Twitter FAIL: Tameka Foster Throws Shade at Kandi Burruss

Glad some of yawl putting out the truth on here today. I’ve been warning several young men I mentor to use EXTREME caution before even thinking about making the average female out here today a wife.

These posts are proof positive. Any man worth his weight, would be foolish to hitch his yolk to a whore. Most talking about how they reformed and what not. I don’t know one “previous” loose woman, who does not have mental issues. Many of these broads been straight ran through and most spend the rest of their lives lying to their husband (if lucky enough to snag one) about who they really are. Who wants to live like that?

A and the couple of you who aren’t hoe’s, don’t be fooled into walking down the ho road by these skanks…One thing I know about females is, misery absolutely LOVES company. I’ve seen many a skank friend, or even some mothers sabotage a womans situation with a good man by encouraging them to engage in compromising behavior.

Many to the point of ridicule towards the woman who chooses not to be a skank whore. I’ve seen it, that peer pressure to be a slut is something else, then once you all ruined like them, they happy!

Plus on this Kandi Burris, I knew there had to be more to the story on her. The dude she was engaged to seemed to be an alright cat but on the real, as fine and with that smile and great personality that Kandi has, I often wondered how come no well to do Brother down there snapped her up….but alas the light is shone on what the matter truly may be.

Ladies and females, the truth is, most men do NOT want a woman who is a ho, freak, or any of the other crap that’s been promoted to be popular the past 20-30 years. This is a primary reason marriage rates are bottomed out…Like it or not, there is a double standard and men don’t want a woman that’s been beat to the point she needs vaginal reconditioning…

@Carrington…You’ve made some excellent points and it’s refreshing to see that inspite of the environment you came up in you have a totally different approach at this point.

Unfortunately, the overwhelming majority of Black boys are being raised by and exposed to negativity towards women by women themselves now-a-day’s, not men.

Again, it’s a sad reality. So many young boys grow up seeing their very own mothers behave at their worst. Those are these idiots you see out here today killing they ‘baby mommas’ and even their own children (or her’s). These dudes have like ZERO sense of what it means to be a M-A-N or to protect women and children. Why? Because most were raised in these ho-like environments where moms was banging everything she could bringing all manner of men into the home. Boys growing up seeing this have almost no chance of respecting women. If you don’t / aren’t capable of respecting your own father or mother, then you more than likly will not repspect your spouse / SO…

While there is some connection between what you state and ho-ism, on the whole how a boy is raised has little to do with why many females today choose to engage in hoe behavior. It’s a conscious choice on the females part and like I said earlier, I’m not saying they can’t, shoot, hoe and spread it around all you want, I just don’t like how you see miles and miles of books, tv shows, movies and what not of these SAME females spouting off about how they can’t find any good men willing to marry them…

@Carrington…Yes Fathers not being present is a no brainer in the discussion concerning not only the issues we have with Black men/boy’s today, but also the issues concerning women as well.

The debates are numerous and well worn. We, at this point, should all be in agreement that the “I don’t need no man” mantra has been a glaring failure concerning the majority of children “raised” in most of these environments. (NOTE: Most not all, before some yall get to typing)…

@SneakyBrown…Bitter?!? Where I come off as such? I even stated that so far as I’m concerned females who make the choice to live their lives in this fashion, more power to um’!

How’s that bitter? See I get where your thought process comes from, where one believes they can do whatevea then have people accept it. Well alls I’m saying is, some will and many won’t.

My main point was to help decent Brothers steer clear of females who live like this, for a multitude of reasons and to express to the females that if this is how they choose to carry, don’t get all poetic about the world when they find themselves 45 and manless…That’s all I’m saying, not complicated math…

@SneakyBrown….Sorry if it sounds “bitter”, but there’s an old saying that goes something like; sometimes the worse tasting medicine is the best for you.

Many times when someone drops hard reality on folks who’d rather stay ignorant to the realities of these chosen behaviors, they cringe and recoil at the words and thoughts as they are foreign to their everyday ways of life and thinking.

This stuff aint complicated. People conducting all kinds of Town Halls, studies and CNN “Specials” to try and figure out all this kind of crap.

Talk to a real (and I emphasize REAL) old school Brother or Sister and they laugh at how dumb most Blacks behave today. And they’ll tell you, from the lowest amongst us all the way up to the Oprah’s and whatnot. Most Black people stay on stuck and doing wayy dumb stuff and DEMANDING that no one judges them and everyone accepts them and their behavior.

You don’t, they consider it an attack. And they well should. Thinking Black men AND ESPECIALLY women who know full well what many of these people are walking into should be instructing and leading by EXAMPLE!

All this “oh, I’m a freak” talk where you here “ladies” actually proclaiming this stuff in a boastful fashion is flat out sad.

What you stated is another HUGE problem within the Black community. “You don’t have to worry about what the next person is doing”….Ha, I’ve never heard a Jewish person, Mexican, Eastern European, African, Jamaican, none of them utter such crap. They ALL care and do their best to impose STANDARDS within their communities.

We have bought hook line and sinker into some of the most damaging moral positions imaginable, and see the evidence all around us, it’s tangible, yet we still hold on to these proven flawed idologies.

We should be talking about hoes, dead beat “dads”, gutter bums, on the job haters, ANY Black people who’s behavior is detrimental to the collective progression of Black people. Now, if we ever CHOOSE to get back to thinking and behaving in this fashion, we won’t have to “keep talking about them.”

These people, this behavior, these mentalities have reaked havoc on the very fibers of the Black family thus the Black community…