Watch episode 6 of Monica's Still Standing if you missed it last night. This is quality, family TV featuring an intact family under the same roof, which is a rarity these days in our community. Thanks BET!

Incidentally, I don't know why Monica -- an articulate, grown woman with children -- feels the need to go back and forth on an online networking service in the middle of the night with an obvious psychopath.

Some things are better left unsaid. You never lower yourself to a psychopath's standards.

  • VIBABY

    I watch the show just to see those babies. They are too cute.

  • Redeemed777

    ^^^^^^ I do too!!

    they are really precious!

  • Redeemed777

    I love Tiny and Monica's Kids!!

  • ReadTheBlog

    Oh, yes, she does have a reality show...

  • Tan82

    Lil Rocko was sooooooooe excited to see Soulja Boi. Even though I don't like him (soulja boi) I was glad that he came by to see Lil Rocko :yea:

  • CivilEngineer

    Yea, I saw the dialogue between her and Charles. I want her to get married too but damn I really don't care if she does or doesn't. Didn't see the need for them to go back and forth. And it amazes me that people will pass judgement on a "baby mama" and not :homoswitch:

  • KaraZ

    Sandra, really now Charles is a psychopath? Weren't you cosigning him in earlier days?

  • VIBABY

    ^^Oh that lil chunky thang Tiny has makes me just wanna bite him. lol, I luv big babies.

  • waterlily_76

    Keep standing Mo.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    This post is a slap in Charles face. :lol:

  • ReadTheBlog

    :offtopic: Anyone reading any good books? I'm reading about Charles Drew. Did you guys know the story about his death is false?

  • MissJacksonifunasty

    I can't watch the show. Monica is boring to me. But maybe that is a good thing. She is drama free and HAM free. Glad to see a show w/ successful blacks and families minus the coonery.

  • Quitta

    I only watched the first 2 episodes so far.

    Is it really a good show yall?

  • Mornay

    "This is quality, family TV featuring an intact family under the same roof, which is a rarity these days in our community."

    Sigh... :ashamed:

    So, like I said yesterday. It's all a matter of preference/opinion; do you prefer the toilet (turlet) paper under or over. Sigh...

  • kwall

    I don’t know why Monica — an articulate, grown woman with children — feels the need to go back and forth on an online networking service in the middle of the night with an obvious psychopath. Some things are better left unsaid. You never lower yourself to a psychopath’s standards.
    --------------------------------------
    :shotsfired1:

    DIZZAYUM.

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    WOW! really sandra, your calling someone a psychopath’s when u kiss celeb azz! Monica didnt seem so, so why are you concern about charles, because you know he had some valid points, you hate Bey ( Im not a stan just fan of dc)halle berry, but you praise tiny,toya etc., You are very contradicting and your psycho..... :smile:

  • ReadTheBlog

    :offtopic: Did y'all see that X-mas Tree hairdo on Media Fakeout? :snort:

  • SanfiPolemikos

    Love Monica. Classy lady.

  • missy

    @RTB i don't see it on the fakeout is it old or new post

  • VIBABY

    Sandra you had a hand in creating the monster that is Charles. Now you mad cause you cant control who's throat he goes after? lol

  • MrzzSmitty

    Her babies are so adorable! That is all.... :coffee:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @RTB

    A good book.. Hummm

    I gotta make it to Heaven for going thru Hell. Written by *drum roll* ME!!!!

    You can click my name or go to Amazon and read a few pages if you'd like :D

    @topic
    :lol: I guess Charles can be added to the list of bloggers on SR hit list. :shotsfired:

  • CivilEngineer

    On topic: I watch her show...I like the fact that she sings at the end of every episode :D

  • kwall

    i just wonder why sandra keeps banning him only to let em back? is he gone for good this time? :shrug:

    he'll prolly be back next week....

  • missy

    :yawn: and i agree the kids are adorable

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ RTB

    Who are your favorite writers?

    I have read almost every book from Omar Tyree, Eric Jerome Dickey...

  • bigtyme

    the kids are very cute! but the show is hella boring! she is so normal. a good thing for life, bad for reality tv.

  • Mornay

    The Shack is a great book!

  • bigtyme

    RTB...I will read anything Kimberla Lawson Roby writes.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Iscream

    I know it says you have been writing autobiographically since you were 13 and this is your first book you've published but is this particular book about you? I love fiction and nonfiction books as well.

  • scandalous1

    Loves me some Monica as an artist and style icon. But the show is hella boring !!!

  • Shauny

    mizz - tell us how you really feel

    VI - baby your comment 19 is right on point.

  • dorcely

    Why is Monica engaged? If she's happy not being married good fore her

  • netta0281

    SANDRA WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT TREY SONGZ GRAMMY NOMINATIONS???? IM SO EXCITED I AM A TREY SONG STAN

  • ReadTheBlog

    Ms.kaylamomma, I don't have a favorite writer, but I hav to say that anything Maya writes particularly interests me. :-D

  • Quitta

    Yeah I saw the hair-don't on fakeout.

    Damn he went in on Ms. Monica.

  • netta0281

    MONICA SHUT CHARLES DOWN TO THE POINT HE EVER APOLOGIZE AND PROMISE HE WOULD NEVER DEGRADE HER NAME AGAIN,SHE PLAYS NO GAME....SHE IS THE REALIST

  • MsG

    Love Monica's show. I like the fact that it's not filled with a bunch of hollering and screaming. I think we are so use to extreme made-for-tv craziness on these "reality" shows that when we see actual reality we think it's boring. To be honest most normal folks lives are pretty boring.

    Anywho, Monica is such a southern girl. Good job Monica!

  • MsG

    netta0281 Says:

    MONICA SHUT CHARLES DOWN TO THE POINT HE EVER APOLOGIZE AND PROMISE HE WOULD NEVER DEGRADE HER NAME AGAIN,SHE PLAYS NO GAME….SHE IS THE REALIST
    *************************************************
    I read the Twitter posting too and she did speak her mind and defend herself well. I just think she shouldn't have wasted her time defending herself to anyone. She owes none of us nothing but good music.

  • netta0281

    YALL CHECK THIS OUT CHARLES IS OBVIOUSLY MAD AT SANDRA HIM AND FREDDY O IS FRIENDS NOW

    http://charleshater.blogspot.com/2009/12/sandra-henderson-rose-you-spooked-you.html

  • http://beautyandstylebymontrice.com trice34

    :cosign: @Mornay

    The Shack is a good book, its a slow starter but once you get into it. It will have you hooked!

  • MsG

    11ReadTheBlog Says:

    Anyone reading any good books? I’m reading about Charles Drew. Did you guys know the story about his death is false?
    ____________________________________________________________
    I just started reading "Them" by Nathan McCall.
    It's about the gentrification in Atlanta's Old Fourth Ward (the area where Dr. King was born and raised). So far so good.

  • http://beautyandstylebymontrice.com trice34

    :shrug: Where is this "Charles" website or blog? I been hearing and reading negagtive things about this guy.

  • Quitta

    MsG -I read the Twitter posting too and she did speak her mind and defend herself well. I just think she shouldn’t have wasted her time defending herself to anyone. She owes none of us nothing but good music.

    :cosign:

  • netta0281

    MONICA SHUT CHARLES DOWN TO THE POINT HE EVER APOLOGIZE AND PROMISE HE WOULD NEVER DEGRADE HER NAME AGAIN,SHE PLAYS NO GAME….SHE IS THE REALIST
    *************************************************
    I read the Twitter posting too and she did speak her mind and defend herself well. I just think she shouldn’t have wasted her time defending herself to anyone. She owes none of us nothing but good music.

    ***************************************************
    YOU ARE RIGHT I WOKE UP AND IM ADDICTED TO TWITTER SO WHEN I SAW HER TIMELINE I WAS TOO DISSAPPOINTED CAUSE SHE IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT.AND NOW ITS ON MEDIATAKEOUT I HATE IT....THAT CHARLES DOING

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    Hmmm Charles made the big time....MTO. LOL

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    oh wow it bleeped out my words. Anyway, I see that Charles is mentioned on that other site that begins with an M.

  • ReadTheBlog

    charleshater dot blogspot dot com @ #41

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    charles told me to tell u that your blog is flopping, and that he really didnt like you anyway. kissing hoodrat ass will get you nowhere because everyone still talks bad about you. he said if you have something to say, u can email or call him so yall can work out your trangressions.

    PS.
    he says enjoy your 2004 CLK and to have a blessed day :)

  • ReadTheBlog

    i didn't see the bit thing about Monic and Charles. I think people get too excited over things. I'm sure neither of them considered it an argument or drama. I know I didn't.

    I'm sure she faces tougher scrutiny from less irrelevant people. Not that Charles is irrelevant - he's just a little out-spoken :-)

    :offtopic: WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO THE MARTA GIRL?

  • pyt305

    As much I love Monica...her show is boring!

  • MsG

    netta0281 Says:

    ***************************************************
    YOU ARE RIGHT I WOKE UP AND IM ADDICTED TO TWITTER SO WHEN I SAW HER TIMELINE I WAS TOO DISSAPPOINTED CAUSE SHE IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT.AND NOW ITS ON **** I HATE IT….THAT CHARLES DOING
    _________________________________________
    Right. He had no right to go at her like that about HER life choices. It's one thing to spout our opinions on SR, but it's another thing to be bold enough to run up on somebody like that. I bet he won't say that mess to her face.

  • netta0281

    @msg
    of course not monica will drag him

  • ShoYaRight

    Good point 19.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @MsKay

    Its fiction. Not about me or anyone I know personally. Even though some things came to fruitation after the fact :lol:

    @smokie

    Yes Charles did make it pretty fast. I think he :shotsfired: back @ Sandra

  • netta0281

    @ pyt305
    You are entitle to your opinion, you must be use to the shows with all the drama and bs....i love monica show it show her dealing with her new album and her life with her family but to each it own

  • http://gravatar.com LADYTEE

    Damn I just read Charles blog, He is going in on Sandra

  • CivilEngineer

    He definitely drug Sandra on his site! Drama really does make the world go round :popcorn:

  • Shauny

    :yawn:

    oh and DEAD @ LJ Charles comments

  • Krysi J

    Damn wut did ol' chuckie do this time? ...SMH

    don't let the door hit ya on the azz on ya way out NICCAH

    *best Pam's voice*

    PeeeeEEACCCccEe

  • dallas214

    I cant believe Mediatakeout picked that up....then again, I can.

    My whole thing is, you dont have to agree with Monica's lifestyle. Thats ur opinion. But please tell me, who are you to JUDGE her for the choices that she is making? Thats what trips me out.

    FOCUS ON UR LIFE! And thats what I tried to convey to Charles on twitter last night. CUz Im sure there are skeletons in YOUR closet that God aint to proud of.

    No man is without sin. Just becuz Monica is a celebrity doesnt mean she is perfect. Let her live her life. Id rather see my sister Monica happy and unmarried than unhappy and married.

    To be honest, as big as fan as I am of hers, I could CARE LESS if she got married. Thats not my life to live, its hers.

    I can understand having a strong opinion about it, but u know what? Pray for her and move on. All this standing on a soap box acting as if ur perfect and she going to hell (yeah no one sd it, but its implied) is crazy. Especially when more than half of yall AINT MARRIED and sleeping around for that matter..Lets keep it real since we wanna judge somebody else.

    Whats wrong with her quoting the bible? She clearly said, use my mistakes as an example of what not to do. We are ALL a work in progress...TRUST!

    Keep STANDING MONICA! its ya boy J in Dallas...u know! Luv ya and I aint worried cuz I know u not letting these small minded people get to u! Go cop my nigga album Still Standing Feb 9, 2010! Tune in every tuesday night at 10....Stay blessed

  • KaraZ

    LMAO!!!

  • http://gravatar.com LADYTEE

    Civil Engineer, I :cosign: on that one

  • nika405

    ? What type of life do you have, if you get joy from "dragging" others on Twitter or on blogs. It's one thing to say I don't like them etc..but Charles has posted that he wants to beat up Sandra and all of that. Sometimes I think if it wasn't for him needing to "drag" folks he wouldn't want to live. Has anyone met him in real life? Did he seem sane? Cause he does seem a little off on his blog.

  • african_dude

    i doubt that she makes it back to the top, she seems to have an atlanta state of mind and its not gonna get her anywhere

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    :rofl: @ Lady Justice

    Did he really say that? WOW!

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    WTH did I miss?? What did Charles say?

  • nika405

    :cosign: dallas214

  • dallas214

    And whats wrong with her talkin with him on Twitter? She not classy becuz she addressed someone talking about her? Yall reachin

    Im sorry, I wouldnt want people to have misconceptions about me either. Charles has such strong opinions about Monica, who better to help him understand than Monica herself.

    So let me get this str8, its okay for Charles to send out misconceptions about Monica on his blog site and on Sandra Rose...But she is wrong for defending her stance?

    I dont care if Charles aint nobody and his rants are for his lil "fan club" here on Sandra Rose and his blog, the mere fact remains, she is not condonin not getting married. She simply sayin thats her choice.

  • http://gravatar.com LADYTEE

    Monica is a very talented young lady. I hope she makes it back to the top but like african_dude said she seems to have that atlanta state of mind. She came to Charleston and performed at this very ghetto club called Kush. I thought that someone of Monica caliber would do so much better than that.

  • pointhimout

    wow.

  • dallas214

    And for the record, SOMETHING she said to him on Twitter mustve struck a chord cuz TRUST, yall lil celebrity Charles was not the same Charles he is on this site. It was all smiles, hugs and kisses. Sandra said it best. This boy is a psycho. People need to learn, its not what u say, its how u say it.

  • african_dude

    ``I think that this is a horrible lesson for people to go off, to live with a man have babies with a man have unprotected sex with a man, buy him a car and use the Bible to justify what you are doing. A man gives you a Gucci purse and you spread your legs *Tiny* . If he loved you so much why won’t he marry you, why does he continue to sleep around??? Why do you allow him to have kids with other women if you truly want his hear *Toya* why do you live with a man, have premarital sex, but wont marry him *Monica*

    This illegitimacy that's going around is ruining black families everywhere and that is the reality, like [someone] said to me, to those who are given much more is required. These girls talk about how they want to be role models and how they want people to look up to them, but are they not aware of the negative example they are setting?? And once again why is this the examples kids are supposed to look up to. I would be so proud and happy if Diddy married Kim Porter, if Monica married Rocko, if Tiny married TI instead of playing house.

    If you want to live a life of sin that’s fine, but don’t be upset when people judge you and if they do, don’t throw out bible versus to justify what you do or don'tt. Because people could easily turn the next page and find something demeaning to you and your lifestyle.``

    WRIITEN BY CHARLES
    ```````````````````````````````````````````````````````````

    WOW....homeboy went hard...damn....sh!t was real out there!
    i kind of feel offended that pepople who live ``ungodly`` lives are too quick to quote the bible..Monica needs to stop

  • dallas214

    @Ladytee

    Sooooooooo what? On her show she addressed that. Its the PEOPLE IN THE HOOD WHO MADE MONICA WHO SHE IS! Why turn up her nose against them? Just cuz she got number one songs and a grammy! Baby im so over it. Yall judgemental folks kill me. I bet u couldnt PAY Beyonce to go to KUSH! I swear my girl cant win for losing! STILL STANDING....album 02/09/2010 show every tuesday at 10 on BET

  • pointhimout

    where can I see all the episodes online? TEAM MONICA all the way. I dont think her shows boring. it's just not full of negroidian drama and that, to some people, isn't interesting.

    i was curious in this episode why missy's not returning or taking her calls. sh!t happens. missy produced a couple good tracks, but if she did exec produce those previous cd's, jokes on her cuz neither were a good look for the careers of any of the players involved. lets move on though.

    i think monica's brave to even try to use missy. that one song is gone be hot...the one Buttertooth (jd) sat in on. they sampled 'silly' by denise williams for that one.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    What did he say? Someone.........Anyone? I don't go on Twitter or Facebook!

  • dallas214

    @african dude

    Charles aint go hard on shh... how bout u nut up off of this (since what Charles said just did something to u)

    HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN, CAST THE FIRST STONE

    and thats in the bible....since u sooo Godly. Go tell Charles, thats what God said!

  • CivilEngineer

    Isn't Charles a gay man? Why would he come at anyone over their "sins" :shrugs:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    LadyJustice *\o/* Says:

    PS.
    he says enjoy your 2004 CLK and to have a blessed day

    *******************************************************

    Please don't relay any info from him on my blog. I'm not interested in anything he has to say. And my CLK is a 2009. :)

  • pointhimout

    im with u 76. i deactivated FB and never frequented Twitter much. Charles has always gone in on them all. I state my opinion, but that is it. Once I leave the internet world I can care less who's doing what in their house or life. Apparently it got quite interesting though.

  • ShoYaRight

    76 refer to 73

  • http://gravatar.com LADYTEE

    Yea Dallas214 I see your point on her coming to Kush but still that club is one of the worst ones here in Charleston.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    pointhimout Says:
    where can I see all the episodes online?

    *********************************************************

    http://www.bet.com/video

  • dallas214

    YESSSSS SANDRA! U BETTER LET THEM KNOW BABY!!! 2009! What! And if it was an 04, im sure the miltary aint payin Charles enough to cop one!

  • dallas214

    @Laytee

    And again, that should make u appreciate an artist like Monica even more. That she is willing to leave her million dollar home, travel on a bus all the way to North Carolina and do a show at the WORST club in the city, JUST TO SHOW HER APPRECIATION. Im sure the check she got didnt even pay the lease on her truck.

  • dallas214

    Mo I know u reading this, remember what Whitney told u....

    Did they spell ya name right? Well at least they talkin bout ya!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    dallas214 Says:
    YESSSSS SANDRA! U BETTER LET THEM KNOW BABY!!! 2009! What! And if it was an 04, im sure the miltary aint payin Charles enough to cop one!

    *******************************************************

    But seriously, i can't see how Charles can be in the service with those wild mood swings of his. He goes bat sht crazy one second then wants to know what he did wrong the next second. He's psychotic. I'm sure if he was in the service, he's not any more. There's no way he could sit on the Internet 24/7 if he was in the service.

  • dallas214

    @ Sandra...

    EXACTLY! He and I were talking on Twitter last night...bastard made me late for work, lol...BUt I was tryin to explain to him, its okay to have an opinion. But u cant go crazy callin Mo hoodrats and just all kindve mean stuff, then next minute play nice. It dont work like that. Its all in the delivery. Once we started talkin and he saw I wasnt attackng him, we held a healthy debate. Im not tryin to be mean but I think he is unhappy about something. Hopefully God continues to work on him

  • african_dude

    77dallas214 Says:

    @african dude

    Charles aint go hard on shh… how bout u nut up off of this (since what Charles said just did something to u)

    HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN, CAST THE FIRST STONE

    and thats in the bible….since u sooo Godly. Go tell Charles, thats what God said
    ```````````````````````````````````````````
    ok lil` rocko i heard..i heard..i heard man! but i thought you were on tour or something...?!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    dallas214 Says:
    @Laytee

    And again, that should make u appreciate an artist like Monica even more. That she is willing to leave her million dollar home, travel on a bus all the way to North Carolina and do a show at the WORST club in the city, JUST TO SHOW HER APPRECIATION.

    *********************************************************

    Exactly! I don't mind people coming after me because I put hate out in the universe so I should expect to get hate back. But to come after Monica and Rasheeda when those two chicks have done nothing to him is wrong. I'm just sorry that Mo felt the need to entertain his foolishness last night. You can't argue or try to debate with a psycho.

  • pointhimout

    @83...thx SR.

  • dallas214

    @african dude...

    Real cute. Evaluate ur own life...im sure it could use improvement

  • Daisy

    FLATLINED___________DEAD @LJ passing messages for Charles :rofl:

  • african_dude

    dallas214 Says:

    @african dude…

    Real cute. Evaluate ur own life…im sure it could use improvement
    ````````````````````````````````````````````
    yeah man..!! i plan on buying lil rocko next album, helping him sell at least 3k first week...now thats some major improvement right there..!

  • missy

    Dead @comment 49 and 94 :rofl:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ dallas214

    You can't try to reason with a mentally disturbed individual. Just to be clear: the last time I banned him I didn't let him back in. He waited until I opened my registration and then he registered himself using his old username and password. I just let him stay when I shouldn't have. But that won't happen again. I've fixed it so he can't re-register even if I reopen registration. :)

  • Shauny

    There is all sorts of wrong going on in this post. Contradictions, hypocrites, stans but carry on.

  • Shauny

    o.k african dude you're killin me :rofl:

  • dallas214

    @african dude...

    Rocko has more money than me, so im not amused. Frankly im saddened that u find pleasure in tryin to belittle a man u dont even know. Kinda cowardly... R u unhappy? No wonder Charles makes u nut up

  • http://youravon.com/sherichambers texaspaine

    all can say is WOW:wtf:

  • dallas214

    @Shauny

    How typical for u to say...stans

  • http://youravon.com/sherichambers texaspaine

    all can say is WOW!!!!! :wtf:

  • kwall

    charles told me to tell u that your blog is flopping, and that he really didnt like you anyway. kissing hoodrat ass will get you nowhere because everyone still talks bad about you. he said if you have something to say, u can email or call him so yall can work out your trangressions.
    --------------------------------------------
    i am not gonna be able to sustain this here ish today. i am a temp. i do not REALLY work here. and these dayum folks think i am CRRRRAZY bustin out laughin like this. it is like a library here. i am NOT GONNA BE ABLE TO DO IT!

    i know they thinking "how much longer she got on this assignment again?"

    (in my toni child's voice) GOOD DAY!

  • Quitta

    Wow. Monica do you. Nuff said. Who are we to judge.

  • dallas214

    @Sandra

    Thats good. Like I sd earlier, I hv no problem with a person not liking Monica or stating their opinion on whatever issue. But when u start throwing stones and being disrespectful, no only does ur opinion lose merit, it makes u come across very ignorant. I DIED laughing when he told her she could quote bible scriptures. Ok, so we all sin. But I cant share a bible scripture with another person in hopes it will help them? LOL..that alone just made me shake my head.

  • CivilEngineer

    Damn! Charles got people arguing over here too...increase the peace, we're all family right? :popcorn: <---there's been quite a few popcorn worthy post lately, yet another one! :)

  • dallas214

    i meant,

    "I DIED laughing when he told her she couldnt quote bible scriptures"

  • african_dude

    @sandra rose

    here`s what i think about the issue
    1. let people express themselves no matter how truthful or hurtful the things they say are, i remenber when you post about obama trying to strip us from our from freedom of speeach and yet you turn around and ban someone because had the audacity to voice his opinion, doesnt that make you hypocrite? i think he does and that alone makes you lose credibilty
    2. you`ve consistently accused other blogs(the ybf) of being pro-beyonce and blah blah but when folks go in on monica , all of a sudden they`re psycho and what not! geez...
    3- I dont want it to seem like i`m a pro-charles here, not at all i`m simply a grown a-s-s man who speaks his mind and who lets others speak their minds, by banning that dude you`ve actually shown signs of immaturity and weakness and coming from a middle age woman..err i mean man/woman thats not a good look because, i dont even know what dude looks like but for the sake of ``democracy`` folks have to vent, rant and rave as they want
    4- You may not know this, but a lot of people get offended when people whose lives do not reflect the teachings of the almighty Lord dont mind using his name recklessly, even the LORD spoke about using his name recklessly, for monica to be out there with that former drug dealer babydaddy of hers qouting bible verses and having 2 bastars (kids born out-of-wedlock), exposes her to all kinds of attacks and i`m sure you`ve seen for yourself, its almost like an idiot who sells drugs in the projects talking about the lord, it really strikes a nerve with people..trust me
    5- you keep ``tiny`` aka urban midget on a pedestal but yet you say you wont watch fantasia`s show which will focus on her trying to get a GED, makes me wonder what your agenda truly is

    let me stop here for now and let me remind you my intention is not to demean you but just to ask for more professionalism from you

  • LLani

    Is the psycho gone for good? His butt should've stayed gone? My question is why does he care so much? Is he a homo? He is always going in at females like he wants to be a female. Again let his butt stay banned.

  • dallas214

    Im done...was already late for work this morning tryin to talk some sense into Charles last night...now i gotta go back and forth over here, lol...i got work to do people! Good day all...I love u even tho I dont know u and im prayin for u as well. If u dont take anything from this debate/issue. If you agree with Charles or not, just remember these powerful words,

    He who is without sin cast the first stone.....

    The "let he who is without sin, cast the first stone" incident is one of the most well-known lessons of the Bible. A woman, who had been caught in the act of adultery was brought to Jesus Christ by the scribes (see Lawyers) and Pharisees (see Who Were The Pharisees?) as a test to see if the Messiah was a liberal in matters of the Law of God. In response to their deceitful query, He didn't condemn the woman, not because He was a liberal, not because He condoned her sin, but because the men who brought the woman to Him were Hypocrites. He was the only person there that day who was free of sin, the only one who had the right to "cast the first stone." He didn't stone her (or her accusers), but instead forgave her and told her to "sin no more." Otherwise, the day is coming when she, if she didn't thereafter repent, won't be stoned, but will be burned - along with the hypocrites who brought her to Him that day, if they didn't thereafter repent of their sin

    Keep standing my sister!

  • Shauny

    dallas214 you can save your comments directed to me. Did I hit a nerve sweetie? Does dallas sound like stan in your ears?

    You ONLY came on here because of the topic which leads me to believe you personally know Monica which is fine. I make NO qualms on here about being a huge fan of hers myself. If you came on here other than just to go at people who has a negative opinion about her you'd know that.

    Being late for work for trying to take up for someone you think is already a loon for something that has nothing to do with you is a bit odd in itself but that's just me. Neither Charles or Monica are paying my bills so I'm not being late to work for either of them. Now THAT was specifically directed at you. toodles

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    :rofl: ok sandy i wont do it anymore.

    yes @mrs.kaylamomma he asked me to relay his message

    :rofl:

  • kwall

    then...like a dummy i went over there to see what charles was tambout. i'mm have to let chall go today. i'll be back later. yall just do NAT want me to be employed do you? i cain't keep erupting into uncontrolable gales of laughter. i had to pure play it off like i was going to the bathroom to get my laugh on after i read ALL the comments on here....

    *BYE!!!!

  • african_dude

    99dallas214 Says:

    @african dude…

    Rocko has more money than me, so im not amused. Frankly im saddened that u find pleasure in tryin to belittle a man u dont even know. Kinda cowardly… R u unhappy? No wonder Charles makes u nut up
    `````````````````````````````````````````````
    he has more money than you? yeah nothing surprising, money he got selling drugs in the community and sending innocent little black kids in abusive foster homes, yeah i see what you mean man..trust i see it clearly
    - how can you say i`m trying to belittle a man? i mean dude is already as little as it can get i dont need to belittle him further
    - hmm i only nut up inside some good p-u-s-sy, something i`m sure you havent had since clinton left office(considering you`re a man..a straight one )

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    :rofl: @ this whole post!!!!!!!!!

  • dallas214

    @ Shauny

    Let me make this clear, CHARLES DIDNT LITERALLY MAKE ME LATE FOR WORK SWEETIE. It was a figure of speech. In case u dont know what that means, look it up.

    Furthermore, if I choose to stay up ALL night trying to pass knowledge to someone that I think they can benefit from, then I see no problem with that. After all he did end up apologizing to Monica. If you find that odd, then so be it.

    Im sorry what I said stuck a NERVE with you. I just simply thought it was typioal for someone to say the thread is filled with stans becuz they are taking up for Monica. It is what it is..No hard feelings sweetheart! God bless!

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    omg! :lol: @ shauny and african dude!

    sr you just got slayed by the drag-master! he went-in on you boo!

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    :rofl: @ kwallace

    You got me in tears.

    @topic

    This just goes to show that "hate" rules the world. Had Charles been posting nice rosey tweets no one would give a ish. He talks ish and gets a post on two different popular websites. This post alone has more comments then the Bey post. What does that say.

    You all sit here and judge Charles for his opinion.. Is anyone judging you for yours? Was he a psycho when he was dragging NB for you Sandra? Were u a psycho when you talked about Jennifer Hudson baby being gay?

    This is all so silly. There are people on this site who judge people about being single moms/not married with children everyday. I guess since "we" can't sing or are "famous" its okay for our children to be called bastards. :rolleyes:

  • Quitta

    @ Cinnamon Kisses

    Yes for real. LOL

  • CivilEngineer

    @mizzdallas....messy!! :nono: I LOVE IT!!! :rofl:

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    This post is so messy all kinds of mess! :rofl:

  • chase

    This stuff is a mess...

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    you better :preach: @iscream! sr knew charles was messy from the get go but she chose to ignore that or just didnt want to deal with it, sr is full of bs, she is messy just like charles and like iscream said charles dragged NB on your blog and you didnt say ish about that but when it comes to your precious atl celebs now you want to be all concern about them because you kiss they azz :rofl:

  • Quitta

    Can someone answer this. I've seen in past posts before that SR was Charles. What's really good? Is this true or false??

  • LaTechGrad02

    I'm new here but thank you all for the daily laughs :)

  • peazzy

    what is the name of Charles blog?

  • Shauny

    Isc - THANK YOU!!!! I don't agree with a lot of what Charles says but when people come on here talking about who are we to judge or criticize TO GO ON AND DO IT THEMSELVES I have to call bullchit!!!!

    @dallas214 sorry boo boo I can't read your post because everytime I try to read bullchit my eyes get all blurry. I'm sure it's full of knowledge though...my loss huh

  • CivilEngineer

    @LaTechGrad02 where you from?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sandra, you and Charles better not be the same person.

  • LLani

    My thing is why do people care so much, what Monica is doing with her life? Why does Charles care so much. He can't say one minute "oh wait, Monica is sinning and living out of wedlock." and then turns around and gets mad and calls people that don't agree with his flaming butt every name in the book. He is psychotic, the way he goes in on women makes me think that he wants to be a woman. He sin's just like everyone else so for him to point his finger and look down on someone just because he doesnn't like it, is hypocritical as well. He's no better. Charles needs to get off of his high horse and get a grip.

  • LaTechGrad02

    Hey CivilEngineer, I'm from Bernice, Louisiana. 20 Miles from Ruston and Grambling.

  • missy

    Wait I leave for like 2sec.(proabably longer)but I come back to this ish............

    :rofl: at this post for real....and I agree with african_dude(first time),Iscream, shauny &mizzdallas

  • Tyzgurl

    And I thought today was going to be a boring ole Thursday. No sir! I love you guys! I am glad everyone can express their differing opinions on here without being ignorant or calling each other names...not like on that other site. I really don't feel like someone calling me a STOOPID A$$ BISH or a C%#T OR WHORE because I don't agree with their opinion.

  • Quitta

    I'm going on my lunch break now. I've done lil to no work today messing with yall. LOL. I love it.

    Yall be good in here. LOL

  • LLani

    Shauny Says:

    Isc - THANK YOU!!!! I don’t agree with a lot of what Charles says but when people come on here talking about who are we to judge or criticize TO GO ON AND DO IT THEMSELVES I have to call bullchit!!!!

    @dallas214 sorry boo boo I can’t read your post because everytime I try to read bullchit my eyes get all blurry. I’m sure it’s full of knowledge though…my loss huh
    ----------------------------------------------------

    @ Shauny but that is exactly what Charles is doing. He is pointing his finger and doing the same thing that you say people on here are criticizing him for. He is no better...what he is saying is BS as well. Matter fact everything he says is BS. I don't think he is any better than the type of people he thinks Sandra and Monica are. Again, he is a hypocrit as well. No different.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Lmao @ people saying what Charles should or shouldn't say on his twitter or blog (he did not make the Monica comments here which is why I don't know why he was banned from this site). Any and everyone who post and/or reads Sandrarose has said some slick ish out their mouth about either an artist or a member of this community. Jesh, google Sandra Rose hate and see all the different pages that come up. Sandra is a known hater (she even said it in her comment above). So if you were vying to become a member you (I) are no different than Charles.

    :lol: @ Sandra mentioning Rasheeda's name. Where did that come from? Is that what this is really about? Because he called her out for her album sales? Isn't your friend in her camp? Yeah its starting 2 make more sense now.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    african_dude Says:
    @sandra rose

    here`s what i think about the issue
    1. let people express themselves no matter how truthful or hurtful the things they say are,

    *******************************************************

    You made very valid points. But I have to maintain some kind of order in the comments section or it will be like the wild wild west and some people will feel intimidated. Charles was not allowed back in the last time he was banned. He snuck back in. My bad. I should not have allowed him to stay. he was extremely disrespectful to Rasheeda (a very nice person) by using a sexual comment regarding his body parts, which is why I banned him the last time. Charles has emotional problems that he can't seem to control and he is too disruptive to the community. So he's gone.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ SandraRose

    Can you UN :ban: Ladyjustice. :|

  • pointhimout

    NESS. complete and utter NESS.

    just WOW.

  • MzSharon

    This is one big messy certified crazy post, LOL!!

    @Iscream, Why/when was Lady Justice banned????

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Come on Sandra. LadyJustice is banned too?

  • Shauny

    @Llani in regards to comment 135.

    I am not disagreeing with what you said at all. That was my entire point. Charles is known for his antics and has been doing it for years. The reason I posted my initial comment about this topic was because people were going in on him BUT turning around doing the same thing he was. THAT'S the only reason I chimed in. They think it's wrong for him to do it then turn around and do it themselves. Neither is right. Don't get mad just because it's about someone you like.

  • VIBABY

    Why did LadyJ get banned? Damn Sandra she said sorry for the message. :(

  • Shauny

    why in the heck was LJ banned? You gave her a warning and she apoligized. Damn

  • trynabeme

    :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

    Sorry so many smileys Sandra...just making my point!

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ Sandra

    I have a question. How did he sneak back in? You opened registration. He applied using his same username & probably same email. & even linked his website. You approved it :|

    *walks out looking for the back door to sneak back in just in case I get ban*

    Disclaimer. Don't :ban: me :lol: and please let LJ back in. You know she's a sweetheart & didn't mean any harm.

  • pyt305

    LMAO at this whole post!

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    SR you :ban: LJ? For what for being the messenger smdh

  • Tonya8

    I love Monica!!! She is very nice and very lady like and her kids are adorable....Tiny kids are adorable as well....keep up the good job Monica and keep the music coming! :smile:

  • Daisy

    Say it aint so FREE LJ FREE LJ Sandra please un :ban: LJ thank you in advance your attention to this matter :lol:

  • Tonya8

    african_dude Says:

    “I think that this is a horrible lesson for people to go off, to live with a man have babies with a man have unprotected sex with a man, buy him a car and use the Bible to justify what you are doing. A man gives you a Gucci purse and you spread your legs *Tiny* . If he loved you so much why won’t he marry you, why does he continue to sleep around??? Why do you allow him to have kids with other women if you truly want his hear *Toya* why do you live with a man, have premarital sex, but wont marry him *Monica*

    This illegitimacy that’s going around is ruining black families everywhere and that is the reality, like [someone] said to me, to those who are given much more is required. These girls talk about how they want to be role models and how they want people to look up to them, but are they not aware of the negative example they are setting?? And once again why is this the examples kids are supposed to look up to. I would be so proud and happy if Diddy married Kim Porter, if Monica married Rocko, if Tiny married TI instead of playing house.

    If you want to live a life of sin that’s fine, but don’t be upset when people judge you and if they do, don’t throw out bible versus to justify what you do or don’tt. Because people could easily turn the next page and find something demeaning to you and your lifestyle.“

    WRIITEN BY CHARLES
    ““““““““““““““““““““““““““““
    WOW!!! No Comment :blink:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sandra writes, "You made very valid points. But I have to maintain some kind of order in the comments section or it will be like the wild wild west and some people will feel intimidated."

    *******
    Blank stare.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    FREE CHARLES AND LADYJUSTICE!!

  • missy

    Why was LadyJustice banned....... :confused: wow.....

    Unban her Sandra.....Plz... she didn't do anything bad.....

    No JUSTICE NO PEACE BRING BACK LADYJUSTICE PLEASE...

    FREE LADYJUSTICE

  • j.c.

    :popcorn: the chit is about to hit the fan in 5,4,3,2...

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    WOW @ the madness! I mean really? People really e-bang??

    Welp @ least it's entertainment!!!!! :woot:

  • va_shawty

    Freedom of Speech is the right, as stated in the 1st and 14th Amendments to the Constitution of the United States, to express information, ideas, and opinions free of government restrictions based on content. Charles, like so many others, exercised his right to free speech. Enough said. :whistle:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    LMAO @ Missy - #154!!! That was funny. No justice. No peace.

  • KiKiWest

    Man.. Just sat here and read all 157 comments... No words except I <3 SR! ... definitely get's you throught the work day!!

  • iyonah

    Sandra ... can you un :ban: LaydeeJustice?

    Please and thanks.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ iyonah:

    She's not banned. She can log in at any time.

  • Quitta

    Damn I'm gone for an hour and somebody got banned. I knew something was gonna pop off.

  • CivilEngineer

    Hey LaTechGrad02...I'm from Baton Rouge!! More Louisianians in the building :danban1:

  • CivilEngineer

    oh and shout out to j.c. :waves:

  • j.c.

    hey civil and latech! ****waves****

  • iyonah

    SR ... she said her password wasn't working, I will ask her to try again.

    TY ...

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I like the song that JD was listening to, but the beat sounded a lot like Denise Williams' Silly. Blank stare.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom
  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sorry, I meant Deniece Williams.

  • ShoYaRight

    I don't agree with Charles sentiments at all, but I think its messed up that he was banned for something that didn't happen on this site.

    That's all.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Does Monica always take her children to the studio?? Can't the Label work a Nanny into the budget?? They can recoup nanny costs from album sales. Blanks stare. Continue watching Episode 6....

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Why are industry folks treating Monica like she never had a hit record or can't sing? Blank stare.

    It is definitely time for new management. It is time for an upgrade. F*** being humble and surrounding yourself with family because you are afraid of the world outside Atlanta. Upgrade!!!

  • CivilEngineer

    LOL @attorneymom....I'm imagining you watching the clip, here's the play by play: a thought pops into your head, hits pause, scrolls down, types comment (with a blank stare on your face), scrolls back up, hits play now with a relieved look on your face! Am I right? :D

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Branch out to producers that are not based in Atlanta. Come on Monica. You are a superstar!!!!

  • missy

    @AM

    You are killing me with your play by play of the episode..... :lolol:

  • Mornay

    @Civil... New Orleans is here as well!!!
    :party:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @CivilEngineer, the industry needs Monica the superstar, not Monica the hoodrat. I pray that Jehovah opens her eyes and give her the courage to branch out from her walls and her pain. This may mean that some folks will be left behind and loving some folks from afar.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Friends will hurt you, but your family will finish you off.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gsV1DejMd8

    Monica, you need to pass out some severance packages and pink slips.

  • Quitta

    Attorneymom- Why are industry folks treating Monica like she never had a hit record or can’t sing?

    Exactly what i thought

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I am done with my rant. I am going to leave Monica and her management team alone. Time for me to go workout. I am upgrading my sexiness. Chat with you later.

  • CivilEngineer

    @AM...I think she's afraid she'll alienate her original fans if she branches out...she should let that go. Her voice has more character in it than any other singers out right now!!

    Monica if you're reading this, we'll still support you if you explore other avenues to get your music heard. I know you won't sell your soul for record sales but you can sell millions just on your music!!

    @Mornay...more BOOT in this thang!! :partytime:

  • ShoYaRight

    I want Monica to be as huge as possible. If that means collabing with producers outside of ATL, say in Chicago, NY or LA, then I'm all for it.

    Change is scary, but it can be so good.

  • highlyfavored

    This is my first comment...I think its very silly for ANYONE to pass judgment on another being, especially another successful black woman. For the marriage thing for a each his own. It's obv she wants to be married cuz she says that it will happen and very soon. so u really don't know what's behind closed doors.

  • pointhimout

    SO IM NOT the only one who feels monica should pair up with other producers. i think if david foster (celine, whitney) composed something for her, it would be hot...diane warren write the lyrics....with monica's voice, it'd have to be hot.

    i dont get the whole atl click on this project. no to missy, definitely no to jazze pha and that wack song he walked in there with. as soon as it started, i knew she didn't like it. that fat gum chewing guy at neyo's studio...decent song, but not what she needs. it's the lead off up tempo songs that got her in this position of "proving herself" now.

    and needless to say she should stay away from "everytime the beat knocks" jermain dupri. yeah, we remember who did that wack song with the talent show boys. stop it i say.

  • pointhimout

    or beat drops...whatever, HATED IT.

  • SoulWithSass

    Okay-call me a newbie (or whatever) as I usually don't log in & comment, I just like to read (and been doing so since March). But I had to co-sign CivilEngineer on comment #78: CHARLES IS DEFINITELY GAY! There is no way that a straight male would invest that much time in a group of females lives & morals, but yet rarely comments on men. He probably wants Rocko to his damn self & that's why he's upset with Mo.

    I don't condone kids before marriage & "playing house" either, but its MONICA'S LIFE! If she likes it, I LOVE IT...but for her, not for me. But Monica seems happy, secure & on the right track with getting it together so as long as she isn't molesting children, being a slutbucket trollop or stealing nobody's husband like some people-DO YOU, MO!

    And Sandra- you must admit, you did used to egg Charles on a lot when he was "dragging" folks. I personally think that any person who spends their time talking reckless about others for no reason (i.e.- hurling insults without explanation behind them), is a pretty miserable c-u-n-t anyways. However- I think its interesting to see you may have aided in creating a "Frankenstein" here Sandra. But Ive seen his little blog....about 20 stories....less than 20 comments altogether....I doubt he'll be around long....I personally imagine Charles to be under 5'7, grotesquely overweight, possibly albino and with bad breath.....(I don't know why, but that's the vibe I get from him.)

    Anyhow...back to lurking....and Sandra tell him to get your car right! Tell him your sh*t is "clean on the outside, cream on the inside."

    :-)

  • Daisy

    Missy did some HOT songs for Monica I dont know what yall talking about and Monica doesnt want to be adult contempary she is to young for that. David foster and diane warren would have her sounding like an old lady before her time

  • ms.jones

    This is about the MOST ignorant shat I have heard all day! Psycopathically amusing tho... :yes: Oh and SLIDELL, LA in the house babbbbyyyy!

  • LaTechGrad02

    Hey J.C., Civil, Mornay!! Louisiana Love this morning!

  • free

    PEOPLE!! charles is entertaining (and speaks the truth, although not always gentle about it)! i actually look forward to what he says because he says stuff i won't say because i don't want to get banned.

    charles is an equal opportunity dragger. he only sucked up to monica to stay on sandra's blog. plus i don't think he intended for it to go THAT far in terms of the publicity it got.

    sandra goes in the same way but picks and chooses her people. this blog is really about OPINIONS not judgments. don't get it twisted.

  • free

    @africandude (#108), i was going to say something similar but glad you wrote it all.

    i don't understand how people are going in on charles when sandra does the same thing and we make hundreds of comments a day on her articles, co-signing and laughing about people.

    plus everybody on here states their "opinions" but when charles goes in, suddenly it's judgement. charles was on his own twitter account and his own blog.

    does seem a bit hypocritical to me. i think he adds balance and, if somebody takes it seriously, so be it. they can choose to move on or to stay in that place if they want to.

  • free

    LaTechGrad02 Says: Hey CivilEngineer, I’m from Bernice, Louisiana. 20 Miles from Ruston and Grambling.

    *********************************************

    hey yall, i'm from the 7th ward and my hubby is from the 9th, if yall know what THAT means!

  • LaTechGrad02

    Hey Free!! I know what that means! More Louisiana love!

  • CivilEngineer

    :party: Welcome all my BOOT representatives!!!

  • Tonya8

    free Says:

    PEOPLE!! charles is entertaining (and speaks the truth, although not always gentle about it)! i actually look forward to what he says because he says stuff i won’t say because i don’t want to get banned
    .................................................

    :lolol: too funny :rofl: