage will work out. A marriage must have the right ingredient no mater how long you have known each other. People can hide who they truly are for years. Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.
GM @iyonah
Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.
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Pardon my typos “matter” and “known”
“People keep talking about “just say no to shot gun or quick marriages” but will someone PLEASE tell me what that has to do with the price of tea in China”
Hey Al- *waves*
I def. say #notoshotgunweddings…first of all, because its usually someone else pressuring you to get married..just because you sleep with someone doesnt mean you want to marry them..
And motherhood is hard…I hear marriage is hard also so why throw those two “roles” together…Your statement also applies when comparing todays technology-filled, short-attn span having marriages to the marriages of yesteryear.
Anyway I agree that ” Nothing is guaranteed to work.”
*back to
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Having a solid foundation and not a foundation built upon rock mass is what will determine if a marriage will work or not….
Cmill saw how he treated Nivea so why should would make the same mistake she did not sure. The sign clearly read clear and present danger and she made the choice to continue.
@OTB.. GM waves
@IYONAH
“A traditional date, like you two choosing to do something together in the public as a means of spending time and engaging in dialogue and just :dea: @ Jhud twin …”
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Naw. She ain’t worth all that. Look, I’m just trying to
and she down. I don’t see what the big problem is?
EVERYBODIES HAPPY!
If people changed their views of marriage from it being something that is disposable to viewing it as a lifetime commitment i think we would see more successful marriages.
Hey OTB, what you got on today?
Hey Mamacita! (I always call my friends that)
I am not promoting rush marriages but my point is it has nothing to do with time. Shady is shady. I think the more time you take getting to know someone makes the transition of two becoming one easier but he.ll I bore and raised my son for 17 years and sometimes he will do things and I think “I don’t even know this lil ninja”.
Same goes with mates. So let’s say Chris had dated him for 5 years before they got married, would that have made a difference? Mashonda said her and Swizz were together 6 or 8 years before they got married (which I didn’t know) and she said she NEVER expected this, she thought she knew him. Time frame really doesn’t matter.
People can hide who they truly are for years. Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving.
… Good Morning @Snooty I love the way you phrased the aformentioned. Relationships take effort that most don’t and won’t give all that is necessary to make it work. I know I didn’t and I regret it.
@MAN … Ok … enjoy your weekend and be safe. One last ? … all the
and not one desire for something more ever in 3 years??? I don’t know young men, who just 
ladies for years and it be all about that, but I don’t know alot of people. 
PARDON ANY AND ALL TYPOS – MY SUP IS ON THE PROWL
:lolol: @Al- A purple vintage 50’s dress ($7 bucks!), gold (muted) belt and same color strappy, wedge sandals.
Mashonda a doggone lie. Swiss had an “outside kid” on her! She knew exactly how he could be!
Time frame really does matter if you care about whether youre on your 1st or 3rd marriage, I guess.
I don’t think their marriage is real. They pulled a Brandy.Christina should have hired Brandy mom cause she would have kept a tight rope on Dream to make it look real. I need more wedding pics,marriage license or something.
Hey Al!
I completely understand what you’re saying and I agree that just because people are together for a long time doesn’t mean that it will last but the odds of it lasting are greater IMO. I agree with what @Snooty said ” Success of a marriage is based on how much the parties involved are willing to compromise, be respectful, loving, honest, 100% faithful, supportive, affectionate, trusting, self sacrificing, and giving. If you have those things it truly does not matter how long you know each other before you get married.” How can you learn all these things if you don’t take the time to get to know someone? Everything starts great and fresh in a relationship but eventually the newness wears off and you see the person for who they really are. People are always on their best behavior when you first meet them but when they have you things change. You have to be able to determine if you’re able to deal with that person for the rest of your life and decisions like that shoulde be made wisely and carefully. Some people choose to ignore signs of a bad relationship for whatever reason but they are there. And there are some people who date for a few months and things work out but i’m sure it’s not a common occurrence.
A purple vintage 50’s dress ($7 bucks!), gold (muted) belt and same color strappy, wedge sandals.
@ OTB, girl tweet me a pic of that?
@IYONAH
and not one desire for something more ever in 3 years??? I don’t know young men, who just ladies for years and it be all about that…”
“…all the
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Nope. Neva, not even for a second, wanted more. She cool people and all and we have good time together and chit but I have NO interest in any sort of a r’ship with her.
And I know a lot of people that have a long standing “arrangement” with someone else with neither side being interested in a r’ship.
Maybe it’s a Louisiana thang or something.
Girl I love this dress! Hmmm. I dont have a twitter…
…you have an email addy? :lolol:
Okay lets break this down.
1st wedding – sept 2009
2nd wedding – dec 2009
birth of child – feb 2010
Now the dream releases this BS statement saying that they decided to separate late 2009. Dude your timing just clicking. And then he say they kept it to themselves cause they wanted to protect the child. You mean the child that wasn’t even here yet. Oh and jumping off with your assistant, having the pics plastered all over the net, and then leaving the child’s mother after you got busted really expresses your protective nature.
IMO. Dream was salty cuz Nivea was about to drop Wayne’s seed
and Christina was his rebound. Maybe he felt like he one-up Nivea cuz he married Christina while Nivea is still clutching on to that fantasy with Wayne(ain’t going to happen though). Dream really should be ashamed for this. If he didn’t want to be with that girl there had to be a better way to go about it. He a low-life for this mess he got going on right here.
@Iyonah…. thank you….
@Mamacita.. You need time but the time needed is different for everyone because if the parties involved doesnt have chemistry you are doomed anyway because chemistry is not something you can work on you either have it or you dont…
I have been married before and I am not divorced.. We were married for 7yrs it was one sided I was all the way in 1000% he wasnt we waited awhile before we got married and I thought he was different and once we got married things changed…..
My questions is if you had a choice would you wanted to be respected or shown affection?
Pardonn my typos “now”
LIL is nor sexy neither is his money because he is attached to it….
Yuk mouth could be get me even if we were the last two people on earth…
“not”
OTB.. that outfit sounds really cute i love vintage clothing
@Snooty I never said there was a certain time frame they had to follow (i.e. 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, etc.) but time is definitely needed. All realtionships are different which means that the time it takes will be different but time to learn one another and grown is still a key factor and a few months just doesn’t seem like enough time to make a lifelong commitment that will alter your life in a drastic way IMO. But that’s what i believe and go by…
@Mamacita….. I didnt say that you did and I agree 6months is not long enough to say i want to spend the rest of my life with you. I was making a general statement about th time frame. I believe without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
Why is she not breastfeeding that baby? It is not like she has a job to go to!
Mamacita says:
without the right ingredients it will not work no matter how much time you invested before the I DO….
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And this is point I was trying to make. From reading the post one would think that Time showed his azz but no time didn’t do it Dream did.
Also, this is JMO, but I think oftime people know what they are dealing with very soon in a relationship. I think time just makes it easeier to deal with or walk away
I don’t know for sure if the Dream/Christina marriage scandal is a PR stunt or not but many in the entertainment world believe that any publicity is good publicity. If he said they’ve been seperated for months then he isn’t necessarily cheating on Christina. I was watching “The Daily 10” yesterday and this story was on there so many people who had never heard of him or her for that matter now do. Didn’t it come out that the whole Jay-Z is cheating with Rhianna story from a year or 2 ago was revealed as a PR stunt?
Blech. Formula.
Should have spent less time playing marriage and more time giving her baby what’s best.