Many are wondering why prolific breeder Lil Wayne hasn’t knocked up his most recent girlfriend yet. Weezy has spawned at least 4 children (that we know of) with as many women. But his current girlfriend, Dhea, is not pregnant yet. (Though she could be pregnant and we don’t know it). Wayne and Dhea sat courtside in L.A.’s Staples Center to watch the Lakers defeat the Miami Heat.
Dhea was wearing a sizable rock on her ring finger. Lil Wayne caused a stir on Twitter.com on New Year’s day when he tweeted a photo of that same 10-carat diamond ring. He later tweeted “She said yes.” But Weezy clarified that he was not engaged to Dhea, who holds the honor of being seen in public with Wayne more than his baby mamas.
We can speculate all day on why Dhea isn’t pregnant yet. Is it because Lil Wayne respects her more because she held out longer? Or maybe she is submissive and his baby mamas are not?
Let’s be honest, being submissive to a man requires a woman to surrender her power to him. Most women in our community aren’t ready to do that. It appears that Dhea is just such a woman who is willing to give up her power to Lil Wayne — in return for Louis Vuitton bags and a rock the size of Gibraltar.
Besides that, it take a special kind of woman to date a man who carries a miniature toy skateboard in his back pocket.
in 2 months she will be
Why isn’t Dhea pregnant? I’ve been wrong all this time and there actually is a God?
Both of these hoes look like they stank. NEXT
We can speculate all day on why Dhea isn’t pregnant yet. Is it because Lil Wayne respects her more because she held out longer? Or maybe she is submissive and his baby mamas are not?
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Ok Sandra.
Well what’s taking her so damn long…Im pregnant and all I had to do was read this post
Edomites…
..and the dumb negroes that trust them. SMH^10
I’m convinced Wayne got a monster.
#JimJonessyndrome
Lmaoooooooooooooo @Gouch
I dnt find Dayyyyyy-0 *breaks into routine from Beetlejuice* attractive at ALL….
What happened to that woman who said her grandchild was his kid? I could have sworn that was his child too making it 5 kids. I’m probably wrong though, I try not to keep up with gremlins and their spawn.
baby mama number 8 right???
Sandra, what is wrong with you?
Come to Jesus, Sandy (with Whitney’s I Want To Run To You playing in the background).
Hi guys just wanted to see if my gravi changed backed to lurking
This chick has a “hard” looking face kinda manly chit I need to put my freak um dress on and get wife’d up by a baller
We can speculate all day on why Dhea isn’t pregnant yet. Is it because Lil Wayne respects her more because she held out longer? Or maybe she is submissive and his baby mamas are not?
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its b/c she ILL NOT a quitter.
I cant stand him :rollseyes:
I been wondering why she isn’t knocked up yet? Dhea might have a bigger vision than just to be his baby momma. Them other chicks cashed out early.
Eh, ole girl alright
:blow: somebody learnd how to…
Ummm iono, maybe she believes in a little something called Birth Control
Or, maybe she doesn’t let the Gremlin hit raw…
Why isn’t Dhea pregnant yet? Maybe she’s allergic to baby gut-itis like BeYaki?
But Weezy clarified that he was not engaged to Dhea, who holds the honor of being seen in public with Wayne
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Honor?
Seems like a curse to me.
Who ya’ll think that the cleaner mouth? NeNe or Lil Wayne?
Floral print? Really? I think Arnold’s baby momma is HER momma.
I have a confession to make. I was chosen to be one of the three women to be Beyonce’s surrogates. But it was decided my daughter could not pass as their biological child, so I got dropped but I got a hellafied commission. That is all.
Wayne a laker fan… So I’m going to be nice
@ Bad Influence how long have you been back
Tatted yout hair is so pretty and healthly looking
she looks a lil amy winehouse to me….
the skateboard tho….
ryand91 says:
I have a confession to make. I was chosen to be one of the three women to be Beyonce’s surrogates. But it was decided my daughter could not pass as their biological child, so I got dropped but I got a hellafied commission. That is all.
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And then you woke up looking straight at Fan-Flintstone’s crushed blue velvet curtains, didn’t you?
@Fe, that btch was wrking at Hooters…shes letting Lil Spook’chi hit that raw….her semi cross-eyed looking ass is wrking on setting up her future…
Ummm…Wayne is by NO MEANS a gift/present/honor/anthing that would make a person term its counterpart “lucky.”
Not a bit. Dhea can keep that. But also, Dhea seems to have some White in her. These white bishes know how to hit their mark! I keep telling my Black friends, they need to get up on game! Naw, most Black chicks settle for dikk, bubblegum, and daycare.
White bishes live by the motto: “Fukk niggas, get money.” Like seriouosly….. that’s their creed and it works.
Why they both look homeless?
So allowing your “man” to impregnate other women while you forced to hang out with his other incubators ISNT being submissive??
I say keep doing whatchu doing girl. Even though I suspect his man juice prolly taste like a mix of cough syrup and tattoo ink.
Wayne is such a wannabe. He tries too hard to be cool, but people go for it, so whatever.
@Detective
I literally just laid my head on my desk after looking at your gravi. I fukkin give up. **Throws in towel**
I scrolled back up to look at the dress. Why does it look like a dress Kelly Kapowski (Saved by the Bell) used to wear on the show?
Dhea isn’t pregnant yet
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Give her 7 more minutes.
@ GAGirl
Why thank you mama! That’s that Whipfinity…I TELL YA!
@His
How the fukk was she working at Hooter’s with those AAA cups? Don’t they have a size requirement you have to meet to work there?
Detective Iheart says:
Why they both look homeless?
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Now, that sht is funny, Iheart. Keep up the good work.
@ Pryn :2dance: <— REALLY DHEA'S POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST
@Bad Influence
Iono, some chicks don’t walk around with the mentality that a baby is a meal ticket, and maybe she actually CARES about the way her offspring may come out looking…
i wonder how his daddy Baby feels about all this public flaunting..
<— HATES IHEART!
My eyes cant take no mooooooooooooooooooooo
RIP: Pillow-pet (9/11 – 01/12) says:
Detective Iheart says:
Why they both look homeless?
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Now, that sht is funny, Iheart. Keep up the good work.
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But I lubs you Tatted :hugs:
I’m so tired of the “submissive” speech. Folks have not a clue what that sh*t really means in its context. And then you get azzholes like these no-good negroes out here and jerkwads like Polow the Doughnut running around talking about how Black women dont know how to be submissive.
I just had an argument about this sh*t with Mister last night. And for once I’ma say what I’ve always thought:
“If your bish won’t submit, it’s because your azz isn’t ACTING/LEADING like a fukking KING!!!!”
Look in the muthafukking mirror! Sh*t!
Maybe Reginae had a little talk with her and said: if she even thought about producing one more light skinned looking for a slice of her inheritance something bad was gonna happen to her.
Being the oldest…the thuggy hasn’t been completely dilutted out of her just yet.
Skateboard is the new sexy, Sandy. Remember that hon. Ask any white girl.
@Sassy
Girl, Hooters got rid of that requirement YEARS ago… All you gotta do is be cute and small…my cousin used to work there and her titties are so small they are almost concave! But she’s beautiful and has a nice thin shape…
But why tho @ ChocD
@ Sassy……Nope! I’ve walked into a couple of Hooters and thought, “I’d make a KILLING in this bish!”
@Sassy, she was wrking at one of them franchise restaurants…
I order some Whip on Fri…how long does it take 2 ship?
I’m so tired of the “submissive” speech. Folks have not a clue what that sh*t really means in its context. And then you get azzholes like these no-good negroes out here and jerkwads like Polow the Doughnut running around talking about how Black women dont know how to be submissive.
I just had an argument about this sh*t with Mister last night. And for once I’ma say what I’ve always thought:
“If your bish won’t submit, it’s because your azz isn’t ACTING/LEADING like a fukking KING!!!!”
Look in the muthafukking mirror! Sh*t!
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What’s this rumor about Marvin Sapp and Imani?
Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
Polow the Doughnut
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lady_cn says:
I scrolled back up to look at the dress. Why does it look like a dress Kelly Kapowski (Saved by the Bell) used to wear on the show?
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LMAO cuz you damn sho right. Like where in the hell she get that 80s dress from?? SMH
@ Breniqua – Which eyes???
@Dimpz/Fefe
Oh. Well damn. Color me “outta the loop.” I thought they still has cup-size requirements.
@ Iheart – I
you too! 
@Sassy
“If your bish won’t submit, it’s because your azz isn’t ACTING/LEADING like a fukking KING!!!!”
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This is TRUTH! My husband and I were talking about this as well and even he agrees that the man is supposed to EARN the submission…a woman CANNOT submit to a man who is not handling his fcking business…..
@Sassy, WORD!
FeFe says:
@Sassy
Girl, Hooters got rid of that requirement YEARS ago… All you gotta do is be cute and small…my cousin used to work there and her titties are so small they are almost concave! But she’s beautiful and has a nice thin shape…
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Damn, not concave!
I remember the days when a woman had to look like Pilar Sanders and that one beautiful brown skinned model with pretty eyes (forgot her name…Kenya I think) to date a celebrity…these girls just look run thru now . But Wayne is def one she can have
@ Sass/Fe…You don’t even have to be small at some of the ones i’ve seen here either. I think our standards are a bit low here though.
POLOW was kinda cute before he got his Michelen Man on.
Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
I’m so tired of the “submissive” speech. Folks have not a clue what that sh*t really means in its context. And then you get azzholes like these no-good negroes out here and jerkwads like Polow the Doughnut running around talking about how Black women dont know how to be submissive.
I just had an argument about this sh*t with Mister last night. And for once I’ma say what I’ve always thought:
“If your bish won’t submit, it’s because your azz isn’t ACTING/LEADING like a fukking KING!!!!”
Look in the muthafukking mirror! Sh*t!
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GIRLLLL you betta say that SH!T!! Niccas be WEAK and think somebody supposed to follow they slowbus asses. #wheretheydothatat LMAO
Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
I’m so tired of the “submissive” speech. Folks have not a clue what that sh*t really means in its context. And then you get azzholes like these no-good negroes out here and jerkwads like Polow the Doughnut running around talking about how Black women dont know how to be submissive.
I just had an argument about this sh*t with Mister last night. And for once I’ma say what I’ve always thought:
“If your bish won’t submit, it’s because your azz isn’t ACTING/LEADING like a fukking KING!!!!”
Look in the muthafukking mirror! Sh*t!
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Oh, no. Not this “submit” sht again. That’s like telling somebody: Bark, bytch! Bark!
The only people who should submit are pets, underage children, and prisoners (who submit daily).
Otherwise, this word is almost exclusively used only as it pertains to WOMEN.
The bible was written in the stone-aged days, when men own EVERYTHING, including the women and children. A woman could be stoned to death at will, or simply turned out to starve on condition of her master/father/husband/brother/uncles/grandfather.
If you are grown, you have already been raised, and should not be “submitting” to anybody—-unless you are a hoe, a fool, or both.
You can agree with people or compromise with them, but unless you are a pet, a prisoner, a hoe, or a fool, you should not be “submitting” to anyone.
KDub says:
I say keep doing whatchu doing girl. Even though I suspect his man juice prolly taste like a mix of cough syrup and tattoo ink.
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@ Breniqua – You should’ve known!
Besides that, it take a special kind of woman to date a man who carries a miniature toy skateboard in his back pocket
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It’s a cellphone case, you know he’s style icon
@lady_cn
Girl her titties look like MICE titties….
And she’s had 4 children and NONE of them have contributed to her rack size!
Dhea is a model. Kudos to her for not trying to ride of lil wayne fame and make a name for herself. She seems to really like him. I hope it works out #thats all Ive got
ooooh, and maybe she swallowed the baby
£ the commenter formally known as Hershey says:
Besides that, it take a special kind of woman to date a man who carries a miniature toy skateboard in his back pocket
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It’s a cellphone case, you know he’s style icon
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She must be in full submission……
<—-may have HER own definition of submission
@Fefe
We were having a long drawn out argument about that sh*t last night. Folks always wanna get biblical about that “submit to your husbands” sh*t, and I had to remind his azz that 1) We ain’t fukking married yet & 2) I’ll stop having a dikk when his stands up tall enough for both of us.
I cannot stand that quoting that one fukkin verse, while ignoring the pure sh*t out of the other versus talking about how “wives” shouldnt have to work on sh*t but theri husbands and childrens, how they should be the protectors, and how wives hands should never touch “dirt” (or some other word they used.)
If I’m taking out the muthafukking trash….bish, it’s a fukking problem! You ain’t on your job! Why I gotta ASK your azz to meet me at the door to help with the groceries? Your azz knew I went to the market, why the fukk aint you meet me in the parking lot to help? Why the fukk I gotta refill my own windshield wiper fluid? Wtf ain’t YOU doing that, KING?!
Uggghhh!!! *falls-out*
<— FORGOT WAYNE TATTED EVERY PART OF HIS BODY…INCLUDING HIS KNEECAPS!
Good Hair is playing as background noise in my room right now and I’m cracking up at Chris Rock trying to sell the trashbag of black hair..
Submitting can be defined MANY ways, but my husband KNOWS who he’s married to and at the end of the do I do what the fck I WANT! But I respect his role as the leader in our marriage and I have enough experience in mind control to stroke his ego and roll my eyes as I walk away…he’s left feeling all big with his chest puffed out, I get to reap the benefits of his delusions…tis all…
I’ll talk to yall in a couple of hours. We just all received an email about certain people not pulling their weight lately. Uuugh guess I have to earn my pay for awhile to throw the suspicion on these other hoes.
@CD
@Bad Influence, I hated Good Hair, Chris made it seem like black women are the only women who wear weaves. And he did allllll those interviews with black celebrities that wear weaves. Why didn’t he interview his wife and her lacefront?
@WCC says:
ooooh, and maybe she swallowed the baby
Hands down the funniest afterthought I’ve seen in a minute lol
@Sassy
CHURCH! At your #79
I tell my husband all the time that it would be nice if every once in a while he checked my oil for me, put some air in my tires, or filled my gas tank up without asking…took the trash out without it overflowing, and swept the leaves out the garage without a reminder… it’s the LITTLE shyt that they can do that will keep a woman bringing that plate of food and drawing that bath water and riding that dyck on a regular basis…
@Sassy!
Hey Tatted
Genia says:
Well what’s taking her so damn long…Im pregnant and all I had to do was read this post
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I’m cracking up at Chris Rock trying to sell the trashbag of black hair..
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“NOOOOOOOBODY wants nukka hair”
@His
‘Good Hair’ was intended for comedic kicks, but the shyt was SO off base and inaccurate about black women as a whole that I really get annoyed attempting to watch it again…I don’t like it when we are represented in an inaccurate way and I learned that other people have a false perception when I heard a white man say that Chris Rock said to never take a black woman to the beach….
Plus his wife wears so much weave that shyt looks like drapery on her head!
No way, I’m going to draw some grown man’s bath for him. If he’s sick, maybe. Do I need to wipe your azz for you too?
I don’t believe in babying people. Neither do I bring my husband a plate. I fix dinner and set the table, brang yo azz to it.
We are partners. We both work to make things happen. He is a modern day man that wants a woman that came with her own: education, bank, ride, and space. That’s what he got.
Binki
HEEEY BOO! How are you?
Binki says:
@WCC says:
ooooh, and maybe she swallowed the baby
Hands down the funniest afterthought I’ve seen in a minute lol
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ryand91 says:
@Bad Influence, I hated Good Hair, Chris made it seem like black women are the only women who wear weaves. And he did allllll those interviews with black celebrities that wear weaves. Why didn’t he interview his wife and her lacefront
I never actually watched it…im more laughing than gathering info lol….the ish is funny tho..
@Pillow-Pet
Ok, good for you….
Are you married?
funny how honey aint sweet like sugar..and shyt sweet niggas on the coner like hookas
let Tunch light one pass it like a relay
FeFe says:
@Pillow-Pet
Ok, good for you….
Are you married?
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Absolutely.
DOES SUBMISSIVE EQUAL-DEAF, DUMB,BLIND & PASSIVE
OR DOES IT MEANS YOU ARE EXCELLENT AT HANDLING MEN WITH FRAGILE EGOS??
I’M CONVINCED AFTER WATCHING LAMAR SPAZ OUT ON KHLOE LAST NIGHT TALKING ABOUT HE FELT EMASCULATED BECAUSE SHE CHECKED TO SEE IF THEY HAD GIVEN HIM HIS LUNCH AND REMINDED HIM OF AN APPOINTMENT
THAT IT’S THE LATTER
I STAN FOR KHLOE AND LAMAR ALL DAY, BUT HE’S A DUNCE!!!
IF IT HAD BEEN A MAN/MANAGER DOING THE SAME, THEY WOULD HAVE JUST BEEN DOING THEIR JOB
IT’S APPARANT TO ME THAT SOME MEN’S MASCULINITY AND EGO ARE SO FRAGILE, BY THE MERE INPRESSION THAT SOMEONE IS “CONTROLLING” THAT THEY BECOME IRATE & ANGRY & DISRESPECTFUL
HATS OFF TO WOMEN LIKE THIS, IT TAKES A SPECIAL KIND OF WOMAN & A PAIR OF COTTON GLOVES TO DEAL WITH THEIR FRAGILE EGOS
KUDOS!!!
@Fefe
Exactly! I bought that up too! You see my tires need air, handle that sh*t, don’t just tell me. nugga! You hear my fukking brakes squeaking- take that sh*t in to get it fixed!
Little fukking things that men are missing when they don’t grow up in a house with other gentlemen who can teach them! Cause Lord knows…. my grandmama, mama & mariied aunts never pulled out their own chair! Up until 2 years ago, my mom had no clue that her oil needed to be changed every 3k miles because either her man or one of my uncles had took care of that for her up until then.
They never mowed grass, cut hedges or did any fukking outside work until their husbands died or got divorced, but these new men, are fukking confused! Want to be treated like fukking “Gods among mere mortals” but couldn’t lead a dog to a damn fire hydrant.
I shouldn’t have to teach this sh*t! I shouldnt! I’m frustrated!
@Bad, if you’re looking at it from a comedic POV it’s pretty damn funny. But a lot of people (read white people) who took the information at face value and ran with it.
@Tatted I’m good love just doing my normal every two week pop in
how u been?
@Fe, it seems to me that this movie was based on facts from women who are bout this drastic weave life….it dnt pertain to all but i know I could relate to 1 or 2 things that i have heard…it doesnt define me as a whole but im entertained….its not bothering me
probably wouldnt watch it again tho…i wouldnt have been watching now if i knew where i put my remote…
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
DOES SUBMISSIVE EQUAL-DEAF, DUMB,BLIND & PASSIVE
OR DOES IT MEANS YOU ARE EXCELLENT AT HANDLING MEN WITH FRAGILE EGOS??
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Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
@Fefe
Exactly! I bought that up too! You see my tires need air, handle that sh*t, don’t just tell me. nugga! You hear my fukking brakes squeaking- take that sh*t in to get it fixed!
Little fukking things that men are missing when they don’t grow up in a house with other gentlemen who can teach them! Cause Lord knows…. my grandmama, mama & mariied aunts never pulled out their own chair! Up until 2 years ago, my mom had no clue that her oil needed to be changed every 3k miles because either her man or one of my uncles had took care of that for her up until then.
They never mowed grass, cut hedges or did any fukking outside work until their husbands died or got divorced, but these new men, are fukking confused! Want to be treated like fukking “Gods among mere mortals” but couldn’t lead a dog to a damn fire hydrant.
I shouldn’t have to teach this sh*t! I shouldnt! I’m frustrated!
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You’re supposed to agree to what you’re going to do around the house. If he’s not around to do it, you learn to maintain it yourself.
Like I never wanted a man who didn’t know how to cook and clean. I was taught that that makes the marriage and work load harder for the woman, and this is true.
I never wanted a infantile man. I never thought that sht was cute, because what is cute to you is actually more work, disappointment, and heart-break.
I tell all young girls to look for and marry a man who is a help to you in this life. Not a limping little boy.
@Pillow
Good for you and you rman. Whatever works. I have no problem drawing baths for a dude if he’s on his j-o-b like they paying overtime at 3.5 the rate.
I’ll draws baths, rub backs, fix plates and sukk dikk like I attended a Karrine Steffans training class IF you are on your job. Otherwise….get it how you live.
You must have a VERY understanding husband cause I’d be damned if my partner couldn’t even fix me a fukking plate and bring it sometimes.
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
DOES SUBMISSIVE EQUAL-DEAF, DUMB,BLIND & PASSIVE
OR DOES IT MEANS YOU ARE EXCELLENT AT HANDLING MEN WITH FRAGILE EGOS??
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AMEN!! submissive does not mean think, speak or do on my behalf because you are a man and I am a woman. Submissive means submitting to the clear designed rolls of a man and a woman..
@His
It is, and I know the movie DOES have some truth in regards to SOME women…
But like ryand91 said, other folks don’t know how to laugh and move on, like they are STILL so busy trying to understand us as women/people that they don’t know how to decipher comedy from reality. I just don’t like to be misrepresented…I love going to the beach and I have NO PROBLEM getting my hair wet…
@ Binki – Well, I’m glad to see you cutie pie! Your gravi is GORG! Ummm, i’ve been better, but I’m okay!
Maybe cause she understands how birth control works? Or maybe cause he finally realized how expensive child support is when you’re paying it x 4? Or maybe he realized you can’t be an effective parent to 4 kids by 4 different women so he’s practicing safe sex now?
RIP: Pillow-pet (9/11 – 01/12) says:
No way, I’m going to draw some grown man’s bath for him. If he’s sick, maybe. Do I need to wipe your azz for you too?
I don’t believe in babying people. Neither do I bring my husband a plate. I fix dinner and set the table, brang yo azz to it.
We are partners. We both work to make things happen. He is a modern day man that wants a woman that came with her own: education, bank, ride, and space. That’s what he got
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If a man is on something…you know, like on DRUGS, and he spews his seed into a woman will the baby have issues??I know if the mother is on drugs then if the baby even survives for 9 months it will come out f’d up.just asking because lil wayne is clearly on drugs,bad.
@Pillow-Pet
I think Sassy and I BOTH are agreeing that a man does not deserve these actions unless he is on his job…my husband is FAR from a limping little boy, but sometimes his dumb ass does need a fcking reminder or two…no offense to the men in the room, but that’s a MAN for you…once the reminder sets in, the balance is back, and I have absolutely NO problem fixing a plate for him or stroking his ego…men are definitely the WEAKER species in many aspects, and they need ego stroking…
@Pillow
I don’t give a fukk about doing stuff around the house, it’s the outside house stuff that I should’nt do.
There’s categories: manual & domestic.
Cleaning bathrooms = domestic.
Taking out trash to dumpster = maunal.
Fixing food = domestic.
Anything dealing with car upkeep = manual.
I just don’t want to do both. And unfortunately, most (Black) men have gotten so used to these super-independent women (and admittedly, I am one), that they think they don’t have to do certain sh*t cause we got it.
NO- I am super-independent because I HAVE to be, not because I WANT to be and that sh*t is a big fukking difference. If somebody came along that did a lot of this sh*t for me and was very dependable, I could be wayyy less independent and still be happy.
I shouldn’t have to have a dikk and a coochie too. I only want one.
I hate these fukn phones
You must have a VERY understanding husband cause I’d be damned if my partner couldn’t even fix me a fukking plate and bring it sometimes.
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I didn’t say that I’ve never brought him a plate. It’s just not the rule of thumb. Like I stated above, I prepare my table, so bring your azz to it.
It’s like what Mrs. Huxtable said to Sondra’s fiance: I serve Mr. Huxtable because he serves me.
No, I do not draw no bath for no grown man. No, I do not. Unless he is sick, or he specifically requested such—I don’t act as my husband’s slave. I am his partner. Whatever he does for me, I do for him. But I work just as hard as he does. His achievements are my achievements.
@Fe, i know! what is this “we dnt wet our hair shit” ?? i never ran into these issues..
and what is “weave sex” ? thats a new one..
@TIFan, I have a cousin who has never touched drugs before in her life but her baby daddy was a crackhead and their daughter had some serious birth defects.
Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
@Pillow
I don’t give a fukk about doing stuff around the house, it’s the outside house stuff that I should’nt do.
There’s categories: manual & domestic.
Cleaning bathrooms = domestic.
Taking out trash to dumpster = maunal.
Fixing food = domestic.
Anything dealing with car upkeep = manual.
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Sassy, ya’ll was supposed to have this discussion before you set up housekeeping.
It has nothing with you being “independent.” Are you partners or adversaries?
@Pillow-Pet
Ion do none of that stuff unless my husband asks me as well (with the exception of fixing his plate, sometimes I’ll know he’s tired and I’ll offer)…I’m not a robot who just does shyt without request….but if he asks me to run his bath water or iron his clothes I will do so…if he doesn’t, then it’s up to him to do that shyt….I think we are saying the same thing…
I have to say, I have never ran a bath for mines either…he’s been locked in for 11 years so i guess he’s cool with it…
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FeFe says:
@Pillow-Pet
Ion do none of that stuff unless my husband asks me as well (with the exception of fixing his plate, sometimes I’ll know he’s tired and I’ll offer)…I’m not a robot who just does shyt without request….but if he asks me to run his bath water or iron his clothes I will do so…if he doesn’t, then it’s up to him to do that shyt….I think we are saying the same thing…
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I think we are.
@Pillow
Either this dude gotta start taking trash out and fukking witht he cars or he’s hiring me a maid. I’m NOT doing it all and still having to ride dikk every night. Nope sorry.
Point. Blank. Period.
I iron for my bew tho!
Heyyyyy folks
And if I request for him to rub my feet or let me sit on his face, he happily obliges as well….
@His
I hate ironing. Despise it with a passion. I rarely ever iron my own clothes. Tumble-dry game be on 110!
Mister doesn’t like baths, but I run his shower for him sometimes, especially if I just got out and I know he’s getting in.
Sassy! Muthaf**king, Sassy! says:
@Pillow
We’re setting up housekeeping now- that’s what the fukk the argument was about!
Either this dude gotta start taking trash out and fukking witht he cars or he’s hiring me a maid. I’m NOT doing it all and still having to ride dikk every night. Nope sorry.
Point. Blank. Period
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Well, “somebody” believes that the woman is supposed to take care of the home, and his only role is to “show-up.”
He’s treating you like his mama. I wouldn’t put up with it.
:hugs: @Mirs
@TI I believe that it can cause problems but I’ve been told by more than a few drs that there is no proof that it will and it’s unlikely. But from personal experience (not medically proven) yes and it can cause health problems for the women as well (outside if your standard std risk)
I assume she is not preggers because she doesn’t want any kids right now. Maybe she wants marraige first. Not evenone is a common jumpoff.
@Fe, i guess its when a bish stays on top to avoid fuggin up her waeve…these hoes fuggin with the wrong dack! my weave is the last thing i care about during… *shudders*
lemme see when he goes on break…
@Fefe
One thing I cannot complain about- I have a thing for foot/leg rubs. Mister be going to WORK on my feet/legs! I think I can orgasm from it if I concentrated hard enough.
I almost did when Ming Lao gave me a foot massage at my new favorite nail spa. Them bishes in there be finna have me give them ALL my money and take em out to dinner after they done with my feet/legs. *eyes roll in back of head*
Heyyyy Sass & FeFe
@Sassy
My husband came from a “Huxtable-like” household, but his mom spoiled him rotten. His daddy was a strong alpha male, but his mom still treated him like the “baby-brother” and sometimes he forgets that he’s a 30 year old man who ain’t at home with mommy anymore…I give him that reminder and shyt gets back in order QUICK….
@Sass, i hate ironing too! I NEVER have 2 iron my clothes but the kid and his daddy arent a smart as i *takes a bow*
MiniThug!!!
@His
@Pillow
Good. You shouldn’t.
And he’s treating me the way he’s used to treating everybody else. The probblem is his mom was single parent most of his life, so he has no clue what role men should play around a house. You have to teach him. He things he’s doing his job by paying bills and buying me whatever I ask for and being nice when I bish out…. (and he is), but there are just a few small aspects that he needs to be taught.
He’s a man, but he’s NOT a gentleman and I don’t think anybody has ever tried to teach him the difference.
@Sass
Girl I think I could orgasm from a massage too! I have an appointment for one this week and I CANNOT wait!
One thing I can say about a certain someone, is that if his azz got off work early, the dinner and housework was done.
#fugginbastid
When you add that cream to black coffeee it becomes weak….
Heyyy Bad!!!!
@Fefe
Mine’s is not from anything like a Huxtable household. His papa was a rolling stone that he saw a bit often but never in a household role, just on a “daddy’s visiting to take me to the baseball game” role. He knows a man is supposed to take care of household and all things monetary, but he has no idea what to fukking DO in a household.
I asked this negro to help me fold washclothes one day cause I had a whole basket of them and I was running late, the look on his face, he didn’t know what to do. He dunno how to tie a trash bag. I’ll never let him attempt to wash dishes again and he fuks up laundry so bad that now he just gets all his clothes dry-cleaned. Down to his drawers.
He had no guidance on simple maintaining-house rules. None. I dunno WTF his mama did with him.
It’s the oldest’s bday and he wants toe see The Lorax. Ion want to see that sht. There is nothing else that I want to see while they watch it. Should I just grin and bear it? *sigh*
Unpredictable says:
One thing I can say about a certain someone, is that if his azz got off work early, the dinner and housework was done.
#fugginbastid
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That’s a beautiful thing. Takes the place of cards, candy, and sht.
Anybody that can help me out is a winner. This is the real love.
@Yso
I wanted to see the Lorax this wkend too but folks laughed at me when I told them. 
Haters.
@Mirs
Yours prolly knows how to clean. Mine cant clean worth a damn!! And I’m okay with that- I like my sh*t cleaned a certain way (I have MINOR-league OCD), but it’s the outside sh*t I don’t wanna have to tackle.
Iaint fukkin wit no cars, sir.
YSoSrs says:
It’s the oldest’s bday and he wants toe see The Lorax. Ion want to see that sht. There is nothing else that I want to see while they watch it. Should I just grin and bear it? *sigh*
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Ima Slave cause my man he pins me against the wall like
this and finish me 
YSoSrs says:
It’s the oldest’s bday and he wants toe see The Lorax. Ion want to see that sht. There is nothing else that I want to see while they watch it. Should I just grin and bear it? *sigh*
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@Sassy
Oh yeah, he’s gonna have to be trained… :hugs: to you…
My husband will do the dishes, take out the trash, fold clothes, cook (sometimes) and even does the yard-work. But he’s blind, deaf, and dumb when it comes to cleaning up after himself, cleaning the bathrooms, mopping, dusting, etc. Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem doing the latter, but if I’m SICK or something is wrong with me, he needs to STEP UP…and we had a real problem with him letting shyt just go by the wayside recently when I had a health issue and was down for like 3 weeks. I keep telling him that when we have children he can’t be absentee like that if something gets thrown off normal schedule or order. Another thing is when he gets sick he wants to be treated like a baby, but doesn’t really do the same for moi…those are things that I have to constantly keep up with him about…
RIP: Pillow-pet (9/11 – 01/12) says:
Unpredictable says:
One thing I can say about a certain someone, is that if his azz got off work early, the dinner and housework was done.
#fugginbastid
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That’s a beautiful thing. Takes the place of cards, candy, and sht.
Anybody that can help me out is a winner. This is the real love.
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He was good with chit like that, but the absolute worst when it came to a lot other things. SMH #fuggindyckwad
Yso Lorax was surprisingly good. I took the kids this weekend and was planning on napping through it but it was good enough to keep me awake
@SASSY
I have nothing against these types of movies, I just don’t want to see this one in particular. When I took them to see Cars 2, I sat with my music on.
But it’s not about me; it’s his bday. I just feel it’s a waste of a ticket. And they want to see the 3D version. I can’t do that with my glasses.
Is ‘Lorax’ another “Who” themed movie?
I keep telling him that when we have children he can’t be absentee like that if something gets thrown off normal schedule or order.
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Exactly. This is why my folks taught me to look for a man and not a boy. Who is going to take care of you and the daily requirements if you are sick or something.
I hate grown people who can do nothing for themselves. And many men expect women to be that independent super woman, because it benefits THEM. I’ll be damned if I get tied to a n’er do well. Phugg that sht.
:hugs: @OGMOMMY
I know, and I will. I just like complaining sometimes. How you been?
Cant stay away
I’m additcted
@FEFE
It’s Dr Seuss but not “Who”.
@CD – You got issues and I
it
Sassy there were more adults than kids in the show when we went. I was surprised and Yso they need to make 3d glasses that clip on or something
filmmakers don’t care about people with glasses
@YSo
Oh ok….
@CD
Girl, don’t get fired over SR…
@Pillow-Pet
Defective – You have issues as well
@Ebesite – LOVE THE NEW PIC
:hug
@MS E
Nobody loves us four-eyed folk. It’s a damn conspiracy.
@Cali
And I lubbs u back boo
@Fe
:roflL
Nawl I’m going to space it out with my posting unless we get a gnarly post from Sandra
@FeFe –
I’ll holla at Ya’ll in a little bit,,,got me working for this dollar.
@ CD, I love your new gravi
Yso –
you too!
I just take mine off though and sit in the handicapped seats up front so I can see the screen and then leave with a headache every time
:hugs: @CALI
Why are they trying to make an Aliyah album???
So what I misses so far?
@MS E
I already have a headache.
@Fefe
He never gets sick, just I do sometimes and he’s good on (trying) to make me soup and bringing me liquids and refilling my humidifier.
However, I am worried about if we have kids. He’ll fukk around and have our kids walking out the house hair a mess and in their pajamas (if they ask) cause he couldn’t find their brush/combs.
I am sometime weary of having kids with him because he hasn’t been around a lot of kids/babies in his life and he’s VISIBLY nervous when theyre around.
He won’t hold babies and if he does, he looks petrified if they cry or make a strange face and he wants to give the baby to somebody else. That concerns me.
Genia says:
Well what’s taking her so damn long…Im pregnant and all I had to do was read this post
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LMAO!
Very interesting discussion ladies! Loved it!
@Sassy
Girl, that’s the thing that kills me about mine…he really wants children BAD! But it’s like, look here dude…you gotta actually TAKE CARE of shyt when they get here…in addition to watching, looking after the children, you have to also maintain their ENVIRONMENT beyond just paying bills!
Ebestie
Thank you!
So…am I the only one that noticed her ring?
LMAO @ Genia!!! Dhea looks like the “clingy” type with a mix of young-&-dumb. Lil Wayne will be tired of her as soon as some new eye-candy hit the scene (Rosa O.) Also this Dhea, she got that lazy look, not a very polished chick either. I had to guess, she looks very pregnant in this photo. They both make a gorgeous grimy couple.
Dhea held out, and got that ring….the baby will be next, just watch!
She aint even PHAT #tisall