By Sandra Rose  | 

To help kick off Gay Pride Month The NY Times published a guide aimed at raising boys to be feminists. Feminists coined the term "toxic masculinity" to describe "harmful behaviors exhibited mainly by men," such as rape, assaults and murder.

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Bruce Jenner

Feminists believe eliminating masculinity in boys will eradicate such harmful behavior from the male species.

Gloria Steinem, the feminist who is credited with single handedly destroying the traditional family, says “I’m glad we’ve begun to raise our daughters more like our sons, but it will never work until we raise our sons more like our daughters.”

The NY Times writer theorizes that men are "falling behind in school and work" because they are not mentally equipped to survive in a feminist world.

The following are tips and suggestions culled from interviews with neuroscientists, economists, psychologists and others by the NY Times Writer who asked a simple question: "How can we raise feminist sons?"

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  • Ro

    LOL @ The first picture and the one of EJ is JUST A MESS!

  • Soda

    What person of any sexuality would find what Jaden is wearing appealing? Though, from what I've read, 2 Chains would approve of his purse.

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  • Bird

    Jaden doesn't really dress feminine anymore. I haven't seen him in a skirt in like a year.

  • tt

    He looks like a dork

  • Rayne

    They better go head on with this Bullchit!!!

  • Yoni7

    Yall have a good weekend, because this shit right here........

  • Lolalao

    He looks like a raging queen.

  • Lolalao

    You can teach boys all of that without them liking what mommy likes.

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    “Some mothers raise their daughters but love their sons,” said Jawanza Kunjufu, an author and lecturer on educating black boys. They make their daughters study, do chores and go to church, he said — but not their sons.
    WHHET?!! My son is well balanced..he cooks, went to church and kept shyt clean rounst the did my brothers as did my dad..FOH..and NUUUNT of my kids betta have come in with bad grades.. NERRRPPP!

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    So society no longer want men in society huh? I mean they need them to procreate, but not have a standard definition on being a man. No sense or responsibility, no head of the house hold, not protect and provide for your family, just wear your mama's clothes.

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  • stav

    What about girls that rape?

  • JV

    I liked #5. You should definitely teach kids to be self-reliant. Taking care of your house and being cleanly in general is very important, and women don't always want to cook either. I think #2 may be taken the wrong way by people, but men should be able to open up about their feelings as well. I get that some people will take the whole article as veering into "gay" territory but that's not how I saw a lot of it.

  • hottlanta

    What about an article about raising SMART boys. Some of these clowns are doing the same thing in their 20's carrying over in their 50's. Then get mad t you when you turn them down.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    My English professor told our class that quote. And I told her why not love and raise your child, girl or boy...what's wrong with that?

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  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    There is nothing wrong with the list, but the pictures and the title of the article...Lort!

  • Harley

    Sounds like boys need to be raised with "common sense" not more feminine. they really trying to control the population by any means. gay agenda, monsato, chump

  • Vonn

    EJ' s pants/chaps or whatever the heck they are look ridiculous. It looks like someone is trying to stuff too much sausage in extra small casings.

  • Anunnaki

    When I was growing up my dad made SURE me and my brother was different in EVERYTHING, never any confusion. Boy , GIRL no inbetween

  • Renee26

    I think those parenting tips are awesome for both genders, what I have an issue with is the pictures Sandra chose to attach to them because that implies that if you follow those tips your son will turn out gay or transgendered ?

  • Dowoop

    I was gonna comment on his chap but happened to see this on top and fell out of my chair.

  • Renee26

    Same thing I said chile... some bull shut to draw in people to gay bash

  • Dowoop

    And that is how it should be.

  • Anunnaki

    number 4 my dad would had knocked the hell outta my lil brother If he even had a thought to wear some chyt EJ got would of never happen in my daddy home NEVER,

  • sunni_daze

    I like my men masculine. If I want to date a woman, I'll go dyke.

  • 4RGSpot

    ?????? exactly!

  • 4RGSpot

    I am so glad Jaden Smith cut his hair is now back dressing like a classy young man.

    That Bruce Jenner thang???no comment.

  • Junkanoo

    Really like that jacket Jaden has on has a retro vibe about it ,nice!

  • Junkanoo

    Sandra secretly wishes she were straight her internalized homophobia is intense and sad

  • Fiona

    Really? I like men who provide for their family, fix things, open doors, lift heavy objects, lead, etc., BUT I also like men who share household chores, cook a good meal, thoughtful, helpful, etc... you know those things associated with feminine characteristics.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    I'm sure this is happening across all cultures, but with a lot of men of color locked up, missing in action, or dead; why does seem so mainstream among men of color? sans Jenner

  • kiddo1

    I totally agree that we as mothers need to teach our sons how to look after themselves...I always make sure my son help fold the clothes, his own and the face clothes and towels are his responsibility, I also love yard work so he help me outside also, I think and know if he see that a woman can cut grass and trim hedges he has NO excuse! both of my Sons see and know that their father is a hard worker we call him "Julius from Everybody hates Chris" My husband always preach to my sons that 90% of being a Man is taking care of your family and Responsibilities bar none...

  • Meme

    people make me laugh so if his car broke down (highly unlikely I know) and his girlfriend got out to push whilst he sat in there steering, these same people who wrote the article and believe this nonsense will be up in arms

  • bemetoo

    A lot of People on earth are stupid as fawk

  • Quitedeliteful

    Ham Shans!! LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Chicagowise

    At first glance, I thought the title was, "... raising effeminate boys." Never mind. Carry on....

  • Quitedeliteful

    EJ does wear some nice clothes but this looks like moths and caterpillars breed up in that crotch area...

  • NIA

    Burn Gloria..... it's all a designed experiments...

  • tynamight

    My soul says NO!

  • growingviolet

    So SR you don't discriminate regarding sexual orientation when it comes to grown ass men wearing easter basket colored lace short sets, but the feminization of males somehow bothers you? Go figure.

  • SandraRose

    Those men in the picture are grown. I object to adults trying to feminize young boys. Big difference.

  • LibraGirlonly

    I'm keeping my same values about male and female role. The rest of you do want you want but this is wrong and the end of days are near.

  • stanhope

    But hon you ain't going up in the rapture with views like that. Toodles...

  • LibraGirlonly

    Of course I am. The Creator guides me, toodles.

  • stanhope

    In Brucegina's case crabs in the cooch...sorry hatelin.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Do you think the Most High is happpy about men trying to be women and vice verses? I don't think so.

  • LibraGirlonly

    You are absolutely correct.

  • Mrs. B. Y.

    These types of articles are so misleading. It seems like it had nothing to do with feminism and everything to do with how to raise a man to be a good HUSBAND. Raising boys who are self-sufficient and don't rely on their partners to do every single chore is very important. Many a women don't know what they are getting into when marrying some of these men. I've met men who couldn't do basic cleaning a bathroom or sweeping. It's quite sad lol

  • Yetunde

    I don't think TI is a good example of a positive role model. He may talk the talk, but he does not walk the walk. He has children with multiple women, he constantly cheated on his wife, and aside from the cheating, he was downright disrespectful towards her. What example is he showing his son's about how to treat women?

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  • Ant Hill

    Fire make we burn them!

  • Monday

    Gay agenda to the fullest..

    It is also music month. I will focus on that


    Emasculation is the new thing that is in with liberals...and the white womens feminist movement....
    Agenda Emasculation.

  • Felicia Kelley

    This whole write up!!!?????

  • Felicia Kelley

    Sandra missed her calling as a comedy writer

  • Dowoop

    Dont get me wrong..I have two boys and i have made it clear that there is no maid in the house. They are only 7 & 8 but i have them cleaning their own bathroom (even if i have to re-do it again) and learning to wash dishes. When it comes to chores there is no "feminine chores" in my house. I am the only woman which means hubby and kids would have their feet kicked up while i slave away...I'm not about that life. However, what i will not have them doing is trying on my makeup, wearing dresses/skirts and things of that nature. Now if and when they want to do something i say they can't i always remind them when you are 18, have a job and paying some bills we can talk.
    Because chores, cooking, being thoughtful/helpful are not feminine characteristics - Its called not being a lazy bum and having some manners.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    So boys shouldn't be taught independence?