Adult film star August Ames committed suicide at age 23 after she was bullied relentlessly on Twitter after she refused to work with a guy who appeared in a gay porn film.
Ames’ body was found in her home in Camarillo, California on Tuesday morning.
Her grieving husband, Kevin Moore, said “She was the kindest person I ever knew and she meant the world to me. Please leave this as a private family matter in this difficult time.”
Ames, who starred in almost 290 films, killed herself just days after Twitter users attacked her for tweeting about working with a gay porn actor amid heightened fears about contracting HIV.
“whichever (lady) performer is replacing me tomorrow for @EroticaXNews , you’re shooting with a guy who has shot gay porn, just to let cha know,” Ames tweeted on Dec. 3.
A Twitter user named @AlexisMonroexxx responded:
“I think it’s hilarious that your discriminating against a man who does/did gay porn when half of this industry has performed with such performers.”
But others defended Ames for choosing to protect herself.
Former adult film actress Jenna Jameson slammed a Twitter user who was among those bullying Ames on Twitter.
“SHAME ON YOU… you need to re-evaluate your life. Your community is becoming a lynch mob, when anyone says anything you dislike,” she told him.
@NoelleEaston tweeted:
“Gay performers do not have to follow the rigorous testing protocol straight performers must go through every 14 days making it EXTREMELY dangerous to work with them & then go back into f-cking straight performers after.”
And user Nick Snider wrote:
“As a gay male I must agree. It makes me sad knowing that the lgbt community practically become a violent Lynch mob when they don’t agree or have their feelings hurt. Point blank no matter what the differences are someone took their life. This isn’t a moment for more hate.”
California is presently the only state in America that passed a law making it a misdemeanor to intentionally infect others with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.
Gay men and other men who have sex with men top the list of new HIV transmissions. Despite millions of dollars spent on education and prevention, the national rate of HIV/AIDS cases continues to skyrocket.
ppl make me sick !! ?she didnt want to fck a confused man, whats the problem ?! ?????
Sad and disgusting all around. And a senseless loss of life to add to it. Smh. Rip
This is sick….Gays are sick and they make me sick. Like, how can you try to force a woman to use her poosey with gay men? Like, WTF! Since when can gays tell women what to do with THEIR poosies. Like WTF!
Exactly….none of these gay mugfugs or gay sympathizers aren’t helping that woman with her poosey management. They aren’t paying the gyno for all them trips. They not helping her with anything to do with her poosey but have the nerve to tell her who she can or cannot have inside of HER poosey. These gays I tell ya!
They are fawking Straightaphobic/heterophobic.
So nobody is even trying to use the Prep in the industry? I am a straight woman and because I live in Atlanta which has a very high rate of HIV/AIDS, I’m considering it myself. You can never be too cautious..
They need to harass Alexis and Bruce to their deathbeds as well. This infuriates me….
Hopefully she didn’t kill herself over this mess. Can’t anyone, especially a gay mugfug tell me wtf to do with my damn poosey. Kiss my as$….they’re just mad they don’t have a damn poosey they want that woman to have any and everybody enter her…straight or gay.
Straightophobic/heterophobic mugfugs. Y’all need to start calling them out like they do to straight people.
Condolences to her family. I have a question for the rose garden, is dating bisexual men a thing now? I want no parts of a man that has ever been with another man. However, it seems like more and more men are bi-sexual.
The gay community shamed her because she didn’t want to have sex with a gay guy. How sad and pathetic.
i’m sorry, but ALL of this is just nasty to me.
the porn, the gay porn, the being married whilst doing porn, WTF???!!!!
still, i’m genuinely saddened that a 23 y/o has ended her life due to her involvement in this ‘industry’ (and i can’t help but wonder how long she’d been ‘working’ in that format and how young she was when she started, smh)
RIP to this woman/child, smh.
This Gay Locomotive is gaining strength and momentum. It is crazy that people are being bashed for being straight and choosing not to sleep with gay people. Calling someone Homophobic about their sexual preferences is like someone saying Im shortaphobic because I don’t find short men sexually attractive or lightskinaphobic because I sleep with darker men.A preference is a preference..my bedroom activities shouldn’t be a world discussion..
This is ridiculous.
This chick who has shared her body with countless men but was supposedly so traumatized by cyber bullies that she killed herself?
Has anyone thought about closing their social media accounts if they are being harassed?
Issa no fa me, dawg. ????
A future ID show will reveal that husband actually killed her because her refusal to work was messing up his money.
???
Thats the part people miss.
Sexual PREFERENCE.
It means: To Prefer.
People are so lost.
“Calling someone Homophobic about their sexual preferences…”
But, he’s a man. So isn’t it still heterosexual sex regardless of his gay lifestyle?
In the p0rn world, a lot of the men are “gay for pay” and actually have their girlfriends on set as “fluffers” to get them aroused before they shoot with men. Its just a nasty, nasty world.
If you are killing yourself over this level of petty then you really didn’t have much to live for
Let’s be honest there was deeper issue that the cyber bullying. Just today the receptionist who looks like two tons of fun, told me that I was a major disappointment in life because I forgot my badge, I responded,I’m glad I have great self esteem and some where in far far far land you are loved. She was like you are something else. NO heifer you are something else.
But what if I was having a bad day and was just in bad place in life. she could have caught….
290 films and only 23~she needed to close something.
oh. wow… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/de0f47bde315fc3a4d5c8bee62fe5685aaad1ab5dbcc2ec505fe4cfb88826c58.gif
She killed herself because the Devil made her do it. He uses social media and evil thoughts to bring people to the brink. Porn and the LGBT community are servants of Lucifer.
DAMN!!!
Is that you Redeemed?
o…..
This story makes NO SENSE….Sounds like to me the suicide was because she was being replaced because of her refusal to do porn with gays and not from tweets from gays………………….
Fluffers are passe, all performers need is Viagra now, smh.
umm all she had to do was turn was go into settings, clear app data, then delete the app. problem solved. I wonder how many people will commit suicide or murder if we get hit with an emp attack and its long term
Shelby, LOVE THE 2 TERMS!!! SOOO ACCURATE! Sorry,but I’m stealing them!!
I here you. I am celibate and prefer that route than unnecessary drugs. Atleast you know your options and will protect your life!!!!
I read somewhere that she was only in the business 3 years. That’s almost 100 films a year. That’s disgusting on so many levels.
And she had a husband? Who wants to dip into that when so many other men have already dipped in? Yuck.
The CDC in Atlanta is encouraging straight women like yourself to take PrEP because half of the black male population in Atlanta are HIV positive.
Offtopic – Was there a shooting in New Mexico at a high school. I heard two students were killed.
chile….
(’cause if he’s “okay” with her doing this… *trails off*) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3a5f6182adf7601cc7d6bd7651b790edefe1d56085936c9c74c4b8a2232152d5.gif
Lol I forgot all about bible thumpin, holy water slingin Redeemed
Husbands of porn stars like to watch their mates do the nasty. That’s part of the attraction.
LGBT has a say in who people faux now?
“Gays are sick and they make me sick”
Your hateful language is not appreciated on this blog, which is owned by a gay woman.
Glad I re read it….I thought she was a Trans-woman. This is so confusing.
May she RIP, if that’s possible. This suicide is out of hand. Satan is taking over. Folks get help if you depressed and detach yourselves from ALL social media and negative muthasuckas. They mean you no good.
but they live for the attention. (i actually wonder if attention seeking was what got her interested in being ‘on film’ in the first place. was she groomed/targeted and told she was pretty enough to be in ‘movies’ and then when she was in too deep (i swear, no pun) was it too late to change her mind???) this is giving me a headache… let me get back to work… smh
Yes, they run all parts of entertainment I guess.
In the culture of anything goes, more and more men will come out as bisexual. You may not have any viable options if that happens, smh.
thank you, SIR. I thought it was just me!
“Gays are sick and they make me sick”
Your hateful language is not appreciated on this blog, which is owned by a gay woman…
I had a debate with a guy who only considers himself hetero but will let his girlfriend use toys on him and apparently he REALLY enjoys it……….
Thoughts
Let me add he says he has no attraction to men
She took what she could get when she could get it since she was ‘used up’
Not for nothing, but I thought all male p orn actors had to do at least a scene or two of g ay p orn before they can do the straight kind. Like an initiation almost, I read that somewhere a while ago…
and stop fauxin random people. All these spirits running up through them ain’t healthy for the mind, body or spirit!
Rod you know who I am. I have always been pro Christ. I’m not perfect but I have strong opinions about sex and gays. As I’ve always said…. They are hell bound.
he’s as fruity as a tootie, Lol!
(not that there’s anything wrong with that) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif
I think the harassment came from the public heads up, as if the lady would not been able to find out for herself who she was working with or even cared to know. She was hating and mad cause she found out prostitutes have no say outside of a hotel room. Thats why many women choose to work in other fields. She was so young I just wish she could have known a life that dident require her to use her body to make income. I think all pornstars are disgusting the way the live it a waste. I personally thinks she no less disgusting then the gay she dident want to uck.
It was 3 and it was in New Mexico.
Tragic none the less.
California is presently the only state in America that passed a law making it a misdemeanor to intentionally infect others with HIV…
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It’s only a misdemeanor??? They should get a life sentence…
…a fabulous fade? ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(now had you turned on her and told her she had poor impulse control, no self discipline, and a diabetic death wish, she would have needed the back-up receptionist to come relieve her!) ol’ cow!
folks don’t believe though!!!!!!!!!!
Hurt people hurt people..
The ridiculous thing is, it used to be a felony and they just recently changed the law to make it a misdemeanor. Pathetic. .
He feels like since it isn’t a man doing it then it doesn’t make him bi
People don’t know bout them soul ties
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/ca67397ce0e334c11bb15cdf692dd0b222a7880dfb23b8f239b9faa27baa8c0a.gif
I miss Redeemed. Some members of the garden need a sprinkle of Holy water. ?
She was so young I just wish she could have known a life that dident require her to use her body to make income.
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truly sad!!!!
chile, i ain’t judging ’cause i think i had one. it’s only by God’s grace i broke away from that fool.
“A major disappointment in life”?? Over a fawking badge? Like her whole world is shattered cuz she has to do whatever extra shit she needs to do when folks forget their badges? I think my professionalism would’ve failed me & I’d have been like,
FAT AZZ BISH PLEASE!
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/937a34eef4005e31ae819dd870fd5ac1c712b0bd6db9f2d6a73c5ad753a2a8b6.jpg
*cackles*
here you go Sandra. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a737421582e1e486ced8be0bc89296aeeba419e336e202fe360fdf62f4df4144.jpg
ROFL!
You are right and I am one of them. They say church is for sinners and I go every Sunday. lol
Cackles*… That was a good one!
Some of these GayNazis can be vicious. Anybody that offends them or their cause is at risk of having their life and/or career destroyed.
I just wanna pat her wig down in the back when she turns her head
it isn’t a man doing it (YET)
Lol!
hot TEARS.
There is no judgement involved at all but in all seriousness there are a lot of people who don’t know about soul ties
Yeah, I think ima have to keep the pus parked cuz I can not knowingly do it.
I keep it handy, but rarely have to use it. but i couldn’t ignore Sandra’s plight, Lol!
LOL ok
But he’s seems like he’s gay for pay, I’m certain she’s licked a twat for a check in some of those films she’s done.
Redeemed wasn’t playin https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cafac225a1b20e39e51dae4881ea45188a317aee95ff6657082e947b4248a7db.jpg
I don’t know what BIBLE you are reading but you need to stop, because that is a LIE…
If you think gays are headed to Heaven you are mistaken. It is an abomination against God. But let’s just agree to disagree. I appreciate your comment and you’re entitled to it.
Cool beans but why did Jesus die, just for a select few……
girl I didn’t know until well after it was all over. I was reading something and the description fit MY former behavior and it registered with me that THAT was what had been wrong about that relationship. sadly, even if someone had told me while I was still with him, I probably still would have stayed in that situation because it was such an oppressive spirit that I had not the strength nor the will to fight it at the time.
Haaaaa! U r so wrong but so right at the same damn time for that.
people have sex with folks then wonder why they start acting strange and out of character
girl! he was militant and paranoid, and when I finally got myself together and was back on my own, MY dumb azz was sitting around paranoid, Lol! I swear prayer changes things, LOL!!!
I second that!
Her issue was not that he was gay. She said plainly that she’s a supporter of the gay community. Her issue was that men who have sex with men have a higher risk of HIV than men who don’t (which is a statistical fact at this point, not even worth arguing).
So that was a reasonable concern on her part. Since it’s her body, she should have the right to chose who she shares it with if she has concerns for her health & safety.
No dear. He died so each and every one of us would have a chance to serve him and go to Heaven. In order to please God and be forgiven for our sins, Jesus’ blood had to be spilled. He was the last sacrificial lamb. We no longer have to kill doves, goats, etc. Jesus’ sweet blood was the last. If you choose not to serve him then you are serving Lucifer. These are my beliefs. You may have your own and that’s good for you. Be blessed.
My thoughts exactly
I want to snatch it off
RIP August Ames
I’m missing your point there… He died for hookers and drug dealers too. But if they refuse to stop hooking and drug dealing, they’re not getting into heaven.
Seems pretty straightforward to me… (unless you’re one of those people who think you can just do anything you want in this life and still get to heaven).
I’ve watched the show a few times and was pissed every time I saw her wigs along with the black chic on NCIS New Orleans!
I have no idea why they put that curly ponytail on her natural hair with all that baby hair slicked down!
That’s what I’m thinking.
I know she protecting her hair but shit
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Right! I don’t trust men who are okay with their womens bodies being used professionally. They are pimps.
Why won’t ppl just turn off or disable the twitter? If somebody tried to bully me I’d ignore them or block them. Why they gotta kill themselves? She was a pornstar and proud of it from what I can see. So what could somebody say to her to make her kill herself? Everybody done already seent Cha. ???? ????
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You know how to make me smile
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…but lets be real, when you put that out there, you should know there would be back lash. You just can’t say something about the gays (or Beyonce) online and not expect not to get attacked, even if what you are saying is truth
You’re hateful. God is going to humble you.
Ehhh!!! She took the easy way out!! No sympathy for those that go out like that!! Smh
Folks literally signing out with their lives. SMH
So sad… maybe there was already something going on with her mentally and the bullying was the straw that broke the camel’s back
Yeah, I have low key checked her, but hey she is white and the way my savings and checking is set up . I could not straight go ham on her.
Lie, if you accept GOD, with your whole heart and Pray the sinners prayer, you are SAVED, I guess you missed that also…..
Yeah I hear you, but that’s kinda sad though that our society has come to this. Most women I know don’t want to have sex with men who have sex with other men. If a woman is going to get bullied and harassed for expressing that, I think that’s kind of ridiculous.
I was thinking the same thing but suicide rates tend to increase during the holidays.
Ok, whatever then. No problem. We can just agree to disagree on that. I don’t come on here to argue religion with people.
Uhmmm adult film star and mental illness kind of goes hand In hand. Grownups being bullied?????
Suicide is one of the few causes of death that is way up. This is something that needs to be looked into a lot more in our society. I think social media has hurt society more then it has helped.
They say the gay males get paid more for their scenes Kinda like how white women get paid more than Ebony’s..
So she practices immortality and is married and expects a clean out come… THIS BULLY EXCUSE IS GETTING OUT OF HAND… HOW THE HELL DOES AND SIR GET BULLIED? NOW ALL THIS SEXUAL ABUSE AND HARASSMENT ASKING ADULTS? I SEE WHY THESE CHILDREN are fuxed up and wayward. Ughhh!!!!
Ok. So no shade but I’m going to guess you’ve never suffered from depression. Depression is the feeling of hurt/pain while being awake stemming from some type of etiology – abuse, loneliness, etc. Talking is tiring. Listening is exhausting. “Being present” is excruciating. This is why depressed people kill themselves. It’s not a selfish act. It’s not an easy way out. It actually relieves the pain. A depressed person cannot see past the pain. Believe me when I say they try.
Please do some education about the topic before plopping down these type of thoughtless comments. These type of comments further stigmatize depression and honestly you make yourself look extremely silly typing something like this. Educate yourself then comment. Happy holidays.
Thank You and then leave questions behind for others to try and figure out!!
I cannot stand her wigs on this show.
Maybe she’d alteady seen the comments and the trigger was lit. Right ? Maybe ? It’s not so easy to turn off the comments, walk away from abuse, run away, etc. Saying things are easy. Doing them -sometimes – not so much.
you know, Mister called me earlier today to tell me he thinks one of our neighbors may have had an ‘episode’ very early this a.m.
he went to roll the garbage cans to the curb, and said when the garage door went up there were several patrol cars lining our part of the block. he then said he saw them walk with the neighbor to another home on the block (also their family) and they left the neighbor there and then drove off. we know they have guns in the home, and there’s been some relationship and employment struggles, smh
Them and the Beyhive, which is like one and the same
Hahahaha!! Your comment means nothing to me! You did nothing more than waste your time and gain some likes!
Exactly. This is the exact reason I NEVER pop off on people. You never know what they are going through.
I know a lot of them switch over to gay porn because the pay is so much better.
Maybe not everybody is as strong-minded as you are. But you can still show a little compassion for somebody who was apparently weaker than you.
…and you know what gets me? There are so many gays that are racists and very vitriolic towards Blacks, yet no one ever talks about that.
Oh dear…..so you think this comment was for only you ? It was obviously a PSA. But ok keep believing all that was just for you. Ok ??
I miss Redeemed too. I looked forward to her posts.
A misdemeanor! what about mens rea? if it’s INTENTIONAL how can it be in the same conversation as a misdemeanor. which class?
Porn stars rate of suicide is very high, not saying we should just dismiss this woman’s issue just because. Although she is a grown ass woman.
nexxxxxxxxt post. her husband talking about she was the kindest woman he knew, yea I’m sure she was sweet as apple pie and very generous with sharing the pu55y.
And you being an asshole didnt gain anything.
Happy holidays again.
Foul smh
depression is a bitch. I’ve never even contemplated suicide, but I get that people want the pain to stop. I’ve been physically ill and in extreme pain, and can plainly recall saying, in earnest, if this is all there is, I’m tired, and i’ll pass. I don’t assume that the mental anguish some experience is any less debilitating and painful than what I experienced physically. it’s a battle, and sometimes people lose.
Emotionally sensitive individuals should stay away from socha media. It is obviously not the place for them…a STRANGER couldn’t say shat to me that would make me commit suicide…PERIOD!
And u can not waste your time by responding to someone who clearly doesn’t care about your opinion! GTFOH asking me to show compassion for a bitch that gave ZERO fucks about those she left behind!
Thanks for this. Appreciate it
You are wasting everyone’s time again…by being an asshole.
Once more. Happy holidays to you.
So she cared about her life enough to say no to the dack but not enough to live past bullying?? Was this really a suicide??
I’m like .?..I read the whole post but I didn’t see one reason for her to kill herself?
Sandra you really do need some holy water for this blog dont you? I saw you say it in a post earlier today.
Start at @Shitface aka nophace and then be sure to save enough for the nasty foul mouthed homo phobes (too many to list) and then finish it on off on the narrow minded cold hearted ones.
Right, they better look at the husband
Be safe
Dont ever change ?
what the whirl???? yall bout to use it all up today! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a737421582e1e486ced8be0bc89296aeeba419e336e202fe360fdf62f4df4144.jpg
Hey Nancy
Pup!!!!!! Hey you! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/42e766825cc2dd5dbc519049a6665384ef032d605184f428da26f418913d9567.gif
Folks make me so mad
Hey Shug!!!!
You replied to my comment but it wasn’t for me?!? Yeah, ok!
How you been. Looks like the inmates are running the prison now.
I’m not looking to gain anything but I will say, it did gain comments soooo, you’re wrong buddy! Hahaha
Sadly it is needed
I feel you. I go through something like that every month called PMDD. It’s a very bad form of PMS. I swear I want to kill myself almost every month. I know it will go away but when I’m in it full swing I just don’t care anymore. I feel like my life isn’t worth living anymore. I hate church, I hate my co workers, I hate my house, I have no energy or hope. Then when it’s over I’m this happy go lucky person again loving life and happy to be alive.
yeah, Mister telling me, ‘don’t be answering the door if you hear somebody knocking after I leave for work’ Lol! (I told him he aint got that to worry about because I don’t even answer my door when I’m up and about if I don’t recognize who’s knocking. I be looking right at them and they don’t even know it)
Sandra! Can us please have a new post? This one seems to be going up in flames and we only have a few drops of Holy Water left!
Right! Bet he doesn’t even have a job
People are f’n insane. How is she a homophobe because she doesn’t want to sleep with a GAY man. It her pussy and she has every right to decline whatever dick she wants, whethter it be gay or straight. Its really sad that she let bullies push her to the piont of no return.
no complaints hun. how you and the fam?
(chile… Sandra might need to sedate some folks, Lol!)https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1ae94f85563de1be5d4ca8fc01abf5159441a24a8501bc58eabd1aa8059f91d9.jpg
I see! I don’t know what happened, smh
*looks out winnda to see if moon is full*
We are hanging in there. But life is good.
her pussy and she has every right to decline whatever dick she wants, whethter it be gay or straight
TOTAL help me sang.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*runs up the skreet to the Caffalick chuch*
Caffalick <<< took me out
Yes it is, in spite of everything. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8e992eb809e3c78556e1bae76a957ee392f74c42daf190275b13fe9cdd8a8826.gif
Not Caffalick!!! Sprinkle me please!
So are we gonna crucify Bruce Beckam for being a heterophobe and a sexist cunt because he doesn’t respect the rights of women or believe heterosexuals have the RIGHT to not have sex with who they want!
Despite millions of dollars spent on education and prevention, the national rate of HIV/AIDS cases continues to skyrocket.
This is what we really should be talking about!
Folks busting it open left and right with not an ounce of protection…CHILE
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here… rub some on your neck… Lol! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d06bcfd35e8005f5800fb7df1ba544750c011f436044cb9f0132c8b056645ae8.jpg
Yea, as much as you have said about gays….yea okay.
Here…let me get behind my ears too
No need to be sorry. We need to do on to them as they are doing on to us. Not everyone is homophobic, but you can’t say anything against them without them attacking you.
Yep. I have a love hate relationship with Sandra but here I am errday… I keep saying imma leave but something keeps me coming back. One day I will succeed. Keep hope alive… lol
lmao….naw her cat was foul
Maybe the husband tweeted and is somehow involved in her murder.
Cackles*…Ya’ll gone git struck down…
what? we tryna help folks get they spirits right…. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e14edc1f76a028cd84c965c931622548e0de83e4bdaaa189cd646d3a95d4616c.png
Girl stop!… I ain’t messin wit chall no mo today.
#snickers
that’s right… so the debil can’t sit on your shoulder and whisper to you.
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good night Roses…
Peace in the skreet and a bottle of hair grease.
*sprinkles you as you leave* Lol!
It’s widely believed that most people in porn (especially the women) are emotionally damaged even before they enter that industry in the first place. So it’s not like you’re dealing with a balanced, well-adjusted person to begin with. They’re likely to respond to stress and emotional trauma a lot different from how you and I might.
NEW POST
(thank you, Sandra… this one was exhausting, Lol!)
You are very welcome.
A fine example !
Oh…I was putting it…nem mind…
Read the comment above MR.BrickJames,…. DEAR and like us all go ask GOD for forgiveness.
Well that’s a lie. I live in Las Vegas. And they passed a law here that says you have to reveal your status “Before” engaging in sexual intercourse. California isn’t the only state with such laws, I think you need to do more research Sandra. It’s dangerous to tell these folks they can pass the virus around because it’s no laws.
I’ve heard this before.
Guess some folks not as strong as I am.
is you finna blaspheme with the holy water? lawd… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5406a067d89d1924f4f9967857b7ca15a701e44524df7514659efb170810c224.gif
So said. You would think if he was gay he wouldn’t want a woman period. I guess he was trying to have the best of both worlds.
I disagree with Sandra a lot but in her defense she didn’t say there are no laws. She said misdemeanor. I also don’t recall reading her telling people to pass anything around.
Thats not AT ALL what she said.
It hasn’t been easy for me either but it’s looking like age and interests (I don’t watch reality TV shows anymore or listen to today’s rap artists) are helping with making a gradual transition.
Cali basically decriminalized it. That ish is a felony in basically every other state.
California is the only state that makes it a misdemeanor to intentionally infect others with HIV. How does the Las Vegas law compare?
I am so sick of mfs believing they have the right to control a womans body .. if she dont want no rainbow dik she dont want it & its her damn right .TF
Thanks, hun. Reading is fundamental, but comprehension is the key.
If i did porn id pay someone to run my social pages especially if i had a partner because nothing on there that anyone could say to me good or bad would be appropriate or relevant to the life i led outside of doing pornos.
Always hating. God knows humans aren’t perfect. We are all sinners. Yes, even you.
You’re welcome. ?
Why do people even choose to give their bodies to industries like that? ANd she was married and still doing those types of things? I’ll never understand and I’m perfectly fine with that
Working in that industry she’s probably had more than one without even realizing it. Besides, her not doing the scene wasn’t the problem. She controlled her body; I agree with you there. The problem was that tweet.
Either “gay for pay” or bisexual.
Read! I loved this. Thanks for the info. Perspective is everything! A person who fails to even try to respect another person’s perspective is most likely alone AND lonely!
You got hella attention, including mine, with your foolery! I must say, quite an impressive feat you’ve pulled in an attempt to add some enjoyment to what I’m sure was a dull day for you.
Thank you!!!!!!
Right like how is that ok to have the wprld see your wife piped up? ?????
I am not hating on anyone. Some of my best friends are gay. I just speak the truth. I’ll be the first one to say I am a sinner just trying to do better so you are not telling me anything I don’t already know. And who are you by the way? You seem more talkative than normal here lately. Sandra is a lot of things but aggravating she is not. But you… If you are Sandra I’ll pray for you because you are obviously not yourself.
Gay for pay I still consider gay because issa choice???
Funny how SR will only tell some of y’all to read to comprehend! How dumb do you have to be to think all of this backlash came from this girl not doing the sex scene? That was her choice! Ppl getting mad at her for that would be wrong!
The issue was her tweet! Putting it out there in that manner made it seem like she thought it was the worst thing ever! There was no need for her to say its BS. The next actress could make her own decision just like August did!
Let’s pray we both make it out someday.
I understand ?
Money talks and always wins, sadly. I had a younger male friend years ago that I found out was an escort. I told him that he didn’t have to or need to be doing that. Instead of choosing to go to college and get an education, he chose to sleep with older women for money because he was struggling financially. I encouraged him to leave that lifestyle. Sadly, my words fell on deaf ears. I think he is still escorting. It is very sad and dangerous. He might wind up dead or living with AIDS, but at least I tried to help him. You can’t tell people what to do with their lives even if they choose to live dangerously. So sad that to this young lady killed herself. No matter how broke I might become, I just refuse to sell my body, I have to live not only for myself, but for my child. People don’t realize that a lot of people who get paid for sex wind up diseased, dead, or sold to the highest bidder overseas somewhere. Very sad and scary.
Yes it was her tweet she should’ve Dm’d her lol if you can on Twitter idk ???????
That’s how most men think. Women need to tell them straight up, it’s my vagina and my body, and if you don’t like what I do with it or how I control it, there’s the door! What sane straight woman wants to screw a gay or bi man??? The f*ck??? I can see if she might not know he’s on the DL or something, but if you know a man screws other men, then why in the holiest of hell would you want to sleep with him??? I don’t get that one.
Right like your wife sleeps with people for money and she’s supposed to come home that night for you to sleep with her? Her body count must be in the hundreds. Porn is legal prostitution in my eyes, it’s the same thing. Sleep with people for money
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That is just so sad. I don’t even have the words right now. I don’t know why people put their prices on their bodies, no amount of money should be worth it, but people sell themselves. I find that type of industry disgusting in my opinion, for moral and other reasons but people do have free will so they can do whatever they want but it’s extemley distasteful. Some of the women who do those things have even admitted they do it for act of rebellion, because they like sex or because they don’t have a father figure otherwise they think they’d look at it different. Irregardless it could end horribly and the fact this woman had a husband at home though….
She should have turned off the commenting, got off of social media and continued on with her life, that was her choice to not want to film with him, right or wrong as it may be.
Damn right in this case. She said too much in that tweet. In today’s society it’s looked at like she tweeted “Whoever takes my place should know the guy did mixed porn.”
Could you imagine the outrage. Even in that situation, it would still be her choice to walk away. The problem arose when she said what she did afterwards.
I have spoken with people in law enforcement in the past and it is frightening and sad what ends up happening to sex workers and even those forced into it. But people want that fast money. If they can make a few bucks having sex as opposed to spending years in school trying to to take up a trade or get a career, then they take the fast money. I still think of my former friend, but I am done trying to save people, it is exhausting. I encouraged him to enroll in college and get some student loans and a work study job on campus, he chose not to. He couldn’t get into the military or find a job making enough money, so he decided to sell his body. What if one of those tricks sets him up to be robbed and killed???? Plenty of women are sick killers too, it’s not just the men. All we can do is pray for people. I’m not about to get a heart attack or brain aneurysm worrying about people who choose not to care enough about themselves. Being healthy and safe means MORE to me than trying to make some quick money sleeping with a diseased POS! Gross and sad.
Exactly .. I hve nothing against rainbow ppl but aint no way in hell am knowingly sleeping with a gay man.
I agree shes probably had a couple but still its her choice.
Now wait, I’m still in the Beyhive most days. LOL! Queen Bey rules the world, you didn’t know??? You cannot talk about Bey, our hive is strong and we will come for your neck! I’m just messing around, but Bey does rule, her royal reign and kingdom are forever! LMAO!
I agree with you?
You should have said, “Bitch go and get laid by some trick so you can get off my dick!!!!” I would have said it, I don’t care if I’m in the workplace, if you piss me off, be ready for my wrath and my mouth. I don’t care who’s looking or listening! Most companies don’t pay people enough to put up with bullshit from other employees and clients/customers.
Yep! This one guy told me that gay and bi men get with straight women to use them. Some women are so desperate to have a man that they will settle for a gay one even if they are in fact being used, Star Jones did it and now Jordin Sparks is too from what I heard. Hell naw! Ain’t nothing about a gay man that would turn me on or make me want him…….he likes dick!!! WTF????
The same “sane” female that is willingly fucking other men, sex toys and probably ANIMALS for money while she has a husband at home, maybe because it was her JOB
There’s obviously more to this story. That Bruce Beckham is a jackazz to make fun of her killing herself.
I think there is more to her sucide than this Tweet and its backlash on her feed. Maybe if there were repercussions to her work, but not just Twitter. In some careers, you have r
I am not against anyone and how they choose to live their life. But who gave them the rights to take the rainbow and use it as a symbol. I mean I can’t wear anything with a rainbow on it with someone looking at me like I eat the box. When did this happen?
When bloods and crips decided to choose the color that represent them, damn gay people can’t even choose the color that they feel represents their community, again freedom of choice is taken from gays, WOW I hope you see how ignorant you sound.
I went to Bruce Beckham’s Twitter account and I had no idea…nudity and much more was allowed on Twitter. I also went to August Ames account to see how they bullied her. All I can say is the porn world is …awful. It’s way too much. Not worth the risk or the money.
I realized that a few months ago. A rainbow used to be a rainbow. Now it’s so much more.
We just want to be neutral. But if you wear a rainbow colors, it’s associated with a community and a movement.
You’re comparing gangs to gay people? If you wear a red shirt no one automatically think you’re a blood. Heterosexuals don’t have a color. Gays are now even comparing their struggles to black people. Smh.
You’re comparing gangs to gay people? If you wear a red shirt no one automatically think you’re a blood. Heterosexuals don’t have a color. Gays are now even comparing their struggles to black people. Smh.
The gay community is out of pocket,confused, hateful n bitchy… They do the same Sh*t to others that thy claim they are fighting to stop from happening to them….
The gay community is out of pocket,confused, hateful n bitchy… They do the same Sh*t to others that thy claim they are fighting to stop from happening to them….
The gay community is out of pocket,confused, hateful n bitchy… They do the same Sh*t to others that thy claim they are fighting to stop from happening to them….
I love rainbows and I would like to love it without anyone thinking I’m gay.
Not surprising. A lot of the women who go into p0rn were sexually abused growing up. Sad .
“the way my savings and checking is set up ”
??? That tickled me for some reason.
Ain’t nobody never stopped their freedom of choice to be gay. Ain’t nobody told Lil Richard to take off his makeup.
They tried to make their struggle compared to black people but got checked real quick on that. Especially when it was revealed that gay white slave owners had a ritual called “buck breaking” to rape black men at their will. Ask them about it they will be quiet real quick.
My Gawd!
Girl! Mine was due to cramps intensified by fibroids. Before my last procedure, I was in the emergency room every month getting morphine drips. The extreme blood loss, excruciating pain, lack of energy, and diminished quality of life had me in a state of despair. Pain will definitely challenge your mental well being.
People just need to keep their opinions to themselves, point blank period. No reason for her to tweet that out for the whole world to see. No reason for the gays to flip out over it either, but she should’ve saw that coming. Sad, but what was that one line momma would always say? You can’t ever go wrong with being quiet.
I got a book that talks about it and when I did my research and saw they kept those men in pen like horses I was done. Gay people kill me as of they don’t have a history of violating someone else and they act as if someone is always violating them. They have blood on their hands. White gay men will always have rights because they will always be recognized as white men first and they know it.
That’s true! I often forget it’s about getting fast money. Sometimes it has to take them learning the hard way by either ending up with a positive HIV test or even dead. But then again I have heard of people sleeping with people knowing they have HIV/AIDS and are affecting the other party with it. That’s how my aunt on my moms side died. It’s so sad and I wish people would just stick to morals. There’s so many other ways to make money that don’t mean you have to give your body and life up and put it in potential danger. No mother wants to go through the pains and aches of carrying a baby full term for 10 months just for the baby to grow up and sell their body for $. Ugh
How could anyone marry a porn star? ??
This is very sad. I hope her father feels like shit for not listening to his own daughter. As far as the grandfather may his dick rot off and he burn in Hell!! ?
Sorry did I miss something what’s her father and grandfather got to do with this u know something not written in the article?
Yes was just about to say but you said it for me oh the irony of it all
You can be sentenced to a Category B Felony and serve atleast 2 years in State Prison or pay a fine of $10,000 or both in the State of Nevada. Prostitution is legal in certain counties in Nevada, so they passed a law a little stricter than other states. It’s a crime even if you used a condom, but didn’t reveal your status.
I’m saying When people think that their are no consequences in other states they might be inspired to go wild, that’s what i meant…. There are some states that don’t have laws though like Montana and Idaho…lol
Wow!. Sounds like you really went through it. I hope you’re better now. Cramps are no joke.
There was article that said the real reason she committed suicide was because she was depressed over being molested by her grandfather, and her father accused her of lying and never believed her. A couple of weeks before she committed suicide she tried to reach out to her father but he wouldn’t be speak to her.
True and they get away with it out of, pity? Still trying to figure it out. No offense to anyone. Im serious
The gay community is a masquerade ball of smiley and sad faces. They are no different than the male and female community full of predators and spitful people!
When you agree they smile.
When you don’t they’re dad (act like a victim)!
But isn’t that a risk of the field she is in. They do the rapid tests.
Go figure, right?
That’s different. A rainbow is a SYMBOL. What symbol does red or blue represent? People can wear red or blue shirts etc and most won’t think twice or assume they’re in a gang but let people walk around with a rainbow on anything and best believe people are going to make assumptions. It’s true that you should be able to wear what you want and not worry about what others think but at the same time, it’s sad that a rainbow means so much more now and not just a beautiful sight of rain and sunshine.
I kinda agree. I’m not against the gay community but I kinda noticed that. You know the spite?
I don’t use Twitter but according to what I know is that you can “mute” people from contacting you on it. You can mute unregistered contacts, so their Tweets do not show up on your timeline (those people who troll don’t usually know that). But you can mute them all. You can also mute people who don’t follow you and only get Tweets from people you follow. She shouldn’t have killed herself. But I thought the same thing about Stevie Ryan when she killed herself over the death of her grandfather in July. Nothing can really be done… it’s too late. But that being said she should have muted all those people. Nobody forced her to take her life… but I suppose she was not as strong on the inside as she looked and couldn’t take what they were saying to her.
I agree, I thought I was a bitch until I came across a petty…
I grew up being told that the rainbow was a reminder of the lord’s promise..how people turned the rainbow into a gay symbol is beyond me
and we wonder why california is literally burning to the ground.
Can’t lie, that made me laugh!! Hahaha
Respect! Hope your day has been cool so far
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Indeed it has been. Hope the same for you as well! #PeaceAndBlessings
Gotcha thanks for the reply
True..but it is still her choice right..so why be mad because of her choice..It like if the gay dude said he wouldn’t fuk a straight man..would they see that as straight bashing? Im curious how it works
I know. Im not active currently. but when I do find a mate my doctor will be hitting me of with that scription…
Same here no nookie for me right nah. And when i do decide..I will be using condoms and PreP…
I have a problem with gays (not all) when something doesn’t go their way it’s a problem. When someone comes at them that way then it’s hate. Smdh and they wonder don’t/won’t even try and understand gay people
Soul ties really are no joke
It doesn’t matter if it’s ‘heterosexual sex’ because the dude sleeps with men. Period. That is something most women are not going to allow because of the risks. The fact is, he has slept with men before and she didn’t want him to sleep with her and she had the right to reject him
I’m confused. I’ve seen her talk about how gay/trans people are often that way because they don’t have fathers, or because they were abused. So does that mean she’s gay because her father wasn’t around?
I have a hard time believing gays as a community were tripping about this that much, like how many of them have ever heard of her or this story or give a damn.
And concerning the guy who likes his woman to use toys on him, he’s not gay if he’s not attracted to men. If toys controlled your sexuality lesbians who used toys would secretly be closeted straights
Bullied online? Did her phone not have an “off” option?
Lord… she was afraid of contracting HIV, but she ended taking her own life because of bullies.
Really it’s her business if she don’t want to have sex with a guy that has sex with guys, this Gay Rights is getting out of hand. ?
You never know what’s going on with people, pressure bursts pipes. SAD…RIP
Lord… she was afraid of contracting HIV, but she ended taking her own life because of bullies.
Really it’s her business if she don’t want to have sex with a guy that has sex with guys, this Gay Rights stuff is getting out of hand.
You never know what’s going on with people, pressure bursts pipes. SAD…RIP
BOOM!!!! ??????
?? her pussy and she has every right to decline whatever dick she wants, whethter it be gay or straight??
I’m GAY…If I was a HETERO CIS-GEN woman I would NOT WANT TO EVEN have PRETEND SEX with a GAY ASS MAN wtf, but why did she kill herself though???
She killed herself because she was clinically depressed. The bullying was simply the trigger that sent her over the edge.
Awwww,that poor girl!
oh ok cuz I was missing sumthin lol
The same way y’all wife hoes and thots. At least she got paid and not doing it to get free food or a knock off purse. TF.