More Proof That Men Are Cheats By Nature
Do you ever wonder how a woman “catches” a married man just out of the blue? As if he was just waiting around to be caught? As I’ve pointed out so many times before, men are hard wired to cheat. I’m not saying all men cheat, I’m saying they are hard wired to cheat because not cheating sort of goes against nature.
As it is, women outnumber men 3-1 on planet earth. So in order to populate the earth, man has to be very busy in the sack. If a man limited himself to just one woman then our species would rapidly die out. Therefore, cheating is hard wired in their brains so that men don’t become complacent with just one woman and forget their primary purpose.
Scientific studies have shown that a man’s brain is smaller than a female’s. Men are very good at analytical thinking and working with their hands. But when it comes to the opposite sex, they lack the ability to process information rapidly before it reaches their genitals. This makes men very vulnerable to sneaky women like Gabrielle Union.
It also means men require very little stimulation to get them going, so to speak. A wink and a smile from a hawt female is usually all it takes.
Whereas, females require a little more stimulation. A Coach or Louis Vuitton bag usually gets the most resistant female in the mood and in the sack.
So I hope that helps to explain why a NC man dumped his wife and two kids and moved into a mansion with singer Fantasia one week after meeting her. It’s really not rocket science.
Apparently, everyone in Charlotte, North Carolina is queefing about how 30-year-old college football player Antwaun Cook pink-slipped his teacher wife and his two young children (ages 1 and 4) so that he could fuck on Fantasia full-time. Read more…
I bet his wife thought he loved her and that their marriage was a happy one. Too bad she doesn’t read Sandrarose.com.
Photo: Wireimage/Getty
Thanks to loyal reader BevG for the tip!
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Hail naw…..say it aint so Tasia.
She has a tattoo that says Cooks on her chest and shoulder area. What a loser move.
Vibaby, it’s not like Fanny has a reputation to protect she is as ghetto as they come. I loved her on Idol but now I see that you can take the girl out of the ghetto but even money and fame can’t take the ghetto out of the girl. LOL.
yes i read about this last week. and she does not get a pass cause she is from up the skreet in high point. she is WRONG.
she need to be reading a book someplace or in the library instead of being up in the t-mobile store (he is a t-mobile sales rep i read…that is where they met) tryna catch a man.
the end.
Wonder what he said when he saw her damn feet.
Well whatever the reason he left his wife, we know it wasn’t because he had taste! :barf:
LOL Sandra… She definitely has a point about men…
Regardless of what that guy’s wife looks like. She is a teacher, with an education brought on by her intelligent self. (college and she can read)
Dumbass fantasia decided to get her education on board when she became famous. She used the bs as a crutch for sympathy because her a## wasn’t selling them records.
Well….I guess why thats she made that video of her and Kandi dropping it like it’s on fire. To lure all the men married or otherwise to “her yard”.
**cue in attorneymom**
umm why does she need to keep addin to those hideous tats all over her body! please stop it fanny! however, we cant judge on the ALLEGED cheating scandal becuz who knows the real story!
lol – He works at T-Mobile? Surely she didn’t hook up for the discount!?!
this is ridiculous
Wow I’m speechless!
As soon as he moved in with Fanny, he had to moved out. Didn’t her mansion go into foreclosure? lol
@mason
you can cue in more than AM
Regardless of what that guy’s wife looks like. She is a teacher, with an education brought on by her intelligent self.
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the site i read this on last week had a link to the wife’s fb page. and she is alot better looking than fanny mae. don’t get me wrong fanny mae is a nice looking sista but his wife is a classic beauty. antwaun…carry your azz HOME bruh.
Also why do chics get mens names tattooed on them? I be damn if I do that and I’m married, so damn tacky! I have a good friend back home who has guys names scratched off in black ink after they break up, wth! So damn gross! They better than me!
Sandra did loyal reader BevG miss the open registration or she is now a loyal reader as well as poster
PAGING BevG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is messing around with married men the new “in” thing now?
ReadTheBlog Says:
lol – He works at T-Mobile? Surely she didn’t hook up for the discount!?!
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We are in a recession, you get what discount you can. LOL. Isn’t she broke?
@Kwall Says:she need to be reading a book someplace or in the library instead of being up in the t-mobile store (he is a t-mobile sales rep i read…that is where they met) tryna catch a man.
the end.
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@M_prom2 comment 6
I was wondering the same thing…..because I had seen them and they aren’t a pretty site
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All I can say is that it seems like a trend in hollywood to be dating a man who is “separated” and the wife never knows that they are separated…. and I will always stand by my belief that not all men are cheats……
(if you see my comment twice my comment was/is in moderation so i posted it again)
this is old news.
lmaoooo daisy…see what i mean, ur overprotective too!
lol – He works at T-Mobile? Surely she didn’t hook up for the discount!?!
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i could say all kinds of things about…do folks who cannot read even send text messages???!…but i shall refrain…
Wow…well it’s better the wife found out now keep it moving…
I do have one question though if she is a school teacher with an education why the HELL is she married to someone working for T-Mobile? Is this another case of “I married to say I’m married”?
Welcome back AUNTIE. Missed you
BTW, I caught that blow to Gabby “This makes men very vulnerable to sneaky women like Gabrielle Union.”
If your cousin, friend, and sister’s best friend hooks up with married men, why should a celebrity be any different? They are human too (wrong or right) . I expect nothing more and nothing less from a celeb.
:off topic:
Saw 2012 last night. It was pretty good, great computer generated special effects. Had me thinking…could our government be keeping those types of secrets from us?
Sandra he’s a 30 year old COLLEGE football player? Is that why he still works at T Mobile?
This rat has this dude’s name tatooed on her body already. What the hell is that about?
Well the wife is better off. She was making more than him anyway. He doesn’t get a lot of commission from selling sidekicks.
Just SMH @ Fannie and how low women standards are.
This makes men very vulnerable to sneaky women like Gabrielle Union.
talkingwithtami Says:
Also why do chics get mens names tattooed on them? I be damn if I do that and I’m married, so damn tacky! I have a good friend back home who has guys names scratched off in black ink after they break up, wth! So damn gross! They better than me!
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I have my hubby’s name on my wedding finger. I was married for 11 yrs before I got it. Now to get a bf name to me is crazy. Cracking up at “names scratched off in black ink”.
@ Anna I know, but I liked Tasia with her ghetto self. I guess I will add her to the hoe
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kwall Says:
yes i read about this last week. and she does not get a pass cause she is from up the skreet in high point. she is WRONG.
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Are you in High Point, Greensboro, or Winston?! Oh, how I miss those days when I was in Greensboro!
So Sandra what are you saying? That women should expect to get cheated on? Should that be apart of the lifecycle of marriage? I don’t know ANY woman that would go for that. I know my wife won’t. How can we as Black people be successful at marriage if this is true?
Kwall….she uses the voice activated TEXT. You know they got that.
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done. dead. yes they DO!
kwall Says:
lol – He works at T-Mobile? Surely she didn’t hook up for the discount!?!
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i could say all kinds of things about…do folks who cannot read even send text messages???!…but i shall refrain…
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Of course they do, they spell in their own special way.
all i can say is that i’m married and feel for the wife. it’s bad enough that he left, then to be with a celeb. has to be hard
no @35 in raleigh. i refer to every thing less that 2 hours away “up the skreet”…always have…lol.
Umm okay, did I just read 30 year old college football player? ….was he in the military or sumfin? …..neva mind
As far as jilting his family…Stop it I say! These untaimed unmentionables are pure madness. Some people just don’t have the monogamy gene.
@KC For some reason your comment surprised me. Maybe he is a manager or maybe he was laid off I don’t know but teachers arent that paid per say from what I understand but I could be wrong. Maybe she married for love
ok a 30 yr old college player or EX-college player workin at t-mobile??? dnt matter anywayz cuz we need to remember it is N. CAROLINA so tmobile is probably the best they can get down there! he better step it up and raise the bar wit at & t!
I know you can’t tell grown people what to do, but I’ve always cautioned myself when dating. Someones boyfirend is one thing, but a husband is a different story! I wouldn’t want someone to come in and bust up my family, disrupt my children’s lives, mess up the $ and harmony. And 9x’s out of 10, he’s gonna go back
No drama for me, thanks.
Just Say No, y’all
Send that married man home!
Whereas, females require a little more stimulation. A Coach or Louis Vuitton bag usually gets the most resistant female in the mood and in the sack.
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On Topic: …Lawd…I’m sure there’s a whole bunch of SINGLE men who would love to move in with FANNY within a week. WHY must THIS man leave his wife and kids?
.c. Says:
all i can say is that i’m married and feel for the wife. it’s bad enough that he left, then to be with a celeb. has to be hard
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Sorry but Fanny is not a prize, if he left the wife for homewrecker AK or some other hot chick that would be different. He’ll be back cause Fanny is going to get bored, send him packing and “scratch his name out with black ink”.
If I find out…I will go off!
Oh wow…………Fantasia looks very nice
*scrolls back up to read the post*
or she’ll cover his name up to say COOKIES!
#39 for them to live their lives out publicly is like rubbing it in your face, right? It’s the worst, I can imagine…
i should claify he is a sales manager for t-mobile the story i read said…but yes he was working in the store cause that is where they met. he played ball for ecu when he was in college…don’t know nathan ’bout this dude other than what i read…and that he is a cheater.
That’s messed up and Fanny seems extra dumb to me now, if she really does have his name tattooed on her
What makes her think he’ll stay with her, you reap what you sew. I never understood why people knowingly form relationship with married men/women 
Oh okay so he sells phones? I was about to say, why is he 30 still playing college football, he AND Tasia are a match made in heaven! LOL. I do not get down with the messing with someone else’s hubby!
So very sad if this is true. Look at how you guys ended up with each other, don’t expect anything good to come out of it. It’s a shame that people don’t learn how to love and take care of themselves so that they can get to a level of peace in their life. Smh….
Shauny Says:
Why does the girl have to be a rat?! 
This rat has this dude’s name tatooed on her body already. What the hell is that about?
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I never knew her and Young Dro broke up!!
OK, Sandra don’t get it twisted, men who cheat are not of GOD point blank and period!
On judgment day cheating men WILL answer to GOD for their so-called ” its in my nature” way.
Christ came to this earth to show us how to live and rely on GOD to help us with our weaknesses.
A man of GOD does not cheat, because he respects GOD first, his wife second, and his kids, and he respects his own body as a spiritual temple of GOD.
There is NO excuse whatsoever for cheating!
I’m more perplexed at why she has his name tattoed on her chest …than I am surprised at her fuking a married man. But then again …this is Tasia we’re talking about.
Men who cheat do not walk with GOD.
Anna says
Sorry but Fanny is not a prize, if he left the wife for homewrecker AK or some other hot chick that would be different. He’ll be back cause Fanny is going to get bored, send him packing and “scratch his name out with black ink”.
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Kind of surprised this is coming from you Anna. Him leaving his wife and children for ANYONE isn’t a prize. If you were in wifey’s situation and your hubby left you and moved in with AK or another hot chick you’d think he got a prize? Chit, wifey is the one who got the prize, losing his sorry ass.
@Kwall
LOL! Thanks!
I guess I’ll comment on something else in this post…any kind of woman who hops into the sack just because a man gives her a purse is not really working with much.
Sandra, I need you to give REAL women more credit than that. Sounds like you are giving me an excuse for cheating.
And if that stung somebody,
Truth hurts.
*scandalous*
@Redeemed777…my point exactly. I’m so tired of men making that excuse about it being a part of their nature.
1 JOHN 3:9…..Whosoever is born of GOD doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him, and he cannot sin because he is born of GOD.
Shauny Says:
Anna says
Sorry but Fanny is not a prize, if he left the wife for homewrecker AK or some other hot chick that would be different. He’ll be back cause Fanny is going to get bored, send him packing and “scratch his name out with black ink”.
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Kind of surprised this is coming from you Anna. Him leaving his wife and children for ANYONE isn’t a prize. If you were in wifey’s situation and your hubby left you and moved in with AK or another hot chick you’d think he got a prize? Chit, wifey is the one who got the prize, losing his sorry ass.
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My point kind of was your ending. If he left that quickly something was wrong in the marriage. Fanny is not a prize to me because she chooses not to educate herself while raising a daughter. Fanny will get bored and send him packing. He works at cell phone company and do you think he can afford child support and alimony. The wife may have lucked and was done with him.
However lets remember people that God is a forgiving God.so no need to condemn people straight to hell…..
Well Dayum…
Fanny, come on now….say it ain so?
*throws hands in the air*
yall killing me!……..will there be anyone left buy cds for before 2010??!!!
@ Shauny…I know that’s right….let him be her problem now.
No bags can get me in the sack! A Coach?!!! will get you cussed out!
I don’t get why women do this, it is a shame. My mother is one of those women who always messes around with married men and does not care at all. But when it was done to her she wanted to jump off the roof. I told her time and time again that it was wrong but she did not care. She is still doing it to this day!
Fanny won’t care till it is done to her…
“Simple” and Easy
Selfish and Coldhearted
The Divine Ms. K Says:
Sandra, I need you to give REAL women more credit than that. Sounds like you are giving me an excuse for cheating.
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You have to remember that I live in Atlanta, hon. We have a different breed of black women here. If a man wants a REAL woman, he has to import one from out of town. No joke.
lol @ #69 you got that right a coach will for sure get u cussed out! I’d never do it anyway being that I am married but if I was still young and dumb a coach would not pass the test…
@Reedemed
I am not trying to debate today so …..God sent Jesus to die for our sins….we were born into sin….and every sin is equal……..And God is a forgiving God ……..
@ Chase…I was with a guy for 8 years and it wasn’t until the end that he started messing around. It got out of hand because I started finding out about women from his job and just random chicks and when I say the type of women that he fooling around with, I say him in a different light. I have an aunt that messes around all the time and my point is I would never do it because I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of something like that.
I heard about this a while back….LADIES please stop inking ni**as names on your body!!! Especially if they are married and you have only known them for 4 months lmao
I meant to say ….I saw him in a different light.
o.k gotcha Anna.
Well all wifey can do at this point is file for divorce requesting spousal and child support and keep it moving. She has a job and from what I hear is cute so she’ll bounce back. I hope she doesn’t take him back when Fannie kicks him to the curb because she will kick him to the curb. His T Mobile checks can’t pay her utilities so they sure can’t take care of her.
So Fantasia’s actions are justified by bogus scientific studies which shows that men are natural cheats but Gabrielle Union is still the “man-hopping homewrecker” huh?
Well that somewhat makes sense because we always have the tendency to unfairly criticize people who are more beautiful/handsome than us. SMH
Sandra Rose Says:
The Divine Ms. K Says:
Sandra, I need you to give REAL women more credit than that. Sounds like you are giving me an excuse for cheating.
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You have to remember that I live in Atlanta, hon. We have a different breed of black women here. If a man wants a REAL woman, he has to import one from out of town. No joke.
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Is that the same for women who don’t want a gay husband?
Shauny Says:
Sandra he’s a 30 year old COLLEGE football player? Is that why he still works at T Mobile?
I thought I was the only one who noticed that, because nobody else mentioned it. 30 year college football player just isn’t making sense to me. I love Fantasia’s music but this girl is screaming out for help, she falls in love way too fast. This guy will not be around long, look at Dro!
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GOD does forgive, but HE is not mocked at the same time. Just because HE forgives does not mean we are supposed to take advantage or abuse that right to be forgiven.
Don’t say to yourself ” I will go out and sin because I know GOD will forgive me”
Plenty of people have said this, and died in their sin. You have got to walk with GOD to overcome temptation.
Add her to the long list of homewreckers
1. Melyssa Ford
2. Rocsi
3. Alicia Keys
4. Supa Head
5. Gabriel Union
6. Fantasia
Dammit…….the comments are coming to quick.
Well I’ve been with hubby for 17 years and honestly I would be hurt if he left me for another woman..but I have issue with him not the woman. Fanny is dead wrong but she has no loyalty to his wife because she does not know her! Women are so quick to jump on the jumpoff (who was more than likely lied to about his situation)and the men get a pass. My husband would be the person that I would f*ck up!
some women fall for that lie “we are seperated but we still live together for the kids”. please. if you are seperated and it’s over, then get a divorce. if you love me, get a divorce first. women shouldn’t lower themselves like that.
there’s an interesting video about “why men cheat” on this relationship website called ihustlenation.com. The host Lewis Williams talks about life skills and other stuff (lol) actaully, he makes alot of sense and made me understand why men cheat. If your interested, go and check it out!
@ Shauny.. I agree the best thing people can do with situations like this is pray about it, get your mind right and keep it moving. Anybody that would treat you like that or just leave you like that didn’t have any real love for you anyway.
j.c. says:
some women fall for that lie “we are separated but we still live together for the kids”. please. if you are separated and it’s over, then get a divorce. if you love me, get a divorce first. women shouldn’t lower themselves like that.
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I agree this statement…….
Perfect example STEVE MCNAIR
Sandra the DEVIL is a LIE I know plenty of REAL SINGLE women in this darn city myself included so dont even come with that BS hell if we want a REAL man we have to import one! SHAT!
@Anna how do you know Tasia refuses to educate herself. I remember her talking about improving her reading skills a few yrs back and getting her GED
All those tattoos all over her body look ridiculous. I hate them.
Shauny Says:
o.k gotcha Anna.
Well all wifey can do at this point is file for divorce requesting spousal and child support and keep it moving. She has a job and from what I hear is cute so she’ll bounce back. I hope she doesn’t take him back when Fannie kicks him to the curb because she will kick him to the curb. His T Mobile checks can’t pay her utilities so they sure can’t take care of her.
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Exactely.
He went from playing College Football to working at a cell phone company, unless the wife has her Masters or PHD they are probably making the same yearly income. I bet a buck she probably thought he would go farther. This man did not leave his family on a whim. Their might have been tension in the home and men quickly shack up with the next available chick.
Who gives a **** about fantasia or these irrelevant flops sandra did you block ma email addy from you??
@DCwife PREACH!!! Let the church say AMEN AMEN and AMEN again!
” if you love me, get a divorce first”
I couldnt agree more!
There not their*
@Redeemed777…say that! Plenty of people have died in their sin.
That every sin is equal stuff dont stick with me. I refuse to believe that me and that dude who murdered Shaniya or this man who is cheating on his wife will have the same ticket to hell because I lie about my age.
I live in Atlana and I notice that there are a lot of shallow women who would give service for whisper and a glass of wine. Everybody wants to be on the “socialite scene”. All the women are “models” and all of the men are “producers” Also, there are a lot of loose men with short attention spans who cant tell the difference between a tranny and a tramp before its too late, by then they are turned out.
Its just hard maintaining any kind of stable relationship. Its take a really grounded person to resist temptations.
KC For some reason your comment surprised me. Maybe he is a manager or maybe he was laid off I don’t know but teachers arent that paid per say from what I understand but I could be wrong. Maybe she married for love
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@ Daisy a lot of people marry for love but that doesn’t mean that they are marrying the person they should be with for the rest of their life.
In my opinion, many people who marry no good men already know what they are capable of and yet they still go through with it. Why? I’m a firm believer that the signs are there and most women choose to ignore them to keep their man.
The bottom line period is that women need to choose better mates and likewise for men as well…
@kcicero….I agree cause I feel like all the signs are there and most men that I know that cheat have never really changed their behavior.
I do feel like people can change but it takes drastic situations or something to happen in their life to make them change for the better and really be that changed person.
This is why I say find you a white man from the suburbs they don’t do this **** and they have good credit =)
wifey is the one who got the prize, losing his sorry ass.
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I dont believe men “mean” to cheat… But they do crave variety.. And we do have tons of loose a$$ women out here throwing it in every direction they desire. Not making up excuses for men, but its too easy for them to cheat..
KC I agree with your new point the writing is def. on the wall. My issue with your orginial comment was based on the $$ issue plenty of women make more than their mate that doesnt mean their mate is a BUM or no good. I don’t know just rubbed me the wrong way but oh well such is life
In the words of Chris Rock a man is only as faithful as their options
Sad but true in most cases
So we have Claire Danes, Angie J, Gabby, Alicia and now Fanny all accused of jacking up some marriages…how dreadful.
Charles Says:
This is why I say find you a white man from the suburbs they don’t do this **** and they have good credit =)
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But honestly though, a man is a man.. and most men think with the head “down there” rather than the one on their shoulders..
Well it was based on the college football 30 year old player working at t-mobile info that I had upon first reading, it wasn’t a blanketed statement just in this example…
As a man, I don’t think that all of us should be thrown in the same category. There are a bunch of dumba** men who jump into a marriage without realizing that a marriage is supposed to be forever. You take care of all the h-o activities before you settle down with someone, same for women. I’m young (22) and I know I’m not ready for marriage specifically because it is a serious commitment and I believe in God’s word, a man is loyal to his ONE wife! Sorry for typing so much, my brain’s working today
Society is all types of ****ed up and more often than not people get into relationships for the wrongg reason
men cheat because women (and men) will cheat with them
I refuse to believe that me and that dude who murdered Shaniya or this man who is cheating on his wife will have the same ticket to hell because I lie about my age.
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you’ll be surprised..LMAO….j/k
but there are different parts of hell, Im not sure if its designed to have worse areas for the worst kind of sin or not but it would make since. Remember the woman with “REGRET and SORROW” that was gnashing her tongue in hell fire…….wasn’t it because she wanted to be right with GOD but waited too late or something?
Charles Says:
Society is all types of ****ed up and more often than not people get into relationships for the wrong reason
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I concur
Sandra, while I agree that some of the Black women in the ATL are scandalous not all of us are. The shortage of available men doesn’t give any woman the right to go after married men. And if you are approached by these men, you can turn them down. Karma is a bytch and I aint even trying to mess up my life for some bum azz dude.
My point about every sin is equal is that…..I believe that you have to ask God for forgiveness and turn your life and dedicate it to the Lord no matter what someone does or how heinous it is once you are sincere about giving your life to God then you can get into the kingdom of heaven….
But again that’s just me
*sense*
lawd….im the opposite of Civil today, my brain ain working.
I won’t judge… I pray that realize this mistake and make the right decision, because GOD will deal with the both of them…so sad that little kids are involved..
Just goes to show you.. Men are groupies too!
Oh Gosh! That’s soooo not American Idol behavior…(smh) Then again like Sandra say we working with a whole new breed of women these days! They not just in ATL they have migrated world wide!
You reap what you sow. I don’t respect home wreckers.
Sandra, men cheat because they want to. We have enough people on the earth so cut the bull****.
@missy I feel you all sin is equal n my book as well. Some ppl like to rank sin but its all SIN lying cheating fornicating stealing killing the list goes on and on
I am a SINNER saved by GRACE!
father forgive me for I have sinned,
LOL @ Krysi…I should’ve put it’s temporarily working. I to turn it off before class starts…my professor irritates me!!
see…”I have to”
Silly women. Tricks are for kids. SMDH
Fanny’s documentary about her rags to riches life story was too cookie cutter for me. Tryna act like that boy took an advantage of her when we all know how it really went down!!
This does not surprise me one bit. Part 2 of her story will portray this man lying to fanny about his marital status and her being led astray unknowingly.
@Daisy
I feel you all sin is equal n my book as well. Some ppl like to rank sin but its all SIN lying cheating fornicating stealing killing the list goes on and on
I am a SINNER saved by GRACE!
father forgive me for I have sinned,
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I agree ……….. but it seems like people have a different view on this…
I don’t condone what people do but I don’t send people straight to hell.
I’ve been to the ATL on several occasions. When I was in college (freaknik 93,94,95,96) and NBA Allstar weekend (My room at the $600 a night Hilton downtown was robbed)and a few times to visit family. I wanted to relocate to Atlanta years ago, but it sounds so grimey now. Most men are gay/downlow/or male whores. Most of the women are scandalous and stripping is the most sought after profession. I know that there are some honest God-Fearing working people there also but the riff-raff is the only thing that’s publicized….Damn these rappers, Ballers, strippers, and Fake Housewives and their gay counterparts!
So if all men are wired to cheat what’s the reason lesbuns do it? And don’t act like they don’t.
Or
Why do gay men catch feelings when their dude cheats. They are wired the same so shouldn’t said person expect that.
Cheating is not a problem till you get caught.
& that bag comment was low Sandra.
@Daisy, I may come check out my Soror this weekend. Will you be in the house or watching streamingfaith?
Karma is a b*tch… that is all
Read this story about 2 weeks prior on another black celeb blog. Old news.
Yesss when the blacks came to atl after the 1996 olympics it all went downhill and yep I know its racist but its the honest to god truth!
@Charles….
Seriously in the early 90′s when I was in college Atlanta was the place to be, but now it sounds horrible….
It’s selfish on both parts.
live in Atlana and I notice that there are a lot of shallow women who would give service for whisper and a glass of wine. Everybody wants to be on the “socialite scene”. All the women are “models” and all of the men are “producers” Also, there are a lot of loose men with short attention spans who cant tell the difference between a tranny and a tramp before its too late, by then they are turned out.
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While this statement is true about the more visible segment of Atlanta, there are plenty of “good” moral, employed, women who won’t lay on their back for a purse. If they wan’t a purse they buy it themselves. But you know what far too many of them ARE single. You know why they are at work, or taking care of kids or running errands or helping someone out or tired from all that and sleep. They may even be out shopping to buy themselves something nice because they deserve it and no good man is doing it. And they are REAL women.
Again I’m sad your experiences leave you with thoughts like this. You need a new social circle fo real.
see…”I have to”
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LOL….at least it wasn’t grammatical like mine
and
dcwife!
@134
Oh its a whole different place when I was a kid it was so much better but for whatever reason the hoodrats and gays flooded atl for whatever reason
@missy I hear you, not sharing your belief, but I hear you.
Well if we are talking about your personal book @Daisy then nobody can argue with that.
@krysi so are you saying I could end up in a suburb of hell? lol
Say that Sandra I so agree that men are wired to cheat. I think my friends are crazy when they say ‘my man will NEVER cheat on me’ Im like are you serious? All my life I have seen various men mess up good relationships and now I just beleive that ALL men cheat, and now in this day and age our men probably cheat way more. Fatasia still had a choice though and she chose to keep talking to a married man which in my book is a no-no. I have been the GF/wife and women are just as bad, some dont care if a man is married or not. But karma is a beast. Man I lost a lot of respect for Fantasia if this story is better. Woman have GOT to do better. Thats why men act like dogs, and we arent even trying to train them!
Homewreckers are the new black.
@ wiggy
I do agree with you. Negative aspects of ATL get a lot of publicity.
I am one of those moral, employed, successful black women in Atl. You may even call me a little old fashioned. What I descibed above is based on what I have witnessed since being born and raised here. I have seen family and friends lose their souls and I have had to distance myself. In fact, I don’t even have a social circle, for plenty of reasons. I mostly visit with my women’s bible group, and spend time with my famil. Its less drama that way.
@wiggy thank you
there are some decent women with morals and values in the A!
@AM check yo twitter page please n thank you!
@shannon04..
Me to my husband cheated on me and it hurt real bad, so I understand where you are coming from. He waited until we got married to cheat or at least that was the first time I was aware of it. That’s why I can’t deal with my mother she knew what I went through and to still do it is crazy to me. But its all good because what goes around comes around.
@water you sound like but I will go out every blue moon esp. in the summer (not just to clubs thats rare)! I am old fashioned in PROUD
Gravi check
@143
What are all 5 of their names??
Charles Says:
Yesss when the blacks came to atl after the 1996 olympics it all went downhill and yep I know its racist but its the honest to god truth!
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Ok, I am admittedly READING from the bottom up….so before I completely go to TEN on your above statement… is it the standard SHOCK VALUE Charles-Sense of humor (Which I normally ENJOY)?
Or is it in direct correlation with an earlier comment? Help me out here.
I am having an issue with this statement otherwise. Therefore I am seeking a respectful understanding as to what you mean.
I am so looking forward to your intelligent response.
@dc1622
I live in Atlanta and I am a Georgia native. Atlanta has countless educated, hard-working, business-oriented blacks but all you see promoted for the city on TV is gutter-bucket folks and the grimy music industry.
I cannot wait for the day that stripping becomes black history.
Can someone tell me what gravatar you see?
@ kc, your kids are too cute!
lol @ some of these comments! me, personally don’t want nobody’s boyfriend…definitely don’t want nobody’s husband. i refuse to be #2.
@ViBaby & Anna
Okay, so yesterday we were talking about FlashFoward right? So I went to dinner here in LA and the asian dude was sitting next to me, I wanted to ask him so bad about the show but didnt. He is exactly the same in person, and he had on a suit and tie….
@krysi so are you saying I could end up in a suburb of hell? lol
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LMAO……..hell naw………Im saying that hell may have a place for everybody who doesn’t whole heartedly give themselves to GOD. I know that GOD will not be mocked, but I also feel that even someone saved by grace is at risk if they don’t ask for forgiveness at all times.
@ Daisy,
I’m so old fashioned I wish I could get my virginity back
The last time I went out (to go dancing and mingling) I went to Old School Saturday in ’07. But I may hit up a spoken word or live jazz event every now and then.
@Chase..I know the feeling. I stayed around for all the wrong reasons, and it took for me to see that he would never change to change my attitude about what I would allow a person to do to me. It took me going through that to learn that you never have to be with someone that cheats and treat you that way and always make excuses for what they do. Never let your emotions get the best of you and turn you into someone that you never were. Being with the wrong person and not seeing things clearly enough to leave when you know that person is not right at all…will turn you into someone that you probably never knew. Im in a much better space.
@Ms.kaylamomma i see T.I. with black shades on
lol @ some of these comments! me, personally don’t want nobody’s boyfriend…definitely don’t want nobody’s husband. i refuse to be #2.
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@mskaylamomma…T.I.
kdillon Says:
@ViBaby & Anna
Okay, so yesterday we were talking about FlashFoward right? So I went to dinner here in LA and the asian dude was sitting next to me, I wanted to ask him so bad about the show but didnt. He is exactly the same in person, and he had on a suit and tie….
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I guess we’ll have to watch the show. Did you not want to seem star struck, were you scared, did you want him to finish his dinner? You should have kidnapped him and tortured/waterboarded him for all the info? LOL.
And so tired of the generalizations about black people in Atlanta….if thats all you know maybe you should expand your circle of friends. Then again, why do we even listen to Sandra when most of her friends mentioned work at strip clubs? No wonder she says these things. Most of her friends pay for everything with 1 dollar bills.
If the post is old news to you and you’ve already read it why waste your time posting that you did. We don’t care…Just saying
dcwife – I think a lot of people misunderstand or assume that just because people are hard on the woman that they feel that only the woman is being blamed for the situation. When ANYONE leaves a marriage for another persone it’s BOTH their faults because you should’ve just gotten a divorce.
I know me personally, I focus on the woman because as a fellow woman I think just that we should have more respect for ourselves than to put ourselves into a “situation” where there is a marriage and children involved and not completely resolved. Saying the other woman wasn’t married to wifey boggles me. She because she wasn’t married to the woman she should lose all morals and respect for herself and have no qualms about sleeping with her hubby? Is that the way it works with some women? Just because you say “a man can’t be taken” or “he wasn’t happy” or whatever other excuse we use to make it seems justified it’s never a good enough excuse. I guess I was just raised different.
Thanks MsG and Missy. I had to go to a different computer because I was still seeing my old gravatar.
A Coach or Louis Vuitton bag usually gets the most resistant female in the mood and in the sack.
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You’re kidding right? Is that what’s going on in Atlanta? Look here, if you gonna treat me like a ho then you need to hand over some cash. Ain’t no damn purse gonna keep my lights on. Get out of here.
As for this story, I already read it a week or so ago. The story I read said he was a wealthy business man which makes a lot more sense than a 30 year old college football player. I don’t even think that’s permissible.
@Daisy, I sent you a tweet. See ya Sunday.
M_promp2 Says:
She has a tattoo that says Cooks on her chest and shoulder area. What a loser move.
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Yes super duper ghetto indeed. Speaking of which, is Keyshia still with that dude whose name she got tatted on herself? I sure hope so.
@ wiggy…well said. It is a fallacy to think that the women or men depicted on reality shows, commonly spoke about in the media or seen on the scene often are representatives of everything ATLANTA.
Atlanta is still and will remain culturally rich. We are one of the few cities that strongly cultivate the entrepreneurial spirit. In Atlanta, strangers still wave to you from their porches and tell you to have a great day, Atlanta is one of the best cities to live. IMO
@148
Its my take on what I feel is the truth, its blatantly racist but its true you notice with the influx of african americans to atlanta the 10% came with them(hoodrats, heathens etc…) crime shot up! Aids shot up! What is the factor that changed all of this?? The change in demographics. Just look at morehouse and spelman as a sign of the degregation(sp) of our society
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And so tired of the generalizations about black people in Atlanta….if thats all you know maybe you should expand your circle of friends. Then again, why do we even listen to Sandra when most of her friends mentioned work at strip clubs? No wonder she says these things. Most of her friends pay for everything with 1 dollar bills.
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@Shauny
I was raised by both my biological parents and they are going on 40 years together (My grandparents were 55 until grandpa died)and I’ve been with hubby since I was 18 and I was raised different from 95% of people I know. I would never mess with someone’s husband and I think both parties are equally wrong but Folks are dogging Fantasia when the guy is the only person that walked out on his family (maybe because she’s a celebrity). I’m sure she didn’t put a gun up to his head and forced him to move out.
But honeestly I have 2 dog ass brothers and they tell these women all kinds of lies and by the time they find out they are married they are already in love with them. My oldest brother was married from 1991 to 2009 (his current GF forced the divorce)but he lived with his wife maybe 2 years on and off that entire time and she welcomed him back with open arms everytime all the while stalking the females and playing on their phones……Me personally ..my issue is with my husband!
@Chase,
women who go from married man to married man don’t want their own man. A married man who cheats is not doing it for free, the other women is getting something out of it, she gets to send him home, don’t have to wash his dirty draws or put up with anything. Women who only date married men tend to have commitment issues.
she is a hot mess!
@Anna
LOL! I was trying to play it cool, like whatev. I should have kidnapped him just to get the story on the show…. he is too cute in person though. Carson Daly’s skinny ass was there too, he doesnt look healthy
@kdillon you bout to get your card revoked.
@krysi lol thanks for explaining. I can get with that. I always thought the different religious views on this blog were interesting. I attended church schools growing up (probably why I cant set foot in a church now)and they did not teach us that all sins were equal in the eyes of God.
@dc – I hear you and I agree that my issue would DEFINATELY be with my hubby too. I wouldn’t be thinking twice about the other woman (unless I knew her personally that is…then that’s another story).
I just don’t think that it should just be like oh well, such is life for the trifling woman who puts herself into a situation like this. It falls on them both.
Why Vibaby? ::-[:
Oh, and just because we talk about Tasia more does not mean we give dude a pass. Who cares about him? Tasia was my friend in my head so of course I am pissed at HER. I generally hold women to higher standards anyway, so maybe thats what it is. I say when I married man comes sniffing around you just treat him like you would any other stray dog. You slap him with the paper and you send him home. You dont give him a damn treat then look stupid as to why he is sitting on your doorstep beggin erryday.
Charles, though I understand OUR experiences often dictate OUR perceptions…I encourage you to research your information further.
Perhaps it is not “BLACKS” post 1996, but perhaps the TRANSIENT population post 1996. Which encompasses all races?
Atlanta was proclaimed the Black Mecca well before 1996. There are historical families that still reside and own major businesses here in ATLANTA. Remember Andrew Jackson was mayor as early as 1981. Before him, the late Maynard Jackson, both are black.
…Atlanta is not synonymous with hood-rat and Ghetto. If we expand our choice of TV channels beyond BET, MTV, VH1 and perhaps stop surfing past CNN, PBS and so on you will find a perspective that may clear the way for you to think about it differently.
@kdillon You should have made him talk! Looking like an obsessed fan would have been worth it if me and Anna got the scoop. Anna is a soft heart anyway. She would have bailed you out.
Oh and Carson has been looking sick for a minute now.
@ggouch
It goes both ways…..cause women cheat too…..
@ViBaby
Next time! I was more pressed at him wearing a suit and tie, im like you really are Harold.
I had no words for Carson, he was making a puckering face because he is so skinny now…. not impressed at all.
THIS ARGUMENT IS SO DAMN TIRED AND OLD
SOLUTION: GET RID OF THE CHEATING AZZ NICCA AND ALL THE HOEZ FOLLOW-END OF STORY
GETTING MAD DON’T CHANGE WHAT IT IS-HE LAID UP WITH THE NEXT CHIC AND NOBODY’S HOLDING A GUN TO HIS HEAD, SO OBVIOULSY HE IS THERE BY HIS OWN FREE WILL
THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO ARE LEGALLY AND MORALLY BOUNDED TO UPHOLD MARRIAGE VOWS ARE THE TWO THAT ARE MARRIED…ANYONE ELSE IS SOMEONE THAT ONE OF YOU INVITED IN
@ Shauny, I always felt that way. Unless I knew the chick we would never meet. (Unless she came looking for me of course lol) But if she was a friend or worse a relative, God help us all.
On topic, Fanta is nasty
I blame them both, Fanta has a kid so she should know better to assist in this foolery.
AND TALKING ABOUT TASIA AND HOW SHE’S A HOOD RAT, UGLY, UNEDUCATED ETC. JUST GOES TO SHOW HOW TRIFLING HER HUSBAND IS, CAUSE HE LEFT HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN BEHIND FOR A WOMAN LIKE THIS.
AGAIN IT GOES BACK TO THE MAN….BUT MOST WOMEN DON’T GET THIS BECAUSE THEY WOULD RATHER BE ANGRY & FOCUS ON THE OTHER WOMAN SO THE DOOR CAN ALWAYS REMAIN OPEN FOR THE CHEATER TO RETURN HOME…..MASHONDA WOULD TAKE HER HUSBAND BACK IN A SECOND….IF HE WANTED HER
Question. Doesn’t Fantasia have a young daughter? If she moved him in after a WEEK, why in the hayell would she put her young child at risk? He could be a pedophile, serial killer, or God knows what. Women have got to start thinking of their children before their own sexual urges.
@INTENSEMOCHA…….That is the pure, uncut truth!!!
Oh, and let me add – this man here is TRIFLING! He’s the one who should be called out for this mess – leaving his wife and child for some fly-by-night relationship. Shame on him. There’s one word in our vocabulary some men need to learn, and that word is NO! They might be hard-wired to lay the pipe, but that doesn’t mean they have to give in to the urge.
Yall women need to start holding these men accountable. It’s only for their own good.
GOD will not say because he is your husband, so he gets a free pass….NOPE.
i see the same people that gave alicia keys a pass giving tasia a pass…..
AND I STILL SAY WOMEN CHOOSE WHO THEY WILL & WILL NOT SLEEP WITH…..KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED TO MARRIED MEN and you anit gotta worry about it!
intensemocha,
I have said that so many times before. Women are quick to jump on the jump off and fail to call these cheating men out on their mess. If HE’S the one in the relationship, and HE’S the one to stood before God and man and made a vow to that woman standing next to him, HE’S the one who should remain faithful to his vows. If you can’t stay faithful, don’t make a commitment. Anothing this is, I’ve seen women fighting other women over the trifling man, only to allow the man right back in her bed! All is forgiven. SMH.
If your married and I know youre married and you ask me to sleep with you….WHY WOULD I SAY YES?????
NO ONE GIVING MEN A PASS THE POST IS THE VIEWPOINT ON TASIA’S END….
THAT NIGG@ DEAD WRONG YO…BUT GUESS WHAT…..MAYBE HE WOULD STILL BE HOME WITH WIFE/ KIDS IF TASIA HAD SAID BOY BYE!
Now yall all know fantasia is a little slow and retarded so she doesn’t think like you all do
THE POST CLEARLY STATES MEN ARE CHEATS
TASIA AINT THE MAN, SO PLEASE FALL BACK WITH THE NONSENSE
AND JUST CAUSE I AINT UP IN ARMS OVER TASIA ACTIONS AND MORESO CONCERNED ABOUT THE “HUSBAND” DOESN’T MEAN I AGREE WOMEN SHOULD SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN
DAYUM………FOR THE TRILLIENTH TIME
AND IF TASIA SAID NO, I GUESS EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD WOULD SAY NO UNTIL FINALLY HE COMES HOME TO YOUR DUMB AZZ
LOL-THE ONLY WAY A MAN STAYS FAITHFUL IS WHEN HE MAKES A DECISION NOT TO CHEAT
Regsrding sins, in the book of Matthew in the bible, Jesus makes it VERY clear about all sins being forgiven EXCEPT for the one and only “unforgivable sin” blasphemy of the Holy Ghost. Look it up for yourselves Matthew 12:21-32
My daughter wants to go to Spelman in 4 years and I feel like I’m throwing her into the lions den…. This is going to take ALOT of prayer….
Correction Matthew 12:31-32
MEN DON’T HOLD OTHER MEN ACCOUNTABLE FOR WHEN THEIR WIVES CHEAT
9 TIMES OUT OF 10-HE DEALS WITH HIS WIFE DIRECTLY, UNLESS IT IS HIS FRIEND OR A FAMILY MEMBER
misslee21 Says:
Say that Sandra I so agree that men are wired to cheat. I think my friends are crazy when they say ‘my man will NEVER cheat on me’ Im like are you serious?
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If your friend really thinks her man won’t cheat, I have a friend who will have him dropping his pants in a hawt second. Just point her in his direction.
dcwife1622 Says:
….Damn these rappers, Ballers, strippers, and Fake Housewives and their gay counterparts!
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Nothing is real here. Everything is imagined and everyone is fronting like they’re somebody else. If you’re not careful, you’ll get caught up in the fantasy lives of some of these people.
@Sandra- You better talk about it because you should never put anything passed ANYONE!
misslee21 Says:
Say that Sandra I so agree that men are wired to cheat. I think my friends are crazy when they say ‘my man will NEVER cheat on me’ Im like are you serious?
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If your friend really thinks her man won’t cheat, I have a friend who will have him dropping his pants in a hawt second. Just point her in his direction.
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Shauny I agree about the old news/I already read it statement.
I would also like to include dissing the subject matter as boring or Next. If you don’t like the post, take that next advice to the next(wish i knew how to do italics) one.
Sandra rose, you appear to be a typical man-hater. I’m going to be blunt, generalizing and stereotyping completely repulses me. I wonder what a lot of your reactions would be if I labeled all African American women as “loud, ignorant, aggressive, materialistic, white women haters, classless and ghetto”.
Sandra stays recruiting for team lesbuns with these fear tactics
Damn…really 205 comments…I was just on here a couple of hours ago…dayum
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What the hell is wrong with Fsntasia? She has really lost her damn mind getting his name tattoed all on her upper chest/ shoulder area.
Umm…I guess them stripper moves paid off…got the man leaving home and ****!!!
I really do hope Cook stands for something else and this is a lie!!!
melinla Says:
My daughter wants to go to Spelman in 4 years and I feel like I’m throwing her into the lions den…. This is going to take ALOT of prayer….
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Please don’t use blogs as an indicator of how your daughter will thrive as a college student in a city. People say negative things about LA and New York, but that does not stop people from moving, visiting and going to college in these cities by the droves. Keep in mind Auntie runs a blog, so she has a responsilbity to get it interesting and sometimes outlandish stereotypes work.
Furthermore, these ghetto crowds of wannabees and ain’tnevergonnabees are crowds that you have to seek out. I have been here 15 years and never spend time around these fake stripper/wannabee industry types. If you are in a certain line of business then you chances are you will get caught up, but if you are about business, family, or education these are the last people that will be in your circle or even crowd.
@Intensemocha
Again…I didn’t give A Keys. a pass. I’ve heard too many different stories on her and Swizz.I heard that he and Mashonda were seperated but they were still cool and she had hopes of working it out. The beard picture didn’t mean anything because he had the damn beard for a few years! And even if Fantasia would have said Boy bye that doesn’t mean he wasn’t cheating with the next chick! Me and my husband made those vows and he’s the person that I’m going to hold accountable….My aunt has been dating a married man for 10 years.
According to him his wife is trifling, can’t cook, no good in bed but he does not want to leave his kids with her. Whatever…Sh!t him and that wife just had a 3 year old and my 57 year old aunt still talking about he’s leaving his wife. To make matters worse he flirts with everyone in their little town……This man would have cheated if it wasn’t Fantasia..and before I get a dumb @ss rebuttal..I already said the other woman is wrong especially if she knew he was married. Some of these married men stay out all night and do what the f*ck they want to do…
So Sandra, you are saying that all women in the ATL are THAT materialisitc that something as trivial as a freaking purse will get them to hop into bed?? I just refuse to believe that. I mean, hell, we have TRICKS in Dallas, becasue that’s the type of chick you are describing.
Like Luda said, ho’s in different area codes.
All that to say…men are not wired to cheat anymore than women are. People do what they do because they make the choice to do so, as far as cheating goes. I’ve cheated and been cheated on, so I know.
I can’t believe we’ve kept this going soooo long over Fantasia
@dcwife1622
NO YOU
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THAT’S ALL I’M SAYING, IF A MAN WANTS TO CHEAT IT DON’T MATTER WHO TELLS HIM NO, HE’LL JUST FIND SOMEONE EVENTUALLY WHO WILL SAY YES
HE’S THE COMMON DENOMINATOR-IF HE AINT ADVERTISING HE WOULDN’T GET ANY SOLICITORS
@ intensemocha
u are VERY right on >>>>IF A MAN WANTS TO CHEAT IT DON’T MATTER WHO TELLS HIM NO, HE’LL JUST FIND SOMEONE EVENTUALLY WHO WILL SAY YES
HE’S THE COMMON DENOMINATOR-IF HE AINT ADVERTISING HE WOULDN’T GET ANY SOLICITORS
LadeeA, not being funny but did you read the comments? At least 50% are not about Fantasia. Per usual half the comments are not about the post at least in part
@wiggy- you’re right that is usually the case.
Nothing is real here. Everything is imagined and everyone is fronting like they’re somebody else. If you’re not careful, you’ll get caught up in the fantasy lives of some of these people.
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Only in this visible crowd we were speaking on. These people have a strong strange NEED to be seen and admired(in thier eyes). They live for their image and being seen. They are narcissists.
Ugh I don’t see what anyone sees in that hoodrat Fantasia. Fantasia has immense talent, but her look and how she carries herself will only allow her to get so far. All those damn tattoos and those clothes, she looks half decent this time around but still alot her fashion choices are questionable. Everything about her screams hoodrat I used to support her until she started coming out looking all wild and ghetto. Well I hope Mr. Cook is happy with his hood, seeing that’s she’s tatted his name onto her, like she’s some kind of slave getting branded like property.
I use to be a Fantasia fan but sence i saw her hangin out with Tiny i second guessed her and now this…her and Alicia Keys can hang out together!!! sorry alicia but thats how life is
All them tattoo’s are really ugly! Not professional looking at all…
“AGAIN IT GOES BACK TO THE MAN….BUT MOST WOMEN DON’T GET THIS BECAUSE THEY WOULD RATHER BE ANGRY & FOCUS ON THE OTHER WOMAN SO THE DOOR CAN ALWAYS REMAIN OPEN FOR THE CHEATER TO RETURN HOME…..MASHONDA WOULD TAKE HER HUSBAND BACK IN A SECOND….IF HE WANTED HER”
–you ain’t speaking nothing but the truth!
The Divine Ms. K Says:
Sandra, I need you to give REAL women more credit than that. Sounds like you are giving me an excuse for cheating.
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You have to remember that I live in Atlanta, hon. We have a different breed of black women here. If a man wants a REAL woman, he has to import one from out of town. No joke.
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I so agree with Sandra, I love Atlanta but sometimes these peaches can be a little (said while coughing)…. Thirsty.
Well, that’s the best I ever seen this thirsty heifer