I know I'm late on this story but this is the first I've heard of it. Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas? Arenas is Laura Govan's baby daddy, and Laura is Draya's cast mate on 'Basketball Wives: LA'.

According to my loyal reader, Gilbert will confirm that he slept with Draya on the Upcoming BBW LA Reunion Show. And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.

A loyal reader writes:

On a few episodes back, I think, or whenever Draya was arguing with the rest of the women about the kid situation, come to find out *that’s not what they were really arguing about*. It was *edited.* Basically Laura was mad with Draya because she *effed Gilbert Arenas*. She did it at the stadium. And also Deshawn Stevenson the same night. She called her out on it. Gilbert is backing this story up. He may be telling it on the reunion show. He’s not denying it. He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day.

Here’s Draya’s apology:

She continues:

Click below to hear the lady on the radio that spilled the beans about the real deal on how draya slept with Gilbert arenas and his team mate Deshawn Stevenson and another unnamed teammate in the same day (fast fwd to mark
1:44 too)

Edited: Here's another video sent in by loyal reader Sydney S. for those who can't see the other video at work.

  • MzTisch

    Dang it!

    :mad:

    I can't view it here at work.

    Puh-leeze someone re-ap on what was said. Details! Details! Details!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.
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    So she screwed Monica's hubby?
    Draya gets around...Damn!!

    She still a cutie though...

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    OH SNAP *snickers*

  • GAGIRL87

    I can't watch the apology @ work either I hope Draya NOT that loose with the pussy :shocked:

  • lady_cn

    Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas?
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    I did. :coffee:

  • ohpretty1

    These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn't take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology. SMH

  • Collards

    :popcorn:

  • Posche

    Damn Draya! She's still a better BBQ "wife" than the rest of those chickens!

  • Aekelani A.K.A Beyonce’s Surrogate

    Well Gilbert don't claim her so......

  • Ty

    Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas?
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    We all did :coffee: Stop getting your gossip fixes from other people Sandra :stop: Start reading our comments :rofl:

  • prynsexxx

    When I seen that last week. I kept saying why did she start off apologizing? I JUST got finished watching the most recent episode and I kept wondering WHY Laura just has it out for Draya. I finally realized it was all over the peen...and I bet it ain't no good peen either.

    Silly hoes kill me mad b/c of where THEIR man chose to stick his d!ck!

  • Posche

    Draya doesn't owe that linebacker an apology anyway!!!!!!!!!!

  • KDub

    Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.

  • prynsexxx

    ohpretty1 says:

    These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn’t take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology.
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    EXACTLY!!!!!!! :clap: :cosign:

  • prynsexxx

    I STILL don't see what they seen in Laura! She looks like she got hit on the right side of her face with a Websters........the UNABRIDGED version.

  • Ty

    Aekelani A.K.A Beyonce's Surrogate says:

    Well Gilbert don’t claim her so……
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    I think he said he would've dated her if she would've refused to be passed around but she was with it :hump:

  • KDub

    And the Hunchback of Norte Dame is SURPRISED Agent Zero stepped out on her…ummm WHY?

  • pointhimout

    and this is why Laura hates her so much.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    ohpretty1 says:

    These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn’t take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology. SMH
    :cosign:
    Still doenst make her a HOE...for the record none of these dudes was married right :shrug:

    prynsexxx says:

    Silly hoes kill me mad b/c of where THEIR man chose to stick his d!ck!

    :cosign: She is a single woman!

    :cheer: TeamDRAYA

  • pointhimout

    @15 :dead: @unabridged. yall are crazy.

  • MzTisch

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.
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    So she screwed Monica’s hubby?
    Draya gets around…Damn!!

    She still a cutie though…

    ^^^^^^^^
    I like her too. People be going in on her about being a hoe/groupie. But, what about the men? You had to know she just got down with your boy at the stadium earlier that day and you had to have seen this bish with Chris Brown or whomever else on the blogs before too. So, if she nasty they arses nasty too!

  • http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

    OK...so Tweetybird IS going like that...I mean, they call her a Sl-ore...I just ddnt want to believe she was rolling like that...SMDH

    Laura needs to have a seat with her Gonzo lookin azz and apologize to Shaunie...then mayb she can talk...these chicks trip me out!!!

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    Women like Laura annoy me. Directing all of the anger at the other woman while you're posing on the red carpet and cheesing with the dog who slept with her. Draya wasn't committed to Laura and she doesn't owe her a thing. If she's not mad at him, why is she mad at Draya. :coffee:

  • ohpretty1

    prynsexxx says:

    I STILL don’t see what they seen in Laura! She looks like she got hit on the right side of her face with a Websters……..the UNABRIDGED version.

    ----------------------------------
    I heard that 'stroke brain' is a must try. :coffee:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    thats why laura was trying to eat draya :think: but why u mad at her be mad at ur babydaddy... silly bytches i tell u.. :coffee:

  • EssenceofU

    I wish the BBW would do a switcheroo for a couple episodes! I would LOVE to see Ev and Tammi faceoff with Jackie and Laura! My bets on Miami.........with the words anyway, LOL!

  • lady_cn

    KDub says:

    Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.

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    Exactly, and the operative word there is HUSBAND. Areana is just her baby daddy. Always will be.

  • lady_cn

    *Arenas

  • Ty

    Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe :think: :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    hmmm interesting...

    Random: I was watching Pleasure P's video 'Under' the other day and Draya's in it... :coffee:

  • Fabulous City

    I thought that was common knowledge :coffee:
    Draya is the definition of groupieHoe, she still ismy fave in the show though..

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @chacha exacly they are not married and if she a hoe ur man a mo'fukn hoe so u should be mad at him not her.. silly ugly bizznatch :lol:

  • tnwill777

    Why is bodyguard Laura mad at Draya. I bet she didn't get mad at Gilbert at all about the situation. Gilbert silly arse used to tweet about going on dates with other women and I am sure Laura knew about that too. If I was Draya I would have called her out about sleeping with Shaq.

    The producers be knowing the dirt ahead of time, that's why they choose who they choose to be on the show. Wonder why they edited that out. Probably saving that for the reunion or another season.

  • Crickett

    Hmm, bet the rent was due.... still #teamdraya though lol.

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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    A team player? jk

  • bombchelle.

    So this is why Laura loathes Draya? :yawn:

    But you twit-pic'n & running behind him & moving back in with him AFTER he has continuously humiliated you.

    Okay girl.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Draya is the definition of groupieHoe, she still ismy fave in the show though..
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    :yes: She is a professional escort!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    KDub says:

    Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.

    _____

    I do too... :coffee:

  • lady_cn

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    She is a professional escort!
    ____________________________________________

    Professional hoe. :yes:

  • Ty

    LaTechGrad02 says:

    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
    ___________________________________________________________________
    A team player? jk
    ____________________________________
    :dead: :rofl:

  • KDub

    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
    ----------------------------------------------
    A free spirit.
    Clean (it WAS a locker room...sure it has showers)
    A giver.
    A lover.
    Talented.

    Shawty got talent...cause I only got ONE dude and be tired as FUGG after a session. Kids be asking us why the hail we taking a nap at 2 p.m. on a Sat.

  • Aekelani A.K.A Beyonce’s Surrogate

    @ Ty true, so true

  • Mamacita

    "He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day."

    She neglected her son to go get a tan...are we really surprised? I'm not... :coffee:

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    I wonder how much these women get paid to look like a fool on t.v.?

    I don't watch these bicycle broads but surely they are getting paid millions of dollars to act an ass, no?

  • EB

    Draya laid it low, and spread it wide :popcorn:

  • West Coast Chick

    So she smashed all the homie's???? ... all in the same night?? :shocked:

  • playbaby4

    DAMN! Draya is HO! 2 maybe 3 dudes in one day?
    And Gilbert Arenas ain't sh*t! But we been knew that! Laura is dumb b*tch!

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time. :shrug:

  • Fabulous City

    @Ty, once again Im begging you... can you please take that gravi down, you are killin me here :rofl:

  • lovezoe

    Well Big Bird slept with Shaq and her and Shaunie were cool.

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    Hoes will always be hoes.. Theres no way around yo!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I'll have to say that Draya is a hoe, but she doesn't front for anyone either...and Laura needs to OWN the fact that she's a badly build linebacker lookin' bish with a gonzo nose and a mack truck frame who thinks she's fooling folks into thinking that she didn't smash out goofy azz sweaty confused lookin' trickin' off on hoes all the time Shaq....

  • West Coast Chick

    lady_cn says:

    chibytex aka the people’s champ says:

    She is a professional escort!
    ____________________________________________

    Professional hoe.

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    he didnt say he paid her, did he? :popcorn:

  • Ty

    Fabulous City says:

    @Ty, once again Im begging you… can you please take that gravi down, you are killin me here
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    :no: Fab...u dont like Baby Girl :rofl:

  • JMO

    LaTechGrad02 says:

    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
    ___________________________________________________________________
    A team player? jk
    ___________________________________________________________________

    :dead: :lol: ... good one :thumbsup:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Who is the dude in the pic with Draya because that is not Gilbert Arenas. Furthermore she has the 4 kids with that man not Draya he fukked up not her. That's why that hoe be giving Draya the side eye because she know that bish is cute. I bet you if she looked like a pro wrestler like Laura do she wouldnt trip as hard. :coffe:

  • Fabulous City

    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    I wonder how much these women get paid to look like a fool on t.v.?

    I don’t watch these bicycle broads but surely they are getting paid millions of dollars to act an ass, no?

    October 26, 2011 at 2:21 pm
    -------------------------

    I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7 and you have a yearly income of 49,000/year max. It doesn't get more basic than that. SMH

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    Ty says:

    Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
    __________________________

    I wouldnt label her anything......im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day.....

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    Ty says:

    Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
    ______________________________________________
    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe

    Please see my response via LAKER in #32.... and 48 :coffee:

    Furthermore..........

  • lady_cn

    West Coast Chick says:

    he didnt say he paid her, did he?

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    No, he didn't but let's be real, she did not sleep with him and the homies for free. :no: She got paid in some shape, form or fashion.

  • ohpretty1

    Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time

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    Yep. Blaming the other woman is what gives your man the green light to do it again. No accountability.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    West Coast Chick says:

    lady_cn says:

    chibytex aka the people’s champ says:

    She is a professional escort!
    ____________________________________________

    Professional hoe.

    ___________________________
    he didnt say he paid her, did he?

    CUS IF SOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... Furthermore....THATS SOME HOE SHYT...THAT WOULD MAKE SAID DRAYA.... ding ding ...A HOE :rolleyes:

  • Mamacita

    "So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night."

    :no: See this is why Amber Cole was giving head at 14. Folks think it's "ok" to do sh*t like this.

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    *i only hit submit once?* :shrug:

  • lovezoe

    Well Draya does have to bills in Philly and LA. :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    I just posted another video of the same radio show for those of you who are at work.

  • lady_cn

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..

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    I would have to respectfully disagree. I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I tell you what I've never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    My question is how is Draya a hoe? That bish is not married. If she single she can do what the FUKK she want. All we here is GOSSIP about all the niccas she has fukked. Laura, Gloria and Imani all who called they self superior and stayed with they niccas 10+ years and what the hell did that get them? ___/<---------I'll have a sit and wait for the responses. :coffee:

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    Look at all the hoes defending their soror... Hoes i tell ya what are yall in a union or something Hoes Act 50-11

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Aekelani: that adorable baby looks like he's busy reading all these crazy comments :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time. :shrug:
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    Draya dont give a fukk! And I love that about her!!! Who gon check her? LOL!

  • West Coast Chick

    she's only a hoe IF she got paid, right? :think:

    #definition ofa hoe: exchange money for sex? no?

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    Mamacita says:

    “So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night.”

    See this is why Amber Cole was giving head at 14. Folks think it’s “ok” to do sh*t like this.
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    No I dont think it is ok cause alot of what these little girls do start with no home training or their mamas be teaching the wrong thing. Draya is a grown woman and can account for her actions. And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    @Fabulous WOW! So I make more than them to act like I have some damn sense?! I'll take it. :thumbsup:

  • sweetdiva

    Ok Draya is a Hoe who cares. But this Messy Biatch Claudia she's really the whore. I got the scoop on her Messy azz. She didnt even go to her Friends Funeral (The Girl that suppose to Be Jay Z mistress). They were suppose to be BFF. Uhmmmm She dates Married Men and more Uhmmmmmm

  • West Coast Chick

    Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone.
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    i think she did apologize to laura.. but continue :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Ty says:
    We all did :coffee: Stop getting your gossip fixes from other people Sandra Start reading our comments
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    :yes: I knew. I couldn't remember how I knew though. Must have been from here.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    So everyone in the world that ventures off and does what they want @ being grown whether it be orgees, threesomes, kissed a guy after a date thursday night and smashed a different guy later that night, orgees... did I say orgees twice :smack: hahaha makes you a hoe .... There I go learning again on SR.. yay me!!

    As long they were responsible and protected themselves and/or agreed to it... I dont see what the problem ill? :shrug:

    JAY BEE.... Im not defending her per se but the label.... wayment... SO are you calling me a HOE :shrug: I have never ever ever been in none of the compromising positions aforementioned however.... :no: anyways

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @JayBee

    I'm calling her what she is...that's some hoe chit if ain't nothin' else hoe chit...but them other dried up washed up has-been bishes need to OWN their chit too instead of constantly telling Draya what she needs to do... :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Mamacita says:

    “So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night.”

    :no: See this is why Amber Cole was giving head at 14. Folks think it’s “ok” to do sh*t like this.
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    Well Amber Cole should have asked for some money. I mean since she acting like a hoe, might as well get paid... j/k :lol:

    But u cant compare Draya to Amber. Draya is a grown ass woman, free to suck and fukk whomever she wants. Preferably the highest bidder. I mean if you gonna be a hoe, you might as well get paid for it... :coffee:

  • ohpretty1

    I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
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    Thank you!!! But at least she said SOME.

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Just seen the video another bitter old azz broad reporting shit that has nothing to do with her. How about you go get you some dyck and quit worrying about other people puzzy's that not yours. I mean the girl kept it 100 from the start. I'm a stripper and what, I dated some atheletes and some singers umm ok, what you got next. Then thats when bacon neck Jackie and Mount Fiji Laura when and start playing detective googling muhfukkas.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @chacha :hug: girl aint no point on trying to convince some silly bytches that UR MAN IS THE FUKN PROBLEM NOT THE SINGLE BISH THAT GAVE HIM THAT TWAT... :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @WCC

    I thought that was the definition of a prostitute or hooker?

    A hoe is short for whore which I thought was a promiscuous loose pussy woman???? :shrugs:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    lady_cn says:

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..

    _________________________________________________________________

    I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
    ________________________________
    and thats cool too. Im saying that folks need to look in the mirror at their self before being so quick to judge others. I can honestly say that I did some hoe chit in my day (not to draya's extent), but I wouldnt call her names either. She know what she doing.....or maybe she is just trying to get more famous that Ray J...hell i dont know..... :shrug:

  • West Coast Chick

    If she didnt give a fuk, then why did she speak on it in the first place? she didnt know laura @ the time, right? gilberts loyalty lies with laura, not draya's...right?? She spoke on it b-cuz she felt bad about it.imo..im thinking there is something very troubling with this young girl, who can mindlessly sleep with 3 men in one night,while her child, who NEEDS her more, is somewhere..probably unattended for. The smile doesnt fool me :nono: she's cute, but a sad case @ the same time.

  • West Coast Chick

    FeFe says:

    @WCC

    I thought that was the definition of a prostitute or hooker?

    A hoe is short for whore which I thought was a promiscuous loose pussy woman????

    _____________________

    great debate...ima look it up.. brb

  • Crickett

    Don't get it twisted, players share wives too, not just girlfriends/groupies etc.

  • West Coast Chick

    :dead: ...just :dead:

    I pulled this out of the dictionary :rofl:

    hoe 5917 up, 1648 down
    1. A skank
    2. A woman that is too loose in the booty.
    3. Woman or man that fuck anything with two legs.
    4. A promiscuous person.syn: slut

    Don't marry that hoe, she sucked too many dicks and you know the old saying, you can't turn a whore into a housewife

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time.
    ____________________________________________________________________
    Draya dont give a fukk! And I love that about her!!! Who gon check her? LOL!
    _________

    I know right! And the hoe chit she do in her life wont make a bit of a difference in mine......

  • lady_cn

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    lady_cn says:

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..

    _________________________________________________________________

    I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
    ________________________________
    and thats cool too. Im saying that folks need to look in the mirror at their self before being so quick to judge others. I can honestly say that I did some hoe chit in my day (not to draya’s extent), but I wouldnt call her names either. She know what she doing…..or maybe she is just trying to get more famous that Ray J…hell i dont know…..

    __________________________________________________________________

    Ok, she's not a hoe. She just has hoe tendencies. :shrug:

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    Im not calling you a hoe per se.. But cmon nah! you cannot justified this Hoe shit.. Shes a Hoe and aint nothing good coming out being a HOE.. We are so hypocritical in todays world...

  • Ty

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    Ty says:

    Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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    She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
    __________________________

    I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
    ___________________________________________
    I can't speak for the next person but I have done my dirt but never on Draya's level :no: I don't think I am capable of putting that much work in. Even if I was in the room next to Draya busting down three other players, I still have the right to call her azz out :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    :shrugs: my bad Fe..guess the bish is a hoe after all :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :rofl:
    This dude in the background singing "it aint no fun, if the homies cant have none" and "pass the dutchie the left"

    This dude is retarded!! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @WCC

    :dead: at ur findings! :rofl:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    Question??

    How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5'd like most dudes do already?

  • Mamacita

    @Cha I'm not comparing Amber to Draya but I'm saying that girls like Amber look up to Draya because people tell them "its ok" "you're grown so you can do whatever you want" "you can screw someone's man and it's not your fault" "having sex with 3 men in one night is cool".

    If this was Kim K and she slept with 3 guys in one night what would you call her?

    But I guess since Draya is "cute" and "keeps it real" her hoing is ok?

    @Creole "And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel"

    Well if that's how you feel then so be it but I see it very differently. Doing hoe sh*t to get a head in life is not cool in my book but hey, that's JMO.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Don’t marry that hoe, she sucked too many dicks and you know the old saying, you can’t turn a whore into a housewife
    ______________________________________________________
    :nono: That's not true!! Hoes CAN repent and be converted! :rofl:

  • lady_cn

    Oh yeah don't get me wrong, I like her a lot more than I like the other Basketball Hoes on the show. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    and yes, I had my hoe days too...shoot my early twenties I was GETTIN' IT IN...

    Draya is young and needs guidance that is all...and she probably will want to slow it down, ain't nothing worse than an OLD HOE!

  • NaijaGal

    Never understood why females expect the stranger to owe them loyalty and respect...the "other woman" owes you nothing...your man does

  • Crickett

    I'm not a hoe but lawd some of my good girlfriends are...and the difference is some do it for monetary gain and others are just horny little bunnies. Rich men with nice bodies and "celebrity" can turn out some of the biggest prudes.

  • lady_cn

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    Question??

    How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
    __________________________________________________________________

    He's a hoe as well. :yes:

  • West Coast Chick

    its disgusting how these men can take advantage of these young chicks, knowing their state of mind. Im not hoding gilbert on any high standards, but clearly he's seen her kind before.. as a rich nigga, shouldnt he do something ..on his end to try and denounce or stop it? ..this is the man that laura is so desparately tryna be with? even after she convinced her sister to leave matt?

    these women :rollseyes:

  • caligirl

    WHAT...For real?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    and my definition of hoe chit was sleeping with 3 dudes in one summer...this chick had 3 dicks in one night! :dead:

  • OutsidetheBox

    and yes, I had my hoe days too…shoot my early twenties I was GETTIN’ IT IN…

    :coffee: After you finish reading my diary put it back under the toilet cover mkay? TIA. :lol:

  • caligirl

    lady_cn says:

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    Question??

    How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
    __________________________________________________________________

    He’s a hoe as well.
    ______
    That is a fine man in your gravi.....I forget his name but he plays football?

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    This dude in the background singing “it aint no fun, if the homies cant have none” and “pass the dutchie the left”

    This dude is retarded!!
    __________________________________

    you crazy... :ha:

  • Mamacita

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    Question??

    How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?

    ---------

    He'd still be a hoe too! Hell the dudes who slept with her KNOWING that she JUST had sex with their homeboy are hoes too. :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Men who do this chit are hoes to me too.... even Ludacris admitted it on his song 'Ho' .... :coffee:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    *wrong haha* lol

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Creole Kimbo 225 says:

    Question??

    How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
    _____________________________________________________________________
    THIS is why is why I say fukk that chit do what the fukk you wanna do. Cause its ok if a man sleeps with 50/11 women in one night. He's labeled a player or stud...but if a women does it she's nasty slut whore.

    @Mamacita
    The reason I give Kim K. the side-eye is because she be walking around here like she a fukking angel and she done got around more than a car at the Indy 500. I HATE hoes who cant own up the their hoetry. If you's a hoe own that chit. Dont be acting like you a virgin Mary. I cant stand that.

  • lady_cn

    caligirl says:

    That is a fine man in your gravi…..I forget his name but he plays football?
    ____________________________________________________________

    Darren Sharper with the Saints. That's my baby...in my mind. :yes:

  • caligirl

    I'm gonna have to log out...I can't keep up with this conference call talking about software apps, it don't mesh well with icks and chit....Jeez, I gotta go back to work.

  • West Coast Chick

    NaijaGal says:

    Never understood why females expect the stranger to owe them loyalty and respect…the “other woman” owes you nothing…your man does

    ______________________
    :cosign:

    right! I think evelyn put it best.. *YOU ARE A NON MUTHA FUKIN FACTOR, BYTCH!!! :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7...

    *counts on fangas* Youve got to be kidding me? ?!?!? Surely its more than that!!! WTF indeed. They cant even get the good BBQ on that salary. Everything must be comped!

  • Mamacita

    #98 was for Chi...not Cha! My bad...

  • lady_cn

    macita says:

    He’d still be a hoe too! Hell the dudes who slept with her KNOWING that she JUST had sex with their homeboy are hoes too.
    ____________________________________________________________

    :cosign: Although, unless they all slept with her at the same time the 1st one might not be as big of a hoe
    :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @OTB

    :rofl: you silly girl!

    Years ago my bff fcked three dudes in a 24 hour span and I was looking at her like :shocked:

    She had her fun though and is happily married now...it's all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING... :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day.

    ^^^
    @Man...
    WHERE YOU AT Dawg (Ain't THIS Your New Female-CRUSH...) She definitely has QUALITIES You Admire Too :thumbsup:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    are just horny little bunnies.
    __________________________________________________
    :stop: talking about me! :rofl:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    @Creole “And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel”

    Well if that’s how you feel then so be it but I see it very differently. Doing hoe sh*t to get a head in life is not cool in my book but hey, that’s JMO.
    _______________________________________
    @ MAMACITA

    doing hoe shit to get ahead is not cool in my book either, but to each is own right?......who are we to knock her hustle?

  • ohpretty1

    I think 'judging' and 'calling it like it is' gets misconstrued a lot around these parts. :lol:

  • caligirl

    I'm not sure if I read it here are someone where else, but a man has to make up in his mind, heart and soul. THIS IS THE ONLY piece of arse I'm goning to get for the rest of my life. That's kind of hard, for alot men. Hell that's hard for alot of women. Not hard for me...I don't want to die of the package.

  • West Coast Chick

    :rofl: I had to share this with yall :rof: the definition for bytch

    Bitch 15145 up, 2984 down
    (1) Word used to describe the act of whining excessively.

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    (3) Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status.

    (4) Term used to exclaim hardship.

    (1) "Stop bitching Todd!"
    (2) "Can I ride bitch?"
    (3) "Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch"
    (4) *Peron tells story to other cellmate, depicting how they came to be there, cellmate says* "Ain't that a Bitch!"

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    She had her fun though and is happily married now…it’s all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING… :yes:
    __________________________________________________________________________
    Womp! Womp! Cause hoes CAN be turned into housewives!!! It is NOT a myth or an urban legend!! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    ohpretty1 says:

    I think ‘judging’ and ‘calling it like it is’ gets misconstrued a lot around these parts. :lol:

    _______

    :yes: :cosign:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Wait wait, thats a good ass friend girl! Most of the hoes wouldnt eben say nothing :nono: Be having you thanking your number higher than theirs and chit. :lol:

  • pointhimout

    i wont click or try to watch amber cole, but she's getting a head start. no mentoring or convincing will stop her from sucking schlung in the parking lot, or playground.

    a lot of women do this stuff to get bills paid or whatever. I wasn't moved at all by draya having this rep, or amber cole letting some guy massage her throat on recess.

  • MzTisch

    FeFe says:

    @OTB

    you silly girl!

    Years ago my bff fcked three dudes in a 24 hour span and I was looking at her like

    She had her fun though and is happily married now…it’s all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING…
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    At your last statement. DING DING DING! Or maybe she was tryna pay a bill or something, I don't know. The rent was due? Her son's tuition? Her stamps was late?

    I'm not justifying or condoning what she did, but if there was NO other way to provide for my child...I'll do something strange for a little change!

    Some bishes out her giving it up for a smile and a nicca saying she kewte'.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lol:

  • lady_cn

    West Coast Chick says:

    I had to share this with yall :rof: the definition for bytch

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    ___________________________________________________________

    :blink:

    Never heard that one...

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    So I guess if he comes on the reunion Laura is going to think that chit cute like they busting out Draya or something. Not the fact that yo man is pretty much admitting to cheating on yo ill built azz. Instead of roughing up Draya in the steel cage she should threw Gilbert in there and beat the fukk out of him.

  • caligirl

    :screaming: I love number 3
    (3) “Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch”

  • Fabulous City

    Crickett says:

    I’m not a hoe but lawd some of my good girlfriends are…and the difference is some do it for monetary gain and others are just horny little bunnies. Rich men with nice bodies and “celebrity” can turn out some of the biggest prudes.
    ________________
    :lol: you can say that again hi5
    Funny how all pro-hoe start their statement with they are not one of those...

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    :smack: GOING TO SIT MY HOE AZZ IN THE KONA :kona: LAKES you coming with *grabs your hand while we skip away kicking rocks

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    West Coast Chick says:

    I had to share this with yall :rof: the definition for bytch

    Bitch 15145 up, 2984 down
    (1) Word used to describe the act of whining excessively.

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    (3) Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status.

    (4) Term used to exclaim hardship.

    (1) “Stop bitching Todd!”
    (2) “Can I ride bitch?”
    (3) “Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch”
    (4) *Peron tells story to other cellmate, depicting how they came to be there, cellmate says* “Ain’t that a Bitch!”
    _____________________________

    You crazy too!! LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby

    Oh I agree hon, like I said I considered my "hoeing" days of when I was :hump: 3 dudes within a summer time...*ahhh, those summers*

    I'm just one of those chicks who needs to at least get the scent of one man off me before moving on to the next! :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    That’s kind of hard, for alot men. Hell that’s hard for alot of women.
    ____________________________________________________________
    :cosign: Shit I'm still struggling. I ran into my old crush at homecoming over the weekend. I never screwed in college. God knows I wanted to. When i saw him this past weekend I was Damn, I need a hall pass for just a day!! :lol: Cause he still FIONE ass hell.

    #confession

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    ___________________________________________________________

    :blink:

    Never heard that one…
    _________________________________________________
    :blink:
    You never heard of riding bitch. That's usually the person who has to sit in the middle. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Cha

    :hugs: come back lady! My hoe azz said fck it and stopped :hump: altogether until I met my hubby! :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Never heard that one...

    The bitch seat?? Yeah, girl we call that the hoe seat too (the middle)...typically you'd "assign" it to the lil moflucka in your party i.e., "'Chelle, you GOT the hoe seat..." :shrug:

    LOL

  • Mamacita

    @Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I'm not mistaken...

  • caligirl

    FeFe says:

    I’m just one of those chicks who needs to at least get the scent of one man off me before moving on to the next!
    _______

    Ummmmm, I didn't want to seem judgemental, cause I've done some dirt. :thinks: :smiles: SHHHHHHHHH
    but NEVER multiples in a day.

  • ohpretty1

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    --------------------------

    We used to say that all of the time in high school.
    "You driving?"
    "Naw you."
    "Fine, but I'm not ridin' bitch when you pick up everyone else."

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @MzTisch

    :lol: trust me, she was hurting....she cried about it like a week later and said all she wanted was for a man to LOVE her...

  • lady_cn

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    (2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.

    ___________________________________________________________

    Never heard that one…
    _________________________________________________

    You never heard of riding bitch. That’s usually the person who has to sit in the middle.

    ____________________________________________________________

    We just never called it that. :shrugs: I learn something new every day.

  • OutsidetheBox

    ill built azz

    :dead: I hate chew Choc. Same way I hate benjamins and oxygen :heart:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    So I guess if he comes on the reunion Laura is going to think that chit cute like they busting out Draya or something. Not the fact that yo man is pretty much admitting to cheating on yo ill built azz. Instead of roughing up Draya in the steel cage she should threw Gilbert in there and beat the fukk out of him.

    :cosign: KEEP THAT SHYT REAL THO :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @lady_cn
    Where The HELL Yous Been... They call that the BYTCH-SEAT !!! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    *raises hand*

    Never heard of the "bytch" or "hoe" seat in the car before... :ashamed:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Oh and for the record I aint NEVER apologized for sleeping with somebody else boyfriend. For what? Bitch I dont owe you nothing. Tell your man to :stop: calling me and get his ass in check. I wish I would apologize :rolleyes:

    Draya shouldna said chit to Laura but I'll apologize to you when you apologize to Shaunie!

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    :rofl: Today is the BEST I EVER HAD!!!!

    Chit the pot calling the kettle black. Get the fuk outta here. Laura had bills too that is probably why she made sure to have collateral.

  • lady_cn

    Mamacita says:

    @Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I’m not mistaken…
    _______________________________________________________

    You forgot Miles Austin. Those were just relationships though. She was rumored to sleep with a few other people, i.e. Kanye West. :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    MAMACITA :hug: I gotchu!!!

  • lady_cn

    FeFe says:

    *raises hand*

    Never heard of the “bytch” or “hoe” seat in the car before…

    __________________________________________________________

    Good, so it's not just me. :yahoo:

  • prynsexxx

    lady_cn says:

    ____________________________________________________________

    Darren Sharper with the Saints. That’s my baby…in my mind.
    _________________________

    He use to bust down Gabby "hoe ass" Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga' to shyt if you ask me.

    O'an yall know the saying ladies....."If you ain't got no hoe friends......YOU the hoe."

    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby

    I knowingly slept with another chick's man before and I felt like chit afterward....

    The thing is that he and I were friends LONG before he got with her (he always had a crush but I kept him in the friend zone)...I was having a really fcked up night and he was too and we :hump: that night...the sick part is that she was cool with our relationship and fully trusted us...that was the first and LAST time I did that, I never wanted it to be done to me...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Mamacita says:

    @Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I’m not mistaken…
    _______________________________________________________
    Come on
    Kim let Miles Autin smash
    She let her Austrailian bodyguard smash
    She was messing around with some scoccer player

    Kim has gotten around. And IMO if you done had 4-5 boyfriends in ONE year that you are having sex with. Its no different than what "hoes" are doing. You just putting a label on it and trying to sprinkle sugar on chit....

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    :rofl: @ Prynsexx

  • JMO

    prynsexxx says:

    lady_cn says:

    ____________________________________________________________

    Darren Sharper with the Saints. That’s my baby…in my mind.
    _________________________

    He use to bust down Gabby “hoe ass” Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga’ to shyt if you ask me.

    O’an yall know the saying ladies…..”If you ain’t got no hoe friends……YOU the hoe.”

    :coffee:
    _________________________________________________________________

    :think:

  • GlamourPuss

    so if this is the case (which given Draya's background it most likely is), I BLAME GLORIA!!!!!!!! Gloria clearly introduced Draya to the group and then tried to blow her up for being a groupie. the sad part is that they're ALL groupies parading around as if they have class and REAL MONEY. birds of a feather typically flock together so DON'T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME!!!! #TEAMDRAYA

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I'm not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her....who gives a fck!?

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Most of my male friends are "hoes" and I definitely be listening to all their groupie stories.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @lady_cn
    Don't FORGET that Soccer Player that LITERALLY Kicked her to THE CURB :coffee:

    But REALLY... Are Y'all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?

    You're EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don't POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO :yes:

  • lady_cn

    prynsexxx says:

    He use to bust down Gabby “hoe ass” Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga’ to shyt if you ask me.

    _________________________________________________________________

    :cuss: Why you gotta bring up old chit?

    She did downgrade though.

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    If Draya is a hoe then Laura old Garbage Pail Kid face self is a hoe too.

    Laura=Pot
    Draya=Kettle

    No room to talk about nobody....

  • OutsidetheBox

    And you forgot Gabriel Aubrey. Oh wait they friends right? :lol:

    Kim's friends: Nick Cannon, Mike Copon, Shengo Deane, Nick Lachey...

    ok let me get my nosey ass out her uteri...but I can research her if i'd hit it right? :shrug:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    @ ELOVER maybe you can help me with this... What kinda bitchassness is Gilbert on coming on a show to speak on his dack :shrug: Who gives a merry fluck right? Whats that about :thinking:

    Gilbert: Yeah she smashed me and the homies ..........OKAY... but you smashed too whether it was first second or third ...THE FLUCK... My HO BURGER HOE AZZ IS CONFUSED :wail:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @wcc definitions is fukn :lol: :rofl:
    @chacha le go... :kona:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Garbage Pail Kid :cry:

    I loved them dirty smutty mofos.

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Get over the fukin labels people; Fukin is just that- fukin.

    So if you want to call him your boyfriend for a week. It was still fukin and that is the nature of our being to FUK. I love it!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @FeFe
    Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch's Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I'm like bish eventually I'm gonna :stop: and grow up. Plus I kept my dirt out the house. My daddy would have :karate: chopped me if I came home with some chit like that on my body.

    But I used to be vicious back in the day. If I was attracted to you and the feeling was mutual. It was going down.

  • grlnva

    EB says:

    Draya laid it low, and spread it wide

    ................................

    :dead:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Is anybody DATING anymore....or do they just fuk

    Draya is still a sweetheart in my book......Gilbert is a punk bytch for telling as if it's something to brag about and pass her along......no respect.

    Told my lil one....don't give it away make them earn it.....he'll walk away with ur respect......that's still no guarantee. On second thought I should have sent her to a convent

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    HOTT Cha Cha
    Gil really don't give TWO-SHYTS about His Baby-Mama (Just THAT Simple...) :coffee:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Correct me if I'm wrong didnt allegedly Laura sleep with Shaq while he was married to Shaunie?

    Knock Knock
    Laura answers door

    Me:
    I would like for you to meet my friend karma bitch. :coffe:

    :heart: u to OutsidetheBox

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    birds of a feather typically flock together so DON’T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME!!!! #TEAMDRAYA
    _________________________________________________________
    :cosign:

  • GAGIRL87

    For the record who Draya's f*ucks is her business. But me personally I'm not gonna "knowingly" share no d*ick... If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I'm not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I'm gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I'm the sideline hoe I'm to selfish for that chit :nono:. I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can't have all of you then I don't want none of you that's the LEO THE LION IN ME :coffee:

  • lady_cn

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    @FeFe
    Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch’s Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I’m like bish eventually I’m gonna and grow up
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :dead: :ghost: @ her getting that tattoed on herself. Did she just tattoo the letters or all of it?

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    @ therapist

    :rofl: Even there she might not be safe.

  • ohpretty1

    FeFe says:

    I’m not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her….who gives a fck!?
    ------------------------------

    I don't but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying... #believer :lol:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    Kim K is no better than Draya, Laura, or ANY other girl that be getting dycked down by different dudes, But really who cares what she do and who she fuggin? She just used what she got to get ahead. Her mama just marketed her better.....Mams Kris been pimping since been pimping since been pimping....LOL

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    grlnva says:

    EB says:

    Draya laid it low, and spread it wide
    ____________________________________________________
    :dead: :rofl:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    @FeFe
    Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch’s Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I’m like bish eventually I’m gonna and grow up. Plus I kept my dirt out the house. My daddy would have chopped me if I came home with some chit like that on my body.

    But I used to be vicious back in the day. If I was attracted to you and the feeling was mutual. It was going down.

    by chibytex aka the people's champ on Oct 26, 2011 at 3:10 pm
    *******************************************************************************
    what da hell she don't have respect for herself

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    :smack: well dayum

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:
    Kim has gotten around. And IMO if you done had 4-5 boyfriends in ONE year that you are having sex with. Its no different than what “hoes” are doing. You just putting a label on it and trying to sprinkle sugar on chit

    STILL LOST :wail: Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ....STILL LEARNING :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Told my lil one….don’t give it away make them earn it…..he’ll walk away with ur respect……that’s still no guarantee. On second thought I should have sent her to a convent

    _______

    :yes: my daddy told me the same thang! lol, all you can do is lay the foundation, most kids always come back to what they know, but they gotta make their own mistakes in order to learn...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @hony well lets get right to it then :hunch:
    @therapist :kiss: <<not fukn just a big wet beso

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Some of y'all hating on Draya. The biotch knows her Talents and her looks are not to be overseen. She is not trying to marriage any dude now. She got bills to pay and if her body is how she can make it then fuk yall for hating on that chit. IT IS HER PUZZY AND YOU WEREN'T EVER CALL TO TAKE NOTES. so why the hate?

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    marriahe=marry*

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    It's not like we live in a perfect world... lets keep it real... lots of regular everyday folks have slept with this cat, that cat, their homeboy's girl, their girls dude and now days homegirls sleep with each other. Only difference is these folks slept with folks who may or may not have money. Most folks... I would use them term y'all but I know I used to suffer from hit dog syndrome. I could so name folks I know personally who have a business (very profitable) of side chicking from coast to coast. All I know is these girls never lie to the dudes or females... they tell you I am selling my panty pudding... the ball players, rappers, etc know what it is. I feel sorry for none of them.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :dead: :ghost: @ her getting that tattoed on herself. Did she just tattoo the letters or all of it?
    ____________________________________________________
    She got F.B.N. and 326 right under it...she got the 326 cause those are the numbers that the letters go with.

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    marriage*

    chit I am horny and heated right now and can't type a fuk chit.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    ELove says:

    But REALLY… Are Y’all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?

    You’re EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO

    :clap:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    ohpretty1 says:

    FeFe says:

    I’m not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her….who gives a fck!?
    ——————————

    I don’t but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying… #believer :lol:

    _________

    :rofl: IKR! Them Kardashians know the deal with that chick for real!

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @CHACHA IM SOO LOST I THINK IM A HOE :wail: WELL MAYBE NOT SOMEBODY TELL ME THE :rules:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Chi.....she stupid. I hope you have disowned her as a friend .

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Laker.....mush my Spanish guitar

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Ohpretty1 says:
    I don’t but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying… #believer
    ___________________________________________________

    So true. Kim K and just like Jenna Jamison pretty much they both turned fukkin into a artform/. The only difference Kim K entire family got rich off her snatch.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @THERAPIST AGAIN :kiss: :boobs: :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Hony

    Oh I'm definitely not hating on Draya....she's my favorite one on the show and if she wants to hoe around that's definitely HER business...I just always caution women from becoming OLD HOES....

  • sweetdiva

    The WORD Hated/Hating on is so misused these days. So Sad

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Draya is doing no different than a girl that likes a guy and fukin give him the puzzy in hopes that she can get her "title of being his gf". Draya is just making sure she gets a parting gift aka money.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @THERAPIST SO U GON PLAY ME LIKE A GUITAR :ashamed: NOT REALLY :hunch:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    STILL LOST :wail: Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ….STILL LEARNING :no:
    ______________________________________________
    @Cha
    I know females that have different "boyfriends" every other week, And they dont consider themselves hoes cause they have "boyfriends" GTHFOH!! It the same chit IMO. If you switching peens every other week YOU'S A HOE (luda voice)

    I didnt have boyfriends I had dips....and it was times where I was ONLY messing with them for months/years at time. So does it make me a whore cause I was screwing a guy that wasnt my "boyfriend" even though he was the only one I was messing with at the time.

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    But REALLY… Are Y’all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?

    You’re EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO
    ______________________________________________________________
    @Elove, it's the HO Hierarchy....

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    I know a few chicks that lay on their back and see dollar signs so I am in support of entrepreneurship. :rofl:

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    TeamDraya - does that make her team hoes too? Just saying. Getting passed around and still grinnin' like you won the lottery is just slutty!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    I would use them term y’all but I know I used to suffer from hit dog syndrome.

    :lol: Dont be mincing no words round here :rules:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Why folks acting like they haven't and or don't do the same... lots of folks exchange they california raisin for goods and services... what's the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing... if u sleep with someone you not married too... you hoeing.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    don't get caught up on titles folks, it is what it is....I admitted to having my hoeing days and I had a whole LOT of fun while doing it... :shrugs:

    *whispers*

    sometimes I miss it... :yes:

  • sweetdiva

    U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:
    I didnt have boyfriends I had dips….and it was times where I was ONLY messing with them for months/years at time. So does it make me a whore cause I was screwing a guy that wasnt my “boyfriend” even though he was the only one I was messing with at the time.
    ____________________________________________________________
    Is this a rhetorical question?

  • JMO

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman's man. I've never done it and I would hope that the man I'm dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it ... jus wait :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    GAGIRL87 says:
    But me personally I’m not gonna “knowingly” share no d*ick… If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I’m not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I’m gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I’m the sideline hoe I’m to selfish for that chit . I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can’t have all of you then I don’t want none of you that’s the LEO THE LION IN ME
    :cosign: IM A SAGITARRIUS AND WE STINGY AS FLUCK :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @OTB

    OutsidetheBox says:

    I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7…

    *counts on fangas* Youve got to be kidding me? ?!?!? Surely its more than that!!! WTF indeed. They cant even get the good BBQ on that salary. Everything must be comped!

    ------------------------------------

    That's the typical range for 1st year reality shows. If it's a hit they may be able to get more. I've read the RHOA only got $4,000 an episode the 1st season.

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Chit "my days" opened doors :rofl:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    ^^^^^^^^^^^
    :blink:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    therapist1911 says:

    Chi…..she stupid. I hope you have disowned her as a friend .
    ________________________________________________
    I said EX best friend. I think she really did become a WHORE cause the last time we chilled was in like 02' and she had some many dudes coming over for short periods of time. I just stayed in the front and smoked :blunt: the entire time. But after that I distance myself. She told my cousin that I had "changed" since I went off to college and that I thought I was better. Its like yeah bish I grew the fukk up and you still in Dallas messing with these ole rooty pooty ass niggas. I aint gonna be able to do it. :nono:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Dawn Sheen says:
    Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same… lots of folks exchange they california raisin for goods and services… what’s the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing… if u sleep with someone you not married too… you hoeing.
    _______________________________________________________________
    Really??

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    sweetdiva says:

    U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon
    ________________________________
    :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    sweetdiva says:

    U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon

    _______

    :rofl:

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Some are so nuts here :rofl: I still love all y'all personalities tho.

  • lady_cn

    JMO says:

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait

    ________________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    FeFe says:

    don’t get caught up on titles folks, it is what it is….I admitted to having my hoeing days and I had a whole LOT of fun while doing it…

    *whispers*

    sometimes I miss it…
    ______________________

    I feel the same way. Those were the days huh?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    what’s the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing… if u sleep with someone you not married too… you hoeing.
    ________________________________________________________
    :cosign: That's my point! It aint NO difference. Chit at least PAID hoes got something to show for other than a loose beat-up twat. Hell I shoulda been smarter in my hoe days...

  • Honycoatd—Going off a feeling, I see you!!!

    Many people "hate on" others for simple dumb chit so why can't someone hate on someone with a 5th grade education? maybe the other person got none. :rofl:

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    sweetdiva says:

    U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon
    ___________________________________________________________________
    :shocked: lol

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    STILL LOST Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ….STILL LEARNING
    ______________________________________________
    @Cha
    I know females that have different “boyfriends” every other week, And they dont consider themselves hoes cause they have “boyfriends” GTHFOH!! It the same chit IMO. If you switching peens every other week YOU’S A HOE (luda voice)

    Well I cant understand every other week but that aint the way you put it at first which is why your friend in the e world Cha Cha was confuzzled... can you hold me later :pacifier:

    *Sagittarius :cry: TWIN SISSSSSS THAT I WAS SEPERATED AT BIRF FROM EVEN THOUGH WE YEARS APART....HEYYYYY LOVE :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Creole

    :lol: I won't say I wanna go back to those days because I truly was looking for love in all the wrong places, but I think I learned a lot and it made me who I am today...but I do reminisce on how carefree and fun loving I was during those days...

  • JMO

    CHA Deuce says:

    GAGIRL87 says:
    But me personally I’m not gonna “knowingly” share no d*ick… If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I’m not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I’m gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I’m the sideline hoe I’m to selfish for that chit . I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can’t have all of you then I don’t want none of you that’s the LEO THE LION IN ME
    :cosign: IM A SAGITARRIUS AND WE STINGY AS FLUCK :cosign:
    _____________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: ... and I'm a Gemini so I will :karate: :shank: both they azzes and continue on my day like ain't nothing happened ...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    lady_cn says:

    JMO says:

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
    ___________________________________________________________________
    Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he's cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!

    I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    JMO says:

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
    _____________________________________________________________
    I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife's nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh.....

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @FeFe
    I dont wanna go back to those days...But I do be wanting hall passes sometimes!! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:
    Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he’s cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!
    I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!
    _______________________________________________________________
    I agree with you on this but for different reasons.

  • Mamacita

    Some of these comments :no: I just can't...

    And we wonder why our Kids are the way they are...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
    ________________________________________________________
    Messing with a MARRIED man is different. I aint do that chit. If a dude he was married, I wasnt going there. Cause I aint messing with the Lord like that. But if you told me you just had a girlfriend...then chit....that's here problem!

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    LaTechGrad02 says:
    I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..

    I would have had to distance myself from that tramp! Now that is messy as fluck... :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chibytex

    If I could have a hall pass ion think I'd know what ta dew wit myself! :yahoo:

    But I always think about they fact that we gotta have a fair exchange, so hubby would have to have a hall pass too... :ashamed:

  • ohpretty1

    Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same…

    -----------------

    Believe it or not, there are those who haven't. Not knocking anyone but these are sad times when your non-hoeness is being questioned.

    Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. "All my hoes honest" :lol:

  • Candi Apple

    Mamacita says:

    Some of these comments I just can’t…
    And we wonder why our Kids are the way they are…

    _________________

    :rofl: :rofl: You talking about the fast girls who just want to get their hump on....

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    lady_cn says:

    JMO says:

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
    ___________________________________________________________________
    Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he’s cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!

    I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!
    ______________________________________________________________________

    :nono: That bold part in your comment is enough for me. So your hubby can cheat as long as he's still the provider?? :blink:

  • GAGIRL87

    @ JMO I've ALWAYS being wife and or gf I'm not playing SECOND to not nary bish :nono:. I'm the bish if you see him out with me and try to confront him. YOU gone be the one leaving with your feelings hurt getting cussed the f*uck out by him NOT me j/k :lol: people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT...

    :whistle: Sideline Hoe

    When you called his phone, did he pick it up?
    No, 'cause we was making love.
    Did you meet his moms, have you met his kids? No, oh, did you know my kid was his?
    No, oh.

    Get your shit together you're making a fool of yourself,
    it don't matter if he spends the night, his home is somewhere else
    Ain't you tired of being on the side line, tired of getting yours after I get mine baby?
    second place don't get a prize when you gone realize
    you're wasting your time baby
    Ain't you're tired of him getting, hitting real quick, then rolling and
    Ain't you're tired of when you need a little change and he lies about what he holding?
    Ain't you're tired of spending all the holidays alone, tired of being his little sideline ho?

    Do he take you out, do he foot your bills, no oh, 'cause I know what his balance is
    have you been to his church,
    do he ask you to pray, no oh 'cause Sunday's Family day

  • JMO

    LaTechGrad02 says:

    JMO says:

    I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
    _____________________________________________________________
    I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
    ______________________________________________________________________

    and thats even worse geeez ... Married or dating ... cheating is cheating

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Me and the boys were watching Gremlins last night, and I told them if they don't do their schoolwork and homework (cuz they're lazy as hell), that they would end up turning into Gremlins.

    Now they're saying they wanna practice their math and writing. #sneakylaugh

    :lol:

    #carryon

  • Creole Kimbo 225

    Well ladies it was nice chatting with ya. back to work! :bye:

  • ohpretty1

    Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that's my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.

  • JMO

    GAGIRL87 says:

    @ JMO I’ve ALWAYS being wife and or gf I’m not playing SECOND to not nary bish :nono: . I’m the bish if you see him out with me and try to confront him. YOU gone be the one leaving with your feelings hurt getting cussed the f*uck out by him NOT me j/k :lol:
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: ... and I can't do that hall pass bulchit either because that means he gets one? Soooo Im supposed to be ok with another woman sharing MY peen?? :nono:

  • JMO

    Unpredictable says:

    Me and the boys were watching Gremlins last night, and I told them if they don’t do their schoolwork and homework (cuz they’re lazy as hell), that they would end up turning into Gremlins.

    Now they’re saying they wanna practice their math and writing. #sneakylaugh

    :lol:

    #carryon
    _________________________________

    :lol:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    ohpretty1 says:

    Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same…

    —————–

    Believe it or not, there are those who haven’t. Not knocking anyone but these are sad times when your non-hoeness is being questioned.

    Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. “All my hoes honest”<<<<<<<<<<<<<------funny!!!! I was hoping you'd say Quick shot off ur pinky toe

  • OutsidetheBox

    :coffee:

  • singer25

    She needs to be mad at her dude not Draya
    Im sure he didnt even say sorry just gave Laura a 2 piece and a biscuit and kept it moving....

    I still like Draya though she should teach a pole dancing class

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. “All my hoes honest” :lol:
    _________________________________________________________
    Already!!! :rofl: I used to be honest.

    I never gave a chit about society's standards and what folks thought about me and I always felt like if boys could do it why cant I. I did what made me feel good and I dont regret it.

    The ONLY thing I regret now is not screwing my homeboy that I had a crush on back in college. Seeing him this past weekend made me wanna :wail: cause now every time I see him I be like I should have done it. But NOOOOOO I was trying to be respectable (fukk that chit :lol: ) and keep him as my friend. :rolleyes:
    Now I'll never know! :wail: :wail:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :coffee: with you @OTB

    *passes u some cream*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    GAGIRL87 says:
    people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
    Sideline Hoe
    ____________________________________________________________________
    that song is pure foolishness.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @ohpretty1
    Maaannnnn THE WAY Della talks about HER HOs is Just HILARIOUS !!!

    And I've met Females DURING MY Man-Whore Dayz that didn't POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO (Plenty of Them !!!) And just BEING Real Here... ALL of Them had Man/BF/Husband Problems JUST LIKE Everybody Else :coffee:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    ARE WE STILL TALKN ABOUT HOE RANKING.. :wail:

  • GAGIRL87

    ohpretty1 says:

    Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that’s my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.

    _____________________________________________________________

    I agree let's just say I don't know my dude is cheating but YOU DO, you agree to be his sidechick everything that Monica said in that song is gonna happen. Nine times outta ten YOU gonna be the one getting chitted on. Most dudes take care home first. I just couldn't knowingly be in a siuation like that.

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    ohpretty1 says:

    Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that’s my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.

    -----------
    I agree, people should require and accept more... even in my age I am learning the same lesson... I'd rather live in the corner of an attic than turn a blind eye... took me a WHILE but I is learning

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

    @ FeFe... Can you be a dahl and pass the sugar? :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :nono: That bold part in your comment is enough for me. So your hubby can cheat as long as he’s still the provider?? :blink:
    ___________________________________________________________________
    Put it like this...I come from a family where the men where more than likely cheating on their wives. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother.

    But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers. At the end of the day that's what I want outta my husband. Why should I divorce him if she slipped up and fukk a hoe at a club. That bish is not taking everything I have built. I'll be RINGING the Alarm Beyonce style!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :blink: ....... :nono:

  • GAGIRL87

    OHoney says:

    GAGIRL87 says:
    people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
    Sideline Hoe
    ____________________________________________________________________
    that song is pure foolishness.

    __________________________________________________

    @ O Honey that's your opinion and I respect it. I'm grown ova here and my opinion is I LIKE the song :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    *passes MzDimpz some Stevia (ion do sugar)*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Everything is starting to make since.
    I should probably exit now :kona:
    @Dimpz @Unpre TTYL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

    What's Stevia?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    And I’ve met Females DURING MY Man-Whore Dayz that didn’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO (Plenty of Them !!!) And just BEING Real Here… ALL of Them had Man/BF/Husband Problems JUST LIKE Everybody Else :coffee:
    _______________________________________________________________
    :cosign: :clap:

    Just cause you aint no hoe doesnt make your man not one!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

    Yall hoes done made Honey leave! :wail: :mad:

  • pointhimout

    @177 no man, most seem to be just phuckin, no dating involved.

  • OutsidetheBox

    *5 tsps* And honey, no sugar please. :coffee:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    OHoney says:

    GAGIRL87 says:
    people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
    Sideline Hoe
    ____________________________________________________________________
    that song is pure foolishness.

    -----------
    I heard the person who may or may not sing that song all amped up talking about it... you could here the personal experience she may or may not have been implying the song was written off her personal experiences... I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend's mistress if you know and you stay you ain't one upping nobody...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    Yall hoes done made Honey leave! :wail: :mad:
    __________________________________________________
    Sorry! I'm just keeping it 100.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby

    You and I are polar opposites on that...if hubby cheats on me, I'm ready to bounce (money or no money)...I may give him another chance if he apologizes and truly means it and makes a conscious effort to do better, but it's gonna take ALOT for me to stop thinking about the fact that he slid up in anotha bytch...and let's not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn't get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    :peace: @OHoney

    Da Fluck?????

    Ummmmm, yea, oooooookay. :popcorn: and :koolaid2: and a ___/ <---leather recliner #comfy

  • OutsidetheBox

    #teamBeyonce :shrug:

  • GAGIRL87

    Dawn Sheen says:

    OHoney says:

    GAGIRL87 says:
    people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
    Sideline Hoe
    ____________________________________________________________________
    that song is pure foolishness.

    ———–
    I heard the person who may or may not sing that song all amped up talking about it… you could here the personal experience she may or may not have been implying the song was written off her personal experiences… I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…

    ______________________________________________________________________

    True my motto is know your worth BUT I still like the song though :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :hi: @OHoney

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :blink: DONT GIVE TWO FUKS IF U BRANGING HOME A MILLY ADAY I AINT FINNA DO THE CHEATING CUZ THAT MILLI AINT FINNA TAKE THESE AIDS AND STDS... SILLY RABBIT TRICKS ARE FOR KIDS... GOOD DAY YALL :waves:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Like I always tell my daughter when you get older three things a man should always be ready to do for you

    1. Change your last name
    2. Change your address i.e., UPGRADE
    3. Change your view on man in a POSITIVE way

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dimpz

    It's a natural sweetener, it's extract that comes from a plant and it has 0 calories

  • MrsMommy

    I only watched this show once, and don't know why a stripper/jumpoff/ho would be ashamed of being known as such with other stippers/jumpoffs/hoes.

    These women, for me, are neither entertaining nor attractive. I have a brain and have never hung out with desperate, thirsty chicks like this.

    This is a very trifling show. Very low and trifling.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
    ______________________________________________________
    I disagree but I understand your rationale...I think the song is stupid...but Monica is making a valid point. And having been on both sides of the spectrum the problem becomes when the hoes be falling in love with the dudes. Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card...

    As ghetto as the song is, its very true!

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
    ______________________________________________________
    I disagree but I understand your rationale…I think the song is stupid…but Monica is making a valid point. And having been on both sides of the spectrum the problem becomes when the hoes be falling in love with the dudes. Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card…

    As ghetto as the song is, its very true!

    -----------
    disclaimer.... I ain't said nothing bout said name you mentioned.... Whoever wrote the song and or sang it, I am unaware.

  • GAGIRL87

    Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card…

    As ghetto as the song is, its very true!

    _______________________________________

    That's what I meant by it, the song has some TRUTH in it :coffee:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    :nono: That bold part in your comment is enough for me. So your hubby can cheat as long as he’s still the provider?? :blink:
    ___________________________________________________________________
    Put it like this…I come from a family where the men where more than likely cheating on their wives. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother.

    But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers. At the end of the day that’s what I want outta my husband. Why should I divorce him if she slipped up and fukk a hoe at a club. That bish is not taking everything I have built. I’ll be RINGING the Alarm Beyonce style!
    ______________________________________________________________________

    :blink: Thats fuggin crazy. Those men didn't love their wives if they were out cheating!! Who gives a fug if they came home... gurl ... :nono: ... I hope you reevaluate that and realize your worth.

    Im sure whatever you "built" doesn't trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that's deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Monica making songs like that to give the sideline ho a anthem but I guran damn tee she found out that young Shannon Brown got a sideline hoe and that bytch gone be saying DONT GET MAD GET EVERYTHING.

    Bottom line ladies "KNOW YOUR WORTH"

  • Lovely One

    I agree with Mamacita. It appears that we give "hoe" passes just b/c they look cute.

    On a different note, I bet Shaunie knew about this the whole time. Homegirl knows how to dish out some karma :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    and let’s not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn’t get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH…
    __________________________________________________________
    That would be the only part that would piss me off. Cause I done pass up plenty of chances to get my swerve on, but I didnt cause I respect my marriage. But chit pay back is a bish.... :grin: and he'll never know!

    Divorce is really not an option for me. Unless this hoe becomes a mistress. Like you spending serious time and money on her. Meaning you putting this bish before your family. I got a problem with that chit.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I won't speak for everyone else, but I think folks say the song is retarded because you shouldn't even waste time talking to or speaking about the potential other chick...she should be so much of a non muthafckin factor that the ONLY person you should be focused on is the man who is doing the dirt... but maybe that's just me... :coffee:

  • JMO

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    :blink: DONT GIVE TWO FUKS IF U BRANGING HOME A MILLY ADAY I AINT FINNA DO THE CHEATING CUZ THAT MILLI AINT FINNA TAKE THESE AIDS AND STDS… SILLY RABBIT TRICKS ARE FOR KIDS… GOOD DAY YALL :waves:
    ________________________________________________________________

    co-mutha fuggin sign :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @chi

    But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers.

    ______________________________________

    Times have changed. Now the ninja got both women payin him. he don't work and the main chick paying the bills at the house. Then he goes and cheats and the jump off pay for the hotel room.

    Back in the day a wife was a wife and a mistress was a mistress. And men took care of home first. The mistress knew she was a mistress and there was SOME SHAME IN THAT. Even mistresses had some standards rarely did she mess with somebody who couldn't take care of home and have enough to take care of her too cause she knew she was taking second place. A broke married man had to use a straight prostitute if he wanted some strange. My grandfather was a player too. Not saying it was right but things were done different back then.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @FeFe (Comment #276)
    There are DUDES who FEEL the same way YOU DO Baby (Real !!!) ME Being ONE of THEM... It's JUST Total BETRAYAL-n-DISRESPECT especially If Y'all done sat down and SET The Boundaries of Your Marriage (WORD)

    I Mean, I could be out there F-ing ALL Kinds of Females but I Keeps My Dyck for YOU (And YOU Only) but YOU choose to Give Your PUZZY to another MFer that AIN'T MARRIED TO YOU or LIVE WITH YOU...

    TRICK GTFOH Before I Get MY GUN and KILL YO AZZ !!! :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :hahaha: @Dawn

    #friendsoftheblogChi!dammn

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    :mad: DAWN I KNO YOU SEENT MY COTDAMN FONT...

    RONNIE HOE QUOTES :

    "Look, Im not trying to turn you out... Im just trying to turn you on to some game"

    "Make the money ...Dont let it make you"

    "She probably dont even make enough to buy herself a Honda Civic"

    "Now lets go HOE .... :blink: what, thats what they gon be calling you so you might as well get used to it..... NOW LETS GO.... HOE!"

    :coffee: <--let me get an add shot of ESPRESSO

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :blink: Thats fuggin crazy. Those men didn’t love their wives if they were out cheating!! Who gives a fug if they came home… gurl … :nono: … I hope you reevaluate that and realize your worth.

    Im sure whatever you “built” doesn’t trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that’s deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.
    _______________________________________________________________
    I feel like now I'm being judged because cheating in NOT my bottom line. That doesnt mean I dont have one. Cheating just aint it. He will not put his hands on me. You will not disrepect me. You will NOT talk to me crazy or call me out my name. THOSE are my bottom lines.

    Chit I love my hubby but I aint gonna lie sometimes I do wanna "see" other people. Doesnt mean I want to be with another person or get divorced. I'm human. Its natural. Certain folks just wont admit that chit!

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    and let’s not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn’t get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH…
    __________________________________________________________
    That would be the only part that would piss me off. Cause I done pass up plenty of chances to get my swerve on, but I didnt cause I respect my marriage. But chit pay back is a bish…. :grin: and he’ll never know!

    Divorce is really not an option for me. Unless this hoe becomes a mistress. Like you spending serious time and money on her. Meaning you putting this bish before your family. I got a problem with that chit.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.? I don't think you've mentioned that yet. Forget that huh, as long as he paying those bills and coming home yall good?? :blink:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Dawn

    #friendsoftheblogChi!dammn

    -----
    :)

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Let me find out my hubby around this bytch giving out dick sessions to someone other than myself and you'll be hearing about me in my government name. I tell people all the time I looks real good in orange you fukk we my babies, hubby or my money and bytch you will be looking up at the church ceiling.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @ELove

    I Mean, I could be out there F-ing ALL Kinds of Females but I Keeps My Dyck for YOU (And YOU Only) but YOU choose to Give Your PUZZY to another MFer that AIN’T MARRIED TO YOU or LIVE WITH YOU…

    TRICK GTFOH Before I Get MY GUN and KILL YO AZZ !!! :coffee:

    _______

    :yes: :yes: :yes: :yahoo: THAT'S ^^^^^ EXACTLY how I feel...I took vows with ur azz, and chit I think about other dicks I could be enjoying THOROUGHLY....but you wanna go and disrespect what the fck we built together....COOL :peace: DEUCES!

    Sorry for all the emoticons Sandra, I had to use them to emphasize how much I agree with my Elova!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :dead: @Cha and her 'hoe' phrases...I just pictured all those scenes in my head! :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I aint never been one to stick around...though I HAVE tried. In the end, I just do not trust that person anymore.

    One thing about it 2 things for sure, there is always somebody else for you.

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    :blink: Thats fuggin crazy. Those men didn’t love their wives if they were out cheating!! Who gives a fug if they came home… gurl … :nono: … I hope you reevaluate that and realize your worth.

    Im sure whatever you “built” doesn’t trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that’s deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.
    _______________________________________________________________
    I feel like now I’m being judged because cheating in NOT my bottom line. That doesnt mean I dont have one. Cheating just aint it. He will not put his hands on me. You will not disrepect me. You will NOT talk to me crazy or call me out my name. THOSE are my bottom lines.

    Chit I love my hubby but I aint gonna lie sometimes I do wanna “see” other people. Doesnt mean I want to be with another person or get divorced. I’m human. Its natural. Certain folks just wont admit that chit!
    ______________________________________________________________________

    No I'm not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input. I don't think you should divorce right away because Im all for making a marriage work but if it continues, I would be done. My love, commitment and vows would be worth more than my mortgage.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Times have changed. Now the ninja got both women payin him. he don’t work and the main chick paying the bills at the house. Then he goes and cheats and the jump off pay for the hotel room.

    Back in the day a wife was a wife and a mistress was a mistress. And men took care of home first. The mistress knew she was a mistress and there was SOME SHAME IN THAT. Even mistresses had some standards rarely did she mess with somebody who couldn’t take care of home and have enough to take care of her too cause she knew she was taking second place. A broke married man had to use a straight prostitute if he wanted some strange. My grandfather was a player too. Not saying it was right but things were done different back then.
    _____________________________________________________________________
    :cosign: This is the kinda men I'm talking about. Hell my granny didnt give a chit about that other broad. She knew my grandpa was messing with that woman, but he never took a crumb of bread outta my grandma or his kids mouth. They would have been married over 60 years if both of them were still living. I got aunts and uncles that have been thru hell and high water in their relationship, but they stuck it out and most of them are going on over 20 plus years of marriage.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    Let me find out my hubby around this bytch giving out dick sessions to someone other than myself and you’ll be hearing about me in my government name. I tell people all the time I looks real good in orange you fukk we my babies, hubby or my money and bytch you will be looking up at the church ceiling.

    AMEN :coffee: <---lemme get some whipped cream and caramel

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    JMO says:
    No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input. I don’t think you should divorce right away because Im all for making a marriage work but if it continues, I would be done. My love, commitment and vows would be worth more than my mortgage.

    _____________________________________________

    All together now let the church say AMEN

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    EXACTLY how I feel…I took vows with ur azz, and chit I think about other dicks I could be enjoying THOROUGHLY…
    ____________________________________________________________
    :rofl: Sounds like you got somebody on the brain right now!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @dats (Comment #294) :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:

    How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I'm talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)

    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently... I TRULY would like to know how folks do this....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :dead: @Cha's gravie! :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.?
    ________________________________________________________
    You know why cause you cant eat that chit. You can wear that chit. And love dont pay no bills. You can have all that love and honesty you want and be sitting outside sleeping in your car. I'm sure you've seen homeless couples together. I'm sure they got all the love and honesty in the world, but they are outside...

    Love and honesty is great! I'm all for it. But I gotta child that needs things and love and honesty aint gonna give it to her...

  • OutsidetheBox

    :rofl: @Cha's gravi

    *snapping in the air like Ronnie*

    Now who gonna be Tricks?????????????????????? :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby

    Don't judge me... :coffee:

    :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)

    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
    _________________________________________________
    Ion know, to my knowledge I've never been cheated on... :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ Chi

    :cosign: This is the kinda men I’m talking about. Hell my granny didnt give a chit about that other broad

    ______________________________

    Well my granny did give a chit from what i've been told. But when she found out they had been married over 20yrs...in all that time she hadn't never worked. where she gonna go? From what I've heard it was the 70s and women just couldn't go out and get a job...and i guess when she thought about it in all that time she ain't been short of nuthin cause he took care of home and was still paying the jump offs rent.. so I guess she made a calculation and stayed. shid that was smart what else was she gonna do?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    ChaCha
    I :heart: your gravi

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    @datsmdubya2u

    #294 That's real talk, and a whole nother era, men took care of home and the mistress...and did it well!!

    J/S

  • MrsMommy

    FeFe says:

    My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:
    How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
    ---------------------------------------------------------------------

    FEFE: For SOME people the CHASE never gets old. For SOME PEOPLE as long as they are part of THE GAME---be it old, wet & stankay----in their minds, THEY are STILL part of the game.

  • FoxE

    :kona:

    It's too many justifications that I can't seem to wrap my head around..

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby

    re-read:

    who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ Fe FE

    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this

    ----------------------------------
    some didn't continue to have sex. but they stayed together anyway cause that's what people did back then.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    FeFe says:

    My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:

    How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)

    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….

    I would like to know that too because I totally feel where your coming from... When I saw some of the slores and crack heads my ex was sleeping with I cringed and was sick to my stomach. To me he was a walking STD... I stayed with him yes but after each time he cheated I would not view him the same anymore, he turned me off more and more with the sight of him..it would get to the point where I would force myself to be him physically as well as mentally there when the :hump: was takin place all I would envision was him with the mc nastys :no: Glad thats a pass life :yes: It was hard to leave and I thank GOD I never contracted nuthin :pray:

    :whistle: Middle finger to my old life...Special Shout out to my old hand!!!

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.?
    ________________________________________________________
    You know why cause you cant eat that chit. You can wear that chit. And love dont pay no bills. You can have all that love and honesty you want and be sitting outside sleeping in your car. I’m sure you’ve seen homeless couples together. I’m sure they got all the love and honesty in the world, but they are outside…

    Love and honesty is great! I’m all for it. But I gotta child that needs things and love and honesty aint gonna give it to her…
    _______________________________________________________________________

    I semi- get what youre tryin to say but I guess we'll just have to disagree on this one :shrug:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @Dats
    It aint even about the money. People give up on marriage too easily these days. It's easy to walk about. But in the bible for better or for worst...and I meant that! But I will not get my ass beat or get talked to like I'm a bish of the street. I aint putting up with that.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @dats

    That answers my question...

    we'd have to become ROOMMATES then ...because I could NOT continue to fck somebody who I KNOW is giving it to the next bish...but that's just me...

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    @Dats
    It aint even about the money. People give up on marriage too easily these days. It’s easy to walk about. But in the bible for better or for worst…and I meant that! But I will not get my ass beat or get talked to like I’m a bish of the street. I aint putting up with that.
    :lol:

  • MrsMommy

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @ Chi
    This is the kinda men I’m talking about. Hell my granny didnt give a chit about that other broad
    ______________________________
    Well my granny did give a chit from what i’ve been told. But when she found out they had been married over 20yrs…in all that time she hadn’t never worked. where she gonna go? From what I’ve heard it was the 70s and women just couldn’t go out and get a job…and i guess when she thought about it in all that time she ain’t been short of nuthin cause he took care of home and was still paying the jump offs rent.. so I guess she made a calculation and stayed. shid that was smart what else was she gonna do?
    -----------------------------------------------------------------------

    Women in America have been working in droves since the 1940s.

    In the Seventies work for women was made GLAMOROUS.

    I don't know what happened to your female relative, but perhaps she just gave up on herself.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ JMO

    No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input.

    __________________________________

    Well me and chi are talking about back in the day. Women didn't have so many options it was harder for a woman with kids to just leave and go off and get a job. And being on welfare was more shameful than having a cheating hubby. so they stayed. the men were different too their sense of honor would not let them do less for their wives than they did for their jump offs. and if they couldn't do both that mistress was not staying around hell women had good sense then. If they were gonna be the side ho they was trying to get something out of it besides a beat up puzzy.

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who's boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I'm sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her. :rolleyes: Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Now who gonna be Tricks??????????????????????

    We need an old bish for that role :hahaha: :coffee:

  • GAGIRL87

    FeFe says:

    My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:

    How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)

    My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….

    ______________________________________________________________

    Thats' what I meant by knowingly sharing the dick that chit is just NASTY you just NOT gone tell me you f*ucking me and your main chick just NO morals :crying:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @chiby

    re-read:

    who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
    _____________________________________________________
    My hubby's best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.

    Everybody's relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend....I dont understand it but who am I to judge.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I'm just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish! :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Cha

    IKR!

    I understand how some women just really love their husbands and will put up with a little bit, but I don't see how you can get turned on by someone that you are supposed to TRUST and you know they are fcking other chicks....alot of women don't get mad, they just get even (which might be me if it ever came to that), but I hear about some women who just keep taking that chit and still remaining good docile submissive wives.... :blink:

  • GAGIRL87

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who’s boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I’m sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her. Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.

    _______________________________________________________

    :dead: :hahaha:

  • GAGIRL87

    @ Tatted MAJORITY of the time it doesn't happen like that...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    ocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something.
    __________________________________________________________
    :preach: Lawd Jesus!! I cant deal....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish! :coffee:

    _______
    :cosing: I have an uncle who did that chit with a straight face...and all my cousins are STILL bitter with him for the way he left his family...some niggas just don't give a fck!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ MrsMommy

    Women in America have been working in droves since the 1940s.

    In the Seventies work for women was made GLAMOROUS.

    I don’t know what happened to your female relative, but perhaps she just gave up on herself.

    _______________________________________
    In the 40s a lot of women worked due to the war.. the men came home and the women were sent back home.

    In the 50s 60s women stayed home more.

    My grandmother was already in her late 40s or early 50s (I think).

    She wasn't trying to start no career just cause my granddaddy cheated.

    And options for black women were even more limited than for white women in the workplace. It was not easy for a white women to go out and get a career after being a housewife for 20 or more years. So it was doubly hard for a black women. read up on the 70s it was not picnic. It was easier for younger women like my mother. but not for older women like my grandmother.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ GAGirl - BUT IT DOES HAPPEN is my point! And besides, it shouldn't be HIM leaving for the sidepiece. It should be THE WIFE leaving BECAUSE of the sidepiece!

    #IMO

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Shoot, didn't the Braxton daddy do that chit too???...just rolled the fck on out!

    He laid it low and spread it wide!

  • JMO

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who’s boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I’m sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her. :rolleyes: Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.
    _______________________________________________________________

    :lol: I have a friend like that ... can't tell her nothing :nono:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    women don’t get mad, they just get even (which might be me if it ever came to that), but I hear about some women who just keep taking that chit and still remaining good docile submissive wives…. :blink:
    ______________________________________________________________
    :yes: My hubby get real nervous when I talk about going to Houston cause he already know, if you fukk up I gots PLENTY of peen down there waiting....
    :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:
    My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.

    :blink: Say what now :no: JUSTIFICATION AT ITS FINEST...... :thinking: Does she have someone on the side?
    Does she have low self esteem?
    Does she ever smile?
    Is she on medication?
    Is she depressed?
    Does she cry alot?
    Does she have low self esteem?
    Are there kids involved?

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
    I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
    See: JLO - Ol Boy
    Alicia - Ol Bioy
    Fantasia- Ol Boy
    LeeAnn Rhimes - Ol Boy
    Tori Spelling - Ol Boy ......ect ect

  • GAGIRL87

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    @ GAGirl – BUT IT DOES HAPPEN is my point! And besides, it shouldn’t be HIM leaving for the sidepiece. It should be THE WIFE leaving BECAUSE of the sidepiece!

    #IMO

    __________________________________________________________

    Back to my motto know your worth so I agree with the latter of your statement...

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Fe - IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME! Maybe some are not aware, but half of the time, they are not leaving their home because alot of men have the veiw point that it's cheaper to keep her! Aint' no cot dayum way SOME men will be able to leave home, pay child support, alimony, etc. and still keep that side bish laced the way she is use to!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Whoooo sahhhh, :/

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    FeFe says:

    Shoot, didn’t the Braxton daddy do that chit too???…just rolled the fck on out!

    He laid it low and spread it wide!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Hmmmm, you betta tell somebody! :coffee:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    @chiby

    re-read:

    who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
    _____________________________________________________
    My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Is her name Alicia Keys?? :think: ... Oh nevamind, he swizz isnt in the military

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    :hahaha: at everyone sticking up for Draya. Those chicks picking her apart like folks do on blogs all day everyday done made a stone cold trailer park (you seen her mama) dirtier than Superhead ho sympathetic. This is the funniest thing I have ever seen. As much as we don't want to admit it we are not Draya. We are the other chicks. Most of us are not even as nice as Imani. From the comments I be seein, most of us are Laura, Gloria and Jackie. Draya is not just a ho. She is a deadbeat parent ho. Her being cute doesn't make her better than any other ho. Superhead is cute too and she got a babysitter for her son while she went out hoin.

    An why when Fantasia and Twaun got together Fanny was a ho, but when Draya inhale a dozen d*cks in a day it's the dudes fault?

  • lady_cn

    FeFe says:

    :cosing: I have an uncle who did that chit with a straight face…and all my cousins are STILL bitter with him for the way he left his family…some niggas just don’t give a fck!
    __________________________________________________________

    My son's dad tried that chit. Left me and his son for a lady that was using him for his money. Once child support started taking the majority of his money, she left and he came crawling back. :no: Fool me once shame on you, that chit won't happen twice though. Karma's a bish depending on how you treat her. :hahaha:

    He still hasn't gotten his life right and calls me crying daily and it's been almost 2 years since we broke up. I won't be going back.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ GAGirl, You're right about that! I know my worth. If I catch cheating...even in progress, SURE it will take JESUS HIMSELF to come down and snatch my hand back from not slitting throats BUT I'mma move on....You'll miss me before I miss you!

    Ain't nobody seen Why Did I Get Married....leaving 80% for a fuggin' 20%! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!

    _________________________________

    I was only speaking about the people I know. Men left women for the mistress that's true. but if he decided to stay with the wife he knew taking care of home was a priority. and there was some shame even for the man if he left his wife and kids. shid sometimes they left town to start over cause they knew they would be given the side eye in the old neighborhood for leaving his wife and kids. People still did dirt. there just seem to be some shame about it. People knew they wasn't doing right and wasn't proud of it and running around telling everybody about it.

  • JMO

    CHA Deuce says:

    chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
    My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.

    :blink: Say what now :no: JUSTIFICATION AT ITS FINEST…… :thinking: Does she have someone on the side?
    Does she have low self esteem?
    Does she ever smile?
    Is she on medication?
    Is she depressed?
    Does she cry alot?
    Does she have low self esteem?
    Are there kids involved?
    __________________________________________________________________

    I'm sure many people in here can answer those questions :coffee:

  • MzTisch

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    @chiby

    re-read:

    who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
    _____________________________________________________
    My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.

    Everybody’s relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend….I dont understand it but who am I to judge.

    ^^^^^^^^^
    Wtf? She is full of it. That makes her feel better bacause she getting his benefits? This is why some men cheat...no consequences to their actions. What happens if he decides to bounce on that arse? Then what?

    This is why relationship or not, I'm handling my OWN business financially. I'm not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can't pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :blink: Say what now :no: JUSTIFICATION AT ITS FINEST…… :thinking: Does she have someone on the side? I think she does, she talks like she does
    Does she have low self esteem? no she's really pretty lady
    Does she ever smile? yes all the time
    Is she on medication? no drugs that I know of...
    Is she depressed? not that I know of
    Does she cry alot? Ion know I dont live with them
    Does she have low self esteem? see # 2
    Are there kids involved? yes he has 2 before her, she has one before him and they just had a baby in April

  • GAGIRL87

    Let me get the f*uck outta this post and go home

    This is something I feel passionately about I'm not sharing nary dick "knowingly" AND I'm not playing second best to nary hoe. Now if you do that's YOUR BUSINESS with all due respect :kona:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    CHA Deuce says:

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
    I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
    See: JLO – Ol Boy
    Alicia – Ol Bioy
    Fantasia- Ol Boy
    LeeAnn Rhimes – Ol Boy
    Tori Spelling – Ol Boy ……ect ect
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    hell, Donald Trump
    L.A. Reid
    Eddie Murphy...well, that was for Johnny Gill (still a sidepiece tho)
    'ol dude from Why Did I Get Married.......

    THE LIST GOES ON AND ON! :coffee: & :lol:

  • JMO

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @ JMO

    No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input.

    __________________________________

    Well me and chi are talking about back in the day. Women didn’t have so many options it was harder for a woman with kids to just leave and go off and get a job. And being on welfare was more shameful than having a cheating hubby. so they stayed. the men were different too their sense of honor would not let them do less for their wives than they did for their jump offs. and if they couldn’t do both that mistress was not staying around hell women had good sense then. If they were gonna be the side ho they was trying to get something out of it besides a beat up puzzy.
    __________________________________________________________________

    No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.

  • GAGIRL87

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    @ GAGirl, You’re right about that! I know my worth. If I catch cheating…even in progress, SURE it will take JESUS HIMSELF to come down and snatch my hand back from not slitting throats BUT I’mma move on….You’ll miss me before I miss you!

    Ain’t nobody seen Why Did I Get Married….leaving 80% for a fuggin’ 20%!
    ___________________________________________________________

    Already ala :lol: He Gone Miss Me When I'm gone bye Tatted :bye:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    GAGIRL87 says:

    Let me get the f*uck outta this post and go home

    This is something I feel passionately about I’m not sharing nary dick “knowingly” AND I’m not playing second best to nary hoe. Now if you do that’s YOUR BUSINESS with all due respect
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Ion'even do dyck and I :cosign:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
    ____________________________________________________
    That eaiser said than done. When I met my hubby I had my own crib, good as job, my own money. Now things have changed. When you get married u never know what curves life will throw at you. I never ever thought I'd be solely depended on a man, I guess God got the last laugh with that huh :coffee:

    Dont ever say what you aint gonna do....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Lud i was talking about back in the day....jesus people you ain't got to stay now if you don't want to.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    I never said Draya couldnt be a Hoe cus she was cute :shrug: Aside from that how we know her mother is trailer park...that was mean :sad:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Why even get married if you still are going to allow that nicca the luxury of living the single life. He's married but can fukk other hoes, get his dyck pulled, tugged and sucked. Run up in somebody snatch, eat, lick and do whatever else he wants and you're cool with that. That's why hoes be winning because of this nonchalant and ignorant azz attitude.

    Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @chiby says:

    Does she have low self esteem? no she’s really pretty lady
    ____
    chibs, you my girl, but being "pretty" does not equal having high self-esteem... :coffee:

  • JMO

    MzTisch says:

    chibytex aka the people’s champ says:

    @chiby

    re-read:

    who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
    _____________________________________________________
    My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.

    Everybody’s relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend….I dont understand it but who am I to judge.

    ^^^^^^^^^
    Wtf? She is full of it. That makes her feel better bacause she getting his benefits? This is why some men cheat…no consequences to their actions. What happens if he decides to bounce on that arse? Then what?

    This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
    _____________________________________________________________________

    :preach: While you sitting on ur azz cooking him dinner every night, thinking its ok for him to cheat, there's another chick out there who's doing twice what you're doing and holding her own. Eventually, he will leave and go be with her because he would have to contribute less with her...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
    _________________________________________________________
    So what? Cause cheating is not my bottom line its a problem or something is wrong with me. I said earlier I dont put a lot of value on sex. A 15 minute nut aint worth my marriage and relationship. Now if I find out you spending TIME and kicking it with this broad and taking her shopping and chit, then you needs to be with that bish and let me on my way and pay me my ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT....

    Please and thank you :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    *raises pointer finger*

    I'll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies... :no:

  • JMO

    FeFe says:

    @chiby says:

    Does she have low self esteem? no she’s really pretty lady
    ____
    chibs, you my girl, but being “pretty” does not equal having high self-esteem… :coffee:
    _______________________________________________

    You beat me to it girl

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ JMO

    No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.

    ___________________________

    Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she's had another kid. I don't see how that's better than staying. And it don't look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..

  • MzTisch

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
    ____________________________________________________
    That eaiser said than done. When I met my hubby I had my own crib, good as job, my own money. Now things have changed. When you get married u never know what curves life will throw at you. I never ever thought I’d be solely depended on a man, I guess God got the last laugh with that huh

    Dont ever say what you aint gonna do….
    ^^^^^^^^
    The only man I know I can depend on is my daddy. And I'm prepared at all times to go at it alone. You never know.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I gotta log off here, heading home...good discussion folks!

    :cya:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    While you sitting on ur azz cooking him dinner every night, thinking its ok for him to cheat, there’s another chick out there who’s doing twice what you’re doing and holding her own. Eventually, he will leave and go be with her because he would have to contribute less with her…
    ___________________________________________________________
    As long as I'm getting my alimony and child support, then that'll be him. I'm sure she aint gonna be happy about him STILL taking care of his ex-wife.

  • ohpretty1

    My paternal GD cheated on my GM and had a baby she pulled out a double - barrel rifle on that ninja and shot him in the back of his thigh. This is after she got some hot coals from the fireplace and tossed them on him. He ran out of the door of course, hauled as to the center of town and thumbed a ride to his new residence. She literally ran him out of Georgia. He couldn't drive because she had flattened the tires on his car before she confronted him. Oh did I mention his new residence was in Cleveland? :lol: No they never divorced, because that wasn't 'a good look' for a woman back in the day. She still held him financially responsible for his 6 kids and that house. It was that man who taught me about relationships and how not to let a man disrespect me, always have my own money, etc. He said he always regretted messing up his marriage.

    I don't come from passive women so to each its own. Not judging any of your decisions.

  • OutsidetheBox

    but being “pretty” does not equal having high self-esteem…

    Yeah, often it equals low... “God help you if you are an ugly girl, 'course too pretty is also your doom, 'cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room.”

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
    Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING

    PREACH PREACHA :claps:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @dats

    Just had to state this real quick...

    I'D RATHER BE ALONE... :yes:

    *porno shop is down the street and I can blow the dust off my little black book *

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    CHA Deuce says:

    I never said Draya couldnt be a Hoe cus she was cute Aside from that how we know her mother is trailer park…that was mean.
    *************************************

    Oh you must have missed that broke down ho on the show. Really she ain't even trailer park. That white broad was straight up ghetto. She raised Draya to get on the pole and inhale multiple d*cks at a time and now she is raising her black son. How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?

    I don't want to make her out to be the devil. I just saw a lot of comments where this ho was being put on a pedistal just because the big ole chicks were calling her out like all of us would do in the presence of a super celebrity ho.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    chocolate divalicious aka CD says:

    Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING
    ************************************

    Girl you ain't neva lied!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she’s had another kid. I don’t see how that’s better than staying. And it don’t look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..
    __________________________________________________________________
    Thank you!! I seen my mama go through this chit! Her and my daddy split cause they both were cheating. She got with my middle brother's daddy who was a crazy Vietnam vet. He aint never did chit for my brother. Only saw him once. Then she leaves him and meets my step-father and you have heard that horror story.

    I know for a fact that my father wishes he could have worked it out with my mama cause he tells me all the time. Even though he's been with my step mother for 25 years now. He still loves my mama. And deep down I know my mama wishes she would have stayed with my father cause he's good man. I know my daddy has cheated on my step mom, but he took care of his family and is good man. And she aint letting that chit go.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    FeFe says:

    @dats

    Just had to state this real quick…

    I’D RATHER BE ALONE… :yes:

    *porno shop is down the street and I can blow the dust off my little black book *

    ____________________________________

    Yep that's an option too... ain't nothing wrong with being single. Women have more options these days than the women i was talking about back in the day...I was really talking about the men and how they did things different back then.

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
    _________________________________________________________
    So what? Cause cheating is not my bottom line its a problem or something is wrong with me. I said earlier I dont put a lot of value on sex. A 15 minute nut aint worth my marriage and relationship. Now if I find out you spending TIME and kicking it with this broad and taking her shopping and chit, then you needs to be with that bish and let me on my way and pay me my ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT….

    Please and thank you :coffee:
    _____________________________________________________________________

    I think I said this before, not sure, but I think there is something wrong with you, or any woman, who thinks its ok for a man to cheat as long as he "takes care of home". I'm sure you're a beautiful woman but you're worth much more than that. Never put yourself in a situation that you can't handle without a significant other. Hell, If my man depended on me, that would be a huge turnoff and his stock would drop faster than Draya's panties at a b ball game so I cant imagine how a man would feel if a woman depended on him for so long ...

    That's just how I was raised. :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    OutsidetheBox says:

    *raises pointer finger*

    I’ll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies…

    Ima be KIMSHAYSHAY ARTEST or the blonde body builder chick ...just take my azz off the show period :hahaha: they probably sitting back like "Thank God I dodged a bullet" :lol:

  • MzTisch

    In a relationship, I go on with life (financially) like that nicca not even there. If you wanna pay my car note this month for me...cool. Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.

    A bish may be able to make it so you MAN/HUSBAND don't even have to work no more...she may just simply have that dough. He leaves and then what?

    I just can't.....

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    . How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?
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    :dead:

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    OutsidetheBox says:

    *raises pointer finger*

    I’ll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies…
    **************************

    :hahaha: Me too!

  • OutsidetheBox

    So wait, am I the only one who doesnt even believe Girlbert's abandoning ass? :lol:

    Ion trust niggas . <---"Period" out loud :lol:

  • OutsidetheBox

    “Thank God I dodged a bullet"

    Beyonce voice of course! Just sanging it!!! LMAO! :hahaha:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    Bird says:
    Oh you must have missed that broke down ho on the show. Really she ain’t even trailer park. That white broad was straight up ghetto. She raised Draya to get on the pole and inhale multiple d*cks at a time and now she is raising her black son. How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?

    WOW REALLY :no: I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion... :hug: still lubs you Bird!

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she’s had another kid. I don’t see how that’s better than staying. And it don’t look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..
    __________________________________________________________________
    Thank you!! I seen my mama go through this chit! Her and my daddy split cause they both were cheating. She got with my middle brother’s daddy who was a crazy Vietnam vet. He aint never did chit for my brother. Only saw him once. Then she leaves him and meets my step-father and you have heard that horror story.

    I know for a fact that my father wishes he could have worked it out with my mama cause he tells me all the time. Even though he’s been with my step mother for 25 years now. He still loves my mama. And deep down I know my mama wishes she would have stayed with my father cause he’s good man. I know my daddy has cheated on my step mom, but he took care of his family and is good man. And she aint letting that chit go.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen... but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom? :nono: Thats not a good man. He's probably a good father but a horrible husband

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    I think I said this before, not sure, but I think there is something wrong with you, or any woman, who thinks its ok for a man to cheat as long as he “takes care of home”. I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman but you’re worth much more than that. Never put yourself in a situation that you can’t handle without a significant other. Hell, If my man depended on me, that would be a huge turnoff and his stock would drop faster than Draya’s panties at a b ball game so I cant imagine how a man would feel if a woman depended on him for so long …

    That’s just how I was raised. :coffee:
    _______________________________________________________________
    I was raised that a MAN takes care of his home. And that hoes gonna be hoes and men gonna be men.

    Security is the most important thing in a relationship to me. I dont see anything wrong with. I know my value. Trust me!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y'all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT...) :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    MzTisch says:

    In a relationship, I go on with life (financially) like that nicca not even there. If you wanna pay my car note this month for me…cool. Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.

    A bish may be able to make it so you MAN/HUSBAND don’t even have to work no more…she may just simply have that dough. He leaves and then what?

    I just can’t…..

    I AGREEE :claps:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.

    Tisch dont be coming in here with that forward-thinking, common sense ass bullchit :lol: Get on now. :lol:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    While you sitting on ur azz cooking him dinner every night, thinking its ok for him to cheat, there’s another chick out there who’s doing twice what you’re doing and holding her own. Eventually, he will leave and go be with her because he would have to contribute less with her…
    ___________________________________________________________
    As long as I’m getting my alimony and child support, then that’ll be him. I’m sure she aint gonna be happy about him STILL taking care of his ex-wife.
    ___________________________________________________________________

    And I'm sure you can't be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well

  • JMO

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.

    Tisch dont be coming in here with that forward-thinking, common sense ass bullchit :lol: Get on now. :lol:
    ___________________________________________

    :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen… but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom? :nono: Thats not a good man. He’s probably a good father but a horrible husband
    ____________________________________________________________
    I'm not sure if she knows, but she's not stupid. See I look at things different. You can have a man that loves u and is honest and blah blah blah, but if this nigga aint providing for his family he aint chit to me. That's not a good husband. Just cause he love me. So what? I can "love" myself.

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    @OutsidetheBox:

    Exactly. This nicca abandoned you and HIS four kids multiple times. I still cant quite understand how is she coming at Draya like that when her name became known because throughout the whole 2nd season all we heard about was Gloria sister Laura who had slept with Shaq.

  • JMO

    ELove says:

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…) :coffee:
    ________________________________________________________________________

    Do you mind if I call you drake? Thats who I think of every time I see your gravi :lol:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    :whistle: It takes a fool...to learn, that love dont love nobody :lol:

  • ohpretty1

    ELove says:

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…) :coffee:

    ----------------------------

    So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen… but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom? :nono: Thats not a good man. He’s probably a good father but a horrible husband
    ____________________________________________________________
    I’m not sure if she knows, but she’s not stupid. See I look at things different. You can have a man that loves u and is honest and blah blah blah, but if this nigga aint providing for his family and he cheating,he aint chit to me. That’s not a good husband. Just cause he love me. So what? I can “love” myself.
    _______________________________________________________________

    Now had you added my bold comment we would finally agree :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
    _____________________________________________________________
    :nono: I've never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I've only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature...and hell sometimes I still dont know. :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Mrrrrmmmm. :| Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies...no judging though. Im Malaysia remember? :ha: @JMO is Laura/Jackie/'nem.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    Yo Mama aint shyt.. Yo Granny aint shyt... Yo Daddy aint shyt.... So guess what lil nicca ...YOU AINT GON NEVA ......... :kona:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Reminds me of the old days.

    :yes: Me too. I always learn A LOT here. I def. appreciate the diversity!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    CHA Deuce says:

    :whistle: It takes a fool…to learn, that love dont love nobody :lol:
    _________________________________________________________
    what you say now! :lol:

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    CHA Deuce says:

    WOW REALLY I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion… still lubs you Bird!
    ********************************

    Luv ya more girl. I'm just saying what I was thinking when I saw mama with her hood talk and scared up face. It made me that much more sympathetic toward Draya. I still think the girl needs some positive influences in her life cause mama wasn't that.

  • MzTisch

    @Chiby,

    I'm not judging you and I get what you are saying. But, the story about the best friends wife blew the phuk outta me. And I think you are not sitting around cuz you don't have nowhere to go or is dependent on him.

    1) You are a college educated woman who is LOOKING for a job.
    2) Your husband isn't cheating on you...(I don't think you said he was)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ Chi

    I was raised that a MAN takes care of his home. And that hoes gonna be hoes and men gonna be men.

    Security is the most important thing in a relationship to me. I dont see anything wrong with. I know my value. Trust me!

    ______________________________________________________
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Chi you me and you don't agree on everything but that right there is real talk. Some people be posting about how things should be or how they wants things to be. and some be straight up lying..but you post about how things are....

    If you gonna deal with a man you gonna deal with a cheating man. It's not a matter of if he will cheat it's when will he cheat....A woman just need to know what's she's gonna do when she finds out. Im sure there are a few thousand who won't cheat but that's about as rare as winning the lottery. Now somebody is gonna post "my man ain't cheated" well I say good for you keep your fingers crossed and your eyes open.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies…no judging though. Im Malaysia remember? :ha: @JMO is Laura/Jackie/’nem.
    _____________________________________________________
    So I guess that makes me Draya!!! :rofl:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
    _____________________________________________________________
    :nono: I’ve never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature…and hell sometimes I still dont know. :coffee:
    ____________________________________________________________________

    *sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.

    One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he's married and expecting his first child with his wife... enough to make a woman go crazy right? :shank:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @JMO (Comment #402)
    <----- My FOH Face !!! :lol:

    NOT Only Do I LIKE Puzzy (I Actually LUV Puzzy...) :coffee:

  • JMO

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Mrrrrmmmm. :| Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies…no judging though. Im Malaysia remember? :ha: @JMO is Laura/Jackie/’nem.
    ___________________________________________________________________

    Why I hafta be the angry birds?? :lol:

  • MzTisch

    JMO says:

    chibytex aka the people’s champ says:

    And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
    _____________________________________________________________
    I’ve never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature…and hell sometimes I still dont know.
    ____________________________________________________________________

    *sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.

    One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things...he just didn't want it with her.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    ohpretty1 says:

    ELove says:

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)

    —————————-

    So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.

    ************************************

    I'm just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    If you gonna deal with a man you gonna deal with a cheating man. It’s not a matter of if he will cheat it’s when will he cheat….A woman just need to know what’s she’s gonna do when she finds out. Im sure there are a few thousand who won’t cheat but that’s about as rare as winning the lottery. Now somebody is gonna post “my man ain’t cheated” well I say good for you keep your fingers crossed and your eyes open.
    ___________________________________________________
    :cosign: Hell your man could tell you baby I'm going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know. And if you are willing to throw your relationship away because of that then kudos to you. But I'm not. Who's to say I'm never gonna cheat. I wouldnt want my hubby to divorce me.

  • LovelyLady

    Shaunie probably sitting back laughing her ass off at Laura. Laura fukked Shaq, Shaunie done one up'd her and done hired and paid the bitch that fukked her babydaddy and air it for the world to see. Smart bish move. "Laura tell me how my azz taste" #Shaunievoice

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.

    _________________________________

    that's usually the case...when a man tells you he ain't looking for nothing but to kick it. believe him. save yourself a lot of trouble

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    *sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.
    _______________________________________________
    :rofl:

  • JMO

    Bird says:

    ohpretty1 says:

    ELove says:

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)

    —————————-

    So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.

    ************************************

    I’m just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!
    _______________________________________________________________________

    :lol: I was just thinking that

  • OutsidetheBox

    Yall know I love yall. :lol: I want yall to be great! Malaysia be saying "jury" and her teeth be sliding like :kona: when she speaks but she so nice and calm. :yes:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    *sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.
    _______________________________________________
    :rofl:
    _______________________________________________________________________

    You would laugh at that part of my comment... silly azz :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    LovelyLady says:

    Shaunie probably sitting back laughing her ass off at Laura. Laura fukked Shaq, Shaunie done one up’d her and done hired and paid the bitch that fukked her babydaddy and air it for the world to see. Smart bish move. “Laura tell me how my azz taste” #Shaunievoice
    _______________________________________________________________________
    Damn and that my friends is all it all went down. And she paid Gloria to bring her in the "circle." Shaunie is a bad bish! :grin:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    Bird says:

    CHA Deuce says:

    WOW REALLY I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion… still lubs you Bird!
    ********************************

    Luv ya more girl. I’m just saying what I was thinking when I saw mama with her hood talk and scared up face. It made me that much more sympathetic toward Draya. I still think the girl needs some positive influences in her life cause mama wasn’t that

    I dont know....yeah she made some flucked up parenting decisions...shyt I would NEVER EVER do, we all make mistakes and fall short...She said herself though that she gets around...my whole thing with that is she is single. I dont know, regardless of her mothers appearance I applaud her for steppin in for her daughters inconsistencies and raising her grandchild with hopefully the love he is lacking from his mother. She does seem smart though, when she speaks I dont get "hood rat" like I hear whenever BODY BUILT WRONG AKA LAURA speaks :shrug: IJS

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @Lovely
    :rofl: THAT was a GOOD One BABY (Whaddup Though Sexxy !!!) :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ CHI

    Hell your man could tell you baby I’m going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know

    _________________________________________

    And that's because there is always so low self esteem having woman out there who will let him fluxx her in the car for 15mins on the way to the store then drop her off and think she is WINNING!!!!!! Yes he shouldn't want a woman who thinks so little of herself. But hasn't MIJDC tole us over and over men don't care why dey gettin the puzzay as long as they gettin it?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    @chibytex
    I've been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!) :thumbsup:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    She does seem smart though, when she speaks I dont get “hood rat” like I hear whenever BODY BUILT WRONG AKA LAURA speaks :shrug: IJS
    _______________________________________________________________
    :yes:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    FLUCK U OTB FOR COMMENT #425 FLUCK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOULJA BOY TELLEM :hug:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    Is it me or does Laura seem like she has ADHD :shrug: She always looks lost to me :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    ELove says:

    @chibytex
    I’ve been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!) :thumbsup:
    _________________________________________________________
    Thanks Buddy!

    I'm clocking out folks!! :peace: Good Conversation today!

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    ELove says:

    @chibytex
    I’ve been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!) :thumbsup:
    _________________________________________________________
    Thanks Buddy!

    I’m clocking out folks!! :peace: Good Conversation today!
    _______________________________________________________________________

    Same here ... :peace:

  • ohpretty1

    One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.

    -----------------------------------------------

    Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn't require hindsight to know how the story would end.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    I would say I'm gonna have to watch the episode again to see what I missed with Mama, but I know I won't. I don't even like the show and am amazed that I keep tuning in every Monday. Maybe I'm remembering wrong.....but I doubt it. And she definately wasn't well spoken so I'm starting to think yall are trying to pull my leg.

  • JMO

    ohpretty1 says:

    One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.

    ———————————————–

    Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn’t require hindsight to know how the story would end.
    _________________________________________________________________

    Yea, I wonder about that but she said she had no clue. I never really got to meet him because they are in the army and they traveled pretty often.

  • LovelyLady

    Hey Elove :waves: I still be here just more lurking, but now the goverment fisical year has ended I got a few weeks of breaks.

  • MzTisch

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @ CHI

    Hell your man could tell you baby I’m going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know

    _________________________________________

    And that’s because there is always so low self esteem having woman out there who will let him fluxx her in the car for 15mins on the way to the store then drop her off and think she is WINNING!!!!!! Yes he shouldn’t want a woman who thinks so little of herself. But hasn’t MIJDC tole us over and over men don’t care why dey gettin the puzzay as long as they gettin it?

    ^^^^^^^
    And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ Oh pretty

    Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn’t require hindsight to know how the story would end.

    -------------------------

    but my puzzay is magic and filled with skittles and glitter...when he hits it he'll want to marry me no matter what he just said.....Im different....

    :rofl:

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    Peace out folks. It's wonderful that the one time I had a few minutes to myself at work we could have a great conversation about Draya. lol

    Catch ya next time.

  • bigtyme

    i just read all of these comments and had to log in just to say...i totally get where you are coming from Chi! Life ain't perfect. People deal with what they want to deal with. My mama told a woman my daddy cheated on her with (that is his past life, daddy is a great husband now...they were really young when they got married) "do you think i am going to leave him and have him over there while my kids have 1/2 a father and i struggle to pay these bills?" i couldn't have done that...i would have bounced, but i totally see where she came from.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!

    __________________________________

    yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on......cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying "he gets one chance only...im outta there" ain't been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain't happened to them....Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving...

  • MzTisch

    datsmdubya2u says:

    And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!

    __________________________________

    yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…

    ^^^^^^^^
    Trying to work it out with a husband that's remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn't give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.

  • ohpretty1

    @ dats #442 - Chile, now that type of thinking is for another post on another day. Don't get me started with that one. :lol:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)

    So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.

    I’m just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!

    :applause: Something about the company you keep :shrug:

  • MzTisch

    datsmdubya2u says:

    And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!

    __________________________________

    yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…

    ^^^^^^^
    And I've never been married and I'm certainly not saying what I may or may not do if my husband cheating. What I'm saying is that if I stay it's not cuz I don't have a choice or an option. I'm staying cuz I love you and I want to work it out.

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    datsmdubya2u says:
    yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…

    :ido: <--- should read... That was my life story... I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.

    Girl that is REAL TALK...REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @MzTisch

    Trying to work it out with a husband that’s remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn’t give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.

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    Most of them are remorseful when caught..that's why alot married women try to work it out to see if its a slip up or a lifestyle... Im not saying never leave but once you've built something with somebody it's not easy to just move out after some cheating. Hell a lot of women don't leave until people outside the family find out about his cheating then she is embarrassed...then they leave.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :applause: Something about the company you keep :shrug:
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    :coffee:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    NOW the exception might be if I was Eddie Longs wife... AINT NO COMING BACK FROM YOU playing and digging in a bunch of lil boys buttholes NOPE :nono:

    In my Bernadette voice (W2E) GET YO SHYT...GET YO SHYT...AND GET OUT :mad: :cuss: :shotsfired:

  • MzTisch

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @MzTisch

    Trying to work it out with a husband that’s remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn’t give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.

    __________________________________

    Most of them are remorseful when caught..that’s why alot married women try to work it out to see if its a slip up or a lifestyle… Im not saying never leave but once you’ve built something with somebody it’s not easy to just move out after some cheating. Hell a lot of women don’t leave until people outside the family find out about his cheating then she is embarrassed…then they leave.

    ^^^^^^^^
    Sad, but true.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @CHA

    <— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.

    Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!

    ____________________________________

    Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you...People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Night CHI baby

    Night CHA

    Night MzTisch

    Night OHPretty

    If ya'll still lurking when i get home then i'll get back witcha! see ya tomorrow otherwise...

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    NIGHT DATS :wave: BTW yes..LIFE IS GOOD IM GOOD IM REALLLLLLL GOOD :biggrin:

  • MzTisch

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @CHA

    <— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.

    Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!

    ____________________________________

    Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you…People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are….

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I don't think that's true. It's women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.

    Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling.....

    We can continue this on the next hoes vs husbands vs mistresses vs military pay vs. Draya in the locker room posts!

    Good night! :rofl:

  • JMO

    MzTisch says:

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @CHA

    <— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.

    Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!

    ____________________________________

    Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you…People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are….

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I don't think that's true. It's women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.

    Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling…..

    We can continue this on the next hoes vs husbands vs mistresses vs military pay vs. Draya in the locker room posts!

    Good night! :rofl:
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    :lol:

  • JMO

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    :applause: Something about the company you keep :shrug:
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    :coffee:
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    I see what you did there :coffee: .... :hahaha:

  • JMO

    CHA Deuce says:

    NOW the exception might be if I was Eddie Longs wife… AINT NO COMING BACK FROM YOU playing and digging in a bunch of lil boys buttholes NOPE :nono:

    In my Bernadette voice (W2E) GET YO SHYT…GET YO SHYT…AND GET OUT :mad: :cuss: :shotsfired:
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    :lol:

  • candibfly

    re: hoe talk

    seems like the 'celebrity' is only a hoe if the person commenting doesn't like her :shrugs:

  • candibfly

    i don't ever comment on anyone else's sex life tho bc its not my business :no:

    anywho, nobody is probably even here this late :waiting:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA Deuce

    IM HERE CANDIIIIIIIIIIIII *busts out the tic tac toe board and hits you with a X :partyhat:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Mz Tisch

    I don't think that's true. It's women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.

    Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling…..

    _____

    I agree with you wholeheartedly. I am married and I'm openly stating that I will not stick around for repeated cheating over and over again...I can be ALONE for all that bullshat. I'm alot like my mother, she was very independent and didn't have time for bullshyt AT ALL. She and my father divorced not because he was cheating (he told me when I became an adult that he NEVER cheated on my mother when they were married) but because of money and drug problems. Every situation is different, every marriage is different, and every person in the marriage is different. People make mistakes, sure, and I do not judge the next person for what they put up with, but I know what I can put up with and open cheating is not one of them... :shrugs:

    Have a great night everyone, as stated by others, this was a great discussion...

  • Creamychic

    Lets keep an open mind here its and open forum but any woman having sex with a man thats not her husband is considered a whore, unclean, jezebel, fornicator, weather it be one man or 7 , shes still the same thing, she is considered loose, Yea I fit in that catagory. 3 in one night seems a xtreme but its still all tbe same. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLFLOattRDE ELove

    ^^^
    Having SEX with ONE PERSON in a Day/Session isn't the SAME AS Having SEX with THREE DIFFERENT PEOPLE in a Day/Session But I DO understand what you are Saying Though... THIS coming from a Former (As in PAST) Man-WHORE :coffee:

  • free

    whatever draya did is what the rest of them hoes-cum-baby mamas did too. they all hoes, some luckier than others.