Two weeks after a DeKalb County police officer’s wife was brutally assaulted and robbed outside their home, he was arrested for obstruction while a search warrant was being executed on his girlfriend’s residence.
According to the Atlanta Journal Constitution, the unidentified wife of DeKalb Police Sgt. Jerry Banks was enjoying an evening out with a friend on May 13. She called Banks around 2 a.m. to tell him she was on her way home after dropping her friend off.
At 3 a.m. the couple’s daughter remembered leaving the garage door open and went to close it. She alerted her father that her mother’s car was in the driveway.
Banks, who was at home with his daughter and her boyfriend, said he followed a trail of blood from the garage to the spot on the front lawn where his wife lay critically injured. She was transported to Grady hospital where she remained in intensive care on Monday.
The 3 occupants inside the home say they heard nothing outside, according to police reports.
Police do not consider Banks a suspect in his wife’s attack — despite the fact that he was taken into custody on Friday for being “boisterous” and “disobedient” when he was ordered to leave his girlfriend’s home.
According to the AJC, Dekalb detectives went to the Lithonia home of Cherise McMoore, 33, who made terroristic threats to a woman who lived nearby.
Police say McMoore waved a chrome handgun at the woman last Tuesday and threatened to “Whoop” her a**. A search warrant was issued for McMoore’s home on Friday (probably in connection with the attack on Banks’s wife).
Banks and McMoore soon arrived at the home, and Banks attempted to “willfully obstruct or hinder … a law enforcement officer in the lawful discharge of the officer’s official duties,” according to the warrant for his arrest.
Banks, a nearly 14-year veteran with DeKalb police, and McMoore were taken into custody at her home.
Police said Banks, whose wife remains hospitalized, “refused to comply with verbal commands to leave the property while a search warrant was being executed on his girlfriend’s residence.”
According to the AJC, Banks was released early Friday evening on a $500 bond. McMoore was released Monday on $3,500 bond.
Banks has been placed on paid administrative leave pending the resolution of his criminal case, DeKalb police spokeswoman Mekka Parish told the AJC.
According to the AJC, jail and court records show Banks was arrested in 1997 on simple and family battery allegations, but the charges were dismissed.
McMoore was previously arrested for trespassing and theft by taking.
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Both of thems *side eye*
Let me read this fluckery……
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused…
……………………………
I read it & i’m still confused
Finshed reading. Yes this was complete fluckery, some BS you just can’t makeup. SMDH
@Flawless
Yeah, it all just sounds so jumbled and tangled…
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused…
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Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
OK SO THE WIFIE GOT BEAT UP BY THE GF THEN THEY WENT AND SEARCH THE GF HOUSE AND THE HUSSBAND AND GF WERE NOT COMPLIANT??
HELP!
Please tell me That big boy ain’t no cop!
@Sandra
You have no idea how ironic your comment is to me right now!
^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece
…this story does sound quite confusing though, 
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
OK SO THE WIFIE GOT BEAT UP BY THE GF THEN THEY WENT AND SEARCH THE GF HOUSE AND THE HUSSBAND AND GF WERE NOT COMPLIANT??
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Police are not saying the girlfriend beat up the wife. Police are also not saying the officer had anything to do with his wife’s attack.
@Sandra – Some women don’t look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don’t search cell phones, do drive bys….
Hey yea I know him, Jerry Jerry jerry, there is more to this
her cousin had a different story. hmp. well im out for today
oh I forgot to say Morning 
That’s why I’m single,nobody wants to be faithful
DownBottom says:
^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece
________________
Sandra Rose says:
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused…
_______________
Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
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Sorry, Im still confused
Usual Suspect says:
@Sandra – Some women don’t look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don’t search cell phones, do drive bys….
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Shole the fukk don’t….if he IS doing something he can have FUN! B/C I’m truly not concerned!
@ Lovezoe I thought it was Keith Traylor (former NFL player). There is no way that dude is chasing anybody down in a foot chase.
I’m all kinds of lost and confused as well
Usual Suspect says:
@Sandra – Some women don’t look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don’t search cell phones, do drive bys….
________________
That’s exactly the way it should be. It sounds like those women just accept the simple fact that men cheat. They are pre-wired to cheat from the womb. Just accept it.
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
______________________
But i am oh so mad that he let this trick interfere with his job!
when are ppl gonna learn tho??
@DownBottom
Yeah, I’m not understanding how dough boy up there is slayin’ pussy left and right…
WOW
THIS SHAIT CRAY!! 
Flawless says:
That’s why I’m single,nobody wants to be faithful
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Few and far between but they are some.
Don’t feel that way, some men are faithful
jeniefrumdabloc says:
Auntie, long as the fool keep it so I can’t find out, or bring that mess to my house. I do agree if a man keeps his ho3s in the street where they belong and never ever bring that mess home he is a good one. A real man will never let trashy women destroy a marriage to good woman.
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Excellent points! A good man will never bring that mess home to his wife. He will do everything in his power to keep his mess in the streets, and not let it affect his home.
@Down & FeFe but do you see the pussy he’s slaying though…it fits
DownBottom says:
^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece
…this story does sound quite confusing though, 
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Slimpickens in ATL right now, some women will accept almost anything.
me personally would much rather be single, and stay focused on my daughter and education, after that I plan to move to Canada 
@Sandra
I swear you need to expand your state of mind…
off the record Dekalb county have officers in all kinda activites, including _____________________, yep that too. I know a whole heap of them dudes. but yean hear it from me. and
out forreal 
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_____________________________________
Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
@Naija
I guess you have a point…but dayum!
Yaya- them D cups alone would get in the way
Uncle Ruckuss’ wife is beat up in her driveway. Unrelated, cops are called to uncle Ruckuss’ GIRLFRIEND’S house after she threatens some other lady with her gun. Cops arrive at the GF’S house and uncle Ruckuss tries to obstruct justice by not allowing the cops to search his GF’S home. Uncle Ruckuss is suspended from his cop job
NaijaGal says:
I’m all kinds of lost and confused as well
__________________
The first paragraph of the post sums it all up very clearly. An officer’s wife was assaulted and 2 weeks later the officer was arrested for obstructing the search of his girlfriend’s home. What are you confused about?
Angiegirl says:
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_____________________________________
Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
____________

Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
Usual Suspects says:
Don’t feel that way, some men are faithful Few and far between but they are some.
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I hope to find that in between
Shole the fukk don’t….if he IS doing something he can have FUN! B/C I’m truly not concerned!
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_________________
if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong.
Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
Hell my head hurts.. I sit in the
and wait til we change the subject…. 
Am I close?
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused
__________________
yea me too….
Ummmm, so he stanning for the girlfriend and she look like dat, what the hell do the wife look like that he left her for dat?
Sandra Rose says:
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused…
_______________
Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
^^^^^^^^^^
This right here is the realest thing I have read today!!!
I don’t think all men cheat. Just 99% do.
@Fayla
I mean I’m not concerned to the point where I’m gonna be looking and/or searching for some shyt…if he’s doing something it will come out eventually….if not, well then even better…
gbellab says:
Uncle Ruckuss’ wife is beat up in her driveway. Unrelated, cops are called to uncle Ruckuss’ GIRLFRIEND’S house after she threatens some other lady with her gun. Cops arrive at the GF’S house and uncle Ruckuss tries to obstruct justice by not allowing the cops to search his GF’S home. Uncle Ruckuss is suspended from his cop job
____________________
I’m all kinds of confused…
……………………………
I read it & i’m still confused
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
HA! I thought I was the ony one. I went back, read it again and was still confused
if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong.
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NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_____________
No your not wrong, the thing is a good man , welp lets just say you will never ever know he is cheating…. <- — this kinda of man, straps up, keeps it clean, will never disclose personal info to his ho#s, will let the trash know up front, the ground rules…..and they don't cheat often.
That is when things get messy, and a real man knows this he keeps the cheating to a minimum, but unfortunately most men get greedy, and slip up. My dad tells me this all time 80% of what the average ninja tells ya is a damn lie, and if it sound like a lie it is. Now if your man is honest majority of the time consider him definitely above the average 
Angiegirl says:
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_____________________________________
Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
__________
Pretty much….What is confusing is that that they both look like bears.
Sandra Rose says:
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_________________
if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong
_____________________________
Well damn
Im wrong at hello then…
Sandra Thanks for letting me know I cant be right at all?
FeFe Feminine says:
@Fayla
I mean I’m not concerned to the point where I’m gonna be looking and/or searching for some shyt…if he’s doing something it will come out eventually….if not, well then even better…
Phew! girl i thought u was slippin on yo pimpin right quick shewwwt!
Damn shame some men prefer quantity over quality….
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
It’s not a fairy-tale, it’s the truth…ALL men don’t cheat…cheating has NOTHING to do with gender IMO and EVERYTHING to do with either opportunity and/or self-control. I have known quite a few guys that are faithful..but ppl still look at like seeing white unicorns 
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WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:
Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass … So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
__________________
Right! Except that wifey got beat TWO WEEKS AGO by an UNKNOWN assailant, and wifey is still in the hospital. I think we all know who the assailant is. But this is Atlanta where cops are very slow to arrest the criminals and quick to arrest the innocent.
Hey what happened to my gravatar
Usual Suspect says:
Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
__________
Pretty much….What is confusing is that that they both look like bears
________________
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
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I used to believe that until a few months ago…
Angiegirl says:
Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
________________________________________________
Yep thats pretty much it
@Fayla
Neva that girl!
crazy. just crazy. am I the only one who feels cops should be in much better shape?
CALI!!
sup luv??
jeniefrumdabloc says:
welp lets just say you will never ever know he is cheating…. <- — this kinda of man, straps up, keeps it clean, will never disclose personal info to his ho#s, will let the trash know up front, the ground rules…..and they don't cheat often. ___________________ You're right: they don't cheat often because they tend to have longterm relationships with just one jumpoff.
And for the record, I do NOT believe that all men cheat…I believe that PEOPLE (men AND women) go through times in their lives where they may not be ready for whatever…but when they are ready, when it is right, they are faithful…
@Sandra,
I’m so confused! Was the wife’s boyfriend living in the house as well? If so, why didn’t she call HIM to say that she was on her way and more importantly, WHY in the hail is the boyfriend living in the home with her husband? Foes the husband live with HUD girlfriend too? Please help me understand?
Dude is freaking huge, this don’t look like the photo they have been showing on the news….. that shot they showed on the news must have been when he first joined the police force, cause this right here is straight up embarrassment, aint no well in hell he, chasing no one
Usual
@Sandra,
I’m so confused! Was the wife’s boyfriend living in the house as well? If so, why didn’t she call HIM to say that she was on her way and more importantly, WHY in the hail is the boyfriend living in the home with her husband? Does the husband live with his girlfriend too? Please help me understand?
Damn auto correct……
This fat fukk right here though
I think people are just all kinds of confussed because of the way the husband/boyfriend Looks
@DANIELLE
“Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
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I used to believe that until a few months ago…
____________________________
Not all men cheat.

Please elaborate on what made you change your viewpoint.
It’s called discretion – Most men and some women don’ know the meaning of the word. If you have the balls to cheat, pick and choose carefully. Decades ago, men that cheated only did so with women in other towns or with women that wouldn’t dare call their home. Now these days…All bets are off.
Men will screw their neighbor, wife’s mother, sister and cousin. The women involved are just as guility. Why would a woman date a married man in the first place?
Cause he tells you he’s unhappy? GTFO If he’s all that wait until he’s divorced. #carryon
Gotta love the optimism here
pointhimout says:
crazy. just crazy. am I the only one who feels cops should be in much better shape?
you are not! only thing he’s chasing are fast food workers who didn’t get his order right. he prolly breaks out in a sweat walking from his police car to a perp’s car he pulled over 
do better ATL popo!
Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
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I’m curious auntie,what is your definition of cheating?
Did Man say not all men cheat????? :confused:
@Fayla and Naija

Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick
if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Usual Suspect says:
It’s called discretion – Most men and some women don’ know the meaning of the word. If you have the balls to cheat, pick and choose carefully. Decades ago, men that cheated only did so with women in other towns or with women that wouldn’t dare call their home. Now these days…All bets are off.
Men will screw their neighbor, wife’s mother, sister and cousin. The women involved are just as guility. Why would a woman date a married man in the first place?
Cause he tells you he’s unhappy? GTFO If he’s all that wait until he’s divorced. #carryon
____________________________
Agreed, folks have gotten sloppy with the cheating
FeFe Feminine says:
And for the record, I do NOT believe that all men cheat…I believe that PEOPLE (men AND women) go through times in their lives where they may not be ready for whatever…but when they are ready, when it is right, they are faithful…
yup. i actually think women cheat just as much as men. we’re just smarter about not getting caught
women tend to think of all the scenarios to have an excuse for ANY question they may be asked. men don’t seem to think stuff out all the way through.
Sandra Rose says:
FeFe Feminine says:
I’m all kinds of confused…
_______________
Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
_____________________________________________________________________
Sandra, so are you saying women don’t cheat?
@Bibi
He has a crush on Danielle…don’t believe the hype…
FeFe ,Fayla ,GiGi, Naija, luVn_liFe, Usual, Msfashion, Bibi
@Man
Hey!! I’d rather not lol. My statement is pretty self explanatory
:hugs: @GAGIRL
@Fayla
I agree 100%
GAGIRL87 says:
Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick
if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GAGIRL87 says:
Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick
if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
____________________
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_________________________________________________________________________
No … All men don’t cheat … Don’t believe the bullchit
I agree with you Usual, dudes and females nowadays are straight freaking RECKLESS!! Side bytch coming to the wife’s house and telling him how she freaked her husband and all of that. Just a shame
My thing is this: If you ain’t happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.
Its one thing when we’re dating or in a relationship cuz you can walk away and start over (in a sense no legal obligations). Its a whole nother thing when we are married. If you can’t see yourself with one person, then be honest with the person. That is all.
@Fefe
Ahh makes sense now..
Fayla come here
pessimism is easy because it requires little effort
and not all men cheat
when that woman comes along that changes things for him
he will be as loyal as they come
Banks and McMoore
Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
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GAGuhl!
bewski what it dewski??
Rihanna definitely has a type.
Sources tell us that the “We Found Love” singer has found another tattooed bad boy to stoke her considerable passion: New York Knick J.R. Smith
Fact of the matter is folks full of chit..wanna have cake and eat it too..a man given the chance will most likely take it. Offer a married man some and see how quickly his I would never becomes well maybe….
I Go There says:
pessimism is easy because it requires little effort
and not all men cheat
when that woman comes along that changes things for him
he will be as loyal as they come
______________________________________________________________________
Gigi26 says:
My thing is this: If you ain’t happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.
the fact of the matter men aren’t built like that these days. Weak AF!!!! Man up, and keep it real if you ready to get ghost 
______________________
Some men are cowards
JMO says:
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_________________________________________________________________________
No … All men don’t cheat … Don’t believe the bullchit
_________________________________________________________
See this is one of the reasons why I get scared
If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
so that also means to me that she’s not gonna give me the best of her…
Fk that shait
@Gigi – Yeah, I don’t play that cheating shiat. Ask my first husband.
Before I left our marital home, our 4 year old was like why are you in our bedroom.
I will share: Laptop, a magazine, half a soda, food, dessert. NO SHARING OF PENIS
There’s too much to loose with random Dyck and Pus. STD/HIV/Bullet to brain….I’m good. If you feel you need to cheat. KEEP IT MOVING #bye
GAGirl
shoe diva what it be like
*side note* Just saw Nas’ video for Daughters…that man is just too fine…oh and the message was on point
both of them are hard on the eyes, I hope the wife makes a full recovery
Its one thing when we’re dating or in a relationship cuz you can walk away and start over (in a sense no legal obligations). Its a whole nother thing when we are married. If you can’t see yourself with one person, then be honest with the person. That is all.
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You PREACH GAGIRL!!!
These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.
#teamnoaidsandherp
#teamcleantopnotchpunani
@Throb
I concur
CC
I’ve always hated the phrase ‘have your cake and eat it too’…isn’t that what you’re supposed to do with cake…eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe
I Go There says:
pessimism is easy because it requires little effort
and not all men cheat

when that woman comes along that changes things for him
he will be as loyal as they come
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jeniefrumdabloc says:
GAGIRL87 says:
Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
____________________
Damn right, has never been the sharing type even with my food. You want some of fries Nah boo Let me order you some fries of your own….. I can’t stand folks dipping they hand in my cookie jar
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That’s the LEO in us
I Go There says:
JMO says:
NaijaGal says:
Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
_________________________________________________________________________
No … All men don’t cheat … Don’t believe the bullchit
_________________________________________________________
See this is one of the reasons why I get scared
If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
so that also means to me that she’s not gonna give me the best of her…
Fk that shait
_______________________________________________________________
Pretty much … but being scared and complacent won’t help you find that woman you’re looking for …
Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.
Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
@FE FE


I can’t believe you doubt my sincerity!
I’m shocked! SHOCKED!
Jenie
sup mami?
I Go There says:
_________________________________________________________
See this is one of the reasons why I get scared
If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
so that also means to me that she’s not gonna give me the best of her…
Fk that shait
______________
Actually when I go into a relationship, I do not expect for him to cheat
but that’s not to say he want. See for some women, unless you give them reason think otherwise, some women do not go into relationship with the notion of cheating. We don’t
@ Fayla that’s why you the WIFE boo type billing all day ere day
@Igo
Weak azz excuse to justify chit…..
@Man
@IGO
“pessimism is easy because it requires little effort
and not all men cheat
when that woman comes along that changes things for him
he will be as loyal as they come”
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Co-sign

Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
Now this is very true…..
GAGIRL
yep !!!
@Naija,
Back away from Nas…why must u ladies make me violent…stick to your pre-pubescent Ryan Phillipe..mmmmk 
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NaijaGal says:
GAGirl shoe diva what it be like
*side note* Just saw Nas’ video for Daughters…that man is just too fine…oh and the message was on point
_____________________________________________________________
I’m recovering from the ciroc how bout you boo????
Usual Suspect says:
Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.
Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
________________
You betta

Igo,
Trust is earned with me
and once I see a inkling that you ain’t worthy of it, I start to back off. I ain’t one for the bullshyt either. Everyone puts their best foot forward but how many actually keep it?
@NAJ
“I’ve always hated the phrase ‘have your cake and eat it too’…isn’t that what you’re supposed to do with cake…eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe”
___________________
But once you eat it, you azzed out!

No more cake!
Wow…..
I Go There says:
pessimism is easy because it requires little effort
and not all men cheat
when that woman comes along that changes things for him
he will be as loyal as they come
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but I don’t think it’s on the woman to make a man change…if a man wants to be faithful he will even if he’s dating a trifling chick cause at that point he should know to walk away before moving on to the next chick…
jeniefrumdabloc says:
Gigi26 says:
My thing is this: If you ain’t happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.
______________________
Some men are cowards the fact of the matter men aren’t built like that these days. Weak AF!!!! Man up, and keep it real if you ready to get ghost
____________________________
Nah Jenie
Men are the same as they always was…
Dudes back in the day messed around things were just kept a lil more private now folks are willing to talk about it.
Back in the day a woman that messed with a married dude wouldnt say a word even would have kids by the dude and all that because she was afraid of how she looked now women get famous on it
Everyone knows you just hold the cake..-Phaedra
The same way that yall say that men cheat women have the same capabilities. When someone wants to do something they do it. I mean, if you are lacking something you look for another to fulfill that need. That applies to not only relationships. I’ve seen where women have done some real hoe shyt. Women just tend to be a lot smarter with their cheating ways verses a man. We are more advanced and smarter than men. Men are messy(again that applies to more than one thing).
Never go into something when you are not done looking at options. And honesty is the key. If you know that someone may be good for you but you aren’t ready, be upfront with them. Nothing I hate more than a liar(no need to say and a cheat cause if you cheat you are lying in some form or fashion).
So instead of thinking that all men cheat think about if that man was ready or showed the signs of readiness for a comittment cause nine times out of ten he didn’t but you thought that you could change him!
These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.
#teamnoaidsandherp
#teamcleantopnotchpunani
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Usual Suspect says:
Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.
Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
Terrell just got kicked off an arena football team…
Terrell Owens signed with the Allen Wranglers back in February but after a recent no-show for a team event at a children’s hospital the coaches and the front office decided they’d had enough of The T.O. Show.
In a statement to the media the team president cited Terrell’s lack of commit on and off the field with their decision.
Terrell gives up his salary and stake in the franchise.
As many chicks that are willing why do men feel the need to lie??
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Gigi26 says:
You PREACH GAGIRL!!!
These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.
#teamnoaidsandherp
#teamcleantopnotchpunani
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I really don’t know what’s wrong with these HOES GiGi
Who wants to be second? I know my worth and I know what I will and WON’T tolerate. A man knows when he’s in the presence of a REAL woman 
Who hacked @Man’s keyboard?
Bibi says:
@Igo
Weak azz excuse to justify chit…..
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I aint justifying shait
Look I dont cheat
I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump
But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships
If its an excuse then Ill take that.
@Man then you go buy another cake
@GAGirl, ready to go home
@DOWN I’m not even going to dignify that with a response *pages darkwing duck to get you right together*
Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
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This gone be my new FB Status
so serious though !!! Good stuff!!!
Gee, Sandy always put up these type of posts and everybody go on about their theory of cheating…smh
Women Lie…
please!! <…w/all due respect! #luvmylogin
Men Lie…
Yada Yada Yada…
@TRENDSETTER
“Rihanna definitely has a type.
Sources tell us that the “We Found Love” singer has found another tattooed bad boy to stoke her considerable passion: New York Knick J.R. Smith”
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He was just next in line.

NaijaGal says:
I’ve always hated the phrase ‘have your cake and eat it too’…isn’t that what you’re supposed to do with cake…eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe
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not it’s not just you…i feel the same way
When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.
GAGIRL87 says:
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jeniefrumdabloc says:
GAGIRL87 says:
Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Damn right, has never been the sharing type even with my food. You want some of fries Nah boo Let me order you some fries of your own….. I can’t stand folks dipping they hand in my cookie jar
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That’s the LEO in us
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Hey GAGIRL!!!!
You DAMMMMMM RIGHT!!!
#FellowLEO
@NAJ
”
“then you go buy another cake
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I think you are taking the phrase too literally.
Usual Suspect says:
When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.
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@Igo
Perhaps she can’t be sure cuz of ur actions don’t blame the chick. If u gave enough chits to entertain the possibility of a relationship then show the chick u real…if u run cuz she expresses a fear then what choices she got
Gypsy: yes
I can respect a dude that tells me he ain’t ready for a relationship or doesn’t want one because if I choose to fukk with him and I catch feelings and the like I have no one to blame but myself for thinking more of the situation that wasn’t one in the first place (if that makes sense).
But if we are MARRIED and you step out on me, oh nah there’s hell to pay. We said vows to GOD. Promises that should be upheld. If there is something that I am slacking in, you communicate because we are ONE. And you get arrested off your SIDEPIECE?! I’m setting my pops and brothers on you
A 9-year-old girl is fighting for her life after her mentally troubled mother stabbed her four times with a chef’s knife yesterday in Queens, authorities said.
Ann Carimbocas stabbed her daughter in her head, shoulder and back in a home yesterday morning on 176th Street near 145th Avenue in Springfield Gardens, police sources and Carimbocas’ friends said.
Emergency responders rushed the girl, Briani Davis, to Jamaica Hospital.
Cops took Carimbocas to the 105th Precinct station house in Queens Village.
Later, she was wheeled out of the station house on a gurney and taken to a hospital.
She was later charged with attempted murder.
Carimbocas and her daughter, of Selden, LI, were staying overnight at the 176th Street home, said authorities.
Carimbocas, from Barbados, was recently hospitalized for anxiety and had mental-health problems, said a roommate.
We’re praying for that little girl’s full recovery. How scary! We also hope her mom gets the help she needs. SMH. Damn shame.
@Man I know what people mean by the phrase I just think that particular one is estupido
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.
#teamnoaidsandherp
#teamcleantopnotchpunani
ALL DAY ERRYDAY!!!
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Usual Suspect says:
Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.
Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
one of the realest things i read on SR!
*****
Whoa, who said this? AH-MA-ZING!! It’s soooo much easier to do wrong than it is to do right! Surely, it isn’t for the faint of heart! I like that!
Usual Suspect says:
When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.
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20 / 80 RULE
@ IGO most women don’t go into relationships thinking the worst, I know I don’t
every man is different I trust you until you give me a reason NOT too.
@USUAL SUSPECT
“When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.”
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I swear if I hear this dumb azz 80/20 bullchit one mo’ time.

Sometimes the new person is just better. It DOES happen. People DO upgrade (Brad Pitt UPGRADED) Can we bury the 80/20 aka “please settle” argument now?
jeniefrumdabloc – it’s all yours
I Go There says:
I aint justifying shait
Look I dont cheat
I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump
But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships
If its an excuse then Ill take that.
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That’s about right. For both men and women.
Trendsetter says:
A 9-year-old girl is fighting for her life after her mentally troubled mother stabbed her four times with a chef’s knife yesterday in Queens, authorities said.
Ann Carimbocas stabbed her daughter in her head, shoulder and back in a home yesterday morning on 176th Street near 145th Avenue in Springfield Gardens, police sources and Carimbocas’ friends said.
Emergency responders rushed the girl, Briani Davis, to Jamaica Hospital.
Cops took Carimbocas to the 105th Precinct station house in Queens Village.
Later, she was wheeled out of the station house on a gurney and taken to a hospital.
She was later charged with attempted murder.
Carimbocas and her daughter, of Selden, LI, were staying overnight at the 176th Street home, said authorities.
Carimbocas, from Barbados, was recently hospitalized for anxiety and had mental-health problems, said a roommate.
We’re praying for that little girl’s full recovery. How scary! We also hope her mom gets the help she needs. SMH. Damn shame.
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@Naija
was it my gravi?? :hugs:
I was just about to ask if someone mentioned that 80/20 rule
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
^^ Escucho discos muy amigos
Yes shuga,,,That means-You are very sexy in French,,,The language of love 
@NAJ
“I know what people mean by the phrase I just think that particular one is estupido”
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Oh, well I feel that.
But I know I
pizza but I shole do be mad once I eat it and I’m outta pizza so I use that phrase all the time!
@Bibi
I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder…which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump…if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest…women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive!
Usual Suspect says:
When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.
^^
Oh here go Caligirl with her 2yr degree-Jerry Springer final thoughts over analyzation of thangs 
JMO says:
I was just about to ask if someone mentioned that 80/20 rule
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Ms.Fashion says:
I Go There says:
I aint justifying shait
Look I dont cheat
I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump
But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships
If its an excuse then Ill take that.
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That’s about right. For both men and women.
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yep
#random
That cop looks like Rick Ross when he was an CO
Awww shat Brenden is in the building

@MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish…but Brad didn’t upgrade imo…he can have the crypt keeper
I don’t believe that all men cheat. But I also don’t believe that people are meant to stay with one person forever every moment of their lives.
Like I always say, even people that love their jobs need a vacation now and then. That’s not cynical. That’s pragmatic.
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
@DownBottom – My grandmother…..
@Fefe
But how in the hail, is that not a thought people make generally?? I wonder if he’s sincere? Do u believe everything ur told off jump? I mean I get some chicks can be like that but he is guarded (his words) how can he talk bout her being open when he ain’t??
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@USUAL SUSPECT
“When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.”
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I swear if I hear this dumb azz 80/20 bullchit one mo’ time.
Sometimes the new person is just better. It DOES happen. People DO upgrade (Brad Pitt UPGRADED) Can we bury the 80/20 aka “please settle” argument now?
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I really HATE that I agree with this…but yes, SOMETIMES that last person just wasn’t FOR you long term…and people move on…
FeFe Feminine says:
@Bibi
I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder…which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump…if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest…women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive!
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In other words, DON’T BRING YOUR OLD SHYT INTO THE NEW SHYT.
You can’t put new wine into old bottles. (Shoutout to Redeemed because I know she/he know what I am referencing).
Since we have no new post, we need to liven this one up bit…
You’re my lady
My divine lady
You’re my lady
Such a wonderful lady
I can tell they’re looking at us.
This post has me
about Lyfe songs “Statistics”
25% of all men are unstable
25% of all men can’t be faithful
30% of them don’t mean what they say
and 10% of the remaining 20 is gay
That leaves you a 10% chance of ever finding your mate
That means you better pay attention to these words that I say
I’m gonna teach you how expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10.
RULE #1
Don’t be a booty call
If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl
RULE #2
If he’s in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you
RULE #3
Tell him that you’re celibate
And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it
RULE #4
Be the person you wanna find
Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime
STATISTICS!
15% of all men got a complex
15% of all men don’t practice safe sex
20% of them come from homes without a father
and there’s a 50/50 chance that you’ll marry a coward
Something to think about when you’re taking a shower
Something to swallow when you’re drinking bottled water
I’m gonna teach you how to expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10
Be patient! He’s waiting!
You don’t gotta settle for that
Leave what is past alone!
Get you a backbone!
Stop being (sorry for) yourself!
Have you no checklist?
It’s gonna take patience
Time is still wastin’
Don’t be a booty call
If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl
If he’s in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you
Tell him that you’re celibate
and if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it.
Be the person you wanna find
Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime.
Electric Boogaloo –
What up bew?
@Bibi
I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder…which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump…if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest…women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive!
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I agree. Gotta experience the bad sometimes to get to/realize the good.
@NAIJ
“@MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish…but Brad didn’t upgrade imo…he can have the crypt keeper”
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He obviously upgraded TO HIM. I don’t like Angelina Jolie either. She is way overrated to me… but you get the drift.
Sometimes people UPGRADE. People act like that 80/20 malarkey is gospel.
GAGIRL87 says:
@ IGO most women don’t go into relationships thinking the worst, I know I don’t every man is different I trust you until you give me a reason NOT too.
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What she said
I have been thru a lot but believe me when I tell you that I wipe the slate clean. I never bring past relationship issues into a new one. I don’t get into relationships often cause I just do what I want but I’m very honest. I ‘DATE’ other men but if it’s looking like there could be something than I know to end it with other dude. It’s about being mature and that’s it!!
YSoSrs says:
I don’t believe that all men cheat. But I also don’t believe that people are meant to stay with one person forever every moment of their lives.
Like I always say, even people that love their jobs need a vacation now and then. That’s not cynical. That’s pragmatic.
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^^^^^^^^^THIS!!
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha.
My thought is if women see’s there something different about their husband address it – Im certain there were tell tale signs but some wives like to turn the cheek and pretend nothings wrong Im not on either side becuz my hubby cheated on me but I was different way different I didn’t have time to argue investigate stalk none of that interested me – I knew my husband therefore I knew when he cheated I didn’t turn the other cheek I prepared myself to DIVORCE HIM!
SO GROW UP LIFE HAPPENS
Heyyyy Jenie gurl,,,Im diggin new the look,,,Not many women under 60 can pull off cheeks full of burgundy blush,,,But you workin it gal,,,Very retro,,,Very Blanche Devereaux-ish,,,Meeeeeow.
@FE FE
“I really HATE that I agree with this…but yes, SOMETIMES that last person just wasn’t FOR you long term…and people move on… ”
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Exactly!!!
How do you know if person “B” isn’t better for you than person “A” unless you get to know both of them!
SOMETIMES IT HAPPENS AND SOMETIMES IT DOESNT! THAT’S LIFE!
:coffin: <<<80/20 bullchit
BiBi
I gave you the side-eye hug in the other post
Bibi says:
@Fefe
But how in the hail, is that not a thought people make generally?? I wonder if he’s sincere? Do u believe everything ur told off jump? I mean I get some chicks can be like that but he is guarded (his words) how can he talk bout her being open when he ain’t??
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It’s not about what you believe, it’s about the energy that you put out…it is VERY possible for you to know some shyt may be up, but to act like you cool as a fan and be open…everything doesn’t have to be so dramatic and expressive all the time… management of emotions is EVERYTHING…
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@NAIJ
“@MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish…but Brad didn’t upgrade imo…he can have the crypt keeper”
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He obviously upgraded TO HIM. I don’t like Angelina Jolie either. She is way overrated to me… but you get the drift.
Sometimes people UPGRADE. People act like that 80/20 malarkey is gospel.
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Um Jennifer Aniston is overated
But arent you the one that like Kim Kardash
or was is Evelyn
What in the wildabeast boogawolf HAIL? That bish is HIT. She the wife or the sidepiece? I ain’t read yet.
What size bra that dude wear? I keep hearing Biz Markie say “and a very big BRA” when I look at him…
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha.
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Chile pls all that name calling and trying catagorize is for the birds the same females calling another female a HOE is one herself IMO
Take OFFENSE – Oh well stop using that word to describe another female!
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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….not ONE lady would go forward with this “honest” man huh?

what ever is an upgrade to YOU, could very well be a downgrade to OTHERS….but who’s opinion is the one you have to live with???
Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:
Heyyyy Jenie gurl,,,Im diggin new the look,,,Not many women under 60 can pull off cheeks full of burgundy blush,,,But you workin it gal,,,Very retro,,,Very Blanche Devereaux-ish,,,Meeeeeow.
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Meowwwww
Bibi says:
@Igo
Perhaps she can’t be sure cuz of ur actions don’t blame the chick. If u gave enough chits to entertain the possibility of a relationship then show the chick u real…if u run cuz she expresses a fear then what choices she got
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Bibi if Im into a woman she’ll know it… I also dont play the “we might be in a relationship game” Thats for novice and pussies dear… A woman will know im into her cause I say it and I will show it. If she tells me of her fears thats fine… See Fears are cool cause we all have em and if she HAS fears of me stepping out Ill do what I can to calm them and let her know Im not the other dude that did that….BUT every person does have a breaking point… If im with you and showing you how much I want to be with you and Im not stepping out on you and the relationship has grown past your other experiences then I would expect you to calm that shait down… If you 5 or 6 yrs in and you still got that tugging at you and the relationship has been nothing but wonderful then that fear REALLY becomes a fking Hangup that you dont wanna git rid of…. AKA EXTRA BAGGAGE YOU WANNA KEEP… otherwise not allowing you to really enjoy the relationship you wanted in the first place.
Oh and men do that all the time. Woman are usually optimistic but men don’t forget the one that hurt them
YSoSrs says:
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man.
^^Yes. Women arent built for spreading it around. You have inneis,,,We have outies,,,Cant be just lettin any and everything in yo innies,,,Speshially arounst the same time
The 80/20 60/40 whatever somethings don’t work for some people. I’m speaking of folks that are ALWAY looking for some shiat they don’t have. PERFECTION.
You drive a 96 Honda but you only date men tht drive certain typ of car.
One of your legs is shorter than other, 5’4 and weigh 250 but will only date a chic that wears a 4.
That kinda of bullshiat
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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@MAN I see your point and you’re right…and
FeFe sometimes God is saving you from that person so KEEP IT MOVING
@JENIE
“Um Jennifer Aniston is overated But arent you the one that like Kim Kardash or was is Evelyn”
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I like both
Kim K.
and Evelyn. 
But the point is people try to get the best person(s) they can. Men and women. Sometimes it works out good and sometimes it doesn’t.
YSoSrs says:
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
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ISO
You already know how I feel…
Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
What size bra that dude wear? I keep hearing Biz Markie say “and a very big BRA” when I look at him…

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*coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment
Bibi says:
Oh and men do that all the time. Woman are usually optimistic but men don’t forget the one that hurt them
^^BullShat! WOmen dont forget either,,,Were constantly being compared and punished for what Kwayvon did to you back in 2006,,,Come on now
btw Hey gurl 
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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You wont’ get a real answer to that
… A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic
*I am living proof all men don’t cheat……*
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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Funny you asked that cuz I dealt with a dude just like that but I didn’t want a relationship either so it worked for the both of us. We both didn’t have the time to make that commmitment. There was no hard feelings either when I kept it moving. He’s a good dude but not “my type to settle down with.” DJM
But I won’t deal with that now that I am ready for a relationship. Somethings you just gotta walk away from to prevent an utter waste of time.
jeniefrumdabloc says:
its time time to switch topics
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Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you*
@MAN
I would go for the honest man but then I’m a desperate ho so I might not count.
GAGIRL87 says:
*coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment
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We are —–>
<—— so right here
precisely
PERFECTO says:
*I am living proof all men don’t cheat……*
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I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.
^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see
#SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
Usual Suspect says:
The 80/20 60/40 whatever somethings don’t work for some people. I’m speaking of folks that are ALWAY looking for some shiat they don’t have. PERFECTION.
You drive a 96 Honda but you only date men tht drive certain typ of car.
One of your legs is shorter than other, 5’4 and weigh 250 but will only date a chic that wears a 4.
That kinda of bullshiat
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Aint that the truth
GAGIRL87 says:
This post has me about Lyfe songs “Statistics”
25% of all men are unstable
25% of all men can’t be faithful
30% of them don’t mean what they say
and 10% of the remaining 20 is gay
That leaves you a 10% chance of ever finding your mate
That means you better pay attention to these words that I say
I’m gonna teach you how expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10.
RULE #1
Don’t be a booty call
If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl
RULE #2
If he’s in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you
RULE #3
Tell him that you’re celibate
And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it
RULE #4
Be the person you wanna find
Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime
STATISTICS!
15% of all men got a complex
15% of all men don’t practice safe sex
20% of them come from homes without a father
and there’s a 50/50 chance that you’ll marry a coward
Something to think about when you’re taking a shower
Something to swallow when you’re drinking bottled water
I’m gonna teach you how to expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10
Be patient! He’s waiting!
You don’t gotta settle for that
Leave what is past alone!
Get you a backbone!
Stop being (sorry for) yourself!
Have you no checklist?
It’s gonna take patience
Time is still wastin’
Don’t be a booty call
If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl
If he’s in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you
Tell him that you’re celibate
and if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it.
Be the person you wanna find
Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime.
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Song by the same joker that JUST got outta Jail again for Battery of a woman….
@IGo
and there it is
i have a question about condoms…..
GAGIRL87 says:
*coughs* The grass is
NEVERsometimes not greener on the other side it may just seems like that @ the moment____
@GYPSY
“If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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<—-me raising hands. I know how to distinguish fugging from feelings. If I'm purely attracted to him fugging we shall be doing but if I'm feeling him feeling him then I would have to let him go because I would be setting myself up for failure. I may miss the D but I will get over it! I will respect him for his honesty!
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So if he is purely physically attractive enough than EVERYBODY is happy.
If he ISN'T purely physically attractive enough YOU are happy.
So either way YOU are happy and it's 50/50 for him…
So why exactly would a dude NOT lie again?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
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I like both
Kim K.
and Evelyn. 
But the point is people try to get the best person(s) they can. Men and women. Sometimes it works out good and sometimes it doesn’t
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True
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
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ISO
You already know how I feel…
Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
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Thats not true
In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a “couple” after the first damn date with a person …
Soooo…we really ain’t going to get a new post huh?
Quit your worrying baby
Quit your worrying girl
Quit your crying lady
We can conquer the world
@BRENDEN
Well, fck you too.
@YSO
“I would go for the honest man but then I’m a desperate ho so I might not count. ”
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In my all time knowing you, this is the sexiest thing you have ever said.
**pours wine**
@ IGO true but the message of the song is so true and I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
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This chit right here just made me scream
@Man
If a guy is honest with me upfront yeah I don’t see an issue with that! Like he shouldn’t either
JMO says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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You wont’ get a real answer to that … A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic
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This shait is what I call “signing the waiver”
SOME Women are ALWAYS say they are cool with some shait UNTIL
they are in a “IN GOOD” with the guy. Then all the things they are good with they arent anymore.
Fefe
But back to this obese joker up top. He’s a piece of work because his WIFE is in the damn hospital and is worrying about his damn GIRLFRIEND?! Really?
Ain’t shyt at all.
What I’m saying is if there is physical attractiveness going on and I’m not looking for anything serious either we can be good cause it’s just physical. However if I’m looking for more than I will keep it moving. Some ppl are not there for a relationship you just wanna fugg so if he says that’s all he down for and that’s all I’m down for then LEGGGOOO!
French KI$$E$ says:
i have a question about condoms…..
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what’s the question
GAGIRL87 says:
jeniefrumdabloc says:
its time time to switch topics
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Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you*
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We Leos are a mess!!! We can only talk about something for so long then we out!!! Our tolerance level is very low.
No Shade To Everybody Else.
If you meet a person and they want to be exclusive on the first date. RUN FAST!!!!
a
is up…
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
cause guess what? I aint interested in that ish right now either. Usta be a MUST for me. Nah I’m grown folks now.
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Fugg me and get the fugg on before my kids wake up and see you. THIS way… I aint gotta make you no breakfast. No you can’t get a towel. Wash up atcho own dayum house. Using my good azz Dove. And don’t text or call me telling me you got home safe cause Imma be SLEEP. It was great and see your azz next time. Maybe we can go on a real date to the movies or some shat…but I will let you know sir.
ALL –
what’s the best condom to use for a man uncut?
ya can answer my question in the new post
:yawns: @Naija, so what other celeb men do you find attractive? *makes note to see if any are on my list*
*SHOUTS* Jenie where da hail you @????????????
YSoSrs says:
@BRENDEN
Well, fck you too.
^^Why? Because I believe a woman should be exclusive? Just because men do it and dont get labeled a ho, dont mean women should be able to do it too…Women exchange clothes and undergarments amongst each other,,,Nobody says boo,,,Should men be able to do that as well? Or are there just some things that one sex does that the other shouldnt
Usual Suspect says:
If you meet a person and they want to be exclusive on the first date. RUN FAST!!!!
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Girl….whew chile!
That is what I’m saying @KDUB!!!
Thank goodness there’s a
Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
^^ Escucho discos muy amigos
Yes shuga,,,That means-You are very sexy in French,,,The language of love
how u durrin sessy?? i miss u!
@BRENDEN
“I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.
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^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see
#SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
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I think you are looking for CD and her love or Ms. Robyn Rihanna “Fisty.”
I Go There says:
JMO says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@THE LADIES
If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
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You wont’ get a real answer to that … A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic
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This shait is what I call “signing the waiver”
SOME Women are ALWAYS say they are cool with some shait UNTIL
they are in a “IN GOOD” with the guy. Then all the things they are good with they arent anymore.
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Not even gonna respond to that…
@Igo
Negro you just killed all of “Lyfe’s” credibility!!!!
@MAN
*side eyes you and takes that glass of wine somewhat reluctantly*
It was the “desperate ho” that did it, right?
Truth: this fool cheated now I want out. Not what I signed up for. It’s complicated. Don’t need financial help but we friggin procreated and shoutouts to u single moms and chit but that wasn’t what I planned. This is touchy. My bad. I’ll holla
French KI$$E$ says:
ALL –
what’s the best condom to use for a man uncut?
^^^
Hmmmm,,,Here I was always under the assumption that being uncut was like having a built in condom,,,Have I been doing things wrong 
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Ms.Fashion says:
GAGIRL87 says:
jeniefrumdabloc says:
its time time to switch topics
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Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you*
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We Leos are a mess!!! We can only talk about something for so long then we out!!! Our tolerance level is very low.
No Shade To Everybody Else.
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That we are, we command attention by just stepping in the room #chitleossay
@BRENDEN
If a woman is clean and safe, she can do what she wants with her pussy. Period. Ain’t no nig gone be out getting extra while I’m sitting at waiting like some sad sucker.
JMO says:
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
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ISO
You already know how I feel…
Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
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Thats not true In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a “couple” after the first damn date with a person …
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JMO
Some are cool but ive told some that I date and many
will think that im out to fk em and leave em….
I am in the other post @GAGIRL
Ms.Fashion says:
@Igo
Negro you just killed all of “Lyfe’s” credibility!!!!
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YEP
and Ill do it Tupac too
GAGIRL87 says:
*coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment
YSoSrs says:
@BRENDEN
If a woman is clean and safe, she can do what she wants with her pussy. Period. Ain’t no nig gone be out getting extra while I’m sitting at waiting like some sad sucker.
^^Thats fine shuga,,,But if you screwing multiple men at the same time as a means of payback,,,Youre more than a ho…Youre a silly ho #ijs If you do it,,,Because your man does it,,,Why not just drop the man? Instead of dropping it low for multiple men?
@French Kiss – That’ right get cho a z Z out this post and bet not see you in the next one.
Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:
I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.
^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see
#SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
I Go There says:
JMO says:
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
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ISO
You already know how I feel…
Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
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Thats not true In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a “couple” after the first damn date with a person …
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JMO
Some are cool but ive told some that I date and many
will think that im out to fk em and leave em….
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What did you say or do to make them think that?
@BRENDEN
It’s not about payback. It’s about if you can do what you want I can do what I want.
Not everything in a relationship is gonna be fair and balanced but some sht cannot be allowed for only one and not the other. You might be thinking this is where I’m going wrong in this area of my life. You might be right. Me know know.
@GYPSY
“What I’m saying is if there is physical attractiveness going on and I’m not looking for anything serious either we can be good cause it’s just physical. However if I’m looking for more than I will keep it moving. Some ppl are not there for a relationship you just wanna fugg so if he says that’s all he down for and that’s all I’m down for then LEGGGOOO!”
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I understand compeletely what you are saying. I get that.
But what I’m questioning, is what is in it for the dude by being completely straight forward?
He gains IF YOU FIND HIM PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE. That’s the ONLY way he gains from that. The lying is to give the UN-ATTRACTIVE (or less than attractive)dude a better shot. What’s in it FOR HIM to be straight forward? (nothing)
And since nothing is in it for the ugly dude, the attractive dude gotta lie too. It’s a vicious pyramid yall women make us build! LOL.
how u durrin sessy?? i miss u!
^^ I miss you 2 C cup
<—-On the buzzum 
You might be thinking this is where I’m going wrong in this area of my life
I Go There says:
Ms.Fashion says:
@Igo
Negro you just killed all of “Lyfe’s” credibility!!!!
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YEP
and Ill do it Tupac too
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Yousa a man with some heart I see!!
@BRENDEN
My thing is I don’t believe that one person can be everything for anybody. And it’s not just about sex for me (obviously). You need different things from different people. Sometimes at the same time. It’s when people try and make that one person fulfill their EVERY need that sht starts going wrong.
And I get bored easily. And have a fear of commitment. So I’m sure those things play a part in my views as well. But not wanting to be tied down doesn’t automatically make me ho as I see it.
But not wanting to be tied down doesn’t automatically make me ho as I see it.
^^I guess it doesnt as long as youre not using that as an excuse to fck multiple men. Oh I dont wanna be tied down, oh I have a fear of commitment, Ohhhh Im just a ho. But if youre just dating because youre single and free to do such. Then more power to you I guess. As far as one person being everything for anybody…Hmmm…I mean I understand you dont need somebody to complete you per say,,,But if one person cant fufill your needs,,,Chile
You are very complex indeed
ION bout chu
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