Medical Examiner: McNair’s Jumpoff Fired Gun
A medical examiner’s findings ends the rampant speculating on whether or not NFL legend Steve McNair’s jumpoff shot him multiple times before turning the gun on herself:
From TMZ.com:
We just spoke with Tennessee assistant medical examiner Dr. Feng Li, who tells us preliminary test results in the Steve McNair death show Sahel Kazemi fired the gun that killed both of them.
Feng — who conducted autopsies on the two bodies — told us he was able to make the determination from the crime scene investigation, police interviews, autopsy findings and preliminary lab results — which include gun shot residue test.
Friends say McNair’s wife, Mechelle McNair, had no prior knowledge of her husband’s 6-month affair with the 20-year-old waitress whom he met last year.
Robert Gaddy, a close friend of McNair’s who phoned 911 from the death scene, denied McNair and his wife Mechelle were divorcing:
“People need to quit talking about what they don’t know. Mac never said anything to me about he was going to get a divorce, and ever since this has all happened everybody is trying to paint a certain picture and they need to talk about what they know.”
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the grass isnt alwasy greener on the other side…
what a shame…..i wonder if he tried to break it off with her and she was on some “if i can’t have you then nobody will” type mess. like i said before, can’t no d*ck make me kill him and then my damn self! wtf is wrong with people? is it really THAT serious??? *smh*
I am not convinced the wife didnt know I dont care what anybody says..lol He was all around town with this woman and taking her out of town on vacations. Even if she (the wife) lived in Miss. she had friends in TN that would habve quickly spread the word to her ASAP. I think at best she had to suspect but maybe not had any proof yet.
She Snapped.
@Daisy - I agree
i just read that, she posted all her belongings on craigslist days before for just $1.
she bought the gun 2 days before the shooting
and was telling all her friends her and mcnair were going to be moving in together.
“when jumpoff’s attack….”
sounds like a lifetime movie.
RIP steve. hope it was worth it homes…
@Sunny if she bought the gun 2dys before she did not snap she PLANNED..lol
3Daisy Says:
I am not convinced the wife didnt know I dont care what anybody says..lol He was all around town with this woman and taking her out of town on vacations. Even if she (the wife) lived in Miss. she had friends in TN that would habve quickly spread the word to her ASAP. I think at best she had to suspect but maybe not had any proof yet.
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I am with you. A wife knows and yes they had pics outdoors which means they were out in public. Plus all your friends are not loyal. Everyone has a tattle tale friend. His wife knew.
Daisy Says:
@Sunny if she bought the gun 2dys before she did not snap she PLANNED..lol
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Not sure where I read it but it stated that she was driving in the vehicle with him, they got into an argument she got a DUI and shortly after that she purchased the gun.
@ ladyjustice…moving in together where? Hell????
@Daisy, you’re right. lol
Also, the wife may have told NcNair to get rid of the jump-off and bring his a** home.
I wonder how many athletes have gotten rid of their jump-offs since this happened. I bet Kobe’s real happy now that his jump-off only cried rape.
she got the dui the week before she shootings, i wonder what they were arguing about to make her go get a glock, dayum
SHE (Mrs. McNair) would have to be the DUMBEST WOMAN WALKING THE PLANET to not have an ideal that her husband was being EXTREMELY UNFAITHFUL to her !!!!!
WHERE did she think he was the PAST SIX MONTHS when he wasn’t spending hardly any time at HIS MANSION with Her and the kids… He’s not playing in the NFL anymore so what EXCUSE can she possibly come up with IN HER MIND to justify not being around as often as a devoted Husband-n-Father suppose to be (I’m Just Curios…)
Mika79 Says:
@ ladyjustice…moving in together where? Hell????
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lol i guess so. she probably thought she was gone get to sleep in that mansion
@Sunny
THAT wasn’t Kobe’s juumpoff, SHE was a regular GROUPIE that Kobe unwisely decide to smash!!! Plenty of NBA Ballers have ran through that YT-Trick … Kobe HAS Black Female Jump-offs that he hit as often as he can
All is fair in love and war. When you cheat there’s no telling what the outcome will be. It’s never good. I actually feel sorry for men who are led around by the seat of their pants. It has resulted in death many many times. I don’t know how they think it’s worth the risk. That little 20 year old put some sport on that ass and the wife, who knew she was getting cheated on regardless of what the buddy who cosigned the affair says, gets all his dough, property, life insurance, etc. Good for her for being patient!
she probably thought she was gone get to sleep in that mansion
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that is always a trait in a crazy jumpoff ain’t it? “delusional”. she knew good ‘n dayum well she was not slumbering up in the manse.
add in young, naive, and low on the totem pole (she was a waitress…) and you have the real potential for some shyt like THIS to happen….
steve was prolly tryna break it to her gentle and…well we all know what happened now don’t we?
Maybe the wife had her own jumpoff on the side so she closed a blind eye.
Maybe she was busy being a mother so she didn’t pay attention to the signs.
I had a BF cheat on me for A YEAR! with a woman from out of state. And I would’ve never, ever guessed it. Some men are good at what they do.
@Elove You betta PREACH! Now I am not the clingy you gotta be stuck up under me 24/7 kind of chick but he was spending a heck of alot of time with his mistress that the wife should have known something wasn’t right.
@kwallace577 says:
that is always a trait in a crazy jumpoff ain’t it? “delusional”. she knew good ‘n dayum well she was not slumbering up in the manse.
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Add dicknotized to the list too. Chick was ONLY 20 yrs old with an older more experienced partner. In addition to be being sexed up, dude was spending money, taking her on vacations AND letting her push the whip?? Couldn’t tell Lil’ Mama nothing I bet. Still unfortunate, this incident
@ELove, you are rough with the truth. lol
@Ice key phrase out of town..lol This was RIGHT in TN..lol A city they had tons of family and friends.
My co worker thinks the wife knew but didnt care until it went public and now she never knew anything was going on. I thought that was an interesting theory. I can see a woman looking the other way in order to keep a lifestyle and she met him as a freshman in college. I just aint buying she didnt know anything. Sorry. Yall know I work with everybody but I cant find a way to help her out..lol
Plenty of mothers/wives have caught their husbands cheating on them…lol
@Yvonne you know there are jumpoffs across the world like WTH she got all that (condo, esclade, vactions) in a few short months and here I been with you for years and aint got shyt to show for it..lol Gotz to be mo careful!
Some men still with their jumpoff right now I bet SMH
@iscream MAY I ASK YOU ONE QUESTION …
WOULD you have known your BF was cheating on you IF he was messing with a jumpoff 10 minutes from your house???
And I have NEVER met a WOMAN that is MARRIED w/ KIDS to ignore signs (Obvious ones at that) of her husband being unfaithful to their marriage… I’m not saying that it has never happened, I just haven’t met any in my personal life-n-experience
yvonne79 Says:
Add dicknotized to the list too.
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They got something fierce. Take that governor who ran off to Argentina to be with his jump-off. Left his wife…kids…job…he lost his mind over that stuff.
YES @ sunny and yvonne79. YES.
for some folks cheating is not a deal breaker. i am sure it is not amongst alot of these celeb and pro athlete wives…hail we are not famous and it is not a deal breaker for me. i done told hubby if he cheat…then sidepiece is not gettting nothing but schlong and convo anyway…cause his check goes direct deposit to my account….not a joint account…MY account.
if anything mechelle mcnair should be pissed he was out buying escalades, purchasing secret condos, and flying this little girl here there and everywhere…using money to wine and dine the jumpoff that mrs. mcnair coulda used to decorate their new house or summthing…
@SunnyPA: I STILL can’t believe that fool! He left his wife AND kids..On FATHER’S DAY! His mistress must of been a BAD chick indeed!!!
I think all this coverage is so disrespectful to his wife and family…I don’t know why the media insist on talking about this just like children and innocent people aren’t involved.
kwallace577 Says:
if anything mechelle mcnair should be pissed he was out buying escalades, purchasing secret condos, and flying this little girl here there and everywhere…using money to wine and dine the jumpoff that mrs. mcnair coulda used to decorate their new house or summthing…
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If it were me and I was in this position, I would be extremely pissed. You’re taking food out of our kids’ mouth and OUR household to “cake” some teenager? Not cool at all.
Yeah, he probably thought he was getting over but who’s got the last laugh now?
Oh disregard. I didn’t know they were 10 mins apart. They probably had friends in common.
If I were his wife, I would just throw his azz in the ground without a coffin. My heart goes out to her and her sons.
now that this has happened wives all over america like i said earlier this week are telling nuckkas…
“Go! Cheat! You betta hope that hoe is not crazy and BLAST your azz..”
and alot of women who KNOW their husdands ARE cheating have prolly reviewed all kinds of insurance policies, updated wills, the whole 9.
just like 2 weeks ago my cousin was in a car accident and could not get a rental car…WHY i called my insurance folks the NEXT day to be SURE i still have that on my insurance? same thing.
The latest speculation is, McNair seemed to have wanted to pull away from the affair.
Just two weeks ago, Kazemi and McNair planned a trip to Las Vegas. Kazemi, 20, flew from Tennessee to Nevada to meet McNair, but he never arrived, reports Florida Times Union.
@kay kay
Steve McNair’s EXTREMELY RECKLESS BEHAVIOR made this public… YOU DON’T S-H-I-T where YOU SLEEP-n-EAT !!! He HAD no discretion WHATSOEVER in his desire to Pursue-n-Conquer this Jump-Off
WHY should he be given treated any differently than his actions that led to this incident
kay kay Says:
I think all this coverage is so disrespectful to his wife and family…I don’t know why the media insist on talking about this just like children and innocent people aren’t involved.
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He wasn’t thinking about his children and his wife when he was parading chick on his arm in the SAME city the lived. Nashville is not THAT big. Hell, he met the chick while he was out with the wife AND his kids. He should’ve thought about saving his kids from embarrassment BEFORE he entertained the thought of being with this floozy.
@Elove baby you are on a ROLL today..lol
iscream Says:
Oh disregard. I didn’t know they were 10 mins apart. They probably had friends in common.
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That’s why I am sure she knew. Ppl love to talk and your worst enemy will be the first to give you bad news.
kwallace577 Says:
for some folks cheating is not a deal breaker. i am sure it is not amongst alot of these celeb and pro athlete wives…hail we are not famous and it is not a deal breaker for me.
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Thanks for not letting me be the only one to admit that cheating is not a deal breaker for me. And quiet as it’s kept, I’ll fight a bish too old as I am. Call me every name you want, but if I settle on a man it’s because he is that all too rare man that meets all my standards. I’m not gonna just hand him over to some 20% chick without a fight. All is fair in love and war and if you mess with my man it’s not gonna be pleasant or easy for you AND I’m taking all the dough.
YOU DON’T S-H-I-T where YOU SLEEP-n-EAT
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exactly. it has been reported he had pure taken his wife and kids to the SAME spot where she was a waitress. WTF?
i do feel for mechelle tho if she indeed was still in love with her husband and is hurt behind this. and the kids who have no father of course you think of them too.
but like cholly murphy said…steve was a habitual line stepper on a whole lotta levels.
SC gov too. whose wife had TOLD him…”do not see that hoe no mo” and what does he do? he flies to see the woman. and LIED about it. now THAT would be a deal breaker. not that he cheated….but that i told your azz to STOP and you didn’t and then lied.
I am not married but I have always said I would TRY to work through ONE affair depending on the circumstances but I don’t think I can go as far as saying its not a deal breaker either cause to me that sounds like my husband has a free pass to cheat and its not going down like that all willy neely..lol I have broken up w/ a man over cheating in the past so I don’t know what I would do and I pray I never have to find out. Shoot.
I do feel bad for his kids though and wife regardless if she knew or not. I know she wants to revive him only to KILL him all over again herself..lol
@#33 - Thats what made her mad…..he stood her azz up in Vegas! Then the night she went to jail they were probably fussing about him not showing up. She get out and get a gun….*BAM*
SMH!
its a shame we wont know WHY she did exactly… but it was premeditated..why else did she go buy a gun…smh…
Also, there is a very bright side to this story. We know many times the jumpoff kills the wife to get her out of the way. At least this youngin hit the right target. No harm no foul. I know the kids are probably hurting, but it doesn’t sound like he was spending a lot of time with them anyway.
I know she wants to revive him only to KILL him all over again herself
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“If you die on me…I’ll kill ya!” (Ike Turner)
I fights over NO MAN hell naw..lol It aint that deep for me. I would fight my MAN before I went at the other woman. Never understood why the wife/main chick goes after the jump off the MAN has loyalty to YOU not the side piece.
In the words of Fantaisa IF YOU DONT WANT ME THEN DONT TALK TO ME GO HEAD AND FREE YOURSELF!!!!!!!
I AGREE about the deal-breaker situation Y’all speak of
@K-DUB
If a man is dumb enough to get caught AND then be warned not to get caught WITH HER AGAIN… And does anyway
YEP, THAT THERE IS A MF-ING DEAL BREAKER INDEED !!!!!
What Steve did is BEYOND TRIFLING …
At least the SC-Gov took it to another town/city
Wait a Minute he actually took it to ANOTHER COUNTRY
im so mad at the killer …she had a car paid condo she didnt have to any thing but fcuk the dude but whatever dude said made her go out buy a gun plug him 4 times and herself? wow if he was breaking it off she coulda did the ol ‘im pregant’ scam or something…WHAT couldve been so bad to warrent not only his life to end but your own
Daisy Says:
I am not married but I have always said I would TRY to work through ONE affair depending on the circumstances but I don’t think I can go as far as saying its not a deal breaker either cause to me that sounds like my husband has a free pass to cheat and its not going down like that all willy neely
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Oh I talk this mess on a blog to people who don’t know me from Adam and my past bares it out, but you better believe future hubby has never heard those words from my mouth and he doesn’t know that I have knocked fire from side dishes in the past. This is the best man I have ever had by far. You better believe I’d get medieval over his ass. But low and behold, for the first time in my life, I don’t even have to worry about that. Praise Jesus.
If you gonna ride. Don’t ride the white horse…
When are black men going to learn?!?!?!
Daisy Says:
I fights over NO MAN hell naw..lol It aint that deep for me. I would fight my MAN before I went at the other woman. Never understood why the wife/main chick goes after the jump off the MAN has loyalty to YOU not the side piece.
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I came at a chick ONE time. Chick was a friend who frequently hung out at our place, came over during holidays, etc. Hell, I was a good friend to her, feeding her children when she spent all her money in the club. Then you turn around and sleep with my man? That hurt like hell. Needless to say, when I found out, I removed BOTH of them from my life.
Daisy Says:
I fights over NO MAN hell naw..lol It aint that deep for me. I would fight my MAN before I went at the other woman. Never understood why the wife/main chick goes after the jump off the MAN has loyalty to YOU not the side piece.
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I feel you and that is good. It just doesn’t work for me. No matter how much I try to control it, I turn into the incredible hulk when people mess with anything or anyone that belongs to me. I’ve even taken on a burgler I caught in my house purely out of rage. Leave my sh*t alone. And rest assured the man gets it too, just not physically. I can’t beat him so I have to get creative when it comes to him. The crackhead burgler was a man too, so I had to attack his azz with the front of a dresser drawer. Punk.
@Yvonne… YOU def did the right thing !!!
But I must correct you — Your man slept with your so-called friend. HE wasn’t forced a knife-point or gun-point to have sex with your so-called friend (I come in Peace…)
ELove Says:
SHE (Mrs. McNair) would have to be the DUMBEST WOMAN WALKING THE PLANET to not have an ideal that her husband was being EXTREMELY UNFAITHFUL to her !!!!!
WHERE did she think he was the PAST SIX MONTHS when he wasn’t spending hardly any time at HIS MANSION with Her and the kids… He’s not playing in the NFL anymore so what EXCUSE can she possibly come up with IN HER MIND to justify not being around as often as a devoted Husband-n-Father suppose to be (I’m Just Curios…)
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well at first i didnt think she had a clue, but since u broke it down like THAT, she had to be pretty stupid… UNLESS she was accustomed to him not being around the family all the time.
i know my husbands routine like the back of my hand. go work… come home. if something happens where he cant come straight home he ALWAYS calls to let me know the deal. when he starts staying out 5-6 hours at a time, yea im gone think something is up.
yvonne79 Says:
@SunnyPA: I STILL can’t believe that fool! He left his wife AND kids..On FATHER’S DAY! His mistress must of been a BAD chick indeed!!!
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he took her out on father’s day too?!?! where u see that? daaaag
i don’t fuss/fight anymore. i done got too old. but for all the young ladies out there who MAY want to scrap for their man…
i used to be a firm believer in whopping a trick DOWN. cause just like the wife know…the jump off know too. they know if he has a woman at home or not. which means if she is out in public with him (married man) she is fully down to take an arse whippin’. she knows the risks….so always always get her first….you gonna see him back at the house later. plenty of time to get him…but her? that may be the first and last time you see her. don’t start thinking about it later and be like “i shoulda choke slammed that hoe.”
Sahel Kazemi … What nationality was this girl? If he was dumping her…she may have felt she disgraced her family for nothing, so she killed him.
An affair (one affair) is not a deal breaker for me either. All I ask is that you be upfront with it. Like someone said, I don’t want to find out from my worst enemy.
@LJ… NOW that’s what I’m talkin bout
ELove Says:
@Yvonne… YOU def did the right thing !!!
But I must correct you — Your man slept with your so-called friend. HE wasn’t forced a knife-point or gun-point to have sex with your so-called friend (I come in Peace…)
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Oh,no doubt! Once the relationship was over, I found out he was cheating the whole five years we were together. Not just with the so-called friend but random chicks. Can my friends be off limits though? I always suspected he was doing something but nothing to that magnitude.
no you didn’t say dicknotized Yvonne :rofl
Bird Says:
I feel you and that is good. It just doesn’t work for me. No matter how much I try to control it, I turn into the incredible hulk when people mess with anything or anyone that belongs to me. I’ve even taken on a burgler I caught in my house purely out of rage. Leave my sh*t alone. And rest assured the man gets it too, just not physically. I can’t beat him so I have to get creative when it comes to him. The crackhead burgler was a man too, so I had to attack his azz with the front of a dresser drawer. Punk.
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Dayum … you’re my hero.
SunnyPA Says:
Sahel Kazemi … What nationality was this girl? If he was dumping her…she may have felt she disgraced her family for nothing, so she killed him.
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some site said she was iranian (sp?) … those people from iran… lol
kwallace577 Says:
“i shoulda choke slammed that hoe.”
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Atomic drop, slingshot suplex and DDT that heffa for real!
@Yvonne and ALL Young Ladies in training
Player-Code 101:
NEVER mess with Friends or Relatives of your woman
(YES @Yvonne Your Friends are Definitely Off-Limits)
Never leave an audit trail of your cheating WAYS
(Visa card, hotel receipts, telephone-cellphone calls…)
ALWAYS have buddies that GOT YOUR BACK Unconditionally
AND always be Upfront-n-Honest with your Side-Piece
THOSE that don’t abide by these rules AREN’T PLAYERS !!!
heres her craiglist add, it says $1 but it has the prices in the add, that site obiviously didnt read the whole add
http://nashville.craigslist.org/fuo/1250857605.html
heres her craiglist add, it says $1 but it has the prices in the add, that site obiviously didnt read the whole add
nashville.craigslist.org/fuo/1250857605.html
she posted that on 7-2-09
the same day she bought that gun… maybe she wasnt planning on killing her self =/
Elove - he went wrong with rule #4! He lead her to believe something that wasnt gonna be….
Playing with folks feelings isnt the biz! SMH!
always be Upfront-n-Honest with your Side-Piece
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First Date:
“um…i gotta tell you RAT now. i am married. to a CRAZY azz woman. and ahh…if my wife walk up on us…at the mall, at the jazz club, in the restaurant…i gotta be honest. i FULLY plan on running MY azz off. like my name is maurice greene, ben johnson…so if you see ME bust out in an all out sprint…if you are smart you will do the same..in the opposite direction! it is best if we split up..”
@LJ
That fact alone makes me question if she actually did SHOOT Steve and then Herself… I MEAN a double-tap to the HEAD & CHEST is classic professional hitman type stuff!!! So ex-cop OR corrupt-cop OR someone very experienced with gun-play… IS this Jump-off that damn good with a gun ???
@K-DUB… You may think I’m Joking BUT I’m dead serious
IF YOU or @Bird (or ANY woman like YOUS TWO) was my woman
I WOULD TELL MY SIDE-PIECE EXACTLY WHAT YOU JUST STATED
(Real MF-ing TALK…) :rolf:
@Shay
YOUR first comment had me SHAKING SCARED because all I could think of was… IS THAT ALL IT TAKES ???
LOL
kwallace577 Says:
always be Upfront-n-Honest with your Side-Piece
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First Date:
“um…i gotta tell you RAT now. i am married. to a CRAZY azz woman. and ahh…if my wife walk up on us…at the mall, at the jazz club, in the restaurant…i gotta be honest. i FULLY plan on running MY azz off. like my name is maurice greene, ben johnson…so if you see ME bust out in an all out sprint…if you are smart you will do the same..in the opposite direction! it is best if we split up..”
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Girl, you are a fool!!!
He is an ignorant fool and that includes any man that cheats on his wife. It always comes back to you and he got his early.
Too bad for the kids.
Kwallace you never fail me for a laugh.
And I agree cheating is not the end all be all. Its so easy for someone to say that if they haven’t walked those shoes. One of those things you can’t speak on until you are.
I TRULY believe this dude was lying to this girl promising her he was getting divorced & she got fed up!
They said the reason he liked her was because she was very driven for her age..
Some women think that once they are married that’s it. NOOOO!!! Keep it exciting! Dude was only 36.. She was probably at home doing jack ish all day but chilling with the kids in a big house with a nanny & maids.. She was CONTENT with her dude cheating on her cause she was THE WIFE!!
http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9777174/Don‘t-be-so-quick-to-make-McNair-a-hero
Okay, the jumpoff told friends that her life was almost over a fews days prior to the murder-suicide according to police.
Hello All. I knew it was a murder-suicide when the police announced they weren’t looking for any suspects just hrs after this horrible killing. So sad his wife and family have to go thru this terrible, shameful ordeal. When I first met my husband, he told me that he doesn’t lie, cheat or steal. We’re been together 11 yrs, married 7, and he’s been true to his word. He ain’t got no money but he’s mine, allllllll mine, my soul mate, and I wouldn’t trade him for the world butttttttttttt, if I ever do, I’m headed to Miami to find me an rich, old, old, old SINGLE white man. Just call me the black Anna Nicole Smith. I’m just saying.
I’ve been away for a few days and it feelss good to be back on board the SandraRose train. Peace.
Police said that dumbazz McNair was asleep on the couch when jumpoff bust those caps off in his azz.
Bird
Thanks for not letting me be the only one to admit that cheating is not a deal breaker for me. And quiet as it’s kept, I’ll fight a bish too old as I am. Call me every name you want, but if I settle on a man it’s because he is that all too rare man that meets all my standards. I’m not gonna just hand him over to some 20% chick without a fight. All is fair in love and war and if you mess with my man it’s not gonna be pleasant or easy for you AND I’m taking all the dough.
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Bird, don’t let some people fool you, for most women knowing their man is cheating isn’t going to make them pick up their stuff and leave. For me, one act of infidelity is not going to make me bounce from a marriage, my deal breakers are disease, offspring and scandal, I can work past most everything else, but know I can’t work past some antibiotics, or child support for a bastard child or me being the subject of ridicule and gossip among people I know.
i added in the opposite direction cause when i WAS on the “beatabytch down” plan (bird said she still is…i have slipped into retirement) i chased a girl through a mcdonald’s parking lot! they were sitting in the car and my man at the time saw me in the rearview mirror! he musta told her to run. and she did. but the heffa had a head start so i did not catch her. WHY he crossed the HIGHWAY to get away from me….literally the doors of the car flew open and he went one way and she went the other…smdh at the memory. and hail…if i couldn’t catch somebody in my 23 yo prime i know dayum well i cain’t catch nobody now!
@ PAHairston, welcome back.
damn kwallace @78 u wasnt playing. lol what were u gonna do if u had caught her?
ive never had to go through this, my husband was my first real boyfriend and like PAHairston hes my soulmate
attorneymom Says:
Police said that dumbazz McNair was asleep on the couch when jumpoff bust those caps off in his azz.
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thats just craziness. he never saw it coming. i will be waiting for the “snapped” episode, cuz i have a feeling he was trying to break up with her, and she wasnt having it
How sad! I’m with you Kat there is no dyck on this earth good enough for me to kill over and I love, love, love my baby. =)
Whatever..I still believe the wife should get some respect from the media..at least wait until the man is in the ground before showing all the jump off pics and him on vacation…The media would have had more respect for a woman of another ethnicity.
I am in no way saying what he did was wrong..but put yourself in the wife shoes..This is very rude to her and her family the pictures they are digging up of his affair.
NYCUTIE Says:
I TRULY believe this dude was lying to this girl promising her he was getting divorced & she got fed up!
They said the reason he liked her was because she was very driven for her age..
Some women think that once they are married that’s it. NOOOO!!! Keep it exciting! Dude was only 36.. She was probably at home doing jack ish all day but chilling with the kids in a big house with a nanny & maids.. She was CONTENT with her dude cheating on her cause she was THE WIFE!!
http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9777174/Dont-be-so-quick-to-make-McNair-a-hero
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How is she driven for her age, when she was just a fugging waitress at 20? Unless she owned that restaurant, she wasn’t driven, she was just another loose pu$sy cum bucket slut who didn’t know how to keep her legs closed to someone else’s man.
It almost sounds like you think its the wife’s fault for her husband’s inability to stick to his vows and be a man of integrity, now unless you show me proof that Mechelle put a gun to her husband’s head and made him cheat, the wife is not the reason he cheated. Him and his lying ass ego did that all by himself.
Ice I walked n those shoes as a gfriend n I bounced men cheat partly because they know they can as in she aint going nowhere so let me get my creep on I also said I hope I never have to find out what I wld do as a wife. I will always love myself more than any man real talk and maybe that’s why mu azz is still single lol
I mean *right* he is completely to blame
^^^@LADYJUSTICE ..HOW DO U KNOW THIS IS HER CRAIGLIST AD?
@SHANIASMOMMA i dont KNOW it was posted on a website, but the pics she had on facebook has the same couch and stuff, so i dont doubt it
How many of your men would stay with u if u were the one caught slipping? Just asking
@kwallace, you are crazy, Bird… i’m on the fence about you.
Reminds me of his woman back home in Nigeria, she saw a chick driving her husband’s car and followed her. When the chick stopped at a hotel, she confronted her, why did the side chick try to punk the wife and tell her if she was doing everything she was supposed to, her husband wouldn’t be cheating. So the wife had her driver pick the chick up and throw her into her car and took her to their guest house and proceed to whip the girl with a cane for a few hours; then called her trifling husband who was still waiting at the hotel to come and pick up the chick. He refused to and went home like nothing happened. Nobody has ever seen another woman drive her husband’s ca since.
^^ well, da*n!
HMMMM…………….
FOR ALL THOSE WOMEN WHO TOLERATE A CHEATING PHILANDERING HUSBAND AND CARRY THE “I’S MARRIED BANNER”
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT NO MAN IS WORTH THIS MUCH PAIN AND HEART ACHE
HIS DECISION TO CHEAT DOESN’T JUST AFFECT THE WIFE BUT ALSO THEIR CHILDREN AND NOW BOTH WILL REMEMBER HOW DADDY DIED -AT THE HANDS OF HIS JUMP OFF
WOMEN TOLERATE ANYTHING TO HAVE A PIECE OF MAN OR TO AVOID BEING LABELED A SINGLE WOMAN OR RAISING CHILDREN ALONE-TO AVOID THE STIGMA SOCIETY PLACES WITH THAT, ALSO THAT OF A FAILED MARRIAGE
DAMN PEOPLE IF THAT NICCA IS BLAZINGLY GALAVANTING HIS JUMP OFF ALL AROUND TOWN-LEAVE HIS ARSE AND AT LEAST LEAVE WITH SOME SELF-RESPECT AND DIGNITY
IT’S NOT THE WIFE’S FAULT-BUT PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER BY ASSOCIATING HER WITH WHAT HER HUSBAND DID AND HOW HE DIED!
AINT NOBODY GOING TO RESPECT THE WIFE ANY MORE THAN HER DAMN HUSBAND DID
COULDN’T NOBODY DIG UP SHIAT IF HIS PHILANDERING ARSE WASN’T SO BLATANTLY CHEATING ALL UP IN THE PUBLIC WITH HIS YOUNG TENDERONI
WOMEN LEARN-NOBODY CAN DISRESPECT YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGE UNLESS SOMEONE IN THE MARRIAGE IS ALREADY DISRESPECTING IT TO BEGIN WITH
AND YOU MIGHT RUN UP ON THE WRONG JUMP OFF AND GET YOUR BRAINS BLOWN OUT-ALL OVER A TRIFLING CHEATING NICCA-
YEAH LEAVING HIM AND HER SOUNDS LIKE THE BEST ALTERNATIVE
AINT NO MAN WORTH PUTTING MY LIFE IN DANGER OR GOING TO JAIL-IT AINT THAT SERIOUS
AND IF HE REALLY WAS THE BUSINESS AND LOVED YOU LIKE HE SAID-HE WOULDN’T BE OUT THERE CHEATING ON YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE
SOME OF YOU CHICKS ARE SO DELUSIONAL
@ Intense why so many labels. Maybe the woman just loves her man enough to try and work thru shyt.
Everyone has their breaking points. One shouldn’t have to be judged so harshly. A single bitsh can have low self esteem. I’m not a man so I don’t know how they operate and/or why they feel the need to cheat. I recall you saying b4 you forgave a cheating man. Nobody (I) didn’t look at it as you were this this and that. I just said she loved her man. I hope they still together.
How many of your men would stay with u if u were the one caught slipping? Just asking
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that is the best question all day. my husband would FLIP. just cause i am up here tambout cheating is not a deal breaker don’t mean he feel the same. lmao. my shat would be packed….no my shat would be DROPPED off prolly at my momma house. locks changed. he told me once the kids can stay that there is no need to uproot them cause i lost intrest in him…he is not single father material tho. he will prolly move his momma or his sister in to help.
@Daisy (#90) Very Interesting indeed
Depends on the Foundation of the relationship ALONG with whatever Rules-n-Commandments y’all choose to adhere to …
My No-No(s):
No STD(s) of any kind are allowed
No babies and/or pregnancy I’m NOT responsible for
No (Absolutely NO) messing around in MY Crib in My BED !!!
No messing with My Boyz or My Friends or Associates
Exception:
IF you MUST mess around,
Use a condom AND do not suck HIS DYCK !!!!!
Karaz- The wife KNEW dude was like that BEFORE she married his tail!!! This isn’t the FIRST time he cheated on her because he was ALL OUT IN PUBLIC with his disrespect..
As far as the girl being driven, I read that the chick had two jobs & was putting herself through nursing school. NOW, that was MUCH more than what his wife was doing.. Men ONLY do what you allow them to
Intense- I concur! I am not staying with NO cheating tail man PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also I am NOT fighting NO WOMAN over NO MAN!!!
Intense, you are the classic ABC!
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a woman deciding that an affair is not worth her marriage ans decides to stay and work things out with her spouse; actually I think it’s the harder choice to make when it comes to staying or leaving and I think people need to stop labeling all women who stay, as weak or desperate. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with trying to make a marriage work.
@ E ditto minus the dyck sucking.
Even though
Cheating usually leads to those No No’s.
Can’t win for losing.
@NYCutie,
Perhaps he cheated on her prior to the marriage, but again, she didn’t hold a gun to his head. His cheating was not about what his wife does and doesn’t do, it was about him being to weak and overly self-centered to honor his marriage vows.
As far as that stupid as crazy whore, working two jobs to put yourself through school doesn’t sound that driven to me, I know people who do that while raising a family and running a side business, now that’s driven. This chick was not extraordinary, neither was her vagina lined in platinum, she was just the crazy tart he decided to fcuk and he lost his life over it.
@iscream… BUT it’s just simple self-respect
IF you respect yourself then the No No’s should be EASY !!!
RIGHT ???
@KaraZ said: “neither was her vagina lined in platinum”
OKAY, I BET that wasn’t even the BEST PUSS he ever had.
Karaz- Explain to me WHY she is a whore again? Also, Ol girl was only 20 years old.. Sounds WAY more driven than MAJORITY of the 20 year olds out here!
@ Kara
I agree it takes a strong person to forgive. & not just cheating. In general.
@ E
I agree with you. But you know how the game goes. Its so easy to blame it on the Al al alcohol.
@NYCutie,
She’s a whore, a trick, a tramp, a slut, a cheap woman who makes bad decisions, because she knowingly dealt with a married man. Any woman who knowingly deals with a married man deserves whatever name she gets called.
@ELove,
I really hope it was the best he’s ever been in, if he lost his life over it.
HOT off the presses:
McNair, 36, a quarterback for the Tennessee Titans most of his career, met Kazemi six months ago at a restaurant where she was a waitress and his family often ate. She seemed happy and eager to build a life with him, but something went wrong.
“We do know that she was clearly sending a message during the last five to seven days of her life that things were going bad quickly,” Serpas said, though there was no indication she told anyone she planned to harm McNair.
Serpas said detectives learned that Kazemi recently found out about another young woman she thought McNair was romantically involved with and had even followed that woman home, though she did not confront her.
Serpas said police believe McNair was asleep when he was killed because there were no defensive wounds. After shooting McNair in the head, Kazemi apparently shot him twice in the chest before shooting him again in the head and then shooting herself.
She sat next to his body and tried to position herself to fall into his lap when she died. She did, but her body slid to the floor and ended up at McNair’s feet, Serpas said. The gun was found underneath her.
Oh NO HE DIDN’T …
Now the widow get to find out through the media that her husband was cheating on the mistress. Damn dirty shame.
@KaraZ
I GUESS that answers the question about …
THE BEST PUSS HE EVER HAD !!!!! Un-PHUCKING Believable
ELove Says:
@KaraZ
I GUESS that answers the question about …
THE BEST PUSS HE EVER HAD !!!!! Un-PHUCKING Believable
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Way off topic: I notice you like to hyphenate words. I always get a kick out of reading your comments to see which words you are going to hyphen. I think you mentioned you were married before, just out of curiousity did your wife hyphenate her last name(s)?
@Anna
I WAS married briefly and YES…
She hyphenated my last name to hers
ELove Says:
@Anna
I WAS married briefly and YES…
She hyphenated my last name to hers
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You can tell I already knew the answer. I hyphenate and when I have to sign my gov. name it’s so long it doesn’t even fit. Oh well, the things we do as women to keep some of our self.
—Hello my name is ______ and I’m a recovering sidepiece. He told me to keep the keys cause “our” house would be burned to the ground and I have to leave my Range Rover at the airport in broad daylight. He cancelled our vacation and now I have nothing to do All Star Weekend. I said I’d take a psychological test and he said “neva eva eva eva eva eva come by here”. I guess it’s back to dancing in videos…..
I don’t know if I believe this story quite yet. I can’t see why shoot him twice in the head and in each temple at that. Seems fishy.
On another note I said to my husband “Baby why do you think that girl needed to shoot him twice in each temple?” He said “I don’t know you see what her last name is don’t you?” While laughing (I couldn’t help it) I told him that was inappropriate behavior.
Damn, ELove - just read your hot off the press….get’s ya everytime
Well Damn ole girl was crazy as hell
And this shows you that you will never be happy being the other woman, you will always want more so why sell yourself short? For a house, car, trips none of that mattered! So at the end of the day get a education, make smart career choices and know your worth as a woman. This is the only way you will stay sane.
And I kissing thirty and out of my relationship that lasted 12 years(never been with another man sexual). I don’t care how much pipe laying a ninja put on me he’ll kill himself before me. I have truly adopted my new phrase “I don’t chase em I replace em” how you doing.
also I hope women will wake up and see that if he’s cheating on his wife he is not a Good man. Women always sit back and believe there a better woman for a cheating man, then when he shows you he ain’t sh** you get mad go figure… I think they need to send some women back through school so they can get a clue.
@NW you better PREACH sista!
The truly SAD Thing is this Man-IDIOT …
Whose SOLE-ACTIONS was responsible for all This Foolishness-n-Tragedy on All LEVELS Really THOUGHT he was safe sleeping on his sofa INSIDE HIS HOUSE (Truly, Truly SAD)
STEVE MCNAIR THOUGHT HE WAS SAFE Y’ALL !!!!!!!!!!
Married Men SHOULD NEVER try and be PLAYAS (Real Talk)
NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:
And this shows you that you will never be happy being the other woman, you will always want more so why sell yourself short? For a house, car, trips none of that mattered! So at the end of the day get a education, make smart career choices and know your worth as a woman. This is the only way you will stay sane.
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You said it all right there. Most “kept woman” know that their time will run out but in the meantime they are stashing stacks, getting an education and know when to keep it moving. You can never mix young, crazy and mistress in the same person.
MEN TAKE NOTES !!!!! so she was okay with being the side piece but when she found out he had another 2 piece chicken dinner on the side she smoked his azz,,, dang that is some sick ish…… and the media killing me about he was a good man, good father, great player OH REALLY if i was his wife i would stuff and mount his azz over the fireplace. As long as men can run, jump and shoot a ball everything else is all good. God bless the dead but NEXT!!!!
this whole mcnair saga got my head hurtin’ and also smdh.
so you mean to tell me…the almost teenage girl was FINE with a wife but off’ed his azz cause he had another girlfriend?
what kinda fluckery is THAT????
WOW @ 104
what made this girl think that he was gonna be FAITHFUL to her??? he wasnt being faithful to his WIFE.. that shoulda been a red flag right there. dumb girl.
I MEANT 108 ***
These women kill me! My friend dated this married guy and was fine in the beginning. When things wasn’t going her way she sent this long letter to his wife, that was intercepted. I told her she was wrong, and she went on about wouldn’t I want to know if it was me. If it was me/mine, Bish tell me when he first approaches you! Don’t wait till you been smashing him for years and now you looking out for me? Hellz No!
These jumpoffs want reactions when they do things like that. Behind closed doors me and hubby could be Ike and Tina, running into each other with knives and sh*t. When we step out the door, please believe to the jumpoff I have no clue about, when she sees us, it’s Michelle and Obama.
Trust some wives don’t know about the jumpoffs but you better believe she knows all about you. She can point you out of a crowd. They make it their business to know all about you!