Gabourey Sidibe

Actress Gabourey Sidibe doesn't waste her time or energy entertaining online bullies. She usually ignores them or blocks them into oblivion.

The 33-year-old Empire star recently appeared on Bravo's Watch What Happens Live, where she offered advice to the mom of a 12-year-old girl who is bullied in school because of her size.

The girl, who is a junior high school student, is teased because she is overweight.

"Junior high school is a battlefield," said Gabourey, who recently embarked on a weight loss journey that saw her drop 100 pounds.

"Junior high school sucked for me. High school sucked for me," she added. "I didn't get good with myself until I was like, 25 years old."

Gabourey said she coped with bullying by focusing her energy on something she liked to do, such as singing.

She said singing gave her the confidence she lacked, and brought her new friends.

"I knew every song on the radio, so I sang a lot," she explained. "And it was really weird cause like older classes – like the senior girls – would come find me in school and have me sing their favorite song, which is weird. My mom's a singer – so it's not surprising that I have a voice. And that's kind of what I found that I liked about myself."

Gabourey told the mother that her 12-year-old daughter should find something that interests her and focus on that.

"Get her in a class or something," she said. "Have her find something that she loves about herself. As long as she builds herself and she finds her own self-love – no matter what anybody says about her – it'll hit her and fall off of her.

"Tell her to hold strong. Tell her to hold on, but it'll be worth it, honestly," she said.

That's excellent advice! Your auntie coped with bullying in school by taking up photography, which later branched into blogging.

  • Django the God

    nooooo

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    You can see that 100 pound loss too. Good for her.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Gabby is looking good!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I love this woman's confidence. Keep on keeping on Gabby!!! Love u muah???????

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Auntie also has developed thick skin and and acid tongue which help with bullies too! Gabbie weight loss is noticeable ! I'm going to give it it to her , she is looking much better and her feet, knees and ankles probably singing glory hallelujah !

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Jussie and Gabby were a mess on WWHL. I didn't understand her constantly saying she would punch people in their faces. It was redundant and unfunny. They were both fairly arrogant. Hopefully, it was the alcohol, which still isn't an excuse.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I wish sports and the arts were more affordable. Just because people stay in a "middle-class" neighborhood, doesn't mean they can afford it.

  • Django the God

    That reminds me of this place called Robert Andrews.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Gabby's advice is spot on

  • Incog-knee-gress

    That’s excellent advice! Your auntie coped with bullying in school by taking up photography, which later branched into blogging.

    ^^^^^
    I coped by reading. Everything. And then boys discovered me and it branched into teen motherhood. Oh wait. The example was supposed to end positive huh? Gimme a sec.

  • hotntot95

    Stop jango?

  • Django the God

    You let the bully beat it up?

  • hotntot95

    I feel Gabby...and I understand being made fun of for being different..
    Go Girl..shine on

  • Saved.Sista’.Shirell

    I coped with reading & drama, dance, voice & other activities.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Keep up the good (healthy) work Gabs! I love this young lady's spirit, and she's a hoot ...personality+! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/30aa2bf6b23985d31494c0c0df391b2158ca9ca0e26556c146ac49fd859e6ba2.gif

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    How does that remind you of a place called Robert Andrews?

  • Django the God

    Not the flat front Levi's.

    Not right after the Serena post.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Keep yourself encouraged too Gabby on your loss journey! I'm so proud of you. A huge fan.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    I whooped my bully's ass in front of everybody. Never had another problem after that.

  • hotntot95

    The "D" is silent!! Go to sleep

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Django the God

    It's a spa in the middle of a shopping center.
    Everybody used to think they were the shii after they went there.

    Like it bumped you into another social class.

  • Finding Forever…

    I'm sawwwy to giggle but couldn't help it. This sounds like my Mom. My Dad was strolling that a$$ home carrying books & ish, by the time they bounced from school she was strolling my sister around. LOL
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e5ce83150fcf54fa58ff7b0011b373f8968c5d743e2291dca19258ded6e02edc.gif

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    That also works.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    LMAO. Bye Dub

  • Incog-knee-gress

    He ain't bully me lol.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Ohhh. Interesting.

  • Ms. EJ

    She looks so unkempt, my goodness.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    #storytime

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LMAO!

  • CaliVirgo

    I've got time

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Me too.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    ROFL!

  • NegroDamus

    Great motivation, but im hoping she advised her about changing her diet and exercising. Self-Love seems to be more fitting in a situation where you cant change the cards you've been dealt; i.e physical/mental disability or defect...but hell's there's gyms EVERYWHERE for people and gabby has a few coins to hire a trainer. so is it really self-love or an excuse to not have to face the ups and downs of bettering yourself.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I was bullied. From 4th to HS. Badly. Called Olive Oyl. Skinny Minnie. Nerd. Then I got male attention. And then I had Dub21. Not a BAD story per se.

  • Django the God

    Ha

  • MookieFly

    Is Gabby losing weight? ?

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Is that 100 lbs? I would have guessed like 60.

  • nicelyput32

    Speaking of ass whoopings, I saw a sprite spanking her two little ones for running off doing what they wanted. That did my soul good to see that, I mean she popped their asses good.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Come through?? And although you outweighed her by 50lbs, and was in 6th grade vs her 2nd grade?? That little huzzy deserved it?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    It was like that then lol

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I was very quiet in school but thankfully I never got bullied. I think I found in high school people were afraid to approach me because I have a serious case of resting b*tchy face ???

  • Str8tUpMenace

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!! Yep, I weighed just as much as those pale hairy balls in your avi. Like the two peanut M&M twins *giggles*

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    No baby til 20, but I pooped that P.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ?????

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    well if the girl she's encouraging is only 12, there's a very good chance that she'll drop the weight naturally. Both of my mister's girls were 'chunky' little girls. the oldest one started to lose her 'baby weight' naturally when she was around 14; she's now a 21 y/o amazon... no bricks outta place. the younger one is almost 15 and she's gaining height and slimming down as well. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9c5524b933f3a29872256af8b9d30b4c9ec5914b980fdc0a0817cbbe688aa153.gif

  • Finding Forever…

    Keep it up Gabs, you got this. Looking amongst the pics I soooo wasn't ready for that bike pic. Then to go to the next one & see it was darn tricycle & not a mountain bike or unicycle, LLS. I'm sawwwy...that gave me the giggles.

  • Django the God

    *nose laugh*

  • Str8tUpMenace

    I love to see their lil bad ass disrespectful kids get their asses whooped. Damn near wanna give the mama a high five.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    hi??

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I was 18. Pop pop pop.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LMAO!!!!

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    I coped with bullying via handjobs? Turnt out all my bullies were repressed homos? Or at least they were after I finished with em?

  • Teide_luv

    Go Gabby!!! Looking good gurl!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I saw a daddy deliver one to a son. Me and bff almost elbowed each other to death watching

  • nicelyput32

    I wanted to say something to her so bad, but she was still upset

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Bren, Bren, Bren.... *deep sigh*
    what are we going to do about that gravi, Cis?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    You're so right, Zoe. The Rams are officially in L.A. People bought tickets to games but are forced to pay $80-100 for parking for ONE game. It's ridiculous. My mom said she saw one brotha on the news who took the bus to get to the game. Bet Dwight Folks start taking busses to games now. They know they don't have that kind of coin to pay just to park. I can only imagine how much the concessions are.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Boys and Girls Club a godsend for me. All of that. For almost free. I get it. Truly do

  • CaliVirgo

    I was bullied ALOT too but I coped by doing bad things...I was called mrs.piggy (had a big nose grew into it by the way) popcorn (my mother cut off my ponytails) and oreo because she wasn't black..Any who it took me until jr.high to drag a batch and it stoped..and dub half those folks are doing bad..chile?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    hi??

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Louis Vuitton store in Atl is like that too. Lots of bougie negros looking to buy a Louie so they can floss... and let their friends & fam see that they've "arrived". Whatever.

  • nicelyput32

    ??? How do come up with this stuff???

  • NegroDamus

    i feel you. i mean like being more active, instead of just going home to a couch, chips and sugary sodas. walk the dog more, go ride bykes, play ball with your siblings iffen you got a hoop outside, etc etc

  • nicelyput32

    ???

  • Finding Forever…
  • Str8tUpMenace

    I swear when I see their kids acting a damn fool, I wanna walk over and whoop their asses for them. My kids even give each other the, "mannnnnnnn, she would've tore our butts up" look. LMAO

  • Yardgirl

    I have always loved Gabby and her fcuk you attitude. She's fat but she has never let that keep her from getting jobs in Hollyweird. While so many were making fun of her, she steadily made that money. I wish her all the best in her weight loss journey!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I'm so sorry!!! Damn man. Kids are mean at times

  • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

    I see you Gabbie rocking the latest gear. check you out!!!!!

  • Str8tUpMenace

    Every time I see that gravi, I wanna pluck the hell outta the eyes on those balls. LMAO

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    My mama. I blame her ass. Her prenatal vitamin routine. She thought fish grease and fish oil were the same thing?

  • NegroDamus

    i thought that was obvious when a bully pics on the ghey kid.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • CaliVirgo

    Nothing to be sorry about I'm tough as nails now..

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Yup. Every pound she loses she's adding extra time to her expected lifespan. Life is short enough as it is.... no need shortening it further.
    Definitely wishing her the best on her journey.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    A 12 yo should be active. I'm not sure if they still have PE in schools, but she can play sports. She should be playing sports, especially if she is overweight. She should be eating healthy food, not a bunch of processed crap. She can walk. She doesn't need a gym. If she and her parent or parents walk regularly and eat well, she should be able to get in shape fairly quickly. She has to be committed to it for it to work.

  • Django the God

    Yeah, but I'm sure that's in a fashion district.
    This place was like next door to Marshalls and Radioshack.

    http://robertandrew.com

  • nicelyput32

    ??? real tears

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ???

  • Finding Forever…

    I heard they ran out of beer & water Sunday. A FOOTBALL GAME?NO BEER? NO WATER? Someone did a write up & interviewed fans. One chick said a friend was having a heat stroke with no water in sight. I guess they didn't seek a medic, but hey what do I know.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ????

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ???

  • Guess Who

    You can definitely tell she lost weight...them pants are sagging in the front, lol.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    does it make me a shopaholic if I followed this link for the express purpose of seeing if i could shop online? (I now see where you said it was a SPA....) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • SummerBaby

    Self love is everything! ??

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I've heard of this place.

  • Locapoca

    because his ass was too busy trying to "bull" doze that Puzzy ?

    https://sandrarose.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_hump.gif

  • Django the God

    LLS, we got a pan by the stove right now.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    OH! Y'all can't tell nobody there's a new post, huh?! ???

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    They are. Mine know not to even try it.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I'm concerned if they ran out of water. With all of the fans they have in the stands, that should never happen. This is clearly a "trial run" for the Rams organization. I bet people can't bring outside food or drinks in, either. Many people carry water bottles with them wherever they go. And it's hot out here. It was hot last night/early this am (2am or so). Smh

    This is why I don't patronize events like that. As much as I love sports, I can't do it.

  • Django the God

    I would've sent you a link, but...

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • SummerBaby

    I seen a Sprite dad get his kid together in Walmart Itne other day. I couldn't stop staring. ?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    But what.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    And that's all it takes. One good ass whooping. One time. I was a little scrawny ass 8th grader and a senior though he would make me his pet project.
    The first time I walked away. The second time we both walked away. Him missing his front two teeth thanks to the basketball trophy that just happened to be in arms reach, and me with 3 days suspension.
    When i got home, I thought my mama was gonna wear my ass out. I got new sneaks and a video game.

  • Guess Who

    ..WOW

  • Finding Forever…

    She damn near forced my a$$ to an all-girls high school for this reason. I just KNEW I was going to ENTERTAIN after school. Nope. Nada. But there were more fights over di#ks & dudes than a little bit. A few were preggers or already had one by graduation. Guess Momma thoughts were she would take her chances on me becoming a lesbian than a Momma, LLS...

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    But her gut,,,her gut gives him pause?

  • Django the God

    This gay dude at my school used to be a H.O.B.O model. He used to have all the H.O.B.O. gear.

    I was like damn, why he had to be gay though...

  • Locapoca

    When i got home, I thought my mama was gonna wear my ass out. I got new sneaks and a video game.
    ^^^^
    Sound like my momma ? She used to tell me and my sisters if we come home crying and beat up after a fight, she was gonna whoop our ass too so it would be like getting two ass whoopings. ?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    yep! he definitely made/makes sure they get out and get moving. and, them being girls doesn't stop him from 'hooping' it up with them... one time i caught him slam-dunking on the baby when she was about 7, smh.... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5406a067d89d1924f4f9967857b7ca15a701e44524df7514659efb170810c224.gif

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *snorts*

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I'm sorry Shug, i just logged in and this was it, Lol!

  • Django the God

    I'm in moderation for links.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Same here. Cept minez in a folgers can??

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Don't you start with me. Don't you need to preparation H?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Ooh. Sending nassi pics again?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Um. Don't.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ????

  • NegroDamus

    right, i think some black folk equate things they couldn't have growing up like mcdonalds, or brand name snacks etc etc to showering their child with love. Some over do it, and as long as their child is appearing to be happy they feel as if they've done their job. ignoring the fact that their child done gained all this weight and is most certainly going to be teased at school.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Django the God

    My Chaturbate profile.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Shit me too. Doesn't speak til this day!

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    and dub half those folks are doing bad..
    ===
    Wow. That's kinda sad. Reminds me of a dude who used to bully me real bad, and I saw him years later, homeless & sleeping on the street in the Bronx. As much as I hated how he used to treat me, I couldn't help but feel bad for the dude.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    We were sitting at the bar at the Ruby Tuesday. It was early on a Saturday so it was empty. They were picking up food. Little boy was tryna run around. Dad won't having it. Popped his ass and yoked him up. Me, bff and bartender were ?+?+?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    So Michael Ealy was on The Real. I saw a clip and he was like black cops need to talk to white cops. I turned it soon as he said that, he may have said something profound, but a cop is a cop.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Link me please, thanks?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe
  • NegroDamus

    i mean mom dukes would send us all out and lock thee door behind us. we had no choice but to be active, but we had a hoop, bikes, baseball fields, and open fields to play football too. had to walk or bike everywhere???

  • Finding Forever…

    The second time we both walked away. Him missing his front two teeth thanks to the basketball trophy...
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Shiiiit...FU#CK IT UP! My Mom tells my nephews (told us too), show JUST one & the rest won't bother you, LOL. My brother done kicked a few a$$es & chilled in the cut for that week suspension. Never start sh!t, just finish it.

  • Locapoca

    Me too like how you get your ass beat with a trophy? ? ? That's how you know one has reached their breaking point when ANYTHING becomes a weapon

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I have a cousin who was overweight as a child. He is an obese adult. There's nothing that states a child who is overweight/suffers from obesity will grow up and lose that fat. I have another friend who has been obese since I've known him (20 years). He is still obese. He loses weight, but he never gets to a "comfortable" weight. And when he loses that weight, he looks weathered. He looks older than his actual age. That, and the diets people go on are not good for their hearts. You can't overindulge then starve yourself then overindulge. It will be the cause of your demise.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Dascha polanco has great radiating confidence too. We need a post on her.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Exactly. And a Black cop has a hard enough time proving to White cops he hates n*ggers just as much as they do...so, yeah, we can only expect so much from them????

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    *chortles*

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Very well.

    Now lemme text SR right now, to discuss these other folks punishments ??

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :chase:
    #yewstayflirting
    ??

  • Str8tUpMenace

    THIS right here!!!!!!!!!!! Moms always told me, "You'd bet not start shyt, but you damn sure better finished that shyt."

  • Str8tUpMenace

    BYE BREN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *dead*

  • yallcrazy

    One thing about it you can't call her ugly. I think Gabby got a cute face

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Shug, u remember how we talked about 'over-sharing'?

  • Str8tUpMenace

    He walked away whistling through that newly opened space, huh???? *dead*

  • Locapoca

    lol your bully must be traumatized probably still be trying to get away from your ass when they see you ?

    https://media.giphy.com/media/3orifbb9rIAHx7jqpi/giphy.gif

  • Finding Forever…

    that should never happen
    ~~~~~~~~
    STOPPED HERE (well not really but stillll, LOL). EXACTLY.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007
  • Felicia Kelley

    ??????hollering

  • PettyEyezPrime

    NEW POST that I just can't do on today soo....later Disney Gators

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    You so ignorant lol

  • Str8tUpMenace

    My stupid ass would've said, FINISHHHHHHHHHHH HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • She_ShowOut

    Is this how you got the name Str8UpMenace. Shiiid I gave my bully a Menace 2 Society stomp out. School officers carried me out like I was Hannibal Lecter.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    *dead*

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Jennie!! Hey shuga!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Everybody just stay put!!!

    #paybyke ?

  • Taylordanes

    she is looking great with the weight loss! Go Gab! Keep being positive!

  • Yardgirl

    A black cop in my town (friend of my husband) ended up quitting the force, suing their a$$ for a whole list of discrimination offenses and dude is now Muslim! Nice quite, righteous Jamaican dude, now he almost radicalized! *_*

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Delete this. I'm trying to get folks byke!
    ????

  • CaliVirgo

    I haven't been able to look at him the same since he threw them kids out of that window it got worse when he was hiding under sauna bed

  • Finding Forever…

    Yup. She's a baddie. Danielle Brooks (OITNB...or something, I don't watch). GREAT CONFIDENCE!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    They all like the one from Boyz in the Hood ??

  • PhillyFacts

    I'ma need a before and after I just can't see it; beautiful sister tho

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    She bae.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :chase:

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Finding Forever…
  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    YES
    HE
    DO

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ???

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    yep, all this when i was growing up! plus, we were all girls so there were no brothers to do the yard work... it aint been no crystal stair... ROFL!

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ??? we was just talm bout you and your over sharing warnings? I think it was Soul who was over sharing? Somethin bout her Gina tasting like Cheerios? Or was that LaLa? Anyway, hi??

  • Alisa

    You don't say? I can just imagine how intense it is for young people/teens to deal with how everything is Nike, and other name brands Regular people trying to mimic what celebrities wear or a designer that they heard in a song. Social Media exposes you to the world so some feel like they have to have things that their parents can't afford. That is when I think some girls resort to using their body sexy pics posted, etc. Throw in the fact that kids dress like they are in their 20's. I was looking at my teenage cousins magazines Teen Vogue I was like WTH these prices are outrageous and it's telling them this is what you need to wear, etc. I have so much respect for mother's that are able to not fall into the trap of driving themselves crazy maxing out credit cards. Although I do know some that are trying to look like money kids hv to be in " Jack& Jill, go to this dance teacher etc

  • NegroDamus

    if he's really obese the only successful way is to get a nutritionist or doctor to assist with a safe weight loss. Most folk think diet consist of salads, rice cakes or some fad drinks or pills...not realizing you can still have your favorite thing in moderation/occasionally. You gotta be realistic about the fact that it may take up to a year or more depending on the amount of weight you need to lose.

    If you are 5'9" 300lbs and want to get under 200, its going to take 8 months to a year to lose it and that gradual loss + lifestyle change will ensure continued success. Most folk want right now like each summer is going to be the last. then when they cant lose any weight, they get discouraged and they quit.

  • BlackGirls EatGreen

    Self love should not include ignoring childhood obesity by having a child take a class or start singing as the simple solution. Teach a child self love by showing them how to love themselves and their bodies with healthy organic alkaline foods and exercise. You can stand up to bullies and still promote health. Teased obese children who "ignore" input(even negative) about their weight may become less social while gaining more weight overeating unhealthy foods.

  • more

    DAMN!!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He goes up and down with his weight. He has never reached his goal and/or managed to maintain his weight, despite enlisting the assistance of professionals. Knock me over with a feather if it ever happens for him. It's his tramp ass mother's fault for not teaching him about moderation when he was a child. I sure tried to.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ???

  • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

    Jumps in your arms. Hey slim, do you know that Bren wanted to throw a Brick at me. Imagine that. I told him you weren't having that, you are the only one allowed to do so. BIG GRIN

  • NegroDamus

    crystal stair ??

    we used to switch every week. the boys had outside, and then we switched to the inside next week. moms said her kids wasn't gone need nobody iffen they chose to not want nobody lmao

  • NegroDamus

    why naught?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Jumps in your arms? You should also add AND breaks your back? Poor Nancy?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I want a Tricycle!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    ??come byke people but the post is staying

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    This is great advice. I have so many kids who come to class looking for an outlet and Gabby's right - the arts give confidence and peace. I hope the mom takes her advice. S/N if anyone here is into photography...question:
    Arm 14 wants to get into photography. Wants a SLR can. They're pricey. Can he learn the basics on a point and shoot then convert? Please and thank you!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Not a unicycle or big wheel?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Yassss

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Tri deez?

  • NegroDamus

    ???

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    *SLR cam*

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Yes her too and fiercely intelligent in real life. I luh Taystee(Danielle Brooks)

  • SameoleJ

    CTHU!!! Jesus!! Cause I know your pain!!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    No shade but most fat/big/enjoyers of food people can sing so go on head Gabby!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    *swats*
    ?

  • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

    You just popped out NO damn where and that pretty hard. HMMMPH

  • NegroDamus

    i mean its hard when you pass the point where you body triggers you to drop the weight. you just gotta be hella motivated to want the be and feel healthier for yourself after that point

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I'd Accept a Huge Big Wheel ?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    She was lonnnnnnng overdue for an ass whooping. Bitch terrorized the whole school because she had a whole crew with her. All that changed once i stompef her in the ground.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lol at the gif

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Once they achieve the confidence and self-love it'll manifest itself in healthier choices. And what kid you know wanna eat alkaline food all the ? Not nan. Everyone has to be done in moderation. Including changing eating habits.

  • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

    Throws a biscuit at you, so all fat folks can sing. That would like to think so. Brenden can't carry a lick. Licking yeah, singing NO

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Woo woo woo woo
    ^^^
    (big) Luther voice
    ???

  • CaliVirgo

    Played them roles way too well

  • PettyEyezPrime

    That's because he makes others hit them high notes!

  • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    So Brenden is a big gurl like Donna Brazile? I thought so. That makes me like her even more. ?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Aww, big Luffa. I miss those days.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Ask and Ye shall receive

  • Django the God

    You know how you share clothes with your homeboys...

    I started to befriend them, then I was like "nah...".

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Newer New Post about Curry #3

  • NegroDamus

    like yeah you can keep those and the ones you borrowed from me too ?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ?BUTTahhhh chair is STEAL ah chairrrrrr ????????

  • RespectSelf

    I'm always amazed when I see her age... Like this can't be a grown ass woman. lol idk she just seems like a kid.

    I guess it's because I'm thinking she not new to the big girl life... she true to it. So why does she dress like she hasn't been big all her life?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    He was SANGING HARDT about that home and chair. ?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    that's how my mom taught us... they bigger than you? pick up something!

  • Rayscoty

    Did she gain the weight back? Sandra using her old pictures. Shady transgender

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I see you and Mother (gravi) out here provoking violence in the peepa? LMAO!!!!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *cackles*

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • Torae

    Most black cops feel the same way as the white cops...a girl I went to high school who is a black woman always changes her fb profile pic to blue lives matter every time there is a police involved shooting....I'm like bish do you know you're black not blue smh...

  • brooklyn23

    Uhm when someone is huge like the one above, I don't see the difference in weight loss. And furthermore I don't like when the crotch part of pants isn't sitting on the crotch as it should be, it looks sloppy.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    awww Sandra... look at you reaching across party lines for love's sake. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cda4925ca1d357264787be9b5ccd589f4b0940cb9442847e1840c0a193a331e3.gif

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    ?????

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *waits for reply with you*
    ('cause mister's 14 y/o wants one too... but she only 14... what if she changes her mind?) Lol!

  • Soon2BWife

    If my shoes ever turn over like that, y'all have permission to slap me! #pleaseknockmeout

  • KB

    Go Gabourey! I was also bullied because of how I looked & my weight. Females were cruel. I got into sports and that ? changed when I was passing them up in track & field, my medals were my revenge ?. As adults those same females "just can't believe (their words) how beautiful I am." Go figure...?.

  • I aint the one

    Lol funny story...I ran into her and her girlfriend at Levain bakery on the upper westside. When I noticed and approached her, she looked like a deer caught in headlights. Like she was surprised someone recognized her. Don't know if it was bc she was with her girl and she's not out yet, or if she was being bashful/modest. Sweet girl though.

  • Sriracha In My Bag,

    Dem kitten heels tho'...LOL. Reminds me of heels the ushers wear at church...with their mean azzes...LOL

  • RespectSelf

    Thank you!!!! this is why I still can't believe she is 33 years old. I can't!... Not walking around like that.

  • ramosyo

    She killing us

  • ramosyo

    I still need to lift the stomach to get to the puhsay*???????

  • ramosyo

    Big people don't look good in skinny jeans I'm just saying. It literally squeezes the fat up????????????????????

  • I aint the one

    "You can't overindulge then starve yourself then overindulge. It will be the cause of your demise."

    Wanna know the ironic part? They're obese but malnourished. If you're eating whole foods (fruits, veggies, nuts, legumes, etc), it would be impossible to over eat because of the amount of nutrition packed in what you're consuming. Eat a McDonald's meal that's 1,000s of calories and still be hungry a few hours later because your body didn't get chit it needed from that trash ass meal.

  • Trucie bedford

    it's sad really. if left up to others, those who are not considered the norm would be completely done for and destroyed. it's not healthy for the mental state at all. some ppl never build that confidence or self esteem and live their whole life in despair and self loathing. until they can't anymore. this is a terrifying world to grow up in and I always think twice about raising kids in it.

  • I aint the one

    She has such a beautiful spirit

  • Quitedeliteful

    "Dem kitten heels"... You got me cracking up ovah heah!!! Now you know the fact that Gabby can even put on a heel is a major accomplishment. Before her weight loss anything other than flats would have probably snapped in two. I do agree with you that she is looking good. She prolly feels like seven feet tall in her kitten heels.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    You better get up and undead Nan!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    We should all be mindful of our caloric intake. I had to catch myself recently. I weighed more than I thought, and by a fairly significant amount. I've always been tall and thin (skinny even). It's difficult for me to gain weight. I was wondering how I gained weight. Then I realized that, regardless of the healthy foods I eat, I was consuming SO MANY empty calories. I ordered cupcakes weekly and had them delivered. I went to Panera 2x/week and had boxes of pastries, cookies, bagels, etc. One of my grocery stores gives weekly freebies. Most of them are candy. I would already load up on candy on my own. Then, I'd go to the mall and visit 1 or 2 candy stores. I'd buy a caramel chocolate apple and big bag of cotton candy and/or other candy. My mom prefers See's. I'd probably get candy from there, too. Then, there are the potato chips, former frequent trips to Starbucks where I'd get not one, but 3 beverages at a time. I would drink one that day/night, then stash the others in the fridge. And I like potato chips. And energy drinks. It is only by the grace of God that I'm not Rasputia. Lol. Once I realized wtf I was doing, I stopped. I haven't had Panera pastries for about 3 weeks. I'm burnt out on them, tbh. No grocery store cupcakes. No Sprinkles Cupcakes. No pounds of candy, though I will be buying some soon (sales are great and I want to keep them in one of my fridges). I don't buy umpteen bags of chips. I'm eating more raw veggies and less cooked food. I'm not doing takeout as much as I once did. It shows. I feel better. I look better. I had to start taking better care of myself, tbh, because I've been neglecting myself for a LONG time. I was the queen of moderation, then I lost it. Water intake is vital, too. I like sparkling water, so I loaded up on La Croix. And I'm moving around more. That helps. I've never been fat and I refuse to fall off now!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Danielle "Taysyee" Brooks is a lesbian??? Say it ain't so. She seems down to earth though.

  • BlackGirls EatGreen

    What child do I know who wants to eat alkaline? My son or any child who grows up eating mangoes, watermrlon, plantains, and drinking spring water. I was a fat kid so I know that teaching kids nutrition at an early age is smart and tasty and can be fun if you engage them properly and not give them phobias that healthy food means deprivation or that it tastes bad. Bad habits are learned.

  • I aint the one

    Listen, I'm one of the "crazies" who believes the food industry is in cahoots with big pharma. Food really is medicine. Real food. I try and tell people that they should do their best to stay away from sugar. It's sooooo bad for you. Like THE absolute worst. It wrecks havoc on your endocrine system. And they literally put that chit in EVERYTHING. Practically every pre-packaged food, condiment, etc has added sugar. They don't want us to be healthy *Khaled Voice* And to top it off, sugar is highly addictive. Shout out to you for makkng those incremental changes. People would be surprised at how small changes can lead to major results when it comes to our diets and health. Keep it up, Chica.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    You're not a crazy in the least. I totally agree with you. Everything that is packaged, for the most part, is unhealthy. We have to be careful with fruits and veggies, because so many of them are GMO. I would love to have my own garden. I would prefer to have a farm. That would be ideal.

  • I aint the one

    This! I live in NYC so I can't grow much with no plot of land. It would be ideal to have my own land where I grow my own food...have the peace of mind of knowing it's not injected, altered, or sprayed with something that'll slowly poison my ass. #LifeGoals

  • I aint the one

    Yeah, girl. But she was such a sweetheart, and her girl was too.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    I see Gabby's chin pushing thru. Yaass!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Oh wow did NOT know that. Her character on oitnb acts repulsed by lesbians. Lol

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    At least they were nice.

  • Tynamight

    I am so happy for Precious' weightloss. I commented on the Gram one time that she needed to lose weight. Whhhhy did I say that? Ppl read me for filth. Anyways...she has a cute face & I see greater things in her future.

  • thehumble1

    100 LBs that's great. keep up the good work.

  • I aint the one
  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!
  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Ohk she's baaaaad!!????????????

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I'm in L.A. I'm in the city. You can grow a backyard garden, but not much else. And we have to worry about chemtrails. We used to have so many earthquakes it isn't funny, all attributable to fracking. And we are in a "drought," yet Nestle bottles OUR water and sells it at a premium. It's all a scam/hustle. I've linked up with some smart people whose couponing game is on fleek. My package delivery game is strong. My "get things for free/cheap" game is equally as strong. People know me in these streets/stores, and my concession game is strong, too. But I reciprocate. I won't receive a blessing and not be one. We just have to work together as a people. When we do, the increase is real.

  • Dee

    They were both VERY drunk. Andy was thinking he could get some juicy tea by getting them juiced, but it didn't work. They were drunk and silly. I DVR'D for nothing.

  • imright

    100lbs??? ??? where bout??

  • imright

    ???

  • Solstice

    Shamefully giggling ?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    They were trying to give the audience Jackée Harry and Regina King, but it didn't work.

  • Solstice

    (In my BBD voice) I thought it was me ?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    It's 1 of my qualities ?

  • Meme81

    Yep, wish I could summon her IDGAF the way she does.

  • Mister Fantastic

    I want my bank account to be strong like those heels she wear.

    Too soon?

  • KB

    LMAO! Yes, it is. I swear I've only been to Lenox once & that's all it took going through there with all that tomfoolery.

  • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

    alleged big gurl. ?

  • barbeez

    She has enough money to have her clothes altered to fit her. Everything about those jeans is wrong. They need to be shortened and the front adjusted to fit her properly. I spent time in retail working with plus sized women. She should be dressed flawlessly every time we see her. Belts, bright colors and patterns are a big woman's friend, especially if they have broad shoulders. It'll hides some of her perfections. Her accessories should be big and bulky...chunky bracelets and necklaces, and bold rings and earrings. Her shoes and purse should always be on point. Big girls can look just as good as smaller women. Gabourey needs good stylist.

  • barbeez

    She has enough money to have her clothes altered to fit her. Everything about those jeans is wrong. They need to be shortened and the front adjusted to fit her properly. I spent time in retail working with plus sized women. She should be dressed flawlessly every time we see her. Belts, bright colors and patterns are a big woman's friend, especially if they have broad shoulders. It'll hides some of her perfections. Her accessories should be big and bulky...chunky bracelets and necklaces, and bold rings and earrings. Her shoes and purse should always be on point. Big girls can look just as good as smaller women. Gabourey needs good stylist.

  • Gina

    Gabby needs a stylist like yesterday..you can be big yet remain stylish and chic...those jeans and blouse look so unflattering to her body..

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    That made me like her all the more. No disrespect she need to go to Lane Bryant(think the spelling is wrong)and ask for some help. They have cute things for big girls

  • product of 79

    Hell she STILL gettin bullied on this blog? hurtppl=hurtppl... Keep doin you boo? your light shines bright like a?

  • hoochie?

    Is she sagging?

  • stanhope

    Oh thing.....no jeans please or at least get them custom made. That drop crotch is a horror. What lurketh there?

  • stanhope

    More like 47 lbs.

  • stanhope

    Somebody call for a bobcat for that undertaking!

  • I aint the one

    I love it. I need to find me a robin hood type over here on the east coast lol

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Check and see if Google Express serves your area. If so, I can get you a $15 off code for your first order (I can get you more than one code. You just need different email addresses.)

    There's a site called raininghotcoupons(dot)com and another called freestufffinder(dot)com that has couponing tips and deals on freebies and inexpensive items.

    If you use IG, there's a couponing community that is really good. They find excellent deals at grocery stores, Staples, Home Depot, Walgreens, CVS, Target, etc.

    Coupons(dot)com is another great resource for coupons, as well as club cards.

    If you immerse yourself in the culture, trust when I say you can and will reap the benefits. ?

  • kekeb

    She's losing weight! She's looking well. Love yourself, always the best advice.

  • I aint the one

    I checked, they're not in NYC yet ?. Ima check out the other sites for those cvs, walgreens, and Target coupons though. I need that! Adulting is hard ?

  • Lolalao

    She looks good! You definitely see it around her feet, I'm happy for her.

  • Sincerity7

    Not a fan of the kitten heel shoes. Just wear flats at that point....

  • Sincerity7

    Not a fan of the kitten heel shoes. Just wear flats at that point....