Tongues were wagging when a video surfaced showing Xscape singer Tameka “Tiny” Harris and her husband, T.I. Harris, celebrating her 43rd birthday in a nightclub.
Fans noticed Tameka’s stiff body language every time T.I. touched her. At one point, she braced herself when the rapper reached out and pulled her close to him for an awkward kiss.
Fans say Tameka has moved on with her life after growing wary of T.I.’s constant drama and stunts.
Tameka’s beloved mom, Dianne Cottle-Pope was not having the disrespect voiced by Tameka’s fans. Dianne popped into the comments to clear the air on any breakup rumors.
“One thing I have to say, no matter what happens they love the hell out of each other,” Dianne wrote in a caption under the video posted on Xscape’s fansite, @OfficialXscape.
She added: “What GOD has put together, let no man or woman tear apart.”
Michelle of StraightfromtheA.com broke the news last week that Tameka moved into a luxury high-rise building on Peachtree Street in Atlanta. But Dianne confirmed that T.I. is staying in the apartment with Tiny and the couple’s youngest daughter Heiress Harris, 2.
@sandrarose
Can we have a Post in regards to what happened to an 18yo girl by the name of Nia Wilson and the senseless tragedy.
I just feel like everyone should keep their feelings/comments to themselves when it comes to these two. I feel there shouldn’t be any comments on any posts about them. At this point, unless something extraordinary happens, this will be my last time commenting on them, because you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make HER drink. So, when she ends up with HIV I will not be a part of the dragging section cause IDGAF.
Uncle and Auntie at it again. They like it, I love it.
Her body language was showing..but thats her husband so… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/832a6f8ebfb5a03ab1d0120bfc8064caa409244fd7c6d9f3af67f03742292487.gif
She wasn’t feeling him and/or that onesie ?
Throw back Garaden Post
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For married ppl, if u had more good years than bad u might wanna hold tight. I had plenty friends jump the gun on divorce only to remarry each other again. In most cases both parties hit the dating scene and see it’s nothing out here but chicken head men and women only worthy of being a fools side piece.
Maybe she just needed to loosen up first… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7fc3efb353e2208a92f24ea5c32160b34bbb18cc158e066829c0ad963be859a9.gif
sigh
We gotta flip a coin!
Her jumpsuit is cute as hell with that ponytail too! Kuteeeeeeeeeeee!!!
I want to ask Tiny’s Mama at what cost does Tiny continue to love the hell out of T.I.?! I told y’all that Tiny learned that behavior from from her mama. Monkey see monkey do. Don’t @me either. #ISaidWhatISaid#
OMG. On my screen you can see Tiny dancing twice in tandem. It is DOPE
Someone on the gram commented that it’s obvious Tip is trying to leave without hurting Tiny…he’s ready to go and is trying to soften the blow….chile….
But they keep their business in the streets, so we should back the car up and go around them?!
it’s nothing out here but chicken head men and women
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You got that right.
how fast they got back together? I mean did they give it a few years to grow and change and then got back together or did they just date people for a few months and then went back? That matters as well.
That’s sad people can’t even ride the train.
T.I. is an a$$. He don’t really want her but he also doesn’t want her with anyone else but him. Niggaz
One of my favorite gifs…Thanks for bringing it here
Lol you taking it personal now huh
Soften the blow by acting affectionate? Lol… yall crack me up with the analogies
I wish these women would think about the examples they’re setting for their daughters and sons! I don’t care what he does for you financially! It is never ok to be someone’s doormat! The sons are learning it’s ok as long as you take care of them financially and the daughters are learning it’s ok as long as their taken care of financially! SMDH
No, not at all. I really didn’t comment too too tough when he got caught with ole girl the other day. I really DGAF….it’s just ridiculous to see you guys going ham and feeling sorry for this chick when she isn’t even feeling sorry for herself.
Ms. Dianne With all due respect go sit down. Your daughter is only allowing Clifford(cant stay faithful) Harris to treat her like dirt because she doesn’t know any better or hasnt seen any better growing up. Don’t encourage your daughter to stay in an unhealthy relationship were she’s not happy all so you can keep up a lifestyle. #IsaidwhatIsaid
I thought the video of them was cute. ?????
Or run them over cause I’m mugfuggin tide https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5126c000c2053006260ca8fef21776b4fb995e4366330be458ae5a4ff92f0010.jpg of hearing their problems.
I dont think he would even give her that type of Courtesy
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It was. Even though I have experienced them together in person. I’ve never seen T.I. show this much affection toward his wife Tiny in public like this before. .
HMM I’M NOT SEEING THE BIG DEAL. IT SEEMED SHE DIDN’T LIKE THE DJ PUTTING THE SPOT LIGHT ON HER NOR DID SHE SEEM TOO COMFORTABLE IN HER OUTFIT AND WHEN TIP WENT TO KISS ON HER SHE RECIPROCATED AND PUT HER HAND ON HIS NECK THEN KISSED HIM TOO. PEOPLE FIND OR MAKE UP TOO MUCH BS. SMH!!! NICE TO SEE THEM OUT PARTYING TOGETHER, STILL CELEBRATING HER BDAY DAYS AFTER ………JENNY JONES!!!
STUNTING FOR THE GRAM, THE PRODUCERS OF THEIR SHOW AND THE FANS……..JENNY JONES!!!
Girls should be able to learn from their fathers how they should be treated. Sorry ya’ll I’m on one today and it bothers me when women tolerate and allow disrespect and humiliation….especially for all of the world to see
et tu Dubus
The video is cute. Even though she might have ‘moved on’ they still seem to have a thing for each other… They are not done yet…
No post on 50 cent vs. Floyd beef? Floyd is offering 1k to folks in a roast 50 sweepstakes ?
No cares about those two bishes.
I personally dont feel sorry for Tiny Tameka. I am glad she is doing whatever it is she wants to do.
I want them to end their marriage or to reconcile in SILENCE like Wayne and Baby did.
Tiny’s daddy was on the road with his singing group. He didn’t have time, back in day singing groups had groupies like that still do now.
I want them to leave us the hell out of they relationship
I was referring to T.I.
Seems like that apple doesn’t fall far from that tree. Mother is encouraging stupidity and ignorance…so therefore I see where Tiny gets it from.
Lol
Yes, my Big Mama would say if you don’t want your business in the streets, get t out the damn streets. 1+1=2
This is not healthy or admirable. Love is an action word. If a man hurts you through his actions repeatedly, he doesn’t love you. I just hate that they have boys and girls that will grow up to emulate this same behavior. Shyt is sad.
We are witty commenters…we could take a stab at it ?
Floyd won’t make up with him because he doesn’t want HERPES? 50 was asking for it, kept trolling that man’s womens lol
I’m #currently working on my entry!
I want to know who is running Floyd IG
Ayyyeee…get money!
I kinda want tiny to consult with kourtney on where she got her European sugar baby and have fun trotting around the world with her kids and ignore tip unless he’s calling to see the kids.
If she keeps taking her husband back why do anyone care…it’s their marriage!
These folks find it “cute”…. its actually pretty sad.
Blaque! You are so correct. I thought tiny had more self love for-herself.
Facts!
Right. Like who the f*ck says a cheating, lying and disrespectful relationship is cute? I’m convinced the general public is dumb.
I think Tip going through a midlife crisis. However, Tiny needs to decide once and for all what she wants and what she is willing to take. All these mixed messages can’t be healthy for their kids.
Um yeah? You can’t lead a person on by being mean. Well, I guess you could but its typically the opposite.
He’s a prime example, saying marriage is dumb and hanging with his girlfriend one day, buying tiny a car full of gifts and dancing with her the next.
Yea all because he buys her “ nice things” smh its sad
@sandrarose Thanks for the Post #sad :'(
Uh okay. Only someone who can’t fathom fake love would say such a thing. I have way too much sense for this. And if you buy into fake love because of material things, you’re not very smart. Sorry not sorry.
exactly!
Lol we’re talking about tiny here. A woman still hanging around after he has said multiple times, publicly that he doesn’t want to be married to her.
Ti knows he’s doing just enough to keep her.
Ever thought Tiny was the one playing nice to take his material shit but has two side relationships? Now that is something that makes more sense!
Type to text is.
She was stiff due to her outfit. Looked cute but not all that comfortable or easy to move in, lol.
I’m convinced Sandra is munching on Tiny’s kitten box cause she is OBSESSED with this lady. Posting constantly about her and her marriage. Okay we get it! Her and her rapper husband are having problems with their marriage- for the past 3 years. It’s nothing new. We don’t need a play by play commentary on it. No one really cares!!
I hope you’re right. I mean, I’m not rooting for adultry on either side but he checked out years ago. I wouldn’t be mad at all if she had a boo on the low. (Even though I think she should run it in his face the way he’s been doing her)
yes
I have my own to “maintain”. That is plenty for me!!!!
She look like she just don’t want her skirt going up and showing all her ass,,,, she don’t look stiff to me. T.I. Loves Tiny and she loves him, only she has let him disrespect her one too many times and now he knows he can get away with it. Typical man…. that’s why they always lose a good woman and end up with a hood rat.
Agree with this,,,, why does her granny mom feel the need to defend this abusive relationship on social media?
Ugh! She should leave while she has the upper hand! #JERK!
Oh ok, cause you have always had a perfect rel And can’t fathom the games these assholes play right…… #jokes
No….never…..not even once…..He called her a “situation” years ago and she stayed. Not only did she stay then, she stayed every single time after….. stop it…
Exactly, I have no idea if she really was with Floyd or not but if she was she should have rubbed that all over Tips face, but she publicly denied it….
OMG yes!! Let him know, you not the only man in the world!
Not denying they love each other, can definitely see that. However, I would much rather have the respect then anything… ?????
Aawww this was cute ? I had a dream about TI we almost went there but I was awaken lol
Naw she love that attention. I think he was just a little tipsy because he neeevvvver shows her affection in public. When I use to watch their show, she would try to be hugged up on him or rubbing on him and not once did he reciprocate the same towards her.
yes we do! that’s what we come here for!
feeling sorry for this chick when she isn’t even feeling sorry for herself.
There you have it…if she likes it I love it.
Regarding this video though I saw nothing related to the headline. Auntie must’ve made a deal to give them at least 1 post a week ?
That was a nightmare hun.
So I watch Hip-Hop Squares and Tiny and her daughter was on there, TI is a regular, and she was being shady as hell. I guess since I know the “social gossip” about them, it was just obvious. I suppose she may be feed up, but loyal too.
“What GOD has put together, let no man or woman tear apart.”
Aint no God had any parts in putting that mess together! So stop it Tiny’s mama!
Lmbo????
Ok so that explains why Tiny is a stupid doormat. She learned it from her dumbass mother.
I see what you’re saying but don’t disrespect her mom. I don’t know her him or her family. Moms are sacred, even if misguided.
hahaha harsh….
PEOple love blaming bullshiiit on God but won’t give him credit for the ACTUAL blessings. GOd ain’t never said let somebody do you all kinds of wrong and stay in a adulterous marriage. SHe taking turning the other cheek to a whole new level !! But what do you expect a man to do if you allegedly gave the ok and participated in his cheating via three way sexual encounters with other women ?????
???????? On elm street!
“Moms are sacred, even if misguided.”
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That’s so sweet.
You’re absolutely right. Just afraid her dress will rise up.
Right, she’s an old southern Christian lady that believes in for better or worse. No telling what Tiny daddy put her mother thru back in the day when he was alive and well. Plus he was a musician if that tells you anything.
You gone need a bull horn ?
The Kennedys were the same way. Rose Kennedy believed a wife’s duty was to accept anything her husband did (Catholic upbringing). As a result, every one of her sons flagrantly cheated on their wives (with both John AND Robert Kennedy having affairs with Marilyn Monroe).
Gasp! (tightly clutches pearls)
You can only speak for yourself, there’s only “you “ there is no “we!
Chile. Tiny and that botched ass surgery. Throw the whole body away.
Do they have a marriage anymore or just an “arrangement”, who knows??
Obviously there is! Look at the comments. LOOK at yours. Lol & Smh.
It’s as fake as her ass.
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So both T.I. and Tiny’s mothers are the “pick me” type which would explain that mess of a marriage their children are in. Quick to quote God and the Bible but refuse to stay faithful.
Tiny is way too old for this. Her mother should be encouraging her to do better. I guess she’ll wait for the day Clifford gives her a disease you can’t cure that has three letters.
TI’s family guilts her too. They post things and make comments that make it seem like she should forgive his behavior . Even recently when he was caught on video slapping that women’s behind and kissing on her , his mom took up for him.
That is one of my pet peeves! Ugghhh Drives me nuts when people wanna bring their God into their messy choices.
“God aint gonna put more on you than you can bear.” Exactly foo! You put all that mess on yourself, your God played no parts in that. “It was God’s will for this to happen.” No foo! It was a will that YOU created for yourself due to your poor choices. The red flags were there.
Oooh Chile! I hollered! Mainly cause its pure truth! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7214d8202e43f2607143a7fbad6925f352bb6b75b984e3a6829be0137bcf4f72.gif
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Well just about everyone has seen pics of his herpes outbreaks that flare up around his mouth. So I think it’s a little too late for the incurable disease part you mention.
Or her.
Well said
I think I kinda get it; well let’s say I sympathize with her. She’s loved this man for over 20 years; and when he’s good too her; he’s really good to her. She feels she’s vested so much time in him; she’d hate to see him openly with someone else. (She see him sneaking on the blogs) but the thought of him being in a real relationship with someone; makes her hold on to him. Plus he whispers the sweet lies and her heart melts all over again. I’m not going to judge her; love isn’t always easy!
When she’s fed up; she’ll leave.
This ??
A whole ass word. It’s not nice. Love isn’t always beautiful. Sometimes rough and hard. I get it too. So easy to judge. Harder to understand if you haven’t been there
Quick to quote God and the Bible but refuse to stay faithful.
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Where were they all the way faithful in the Bible? It’s full of contradictions last time I read. Adultery and fornication were frowned upon. Yet supposed to only stay faithful to God. Then depending on your version men with multiple wives. But yet keep your marital bed pure. So…why can’t they quote the Bible? What part should they hold true to? What part is better or worse than the other? Since folks want to keep bringing up the fact of her mom saying something about God. Lets have Bible study. And yes Im Christian. But let’s dissect on why there is no WAY on earth..that God cannot be a part of their marriage.
Well, when ya mama cosigns….?????. Adultery is the one ok reason to divorce according to the Bible. Don’t put staying in an adulterous disrespectful marriage on God.
she looks cute!
I will never lie to you
Most remarried each other within 2 years or less, this is why I don’t recommend dating separated ppl or ppl who haven’t been divorced longer than 5 years. It’s a waste of time.
I been reading some of these comments and I can tell most aren’t married. It’s a different ball game when u are married especially if the man is a great provider. Ti and tiny has been married or together for 15 years shit change and it will take time to rearrange back to the way that it was.
Lmao ?
But….but….your name is FukkFolks! (Insert picture of baby Cardi B. with her hand on her hip) . My mom says I can’t have Bible study with people named Fukk.??
? she was popping that ?
I agree with you, but she’s so weak for him she believes that they would go right back to one on one. I’m sure he convinced her of that
You should still make an appointment with your obgyn…even in a dream that’s too close boo
I did a double take too…like didn’t she just write “we”? ??
he has her trapped in the typical abusive cycle of highs and lows. hes a bully and likes toying with tiny. shes smaller and weaker and he likes to “kick her around”, see her cry, only to gather her back into his arms again and repeat at will. hes crazy as ALL men are when they are unsaved.
This is it exactly.
I wouldn’t completely criticize their mothers for wanting to keep their family intact, but they are enabling some abuse.
T.I. openly and publicly cheats but for some women cheating is not a dealbreaker. For some women cheating is ok, but public cheating and embarrassing the marital home is the deal breaker. But for Tiny, his public cheating hurts, but it’s not a dealbreaker.
For some women, a man destroying family finances is the deal breaker. For Tiny, I think if TI was a degenerate gambling man or drug addict and driving them into the poor house, that would be a dealbreaker.
She can live with unfaithfulness, but she could never live without financial security. Tiny would not be happy with a fine, big D, kind, loving, faithful broke or regular joe man. TI is well aware of this and he cheats yet satisfies her and spoils her accordingly.
She needs to stop messing with her health, fake eyeballs and booty shots, pitiful.
This is exactly why I’m named this. FukkFolks. Inconsistent folks. Judgemental folks. Mean folks. Folks who mean no one well. Fukk em. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bd59b1ebe8500ddf229c513f39de1c62b07a0e501fe79126d4a76f5ab6fa43ab.png
ok tiny!! i like that lil outfit. but don’t tell me mama pope condones the fuggery tho???
you need another bible study. the bible never contradicts itself. some of yall just READ and don’t STUDY.
or rearrange to something new. Either way it is a transition…
Ikr?! ??
No my understanding is just fine. Also last I checked people interpret the Bible in certain ways. Even across religional umbrellas within Christianity. The Catholics take one thing from the Bible while the Baptists might get a whole different meaning. Nobody knows YOUR God or mine or anyones except that person and one more time.. THEIR God. Everyone has a different walk. How dare folks try to remove God from these people union, or anything under the sun. Nobody has say in what God has a hand in or not. Not for us here on earth to decide what our heavenly father has in store for anyone.
Outfit is cute!
Bottom line it’s up to Tiny and TI to fix their broken marriage it takes two to get it on track.
sis have a great day and I wish you abundant relationships only!
Why is only the 2 yr old living with them? Isnt some of the other kids minors too?
Lol enjoy your day dear. Today is a new one, make the most of it
oh well…at this point….if she loves it…then that is her business. None of us knows what goes on behind closed doors with them….so just let them live…faithfully, unfaithfully….hell who are we to judge???
Sounds like pick me logic to me. T.I. can’t even pay the IRS, what financial security? He was broke when they met. Tiny has her own money. Her ex was a broke loser too. T.I.’s a cheater, allegedly abusive and controlling. That should be a deal-breaker but apparently she has been taught to put up with anything so long as she “haz a man!”
K.
I guess she’ll wait until it’s HIV then.
m’kay
I think she is with him for several reasons, she has low self esteem and doesn’t realize she can do better hence all the “you are ugly” comments she’s been getting for the last decade, she doesn’t want to leave him and have him claim someone else publicly, not to mention he probably holds all the cards financially and lastly she has a weak ass mother in her ear telling her to stick it out with her husband no matter what. I really feel bad for her because she looks so unhappy in the eyes and unfortunately we as woman was taught to be tough and hold our families together through thick and thin. I have since broken that traditional saying and I tell my daughter I rather you be from a broken home than an unhappy one. If you are not happy with a man you communicate that to him, give him a chance to make it right, if your concerns falls on death ears than its time to leave. If that man cheated or hit you, there are NO SECOND CHANCES! do not let your loyalty because slavery, As that saying goes, there comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump a puddle for you. A man is suppose to make you the BEST version of yourself. Not a shell of the person you don’t even recognize . smdh
Because you’re married you suppose to put up with constant infidelity. He has no respect for their marriage
A man couldn’t tell me shiiiit bout a threesome AFTER he fixed his funky lips to ask me to do it! IMO I just feel like the man don’t respect you when they ask that type of thing of you. The way my heart and mind set up I don’t want NOBODY kissing and touching on the love of my life let alone doing it in my presence I would go ape shiiit! Chick would have walked in for a threesome and limped our with one leg! But I’m a selfish lover so ?????
SAY THAT THERE!!!
U run into the same issues or worse issues running, once you are married u gotta face the issues.
I’ve been married and marriage is not an excuse for putting up with disrespect and thoughtless, hurtful behavior. I am a great provider as well so $$$ does not sway me….
I feel really bad for anyone that get’s being hurt and lied to over and over again. Words are useless if not followed up with actions. She could probably find someone that really loves and respects her but will never have that opportunity by clinging to her liar of a husband
There are no deal breakers for woman with no self esteem…
Thank you ! Someone with a healthy self esteem up in here
“A man is suppose to make you the BEST version of yourself. Not a shell of the person you don’t even recognize”
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I agree! If you don’t like who you are when you are with him or he makes you feel like you have to always be in competition with other women because he keeps cheating, then you must leave. Easier said than done though!
Each situation is case by case there is no same situation. I will tell u this if u been putting up with disrespect before the marriage it will continue. U have to nip things in the bud while dating, if u don’t u will find yourself in counseling. Hopefully counseling work. More than likely u knew u married the wrong guy.
You obviously don’t have time to make excuses for this bull and I can dig it.
*dead*
When I say Floyd roasted that ass? I just know he didn’t type it, but that read was epic.
Whom ever it is is funnier than a mofo.
I feel really bad for anyone that get’s being hurt and lied to over and over again.
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I hope you’re not feeling bad for me ?????. I simply stated an unjudgemental opinion. I’m not going to tear her down because she loves her husband. When she’s had enough; she’ll leave. If she does or doesn’t I still have compassion for her or any woman that’s going through similar situations. Life isn’t a crystal stair case; occasionally the stairs will crack.
Right besides this the generation where anything goes as long as he can buy you a car and louis bag so its appropriate I guess…..
or even getting knocked up by a rapper who has 10 kids is securing the bag so whats the big deal.
I was not aware of TI not being financially well off. So I guess with all the abuse, she stays because she doesn’t want anyone else to have him even though he is not really worth it. But no one wants to grow old alone.
I’m not trying to tear anyone down. I have no problem with a woman loving her husband. The problem is that she does not love herself and he is not loving towards her. Sooo basically who’s loving her ? I used to have more compassion for these type of situations in my youth, now that I am grown I have less tolerance for the many excuses women make to not love themselves…
Hayle yes!! I’m selfish too !
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Lololol!!!! A mess! I feel u tho. I am just always undone by this pic!!?
She likey I loveth…
Lol ? that was funny
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beautifully said
they really don’t live together and have separate homes
yeah the thing is this is two people who should never have gotten married in the first place. he is certainly behaving like he is a very very single man and it was never in his heart to desire to marry her or maybe anyone else
So she wanted the dope boy out the trap. Let her have her dope boy out the trap and all the misery that comes with it.