In a rare moment of sincerity, singer Chris Brown dropped some knowledge on his Instagram.com timeline for his female followers.
Brown, 27, confirmed what we already know, that men and women are not equal when it comes to matters of the heart.
“We cheat on our girlfriends but we don’t want them to cheat on us,” Brown wrote in a post late Wednesday.
“We cheat for sex, just to f_uck but when a woman cheats she cheats for love and affection,” he added.
Brown knows that men are wired to cheat, while women are wired to be submissive and understanding of man’s flaws.
Instagram’s response to Brown’s openness and honesty was mostly positive.
“Ain’t this the truth!” wrote one Instagram.com user. “Speak the truth baby,” wrote another.
What do you think of Brown’s wise words?
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Well said C-Breezy
His one lucid thought in a sea of bull schitz.
Good morning.
Hey!
Good morning!!
Well duh. Men invented the concept of “dish it but can’t take it”. The sad part is despite knowing this, he won’t change.
Slowly but surely CB is maturing. It takes time folks.
Rome was not built in a day. I get it. Good for him though.
Right.
“despite knowing this, he won’t change”
AT ALL.
His one moment of clarity….moaning yall
OK Chris good explanation. Nice to see you lucid
This ????
Please let this be a turning point for Chris. Every time he takes a step forward he takes 5 backwards. I don’t want to hear about him choking out someone next week for not using a turn signal or some other bullshizzy.
He must have had a five minute break from stupidity.
Chris is actually very humble & approachable in person. I met him twice…
WE KNOW THIS MAAAN!!!
It takes a https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/68bc52b2a4f54f3dc0d4dea29ec0c12c203c19b65d4d18beb2fbbd13d0be6a55.gif lot for a woman to seek affection from another when we are in love. But when we do..we are starting to cut the heart strings that originally tied us to you in the first place..Good morning yall!!
Real talk
If we cheat we tired…niccas cheat for a nut we cheat for a replacement ??
Men aren’t wired to cheat. They’re just maybe not as emotionally connected as women.
Most men who do this won’t.. until they experience a loss so great and hit their hearts so hard that they realize that if IF they get it back, they will never do it again….even then..temptation may come..
It is true. My brother has told me a few times men cheat for sex but when a woman cheats for love,etc. And that’s why men lose their minds when their women cheat.
SMR:Brown knows that men are wired to cheat, while women are wired to be submissive and understanding of man’s flaws.
You just had to start TGIF with a thud, didn’t you?
You couldn’t help yourself? Ha,ha,ha!!
Guys act like women cheat for nothing. Like Chris said, dudes cheat for sex, but our reasons are usually emotional. Either you’re being verbally disrespected, physically abused, or emotionally neglected, but it takes a lot for us to cheat.
Men just so simple sometimes …
The realization he lost a good girl because of his cheating.
Yep and we will seek whats missing either on purpose or subconsciously. If its verbal..we will find that person who affirms us as a woman, if its physical we will find the arms that will only hug and not hit.
Yeah. I’ll give him a chin nod. (Please note it’s also coming from Snoop.)
Maaan I miss the old Chris Brown. The lil cute, always cheesing Chris Brown.
Replacement…. lol. Some girls r thotty, just cheating to cheat. There was this girl who slept with all of her man’s friends l ol…. who was she replacing… Lil whora lol
Does it really matter in the end?
It’s ultimately about the man’s ego.
This just proves that men are the weaker sex emotionally.
The damn machine had a line. I guess everyone having a bad morning.
http://pagesix.com/2016/10/27/the-insane-spending-sprees-that-ended-mariahs-engagement/?_ga=1.102373313.1151082860.1477664379
Mariah and her spending ran the hustle hard faced billionaire off supposedly.
Brown knows that men are wired to cheat, while women are wired to be submissive and understanding of man’s flaws.
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BS!!! If women can curve temptation (mainly because of love and loyalty) a man should be able to curve it too
That 80/20 rule.. You had a woman that was giving you everything..you cheated with someone who could only stimulate you physically..smh..men and their 2 brains..
This?? we don’t purposefully do it, but at the same time, we just wanna be appreciated. Chit, we don’t even want the dude we cheating with, sometimes you just gotta fill that void. And even after you explain your reasoning, they still don’t change like. . .
What was the reason y’all cheated? #openquestion
Hola.
I wonder if him and Kangaroo smushing again.
Hard faced billionaire ??? only a face that a mother and god himself could love.
About time he’s finally realized that cheating is wrong. Now are you going to practice what you preach is a different story.
Famelous posred a video of him allegedly grabbing her.
Um *scratches head* I mean, I knew this but for those who didn’t and needed CHRIS BROWN to tell you, here you go. I just want him to sing and dance and be a good daddy to Royalty. Possibly be faithful to whoever he’s screwing (but that ain’t none of my business ??)
I can see where he’s coming from… but it’s still like… that’s not fair. Why should we deal with it, just because it’s so called in a man’s nature. I wish my niqqa would?? He’d be dropped with the quickness… I kno my worth. Sorry. Young kids and all. Lmaooo
Yup, his family was watching her fly helicopters to yachts for fittings and was like EDAMNNOUGH ??
Yeah. I ‘ll give him a chin nod. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/64abb495c2bb011b05178667475c07bd37fa45a0130a4fca10a4f16feeedcd08.gif
By the way, I don’t cheat. I just stay single if I want to fcuk around.
Fml car accident driving to work not me thankfully, two meetings today like whytf, and I have to write someone up. My wake and bake is hanging on by a thread. I’m having a liquid lunch today ?
She said he was abusive. Maybe he was holding her up because she had enjoyed 1 too many alcoholic beverages ?
Thankfully it wasn’t you and you missed the 1st post. Happy Friday!
Yeah , she just a slut bucket am not talking bout ho’s tho ..am talking bout ladies (shenaenae voice)
You know there is a societal norm that teaches us a women to seek our one true love..while most men are taught to “See whats out there”. I had a woman tell me to take my ex back because he was a good man..but just does stupid shyt..Umm so Im to excuse his inability to mature past his dick and think and act responsible.. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/21859bcb8b82117d882258e158e6e097ddf7bac4e7c052d05e6d68e30dd919b7.jpg
Are we dismissing the part where he says men can be the problem?
She just had a weak azz nigga.
There’s that silver lining. Happy Friday hun
There’s always time to smoke on your break?Good thing it wasn’t you though.
Glad you good boo.
Did Karate cheat on him during this secret phase of their relationship?
Of course Chris is gonna act like he came up with this….ole fake philosophical azz. Is this another one of his attempts to get Kerosine back? Boy, go sit down.
Im glad it wontchu
I wondered that too.
probably the realest sh*t he ever said.
Oh please. He says “we know cheating is wrong!” Period. Men KNOW that it’s wrong to cheat. Yet they continue to do it, because they can. They get away with it and idiots make excuses for them. Real men don’t cheat and they don’t leave their families. Ooh I wish women would stop staying with these cheating men and sharing men. Cheat on me, and I will bounce!
IDGAF about Chris no more. Im done after All Lives Matter and after he got photo’d…after all that damn crazy shat with po po staked out at his house…sleeping by yet abother batch. Im no longer applauding him for something today, only for him to go and say or do more stupid shat next week. He could be on his Jesse Williams on IG; spewing some real woke stuff, and I wouldnt give not two shyts.
Hooray for his moment of clarity but what the hell is going on in this picture?
I need to buy a vapor pen so I can
Well damn blog leader ..tell us how you really feel ??
Women cheat to fugg. It’s not only about love and affection for us. I know a few women #currently doing it. When I go into a situation I go in knowing what I want out of it.
? thanks boo
? thanks wifey
???
Shhh. Can’t let the thorns now we are being puppeted.
Im tired of riding for Chris only to keep being disappointed. I wanted him to win but now IDC. Its plenty of folks here and other places who got him tho. Godspeed to all.
No, all women are the same. Weak, stupid, and ran by men. And always searching for love and affection??
Brown knows that men are wired to cheat, while women are wired to be submissive and understanding of man’s flaws. ?
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He was a serial cheater as well… he wasn’t too pressed, as they’re still together 3 years later. Smh
Exactly and the regret comes later. Plus there’s a child involved now, so that’s a constant reminder of his cheating. Sometimes we, as women can forgive but there are things we just can’t let go. The damage is already done. She moved on, and it hurts.
My bad ????
Alright then lol
Chris disappointing like a MF but I still believe he has a chance ..I just Dont put a lot into him .
Millionaire activist James Otis arrested for destroying Donald Trump’s $30k Hollywood Walk of Fame star – http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/10/millionaire-activist-james-otis.html
I would like to shake this man’s hand.
So now we gonna have a bunch of young chicks taking relationship advice from CB ?
I also read she was mad he was nasty to her assistant while they were on the yacht for vacation. Hoe why was your assistant eem there with you and your man while you was on vacation? I cannot. I also dont buy that he was abusive. She is another Halle Berry to me. Not every damn man you have is beating your ass. She said the same shat about Tommy AND Luis Miguel too. And also alleges that Nick drove her to drink due to emotional abuse. I caint.
I think this is more along my thinking. I just cant continue to support anything tho. Good OR bad. I feel kinda bad for throwing in the towel on him tho. I loved Chris. I am about to throw in the towel on Mariah too. And we ALL know how I feel about that hoe. Smdh. The end of an era me and Mariah. About TWO eras.
THANK GOD FOR GROWN CB.
-CHUCKLES-
Hungry. Want some wine and Chipolte.
THEY WERE AT THIS PARTY TOGETHER, YET SEPARATELY.
Lol.
Women cheat for the same reasons men cheat. Women are not looking to replace their significant other with the person they cheated with…..
Sounds more like a man’s insecurities, not a fact.
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Wine and haze for me. I’ll take guac and chips when you go thanks lol
I THINK SOCIETY TEACHES GENDER ROLES AS OPPOSED TO RIGHT AND WRONG…THAT’S WHY WE HAVE THIS BROUHAHA OF PSYCHOLOGICAL DEFECTS RUNNING RAMPANT NOW.
I’m sew tickled by this comment ?
Girls mature faster, a young man is bound to get his feelings hurt.
I think I want BBD for lurnch today. *sads*
Good for him.
Breakfast lunch and dinner for me on today. Just woke up from my fantasy so just for dinner
CAN WE GET A COVERED FROM HEAD TO TOE PREGGO JANET POST?? THAT BABY IS ALL OVER THE PLACE!
Mimi just a mess …no way around it .
DID YOU GET YOUR CHIPOTLE BOGO RECENTLY?
Some women cheat because it’s in THEIR nature, some women cheat for a comeup/perceived better opportunity, some women cheat because they don’t feel sexually satisfied, and others cheat for the hell of it. All women are not the same, and some are downright SAVAGE.
As for me, I only cheated once, but it was due to a combination of all 3 reasons I stated below. I’m ashamed about it, but it wasn’t for no reason.
Exactly!
Are you male or female? I cant tell by your comment.
FACTUAL
When did they have that.
Dont be ashamed ….??
Ditto.
Deal. ??
Not every man you get is beating you. I refuse to believe it
Haha.
I’m a woman.
-SNICKERS-
And at one of those theme parks too.
My lil sis is 24 got a masters in accounting and works for a private bank here in Chicago and a Virginia she’ll risk it all for this mug right here. Smh. He’s really her type.???
Does your comment about ALL women being weak, stupid and ran by men apply to you, or just women you know? lol
Lol. I feel her.
That was sarcasm
OK, got it.
My ninja
New post
Shid, Janet is all over the place. She. is. HUGE.
YOU MADE ME SCREAM
Ok good Roses. Halloween is Monday. What are your babies going to be dressed as?
We all have that one we’ll be/been a fool for. ?
A referre ..
The weekend is upon us and I plan to take full advantage. Mother nature looked out ?
Get 2 in for me just incase my plan for today doesn’t work out.
Nice!
Women cheat for sex as well. We can also hit and quit it. Don’t need all of that relationship emotional where you been drama. Stop putting all of us in a emotional bowl as to think just because a man talked to us he is automatically my boyfriend and husband material. A lot of us know when to hold them and know when to fold them. We just wanna get our rocks off and keep it moving. Love ain’t got nothing to do with good sex and yes he is correct women are the best cheaters. If a man cheats he will bring the sidepiece around so he can be seen by his boys for points. A woman will take her sidepiece on the other side of town where no one knows her at all.
Lunch…snack…dinner…snack ?If all goes according to plan *rubs hands like Birdman*
Oooowwww. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3362db1c3db7077b9c4e8c1bd4448285591396a1a5540910c16520060c219eb5.gif
We supposed to beleeve everything she say. If she sat he is controlling tgan he is. She didn’t say he beat her just that he too dominating. She need to go back to Nick.
How long or recent has it been since your feeling ashamed?
There’s always one. Common sense goes out the window.
Her daddy……Not around. LOL j/k j/k
Yes indeed! I had one I was so crazy for. ?
We have one man for the sex and one man for the money. A lot of times we cheat when we least expect it. You could be somewhere minding your own business and met someone and be attracted to his cologne, hat, the way he wears a suit, smile, etc, etc. Must people who cheat surprise themselves and think they will never such a thing.
Hey hun.
It’s crazy the stupid ish you’ll do behind that nicca.
Corner now???????
that bytch is the devil…popped up this morning *weeps*
I got one I cheated with over 10 years ago I didn”t want and he is calling werking my last nerve. I had my friend dying when I told her he had a water bed in the year 2000, had the old amber color frosted Princess House Clock with scones on the wall and a floor model television set with a stack of VHS/DVD’s. I ain’t seeing this man no more because if he hasn’t changed his furniture in all of these years he hasn’t change he sexual techniques.
I think cat bulgar becky woke that ninja up. He been on his best behavior since. Shouts out cray cray becky out here waking sleeping ninjas up.
I heard she aint wanna sing at his sister’s 50th birthday paper or intended it. And old dude say f this.
Recalibrated Rx and the meds kicked in, huh Auntie?
Should have slapped her.
Can he please scream this from the mountain top
Nope. He’s said it his self, they haven’t spoken in over a year?. To his credit, he’s still trying though.
Damm I hope so.
Well not necessarily ashamed, just regretting it because it’s thrown in my face all the time. 5 (6 now) years putting up with someone’s bs is no bueno. I’ve learned that instead of cheating to fill the void, that I should just skip the stress of the aftermath and just leave the situation altogether. Folks are toxic.
She still ain’t coming back big fella.
Lmao. I shouldn’t have said ashamed, I typed that cause he’s gonna come right behind me and read this chit. I commented on that asap rocky post about him being cute and caught hell for it, so I’m deleting this post too???. I’m just regretful about not leaving altogether, cause my guy ain’t chit. You can’t put your hands on someone and expect them to forgive you and simultaneously acting like it didn’t even happen. Wish I never met him.
What it do MissHarlem? Hope all is well with you.
A pregnant lady… lol
Thank God I “been” already.
Thats true. But how about stop doing it. Is the desire that deep that you can’t think straight. I would love to be a man just for a day to see how it feels. It must really be good if it controls your mind like that…that you can’t even think for yourself.
I cheated many moons ago (early-mid 20s) on a few occasions because I could and I had no intentions of leaving the dude I was with. It was a thrill of some sort with a dude or three that I was sexually attracted to only. We can be niggas too; don’t get it twisted Mr. Brown.
CHILE…SHE’S STILL ADORABLE, BUT THAT BABY AIN’T HOLDING BACK!
PLAY “A LOVE STORY GAME” AND IT’LL GIVE YOU A BOGO. I FOUND IT ON GOOGLE…CODE EXPIRES NEXT MONTH.
Amen. Even strong women.
And be smooth with it
True to everythang you said. I know women who have been cheating on their spouses/fiancee for years and haven;t been caught. I just tell them please dont use me as an alibi.
Welp! At least he knows…But I’m sure he wont change…
FINALLY …. so he WAS talking about you dudes when he said these hoes ain’t LOYAL … lol #fullcircle
That’s how I took it when i heard the song lol
bride of chucky
FACTS
What’s gotten over him.
Karreuche must got ’em shook again after seeing posts about her with Odell Beckham. Well, at least he DID tell the truth because men are ALWAYS dishing that ish out and act a dayum foolery when it comes back to them (i.e., Scottie Pippen and his wife–and Future). smh
In other news, have ya’ll seen Kelly Rowland’s new video? It is a BANGER! She did that! https://youtu.be/MbGBRA7TNj0
I like Chris Brown even with his flaws.
Chris speaking truth on this!
Everything he said was true. Too bad he can’t control his twig and berries. He would have had a great wife by now and no ratchet babymama drama.
Kruncy still does not want you, Chris.
Indeed!
Your children come first, hun. Your feelings are secondary. They need a father — unless and until they are over age 7.
Don’t be ashamed. Some people think being monogamous is abnormal.
Yes, don’t be ashamed. Some people think you were doing what God intended.
Smart women keep other people out of their cheating they trust no one because friends could become enemies and they will turn on you. What he didn’t mention is that men are emotional as hell but they don’t like to admit it and yet they say we are too emotional. Then is a woman isn’t emotional over the dyck (even if it is good) she is accused of acting like a man as if men wrote the book of unattached sex.
oh, I’m not shamed. Young… lived… learned….
So it’s okay to have sex with a woman looking for love and affection? Heartless and Selfish
Chris looks like Dave East with those glasses on ?
Common knowledge CB, but thanks for sharing.
Let’s just hope that’s a bridge we won’t need to cross.. if and until they turn 7. knocks on wood.. They’re 3. Lol
My two cents is…a man is not obligated to sleep with 1 woman and 1 woman only if he hasn’t put a ring on your finger and walked u down that aisle and said those vows. i was a virgin when i met my husband and stayed one until the day we were officially married. Women give the man the only thing that they look forward to, too soon so when they leave you for a new piece you’re surprised. Hold that thang back and respect yourself and maybe you’ll get the ring and the commitment and marriage. Sex comes a dime a dozen yes, but if you are the only woman in his black book holding it back that right there is intriguing. Once you officially have him THEN slowly start unleashing the freak and always keep him surprised. Take notes ladies I’ve been married for 11 years. now i know Sandra think my man cheat but he’s my best friend, works with me, works out at the gym with me always by my side. i hold it down, held it down and if ever I’m not he knows to let me go because I REFUSE to be sharing fluids with other women and KNOW IT. That’s just disrespectful. so screenshot this and keep it in your psyche ladies. You’ve just been schooled
Girlbye! #####WELL#####MOFO########SAID!!!! Thank you
Salute my brother ?
The last chick on his mind…. She was a karmic leech…
These hoes ain’t loyal… What hoe you know loyal … You may want to listen to the lyrics all the way through instead of listening to just the hook and the beat #Helpful … #management
Well said. If women weren’t so open with sex then there would be no one to cheat with and marriage would be the only option for sex.
Well said. If women weren’t so open with sex then there would be no one to cheat with and marriage would be the only option for sex.
Well said. If women weren’t so open with sex then there would be no one to cheat with and marriage would be the only option for sex.
? like who didn’t know that?
That’s what happens when a guy have a daughter that he loves deeply. He hopes she never goes through what he put his women through but a lot of the daughters end up with a guy just like their father.
Omg, Chris is like sooo smart. #Duh.
Omg, Chris is like sooo smart. #Duh.
He looks so aged
File this under “Chris Brown Explains it All.”
Well this meme has been circulating social media so it isn’t his words. Maybe if he leaves the drugs alone, drop his mooching gang banging friends, and grow Up he’ll find someone who at least will stick around despite the cheating lol Karruche tried
Yes!!! Exactly! But very few wanna hear the truth!
Most high school drop outs are the smartest. 📖 👓 🎓
I agree if they live exposed to his negative characteristics. Hopefully he will clean up his act before the baby can understand the current him.
If we didn’t know all we have to do is Larsa Pippens.
So Sandra you saying despite all circumstances women should stay in a detrimental situation as if to not seem selfish just for the kids?
It worked for generations of families that stayed together for decades. Now, 80% of black households are headed by women. Shameful.
Chris Brown is lonely, crazy, and on drugs for a reason… ha
Chris Brown need to be a agent he is making all kinds of random off brand chicks famous and getting them all kinds of sports contracts…. Its like give Thots a marketing plan… lol
Truuu
Men can cheat all day. Let they woman cheat… U would think she shot his mama.
Men are not WIRED to cheat…
Some of us choose to be loyal and some choose not
“Yes!!! Exactly! But very few wanna hear the truth!”
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Even funnier (or more ironic) the post a little higher up that talked about how good women are at cheating had 20+ likes / upvotes, but this HONEST post only got 1…
Reevaluate your priorities and truly consider your value.
You’re only worth what YOU show you are to the next person… Let that sit on your mind for a minute
Yess!!!
But there’s going to women who will give it up–that’s the problem.
There is no loyalty among women.
Giving it up. Fine. Single. Do wat u want. Just try not to end up in a bad relationship. Hit, then quit! Lol
only a lonely BORED person would have such EMPTY LONELY MISERABLE time to post such a message on social media
-For all the boys, keep cheating like him & loose your RIDE OR DIE chic only to regret it when you cant find someone to replace that sweet chic
CHRIS just koz you mad ur exes are gone & you single & currently cant get some doesnt make the chics attracted to you FOR POSTING SUCH MESSAGE!! koz its immature!
agreed….
LATE 20’s bruh=just about thirties.
GROW the fluck up already…
Personally?
I would NEVER listen 2 a word he say anyhow … still thinkin’ he a lil teen horny azz boy and sh-t.
Bottom line…
MEN DON’T CHEAT.
Little boys do.Chris seem still immature.Now if he did not write it?He still has to mature. and stop also putting his daughter at risk or should not have primary custody period.How he cheat on his ex was foul and got 1 prego too while cheatin.Nasty fluck up he is. I have no respect for so called “men” like him.
And all the std’s … some don’t show up til years later.
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Let the male hoe bags keep fluckin’around.I got no time for that.
No #realman over early 20s and up going to have to sit around hoein’… We respect the #RealWomanQueen we have.A good girl.
So no need 2 even think about being a male hoe and showing disloyal to a queen.Simple as that.Life 2 short to be the way chris has been…He too old for that sh-t…Hoping 1 day he realize it.
Peace.
LATE 20’s bruh=just about thirties.
GROW the fluck up already…
Personally?
I would NEVER listen 2 a word he say anyhow … still thinkin’ he a lil teen horny azz boy and sh-t.
Bottom line…
MEN DON’T CHEAT.
Little boys do.
look bad with all tatted up to neck and letting himself go.smh
no respect for male hoe bags…. not all men cheat. he pushin 30 in couple yrs or so. still act 18 grow up already . not all men cheat
#realmendontcheat
im loving your post here handsome. i fb you.
you’re 1 of the more rare men…be proud of that. icamm with each word…”
yep.. icam with this post and XAVIER 2 post here..”
yea. sad how he also look diff. not like he was at one time.
wow. nice 2 read this xavier.”
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you’re 1 of the more rare men…be proud of that. icam
with each word… You got “no time” for that as ur post say because, yes indeed, you’re a real man…” u can how chris dumb self how to b a real man for sure + others.
That post is so good. icam xavier. i fb you too.
o yep.
vixen icam love ur post and XAVIER above.
u can really Xavier teach chris dumb self how to b a (real) man for sure + others. That post is so good. icam xavier. i fb you too.
missmia sur has… UGH .. no longer imo “Real good looking not even cute.but still a great MJ level dancer. and ok singer.”
He’s got a point there tho
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