Young Thug Jerrika

Rapper Young Thug is marrying his long-suffering fiancée Jerrika Karlae. The 25-year-old rapper ruffled feathers by wearing a couture dress on his mixtape cover.

His publicity stunt succeeded in attracting more fans to his music who probably would never listen if he wasn't wearing a dress.

The rapper, whose government name is Jeffery Lamar Williams, isn't done being an attention whore just yet.

Jeffery hinted to Billboard magazine that he might upstage his own bride by wearing a wedding gown at his wedding.

“There will be two brides at the wedding,” said the rapper, who has 5 or 6 children by several women.

How selfish of him to take the spotlight away from his bride on the 2nd most important day of a woman's life -- second only to giving birth.

He would probably hijack childbirth, too, if he could.

Check out video of Thugga stopping a runway show during NYFW because he wasn't getting enough attention.

As you probably guessed already, Jeffery was raised by a single mother without a man around to guide him into manhood.

  • MissyJ

    We haven't had a good long suffering woman in a while.. Thank you Aunty #SHEDESERVE

  • SameoleJ

    As you probably guessed already, Jeffery was raised by a single mother without a man around to guide him into manhood.

    It ain't even Noon, tea time, brunchtime......hell McDonald's is still serving breakfast and here you go!!

    Happy Friday, though!!

  • casiepriest33

    This shyt is beyond unreal.

  • Nita

    5 or 6 kids by several women ??

  • iWasteTime

    I wanted that model to punch him in the face!

  • nucynu25

    ????

  • Mystery User

    He's upstaging this blog too...

  • harley_quinn2.0

    .......

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Was this his clothing line?! ??? If not, he will never get an invite again.

  • SummerBaby

    This clown azz dude. ?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Well she marrying him.??

  • ramosyo

    Thought he was gay

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    You behaving today?

  • SummerBaby

    I still think he's gay.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    He is.

  • SameoleJ

    For now!! It is yet still early!!

  • Sucker Free

    If she like it I love it

    Except the blond hair...misconduct

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Deep ass sigh earrrrrrrrrrrly on this damn Friday.

    "His publicity stunt" <<<< Stop saying this. For all intents and purposes Thugga is not in charge of NOT ISH. HE doesnt have even the remote possibility of power to call his own shots at this stage of his "career". Nig aint eem released a whole real album yet (I aint even know this til last weekend. All this cat ish been mixtapes or appearances on other folks stuff). He cant go to work and be like I AM gonna wear a dress on my next cover. No. No. No. It doesnt work like that. He mighta been down yes. But I doubt he had final nor absolute say as an artist.

  • Di Ana

    Who wears this stuff? Who buys this stuff? I live in NYC and not even the people in the Village wears that stuff ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Far as Jerrika. Bish RUN. This man is not for you. He is gay.

  • MissHarlem

    I would've spin moved on his gay ass had he tried to fix me on the runway. SMH at women who desperately get with feminine dudes then shocked to catch them sucking dck.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    “There will be two brides at the wedding,” said the rapper, who has 5 or 6 children by several women.
    ---------------------------

    Yall late, he's already had his first fitting.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I don't know much about him but from what I hear on the radio.....It's a NO for me dawg ??

  • IAmLawlessBrooks

    I can't stand his ass!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I'm sure she's had plenty of signs, but all she is dollar signs. *Rih voice*

  • LeBrick James

    Off Topic...
    I guess Sandra's probably not going to post about how Erica Mena shaded Bow Bow, who claims to be "biracial", not black. But I thought it was kinda funny:

    “ Black guys are packing. So I get why he’s saying he’s not Black.”

    http://www.vh1.com/news/281403/erica-mena-shades-bow-wow/

    Ouch. ???

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Blowing smoke all in dude face....Kanye 2.0

  • LibraGirlonly

    The destruction of the black family!!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Yeah I think we need to start a petition to kick Young Zesty Thug out of the black race. I'm not feeling him and his female clothes wearing ass. It's too much he starting to make EJ look masculine.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I frfr thought he had a studio album under his belt. But no. I think Jeffrey a no for me too musically. Imma wait tho.

  • MissHarlem

    My lovely beautiful intelligent ewife. Happy Friday ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I needed to see Friday so tso SEW bad lol. Happy Friday to you too *kisses*

  • harley_quinn2.0

    They both need to find a bridge and jump

  • SummerBaby

    He doesn't appear to be hiding anything. She has to know.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Come again?

  • MissHarlem

    Guhl who you telling. Sending pic

  • SummerBaby

    EJ look masculine I don't know about that ?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Erica and Bow Wow are two fame whores who deserve each other.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    THIS! He doesnt seem shy about it in the least.

  • Mystery User

    She's going to marry him, really?

  • SummerBaby

    I can't stand Erica Mena.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    As far as the vid, I believe they were all in on it.
    1) This nigga sitting front row at a fashion show smoking a blunt. A DAMN BLUNT!
    2) As a man, model or not, ain't no other STRANGE ass dude just gone run up on me like that, especially with his hands all near my damn face.
    3) This the same designer whose dress he wore, no?
    All bullshyt, and now the designer can make a bigger name for himself off the back of this fool.

  • MissHarlem

    He been a no for me since his first yelp on the mic ?

  • LibraGirlonly

    ?????

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    (goes and gets in e casket)????

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    EJ owns his Zesty ness. He may not be more masculine but he don't contaminate the kitty with doo doo. Young Twan getting it from the front and back. ?

  • Buttercup

    She may be okay with that. My gestie calls them baby girls.

  • MissHarlem

    She seen plenty of shit stains in his boxers and knows his ass is OPEN

  • nucynu25

    Of course ????

  • nucynu25

    ??

  • T3

    Who was it Zoe Kravitz was recently frolicking around with? I thought it was him. Maybe not???

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I forthe longest time did not like her. Still kinda dont. But what she said about walking away from LHH series to save her sanity, I respected that. I think its the same interview as that one where she said his peen is widdle.

  • nucynu25

    BUSTED OPEN ..

  • LibraGirlonly

    Nasty Travis Scott.

  • Jen_n_juice

    Close enough

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I bet he wears briefs.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Straight garbage. Thug and Future need to find a dumpster and chill.

  • iyonah

    This is just.. lol. A mess. Geeesh.

  • T3

    Right lol

  • harley_quinn2.0

    It's not looking good.... The stars are not aligned ??

  • T3

    Oh OK thanks

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Future done sold a lot of music at this point. I bet HE can walk into his label and make a few demands that will be met. For that he gets a few more props over Thugga for me.

  • SummerBaby

    I see it a little different. Young Thug might dip in both ponds, but it's not a mystery or a secret. His azz straight up said he might wear a wedding dress to his wedding. If my guy said that best believe we ain't getting married to each other.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    No it's another rapper.

  • nucynu25

    But Future dog ass be coming with then hits ...???

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Oh I thought she was with his doppelganger Asap Rocky

  • jussaying

    ASAP Rocky.

  • Jen_n_juice

    ??

  • Ni Ni

    He is so ignorant. I wont feel sorry for his fiance if he brings disease to her. She can ignore his tendencies all she wants.
    A dude I went to school went kept his hair in womens styles and dressed flamboyant. He had a girlfriend plus a couple kids. We both ended up at the same college and Baybih he got over there and didnt ever want anything to do with another women. These silly women better wake up.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Leaking.

  • jussaying

    yes it is him. they've been really close ever since Dope.

  • SummerBaby

    His azz is wearing Victoria Secret panties.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Damn another one lol

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    With a party liner.

  • Jen_n_juice

    Move over I need to get in too

  • LibraGirlonly

    He's nasty too.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    We will see.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Didn't he already say he wasn't interested in having...relations with her?

  • jussaying

    lol he doesn't seem nasty to me (looks wise). just really effeminate and hayyyy gurrrrl.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    JUST SAID THIS. I HATE the bishassness in him. But at this point, he done made a mark in music so...I gotta ride with it and gone head and give him his ups. I dont like it ALL tho lmaoooo.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    He's so disgusting. Did you see the video of him and his boys in the studio? They had gay porn playing in the background. His fiancé is an idiot , and clearly doesn't give a shat about her health.

  • SameoleJ

    I smiled when I saw her in the Yo video with Chris, yesterday. Look how far we have come.........NOT!!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I don't like his codeine muzick

  • MissHarlem

    Whistling Dixie with his ass

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Boi shorts lmaoooo

  • jussaying

    why would you wear a dress---never mind. I will be damned if my husband to be trying to meet at the alter with a gown. I'd strangle him with the veil.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Which one said they don't see black issues?

  • SummerBaby

    No, I didn't see that mess. ?

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Asap

  • MissHarlem

    Pissing shit out his ass

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    ????the Lord nor i happy with LT rat nih!!!!????

  • nucynu25

    Man, look am trying to rich sex tuh night ....???

  • LibraGirlonly

    Ohh ok

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Whaaa?

  • jussaying

    illllllll lmbo

  • nucynu25

    Whattt ?

  • SummerBaby

    They going dress shopping together. ?

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Say what? Young Twan said that for real? Why is she marrying this gay man? The money can't be that good.

  • nucynu25

    Yep ..so for her this is probably as good as it gets ...

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    AWL DAE

  • jussaying

    it's like hood yodeling. no thanks. I wish he would have taken the ten mili bill gates offered him to stfu.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Chyle,anything for fame and what ever coins he cast off on her?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Uh...I wasn't ready.

  • jussaying

    lmao. omg can you imagine him on the platform with all his ninjas eying the dress smh. sipping champagne from flutes pinky up

  • nucynu25

    Promiseth ( said like ole girl from 3LW with the wide tongue)

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I dont know why but I blame Future for all this mess...

  • SummerBaby

    Funny thing is yes I can see it. ? His azz about to be on Say Yes to the Dress.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • nucynu25

    I think Wayne is responsible for a lot of these cats ...they just took it to the extreme .

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I posted the video. You can see two yt men getting it in on the TV in the background.

  • Rayne

    I've been waiting on Sandra's post about somebody's long suffering wife . #iluvit lol
    #finally

  • Kim

    If she is OK with it, IDGAF.Wearing a wedding dress should be the least of her concerns.Dealing with all those baby mamas is a bigger issue,IMO.

  • SummerBaby

    I don't think she deserves to suffer from a deadly disease even if she is foolish.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Rich sex? That's one of his songs ????

  • SummerBaby

    She's a down participant. I think she gets down with girls because she likes it. I think she turned him on to the threesome scene.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    DEAD @ first yelp!?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    The designer probably told him to do it for publicity. After all he did wear the designers lil house on the prairie dress.

  • imright

    Thugga is bae?? his music slaps??? && his style is HIM??i appreciate that ? JEFFERY is a dope album too?? have a listen instead of a look?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    If you think about its the best thing she could do. Not only will she be able to borrow his clothes she don't have to worry about giving him any....best marriage ever lol

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I'm still biased and defiant. I refuse. I'm fighting this every step of the way. ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    You is pretty!!!!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    IDK...Wayne never wore dresses and always talked about eating the puzzy not wanting to have a puzzy....

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    ...

  • Lazy bones

    Thugga stopping a runway show during NYFW because he wasn’t getting enough attention. ...... This is crazy???

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And he got a few coins. I aint know this development. That he said he dont wanna play in her box. Well then. I retract what I said if this is true. Might be lucrative for her. To each

  • SummerBaby

    New post

  • Lazy bones

    New here , hey everyone, i am from Mozambique. Oficial language portugues, so please don't laugh my broke English ???

  • Dee

    He already upstaged her by having 6 kids by several women.

  • nucynu25

    Their sounds reminds me of wayne .. Fire man era . Wayne did start to dress more femine ..these dudes wasn't wearing skinny jeans before Weezy they just took it too far ..

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Uh huh.

  • LeBrick James

    Yeah. Says he doesnt care for sex.
    http://www.celebrityxo.com/celebrity-xo/young-thug-says-that-he-doesnt-care-for-sex-and-how-he-really-dont-ever-have-sex/

    How many dudes in their 20's dont care for sex? Odd, to say the least.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    This ridiculousness... A Kanye West is one too many already.

    Here are more seats at that runway show......
    LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

    Hey people...missed yall for 24 hours!

  • Petty Rubble

    here for it

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    They are usually paid to take the abuse. They don't really care though.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thanks!?

  • Banka

    LMAO !!!!!

  • LeBrick James

    “There will be two brides at the wedding,” said the rapper
    ====
    If that doesnt scream "red flag!" and "run for your life!" I don't know what does.

  • MissHarlem

    Cackles. Gtfoh

  • Banka

    He just don't care for sex with a woman..... this dude 5 minutes of fame is lasting entirely toooooo long.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Pretty pic.

  • surprise2012

    Um, he has a fiance'? Well I'll be damned. SMH

  • SandrasNewFave

    Because her other options are.....

    yeah, the money is sufficient for her desires.

  • surprise2012

    LOL- Pun intended, but you know McDonald's serves breakfast all day.

  • S T

    Hehehe!! Misconduct. Lol

  • Petty Rubble

    She wasn't saying that in her interviews last year.

  • IntroSpective

    I thought he was raised by both parents. He did an interview about how he had both parents and a lot of siblings. Consequently they were poor ?

  • SandrasNewFave

    Sounds like the other end of the Yusaf Mack spectrum. Yusaf was a "whore" with multiple kids. Jeffrey is aloof with multiple kids.

    Tuh-may-toe
    Tuh-mah-toe

  • MzApple

    when he said in the interview. He has not have sex with her and doesn't care about having sex with her I was like
    http://vignette4.wikia.nocookie.net/glee/images/f/fd/Wait-what.gif/revision/latest?cb=20140422183707

  • Guess Who

    He's an ashy idiot.

  • Mystery User

    maybe its too late to care?

  • Renee Bee

    Welcome to the Rose Garden.

  • Renee Bee

    ^^This^^

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thanks, Alicia.

  • Candance

    sooooo ummmmmm!!!!!!!....... (confused)

  • LeBrick James

    "...a woman scorned". We all know how that goes.

    Funny now at one point she was happy to marry the man, but now that the relationship is over, she wants to take shots at him.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    She's insane.

  • Renee Bee

    All lies. The day is young. ?

  • Petty Rubble

    basically. they deserve each though.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    I heard beards pay a lot these days. She may be counting them checks as she runs to the bank, but if she hasn't run from him now, she never will.

  • casiepriest33

    I bet he'll throw the bouquet too! Bytch made azz. This fuq boi revolution is too real.

  • Renee Bee

    All Thugga's dreams are about pink unicorns and rainbows.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Life is too short to be living a lie anywhoo I had to endure this new music and I swear Neveraury and them just repeated and mumbled ish over and over...

  • TDK

    She's his bff/beard.

  • Taylordanes

    He just stated in an interview they have never had sex......um ok...Jeffrey gay..

  • Lazy bones

    Thanks ?

  • Renee Bee

    Great! Enjoy!

  • DiamondsDiet

    Word on the street is that he beats her.

    She'll be dead when he kills her because his career is done. He'll take all his career frustrations out on her face.
    Stupid fame thirsty girl!
    Don't marry a woman beater that does drugs and has sex with men for fame.

    He's gonna kill you soon!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    If she is "long suffering," she is allowing herself to be in that position. She seems to crave the attention that comes with being his fiancée, so let her cook. If she doesn't know who or what she is marrying, she'll figure it out after she says "I do." She will probably help him pick out and/or design his wedding gown. Perhaps, they'll wear matching gowns.

    Meanwhile, there are real issues going on in the world that require our immediate attention. White folks are trying to kill off the remainder of the Natives by poisoning their water supply. IDC about a negro wearing a dress and nail polish, calling other men "bae."

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    IDK that. I'm just surprised people still eat at McDonald's.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He probably already has his garter belt and his "something old, something new and something borrowed." The "something blue" = his lips.

  • surprise2012

    I don't eat there, but they have the BOMB sweet tea.

  • ebonics

    .... :|

  • PussyGal0re

    Not true. His father was in the home.

  • PussyGal0re

    You forgot, he's signed to Cash Money Records. Anything goes as there's no real management there. Just hood negroes.

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    This is well past long-suffering, this is sheer blindness or stupidity.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I've tried it before. I can't drink it. Too sweet. ? I remember their mocha McFrappe being delicious but that was years ago when they first introduced it. It wasn't enough for me to stop patronizing Starbucks or TCB&TL, but it was really good, all things considered.

  • imright

    ???? lee mi lone!!!

  • imright

    ??? ijs!!! i fcks w Thugga!!! he trolls the media alot but his music is goodt!!! go listen to Webbie off of The Jeffrey album??

  • Tea??

    His father was in the home Jeffrey was turned out in juvie he basically said so. This woman knows her place in this relationship I won't even call her a beard because its obvious what he's about. For as long as he's popular and sponsoring her lifestyle she will be around looking stupid just like him.

  • Strappyheels

    D.E..A.D.

  • Strappyheels

    D.E..A.D.

  • Strappyheels

    All I can say is....

  • Strappyheels

    All I can say is....

  • S. Williams

    he said he hasn't had sex with her and doesn't care to... the only flag she sees is the green money tree bc she can be with him, collect on his coins, be his beard, not be subject to any disease (from him at least), and get her a side man... she winning LOL

  • Alisa

    Can you see him on an episode of Say Yes To The Dress..He looks right dusty & dirty. But Dennis Rodman has already worn a wedding dress so we hv been there done that. He looks like he could be a baby Rodman

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I hit you yesterday in one of the open topics with an update on me & my ex.. let me go look for it and see if I can @ you again.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I didn't receive it. ??

    Is it safe to say you've reconciled? ?

  • stanley

    Marriage is an important day for BOTH Sexes Sandra...

  • Dee

    LOL!!!

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    ANYthing to be relevant.she better have a REAL MAN sumwhere....but then what REAL MAN gone want bragging rights about banging YOUNG THUG stand in wife :/

  • 2tusweetz

    People only pay attention to these people because bloggers continue to write about them. He got a gimmick that seems to be working for him. "Be as controversial as you possibly can and you will be the next hottest thing out here". Chile..... And there are plenty of single mothers who raised sons, who don't dress or act like that!

  • Panther Charleston

    I'm starting to really dig his crazy a double-z.

  • Panther Charleston

    Damn! Whose show was that? Is it his? That was amazing. Kanye needs to take note.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    No need to fight for space. I can accommodate both of your requests!

    Now, which one of you is chocolate and which one of you is caramel?

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7c1ab60e24fc805072f1803d7007e02a6dd68ddc59d09ca4335506b8c2740890.png

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :welcome:

  • http://devilsadvocate.sme/ snarcissism

    If he was gay there'd be plenty of guys spilling tea. He just a calculating douche.

  • Mel

    Word on the skreets is he be beating that girl ass but she ain't gonna leave the money holding her hostage . He also said in a recent interview he not interested in having sex with her. They are weird

  • PK

    Gay

  • ThaRealist StudioGangster

    Black woman love their fucbois and love their thuggs, so let them suffer for what they love.

  • IGuess

    This not fashion

  • T3

    Yeah. This is who I had in mind.

  • the guest

    She is a paid beard and it appears she is content with the arrangement. Beards live a celibate life in exchange for a wealthy or kept lifestyle.

    This generation's gay black rappers are doing what famous white artists have been doing for centuries. Keep women as assessories and covers.

    Beards are a special kind of woman. They value vanity and security above all things including s-exual desire.

    All these rapper beard types seem aroused and fulfilled only by their own vanity and beauty and money and gifts from their gay boyfriend or husband.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Not interest in relations with your fiancee'? They just don't appeal to you whatsoever? Really. ?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    You sleep over there, me here. And oh yeah, I'm going to need you to get my brows together and I need to borrow that fiyah gown you wore on your CD cover. ?

  • Teresa Uriel

    all these people are gonna burn. On that day is when people will understand to the soul-wrenching fullest GOD IS NOT MOCKED..WHATEVER A MAN SOETH..THAT HE SHALL REAP

  • LordeAmbler

    Men raised by other men end up gay too

  • Jen_n_juice

    Lmaoooo *falls back into casket*

  • kekeb

    Y'all still believe this boney clown like women?

  • JustRight13

    He playing BC he said h didn't like to have sex... But the first time she came in to him...

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I'm just getting to my messages. We are not back in a "relationship", we're trying to take things slowly right now. Things are going good. She apologized profusely and explained her actions. She's been with me every single day and has not left my side since her birthday. She's been with me and my kids and we're all happy right now. I thought about you last week and I said to myself I would give you the update since I sorta discussed my situation with you and you were not judgemental or homophobic. Glad there are many in here that are pretty open and we talked about it, too.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Oh, BTW - it was all in the Bad Boy reunion tour open topic from 4 days ago.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    That's kind of you re: "since you're not judgmental or homophobic." I have no reason to be a homophobe. If I so-called "dislike" someone, it isn't because of their orientation. We either just don't jibe well or they have what I'd consider to be some serious character flaws. I made a conscious effort to only fraternize with likeminded people. You've been open about your relationship - ebbs and flows. If someone judges you for that, shame on them.

    I'm glad the two of you are working your situation out. I'm not sure how things will fare, but if you're happy, then I'm happy for you. All I would advise is for you to proceed with caution. You have a lot more at stake than she does. Since you are the more mature party in the situation, pay attention to any red flags that may arise. This is coming from someone who is a "runner," if you will. I am all for relationships, but I will bolt on a n*gga if I see something [substantive] isn't right.

    I need to get a foot back in the pond my damn self (at least a big toe), but the pickens around here are slim. ??

    I wish the two of you all the best. She better act right this time, or else!!!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I appreciate all the realness in here, it's welcomed! The Roses (OG and newcomers; I've always been a lurker until Disqus opened it up for everyone) have been very welcoming saying the same as you (proceed with caution, which I AM!). I'm quick to chunk her the deuce when she not actin right anyway and just do me for a while. But after this last time, she felt the difference and was sorta stalking me and saw I was trying to move on so I guess that scared her. Anywho, yes ma'am, get yourself back out there and have some fun, enjoy your life and see what happens. Hopefully Mr Right comes along when you're not expecting him. That's probably the best anyway, not to look for him.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    If she decided to return because she saw you were moving on with your life, that's a red flag. I can't tell you how to live your life, but I would keep living my life, if you get what I'm saying. Keep living your life and don't stop pursuing other potential relationships because she resurfaced. She shouldn't have really been in a position to "stalk" you. She had years to "get it right." If she didn't, it's because she didn't feel she had to. A leopard doesn't change its spots. My two cents. They're probably not worth 1¢, but I had to convey it.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    We had a long talk the night of her birthday (9/1) and she was apologizing and explaining herself (long detailed story, too much for SR site) and how she wasn't used to a woman like me. We really are from 2 diff worlds but that's kinda why we mesh well, complete each other. That's what it feels like when we're together. Her family loves me and my kids love her. She's been taking care of my household this time around, too. And she's going through with counseling that she really needs and has included me & her brother to be present so we know she's serious about seeking help (the rest of her family is in Alabama). I could go on & on but I am seeing major changes in her, even though it has been a short period of time. I am still cautious though. I will still keep you updated is anything changes, hopefully not though... Thanks for listening!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    We had a long talk the night of her birthday (9/1) and she was apologizing and explaining herself (long detailed story, too much for SR site) and how she wasn't used to a woman like me. We really are from 2 diff worlds but that's kinda why we mesh well, complete each other. That's what it feels like when we're together. Her family loves me and my kids love her. She's been taking care of my household this time around, too. And she's going through with counseling that she really needs and has included me & her brother to be present so we know she's serious about seeking help (the rest of her family is in Alabama). I could go on & on but I am seeing major changes in her, even though it has been a short period of time. I am still cautious though. I will still keep you updated is anything changes, hopefully not though... Thanks for listening!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    That's good re: her being responsible and implementing necessary changes. Some folks never know and/or appreciate what they have until it's gone. You're kind to give her the opportunity to make amends.

    I'm glad your kids gave her the stamp of approval. That's HUGE. My mom has been single the better portion of my life. I only recall giving one man the stamp of approval, probably because he was the only one who actually considered me when considering my mom. You can't make plans with the mom and exclude the child. That doesn't fly. I am anti when it comes to dating singly men with children, but if I did date one, I'm sure I'd be more considerate of his child(ren) than I am of him. Lol.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I try to give people chances because I understand people make mistakes. I made PLENTY mistakes in my youth and well into my 20's and early 30's that I was forgiven for, which is why I am so forgiving as well. I made the mistakes BUT I learned from them. It's one thing to make mistakes in life and learn from them and another to continue making the same mistakes over and over. That doesn't fly with me, sorry but not sorry. And yes, if my kids didn't love her and accept her, she would not be back in my life. While we were broke up, they talked about her ALL the time, so it was hard for me. I just didn't let them know. Now that she's back, they're up under her all the time. She doesn't have kids of her own and never got along with any of her exes' kids but finds it funny how my kids bust into the room while either of us are in the bathroom sitting on the toilet. I explain to her "now you know remember feels like to have children" and she can't do nothing but laugh. She's shameless anyway so it doesn't bother her. Your mom sounds soooo much like my mom! After my parents divorced (summer of 1999) my mom has been single. I would LOVE for her to date and move on but she's not interested. My 2 brothers & I are all grown so it's not like any of us are kids or teenagers. Oh well..

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    My mom doesn't want to date, either. We just had a convo yesterday while watching the Hallmark Channel. I told her that I'd love for her to have a nice male friend. She shut me down. Lol. "I don't want to have sex." I didn't say anything about booty calls or anything remotely sexual. I said FRIEND. But I guess that's where many of them try to take it, so I understand her position. Hell, I don't want to have sex, either, so we'll just be two single, aging ladies who've still got it but aren't going to give it to anyone else. ?????

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    RE: "I don't want to have sex." - Again, she sounds like my mom! That be the first thing my mom says, too! Too funny. My mom lives in the game rooms so I guess that's where she gets her pleasure from these days. Oh well..

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Game rooms?

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Yeah, or AKA the gambling shacks lol. We don't have casino's in Houston, but we do have a s**t load of game rooms/gambling shacks.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Aha.

  • m.r. m

    And all y'all were getting mad at suckerfree's joke. On the ti, and tiny post. Go ahead and say ATL, ain't full of homothugs poking other homothugs. They spreading that Magic Johnson, plus everything else in that city.